Tamar Braxton slams WeTV! | Amanda Seales exposes The Real

[@kittenmayz611]

I knew Amanda wasn’t going to be on there for long, she’s too blunt for that daytime show.

[@Alex632]

No, she didn't suit the format of the show she joined and the viewers didn't like it either. They wanted entertainment not social issues.

[@Alex632]

@Ms. unapologetic I get around luv and no i wasn't one of them. I wish i was 😔

[@crystalwhatley3553]

No she has an attitude then always say it's her blackness. How many times do she have to say I'm a black woman.

[@jessicacrespin9452]

@@Alex632 exactly

[@maserati925]

It’s also that she’s too ideological. “The real” is a light hearted show, Amanda would be better fitted for “the view”.

[@thisbishawesome]

Amanda is more "the view" material bcz they go hard there, the real is just a Fluff, rainbow and sunshine show

[@Angelique.Styles]

The View would be too real Amanda. I'm here for it!

[@ellek562]

True

[@MJ-vb7un]

Amanda is too smart for the view and the real. She needs her own show and her own platforms. Which she has.

[@ayaforedison8870]

Amanda and Candace will be a nice one for "the view" really

[@La_La79]

Yea it would be nice for Whoopi to have some back up. She don't play with Meghan😂

[@yasminejasmine4368]

It wasn’t the right fit for Amanda, the real isn’t really political anyway.

[@lelahill9778]

Totally agree

[@TheTonyspik]

shows change directions all the time. Her problack pro justice views were needed. It's time people get uncomfortable with reality. They still kept things funny, still had their dorky sketches and games. But decided to add some realness. We shall no longer have people of color as exclusively for entertainment purposes while ignoring the racism that affects them and us. No more modern-day minstrel shows

[@married2dsouth]

Right

[@casper7319]

She would be a better fit at a show like the view

[@TheTonyspik]

@@casper7319 she would be a good fit for either show. Why should she move to the view? People still won't like her truth there neither. So wherever she goes she would get pushback because she is strongly for black lives and excellence .

[@gabbysmom11]

I’m glad that Tamar is still here. It’s been enough RIP lately. I hope she gets the help she needs. It’s a spiritual warfare going on out here with depression.

[@kiara198923]

I agree!

[@BigReddSouthernGal25]

Yes indeed.

[@gabbysmom11]

Terrell X all that honestly doesn’t matter. The woman still tried to take her life. That indicates she’s mentally struggling. No one should go through that, regardless of what she signed. It’s still sad.

[@Aliasss]

Terrell X - “her life wasn’t in jeopardy” .. tell that to the icu hospital room staff she stayed in. 🙄 But whether it was a “ploy”.. it’s SAD that it took something as drastic to finally have them say they’ll release her. Y’all don’t understand how TWISTED the industry is with these contracts. Many don’t know what they’re getting themselves into, until they’re in it. Tamar isn’t the only one at odds with this network.. Master P & Romeo recently exposed them, and Dame Dash is currently suing them. These “reality” shows are 20% reality, but 80% affects their real life!

[@gabbysmom11]

Bay Bee exactly!!! I don’t get how people can be so insensitive nowadays. Like they know these celebs personally.

[@mospersona5306]

This is how many people that’s happy Tamar is getting better and moving to a happy and safe place. 👇🏾👍🏾

[@tayashley3539]

That purple wig was cute

[@vonamel_music]

i thank god she is STILL here and she is getting the help she needs

[@cassandracopeland6346]

I pray she gets the help she needs.

[@yoliswangcobo2703]

🙄All of this for likes? Ayi awume kancane wena.

[@CJ-py6bs]

Yoliswa Ngcobo shut up

[@mrs_p5689]

I’m still curious about who’s idea it was to have Amanda on The Real when they knew they couldn’t handle the amount of realness she brings. Amanda delivered to The real exactly what she’s known for and they act surprised. It’s perplexing. What were they hoping to get out of hiring her?

[@ddh19454]

I didn't like Amanda on the show but I wonder the same thing It was a dumb idea to hire her in the first place

[@ZeldasFinalFantasy]

I’m glad that bitch is gone

[@mrs_p5689]

DEAD uhmmm, I don’t think that’s what I meant by this comment. This comment was never about bashing Amanda.

[@delilahmode9536]

Exactly

[@justinlocs]

@@ZeldasFinalFantasy don't gotta be hateful

[@nalahschamber3469]

Everytime they brought up a heavy "Black" topic on."The Real". Tamara Mowery had the (I wish we could talk about something else) written all on her face!

[@sunshinejewel2952]

Well she’s mixed

[@natsohigh5552]

Let me guess. You got an issue with mixed or light skinned women 😂🤣😂🤣 Video isn't even about Tamera yet your fingers nearly broke to write about her 🤣😂😭😭😭🤣😂

[@brianafranklin8164]

Tamara identifies more with her white side lol

[@1991Meka]

I knew she wasn't coming back in this climate when EVERYTHING is about race.

[@TyandOnGoing]

@@natsohigh5552 I don't think it that but like they are a show represented by women of color, so why is it hard to talk about the problems that come with being a POC.

[@dionna6221]

This whole thing is really sad. Why does it take her almost ending her own life to get respect?

[@dionna6221]

@Brainjock probably not honestly. I really feel like they're doing this just so they don't look bad.

[@whatever6796]

we tore up Whitney, Britney, Michael, Amy Winehouse, Princess Diana and youre asking why a celebrity would want to do this? many never see the day they get the respect. its the companies and the "fans" that make people's lives hell.

[@GoneColoring]

Exactly

[@PettyMurphyTV]

Sad

[@dionna6221]

@@whatever6796 first off, idk who "we" is because I've never shamed a celebrity because idk them personally so that "we" stuff is out the picture. Second, I did not ask why SHE would do anything. I was referring to WE tv and to the people that led her to feel like she should have to take her own life. I was asking why are they just now giving her respect? Please know what you're responding to before you try to respond.

[@greyfullbuster6653]

Amanda is educated but sometimes her personality comes off wrong. I think a solo show would fit her better. Again this my opinion.

[@urbanfrugalfranny5172]

I agree, though I have no interest in watching anything she does.

[@kevinhill24]

No alot people around her at times was and is very much insecure and two faced they can be direct and investigative and question but she can't when clearity, understanding and effectiveness needs to establish for segment and for the entirety of show. If Tamara S husband Niece inspired a segment and a special in the form of the show was to be presented talking gun violence ect there would be no objections and clownish stuff going on.

[@laurenjackson2810]

Before y’all try to say Amanda is “abrasive” or “aggressive” from the way she described her conversation with the white female producer.. actually sit & reflect on the amount of times you’ve seen a white girl talk so matter-of-factly, straight to the point, & making her needs intensely known, & no one bats an eye or questions her character. We expect her to have “confidence” & as people we are programmed to unquestionably tend to her needs..

[@Thaywood79]

I agree 100%!!

[@edc5283]

Speak for yourself.

[@elizablue8134]

I agree. I just want to share my opinion. Women in society, in general, have been getting the shit end of the stick. Especially in Hollywood. I feel like a white man put that woman in charge and she probably didn't even want the role and clearly had no idea of what she was doing. Mind you, I know that our sex is overall oppressed in the world and that business. However, with the oppression of women and POC, black women are the most oppressed. I am a white Russian woman who's a duel citizen and have been viewed as a communist. Ya know "The Red Scare" Although, I was born after. Look at our Orange in office now sucking the Dictator's dick now. How funny. But anyway. I've seen how men treat women. Even some women who are rich or white don't get enough support, of course it's not nearly the same. I wish I could be there for all you ladies and humans in general and we could support each other.

[@DBrown-vg1fi]

Yes they are very comfortable speaking up for themselves and thats great but black women should be able to do the same

[@belovedannie]

@@DBrown-vg1fi Yeah and not be labeled the angry black woman attacking a defenseless person.

[@A.Shawnee]

Call me insensitive, but I always give a side-eye when people blame "editing" on the way they are portrayed on TV. Yes editing can manipulate story lines and sequences around you saying certain things, BUT THEY CANNOT *CREATE* FOOTAGE. You did and said those things at some point and time. You acted out and they recorded it. I feel bad for Tamar on other fronts as far as bad deals she signed but at some point, accountability for your behavior has to happen.

[@latasiatatum5996]

But they can chop up scenes to make it look like one thing when its not editing is a powerful beast that people doesn’t realize

[@newtothis5650]

Am not the biggest Tamar fan however editing is real!

[@myiaeverette]

I agree they don't put the words in your mouth or make you act out.

[@ThisIsTheKendom]

I agree to a certain extent but i know that shows have to have a narrative so if their narrative for you is to be a villain etc... than of course they will cut off what the producers say to make you react or cut out the good moments that balance it out

[@prairieflower7967]

Trust me I know someone who has worked on a reality tv show in the background and they plant things and love to perpetuate stereotypes and create drama. They will do whatever they have to do to get the ratings.

[@deniesewynne4313]

Amanda need her own platform..she is to self aware to play the reals bs games for a check 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Lyomama22]

Honestly Amanda is problematic. I wish her well tho on her boot leg smart funny and black show

[@deniesewynne4313]

yomama22 lala reading your comment reminds me of a saying, you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him THINK🤔

[@Lyomama22]

Deniese Wynne u don’t find it funny that Amanda has her instagram comment disabled? If multiple ppl are saying THE SAME THING about her maybe it’s time for her to look in the mirror

[@deniesewynne4313]

yomama22 lala why should she care about a trolls opinion? She said what she said and that’s not changing clearly

[@colorfulcodes]

"Jussie Smollet was lowkey noble" - Amanda Seals -_-

[@wfmbu]

Amanda was not just talking about black issues she was actually giving good advice I remember one time they did an episode on how to make a patent for a product it’s called a poor mans patent. I really liked her and I believe they took off the show because she was giving advice on how to better your situation as opposed to being self loathing but that’s my opinion.

[@corazoncubano5372]

I honestly don't understand why that show is still on the air.

[@tootsumi523]

Amanda has too much depth for a show like that. Better for her to move on rather than dumb down for her co-hosts and demographic.

[@daniellelindo6875]

that was adrienne

[@Sssssssslf]

🤣

[@dayan9500]

That was Addriene not amanda

[@QueenLovelee]

Well here’s the thing with “The Real” that show has never been a highly political and race driven show. It’s always been that fun show that was geared at teenagers and young adults, which covered topics about lifestyle, fashion, and things of that nature. I don’t personally agree with folks feeing a way because they’re too “cookie cutter” and etc. Every show on daytime doesn’t have to be serious. That’s what “The View” and “The Talk” is for. & the. You have news channels such as CNN and MSNBC and etc that cover serious topics 24/7. Sometimes people want an escape. I never hear people badgering Wendy Williams to talk about more serious topics, y’all take her show for what it is, fun and free spirited. Amanda Seales was NEVER a good fit for that show, she was very naive to think she would come on a show that was there before her and change the whole entire existence overnight. She should either get her own talk show, or join a show that is better suited with her interest. It’s that simple. They brought her on thinking it would bring ratings and controversy. & while there were headline moments the ratings didn’t budge in a drastic way. A lot of the fans of the show started to complain that every day it was a race related topic. & I know some will say well it needs to be talked about, yes it does, but it doesn’t need to happen on “The Real” that show has never been about that life.

[@mxax22]

Relax lol

[@otg92]

then they need to change they name from The Real to Girl Chat

[@katherinewilson4985]

Hi Amanda, Troll here! 🙋 lmao uh I stopped watching that show because I couldn't stand Amanda always having judgemental looks and a I'm always right kind of attitude. This show was clearly not her platform.

[@ashcash5035]

@@otg92 girl banter

[@JaneLamb]

Agree! Amanda does not know the show. Like girl, we as fans watch the show for years to know what type of show it is. Do you not? It is not because of race it is the type of show. Even if today is an all white show, if the show is not meant to talk any serious or.poltical issue, then the host are not allowed to talk about it.

[@charmainbrock1547]

I’m sorry but “the real” doesn’t hold up the name real. The show isn’t about real life situations and isn’t a realistic view of life. They hold up topics likes trends and petty things. I never became drawn to the show because it’s not always relatable. Sometimes they have some good topics. Amanda should be on the view because the real isn’t ready and may never be ready for real life situations.

[@ericka1632]

They seem to be real-ish about their personal lives but not much about anything else. I get they are supposed to be light hearted but The Real is not the right name imo

[@SassyDivalyrics]

Period! The 4 week sneak peak/test run was amazing with the original 5 girls and I really enjoyed the show it’s first two season, then after Tamar left it because too “public pleasing” and not interesting at all.

[@jasminehill6312]

It seems like The Real's target audience is 16-25 year olds.

[@memewilson369]

I’m ready for an all black woman tv show on real black issues

[@stellakamau6994]

Amanda seales story starts at minute 7.00

[@Prime1018]

Lol, thanks sis!

[@IGBlaze4]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@msjrene05]

Thank you! I don’t want to hear about Tamar. Don’t want her to harm herself but I’m...never mind.

[@mrs.gemini1965]

Thanks

[@tatit.v.4444]

thank youuuu💕💕💕

[@CoachBlossomCBrown]

Make no mistake, Amanda can be problematic outside of the Entertainment business, HOWEVER I believe Amanda one hundred! Those other women on the show are complicit as hell! I applaud Amanda for speaking up and calling this s%#t out!!!!

[@MJ-vb7un]

She is too real. Look at Jeannie she will laugh at anything even if everyone is laughing at her. She just wants to keep her job

[@twentysvn]

The Real is absolutely getting canceled after losing Amanda and Tamera.

[@kloopslo6732]

It’s about time. The show is (as the young folks would say) cringey

[@lilfairyonacid614]

Wait tamera isn't on the real anymore?

[@mstif26]

Lil Fairy On Acid No Tamera announced about two weeks ago that she was leaving The Real.

[@AndreaRam]

The Real was doing good before Amanda.

[@sassk7443]

New season was just announced to return September 21st.

[@poolibo]

This why I love Amanda! Stand up for yourself at all times. Love that lady!!! "Am I going to get a producer credit??" Yes ma'am!!! Let them know you ain't no fool. Love Amanda!!!

[@02loud]

I'm glad Amanda moved on. The incident with the producer is so typical. It's crazy to me that The Real is supposed to be about the diverse experiences of female co-hosts from minority groups/cultures yet it was majority white women leaving nasty comments about how Amanda makes everything about race. So much so that they started demanding The Real get a white co-host to make things "fair". They would get so triggered when Amanda actually got "real". This is a surface level show, certainly nothing real about it and Amanda is better off on her own platform.

[@That_8_To_5_Girlie]

Yes correct

[@erykahm4307]

That's the thing, Amanda was never a good fit. I don't get why she even entertained that but maybe she needed a paycheck.

[@britbritnicole]

Right and Loni would always say that’s never happening lol you’re gonna see a white cohost

[@niyoleo]

Adrienne is already the white chick on the show. She's a white Latina woman.

[@dezinechic]

@@niyoleo this!

[@denea4418]

We need Amanda on an important platform. The Real ain’t it 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@dinkyboss]

“We” don’t need her toxic ass anywhere speaking for black folks.

[@debraharris3169]

If Tamar felt this way about WETV why do another reality tv show with them, I’m confused. When Braxton Family Value first came out she was all about being front and center clowning her sisters. Now she is saying WETV made the family fight each other when she was the one constantly putting her sisters down because they didn’t have any money or a good working husband. But I do wish her well.

[@mom2tamir]

She had to fulfill her contract...

[@JamieBleu]

Her contract forces her to do more shows.

[@Tasha8626]

Agreed!! She has been trashing them for the past few years hella hard. Then she decided to do this special. I think her money woes were what made her do another show for the very network she’s been shitting on for the longest. Like you said she’s talked so much trash about her sisters stayed trashing them and being rude, honestly that’s what made her the breakout star. Now her actions have impacted her relationship she wants to blame the network. She honestly needs real help because she takes no accountability for her actions. I think her career is over and nobody will want to work with her again.

[@audreywilliams7007]

That's the same question I'm asking too

[@julianbatista-mccarthy9734]

Money

[@msjrene05]

Amanda was never a good fit for the show IMO. I didn’t like the direction The Real was moving. I’m black all day and everyday. I liked that it was light hearted and girly 🤷🏽‍♀️ Sometimes it’s nice to have a break from racial conversations/topics. I think they could have added her as a weekly segment to discuss race relations. I wish her well though

[@caseycasler5713]

You’re so right. Maybe one day she can get her own show and she can talk about what she really wants.

[@MoedusaTheeGoddess]

Right, amanda isnt gonna fit in circles with these types of females, she needs her own show

[@D33N9]

Bitch bye they got the one black girl loney their for comic relief and tamera mowry who tip toe around racial issues and wont really said what needs to be said and can check someone when need to be checked

[@TheRibofJESUS]

I agree

[@nancykerrigan]

I agree that it was never going to be a good fit. I feel liken the only way she agreed to be on was she was convinced by a producer that she could be herself and talk about things she's interested in during the pitch meeting and/or trial run. Then she agreed and look what happened. She was setup probably

[@nyla1274]

Iyanla told them to deal with their issues off camera. reality show biz is not for healing. Bishop TD Jakes tried to help them too. 🤷🏽‍♀️ So now what.....

[@brooklynforever1990]

That part 👆🏼💅🏻

[@nopebye2817]

We already knew Amanda Seales was going to be TOO Real for “The Real”.

[@Lyomama22]

It’s not she’s too real. It’s that she has a lot of issues. That’s why she can’t get a damn man

[@exther.]

yomama22 lala her personal life has nothing to do with her career as a host on the real.

[@Lyomama22]

Queen E I definitely think the way she chooses to portray herself as this “passionate” (angry) woman does have a lot to Do with the fact she’s 39 and has no man. No shade tho. But Amanda doesn’t play nice with any other race especially white. Because In her mind all white ppl play a role in this “systemic oppression” so in her mind she’s justified by being rude and showing micro aggressions and not even micro just plain aggression toward ppl who don’t share the same view as her. She’s not soft or feminine. It’s very unattractive and we need to stop glamorizing this “passionate black woman” thing... men do not desire angry women

[@exther.]

yomama22 lala it is so frustrating that a black woman being passionate is seen as aggressive and angry keep that same energy for men there are so many passionate male activists but they are never seen as angry. You seem sexist . This stereotype is incorrect. You’re writing a long paragraph yet you’re not saying anything. If she thought that all white people were that way she wouldn’t have white friends.

[@gms4430]

Tamar needs to get off of reality tv and social media! She can’t handle it. Live a simpler life, make money, and be happy 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@peachlife5118]

What makes me sad that she says she has dreamed of being a celeb and superstar since she was a little girl, it is all she knows, but it is really not agreeing with her spirit.

[@victorybeginsinthegarden]

Some people need the spotlight it's an addiction

[@aura5944]

Once she breaks this contract

[@xavierking6639]

@@peachlife5118 it's like everything is rejecting it and you're right, it's all she knows. When nothing is working out then you have to observe the environment and really question why it isn't agreeing with your spirit. If Tamar would just meditate and focus, I think she would find the answer she seeks. The flashy fame, reality tv way of life may not be in the next chapter for her.

[@jackieojewels]

She literally said that a producer exposed her childhood abuse ON SET in front of her entire family and production team!!! You know that affected her mood for the rest of the day(coming days)! I'm sure they wasted NO time pressing record immediately after! shes literally SAYING its the industry that produces this kind of behavior, and then the following story is about yet ANOTHER Black woman exposing how the entertainment industry affects her soul. this is a PATTERN/CYCLE! we need to be shifting the blame entirely onto the media and enough with the victims! I believe in accountability!

[@sabrinadoctor9653]

Tamar needs to focus on herself and son Stay Off Reality TV

[@SaintlyIconicSoul]

With everything going on with Tamar it makes when remember at the beginning of Braxton Family Values when Toni said she didn’t want to do it and she didn’t want the “fame” to destroy her family but they all begged her to did it especially Tamar so she felt obligated to do it for them and that may have been a big sign that her spirit knew this wasn’t a good idea

[@mz.b4120]

Exactly!!

[@jessica386m]

Saintly Iconic Soul preach! I remember that scene too!

[@mz.b4120]

J Herdz What amazes me is that her mom and dad are supposed to be preachers are something; that also plays apart about her behavior. They all need to seek some counseling.

[@MultiSweetheart6]

@@mz.b4120 How do the parents being preachers play a part in her behavior? I'm genuinely asking.

[@mar69storm]

@@MultiSweetheart6 i was gonna say something about that but her parents have allowed her be a child in an adult body. Iyanla said it best, the fish stinks from he head. They mama blamed the Daddy. T.D. Jakes said they spoiled and her Mom blamed it on her Dad. Lol. The parents just set her up for a failure. The siblings added to it.

[@philindigo1013]

What did The Real expect by bringing Amanda on? Of course she's gonna talk about serious topics.

[@MsJae-qk2tw]

Did we forget that Tamar’s sisters talked about how Tamar is the “baby” of the family? They tried talking with Tamar on television and Tamar would snap and leave. We don’t know what goes on off camera, but Most of the time the baby of the family is spoiled. They say and do whatever they want to do. They can’t be controlled! Tamar is beyond extra. She’s been this way all of her life. She definitely needs to control herself before her brain explodes frfr. Best wishes to Tamar and her entire family. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@daphnehammond8054]

Toya J Bae or that is exactly what tv wants you to see... many babies of the family may seem spoilt but they are also the hardest workers as they always are portrayed as you say as spoiled so the work twice as hard to prove themselves!!! Until you know her personally and have dealt with her personally and you know whats going on with her behind the cameras ... no one should pass judgement

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

💯. ♾☯️🧠⚖️💜☮️♾

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

Daphne Hammond Chiile, no. We’ve witnessed much of the same from Tamar, on other networks, and oft unedited. I’ll never forget her cameos/appearances from “Tiny and Toya”; rather how she presented herself and how her attitude made me feel (about her). I somewhat recall that she got angry with Iyanla for much of the same. It’s all very “Tyra meme” sentiment. Folks get exhausted “rooting” for bullshit. On a final note, Tamar seems to have personal accountability issues, possibly if not likely enabled by her family and other relationships. Even in her statement about the network having “coached and cajoled” her and the family to turn against one another. No external force can coerce a solid soul into such mindless and fucked up behavior. Similar to saying you were forced into cosmetic surgery, because of another’s preference. I literally sadden when eye simply _see_ The Braxtons. Anyhow, I’ll leave it there. Wishing *everyone* healing, wellness, serenity, and genuine joy. ♾☯️🧠⚖️💜☮️♾

[@londavsyolonda2041]

Just like Tamar said they only show the negative light ..

[@reginaldeberhart8521]

You kinda made Tamar's point. It's what they want you to see, not necessarily what The Braxtons wanted you to see.

[@lefreakshow4527]

Amanda received so much hate while on the Real. I'm glad she left. She deserves better.

[@imsojessicanichole3853]

I agree she brought light to what these talk shows are afraid to speak on she was REAL however I think people disliked her cause she was always serious the show was use to the fun and girl topics which made her unlikeable unfortunately we lost a good host

[@semajdee]

It’s crazy how they let Tamera racist fans attack her on their ig page & not defend her,but they were so quick to clap back for Tamera.

[@peachlife5118]

No shade she did not deserve any hate but to me it sounds like she simply did not want to be an EMPLOYEE. Sis you are not the owner of this show to be deciding who gets to produce segments, they just appointed you as a host!!! She should have just stuck with her own show if she wanted to call all the shots about producers and topics of conversation. Also they give all the girls the right to express themselves pretty freely in the topics chosen for them but Amanda would always try to bring up some heavy traumatic topic and derail the convo in EVERY segment, this is not that type of show !!! I enjoy most of her banter and view points personally but it was clear she did not know anything about what type of show this was.

[@jhoniikemp]

Peach Life this whole comment is ignorant asl

[@christinebenjamin5818]

I'm so over this world and it's backwardness. It's tiring, draining and heartbreaking when you hear what some people do to other people.

[@zurirecca1111]

Remember the good. There’s always good.

[@hexmaniacgabby5160]

@@zurirecca1111 but when the bad seems to be more common than the good then what?

[@kenyasanders7991]

Aw why is she out here first with Nene going off on letoya now going off on Amanda Seals she not well thst quick

[@kenyasanders7991]

Why do these folks go right back to what brought them down Kanye all of them

[@kenyasanders7991]

That's good yes get help

[@ms_KedaBeda]

People can be so heartless. Y’all are really saying y’all don’t feel bad that a person wanted to kill themselves. Smh, shouldn’t matter why they wanted to

[@PaolaTheTimeLord]

literally the comment below yours someone said tamar is dramatic and doesn’t show empathy about what she almost did which was almost take her life 🤯 the apathy people have is scary

[@audrafolkes5978]

@LaKeitha Jaster, AMEN sis.. With that being said some of us are sooo heartless until it falls on their doorstep..#staywokeppl✌️

[@danikamckoy5554]

I’m feeling that a lot of people lost feeling in their heats. There’s no love for anyone or anything! This is someone hurting so bad that they didn’t want to live! What’s wrong with y’all? The last thing that person needs is more criticism! I’m sad for what this world has become sis.

[@shaychauntaye7047]

Unpopular opinion... How can she feel under paid when she negotiated and signed the contract? How can she compare the amount that she received from WE to how much the Khardashians make on a SEPARATE network? How can someone portray you in a negative light if you don’t do anything negative for them to film? I remember watching a clip of Tamar flipping out because her sisters boyfriend proposed to her on Tamar’s birthday. That was crazy as hell... I like Tamar but I’m not buying this one. She seems like she’s coming unhinged and I don’t think she can place all the blame on WEtv. She is problematic and creates her own problems a lot of the time.

[@glamcitystyles9480]

I remember her saying f**k that b***h talking about Trina I was like are u kidding me? She’s horrible

[@Tasha8626]

Don’t forget when her sister surprised her at her show and she went straight off. Called them out their names and kicked them off the stage. That proposal situation for her birthday, I myself wanted to slap fire from her mouth. The problem is the public started turning on her. When the show first came on she was the fav, but then these last few years her behavior has become increasingly insane and that’s only herself to blame. She takes no accountability never even apologizes to her sisters for treating them terribly. Not to mention she stays having diff friends. She definitely needs help but I think it’s dead wrong that because she acted an ass and WETV showed her behavior she wants to try and ruin them.

[@mz.b4120]

Absolutely true. @Shay Chauntaye. She so used to her family treating her like a baby. When they went to TD Jakes and Iylana both said that Tamar was not being held accountable for her actions. I think her behavior has a lot to do with her parents

[@traceymitchell6270]

@@Tasha8626 She called her Sisters Telly Tubbies. I think Tamar just committed career suicide instead.

[@Alex632]

The Kardashians are syndicated worldwide on TV, that explains the money they get paid. Tamar is delusional to think her shows are anywhere near the Kardashians.

[@cculc175]

This should be handled in the courtroom, NOT TWITTER. This is what lawyers are for. I’m so confused.

[@valeriecrosland8546]

Why ? We need to STOP pretending that everything is A~👌🏿When its NOT ! She is bringing info to our attention She has been attacked on line so she is defending herself on line ! That's how people play their lives out now ! I don't get it ! Its a masquerade & a reality and she should also get legal consultation to see if she has grounds for legal action! The white privilege did the Karen move on her so her only recourse maybe venting on social media?! When your in the public 👀 lol you are held to an unrealistic standard! So I'm glad she walked away ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE everything else is just someone's opinion no right no wrong Amen

[@themoonbleu627]

right !!!!

[@themoonbleu627]

Alimah B well the network can show what they want.. like she has to make sense attempting to take her life and jumping on twitter makes no sense seek mental professionals and a lawyer now ppl will think she just had a big fit how are they to take it seriously

[@EarthAngel44-qmcc]

Exactly.

[@janicestarks1212]

A Lawyer can't help this situation

[@BATOOLESK]

i love amanda but iam not sure her job description qualifies her to pick and choose producers or control the bigger picture .

[@mallorylampkin9864]

“And I said, so am I going to get a producer credit”😆Yeeeeeeeeeesssss Amanda❤️🔥

[@queenlj6379]

Smart Funny & Black. Please believe it ❤

[@JCole-fg3rr]

It’s the way Tamar never holds herself accountable, lacks self awareness to acknowledge her responsibility, and attaches her bad behavior to real issues within our community: mental illness and sexual abuse, that really bothers me. You cannot blame an entire network for your issues. Tamar has created the space she’s currently in. Reality tv only airs the material you give them. Tamar is always a victim and she will continually go through this cycle. Yet and still, I am praying for her.

[@samenchanted7776]

I agree 100%

[@shygirlflygirl]

You just said it ALL.

[@Aliasss]

You’re back with this comment AGAIN? 🤣 Didn’t you already post this under another video ? - Tamar has to hold Tamar accountable, yes.. BUT in the meantime, WHO is going to hold WeTV accountable ? While they’re using & exploiting people (black people especially) and their trauma, who I’m sure they put under the impression they’ll work together with. Only to poorly portray, overwork & underpay them. It shouldn’t take someone having a mental breakdown for them to have human compassion & decency.

[@egyptscott4801]

Always the victim.. girl bye She needs to grow up and take responsibility for her own actions

[@JCole-fg3rr]

Princess N I really don’t care what you have to say. Tamar is full of it.

[@nawal10]

Why’d she make the new reality show if she is distressed by WEtv this much

[@missishaevee]

Money

[@redd-iveee4400]

Ish exactly... a person who hates something doesn’t literally sign up to do more of it

[@danirenee94]

She did it because she's still under contract

[@buckleupbuttercup3038]

Money and false hope

[@TonyTurner]

I think she was legally obligated to.

[@niokiajohnson7915]

This is why i will never be a famous celebrity i rather be a regular normal girl..... I can't handle all this Especially with my social Anxiety no no i feel bad for tamar.😟

[@hannahwallace9183]

I never understood the hype over being famous anyway it’s just more stress and hatred

[@demoisellejoli91]

Fame is a double edge sword they build you up just to tear you down. No thanks!

[@niokiajohnson7915]

@@hannahwallace9183 yes Like migos says i rather be rich then FAMOUS Im good i rather be regular hood girl then this fame sh*t....

[@lionelluva]

Me too! Not worth it.

[@niokiajohnson7915]

@@demoisellejoli91 IKR i cannot deal with IT i have very bad social Anxiety & im 25 i rather stay hood \ NORMAL..

[@JustAshleyNicole]

I’m glad she got out of her contract. I hope she gives herself time to heal🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@LUX_8]

@Brainjock What about her boyfriend?

[@naturistfred]

@Brainjock Don't these contracts usually come with a cash advance? So she probably already accepted partial payment of some sort.

[@AO-Love]

@Brainjock I don't think that's funny. The laughing at her misfortune if it is true is dehumanizing. She maybe a celeb, but she's still human. People can be so cold.

[@RY-os9vw]

Brainjock Why is this funny to you?

[@vickimurray8018]

Amanda I am glad you spoke your mind!!! Keep it 💯 my sister ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

[@Hersheydimples]

With Amanda and Tamera gone "the real" should just be canceled....

[@tiatia3977]

It will be cancelled and Tamara knows that's one of the reasons she left and the pay cut

[@laceyjabot134]

Not gone happen

[@AffluentPotato]

Nah, I think they should take it as an opportunity to do some revamping. They should consider Amanda's ideas for sure: ensuring black women are also represented behind the scenes. They can bring in someone like Yvette and maybe a southeast Asian or another underrepresented minority.

[@MissOne]

Who is Amanda 😂

[@taurus0362]

I was on Amanda's live, and I *honestly* enjoyed it. She and Godfrey were both speaking facts. 👏🏽

[@jhoniikemp]

Yes it was so good

[@taurus0362]

@@jhoniikemp Sure was.

[@creativemelanin]

I’m so upset that she’s back on social media, and blaming everything on the network. Way too soon & not helping in the long run! Praying for her

[@lelahill9778]

Looks like Tamar did all this to get out her contact and didn't want the show to air- its called a reality show, it only so much they can do to alter your personality- if u are a fake person maybe you shouldn't do reality TV

[@lealeahazel8093]

RIGHT after she posted that video of her an man sipping on some drinks like ain't shhhh happen I had rolled my eyes like yeah she mental..an her dude was sitting looking like this bih CRAZY fr..I was jus SMDH cus I saw his expression as such...

[@lelahill9778]

@@lealeahazel8093 I totally feel you- I felt the same way- she definitely has issues and it ain't WE tv

[@KHENEDITV]

I low key never heard of WE TV until Braxton family values came on so if it wasn’t for the Braxtons WE TV wouldn’t even be poppin so they need to pay them better the only show that’s descent left on that channel is growing up hip hop 💯

[@meeksluv]

SMH

[@scorpioe231]

@KHENEDI TV I agree with you 100% We TV should keep real! I love that reality show. I don’t watch those other reality shows anymore!

[@ToriOfTheNile]

I like marriage boot camp, but other than that, WE TV is hot garbage

[@Cherrybomb20048]

The Real might as well cancel. Tamera and Amanda left, time to turn off the cameras.

[@crownjewel832]

Tamar and Amanda have such similar temperaments. I pray that they both find peace, TRUTH, fulfillment and joy🙏🏾

[@HouseOfAriaLynn]

1.05 Million Subbies!!!!!! Congratulations 🤸🏿‍♀🤸🏿‍♀🤸🏿‍♀🤸🏿‍♀🤸🏿‍♀🤸🏿‍♀🤸🏿‍♀🤸🏿‍♀🤸🏿‍♀

[@karren866]

“The real” is the fakest talk show ever!!! Like be real, like the show title! But I guess they don’t wanna lose views, and fans! Y’all lost plenty, when Tamar left!!!🙄

[@Happypotato917]

Welcome 2 Kingston 💀💀💀 I am dead

[@spyderz_]

the real is only real about "women" things like having sex and waxing pubic hairs. not real issues or things that matter in the world. the real is only about superficial shit.

[@LaurenDevin]

I want to like your comment a thousand times! Speaking facts!!!!

[@karren866]

sharon curry I stopped watching it 3 years ago!! And the only reason why I know what’s going on, is because of social media!

[@marisahernandez5320]

Sooo she blames WE for her relationship with her sisters and how they portrayed her. But she goes back and signs a NEW contract to start her new show and now she is the victim? TF 🧐 stop enabling this woman people! Someone teach her to hold herself accountable and help her with her mental struggles. She needs real help and love.

[@trudilewis7687]

Thank you I said the same thing

[@stephaniestallaing2435]

Mayra thanks for the truth. How the hell can someone constantly blame everyone else for their actions? Whatever she didn't want to be on the show....dont share. Its that simple. Seriously. She has always been a drama queen the entire show. No one is responsible for her actions. We need to start holding people accountable for their actions. I hate to hear anyone having mental issues, or emotional problems. But her going on social media right after this episode is silly. It shows where the priorities are. If you dont want people in your business, dont share it, dont sign contracts. Let it go, leave it alone, move on, walk away. Whatever you have to do to handle your mental and emotionally wellbeing.

[@lelahill9778]

Totally agree with everyone- Looks like Tamar did all this to get out her contact and didn't want the show to air- its called a reality show, it's only so much they can do to alter your personality- if u are a fake person maybe you shouldn't do reality TV

[@rosevalerio5863]

Iyanla tried... I pray that she can find the right therapist, there's definitely a clear pattern here

[@stephaniestallaing2435]

I believe the show still will air, just the date has been pushed back out of respect. She will be released from any new obligations. They already paid some coins for the new show, the network needs their coins back. ....its just a sad situation all around. I pray she gets help. She really is very talented, but all the drama and victimizing overshadows her gifts.

[@natsohigh5552]

The only name that's ever missing from Tamars mouth when she's there blaming this and that is TAMAR

[@shygirlflygirl]

I'm actually really glad someone said this. WE TV wouldn't have had negative footage if there wasn't negative behavior in the first place.

[@MoedusaTheeGoddess]

💯💯💯💯

[@natsohigh5552]

@@shygirlflygirl WEtv have obviously played there part in all this, but I just don't like when people who themselves are their biggest problem blame everyone and everything else. Address her own behaviour then her surroundings will act accordingly

[@amenisworld5733]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I was wondering if someone was going to say that

[@mz.b4120]

On the premiere of Season 1, Tamar always said that she didn’t wanna be no background singing for Toni anymore. Why even go back to WeTV to do another reality show if they are affecting her mental health.

[@fwill9746]

She needs to be very careful. Other networks won’t want to work with her.. they will see her as unstable or trouble If I was Tamar, I would work on self , grow up, and do the unthinkable: I would go back to the Real to clear the air for a 3 part special, charging the most!!! Highest ratings ever!!

[@ah-ss7he]

Amen

[@cindy8447]

Luckily, there are other ways to generate income.

[@feilatan]

Exactly...

[@larrymarshall8900]

Just stay out of the spotlight simple answer. Leave the reality shows ans music alone for years. And for Christ Sakes leave your relationship and your children of a reality tv period. Vince and Tamar's don't need be on TV anyway let him grow up without cameras in his face.

[@jackieojewels]

She literally said that a producer exposed her childhood abuse ON SET in front of her entire family and production team!!! You know that affected her mood for the rest of the day(coming days)! I'm sure they wasted NO time pressing record immediately after! shes literally SAYING its the industry that produces this kind of behavior, and then the following story is about yet ANOTHER Black woman exposing how the entertainment industry affects her soul. this is a PATTERN/CYCLE! we need to be shifting the blame entirely onto the media and enough with the victims! I believe in accountability!!

[@britbritnicole]

People keep saying the real is fake but if you regularly watched the show you’d see that they kept it real on their own personal experiences in life. Amanda isn’t saying the other ladies were the problem but the producers. The real was and is an escape from the craziness of the news. I think Amanda wasn’t a good fit because she made the show too serious and it wasn’t suppose to be like that all the time.

[@britbritnicole]

Nia Rountree right and there’s nothing wrong with having an escape lol, Amanda was tryna do it her way and it’s not her show to do that.

[@allypreston7634]

I knew Amanda was just too REAL ... for the REAL!! Prayers for TAMAR 😍

[@cheriejackson1106]

Tamar just REFUSES to take accountability and I'm tired. I feel bad for her psyche but if you go see a real therapist and not some spiritual person they'd tell u how u show up in the world. The Real. There's entities that exist in entertainment solely to diminish who we truly are and I could not see myself in 2020 with all that's going on being a yes person to the detriment of delivering knowledge and a safe space for my people.

[@amberdenisetv1232]

THANK YOU! it's like watching family values all over again 🙄😂. I don't know the ends and outs of her contract and relationship with WETV, but we not about to act like EDITING was the responsible for the toxic behavior Tamar. 🙄😒

[@Jypsyhussle]

She wanted the money and signed that contract for a check

[@DBrown-vg1fi]

Its insensitive you don't know what really happened

[@tamparedd813]

💯💯💯

[@devegas4910]

amber_denise 88 agreed. Editing can do a lot of damage, but at the same time they can only do so much with what you contribute. If you give a lot toxic energy and behavior, it won’t take much effort to make you look exactly like that.

[@LoverGworl777]

I LOVE Amanda Seales. She's beautiful, smart, and funny. She uses her platform properly, ALWAYS speaks up for the Black community. She stands up for what she believes in and isn't afraid to speak the truth, she doesn't care about all of that celebrity and fame. So humble. I admire her so much.

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

That's what attracted me about her.

[@RachaelBluee]

For both stories: "The least protected person in America is the black WOMAN."-Malcom x

[@Alex632]

He said that about black men towards black woman. Just saying.

[@RachaelBluee]

@@Alex632 still relevant towards every1 but thanks, didn't know

[@mayanicole8747]

@@Alex632 either way its true🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Nayahpooh012]

I do not understand how celebrities vehemently express that reality shows manipulate and distort their portrayal and KEEP signing new contracts to film new shows. Tamar has to take her power back and no longer participate in anything that does not serve her.

[@martell8560]

Amanda is all about black people, and the real is about diversity and appealing to all women.

[@user-dr5jv1wk4j]

Exactly

[@msladyHaiti]

I'm sorry, but there's only so much you can blame a network for YOUR actions. When you throw tantrums every day, what do you expect? 🙄😒 As for Amanda, I appreciate her so much more! Your spirit is worth more than any amount of money.

[@MsRobin-rt4jm]

But it’s like does she not know we have seen her on a bunch of other shows being rude and doing too much...big brother? OWN?...so every network is sabotaging you or do you just need take accountability and get help

[@msladyHaiti]

@@MsRobin-rt4jm that part!

[@Aliasss]

Her actions aside.. did she deserve for the producers to put her sexual trauma on front-street ? Whose to blame for that? Whose to blame for them instigating drama between her family and turning them against each other behind the scenes ? Whose to blame for the producer telling Loni Love what Tamar was filming when it’s supposed to be confidential? Whose to blame for them over-working & underpaying the black people on their network ? 👀 because Tamar isn’t the only celeb whose been complaint about the network..

[@wambo_e]

@@Aliasss I watched that episode and they never mentioned about her abuse...she the one who talked about it on wendy.....and isn't she an executive producer for all her shows?

[@msladyHaiti]

@@Aliasss the way I look at it, she should have BEEN walked away. Tia and Tamera had a similar reality show about their lives and they walked away after 2 seasons (I think) because the show was starting to destroy their relationship with each other.

[@jupiterinmotionn]

She’s being strategic to get out of that contract.

[@Jypsyhussle]

You know it! While keeping that paycheck

[@viewsbyshawnee]

Nope, she will pay for it watch!!!! She has hurt her already damaged career

[@SuperSouthchick]

💯

[@Amps2deuce]

I just said the same thing!!

[@karenwright1231]

Poor thing she doesn’t realize she has outsmarted herself....hollyweird don’t play fair.

[@BroughChatroom]

In Tamar’s sit down with Mona Scott, she seemed energized with the idea of working with Mona.

[@Ash_and_Ember00]

The real talks about service level topics that dont require deeper thinking, thats the issue here. They couldn't handle amanda. The real represents that one person in life that tries too hard not to offend anyone or hurt feelings.

[@aura5944]

Right the whole table isn't even educated at least not on the topics, sometimes they talk in circles lol

[@keepyoureyeswideopen]

agreed.... not sure why the show is called the “real”, nothing really real about it

[@VanityLuxe]

But so ironic that they call it the real

[@britbritnicole]

The real represents life experiences that other shows weren’t addressing. It’s not just a “race show”. There’s not shows talking to women about hair, motherhood or relationships. For people constantly say the show is fake is corny because they’ve talked about so many life experiences that at times have been hard to address.

[@mstresedenae]

Real talk... You all don't know all that goes on behind the scenes on these reality shows... To keep the drama going producers do a lot of underhanded and scheming things. I could see why she feels that way and I can imagine it takes a toll on a person. Many people who are no longer in reality tv all say the same thing... Everyone ain't lying!!!

[@gglove9747]

They signed up for it didn’t they

[@JsLife4]

SMUCHES but this isn’t her 1st time in the reality game. I’d understand if it was the first time....or even the 2nd time. But Sis jumped right back in when she was ALL the way out. Tamar just needs to take a step back and take responsibility for her choices. She needs real help.

[@sweetbrownsuga504]

Exactly!💯 I've been watching since the start and it's a totally different ball game.

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

Smuches...agree with u 💯%!!! One of the members of season 2 of the rap game is a family friend & the parent told is that they play psychological games with the contestants & their parents to keep the drama going. To the point where a real person that don’t kiss ass would get pissed off 😤 😤 & start lightweight snappin cause the psychological games were getting out of control. But instead of going ALL the way off they “saved face” due to their child wanting to live out their dream & potentially win. The child I’m referring to did not win. I wonder if the parents’ unwillingness “to -go-along to get- along” had any part of their decision🤔🤔?!?

[@marie2511]

See the fictional show on Hulu called 'Unreal.'. Depicts all this type of stuff drummed up by the showrunners on these "reality" shows.

[@sheliaclemmons-mckay1354]

When we realize that living Black in America, causes our dysfunction, we find ourselves at a loss, of knowing who we are.

[@jayoleary8655]

Tamer needs to deal with her own problems instead of putting all the blame on We Tv , She is spoiled and selfish to do what she did , she's a Mother how could she do that to her son !! Grow up Tamer it's time !!

[@sheliaclemmons-mckay1354]

Jay O'Leary You obviously do not understand Mental illness. And I don’t have time, I should as a psychology student, but I don’t , and I don’t think you would hear me if I did. My Mother Universe, keep bestowing goodness and mercy on you and yours.🤦🏾‍♀️😩🤷🏾‍♂️

[@vickyjohnson7172]

@ Amanda - I will miss ur contribution to the conversation at The Real. Always a pleasure and informative❤

[@Blakpepa]

I don't understand, if she hates this network so much why does she keep running to them for work? Why is she always on reality TV if she hates it so much?

[@ariela_]

Contract

[@lavenderpurple6248]

Contract and she probably needed the money

[@afro_buddha4977]

She never ran back to them, 9 year contract and still on going !!!!

[@Hersheydimples]

💰 money

[@ariela_]

That’s why she said “they own her”

[@Senglishify]

I’m sorry, but if you want to come across well on reality TV, behave well on reality TV! You’re responsible for how you conduct yourself, if you were acting correctly there would be nothing for them to edit or manipulate!

[@lealeahazel8093]

Umm HELLO PLEASE say that again so the ppl in bac can hear U 😄

[@JCALRADIO]

Excactly what i was thinking , is She the same braxton that started the real?

[@nicolprofittkh]

You could be behaving well and there's a misunderstanding that blows up. That could be b1% of every episode and they show that. There are so many people who've done reality TV who attest to this. Even tia and Tamera alluded to this which is why Tamera said she'd never do reality TV again. Not saying Tamar doesn't have issues, but we can't ignore that people love to see the worst. That's what sells reality tv

[@LADYJ50546]

@@nicolprofittkh Well if we know that and the reality stars know that! What's the problem??

[@katelinburch446]

I’m glad Tamar is alive. I was really worried. The trailer to the show was intense

[@bloop6461]

They know if they give us the same advantages as they have, we would rule the world...

[@godsgirl7201]

Yeah

[@Alex632]

Lmaoooo

[@CelleSleuths]

Have you ever stopped to think that is what has us in this mess in the first place? Fear of retaliation, fear of losing power... thats why they hold on to it so tight.. But imagine this : what if no one ruled or took over the world and we just lived equally for once so we could stop the cycle of history repeating itself over and over.

[@iamamazing7418]

And some time you have to take your advantage..

[@meganlee4115]

@@CelleSleuths let's be real this cycle is Never gonna end ppl still gonna be racist homophobic and etc

[@annisaarthur-castro6227]

That's why people don't take her seriously, sorry to say. You just went through such a traumatic experience and still having the presence of mind and willingness to still be on social media pleading your case. Hold your child close, spend time with him and try to reconcile yourself and him with what you just attempted to do. It was what it was with the network. Do you now.

[@thefoxxiefoxx8056]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@KentrellBraxton]

Social media don’t mean shit. Only people like you allow it to mean something. The girl deserves to defend herself when EVERYONE else is on the internet discussing her like YOU are as well. I think this comment is very ignorant meaning you lack the necessary knowledge of understanding to even comment on the situation. You dint have to take her seriously, I do. She’s human, as every human should be taken seriously.

[@beautynfavor21]

Kentrell Braxton As a black women, it baffles me how programmed other black people are to the point of black women’s pain & plight being invisible. I don’t understand it.

[@vivelavidalivelife3617]

You don't understand trauma. I suggest you do so research.

[@beautybliss21]

Amen

[@FuchsiaSquare]

Amanda Seales was “Too Real” for the Real, and did not blend in with the fakeness. 🙃

[@lalo3857]

Nobody like her anyways.

[@FuchsiaSquare]

Angela Her - Being nice isn’t always real. Being Real isn’t always nice. If you’re liked by everybody, you’re NOT real enough.😌

[@Lyomama22]

FuchciaSquare Amanda is problematic. She even has her insta comments disabled because she’s “bullied”. Even tho Amanda is the bully. If everyone is saying the same thing about Amanda at what point is she going to look in the MIRROR. She said it’s her black womaness but it’s really just her being an utter bitch

[@laurenletcher2110]

Tamar is" Reaping What She Sows"-Tamar is Narrastics, Selfish and a User. From Braxton's Family Values, Tamar used the family, mainly Toni and Vincent for selfish gain. The plot of taking her life is for sympathy. Girl go somewhere and sit down. The Braxton's are a classy family with the expectation of the "Ghetto Person Tamar", don't like her or her music. Girl Bye!!

[@teezyaye4138]

Somebody is always exposing “tHe ReAl” 🥱🤐

[@deronwilliams338]

Tamar help create the monster that is out there. She can’t blame WE TV for something that help you get you in the spotlight.

[@exther.]

Deron Williams but miley Cyrus was brought in the spotlight by Hanah Montana and that harmed her mentally. It doesn’t matter if it brought her into the spotlight especially if it harms her mental health.

[@sassy40129]

She was already in the spot light, I knew exactly who she was before the braxtons, I bought all her albums, if you’re not in someone’s shoes you can’t be quick to judge.... The braxtons gave WE tv a lot of ratings, but meanwhile their getting under paid, that’s not cool, Tamar put up with that crap for years.... Enough is enough already

[@yaoilover0]

Yea but there’s spotlight, then there’s edited spotlight.

[@sassk7443]

@@sassy40129 Tamar did not have to keep renewing her contracts. She has complained about WeTV for years; yet keeps renewing her contract. Plenty of people don't renew their contracts for new seasons on reality tv. Tamar is a brat and complains about EVERYTHING. No one puts a gun to your head to keep staying at a job you don't like.

[@NubianPrince2012]

Vii Nix and if you noticed it was edited and you didn't like it initially - leave. I can't feel sympathy when you go back to something and then finally get fed up and place a majority of the liability on the company. When does your own self accountability come into the equation?

[@noahabdul]

Empressive always up to date, u deserve all the love and subscribers. 💜💜💜

[@nashyplyn8676]

Mona Scott has messed up the life of so many black women. I cant stand her but you know what they say about karma

[@Essieb195]

That why I don't watch her show because she brings down the culture. She brings down these black women for a check.

[@Mswater387]

Mona Scott Young uses her shows to paint black women in a bad light. All of her shows, she had Black women fighting each other and looking crazy, all so she can get a check. I hate it. That woman is the devil smh

[@yoyute27zeet61]

I love Amanda and truly wish her the best. I just cant fathom why people dislike her.

[@shashavengesayi6055]

I could’ve never imagine trying to take my own life knowing that I’m leaving behind a child. In regards to Amanda, I’m happy that she made the decision that was best for her, but at the same time I get why The Real chooses not to discuss certain topics. The world is depressing as it is, and the fun cheeriness that the Real brings is an escape for me

[@powerofknowledge8333]

Since they let her out of her contract now I wonder if she will be blackballed.

[@aura5944]

Ofc

[@TripleVenusTarot]

Right

[@xavierking6639]

there's always a tradeoff...nothing's that simple in this industry.

[@Jypsyhussle]

She’s been blacklisted. Vince couldn’t even jump start that career

[@YPM498]

Yup that’s what I was saying.

[@momodias1997]

Having a white producer produce “Smart Funny and Black” 🤔 that shouldn’t sit right with anyone’s spirit. Like if there was a Smart Funny and Asian wouldn’t make sense to have anyone but an Asian producer.

[@jobs4813]

True

[@soulsnatcher4452]

They don't care about making "Smart, Funny & Black" they only care about "Making money off Black"

[@dinkyboss]

Her ability to produce the show should speak to her talents, not her race. Especially considering she was trying to listen to what Amanda has to say and use her input. Assuming because she’s white she’d be incapable of producing the segment is dumb. That’s like assuming just because someone is black they wouldn’t know shit about Wall Street for example.

[@jobs4813]

dinkyboss oh ok right now race don’t matter now until you fools take race out of online and In Person application than run ur mouths bout bullshit because it only doesn’t matter when black people open their mouths bout shit it matters to only ur entire species conditions in everything else 🤣OK gotchya take it off the applications and don’t turn down a black person down for a job we see this shit happen all the time it’s u guys way of shutting us up and acting like we all in this “together” but still pulling the strings on muppets goodbye

[@momodias1997]

dinkyboss lol “knowing about Wall Street” is not the same about knowing the interpersonal and emotional aspects relating to being black. She might be a great producer but those talents are irrelevant if she doesn’t understand the jokes or information that would happen during the segment.

[@mrs.mercyjackson3514]

I feel like we (Us..BM and BW) dont show enough support to Amanda. I applaud the way she intelligently speaks her mind, isn't afraid to stand up and speak on our issues without being one bit of timid, educates while still being able to incorporate laughter; With all of the things we (Us..BW and BM) go through,one could easily get upset and depressed. See but laughter is medicine..it heals ..and we (Us. BM and BW) need that healing. It's great to get it from one of our own. I love her positivity. I live that she unapologetically is "Smart ,Funny,&Black".. We need to pay more attention to our people who are like her.

[@Lyomama22]

I think we need to stop justifying Amanda’s behaviors. This isn’t the first time with her. She IS VERY aggressive and we need to call a spade a spade. No man wants a rough ass female like hence why she has no man. She blames systemic oppression but when given the opportunity to spread awareness she has all types of issues. She doesn’t want to work with any other race other than black. That’s racist if u ask me. She needs to be able to work with ALL TYPES OF RACES INCLUDING WHITE if she really wants to make a change.

[@mrs.mercyjackson3514]

@@Lyomama22 What does her not having a man (that we know of) have to do with anything that I said. And her being very passionate(not aggressive) may just be her personality. As a matter of fact...with the way Black people are treated and disregarded and discredited...somebody needs to be aggressive. A racist is someone who discriminates against another person because of the color of their skin. Its a person who believes they are above others because of the color of their skin. Saying that you prefer to work with only black people does not make you a racist. It just means you want to work with people who are like you and can better relate to whatever it is you are persuing at the time. And for the record..she never said she only wants to work with black people. She has worked with all races since she was on Nickelodeon. What she said was that the "Funny,Smart,and Black" segment should have been produced by a Black person. She was right ...it should have been. I think you should not say a person is racist without having good reason and proof. You have neither. Maybe you should figure out why you and whoever else feels like you do is so offended by a Black Woman who is intelligently living strong in her Blackness an is not ashamed to show it,speak on it,and defend it if necessary. Opinions are like assholes.....everyone has one. Yours is your own an you are entitled to it. However I think it is ignorant as he'll. Be blessed. #BeAmazing -Mrs.Mercy

[@Lyomama22]

Mrs.Mercy Jackson so if a white person would say I only want to work with white ppl because that makes me more comfortable would that be racist?

[@mrs.mercyjackson3514]

@@Lyomama22 No not in the context of which she (Amanda)actually spoke and not the hyperbole you wrote in your comment. There are MANY White people who only want to work with other Whites for the simple fact that they believer other races are inferior. Yes that is racist..reguardless of who does it... Asians,Italians,Pakistani etc. If you are DISCRIMINATING against another race because of their skin and because you believe them to be less than you are because they are not the same race as you are is racist and ignorant an always will be. However comma ...that is not the case here. She has proven that she has,can,and will work with other races. She just will not and should not have to tone down her blackness while doing so. Just because someone decides that they personally want to work with their own on a project that is about THEIR OWN CULTURE...(because u seem not to understand that that was the issue and one of the reasons she was said to be a problem)that does not make them racist.So Stop it. Stop making it broad when it isn't. Again for you and whoever else in the back...SHE DID NOT EVER SAY SHE ONLY WANTS TO WORK WITH BLACK PEOPLE. SHE SAID THAT THE SEGMENT ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE...SHOULD BE PRODUCED BY A BLACK PRODUCER. Why is that so hard to grasp? Maybe its hard for you to grasp because you are not looking at facts. You are actually distorting what was said out of her mouth the way you want to in order to push the narrative that she is problematic,aggressive,racist,and apparently single because of it. Lol@u. When actually producers have been trying to mute her an her opinions on black issues because they didnt want to offend TheReals Non-Black audience. She didnt go for that. She is honest about what she feels when things are not making since, she is passionate about portraying the Black experience as what it should be ,she is passionate about BLACK people being represented in a positive light not just the sorrowful, criminal, and negative,she is passionate about who gets allowed to tell our stories(cause no one can tell our stories or properly really represent all sides of Us like Us),she is not a racist.You and whoever else that has followed her has literally seen her woking with people who are not of African decent on camera and behind the camera, and you dont know who the he'll she is dating or if she is. So how do you know "aggressivness" is why she doesnt have a man? I'll answer that. You don't. The problem is people get offended when a BW or BM is proud to be Black and have intelligence and education within them an are not affraid to speak up when there is some b.s. going on. It makes people uncomfortable....only when its a BW or BM though. Being Pro-Black does not make you Anti-Everyone Else. #BeAmazing -Mrs.Mercy

[@josephinestafford4466]

I disagree. She comes off as very aggressive, and acts as if she doesn’t want to let anyone else talk. She also has problems talking about things other than race (not that it can’t be apart of every topic but dang girl don’t make this whole discussion about race). I love my Black people and all but she isn’t the only host to get attacked. She loves to play victim. I love outgoing, expressive black women seeing as I am one myself but she needs to learn how to interact with others and understand that her view isn’t the only right view.

[@Alex632]

The Real is an entertainment show. Amanda thought she could come in and mix it with black/social issues, something the viewers themselves didn't want. The show built their image totally opposite to what The View is for that untapped market. I seriously don't know what she expected to happen.

[@toocutenoirb.4278]

But some viewers did like it and want it. It is a nice mix to have serious and entertainment. Ya know?

[@wfmbu]

Amanda was not just talking about black issues she was actually giving good advice I remember one time they did an episode on how to make a patent for a product it’s called a poor mans patent. I really like they took off the show because she was giving advice on how to better your situation as opposed to being self loathing but that’s my opinion.

[@reginahsimako8703]

@@wfmbu she also called a man who faked being attacked cz of race and sexuality a role model

[@reneeyoung3186]

Question to Tamar: how would the network know what you went through from the age 6 to 16 UNLESS you told them?

[@brownhippiex496]

I always tell ppl, “don’t tell anyone anything your afraid of getting out”

[@Anon92456]

I LOVE when people come out and actually say what happened (my nosy ass 😂) but I guess you can also expect that from Amanda.

[@ddh19454]

I just need tamera to come out now and speak some truth 👃👃

[@melodywillis3104]

Ummm. . . Good luck.

[@su-enaahleebeautifulcontra3617]

Can't serve two masters. She was done wrong by Vince.

[@234forte]

Exactly , when the whole family flipped on him when they became executive producers and it was not fair ,minus Tracie.

[@yelissafigue]

She didn’t like how she looked bye Tamar. You’ve working with WE for years. It’s hard to believe anything. You knew exactly what you signed up for

[@lealeahazel8093]

RIGHT an I'm reading comments that WE edit videos to make her look certain way...please shut up now do that make sense WEN U THAT'S BEING RECORDED PERIOD I wouldn't give a flying f on Edits IT'S STILL U THAT THEY RECORED like please make it make sense..SHE is mental period

[@MISSSMOOTHBABE]

While she might have her own mental health issues to deal with.... it’s definitely true that reality TV 100% edit shows in such a way to create more controversy. Sometimes they’ll even introduce outside forces during takes that you were unaware of to get a reaction. Anyone would react, and they cut it differently to sometimes make it look like that’s how you react to things in a regular basis. Many people have spoken out about this countless times, and sometimes these shows are slightly scripted with some hints of truth to have you look and react how they want you to. Now I’m not saying that’s the case all the time for people’s actions but when it comes to reality TV it’s 80-90% when it comes to the TV business, it’s ruthless and things are planned.

[@tamekathomas3181]

She wanted to be on tv so bad now it’s a problem

[@shaehowie5898]

YOU READY FREDDY? Thank you!

[@tiag298]

She manipulative. We watched it for yearrrs. Did the same to her husband.

[@acquadi2077]

fame is addictive for some.

[@PettyMurphyTV]

Let’s talk about how Empressive is the best channel on KZbin - ECR

[@CSelmore86]

PERIOD👏🏾👏🏾💫💯👑

[@Chitownhomestead]

Yyaasss

[@verahoward9422]

Lord, she is too talented. I may not agree with her on everything, but she is a gem. She needs to be on TV. And she DESERVES an award!!!

[@7779311sassy]

I have been a long time fan of Amanda, and I was very shocked to see that she even took a host job at the real because they seem very "unreal" and talk about nonsense. She deserves her own platform and I know she will get it soon. Best of luck to her!!

[@tamiakirk7036]

I’m convinced some ppl have their notifications turned on just to dislike the vid. It’s only been up for 5 mins 😭

[@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect]

Blows my mind smh

[@aura5944]

Fr, I believe they're paid to dislike all uploads

[@TheRealNativeSun]

How you gonna be mad at a contract you signed probably without a lawyer and mad at the footage they recorded of your reactions to situations. I wish her well but these aren’t all solely on the production company. I can’t stand it when people don’t take accountability for the way they move.

[@bossladiee]

THANK YOU

[@gloriaharris8636]

True

[@nblevelup5005]

STOP LYING on poor david people because this man is the sweetest human being remember how tamar HUMILIATED him on the couple trip at Martha's Vineyard he did NOTHING even her sisters were shook by her behavior. #FakeNarrative #StopAttackingDavid

[@durelleable]

Amennnn, they should be thankful that he is there for her. A lot of men will run away. She needs to get off social media and heal

[@devin837]

EXACTLY. The way Tamar acted when Trina got engaged just because it was on her birthday was absolutely tacky and immature. Tamar is the tumor of her family I swear. They honestly enable her behavior. They always walked on eggshells around her. Constantly calling a grown woman who well into her 40's "The Baby of the family" was their biggest on going mistake. Tamar always acted like she was embarrassed of Traci Towanda and Trina but always favors Toni but ironically enough was still jealous of her. Lord, it over-whelming. Hope her family gets better. Her family didn't nickname Tamar "Taymonster" for no reason.

[@nosiphodywili35]

@@devin837 David was a fake narrative but Tamar was accurately portrayed ?? Talk about biased.

[@ylarrymore]

@@devin837 yep that's the Tamar I saw too. Now she's looking back seeing why ppl don't like her & it hurts. Now she wants to change the narrative and her image to be likable. It's tougher than she imagined & now she's feeling it & throwing fits along the way in true Tamar style.

[@devin837]

@@nosiphodywili35 wtf are u talking about K.I.M.

[@MoreMelaninPlease]

Cancel all reality shows 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Chitownhomestead]

Agreed sis... agreed!!!

[@deseraeward9618]

I totally agree because it's not reality anyway 🤔😵

[@PiscesSun_Capricornrising]

Agreed those the only black shows most watched by other races. And since the Cosby show...there really isnt anything positive on tv except Black ish

[@MoreMelaninPlease]

Deserae Ward not only is it not reality, it shows us in a bad light! These shows aint helping no damn body. A lot of these so call “reality stars” are in need of therapy and rehab. Lets not get on the subject of accountability. Just shut down production on all these reality shows.

[@MoreMelaninPlease]

BlackWomanUSA _24 I cringed when my tv is on, I barely watch it anymore

[@kayduhaime8929]

No one ever forced her to be in the entertainment business. What has always bothered her was that she was not the number one entertainer in her family, it was Toni, and that killed her. Oh my gosh she's just gonna make up so much up on herself. I do believe she's got a lot of problems, but it's on her, she should stop blaming other people in her life.

[@shamaal123]

Omg!!! Thank you!!! She felt misused on one show to do another?? These celebrities will do anything for attention!!

[@aleysacampbell8709]

Hater

[@02loud]

100% agreed...this whole thing is weird and fishy.

[@tammymorgan5348]

Absolutely!

[@HardBanks]

Hmmmm Tamar is a bit extra but that’s her personality,I watch the show n from what I observed Tamar had a wonderful heart ❤️ Tamar keep ur head up sweetheart #Stayblessed🙏🏽.

[@sbusisiwes.shabane6883]

I love Amanda she makes sense. She's such a role model.

[@janaeaniyah9830]

To be honest, im tired of hearing about The Real, there are better talk/daytime shows🤷🏽‍♀️

[@freelikeyve]

I hate “the real” so much.

[@kiarahnoname5701]

Adrienne should not be on the real.

[@Gi.legit1229]

kiarah No Name how come?

[@shericawilkinson833]

@@kiarahnoname5701 why

[@shahdhassanen2436]

it was good in the beginning

[@kiarahnoname5701]

@@Gi.legit1229 Because of the way she treated her group member back in the day, messing with a married man! That's why!!! Bitch I said what I said. Don't come for me unless I send for you!

[@QueXopa79]

For her to be in her 40s she is extremely immature. I wish she didn’t speak so soon. Take a break from social media who cares about these ppl out here...

[@feilatan]

Sharon Da Costa very immature

[@ChocolateDon929]

I never understood how the “network” can make someone look bad over shyt you actually did on camera someone help me understand that please!

[@msoddballz5763]

The power of editing. Not saying that she always innocent but, editors can edit out a conversation and show something completely different then what really happened. They do that, to make the fight look more intense than what it was. Also, I have heard several times that producers on reality shows stir the pot for more drama.

[@ajayyy_3]

It’s called editing.

[@candid0111]

They can use music alone to make ur facial expression whatever they want you to look like

[@genevafrans3752]

It a called editing... ugh some people

[@verahoward9422]

They can edit what you say and do to make you look bad. For example, I can say the words "I can't stand you" and accidently knock over a glass jar . A producer can use my words and edit a scene to make ppl think that I threw a glass jar at someone I didn't like. That actually happened on a reality show.