Am a Man but this( stupidity)just put him on child support
@QueenAma188 күн бұрын
He just used her , I’m glad you agree with her.
@MichaelJato8 күн бұрын
@@QueenAma18The same thing women also do to men, because the men doesn't voice out so men are always at fault
@emmanuelcrayon77308 күн бұрын
Women sleep around more than men but they are good at hiding it.
@AfrobeatsMotherland-co9wn8 күн бұрын
@@QueenAma18 what's using about this? everyman's dream. we pray for wives like the side chick. you will live longer having multiple wives. don't be deceived by the system you live in.
@henriettaboampong62158 күн бұрын
Exactly, put him on child support
@arabaaryertey38388 күн бұрын
A man who wants to misbehave will find every excuse to frustrate the wife, the woman is not at fault
@Kwame_Kwao8 күн бұрын
Just put him on the child support system when he arrives!
@Candywine9708 күн бұрын
Madam take this advice and it’ll help you a lot not only you but for your future kids too, child support straight!!! Don’t wait for his decision biaa, he can even watch this video and pretend that he has changed his mind, take him to child support lawfully 👍💯
@odenehonpomaa79018 күн бұрын
Sister, don't divorce him. Take him to child support .
@controller89278 күн бұрын
You all lack sense, where from this child support stuff.
@akuaboahene67878 күн бұрын
@@controller8927 So what do you suggest she do, Mr. Sense.
@controller89278 күн бұрын
@akuaboahene6787 sit the husband up and see the possible cause for going in for a side chick, not the poor thinking way of child support stories. You're all bad nuts in the midst of women. Bad advisors . Emotional thinkers without cognitive reasoning.
@AfrobeatsMotherland-co9wn8 күн бұрын
@@controller8927 ashock sef. most men dream of having women who think like the side chick. you live longer and at peace. these modern ladies will stress you out and kpai early.
@controller89278 күн бұрын
@@AfrobeatsMotherland-co9wn 😃😃😃😃
@hisholiness20108 күн бұрын
This is sad,but madam dont divorce him,put him on the child support to bind him a little
@NightManCanada8 күн бұрын
Get him on the child support system. Think of the kids' future. I think this man is an opportunist. I hope the woman, too, was treating the man well. We can't judge this case by hearing only one side.
@maliathecorndog8 күн бұрын
Hmm is reason why i am single mother with 4 childeren now happy with my kids . My sister i used to think the same bt if you are not happy the childeren wil feel it. ❤
@pramaccra31066 күн бұрын
Sister, don’t listen to what the side chick in Ghana told you. When you are legally married abroad, you are bound by law to have only one wife. If he dares marry another woman while legally married to you, he could be charged with polygamy, which is not allowed in many western countries. The side chick is just happy she has your husband to herself at your expense. You got the man his papers after you had children with him. Now he is showing his true intentions. He married you for papers not love. Free yourself by putting him on child support. He will learn a lot. When he pays child support and cannot live in the same house with you and eat your food for free, he will not have enough money going to Ghana frequently to cuddle with another woman. He will also not have enough money to take care of another woman and her children who do not belong to him.
@isaaci94938 күн бұрын
Isaac from UK, my sister don’t worry that God will fight for you
@MeshackTettehAnang7 күн бұрын
Madam like your sister said let him go ,no don't allow him to go like that but put him into child support if you allow the other woman in Ghana come in your marriage later you will find yourself at the cemetery
@ebenezeryankey70377 күн бұрын
Child support will be the best option. Be FAST about it.
@thompsonofori56258 күн бұрын
Nice program DJ you should have opened the phone line so people can call in to share their views, because they woman said she needs advice, she would have listened to people advice ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@johnahiaba20898 күн бұрын
Divorce him and slap him with child support
@douglasboakye25378 күн бұрын
My sister, pls do not let it slide as I’ll advise you to put him on child support for deterrent purposes as some Diaspora’s men are fun of doing that once they get their “Nkrataa”
@QueenAma188 күн бұрын
DJ, he did not love her to begin with, he only married her because of her papers!!!!!
@shattawaleofficialtv32018 күн бұрын
The man is charmed. That's always the outcome when a borga starts to cheat in Ghana. The local women make wild.
@andyalf53748 күн бұрын
Dj nyame the truth is that since he married the first one on documents he cant marry again on documents. But he can marry the traditional way. So he can marry any amount
@fjohn89858 күн бұрын
When she has to travel outside the country with the children, she is going to need consent from the husband. Something to be aware of if the kids are underage. Looks like she is getting into lawyer territory if mediation does not work. Separation agreement first for sure.
@damoahlydia12848 күн бұрын
Hmmm.... Than wait for December as you said, if still he want the lady, Let him go... It's well
@BrigetteBarimah8 күн бұрын
Relationship and problems just pray to GOD
@freemanreubenkwabena1968 күн бұрын
Every relationship has problems so after the prayers know the right thing to do as a woman/ wife and a mother 👩..life is more precious than gold and silver ❤.
@freemanreubenkwabena1968 күн бұрын
Is good to have multiple wife's as a man that's if u have the funds and can satisfy the both woman sexually 👌 but most time's the second wife comes with so much wahala, especially if she's from a poor home because you'll see the greedyness and selfishness in such women, because she has been hungry for long and can go to the extend of killing the first wife or taking the man to juju so that she can get him all by herself ( properties).
@queenriegnsadepa87278 күн бұрын
If a man or woman wants to quit his or her marriage the person got a lot of excuses ooo hwɛ if he's fed up let him go nothing can change him or her the mind is made up
@ruthantwi-agyei22726 күн бұрын
Sis , don’t worry about what someone will say. You are the only one know what you are going through. Do what makes you comfortable or happy. No matter what you do people will always have something to say. I’m speaking from experience. Please I feel pain. Take care ❤
@lydiaofori96867 күн бұрын
Hmmmmmm Ey3 as3m Take heart my dear sister Some men are just wicked and dangerous. God will make a way for you my dear. ❤
@josephappiah11648 күн бұрын
My sister child support is the only option, dont listen to all family advice, you also need your happiness,if the child support will make you happy go for that.period
@EmmanuelEyifa8 күн бұрын
See take go prayers what the other lady in Ghana said means there is something behind.sometimes it’s not everything that physical that men go through
@QueenAma188 күн бұрын
DJ, agree with the question you asked her if she did something wrong that’s why the man left for another woman.
@AfrobeatsMotherland-co9wn8 күн бұрын
haha.. you are smart. this woman doesnt give kumjeke. and she wants the man to stay loyal. hmm
@QueenAma187 күн бұрын
@@AfrobeatsMotherland-co9wn I meant to say I didn’t agree with DJ. Lol
@ydolla17 күн бұрын
Please leave him. This man will never change. He will keep playing with your feelings. Divorce him and put him into child support.
@stephenjabrah43907 күн бұрын
Put him on child support and divorce him …you haven’t done anything wrong
@franklinboadu217 күн бұрын
Regardless of the side of the story, A man that is not taking care of his children is stupid not to talk of spending on another lady in Ghana. I understand if you don’t love your wife or whatever but to the extend of ignoring your children?? Come on … this is beyond stupid. She should take him to child support. Too many irresponsible fathers in this generation.
@benjaminyawson16368 күн бұрын
Please madam, put him on kid support that's the best way and don't think abt the tribe ..kids first, because kids are vulnerable.
@Yaba-naaba38 күн бұрын
I know a 2 friend in a similar situation. 1, man married another woman in Ghana whilst his wife and children are in the US and introduce her as sister in-law to GH wife. This means the USA wife knows husband is married but the other woman has no clue 😅. 2, Wife and children are in GH and husband married another woman in US for inkranta and also introduced his GH wife as sister to the one in US.
@Yaba-naaba38 күн бұрын
The first scenario woman in Ghana has clue but the wife in US knows she has a co-wife. The second scenario wife in Ghana is fully aware of his husband having another wife in the US. This world is not balanced at all.
@NightManCanada8 күн бұрын
@@Yaba-naaba3 What nkrataa can make you do..hhhhmmmm. It's just common.
@tonykwakye49778 күн бұрын
When you take him to child support and he doesn't pay. First his D/L license will be revoke .The next step is he won't be able to renew his US passport. So bro if u are reading the comments come bk home and sort yourself with your wife or else you are doomed
@martinopoku3688 күн бұрын
Focus on your life, Your kids need you. You did what was necessary for your marriage. Don't blame yourself. If he wants to move away, let him.
@ibrahimadambamba8 күн бұрын
Child support is good sis do it he will learn sense
@phyllisakuoko83436 күн бұрын
Madam take him to child support and divorce him bcos that woman in Ghana will never leave him for u and besides she has 3children aah she feels comfortable with him take care
@Happinessofgoodluck18 күн бұрын
Hmmm so sad,may God repair their relationship
@ekuahagan26937 күн бұрын
When a man don't like you forget. concentrate on your kids. Put all your energy and love in them.
@JosephineYankson-n7z8 күн бұрын
If you are sure that you dont push yourself away from your husband when he is ready to have an affair with you.infact its really painful,,but again dont break your marriage else you will gain lost but not profit
@QueenAma188 күн бұрын
Take him to child support, he used you to get his papers. Please don’t Listen to people, I’m a single mother myself I know what you’re going through.
@ziemmercy88448 күн бұрын
I’m confused 😢oh and same man don’t want to tell the truth😮.Madam it’s shall be well 🙏💕
@phelixphelix2278 күн бұрын
I can’t judge base on one sided story
@BismarkNkansah-ju7lx7 күн бұрын
Never, Ever let anyone deceive you ...PUT HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT....if not you will die young
@serwaa867 күн бұрын
This wold😢
@TheGhanaboy417 күн бұрын
Child support is better dont divorce and let him go live in Ghana if he wants to.
@automation2478 күн бұрын
to tell u the truth, we men love to explore not because we dont love our family but out of curiosity. but it becomes a problem when your husband get entangle with a sidechick who roams on juju men(ive seen alot of such girls in ghana), i would have advised you to take it up in prayers buh honestly, hes not worth it. deal with him as you wish. when hes down, the other lady will also leave, thats when he will come to his senses, he will come and apologise later but itll be up to u to accept.
@fjohn89858 күн бұрын
It is a man's world in GH, that is why he retreated there.
@philipadjapong60957 күн бұрын
Let’s wait till we hear the man’s version before we pass judgement folks..
@benjamina.k.quaidoo44478 күн бұрын
Hmm ns3m dey world do you agree
@OboyAkyempem-ze2zh8 күн бұрын
Oh sad oo, ewiase mu ns3m
@Sphina-cn8mt8 күн бұрын
Child support is the way! Home people, erh! By this time, the girl has worked things she knows what she's standing on, that's why she is bold to say anything to you
@ruthantwi-agyei22726 күн бұрын
Don’t worry about the lady in Ghana 🇬🇭 It’s your husband fault
@sorrysay.8 күн бұрын
Madam if u want ur pieces put him on child support n be free
@Moon-mi3nn7 күн бұрын
He has to pay huge child support. Leave him and demand child support
@TheGhanaboy417 күн бұрын
Child support is not a punishment. It is meant for people who dont take care of their children's feeding, clothing and schooling. They cant do it themselves and since you made them you have to take care of them. It is bad when the women keeps going for more money due to greed and this leads to abondonment when it is all over at 18yrs. Men see it as the court decides and should continue to decide, so zero contributions.
@JosephineYankson-n7z8 күн бұрын
Dj always greetings,my sis forget about the divorce you hv planed to do,and dont listen to your co -wife to be for your husband better focus in your children dont leave this marriage,always push your ear away from that lady..God is your strength What you reap,you soid
@controller89278 күн бұрын
You're the only person making sense.
@johnahiaba20898 күн бұрын
@controller8927 you just not making any sense ,how will you feel if u were to be the lady?
@controller89278 күн бұрын
@johnahiaba2089 is that the only solution to curb the situation? Think before you speak,don't attach emotions but logical. How does it got to do with child support. Poverty thinkers
@kobyyA7 күн бұрын
I don’t think the man came for you because of documents but over time things changed (15 yrs). Right now, you’ve a choice to accept 2nd marriage or let him go forever.
@George-Otukwah4se9t8 күн бұрын
Dj let her put him on child support please
@BismarkNkansah-ju7lx7 күн бұрын
Such an UNGRATEFUL man are the ones blocking people chances or letting people don't wanna help anymore...PUT HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT.. my sister I repeat PUT HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT
@AdelAlkaf7 күн бұрын
Madam hmm is painful but put him on child support and move on with your life
@adom1938 күн бұрын
So sad Some human beings are so wicked,
@ErnestAfrifa-hi8jn8 күн бұрын
Put him to child support
@idrisssaafo188 күн бұрын
Dis life ankasa eno balance oooo, my dream country paaa see how my gender dey spoil our chance .... But lik joke dj Nyame be fresh man oooo
@alicequaye78377 күн бұрын
Very sad story like the men are saying she should put him on child support
@yaaagyapomaa4797 күн бұрын
The woman is sounding like she still loves him and it’s difficult to let go but I think it’s best she lets him go. Because if she gets him on child support, thinking the man will come abroad and stay to take care of the kids, he can still help this woman come to America so they can continue their love story. Or even if she doesn’t join him secretly, anytime he goes back to Ghana, he’s still going to continue the relationship. So if she’s not okay sharing the man, she should let him go. Because with her story, there’s nothing she can do to stop the relationship. It’s sad and unfortunate but she should let go.
@alexandergrant44056 күн бұрын
Put him on child support.
@agnesasieduwaa24653 күн бұрын
My mum take him to child support straight up don't 😅forgive him some men think they are only the one who is wise no time to waste time
@andrewharding78848 күн бұрын
Take him to child support
@godwincrow94198 күн бұрын
Wow shared marriage 😂
@BismarkNkansah-ju7lx7 күн бұрын
Dont listen to DJ NYYAAME by saying that the man cant marry again whilst hes already marry to you....what if they've decided to leave together without doing wedding biaa...3NY3 HWEE, 3NY3 HWEE NA stress ...NA wa wu agya wo kids...see anyone advising you to give to GOD,3NY3 HWEE as your enemy of progress...CHILD SUPPORT IS YOUR ONLY SOLUTION
@henriettaboampong62158 күн бұрын
My husband has being doing the same nonsense. I throw him out and his family were saying something different. His life is backsliding now
@George-Otukwah4se9t8 күн бұрын
Don't let him fool on the lady please
@thetraveler15348 күн бұрын
Put him on child support.. he won’t be able to go back anytime soon. #Rubbish
@ekuahagan26937 күн бұрын
When love is finish, even if you drink, water the other partner partner you die, love yourself and live life
@Bigkel-TV7 күн бұрын
I really want to know what makes a man left his wife at home and go for other lady
@giftyfokuo26445 күн бұрын
Child support institution, sis, please enroll him there.
@josephinetetteh99797 күн бұрын
Madam dnt talk too much , put him on child support he will learn the hard way
@clementoseiagyeman20398 күн бұрын
Is very sad and cheat so don't hesitate to put him to child support
@danitee1998 күн бұрын
One guy I know did the same thing to his wife. He even had a child with the girlfriend in Ghana. Some of the ladies in Ghana use juju on borgas
@andyalf53748 күн бұрын
Nothing is wrong marrying two... Muslims dont go through this. But rather its bad for his bad treatment..
@jeremiahnwaneampeh41687 күн бұрын
Child support is all ghana women know as soon as you have a kid with them.What advice do you want when you were already warned that the guy is no good
@Josephine-sv4np7 күн бұрын
I ask oo is men finished bcos it's looks like we dnt meet d good n faithful ones. What is happening. God help us. Is this not wickedness. He cnt marry buh he will have kids with her n file for the kids that's is d painful thing n wht he will put u through,is better u divorced n put him on child support n share d properties
@jackblack99597 күн бұрын
Child support straight...don't waste time
@Stierlitz15045 күн бұрын
You see how hungry some women are? Because the guy is borga. What the bible said is true. I am a man my advice is to take him to child support don't think twice.act fast. I still don't understand why Ghanaians who live abroad want to make property in Ghana. To me it's better you make your properties abroad because that is where you and your family live.
@edwinagreen38878 күн бұрын
If the man hasn't gotten his documents yet she should go to the authorities as soon as possible to make them aware he's started the process of marrying another woman and that she believes he only stayed with her to get documents, she can then ask them to put the process of getting his documentation on hold or cancel it totally. Better if she has some voice recordings of the man admitting to marrying another woman and the fact that getting documents was at least part of the reason why he stayed with her for this long. The marriage can then even be annulled as a sham marriage. And he won't get his documents. If the marriage isn't annulled she can also sue the woman in Ghana for alienation of affection (speak to a Ghanaian lawyer if Ghana has this law, US has it). Good luck, nkwasia buo yeya.
@itzprync93078 күн бұрын
Broken heart 💔 started 😅
@MelvinaBilson8 күн бұрын
This is not funny 😢
@mavissam86598 күн бұрын
Sister,put him on child support and move on,give him his share of the house in America if possible.Move sister,you will be fine❤,if he doesn' t respect the support and help that you are giving him dont die for him.More over you married him in American style,one wife one husband.leave to live sister.
@MichaelJato8 күн бұрын
All you know there is child support, and Police
@andyalf53748 күн бұрын
God is not against marrying two but he his against divorce
@akuaboahene67878 күн бұрын
It’s the man’s choice to be polygamous, you can’t force the woman to be in a polygamous marriage. In fact the man should have said he is polygamous from the beginning so the lady would have decided from the beginning.
@AfrobeatsMotherland-co9wn8 күн бұрын
@@akuaboahene6787 why men will keep lieing to yall.. accept it, make up your mind early. a man will not hustle his a$$ off to be with only 1 woman who comes bestowed with all previlleges.