It's not a leader. It's about partying and having fun. A leader is to set a good example and not about partying 🤦♂️ Most Hmongs phaj tam is about partying that's it!!!
@maipha85602 жыл бұрын
And wasting $$$$ and themselves.
@riivang93402 жыл бұрын
Agree with this lady. When my dad was one of the clan leader, he insisted my mom to make seafood dishes for all his friends that came to our house. Like wtf dude?! We are not rich!
@tophatmellon57392 жыл бұрын
Hahaha right......and they have respect for the wife b cuz they go around using the title to cheat only!
@maipha85602 жыл бұрын
If this was me, it'll be potluck style. If no one bring anything, I guess no one is eating. Sorry not sorry.
@ialee32172 жыл бұрын
I hate that lifestyle 🤬
@hmoobxwb71192 жыл бұрын
For sure Hmong people want to get a face and praises for serving their guests
@slsl6453 Жыл бұрын
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@msgnay61932 жыл бұрын
Wow just wow. Sometimes these Hmong OG's are a joke!
@igotsheeps2 жыл бұрын
This are not og at all they are 35 to 50 years old
@7stars2love2 жыл бұрын
Feel sorry for cov niam tsev hmoob thawj coj. Txiv tsev ruam tsab ntse pluag tsab muaj los ua nom ces kawg li no xwb tiag.
@lisvaj73752 жыл бұрын
Someone previously said while Hmong women and girls want to be Judges, Doctors, Olympic medalist, Hmong guys and boys just want to be clan leaders and Pha-thans 😂. This story is a perfect example.
@saibuakevlomzem8282 жыл бұрын
Only traditional Hmoob txiv neej want to be npab tham. Modern girls/women want to be judges, doctors, Olympic medalists; traditional Hmoob poj niam have the goal to be the submissive and loyal wife like this lady have been to her irresponsible, disrespectful, and egotistical husband.
@maipha85602 жыл бұрын
Good thing about the two is the careers Hmong women are in/chase after pays well and worth the investment. The other one, waste of time and $$.
@leexiong57412 жыл бұрын
Cov nov ua kom hluas nkauj nyiam xwb nas. Cov ua pab thas hom no yog pab niag alcoholic thiab pab niag liam tshaj plaws. To destroy these people, vote them to be clan president this, president that.
@iforgotmyscreenname12 жыл бұрын
This fool wasn't elected to be a leader/phathaan, he was elected to pay bills. When they ask who's gonna pay the bills, all the smart men took one step back while this fool stand still. And they says, "Look, you pay for it and we'll call you - the leader (laughing their butts off)."
@ouradventuresnspecialmoments2 жыл бұрын
Wowzers...the Golden life of Hmong Clan Leaders...SMH Hmong Clan Leader title is Overrated!!!
@evabhmongocadventure98312 жыл бұрын
Crazy man he doesn’t know how to be a leader. Being a Hmong leader this country you don’t make money but spend money
@maipha85602 жыл бұрын
That's why you should limit your self and know what you can/can't do.
@zouayang2932 жыл бұрын
Yog ..kawg.. os txoj kev thiab txhais khau ko kuv twb Ua lawm Yeej yog li koj hais kawg peb cov poj niam hmoob mas tshuav nqi rau cov txiv Neej loj rshaj plaws. Li os..
@Lea-qm1rm2 жыл бұрын
If you’re going to lose everything in your life, what’s the point of being a leader and advising people?
@yl74952 жыл бұрын
For recognition that is worthless
@Gurlhmong2 жыл бұрын
I don’t get it either…. Are these men blind and trying to fool themselves. Like the little attention they get raises their little ego or something. It baffles my mind but I’ve met a few Hmong men like this. 😳🙄
They only leader know to eat and drink, not to lead.
@maivlee76632 жыл бұрын
Don't care for the life or reputation of a clan leader at all. Nope! You are more a bank/free entertainment and servant instead.
@maylee77452 жыл бұрын
Why do people want to be a clan leader so bad? What is the benefit for them besides have a big face?
@bchang2272 жыл бұрын
Nothing. Absolutely NOTHING.
@TMoua792 жыл бұрын
Instead of being a clan leader, be a leader within your four walls. Love your wife and love your children. Everything else, will fall in place.
@yl74952 жыл бұрын
It’s all about appearances for these so-called leaders.
@norrisxiong96602 жыл бұрын
Kev ua ib tug coj ntawm kwv tij tsis yog koj lub Life, kev cog phooj ywg ntawm ib tug thawj coj tsuas siv li 20% xwb, 80% yog kev los pov puag thiab ua ib tug qauv zoo rau cuab kwv tij thiab koj tus niam tsev.
@morhang27032 жыл бұрын
Tau tej tug txiv li no ces kawg txom nyem
@lateeyanglateeyang19852 жыл бұрын
Lub neej li no ce tu siab tshaj plaws os mog tus txiv coj li ko ce lub neej thiaj tsi nce tes os ku. Ib yam os
@luvinniceboxers2 жыл бұрын
This one should be titled, "Tsis yog ua 'Pab Thas', yog ua 'Poob Tag' xwb!" LOL
@SL-pk6lg2 жыл бұрын
😄😂🤣 good title suggestion 👍
@jackieyunan48992 жыл бұрын
Koj siab me dhau lawm... cov pob tha yeej muaj koob nto npe hos...
@7stars2love2 жыл бұрын
Cov nkauj nrab uas tseem nrhiav txiv, mloog zaj neej neeg no ces ceev faj cov txiv pab tha yawg nrauj nawb.
@morthao27912 жыл бұрын
Koj hais yog kawg li sister aw
@maryly092 жыл бұрын
He's so stupid. The only reason why your people love u being pab tha so much is bc you are treating them and spending so much money on them. He will realize that people will only love you as long as you have money and can benefit them.
@aquariuslady72152 жыл бұрын
I'll be like "Bye Felicia".... ignorant husband.
@hliyaj12202 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing sister. It takes a lot for people to learn and let of earthly titles. You have learned it but your husband still has a long way to go. I am glad my husband is not title hunger. We live a life of peace just our small family.
@shuemengschiamahr92992 жыл бұрын
Hmoob txoj kev xav tau ntsej muag xav tau fwj chim ces zoo li no. Ruam tiag tiag. Hmoob txoj kev vwm fwj chim thiab vwm xav tau ntsej muag thov too tseg thiab lau.
@xaihlub342 жыл бұрын
Ok… there needs to be some kind of class to take and pass to be a hmong wanna be pa tha. These new generation kids got no time for that kind of dumb title position to rule hmong community.
@nlifexiong54972 жыл бұрын
Tau ib tug txiv tsab muaj li no ces yeej ua neej nyuaj
@alanfreeman65082 жыл бұрын
I knew a few Hmong Pab Tha that been in jail a few time for DWI .
@zhangthor9122 жыл бұрын
Hmoov tsis duav los ua nom ces tau npe los poob peev lwj siab li no yom.
@seanmoua68102 жыл бұрын
Lessons: 1. Old ideas are not compatible with the new family life and community. 2. To change and adapt, one must be willing to learn. A fool thinks that he/she knows it all. I like to see more of Hmong women become the leaders of our community. They are more flexible and willing to learn and change. Thanks for sharing your story. Soon all these will pass. We need a leader who has a well balanced life.
@sialo79142 жыл бұрын
Peb cov txiv neej hmoob ntse rov qab li no mas muaj coob heev li. Yog raug rau tus niam tsev twg lawm ces yuav hais lus nyuaj.
@herko3112 жыл бұрын
Txawj Ua phata ces zoo, txhua tus qhuas. Tsis txawj Ua ces Ua neej pluag
@lateeyanglateeyang19852 жыл бұрын
Yoglawm os lub neej li ko ce nyuab siab tiag2 li os
@nploojzeeg52062 жыл бұрын
Hahah txhob rhuav rhuav peb cov txiv tus pab thaas na
Wow. A story to learn from. That was a lot of debt acquired.
@tswjntug23462 жыл бұрын
Neeg ruam tsab ntse xav tau koob tau npe ces yog koj tus txiv no ntag.Hmoob pab tha yog tib co ruam ruam qauj xav xav khwv pob txha xwb, luag tej neeg txawj ntse tsis coj tsis ua li nej cov neeg hlwb ua rwj no. Shit quav dev tiag tiag koj tus txiv no nas.
@ThePrincessWorrior2 жыл бұрын
Kawg mus ua zog zov xas, txiav xas thaum ua pab than tag xwb tiag. Leadership is gain, build up, then taken, NOT given to, people. It’s sad how these people take that as a shortcut chance to get fames, because they aren’t willing, don’t want to, and/or don’t know how to build themselves up in order to step into that leadership platform and be successful. So they bought their way to a short fame and then failed miserably.
@yawgnraujtsismuajxeem79382 жыл бұрын
Life of pathan mean money grow on tree like there no life tomorrow
@Karena3122 жыл бұрын
Your husband love others and respect others more than his own family.
@nawonny7622 жыл бұрын
787886
@kershengvang30182 жыл бұрын
Cas yuav ntshaw lub npe pab tha ua luaj li os. Do all that and sacrifice all that just to show off. Lawv hais tias neeg pluag tsab muaj no ces zoo li no tiag. Damn damn.
@tenglee20302 жыл бұрын
Cov txiv neej tsis muaj kev kawm ua thawj coj ne, Cov txiv neej sawv tom hav nyom los ua tus coj ces zoo li koj niam txiv tiag viv ncaus.
@nkaujhmoobkhosiab22662 жыл бұрын
Cov txiv pluag tsab muaj ,ntxub tiag li
@xiongvang15812 жыл бұрын
Why is this so true about all the pab thas in America lol 😂
@tswvvaj2132 жыл бұрын
peb hmoob txom nyem vim peb hmoob txj kev xav zoo li tus txiv tsev no vim yg nws g hlub nws tsev neeg nws hlub tus sab nrauv xb mhoob thiaj txom nyem thov hloov kev xav thiab kv mloog xb kv twb Dhuav lawm tsuav yog hais qhov noj li noj xb
@kalor13252 жыл бұрын
Pab tha haus cawv xwb vim lub teb chaws nov peb tsi need pab dev lawm vim peb muaj nom tswv meskas lawm . Xu siab rau hmoob cov pab dev heev
@brendayangvang97562 жыл бұрын
Nej lub neej ntshaw pab thas nyob meca teb no ma mloog tau dhuav Tiag2, ua tau pab thas dev plhu ntsuav quav dev tseem muaj nqis dua
@nhungvaj95822 жыл бұрын
Tsiv neej feem coob yeej ntxhaw lub koob npe lawv yeej sav ua neeg pluag tsab muaj
@leexiong15892 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for you sister, tu txiv coj li no kv tsi yuav kv nraug tawm nawb
@phonghuongvu38872 жыл бұрын
Yog tau tus thaub zoo li no ces neej kawg tawg xwb
@kouavang59282 жыл бұрын
Muaj coob tus niam pabtha tham tib yam, thuam lawv cov txiv pabtha. Tiam sis muab xyuas zoo zoo los, yeej yog tim cov pojniam xav muaj ntsej muag thiab. Twb muaj ib cov niam pabtha zoo, lawv yeej muaj peev xwm kav tau cov txiv pabtha coj zoo. Koj yog tus niam pabtha tsis txawj kav
@jaethao8862 жыл бұрын
This guy is too smart 😂
@seethoj20822 жыл бұрын
Twb yog koj siab ntev dhau os. Kuv tus no ces ua lub bye bye lawm lau
@dejntshiabhawj82242 жыл бұрын
Cas yuav ntshaw ua tus coj ua luag os txiv dev aw!! Ua tus coj mas yuav zoo Senator Fue Hawj, Tou Xiong lawv pob. Khav ua cov dev quav cawv xwb
@tsiamoua22352 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg li ua txiv dev xwb
@nkaujntxuamyaj74862 жыл бұрын
Yog yus hmoov tsis sawm ua tus coj ua ces lub neej tsis nce lub neej yuav puas tsuaj.. Tus hmoov sawv ua tus coj ua mus lawm yam twg los yam zoo nce nqib zuj zus xwb
@callaflower2332 жыл бұрын
The clan is supposed to contribute towards all food and activities... not rely on the leader to pay for everything. Your husband cares too much about making a name for himself and saving face.
@NpisVwjNeejYias2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha, lub neej ua patha. Kuv cov kwv tij mas txhawb tas zog kom kuv ua, kuv tsuas hais tias leej twg xav nrov ces kav tsij ua xwb hos kuv ces tsis xav nrov.
@debbieyaj46422 жыл бұрын
Yog koj tsis nrauj thaub ko ces koj lub neej tsua muaj txom nyem ua neej tsis nce tes li luag
@meexiong70262 жыл бұрын
Nyob teb chaws meskas no yog leej ua pab tha ntau ces lub neej tas tes xwb
Leadership is actions n not position. Ur husband let the title go to his head n forgot everything else that’s important- you n the children. How sad u must’ve felt everyday. Stay strong n live for urself n ur children
@chowe34942 жыл бұрын
Tus txiv coj li ko ces kawg pluag
@bliathao58782 жыл бұрын
Ua ca yuav muaj tej zaj niag neej neeg tshav siab thiab mob taub hsus dhau lawm os lawv aws
@Gurlhmong2 жыл бұрын
The husband is a joke. He think people really respect him and so he pretend to have money when he can’t even house his family. The wife is just as guilty, being an enabler and allowing him to do this for so long. He couldn’t have done much without the wife working a second job and supporting him… she should’ve been smart and left sooner.
@SL-pk6lg2 жыл бұрын
She's not an enabler. She was a victim.
@tommytalkshows22372 жыл бұрын
Niam Ntsuab Teev, Hmoob cov Patha uas hmoob tsa los pab Hmoob no nyaj tsis muaj nosing li Koj puas tus patha no no
@kengyang19252 жыл бұрын
Cov txiv zoo li no tsis yog ib tug thawj coj tseeb nws yog ib tug uas xav ua koom tau koob tau npe xwb. Nco ntsoov hais tias muaj koob nto npe pab tsis tau peb them peb tej bills. Cov tseem yuav los ua thawj coj los thov txhob ua zaj no lawm txog txij yus los ua ib tug coj yus lub peev xwm yuav tsum koob yus mus rau qhov zoo thiaj ua tau thawj coj zoo. Cov phooj ywg los yuav tau paub cai thiab txhob hauj dej hau cawv txog qhov yuav ua rau yus pluag thiab neej puas. Kev hlub kev pab kev phooj ywg tseeb tsis yog los ntawm dej cawv.
@kathyher14162 жыл бұрын
Cov txiv ua pob tham ces muaj2 nplus ces nyiaj yeej pob tag ua rau yu tseem npluag tau nawb
Viv ncaus aw kj niag txiv ko ce yg kiag kv niag li ntag ua 6 kv tshuav txoj sia lawm xb los ib ziag nw tseem mu ib tug meb cab 6 nplog teb lawm thb os
@yeebntshachannel92542 жыл бұрын
Tus zoo li ko yog tus txiv pob tha pluag tsab,muaj xwb os
@tsiamoua22352 жыл бұрын
Yog ua plus xwb qhuav dev xwb
@xmeivaj69762 жыл бұрын
Hahaha cant wait to hear this one🤣🤣🤣
@xsm832 жыл бұрын
NOPE! I will never cater to bs like that. I will not be with a husband who chooses that lifestyle too.
@maileex42092 жыл бұрын
I personally will not respect any man if this is how he wants to act as a clan leader or president. He gets cussed out instead of respect. Respect is earned not given.
@Gazalle122 жыл бұрын
pride, prestige, power are the Fall of Man.
@kathyher14162 жыл бұрын
Tu me niam tsev aw txoj ke ua pob txag ces nyiaj yeej pob tag lo mas vim tij txoj niag ke ua pob thag ntag kuv twb mag ib yam li koj . Vim yu txiv yeej tsi care txog tia u muaj lo npluag lub neej ma chim siab tsaj nawb leej twg tsi nyiam u ts care txog kiag ua ntau ces npluag tiag o nawb
@nkaujntse51962 жыл бұрын
Ob niam txiv cias tus ruam los coj vim nws yog txiv neej ces kawg khaub hlab
@pagxyooj44502 жыл бұрын
Tau txiv tuav nyiaj ces lub neej mus g txog twg dhuav tshaj plawv tus txov tsev tuav nyiaj hauv lub cuab
@tengvang58282 жыл бұрын
Txiv neej xav muaj suab npe vim yog xav us hluas xwb os .
@korlor71412 жыл бұрын
Tus me niam tsev cas koj thiab kuv wb yog rau ib txhais khau os yom o
@lwmvwj48582 жыл бұрын
Zaj no yog pab tha noj thawj nqaig haus thawj caw ces tsis yog cov pab tha zaum hauv tooj cov hauv lus os
@daovang71482 жыл бұрын
Yuav tsis nyog lawm os koj niam aw
@kaxiong33182 жыл бұрын
I totally understand your frustrations, anger and disappointments. Honestly, I hate this lifestyle of eating and drinking (drunken people). We, wives uv and uv to the maximum of our marriages. Our community has gotten to be so horrible and disgusted by this lifestyle and partying (socializing & drinking) every weekend. I’m so sick of it! As we age, we don’t invest the future for retirement but go downhill.
@suelo6172 жыл бұрын
Cov li koj tus txiv no mas thiaj tsim nyog qhov sawv daws tsa los ua tus coj noj coj ua no ov vim thaum tsa yeej tias kom los coj noj thiab coj ua no ne hloov nawj hmoob lo lus coj noj coj ua no na
@ntaublor63632 жыл бұрын
Hmoob lub neej ua pab thas ces ua2 pluag tag vim tawm li tawm rooj xwb twb tsis khwv Noj khwv Haus li
@pameelee73432 жыл бұрын
Tus niam tsev kuv zaj ces yog kiag lis koj zaj thiab mas
@maimoua13712 жыл бұрын
Hmong cov txiv neej ces cas yuav ntshaw lub clan pabtha tshaj txhua yam even tus poj niam twb tseem yog second choiced qees feem ntau Hmong cov paj tha ces yog paj tha quav cawv quav bias etc qhov problem big ces yeej kawg nram meskas cai xwb
@hlubyang40722 жыл бұрын
Neeg tos neeg mas dhuav tshaj plaws
@meexiong70262 жыл бұрын
Cas ob lub txiv ntob ntoos daj lawm tsis de noj li na
@maryly092 жыл бұрын
I thought a pab tha is a clan leader in critical family situations and a representative of that specific clan. I didn't know a pab tha is a leader of a drunken group that gathers every weekend and eat and drink. Smh.
@ouradventuresnspecialmoments2 жыл бұрын
I know, right? Must be a new responsibility they added on for themselves to make them look important! 🤣
@yinglee40192 жыл бұрын
Hmong pab thas are leades that lead to quav dej quav cawv only
@kaciewanh19862 жыл бұрын
Ua "pabthas" nyob tebchaws no tsuas muaj poob peev & kom tau niamyau xwb. Tsis tsam dabtsi rau yus lub neej.
@gaosayvu65542 жыл бұрын
Hmoob mas yeej xav tau ntsej muag heev
@mosvaj13852 жыл бұрын
Koj yeej hais yog. Kuv tsis yog ib tug los kuv tsis ntshaw ua thiab tsis nyiam lawv lub lifestyle no. No thanks!. Thiab ib co Poj niam mas lawv yus txiv tau lub npe niam pab tha mas lawv tseem muaj2 phlus hais lus rau lwm tus niam tsev uas lawv tsis nyiam mas hais dub nciab cuag li uas lawv twb tuaj Thov nws mov, qiv nws Nyiaj dua lawm. Cov niam thawj coj zoo li no mas ntxim ntxub tshaj vim Luag twb tsis tau nqa tais nqa diav mus thov nws noj na es cas hais lus es hais saib tsis taus luag lwm tus es hais kom phim nws lub niag ntsej muag niam pab tha quav dev li thiab hos.
@pailor22962 жыл бұрын
Cov neeg mus ua tus coj yeej muaj plus tshaj plaw li yog nws muaj plus li koj tus txiv no mas txoj thaum kawg nws txom nyem ces kwv tij neej tsam haj yam tsis kes nws ib qhov me me li lawv yuav hais tias nws tsuas nros nws nruam thiab nws xav muaj plus xwb
@leexiong57412 жыл бұрын
Hmoob cov nom quav dev. Peb pab kwv tij cov ntshaw nom muaj coob leej zoo ib yam no thiab. These are not leaders; they are followers and loosers. Cov hlwb 75! This is how you destroy these loosers!
@chang35682 жыл бұрын
Hmong women have too much patient.
@maikouxiong77862 жыл бұрын
What a stress life.
@tongyang63142 жыл бұрын
Niag txiv zoo li ko yog koj muab nrauj kiag ces nws kawg tau nyob qab choj lawm xwb os....niag neeg pluag tsab muaj mas yeej ua neej nyuab siab os....
@sabdlawb2 жыл бұрын
Tseem muaj cov txiv dev hmoob liam2 li no thiab. Tuag mus zoo dua yog coj li no xwb os.
@denamoua72622 жыл бұрын
Vim nyob USA no UA nom ua pov that ces sib $ li nyiaj xwb peb cov raug UA tus coj Los lawm yeej paub zoo
@sayyang7672 жыл бұрын
Tuaj nyob Teb Chaws no es nes tseem muaj Pab Thas tiab los moob ruas ces yog nes cov no ntaj. Sister koj tug Txiv no yog koj cos mus rau Dr. muab nws lub tau hau pua mas nws tsi muaj hlwb nyob hau lis tias.