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@gladysntsiful359411 ай бұрын
Please ma can i get ur contact
@danquahjames307411 ай бұрын
The husband is my cousin, she has been through a lot, we use to stay at the same place at Atico as she rightly said..
@berniceayer451211 ай бұрын
Thanks for backing her up even though her ex husband is related to you. I was in a worse situation than her
@kofiaturu336311 ай бұрын
They are narcissistic person..avoid them at all cost
@priscillaasamoah915611 ай бұрын
Oh nice for backing her up. Someone would have supported the cousin no matter what
@nanaskitchen2yours97711 ай бұрын
That’s a very bod thing to say considering the relationship. Bless you 🙏
@glorytogod441711 ай бұрын
@@syndeytishbaayeh409You can tell that he/she meant to say Bold not Bad. Don't be quick to answer. Try reading again if "bad" in that sentence makes sense. Abotr3
@appiahkubi-fi5os11 ай бұрын
Madam, I agree with you for being anti-divorce. But sometimes divorce is good for the peace of the family. You have done well for being there for your kids.
@ZEEpass11 ай бұрын
Am proud of her decision ❤️
@maau60511 ай бұрын
True Paa
@amafrimpong959811 ай бұрын
Exactly
@hagaryeboaa112911 ай бұрын
Borga’s always complain that their wives are leaving them after they bring them abroad but never talks about how they treat their wives after bringing them. Hmmmm
@ladysister295710 ай бұрын
Hmmm
@doreenbrown408610 ай бұрын
Vry well said...gye wo 2
@mafiooato72335 ай бұрын
She is lying big time, ask the men and the people that know their marriage, you find out most of the women lies,cheating on their husbands, these women only want to come abroad and divorce the husbands. All the women family know about her plans
@jamesosei688811 ай бұрын
I know her from Toronto when i used to live there. Her story is interesting. Raising kids in abroad takes some serious commitment and sacrifice with serious minded people. Unfortunately, some men are not mature enough to handle it.
@princek113511 ай бұрын
Well said
@b4u_omni8011 ай бұрын
DJ! I love all your interviews but I feel you could have given her more grace in this interview! It felt like you didn’t believe her but her story was so detailed and most people here could believe. I read some of the comments and it saddens me to see the number of women in the comments who have experienced similar situations. God bless her and everyone going through such a horrendous situation 🙏🏾
@bimboanokye504211 ай бұрын
DJ Myame,you can see the woman in depressed, that's why she is talking much Some men are like what she is talking about,they can't cope with kids yelling and leave all the kids burdens on the woman But I thank God that her children are doing well She loves the man
@euniceoffei632911 ай бұрын
Thank you! He was so judgmental throughout and I wasn’t comfortable! I would have left the interview if it was me! 😢
@LeilaniFaithJones11 ай бұрын
yes i also felt like he doubted her which is bad… there are a lot of abusive and narcissistic men around. her story isn’t new and it’s obvious she’s telling the truth
@hephzibahbeulah559911 ай бұрын
I have never commented on SvTv before. But for a second, i thought this woman has stolen my story. If you haven't been through anything like this before, you will think what she is saying is a lie. My ex husband put me through the same situation here in the US. 😢 DJ, i begged for him to be in our child's life, he refused. Whenever, our child calls him, he will say he's busy with work. I cried all the time to watch a child grow up without a father. So our child has accepted the fact that, the dad doesn't want to be involved. Now that he is hearing that our child is soaring and making waves at a young age, he is going around telling people that i have brainwashed his child. (God punish the devil) Not every Ghanaian woman abroad plays the "I know my right" card. Some of us are well brought up and will do anything to stay married but some of our men don't give us the chance to. DJ, please link me up with this beautiful woman. I can't hold my tears. I want to be her sister, please.🙏🏽
@samuelocran-kakrah45711 ай бұрын
Madam, granting some men can behavior like that, you must also ask yourself questions. Many men will never mind about their kids after you take him to court to demand child support which may take away all his income in a month. A pharmacist friend of mine had his wife just run away, got divorced and took away all the guys wealth, out of his $10000 month salary only $25 was left in his account after child support and alimony. Do you expect this man to have time for his kids? He needs to work his ass up to make extra money to pay for his own bills. Many wives don't think about the consequences of their actions and then they turn around to call themselves single mothers and curry people's favor
@ritamars237011 ай бұрын
@@samuelocran-kakrah457did she mention anything about court n child support, do u have problem with Comprehension, pls read n understand b4 commenting don't just talk
@berniceayer451211 ай бұрын
I share your pain. I was in a similar too
@hephzibahbeulah559911 ай бұрын
@@ritamars2370 God bless you, my sister.
@LAppiah11 ай бұрын
Sister God is in control, just fix your eyes on Jesus and he will never disappoint you. Yes indeed "the evil shall be punished".
@legendaryqueen281311 ай бұрын
I went through exactly the same situation, the man was also highly educated. Life as a mother is a sacrifice.
@Ahoba83111 ай бұрын
There are a lot of similar situations like her case. African men who neglect their kids because they are not nurturing. Instead of them learning they want the easy way out. Madam what you went through is nothing new we just don’t discuss it as women. Divorce is not always a bad thing. This man didn’t deserve your time nor energy. You made the right decision and be proud of it. Marriage is not everything
@florenceopokumaythelordhav931111 ай бұрын
Mmmnn
@bamb100611 ай бұрын
I had opposite when I call the kids she always tell the kids not to mind or come and pretended she is the only one caring for the children both to her family in ghana and the kids. When I realized that I also took the case back to court and decided to pay the children's support money directly to the children's account so at least the children wil see my support for them. From the children's account she has access so she can take the money from there and that I do not care
@georgette49511 ай бұрын
I know her very well from Ghana and she’s telling the truth
@daavigh923911 ай бұрын
You made the right decision for divorce. Never stay with a man who cannot accept or accommodate his own children. It is the best to stay apart. The mistake he made was completely not wanting to be part of them. God bless you for staying strong for them but never advice anyone to use children as an excuse to stay in an unhappy marriage.
@nanaaraba714511 ай бұрын
I kept smiling and laughing throughout this interview because l identify with most of the things said. In my case, he wasn't even interested in having children. He has his own from his previous marriage. These people will abuse you anyhow and use your reaction to play the victim. They are very good at telling lies and people believe them. I didn't suffer any physical abuse but the emotional abuse was too much. It was quite easy for me to advise myself because there were no children involved and I'm now enjoying my peace.
@Amajoe11 ай бұрын
Those that will advise you not to divorce, will go and marry without letting you know it.
@ladysister295710 ай бұрын
Hmmmm
@conniejamal-deelarry190011 ай бұрын
He is a narcissist he does not love you nor the children from the beginning. He is gaslighting you by saying different things behind your back. You are very lucky you have divorced him. Please forget about him he will never change and move on .
@priscillaasamoah915611 ай бұрын
Narcissist will always be narcissist ooo. They will never change as u said
@maamedamoah425811 ай бұрын
Exactly, my dear xxx Narcissist people think they're always right . They can even record lies and say so many things behind your back. If you haven’t been through, you wouldn't understand. Am glad women are voicing out.
@franowusu143111 ай бұрын
@@maamedamoah4258thats the word our people don’t understand living with such a person is so difficult always lying to make themselves look better. Then they’ll have people as equally daft that believe them!!
@browneyedbunny67079 ай бұрын
I couldn’t have said that better, well said!
@antoinetteallston965411 ай бұрын
I laughed as I listened to this story because it is soo much like mine. If you haven’t lived with a narcissist, you will never believe a person can be soo cruel, hateful, jealous and selfish. Many men feel that women who have been through a horrible marriage and have managed to break free from men like this, especially most Ghanaian men, really want to be alone and enjoy our freedom. I would rather be alone and happy than to stay in a marriage and pretend all is well. My dear lady, don’t try to explain yourself. Move on, never look back. Time will tell the truth for you. God strengthen you and the children.
@marisamaniampong98711 ай бұрын
Sis I’ve been in your shoes before nobody will understand you unless they’ve endured it themselves keep up the good work you’ve already won the battle
@emeliaahenkora27929 ай бұрын
Hmmmmm Lord hv mercy on us 🙏🙏🙏🙏 you're right 😢🙏🙏
@bridget202811 ай бұрын
My dad did worst things to my mom in New York 35yrs ago. My mom never recovered mentally. My mom has to raise 3 kids with no financial support. He remarried someone and have kids. His second marriage collapsed and 35yrs later he goes around saying my mom has brainwashed us. New York Ghana men are sick
@MA-md3gu11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 sounds familiar!
@Sheilah.N11 ай бұрын
They forget that they will get Old and want their Children's support
@JoeKennedy-w6w11 ай бұрын
You don't have to generalize it
@queenfggbaal594411 ай бұрын
Maame don’t worry. As for men when divorce comes in they become manufacturers of lies. Your story doesn’t sound malicious at all, it’s a perfect behavior narcissist and abusive men. Good thing is that you survived it. Enjoy life now.
@jonathanagyei501311 ай бұрын
I went through this situation with 2 kids but I was very supportive and God bless the family very well. Take it as you got it and still focus on the children.
@millicentnartey47211 ай бұрын
Awww you can see she really loves the man .May God bring them together again.They will be perfect this time round
@A.jmens6511 ай бұрын
you have to go through it to appreciate what this woman has been through. what reason will she have to lie?
@samuelocran-kakrah45711 ай бұрын
She is just not immature. Not all men are the same just like all women. A smart wife will take this situation and turn it around and maintain the marriage and ensure the kids had peace of mind and good relationship. If the man is working and she confesses that money was not a problem, why couldn't take care of the kids. She never mentioned she was working when she came. Why not be a homecare mother and take care of the house whilst the man works. Its sheer immaturity and evil selfish interests. She is just lying
@a.konadu401011 ай бұрын
@@samuelocran-kakrah457you're extremely fo**ish and narrow minded. Did you hear about the verbal and physical ab**e she went through. You have to be a M O R O N to write what you wrote. Think over what you wrote...just think. You have a lot of personal growth to do. Best of luck in your life with this mindset.
@nanaaraba714511 ай бұрын
I won't be surprised that you're just like the husband, if not worse
@sicklion235411 ай бұрын
@@samuelocran-kakrah457I find it difficult to believe her story
@AaliyahDarko11 ай бұрын
U loser n worser than the housband😅😅😅😅😅😅
@niilib611211 ай бұрын
This woman is blessed to be alive my mother lost her life 24years ago
@syndeytishbaayeh40911 ай бұрын
Oh sorry to hear that. Men 🤦🏽♀️
@browneyedbunny67079 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss
@maameserwaah10411 ай бұрын
This woman's Story is just like mine.. not easy ooo ... im going through the same thing in my life also.
@bleach9tail11 ай бұрын
Wow , I don't usually believe people when they tell stories. But I believe this woman , she is describing the typical abusive husband
@Timewithmabel11 ай бұрын
Why deos she regret leaving an abusive husband
@bleach9tail11 ай бұрын
She doesn't; she just feels the hurt the kids are going through and the pressures of doing everything by herself; honestly, if he was a decent man, she wouldn't have left. @@Timewithmabel
@a.kyaadie11 ай бұрын
Thank you
@quofispocus11 ай бұрын
She has been through a lot. She did very well bringing the kids up. If she still has an interest in nursing school, its never late.
@alexlnxduahjoy116011 ай бұрын
Can you please get her information please
@joycegyamfi654411 ай бұрын
If you haven’t been to this situation before you will never understand this woman
@primetestimonychannel555711 ай бұрын
You're very right, my dear. Some have suffered ooo. Hmmmm
@africannebuchadnezzar498011 ай бұрын
This is one of the interesting interviews that has attracted and received more comments in less than a week long since it's posted. Strong Kwaku woman.
@salomeysarpong402211 ай бұрын
l'm so sorry for what you've been through in your marriage, thank God for taking care of you and your children.
@doreenboateng253111 ай бұрын
I enjoyed the conversation especially the last part how she was able to raise her children smart woman God bless you
@nancybotchway850311 ай бұрын
I believe this lady is speaking the truth per my experience. I thank God for your life. Enjoy your single life.
@karenmills568311 ай бұрын
Unless you've dealt with an abusive partner, you wouldn't understand. Madam Efua, focus on yourself and your kids.....karma has a way of dealing with who deserves. There's no sense staying in a marriage that may end your life.....just crazy!!! Marriage doesn't define you.....too many are slowly fading in the name of marriage!!!! Life is too short. Thank you DJ Nyame for your awesome work 👏🏾.
@yaafowaa41494 ай бұрын
Fact darling.
@NanaKwameAgyei2711 ай бұрын
For me any man who tries any nonsense with my sisters you’ll know there’s a mad man in every home.
@mabyadombaaseda754311 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 my ribs
@a.kyaadie11 ай бұрын
I wish my brothers were closer to me at that time. They were all in Europe and I am in Canada
@victoriaappiah25258 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@unknowna702011 ай бұрын
Sis, you said it all. The man is a narcissist.
@EmpowerHerAnalytics11 ай бұрын
It is real paaaaaa. I have gone through the same thing. I had to run for my life with 3 kids. Insults paaaaa. Shouting paaaaa. Just because his family is angry he helped me come to Germany and not them
@funmialata340711 ай бұрын
Saaa then u re strong but u made me laugh small 😂😂 sending u ❤
@a.kyaadie11 ай бұрын
Sorry dear
@pheobejacques844910 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@rosie593011 ай бұрын
There's nothing like aperfect marriage as they says but marriage in abroad can be very challenging at times. It takes a real man and a woman to survive through it all. Help us oh Lord!
@nihaddabre135311 ай бұрын
Aswearigod 😮
@laurendaboateng768611 ай бұрын
The guy is poisonous. Sorry, Sister, for what you went through.
@ofoprince735511 ай бұрын
He's a narcissist. Its a thing. When you meet them you'll know. Marriage to them is worse than hell. So you're blessed to have survived it. God is with you.
@kofidaniel577711 ай бұрын
True dat!!
@fleshyme882811 ай бұрын
You are totally right.
@diamondgee53611 ай бұрын
Have noticed many African men having that narcissistic characteristic. I wonder why?
@kofidaniel577711 ай бұрын
@@diamondgee536 Yeah?...interesting!! How many African men have you been with? And why do people like you have to strain and twist everything into ethnicity and race????
@diamondgee53611 ай бұрын
@@kofidaniel5777 lol well considering that I am a full blown African, this is something I have observed.
@ednaakyena324211 ай бұрын
I knew you were an Adventist from the way you were talking. God bless you
@mavistetteh59611 ай бұрын
I haven't listened to the whole story yet but I feel she is about to tell my story based on the comments I'm reading and although I haven't traveled before but I'm facing the same or worse in Accra Ghana 😢.
@euniceoffei632911 ай бұрын
And if the child is special need that’s your whole life being messed up! Our community can do better coz it’s really a sad state we’re in! Some of us could have died just to have men in the house but it is well🥹
@gladysasiedu556610 ай бұрын
I will encourage the host to read a bit about narcissistics. Some of the questions he asked the lady were not relevant. Narcissistic behaviors cannot be understood. I hav gone this road, they get angry at the slightest. They don’t get along with any human being. I found the host’s questioning to be appalling. I wish I can get a hold of this lady.
@mylifeisqueen11 ай бұрын
The fact that she was in a toxic marriage and still regrets divorcing is mind blogging and now has taken it upon herself , campaigning against divorce, advise young women in staying in bad marriages. Wow. She will defend and use the kids. Hmmm . Some of these women paaaa..
@agyeimorrison11 ай бұрын
I don't even understand her, how can you regret divorcing an abusive husband
@bridget202811 ай бұрын
U know bc of religious and cultural reasons
@Timewithmabel11 ай бұрын
A lil bit of ignorance
@LeilaniFaithJones11 ай бұрын
pay attention to what this lady is saying before YOU start JUDGING! right from the beginning of her statement, she stated she was younger when she married… and then admitted that she should have been empathetic towards his ex …she didn’t know at that time because she was young and helpless as a pregnant woman for that matter and then again… she wanted to raise her children with their dad… she wanted to see them grow together and then she thought she couldn’t raise the kids alone hence why she didn’t want to divorce and also she admitted that the said man was his spec so she was head down in love with him! and lastly she campaigns against divorce because perhaps because she has realised that she should have supported her ex with prayers or maybe try different measures to see whether her narcissistic ex husband would change. pay attention to details and stop hopping!
@princek113511 ай бұрын
I don't just understand
@IreneOwusuAnsah11 ай бұрын
Woman of substance, full of wisdom
@opheliaampadu8699 ай бұрын
Wow very strong woman God bless you
@gideonagyeman868311 ай бұрын
You can't over emphasise choosing a Godly and a God fearing man. Blessed are women who have good and God fearing husbands. Ladies take clue from this story. Again let's not rush into settling down with just anyone
@StellaKoduah-d9l10 ай бұрын
The pastors are worse
@gideonagyeman868310 ай бұрын
@@StellaKoduah-d9l there is a difference between someone who claims to be a Pastor and a God fearing man. Pastors not necessarily God fearing people
@araanaabarnor738811 ай бұрын
I know this woman. God bless her.
@divaprettyakakapequeen943811 ай бұрын
I must say you did excellent job raising your children. You set your priorities right.
@kwadjoekaya655911 ай бұрын
She is a good woman with kind heart.
@The-Neutral11 ай бұрын
I do not understand why she will be against divorce. Marriage is not an achievement. Her well being should be a priority. Also you need raise kids in a good home environment. If she wasnt well mentally and physically well, she could not have been able to take care of her kids. No one should be forced to be in an abusive marriage. So divorce is good when your mental and physical health is at risk. There is always that one person out there that will understand you very well. If you have not had a good loving partner, u will always think u have to put up with an abuser but trust me, its better to let go. the right person will come eventually at the right time. Sad story
@Realpeople9011 ай бұрын
This woman is beautiful. God bless her
@AfansoKyei11 ай бұрын
Gifty, my classmate that graduated from labone high 1991.
@a.kyaadie11 ай бұрын
Eeeeeeee❤😊
@patriciajackson604811 ай бұрын
Thank Jehovah I have such a Wonderful husband, soo I wish he will continue this year will be twenty years he brought me to Italy and the State 🎉
@nanaquagraine11298 ай бұрын
Good.
@hagaryeboaa112911 ай бұрын
I understand her situation very well. Unfortunately if you haven’t experienced it before, you will never believe her.
@maau60511 ай бұрын
I married a man like that never held my baby. He used to tell me he was scared of new born babies. Hmmm I feel for you. I left the married after 9years . Our first baby is college now and he doesn’t support me with the tuition. Some Ghanaian men can be very difficult to live with. Very selfish.
@a.kyaadie11 ай бұрын
God will take care of us
@sethbaah58611 ай бұрын
Some people can be very judgmental and too defensive. It is very disgusting and illogical to judge the man as a narcist, gaslighting or abusive. Truly, the woman was lucky to have such a man and vice versa. The main problem was that both were not matured (spiritually, emotionally, psychologically, and socially) before entering into marriage. If not why should the woman still wish to leave with a 'claimed abusive' man in marriage? Generally, marriage is full of challenges but there is too much contradictions in the statements. But the main causes are that: 1. It was a big mistake to marry someone within 2 weeks of meeting for the first time. And the woman also married at a very tender age, early 20s. Because of that, she over-reacted with her pregnancy challenges, which the man couldn't tolerate. 2. Both did not understand marriage and its emotional, social and psychological affairs. Marriage is an utmost desire of most women but they don't learn the experiences of their parents and others before marrying, neither do they read or pray about it before entering into it. Most women in marriage were driven by money, children and friends. 3. Some women always want to be with their partners on the same level of emotional and psychological stress, afflictions and endurance, especially during pregnancy and work, which doesn't work in that manner. Men and women are not the same even when it comes to emotions and mental state. So each react differently in same situation. The woman needed empathy whereas the man needed peace. 4. Both loved themselves but never accepted mistake(s) and were full of bitterness. The woman praise herself as perfect and always point finger at the man in every misfortune and the man also accuses the woman for wrong decisions. Marriage is based on decisions, so partners should be ready to accept the implications of every decision taken. These marriage issues are normal and common and will forever occur even in re-marriage but can be solved simply with respect, understanding, wisdom and prayers. PLEASE LET US GIVE OUR LIVES TO JESUS CHRIST AND HE WILL GIVE US THE POWER AND ABILITIES TO OVERCOME MARRIAGE CHALLENGES. SHALOM!!
@estherelleprice343211 ай бұрын
I need ur advice paa, I have a problem
@onlyjahknowsmodaafrika990211 ай бұрын
Wow, only u understood the whole situation . Much respect to you. You are learned. I was in similar situation with my wife in canada and it was really sad to see lovers hating on each other because of respect and caring.
@josico0211 ай бұрын
Well deciphered and analysed ❤
@queenpaytv11 ай бұрын
Hello dear@@estherelleprice3432
@julietpeprah404610 ай бұрын
There is never an over reaction with pregnancy. I wish you were a woman to experience pregnancy whether there is anything like over reaction with pregnancy
@innertee188511 ай бұрын
I'm not surprised by her story. I know people like that
@icetee151711 ай бұрын
lol.. yall keep supporting the irrational decisions of your fellows ladies.. you think a man who has invested that much according to her own account will turn back on his children? yall should apply some reality and speak truth to your fellows. Bunch of things shes saying is cope.
@andrewsyawtawiah230011 ай бұрын
@@icetee1517 There are some men like dat. The career ones sometimes
@princek113511 ай бұрын
@@icetee1517REST REST REST
@ted05owusu4 ай бұрын
She still loves him. If the man comes back, she'll accept him, trust me 😂😂😂😂
@escobapaige548711 ай бұрын
This host is so wise❤❤❤❤❤❤ he can be a great lawyer 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉
@larryotoo8939 ай бұрын
We are waiting to hear from the husband also There are two sides to every story
@maliathecorndog11 ай бұрын
The same thing happens to me with my ex husband. I know how she feels ❤
@richardakomeah132510 ай бұрын
This woman sounds truthful. I pray for her and the family. I pray for the estranged husband, too.
@afuaowusuaa286511 ай бұрын
DJ some men can be consumed with their professional like that , they were never expose to those things,he grew u having people doing things for him
@zainabibrahim844811 ай бұрын
Yes exactly the egeners
@divaprettyakakapequeen943811 ай бұрын
Wow, it’s really common to defend your abuser! It’s a lot of psychological stuff going on here! Most women are dead because of such mindset. Sounds like that ex-husband is a narcissist.
@loiseologoministrieslom142311 ай бұрын
The man's character is as a result of him seeing his father treat his mother like that. Charity they say begins from home
@a.kyaadie11 ай бұрын
Mmmmmmm its rather his mother who was abusing her husband's family members
@funtoyswithmelize314711 ай бұрын
Please DJ stop asking too many questions from Sister Afua it is happening
@KofiAsamoah-ky2rj11 ай бұрын
This woman is talking out pains because she never wanted to quit or divorce no matter what the situation may be as she has been keeping on saying good things and appreciating the things her husband did for her❤❤i love people's who appreciates Thanks for your questions DJ nyame Tu tu tuwa Nana Aqwesi Adofoasa Dubai ❤❤❤
@josephagyenfrimpong309011 ай бұрын
The problem has to do with these quickly arranged marriages. No matter who you are you might encounter challenges in the early stages of your marriage
@patrickoseibonsu819511 ай бұрын
Well done girl God is your strength
@StellaKoduah-d9l10 ай бұрын
This woman's story is so real and true to me hmmm
@phideliaserwaaaggrey988310 ай бұрын
God bless this woman . Very hard working woman just like my mum ❤. Much love 💖😊
@adelaideokoree-siaw122911 ай бұрын
The lady is so right, the man is not himself he needs prayers and counseling. Glad you are out, but please get some counseling for you and the kids. God be with you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@MalissaBea11 ай бұрын
Am also a single mother with 3 kids
@jacobvanderpuije961711 ай бұрын
It’s sad! Such a wonderful woman, she love the gentleman but the gentleman doesn’t understand her situation.
@irene477011 ай бұрын
I think the man didn't love her that much!
@yaafowaa41494 ай бұрын
The man is self centred and immature
@michael851211 ай бұрын
You could tell that even though they’re divorced, the woman still has affection for the ex-husband. It’s very unfortunate the man doesn’t talk to his children. From the woman’s demeanor, you could tell she isn’t happy about it. That’s sad.
@maamekay36111 ай бұрын
I believe this woman though I don't know her. She still loves her ex husband i wish their kids can help them to continue their marriage, they've learnt their lessons and it'll be a good marriage 💑
@a.kyaadie11 ай бұрын
Thanks but no thank you. I can never marry him again
@missware267711 ай бұрын
My dear you don’t have to regret leaving this crazy abusive man. After almost 30 years abroad you should be smart enough to know that leaving that marriage was the best decision you made for your children. You should rather be educating people to leave abusive marriages instead of encouraging them to stay
@World_news_b10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@kwameankrah334811 ай бұрын
DJ, this is a straight forward story that you need to understand. The man didn't anticipated the behavior of the children
@automation24711 ай бұрын
Good job DJ. You didnt let the emotions in her story get to you. U stayed focus on your questions
@ericekubanmensah144710 ай бұрын
May God bless all the single mother's 🙏🙏🙏 Akwantuomu ns3m hmmm 😢😢😢
@sadatmoro178011 ай бұрын
Aww aww aww sorry sorry to you madam and to all the single parent in the world . may Allah help us all, may Allah guide and protect us all . hmm i shy ooo.
@maamesarpong528011 ай бұрын
DJ is not weird Some men are like that
@obedaddo856111 ай бұрын
Sorry my dear sister for what u nave been through.
@gloriakonadu85411 ай бұрын
Very sad story. You went through a lot Maame. A lot of women are in this same situation and really hard to come out with such a situation. Thanks for sharing. God will see you through.
@maameserwaa954011 ай бұрын
Her husband was not mature enough to marry and had children, and not ready to be a father, husband. He wanted to be married and lived a single life, if you never been in her situation you wouldn’t understand her. There are some men who are selfish and don’t have respect, and they don’t care about their wives well being and I know what I’m talking about. I was in the same situation but her’s was too much. She has suffered a lot in her marriage and life, dj follow her up as she is saying and see who’s telling the truth. Hmm 🤔😮😳
@Jane-ms2fz11 ай бұрын
One dude saw my daughter write my wall, he saw some kids do same to thier parents wall, he preached with it that the kids are not trained and called them all kinds of names. He complain when parents take care of kids. He wanted to date me I said know this guy was like he saw a ladies pant under black. The guy will be a horrible husband
@Baby-oz5hy11 ай бұрын
You have to be in it to understand. I hail you lady. Bless your hustle
@mavisakpanglotwumasi719811 ай бұрын
Afua is my childhood friend, we attended Labone together and the catering school. All she said is nothing but the truth. DJ believe it or not she has said it all. As at that time she really was from a good home. I can go on and on and on.
@a.kyaadie11 ай бұрын
Thank you May
@divinecharity408311 ай бұрын
She did a great job. It's true that in Toronto if you join the wrong crowd, it will not end you well. I have my fiur kids in private school and it's not easy if you want your children to succeed. You will feel like you are left out because you're investing everything in the kids but we pray to God the work will not be in vain
@a.kyaadie11 ай бұрын
Amen
@mabelsam362611 ай бұрын
I really love this brave woman may the Almighty God continue to bless her Amen 🙏
@kimkayworldie15311 ай бұрын
In Ghana when a woman marries and start complaining about the issues in marriage ! I bet you won’t understand unless you get to that situation! Even your mom who birth you can disown you cos of marriage in Ghana 😢 sad 😢 love her for how far she has come ❤
@wendyasiedu-antwi728411 ай бұрын
Big sis sorry oooo these things are natural and they usually happen, u two needed counselling.
@xl57611 ай бұрын
Sometimes is beyond counseling. I believe physical abuse is beyond counseling.
@kafuiadjei853510 ай бұрын
Hmmmmm Hey this Woman u are indeed a great woman
@amatakpuie976711 ай бұрын
Mummy I agree with you ❤I love you b/c how you train your children thanks everymuch.🎉love Happy New year from Italy 🇮🇹
@dorismensah661210 ай бұрын
What you are saying is true,never ,never give up, be happy in your life ,because he will never change,I wish you all the best of luck
@richardnanakarikari760310 ай бұрын
I love this woman, she said, i don't believe in divorce, i like that....God bless sister...
@priscillaasamoah915611 ай бұрын
I don’t know some men don’t want children but still want to give birth just to waste someone’s daughter life k3k3. God is watching y‘all and u will surely get ur reward from heaven
@cadeycaseycatey733611 ай бұрын
I can sense this woman still loves the husband ❣️❣️ anaa me yale
@mercygyamfi866111 ай бұрын
Right 😢
@ewuraamagrant482211 ай бұрын
Yes, she does
@bernicebimpeh605611 ай бұрын
Eni3 woyale😂
@a.kyaadie11 ай бұрын
No way! Am only giving him respect. I don't love him da!!
@lydiawilliams402911 ай бұрын
I went through the same thing our kids are big he not really in their life is very sad
@beckybless770311 ай бұрын
God bless you and deliver all those going through the same thing
@kwasiaddo583111 ай бұрын
They say if you have not walked through someone's shoes, be careful before you criticize him. But there is not doubt in my mind that this guy is just a jerk. But he is a product of his parents. For all those who are raising children out there, remember you are raising someone's husband or wife. Being wealthy does not mean you raise robots. Use common sense.
@millicentnyamea119411 ай бұрын
Very educative. God bless you
@primetestimonychannel555711 ай бұрын
My sister, please take your time and patiently look for someone you can freely connect with, someone you can call your friend before you marry again.
@danwastony2Ай бұрын
Oh! God bless this mum! Sad you went thru this....😢
@Boak96610 ай бұрын
A very strong woman, may God continue to strengthen you her🙏🙏🙏
@sarahappiah-odame216311 ай бұрын
What she is saying is the truth, when they sponsor you abroad, you are dead, they will insult, beat and maltreat you for no tangible reasons, they leave their own kids and tell people their wives don’t want them to be with their children, they behave like evil spirit and later come up with a lie, lying to their families who don’t even want them to marry, talk less of having kids. They keep playing the victim but Karma will follow them until they tell the truth. Some mature men stay humbly with their wives.