TAJI MADE MILLY WAJESUS CRY

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

Thanks a lot guys for watching todays video. Our heart goes out to all parents working hard to provide a better life for their children while doing their best to make time for them. It's not easy balancing the two. We pray that God grants you the energy and grace to balance all aspects of your life. We are in this together ❤️ Baraka ❤️

[@susanwangari242]

Baraka tooo

[@timanoikerore9913]

Yes she has a reason to feel that way especially when you expect to see your baby's reaction and not baby's alone even wife or husband I understand Milly correctly and I feel her, Milly it's very normal take it easy and all you're doing is for Taji plus I have to say mostly you've been there for him 🥰🥰🥰

[@joanmugo8006]

I don't want to think deep on this.

[@phyliskimani2260]

It's always hard in such situations n in line with my email i kindly request you recheck n give a reply,i understand Milly very well n i hope as taji grows his reactions will change for better.

[@barbralinnet1400]

Amen amen be blessed

[@marselladeteacher6727]

I can't forget my son's prayer...Dear God help mummy to be coming home early 😭😭😭😭and please bless her with a car....

[@doreennasike6298]

Awww .. that's my son's prayer too +so that we live with her😭😭

[@bobbyshanta3590]

Awww....amen to that prayer full of care🙏

[@sarahblessings2212]

Ameeeeen

[@jeyykeyy2279]

Left my kids at 1yrs na 2yrs for a job in Europe.. And I cried every time I visited home.. They've now grown 14 and 15 yrs... But I still miss and cry...

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you for sharing

[@Sallysalmakabii]

Utarudi uitwe aunty kama mimi

[@jeyykeyy2279]

@@THEWAJESUSFAMILY karibu..

[@jeyykeyy2279]

@@Sallysalmakabii it used to be so.. 😁 😁 😁 .. I now fly into kenya several times a year... Wamenijua sasa.. Teenagers already..

[@bethknight9159]

Hey Milly, my son now is 15 years old, we have never parted ways until he was 11 years old when I had to move to USA for green pastures, you can never be 100 % available but any time you have with him make it count, I never new I will leave my son, and now I cry every day but when I remember our past experiences and fun i smile coz I know I gave it all. At this young age,this is where memories are most made, so make use of them. Mich love.

[@lizzjosemmah9527]

It's indication that he is happy with people he is left with just thank God

[@ceciliaamor5877]

Yah true

[@ruthvar6429]

For any parent reading this i just want you to know that you are amazing and loved for always doing the best for you kids❤

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@maurynnmmoh]

Am in tears haki ..,only mums can understand ...,every morning when leaving for work and seeing my son crying ..,is the worst feeling ever 😪😪😪

[@pammurithi4331]

Taji is comfortable with her Nanny. That's one sign of knowing that your nanny is good.

[@janetboen3961]

Nop I don't agree, despite of tat the children always have a strong connection to his or her pare6

[@GillianGEdube]

I see it differently as well.

[@Alexis_Moraa]

Ye ndio anampea attention unfortunately.

[@judymensch]

That is 100% true 👍. I am with you on this💔

[@judithandole458]

Well said!! Yes

[@anonymousfm9636]

I remember listening to Janet mbugua's Interview sometime back as to why she left her job at the media houses and she said she had observed the way her son behaved when she got home and realized she was becoming a stranger to her kids..

[@phaniceachieng6142]

True

[@tabbyagata5979]

I remember

[@mbabazicharity2816]

True

[@sly6248]

I feel like that is a phase many children go through. Mine used to ignore me when i get back from work in the evening. Then after a while it ended on it's own....it is normal...keep assuring him of your love and be confident that you are doing a great job.

[@marionapiyo7785]

I cry daily but it's something I have to so especially being a single parent. God gives me the strength to carry on daily n I know one day I will be with him n will never have to leave

[@MsAlicia2009]

Travel with him and the nanny as much as u can. Sometimes we parents sacrifice alot, i remember crying every day when i had to go back to work after 3 months of maternity leave.

[@liliannyapolo8850]

I'm a stay at home mum and sometimes it feels like i'm useless not bringing money at the end of the month but after watching this; i don't regret.

[@trizamwangi3766]

Me too mpaka was falling into depression due to it......but nao I feel it's worth and feel more energized to take care of my munchkins ☺️

[@Kate_Janet_Ogalo]

I feel the same way too

[@joymwendekyengo8927]

Am stay at home mom too If you have a supportive patner just stay with the kids dnt look at what people will say or go with the trend just do you They will grow it's not like they are stagnant.thn we can chase the money For now let's make memories and raise our kids it will have a big impact on them in the long-run Not dissing The moms who work thou 🤗

[@queenbhatari5171]

I understand taji , I'd prefer mom to stay next to me ,

[@joanmugure2864]

Same here, sometimes you will look around ur home en feel if u were working,you could help around with this or that but then again everything has its reasons the right time will come.

[@misskaren7371]

Aiiish literally crying 😭 this is so emotional...trust you me Milly Nimekufeel

[@ruthvar6429]

I love how kabi is taking his place as a hubby and assuring milly that she is a good mum and she is doing a good job😭😭😭 You are doing a good job as parents 👏👏👏👏

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@rispermuchiri5544]

Woiye Milly Taji akona mahang over za Usiku.....hajakusahau Na hawezi kusahau....Baraka Meeen💖💖

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

amen

[@sylviawanjiru3888]

On a positive note..he is reacting like that because he knows and feels safe about your love for him..that's why kids that age throw tantrums or behave so ..so in essence it means he knows you love him unconditionally that's why he is expressing his feelings...that said I realised a long time ago children do not equate provision to love...love for them is about the memories you create and the time you spend together so normalise that.. I am kenyan living in UK and I quickly realised we hassle a lot and confuse that with meaningful time...here because there is no luxury of househelps you have to plan everything around your kids..your work your holidays etc you can't separate the two ...you normalise everything around your kids in your life..I have grown to enjoy the time spent with my kids and kujilelea... so just be brave he already knows he is loved now you just need to normalise your routines in a way that accommodates him

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@charity4908]

I just saw your note too🇬🇧

[@maryk4822]

Thanks alot,,, point taken

[@gladysmamatwins1019]

True

[@patriciakarani7401]

Well don't equate pro

[@nancykate7883]

Wow shedding my tears while ijust think you left for 3days and I'm away for 3yrs abroad 😭😭God protect our children

[@asumpter9697]

Ain't a mom yet but that was emotional. lesson learned. If it's possible u can take him along with his nanny to those vacations

[@wanjiruciru6237]

Especially around Kenya.

[@Africangyal]

I'm not a mum yet but this was real wah really touched me

[@gracemutua5151]

Maybe ni venye mmezoea kukaacha na anaona maybe hamna tym yake😢

[@Beingmaureen]

I have never commented before but I second this. He needs to spend more time with you people.

[@catekioko2908]

Best advice ever,,esp if it's within Kenya,, babies love what you give them most,yes you maybe working hard to provide a good future for him but he might end up loving the future you are providing more than you the parents,,,,it's just a kalesson he needs some extra time with mummy and daddy

[@felicitykathambi3023]

It makes alot of sense why mom's quit job for their kids..

[@anonymousfm9636]

I quit mine since my son was born am not sure if I can go back ..

[@demoraah6552]

I cried the moment Milly started crying...am a victim who's not staying with my kid I remembered alot may God hear my cry and answer

[@bobbyshanta3590]

Amen dear

[@EmmarArianah]

Me too

[@carolynewanjiru3072]

My prayers goes out to all the children who are left behind and mummies pass away leaving them without that mother's love coz it can never be compared to any other love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@annewambui8980]

Amen

[@margiejesterskitchen6964]

Mama T , hiyo wig tupilia mbali, Yu always look good with natural hair, braided or lines. Inakufanya mzee mamie. Mob love the wajesus

[@zeinababdi4711]

Ni ukweli,mob luv milly

[@annewambui8980]

May God protect us and our children back home us mum's who we go to gulf countries for greener pasture leaving our children back home for 2 to 3 years🙏🙏🙏

[@mhunja]

You have to make serious choices especially when they are young. I sacrificed a whole lot when they were younger that I may not loose them later. That meant less money in the account. Now that they are older in teenage and beyond, we are friends. It's not about balance, it about family. Tough I know, bit worth it.

[@miriamtshiko9578]

Wow.. did I just hear kabi say "Kengine kanakam?👏👏👏

[@winnieatieno1667]

I feel you Milly this is exactly how my daughter welcomed me after a four day work trip, she even cried and didn't want me to hold her. Have never been heartbroken 😭😭 like that day

[@astondayokakiembukazuri]

Manze. This hit me soo hard.. Am in saudi for 2yrs just started just to provide for my 2kids.. 😥😥am missing alot but God ata nisaidia tu

[@lynnet84]

Kids have feelings just like adults. Sometimes you just don't feel like for example hugging someone or doing something and this is same with kids. The boy didn't feel like it at that moment and that's okay, let him be. This doesn't mean he doesn't love or he didn't miss you while away. He did, he was just not in the mood. I think we should learn to respect how kids let out their emotions especially when they can't express themselves.

[@vivianchao9421]

l feel Milly cant believe av really cried with her,but now that leaving him behind is part of your job ,just have courage,and pray for him always and especially when a away

[@celestinejesire953]

This so inspiring. All along I thought I was alone and even thought maybe am being petty and weird but I now feel normal. God bless you The wajesus

[@naomykikky]

When I grow up I want to travel like these two.....That was so emotional 😭😭

[@catherinekaniaru7348]

This so emotional I can imagine ,wah knowing that I will get to see ma kids after 2 yrs from now cox of job ..bt it's nt that I would ave wanted to b far frm them bt circumstances do force someone to b away from them cox u want to provide for them,may God always protect our kids

[@sharonchemu27]

Taji decided to find love kwa toys coz mnaacha tu mkienda anytime, sit back relax n have time with taji😂😂

[@mercyshiro5808]

True and well said.I never left my kids when going any were bt i go wth the nanny so we can be free wth dad and hv fun!

[@mamakeesha1461]

This is exactly what happened when I came home after 1yr 3months to my daughter for her to call me, "YOU"not even,"mum."I cried.

[@maggyshish8353]

Now can you imagine I left my kids about three years now .how I miss to go back and to hug them 😭😭to spend time with them .but our God is faithful day itafika tu

[@jossypurity686]

😭😭😭I've really cried when I remembered I left my gal of 2yrs to go and hustle in Doha the first month I will make a video call and she would not talk to me yet am told she used to say mum left me 😭😭😭@milly wa Jesus hugs mami I feel you

[@eunicewairimu5015]

Taji is growing ameadapt culture ya kuachwa, amezoeana na Dm

[@bitywanjira1432]

It's natural Milly, I stay in Mombasa and my daughter's in Voi and am telling you sometimes I talk to them on phone and I cry Sana just imagining wato that far

[@nasrakibavu6227]

This video make me cry.. am abroad and my son is in my home country.. i do really miss him but i have to fight for his future.. sometimes when i talk to my son he refuse ..you make me cry 😭😭

[@bestjohna.]

This is inspiring young generation to get a family when the right time is there. Good content the WaJesus Family

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

Thank you Mr Keihuri

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@clairekardashan9665]

This particular Toy ina mambo,yaani Taji anaipa a 1000 % attention

[@lucygathingi9358]

My thoughts. It may be difficult to go with him everywhere coz he's still young and the change if climate.just create time with him na place zenye unaweza enda na yeye you can

[@Essybethuel]

Yes I agree with you.. And I believe Milly is a great mother.

[@brendahmercy6149]

This is emotional I’ve been away from my kid for more than 2yrs now and every time I talk to her on the phone I cry! I miss her sooo much and now coz of covid it’s hard to travel home!😭😭😭😭😭

[@hellenkirumia5715]

Am out for a month now and I can't wait to go back to my princess I feel you Milly,sometimes we can't go everywhere with our kids

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you for sharing

[@carolineanyanje2305]

You are lucky you are seeing Taji after 3 days iam in abroad for green pastures ana I miss my two babies 4 and 9

[@dikolizaskk5847]

1. You should be happy for him that he was looked over properly to am extent of not missing you 2. Give credit to the nanny she is doing a good job

[@lucykcira2189]

Ohh noo this has moved me into tears,how i miss my son but soon i know i will hold him in my arms

[@maureenskinuthia]

Create time for him aswell....love you guys🥰🥰

[@Que_kamba._]

Abeg abeg carry along Taji with you next time😭💚💚

[@thisismarge]

Aaww Milly don't worry. As someone who lives abroad I can tell you nobody forgets their pareents and siblings. They are always on your mind and heart.

[@estherkisibo3457]

Taji has best and kind nunny that's way he doesn't feel bothered with your absence you should be grateful

[@mamasrecipeshowdown2118]

One time i left my 3year old son behind for 3 days... When i came back he was asleep. When he woke up the nanny went picked him up and came with him... When i saw him.. i tried picking him up akakataaaa... He was clinging soo titely to the nanny and he refused me... I felt sooo hurt, i felt pain in my heart... I shed tears... I feel you Milly.

[@sharonmutuku2187]

ijust love you guys MAY GOD CONTINUE BLESSING YOU

[@nancybash1814]

He maybe just doesn’t know how to express his emotions… 3days is not long enough to forget you babes💕

[@joankanin3681]

Milly I can feel u,me hata I cry sijui how my last born wil react nlmuacha so young nitalia sana until hata talking on phone makes me emotional 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@osebegrace5002]

The wajesus nmesimama na nyinyi since day one the only gang fan from kisii ak sii mniokolee hata bandles za 50 tuu🙈🙈🙈 meanwhile the reminder is on😘😘😘

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@enidchelimo2160]

My reminder is on kama kawaida❤❤.watu wa primer gang tukutane huko kama kawaida. Si nawapenda sana 💕

[@korryization]

As a parent of adult children who are very busy with their lives, I am no expert. That said one VERY important lesson I have learnt is the important of balance. Don't lost yourself in your children cos you will be angry/hurt when they cannot make the same sacrifices for you. Love them and be present but remember one day they will grow up and leave you and for a while they will not value your relationship as much. It is ok. Be a good steward of what God has given you. Otherwise, loved the show. Enjoy parenting.

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you for sharing

[@felixmurage9081]

This is lovely ❤️

[@eunicekombe9235]

So true...

[@sherrysteve7801]

@@THEWAJESUSFAMILY am also a victim here like, I started crying the very moment you started crying ....waaah,,,it has never been easy for me since I left home to Dubai in search of greener pastures for both my son and mom. I cry everyday aki....sometimes I see myself as a bad mom 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭....aki,,,,😭😭😭 naeza tu sema ni God hunifanya navumilia aki. How I wish naeza pata job poa kenya yenye itanilisha na ilishe mtoi wangu but, God knows it all.

[@jackiepeter4371]

That's means ako very happy and comfortable na wenye anabaki na wao....

[@ruthkemunto3733]

4 days and you are crying 😭😭😭 you make us cry more ,,,,,2 yrs now abroad and another more one yr,,,ndio niende home😢niliacha my kids first born na 5 yrs,,, second,,,,,3 yrs,,,, even we talk but that mother love,,,ak it's so painful ,,,,,umenifanya nimelia,,,,but we leave all to God

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

barakameen

[@winnieombutora7437]

Taji ako sawa tats normal mama b strong .....beta u uko na kabi most of us imagine we r single parents n hav to work ...... So gain strength mama

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@brendakirimi4253]

As a mother,I really fell Milly's pain but you are a wonderful mum to Taji,kanakupenda😚😚😚🥰❤️

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

Thanks Brenda.

[@tessnjiraini]

Sisi wenye tuko gulf tuseme nini I lft my kid, when she was only 1year, it's almost 2years, I could video call and she run away, but I thank God she knows am doing this for her, am happy when I call her and she calls me mam I love you, and even when I buy anything for her she say thank you mum God bless you❤️

[@keziahkamau812]

Aki I'm shedding tears already 😥 I've been away from my son and jana I experienced the same....he doesn't even recognize me 😥 it really hurts and i felt it was all my fault

[@stellawaithira8215]

This one is very emotional... usikue unaacha Taji woooi😭😭

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thanks for watching

[@trizatesstwan414]

Woiye aki can't wait for this.....Na venue Milly hufeel vibaya

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@mueninzioki741]

Im cutting onions, I jus remembered vile auntie yangu alikua anaacha mtoi wake na mathe na anaenda works , everytime she comes home mtoi like ako busy tu she used to cry Sana. Btw mtoi aligrow akaelewa

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you for sharing

[@catherinewaithera5181]

I can feel milly but relax.....mtoi umeambiwa ako na home so mood ziko down

[@mainamaish2328]

Woiye I feel for this saio nimetoka gulf nahmu yakuona My Dota alfu uone Ana kazi yako 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@mercyatieno5438]

Pole milly ...nimelia after seeing your tears 😭😭😭 pole mama Taji

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

barakameen

[@maggykaberi]

I remember left my son with my mum one month alinikataa since now ni yeye na shosho. Ukiona hivyo ametosheka na wale watu Ako nao.

[@Gracia_Habibi]

I cried really woooie I have not seen my son for 5years now. I wonder if he will ever recognize me😢. Can't wait to ✈️🛬

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

baraka men

[@genesionjeru25]

Kids needs us most. The reason I burn fuel for over 350kms to go see my daughter & her mum every weekend. It's worth it.

[@neyskitchen]

I don know why I'm crying here too😭😭😭

[@mariakiky2600]

After watching this now i want to ho back home asap and spend time with my daughter

[@nivandalulaxy9376]

😭😭😭me too its now 2yrs without seeing her

[@alicekirai2317]

Take some time off working and spend some quality time with him

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@odilemugwaneza4111]

Milly vile anafunga maco, uwi kitu kinapitang kwtumbu ndege ikitaka kuruk evn ku lnd we

[@faithde5077]

Milly me niko na stress nalia kila siku juu watoto wangu wanijui sijaka na wao juu ya u maskini wangu😭😭😭

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

sorry

[@blessedhands826]

I feel you milly ...this is really a touching one and it made me cry too

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@cchimjil0583]

Aki ii ndo huwa napitia nkikol home kuongea na mtto anakataa nyanyake ndo humuita mum

[@blessedhands826]

@@cchimjil0583 It shall be well dear

[@gladysmaeba6462]

Nanny need gift because she is care about Taji coz angukua anamchapa akua ivo Good nanny 😍😍😍

[@marywangui4704]

Milly ,Taji needs you more than you can imagine but u guys you always leave him behind that's why ata akiwaona it's not a big deal for him but thanks you have learnt a lesson

[@Muniboolov]

This really made me cry coz I am far away from my kids they r with my mom and as working mom this breaks my heart because my kids are 2 and 3 years old they exited when they see me on phone but this has made cry coz am afraid of how my children wil react after see me after 4 months 😢 💔 😞

[@Tr.Flo_Sherie]

When I would be away from my daughter for a few days she would completely refuse to talk to me over the phone. Reaction simply meant she needed me there with her not over the phone Taji's reaction miss he missed you and you were not there...they behave that way. Children in a nutshell needs a loooooooot of our time.

[@immeimme2364]

So beautiful miss my kids so much 😭😭😭😭May God bless your family ❤️❤️❤️

[@kariukimuringi6461]

When expectations are not met we get broken. Its normal. Milly had high ones but innocent Taji knew none of it.

[@rhinahirina4038]

Spending quality time during the foundation is paramount. Enjoy and cherish each waking moment. Your "you" time is also essential but should be done sparingly. "You time" rejuvenates the two of you.

[@charity4908]

See how Sylvia and I have said almost similar experiences with children in UK.. when my daughter came to UK, my daughter was 8yrs of age, now a mature lady. Then, I only took small jobs of few hour to make sure she find me home after school. I thank God because now says I was present mum as I qas not absent... am home at all times especially in the evening I was never absent.💚🇬🇧

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you for sharing

[@aishaharuni2937]

Aky munafanya na miss wangu 4 years sijaona wangu mpaka nalia nkiona taji 😭😭😭😭😭

[@maggycarey5076]

😭😭😭this made me cry I haven't seen my kids for 1 year 6 months just video calls and also not on a daily basis am outside the country

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

Hi Maggy. I can't imagine how the distance makes you feel. More grace to you dear

[@maggycarey5076]

@@THEWAJESUSFAMILY its really hard 😭😭thax alot baraka men

[@maggycarey5076]

@Essy Saya Vlogs Amen🙏🙏🙏

[@travelgetfitwithanna1544]

Same here 1yr 6months its not easy but it is what it is....

[@njerinajma5009]

Three years imagine

[@TheBabu200]

the things parents do for their kids . imagine the diaspora parents who haven't seen their kids up to 10/15 years?

[@nancysoipan]

My Reminder is on Can't Waiting To See Taji And The Cute Smile

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@nancynana9793]

Milly I do feel you personally coz some of us we have been away almost two years all because we want to have that good future for our kids. Whenever I call my son and he asks me when am I going back home it hits me so badly but have to pretend and give him hopes that am coming son but after that phone call the tears roll so badly. May God protect us in gulf till we come back to our kids .

[@millysammy5045]

Si mlienda kuswim hukooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 thank you taji for teaching mummy a lesson.....ignore them mpaka wakue wanakubeba 😂😂

[@angeloantaranyaboke5378]

My son missing me 18months now😭😭😭😭am emotional of this video.......team hammam .who else is in this condition

[@jeanettegatehi4789]

He's just expressing how he feels after not seeing you guys for days n it's very normal...I'm a witness that you too are very present parents, that's for sure 👍👍 I've also noticed that Taji is kinda more attached to Kabi...my observation tho 🤷‍♀️

[@halimawangui2640]

This makes me feel soo emotional😭knowing it's 10yrs being away from my son..

[@misswanjiku3292]

I feel you milly....how about us working abroad...real definition of depression.

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you for sharing

[@fatimaabdulla6967]

😢Wee acha tu till watoto Wana tusahau na kutuchukia kbs

[@valerieshinia8526]

@@fatimaabdulla6967 woiye hugs 🤗

[@fatimaabdulla6967]

@@valerieshinia8526 ❤️❤️❤️

[@sharlinemamakeladasha1439]

Aki nimefeel kabisa🥺🥺🥺 I can't to see my daughter too after to years here in Iraq😭😭😭 every time I video call her she just crying😭 it's good to be present for our kids whenever they need us much love WaJesus family lesson learned❤❤

[@sheilalukoz6347]

I feel you Milly..my son lives in the village with my mom and I visit for like after three months and sometimes I even find myself 😭😭wondering whether he really understand that am his mom and I love hom so much but everytime I visit he hugs me well but goes back to his business 😭

[@everlineodhiambo1257]

That's hearting alot coz kitambi mtoi akuavoid it means he is comparing you with any other person. Just always be there for him

[@lizeliza4849]

Aki video ata haijaplay but Kuna 5 dislikes already? Aki enyewe there are witches all over. Wajesus keep moving msijali na idle bitter human.

[@THEWAJESUSFAMILY]

thank you

[@lizeliza4849]

Wooow thank you for your reply.