Its 2021, let's hope that we don't have any hmong women who will degrade themselves like this no more. Its not about being "siab loj"- you men have it all wrong.
@Rise-Shine243 жыл бұрын
Yup not about being siab loj, it’s about being dumb. Hmong women like this was brainwashed by Hmong men.
@c.lee-soulisak3273 жыл бұрын
It's a lifestyle decision. Who are we are to judge them? It seems like they had a plan and made it for the three of them. Kudos for them!
@RedmanLS3 Жыл бұрын
It's 2023 and I have 3 wives soo....yeah, we still the same
@mainouvang13 жыл бұрын
If he is willing to marry someone else, you no longer matter to him.. This is the reason why Hmong men have no respect for us Hmong women. We think they are the only men on earth and there is no one else... I have no respect for women like this.. i'm just so sorry
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
Yep and I'm not even sorry for this grandma. Strong women points out and stop other women from making these dumb decisions. When women can stand up and put our foot down to say enough is enough, that's why the practice stops. The change we want to see starts with us. Guess what, the men say they are able to continues this practice because women allowed them. They are very right on that point.
@kouavang59283 жыл бұрын
Niag poj ruam, tim muaj cov khav khav ll koj es peb cov txiv neej Hmoob thiaj yuav yuav niam yau. Niam loj tseem mus ua niam tais ntsuab rau tus niam yau. Cov poj ruam li koj thiaj ua rau peb coob tus pojniam Hmoob lub neej puas tag.
@maryly093 жыл бұрын
Hais yog kawg.
@ThePrincessWorrior3 жыл бұрын
Pog xav tias ua seb thaub puas tsum na has, thaub tseem haj yam zoo coj tus tshiab los tsaj rau pog ntsia. Tsam no pog lam ua txuj qhuas xwb os. Pog mas tua tua thaub thiab thaub lub tshiab puag thaum ub los txog thaum thaub thiab thaub lub tshiab mus nkag av lawm os.
@maivneebthoj17703 жыл бұрын
haha ruam dhau lm xwb os, koj tus mas kais nplais ntshaj plaws li kj ces tag tiam no tsis tau kev hlub tseeb li os😔💔
@Yajsuab3 жыл бұрын
Who are we to judge other people's lifestyle, if they're all happy and can fill their household with love just be happy for them. This is not for everyone and can respect that she can hold her own in this relationship.
@niamnpisvwj60373 жыл бұрын
Ok 👌🏼 You’re too nice. Sorry I’ll never share, unless I’m being loved by 2 men’s lol 😂
@beyamvwj48812 жыл бұрын
Yup, 2 men…
@beyamvwj48812 жыл бұрын
Ob tug es Koj zoo lub siab yom
@ForbiddenFruit963 жыл бұрын
Wow, what a great story. People may think differently but I think this story is very rare. Only people with step parents will know but not here to judge 👍
@fatttydevine3 жыл бұрын
Good for her for being able to live that life style. I on the other hand, CAN NOT and WILL NEVER.
@suabzoothao59243 жыл бұрын
Sorry this is not me, I can "Suab Loj" for other things, but not "Siab Loj" for sharing my husband to others.
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
Yep, siab loj for allowing polygamy in your marriage. That's just an excuse. Bad example for her children and grandchildren to see.
@nhiavang15053 жыл бұрын
I agreed
@hmoohhmoob47023 жыл бұрын
P
@maryyang56463 жыл бұрын
Totally agree!!!
@vajtswvhlubkuvvajtswvhlubk44093 жыл бұрын
Nrog nej tsev neeg zoo siab o niam tij thiab tij laug... Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau nej tsev neeg o
@ky30793 жыл бұрын
Awesome story. Love how both women learn to get along with each other. Not every step families are bad. This is a rare one.
@jonathanvang79073 жыл бұрын
This is a story about choosing to be positive and not be bitter. It's not anyone's ideal lifestyle but she chose to expand her heart and accept the hand she was dealt. If she truly loves her step kids as she says, she's a better woman than most, better than me for sure. -Jonathan's Wife
@louxiong57573 жыл бұрын
Thov qhua os tus phauj koj zaj zoo tshaj plaws uas kuv tau hnov cov niam loj niam me nawb mog thov kom lwm tiam muaj tiag nej rov tau los sib hlub li no Mus ntxiv dhau li ntawv cov txiv tsev yog nej coj tsis zoo thov txhob yuav vim yeej mob tiag li kuv los thov qhuas tus txiv hlob no uas koj musj lub siab hlub ncaj ncees thov ntuj foom koob Hmoov rau nej tsev neeg nawb mog
@penelopecabana88343 жыл бұрын
I don't know why she's bragging about how great her life is. First of all, she was brain wash that it's OK for her husband to have a 2nd wife. Why hmong woman always worship and put their man in a pedestal. That's not even a love relationship, sound more like it's a contract to be together. I hate this kind of story that is not equal right.
@solomoua55203 жыл бұрын
You think you are better!!! 🤫
@bluewhisper50083 жыл бұрын
Agree.
@beethao41453 жыл бұрын
Lol, adapted to their environmental friendly, don't feel bad
@louher47943 жыл бұрын
Yes but she didn’t grew up in our time so a lot of women back then doesn’t think like we do now. She’s not promoting or bragging how great her life is but how big of a heart she has to accept and treat the other woman with love and respect and in return she also got respect and love from the other woman more than her husband giving it to her. You’re missing the whole point of this story.
@penelopecabana88343 жыл бұрын
@@louher4794 yes you're absolutely right. Thank you for making me understand better
@slor64852 жыл бұрын
Loved this story! Its so rare to have Niam loj and Niam yau get along. The husband did the right thing for allowing his Niam loj handle their life. Lots of props to these couple's!
@nagnag73543 жыл бұрын
Kj yeej hlub kj tu niam yau tiag2 hauv lub siab tiag
@chakatalee2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story ❤️
@whatheck67973 жыл бұрын
Would love to hear a story from a 1st and 2nd husband that share one wife under one rooftop 😏
@dub24653 жыл бұрын
Lol, love it n waiting for the day
@maiher11643 жыл бұрын
Wow! Grandma, you are amazing 👏❤. Only few people Can do what you do. ❤
@tshajlijhmoob98753 жыл бұрын
I believe there's txiv hlob txiv yau but story tellers refuse to tell. You should call may to tell those stories too.
@user-yn7rc6dt9p3 жыл бұрын
@@maiher1164 สวยน
@Rough-inevitable3 жыл бұрын
Yes im one and I love it. I will tell my story very soon watch for it ok im grandpa now
@enangthao850910 ай бұрын
What an amazing story. 1 in a million. Unfortunately, this isn't common and I still don't believe in polygamy.
@pkcyang29103 жыл бұрын
Lub neej li no tsuas yog xyoo 75 thiaj li xwb os niam tais aw. Yog txiv neej ua tsis tau siab loj ces peb yeej ua tsis taus thiab os. Hnub twg txiv neej ua taus siab loj rau pojniam yuav txiv yau thiab ces thiaj li ncaj ncees. Yus tus txiv yog yus nplooj siab yus yeej tsis lam kam share nrog leejtwg. Nws los nws yeej tsis kam share yus nrog lwm tus txiv neej
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
Her excuses is bullsh*t!! This grandma is sick thinking it's ok to practice polygamy because her life turned out great. What a great role model for her children and grandchildren. 🤢🤢
@pkcyang29103 жыл бұрын
@@maipha8560 😂😂😂 I think this is the only way for her since she didn't want to lose her husband. She have to cave in to his desire or risk losing him. Back in the days, divorcing him when you already have children would be frown upon by her neej tsa.
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
@@pkcyang2910 I also know many strong women who stands their ground and kick her cheating husbands to the curb who are from that generation. Their life actually turned out better because they stopped needing to be submissive to their cheating husband. Less mouths to feed and less drama to deal with. Excuses and this lady is weak sauce.
@pkcyang29103 жыл бұрын
@@maipha8560 she i do agree she's not strong to stay in this lifestyle.
@nagnag73543 жыл бұрын
Yog kj yeej hlub kj tu niam yau tiag 2 hauv kj lub siab tawm tuaj kj tsi muaj qhov nyiag siab thiaj haum li no niam yau thiaj hwm kj ne
@aliyang58273 жыл бұрын
One way to get second wife OG sometimes only works back in Laos.
@neejligtsab51793 жыл бұрын
Well" I'm gonna say it's their time and it's their lifestyle ok...it's not good for you"..and for me.but it's for them.and why?..you guys acting like it's your life? Comon...people...I'm sure they put all their times and Love and protect them self from the old way. Guys..
@kongfu90 Жыл бұрын
It be a gold mine to find a woman like this in 2023. 😊
@tsismuajhunbncaim3 жыл бұрын
This story reminded me of my step mom’s story. She was the first wife of my dad. She did not have and biological kids but loved us dearly. Listening to this story makes me miss her so much. My bio mom loves cannot compared to her love for me...😭😭😭😭
@dinayoung47973 жыл бұрын
tsismuajhunbncaim that is so sweet
@akungmo16213 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg lub neej niam loj niam yau yog los ntawm tus txiv coj rau 2 leeg thiaj los ntawm tus niam loj sib loj li niam yau thiab cov me nyuam 2 tog thiaj sib hlub
@tshuavpomkojzoosiab27183 жыл бұрын
Wow lady, just only you can share. Even in dreams still doesn't buy me. I might not leave him, but I'll never be the same to such man. Before I leave, I'll make sure he goes bold! Yes....evil me, but he deserves it...
@nkaujhmoobusa21163 жыл бұрын
Tsis zoo li os
@luemas27663 жыл бұрын
These types of story is rare. Glad to hear that it is possible to have two wife’s. But nowadays two wife’s is not ideal.
Zoo sab os Niam tais koj Yeej yog tu 1 kiag lawm mog
@tiachang43813 жыл бұрын
Big heart it mean ruam xwb I did big heart ❤ my husband & they family say I'm very ruam thiab tsis hlub my self Finally I have no big heart and no respect any one I love my self I don't care anyone
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
Girl, know your worth and know your non-negotiables. If you don't than you allow others to run your life and make decisions for you. It's not even about loving yourself, it's about knowing what you want and knowing when to cross that line in the sand. Stand your ground and don't be putting up with BS!
Hmoob npab nauj.. He’s the mastermind.. Please do not practice polygamy.
@NkaujSee-mg9ld Жыл бұрын
I don’t support this style of lifestyle but I applaud this author. She’s had to deal with the hand she’s given and made the best of it. Their times are different from ours now and we women won’t put up with this situation. She reminds me of my grandma. My grandma is a niam loj and was very patient and kind to her niam yau. We get along and love our niam yau’s children and grand children nowadays. There’s very few women like this woman & my grandma.
@leefamily60613 жыл бұрын
Niam tais you are 1 of few who can do what you did. I 👏 you.
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
Ewww...gross!! No 👏 from me. Justifying and making excuses for polygamy is not ok.
@leefamily60613 жыл бұрын
@@maipha8560 I don't agree with polygamy but I 👏 her for the goodness of her heart. I certainly will not allow that to happen for myself don't get me wrong
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
@@leefamily6061 goodness of her heart? Hmmm....what you permits, you promote.
@leefamily60613 жыл бұрын
@@maipha8560 she's able to care and love another woman children as her own, she's not bias.
@already_taken_003 жыл бұрын
Whatever excuses help you sleep at night I guess. 🤷🏻♀️ I on the other hand could never share.
@ntshawibtuglikoj3 жыл бұрын
Lub neej niam hlob niam yau zoo li no muaj tsawg2 os. Only a few life like this. Ntshe yuav tau ua siab loj seb puas zoo.
@lifewithbrayden91353 жыл бұрын
Wow koj siab dawj kawj, I can't do that. Lol
@mayxiong53733 жыл бұрын
This is a time that was loooong time ago when the ages and living experience was different than now. So listen or don’t but it’s her story.
@louyang73973 жыл бұрын
That old generation . Hoping our younger generation learn from older generation .
@dolavivoy51vivo863 жыл бұрын
Zaj neej neeg no Kuv nyaim tiag Tiag li
@shoualee88453 жыл бұрын
Hi thov qhua tu niam tsev no yog ib tug neeg siab loj thiab siab zoo thiaj li cov tau niam yaus los nyob ua ib tsev thov nej txhua tu txhob kam hai lus saib g tau tu niam tsev no nej cov poj niam yuav tau xyau ua ib tug niam tsev zoo li no nawb me niam tsev txhua 2 tu nawb
@chongly83513 жыл бұрын
Tus niam loj no siab ntev kawg thov qhuas nws.
@bchang2273 жыл бұрын
Oi! Tsuas yog nej cov niag pog laus thiaj ruam ruam taub haus loj loj es cia niag txiv dev muab nej tsuj cuag dev xwb os! Siab zoo npaum cas los thaum yus niag txiv dev tsis hlub yus lawm nyob tau dabtsis na? Mivnyuam tau txiv tabsis yus nev? Tag ib sim me neej no yus ua ib zaug neeg xwb tsim nyog mus nrhiav kom tau ib tus hlub hlub yus! Nrhiav kom tau ib tus kav ib tus es tsis txhob nrog luag sib txeeb qau!
@dolliilov31443 жыл бұрын
I only liked this video because of May. NOT because of this woman's life. I want my man ALL to myself! 🖒
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 one man is enough, some of them are worst than children. Too much headaches to deal with. This grandma is sick. She needs help. This story made me 🤮🤮
@angielo063 жыл бұрын
Agree with you, the story is sick. How can you siab loj to someone that cheated on you.
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
@@angielo06 this story have the wrong name. Siab loj only to help people who are in need. Practicing polygamy crossed over being sick and siab phem. This grandma needs all the help she can get to undo this stuff she learned thinking it's ok. She thinks it's so great that she desired the same life in her next life. 🤢🤢🤮🤮
@lifewithbrayden91353 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more.
@magicalunicorn58533 жыл бұрын
Her lesson is: she’s been brainwashed into believing this illusion, but we do not sleep under their bed. When my father married a second wife (here in America). My mother put up a strong front and was “nice” in public to others to keep my dad’s rep. But deep inside her heart, I saw how it destroyed her belief in love, her depression, her will to live and the hardship she endured. It’s just an illusion.
@callaflower2333 жыл бұрын
Koj yeej yog ib tug neeg zoo kawg li os tiam sis qhov koj lam ua siab loj thiab uv ua ib lub neej niam hlob niam yau vim yog koj tsis muaj peev xwm tso koj tus txiv xwb. Txiv neej Hmoob ces thaum xav tau ntau tus ces yeej paub paub ntxias thiab hais txua yam kom poj niam kom poj niam yeem.
@mayloutxiachaheu99153 жыл бұрын
Koj lub siab zoo2 es yav laus no ntuj thiaj tso koj tus txiv rov los rau koj so quav so zis
@kayang46603 жыл бұрын
Cov niam txiv no yeej coj tau zoo kawg lawm tab sis peb hmoob cov muaj niam hlonmb niam yau coj tau zoo li no ces tsua muaj 10% xwb os dua li ces cov sib txeeb txiv thiab lub neej xwb os.
@zk-ch3es Жыл бұрын
Neb 2 tug no khij xuaj heev nawb
@niamqhuanruagyaj49332 жыл бұрын
Vim yuav tu niam yau lo ce txawmj muaj me tub lawm ce yeej yog vim txoj hmoo ntawm tu niam yau thiab ho
@kevincvang3 жыл бұрын
I'm sure they sometime have fought (rog quav dev) in between all those years.
@oppopsl46003 жыл бұрын
Yog poj niam li poj niam lub siab me2 ti2 txhua yam ngob ntawm tus txiv seb nws ua puas taus txiv xwb yog hais tias nws ntawj coj ces yeej zoo xwb tab sis v xav tias cov txiv coj tau li no mas v xav tias muaj tsawg heev thov qhuas tus txiv tsev no nawb Ho txiv no thiaj tseem2 yog txiv neej yawg tiag nawb.......... Nej Txhob cem2 3 tug niam txiv no nawb nej yuav tsum xav hais tias yog nej nes nej twb ua g tau li lawv ua tab v kiag Los xyov v ua puas tau li lawv 3 tug niam txiv thov qhuas nej mog 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@mv.3dfsm7153 жыл бұрын
Tej lau ib txwm tia hlua taw kub txog luag hau toj ce yu zoo saib kawg tiam si thaum ho kub lo txog yu hau toj seb yu ho yuav zoo li ca peb ua neeg nyob thaum yu tau ib lub niag neej zoo li no lawm ce kawg sib uv sib zam txim ce yog qhov zoo xwb
@minecraftboy26763 жыл бұрын
I just hate a husband who has too many wives no matter how much they all get together!!!
@nouvyaj2 жыл бұрын
It is rare to have the heart this Niam loj has. The love they share with everyone including the kids you don't see these individuals often. What a blessed heart she has.
@tongher89123 жыл бұрын
Kuv mas nyiam noog cov neej neeg ua zoo li no tshaj plaws li kuv mas ntshaw tshaj plaws li kuv lub neej tsis zoo li no kuv tu siab kawg tab sis tsi ua cas kuv nrog nej zoo siab os
@kalvinhawj13593 жыл бұрын
Dhuav cov neej niam hlob niam yau no tiag2 li lau. Tib cov neeg tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws xwb.
@starlingxiong68493 жыл бұрын
Ruam xwb luag twb mus yuav ib tug los caij rau tus ntsia Es nim tias sib hlub ntuj aw..
@geuher73153 жыл бұрын
Lab lab khub niam hlob niam yau tsuas muaj nej khub no xwb thiaj txawj coj os tus txiv txawj 2 tug niam los mloog lus txawj sib hais thiab thiaj li zoo
@emilyherr53523 жыл бұрын
Thov qhuas nej 3 niam txiv coj sib haum thiab txawj sibhlub. Tsawg tus thiaj coj tau li no xwb.
@maylyxiong89513 жыл бұрын
Emily herr Yeej yog li koj hais kawg. Tab sis yuav yog tus txiv txawj coj thiab yuav tsum yog tus niam yau txawj hwm tus niam loj thiab yuav tsum yog tus niam loj los nws coj zoo thiab os. Kuv tus niam laus thiab kuv txiv laus nkawd kuj muaj niam yau thiab, tab sis mas lawv yeej txawj sib hlub sib haum zoo nkaus li zaj nov thiab hos.
@hmooblor13 жыл бұрын
nej pheej txawj2 sib hlub es txiv neej hmoob thiaj tsis tseg txoj kev no li ne.
@gigisong813 жыл бұрын
I cant live this life BUT I can say that it's good they aren't toxic with each other. Esp with the kids around. The fact that he didn't allow for games or arguing etc. That's rare
@zoolikuv3 жыл бұрын
Though the time now is different from 50 years for many Hmong people, but looking back to the "niam yau" era, tus niam loj siab zoo ces yog koj. Niam loj txawj coj ces niam yaus feem ntau yeej yuav txawj fwm thiab. Glad it worked out for your and your family.
@caaspasvang74273 жыл бұрын
Wow niam tsis Aw zoo kawg mas yeej yog nej txhua tus zoo ib yam es thiaj ua tau ib lub neej ua ke os
@ntujlubkuamuag20503 жыл бұрын
Why does she make it sound like these kind of marriage is soo good. I find it disgusting.
@allisonlee87483 жыл бұрын
Yeej tsis muaj leej twg siab loj tau os. Tsuas yog lub neej yuam lawm xwb os.
@pailor22963 жыл бұрын
Ntuj aw tus niam tais aw hauv lub ntiaj teb no ces saus rau koj ib leeg thiaj ua tau txoj hauj lwm no xwb os thov qhuas koj nawb
Ntuj txiv neej txoj kev siab loj quav dev. Peb cov pojniam siv siab loj seb nej yuav puas tau os
@maiher91303 жыл бұрын
Nyob zoo os niam ntsuab teev Tej zaj neej neeg zoo li no kuv thov nug koj tias ua koj ne koj puas yuav ua tau raws li zaj no thiaj os
@mosvaj13853 жыл бұрын
Mloog mas nej lub neej niam Hlob niam Yau yeej txawj sib hlub kawg li. Cov uas ua niam loj niam Yau sib haum ces tsawg2 xwb tabsis tej zaum kuj yog tus txiv txawj coj tabsis yog hais txog qhov pw 1 txiag ces kuv tsis kam thiab tsis nyiam vim qias neeg thiab txaj muag heev
@maylee11183 жыл бұрын
Yuav yog koj tus Txiv coj ncaj li no xwb os...yog siab phem li ib txhia Txiv neej ces ces yeej tsis haum li mas....
@pajcibthoj38243 жыл бұрын
Aj.......hmoog zaj no tag ce zoo li kuv cia li yuav mu ua niam yaus tiag ho...vim tu niam loj sab tom yeeej tsi chim thiab yeej kam lawm yeej coj zoo zoo lawm ne....55555555555
@yeevue9343 жыл бұрын
Koj tus txiv tseem hlub koj xwb yog nws tsis hlub koj lawm koj yeej ua kom koj muaj kev tu siab muaj kev chim yog los ntawm tus txiv xwb
@Mai1nOnly3 жыл бұрын
Props to her for being able to fit it all in her life. If that was now lorrddd I doubt she be able to be as calm as she was.
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
This grandma is sick. Promoting polygamy is her story because it worked out so perfectly. I'm sure her children and grandchildren have learned so much from her that they will continue the tradition. 🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
@Mai1nOnly3 жыл бұрын
@@maipha8560 agree! basically saying if I can survive my husband having a second wife you can to. Now if all their son have a second wife there’s nothing the first wife can say because their father in law did it.
@magicalunicorn58533 жыл бұрын
I’m sure her pillow is soaked with tears wondering how it feels to be fully loved by one person. They put up a great strong front but deep in their hearts there is a human nature longing to be the only important person in your spouse’s life. - speaking from one who’s was the oldest daughter to a mother who’s husband married a 2nd wife. I saw my mother’s front and also her heartache.
@maiyang2106 Жыл бұрын
If listen all the way to the end of the story she said that this kind of life is to end there and only be hers, her husband, and the 2nd wife and that the kids should not live their life like the old people. She just wanna tell a story about her staying positive and I believe for her sake and her health instead of letting it affect her and live a life full of bitterness and pettiness.
@molor34 Жыл бұрын
Kuv xav kom kuv tus txiv yuav ib tug niam yau mloog lus li no los rau kuv tau txib thiab. Me nyuam coob, tau gifts ntau xwb.😂🎉
@hlubyang40723 жыл бұрын
Neb mas yog tu txiv coj ncaj nawb....cov tsis sib haum yog tu txiv coj tsis ncaj....ib txhia txiv neej es tseem nyiag niam loj tej khoom pub rau tu niam yau es niam loj tsis paub zoo li no es ua cas sib haum...tej yam qab qab es niag txiv xam xam tsis pom niam loj mam li nyiag cev rau niam yau noj tu txiv zoo li no mas tsis haum li lau
@gaoshenxyooj99473 жыл бұрын
I’m not interesting to this story.
@zouayang8153 жыл бұрын
Sister koj lucky es neb tau ib tug txiv coj ncaj nruab nrab ntug es neb thiaj li sib haum os.
@vivolaos63233 жыл бұрын
Kj hais neej neeg tau 4.5 xyoos no es niam qhuav muaj 2 los 3 zàj thiaj sib haum xwb
@yx68893 жыл бұрын
I truly hate these stories, good for you, but no, I am not having it.
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
Same here. I didn't learn anything other than these ladies are sick and making excuses to continue practicing polygamy. Make me 🤮🤮🤮 when I listen to this story. They set up such great example of a polygamy life that I'm sure their children will continue their practices.
@maryyang56463 жыл бұрын
Exactly. So old fashion. 😪
@maivue2843 жыл бұрын
@@maipha8560 maybe she feel obligated to love and respect the second wife because she feel she was blessed by the second wife and had two sons. Because before the second wife came into their life she didn’t have any sons. So maybe she felt it was the second wife’s hmoov that helped her to have sons..??? Just my thought...
@maipha85603 жыл бұрын
@@maivue284 please! Just excuses to continue the practice of polygamy. Children are gift sent from the Heaven, I don't think it works that way. If that's the case, anyone who doesn't have children or only girls or boys would've married a 2nd wife. Oh, how about the men who can't have children, I expect their wife to marry multiple husbands so they can have children. I hate polygamist and I don't care about the excuses, I want women to be treated with respect and dignity. Marrying multiple wives is not to benefit the women but suppression over women. We deserve more than that. That's my 2 cents. ✌️
@maivue2843 жыл бұрын
@@maipha8560 yes totally agree with you. I, for one do not agree on polygamy as well. I’m not saying it’s right but just saying maybe that’s how she feels.
@hmoobdawb70283 жыл бұрын
Oh......ntuj aw lub neej lwj siab no ces yog niam hlob niam yau xwb kuv tseem hluas2 kuv twb tau ua niam loj dhuav tshaj plaws los pheej yuav tau nyob los vim hlub me nyuam dhau yog lwm tiam muaj tiag li lawv hais kuv tsis thov ntsib yog nws los ua neeg rau lub ntiaj teb no lawm ces kuv yuav tsis kam los tos nws los ua nws thib tag kuv mam los yog kuv los ua neeg lawm tsis pub nws los kuv dhuav tshaj ua rau kuv cia li xav tias ib tsoom txiv neej lub siab phem ib yam nkaus xwb no ua ib siab nyob tsis muaj tus hlub los thiaj tsis tos lawm xwb tiag hmoob......
@tongyang63143 жыл бұрын
Wow....neb txawj sib hlub kawg li os...kheev lam cov niam hlob niam yau lam txawj sib hlub lu nej xwb ntshe yuav zoo heev li os...nrog nej zoo siab kawg li os 👏👏👏
@nraugzoovwj96383 жыл бұрын
Nej yeej siab loj, txawj sib coj, Sib zam, sib yoog kg lawm thov qhuas nej... yog coj tau li hais ces zoo xwb ntag nawd... txawm tug kav tug los yeej yuav tau ua Siab loj thiaj haum
@yeephengthao61723 жыл бұрын
Xav kom kuv 2 tug siab loj li no
@sueher45633 жыл бұрын
Don't know how these two ladies share this man God only made a man for a woman
@Hotlips69ization3 жыл бұрын
Wow! So much hatred. Most men with 2 wives is not equal to both that's why there's conflicts. If she is happy with her lifestyle than just be happy for them.
@kazouaher24963 жыл бұрын
Tus viv ncaus qhov koj hais ko yeej yog thiab. Tab si yuav tsum yog tus txiv txawj coj ncaj thiab tus niam yaus yuav tsum coj ncaj tsi txhob txeeb 2 cob 2 tus txiv lub neej thiaj li yuav zoo li ko.
@ibleejniamtsevzoo2753 жыл бұрын
Good for you that you are able to shared your man. We women do not deserve to be walked on. Once he step outside the marriage its consider he's dead to me. Sorry not sorry.
@maivang18723 жыл бұрын
Tus niam loj no zoo kawg li os.
@thedark-_-lord82853 жыл бұрын
This was the lifestyle back in that poor country called Laos our parents and great grandparents once claimed as their birth country. Back in those time- polygamy, poverty, survival mode exist. Its almost like you need each other to survive in those harsh environments. So this woman condition herself to accept her situation and make the best out of it. Good for her. However- today plse no more polygamy. We are in a new world, new society, new way of thinking. It will be too embarrassing to explain for our children this types of practice.
Koj uv tau vim tias yuav niam yau loses koj thiaj muaj tub ces koj yuav tsum tau Fwm niam yau tshaj plaws nawb , muaj niam yau los cawm nej lub neej
@padeexiong3 жыл бұрын
Props to her.... i can only imagine how uncomfortable it was to xxx while the other women was laying there too. Lol.
@yunothoj3 жыл бұрын
As an only child, I wouldn't mind being a kid in this family. But as a spouse, this is not realistic, especially nowadays.
@maimoua13713 жыл бұрын
Hihi tej me ntxhais hmong txheej no g siv lub meej mom siab loj lawm txhob txob2 tuaj tham raug cov hluas muab nej thuam os OG g prefer 6 cov young generation lawm
@waherlee57273 жыл бұрын
Ob tug niam tsev no ntshe txiv neej tas lawm thiaj sib koom ib tus txiv xwb thiab tus txiv neej no thiaj yog txiv neej xwb ho
@youtubingdiva3 жыл бұрын
Kev muaj niam hlob niam yau is one of the things I dislike about our Hmong culture but in this case, she’s able to accept it and seems like she’s somewhat also benefiting from the relationship. This is a case where we all gave different opinions so we’ll just have to agree to disagree and carry on our own lives and let them be happy in their own lives.
@yogkuv72183 жыл бұрын
Zoo siab qhov nej txawj sib hlub
@angielo063 жыл бұрын
Tus mi niam tsev aw sim neej no tsis muaj ib tug neeg twg yuav siab loj taus li os tabsis kuv ntseeg tau hais tias koj siab loj vim koj tsis muaj txoj hauv kev lawm xwb lub neej no yus tus txiv mas yog yus nplooj siab. Leejtwg yuav yus tus txiv ces tus ntawv ntag laub yog yus tus yeeb ncuab os mog.