Tamar Davis in Madea's Big Happy Family (You Are My Man)

the song from the 2010 Tyler Perry play "Madea's Big Happy Family". Tamar Plays as Kimberly, who is having trouble with her husband and she finally sees how she has been treating him and sing him an apology.
Lyrics:
Why is it so hard to get over your past?
(Jason: I'm doing all i can to help you)
Why am I still hurting?
Why does this anger last?
(Jason: I'm getting tired baby. Something's gotta change. You know what.... I'm finished. I'm outta here.)
(Kimberly: Wait! No Jason wait! Please!)
If you would help me, I will try to help me too.
Just dont leave me, I wont make it without you.
I-I-I-I-I get so mad. I take it out on you.
I know you wanna help me with all the wrong I've done to you!
All you wanna do is love me!
But i keep pushing you away.
All you ever done is cared for me
and i say no please go, away.
I-I-I don't know why, why you love-ove-ove me.
But I'm so glad you do, you do-o-o-o-o
Thank you for putting up with me
And all the things I put you through, ohhhh.
I get so sad and mean towards you.
But just hold me until the moment is through. oh
You are my man, My real Good Man.
So strong for me. My one true friend.
You are my man. My lover man.
Don't give up on me. Please understand!
Doooooon't, Doooooon't.
(Kimberly: I'm Sorry)

[@tanagedavis8253]

Someone please put this on spotify, been hitting repeat from 2013 to 2024

[@leedanielle2819]

Tyler perry plays have some of the best singers they sing it live no mistakes

[@smileycakes9593]

BIG FACTS!

[@sandrabartholomew924]

I love tamar davis Tony grant tony hightower and Cheryl Pepsi Riley

[@sandrabartholomew924]

And i love Alexis Jones Stephanie ferret

[@Amorantasia1]

Still gives me chills in 2020!!!

[@cootiemya1]

Okaaayyy, still gives me chills. Such a #classic! ❤️🎶

[@lvshidd4429]

YESSSS LAWD IT DOES !!!!😑👍

[@elmoharris4505]

Yessss

[@camissashelton5076]

Me to hun

[@lvshidd4429]

@@camissashelton5076 *too 😉👍

[@crownr0yalonice]

i cannot stop listening. the tone of her voice ... the clarity. every. NOTE! aaaaaahhhhh. *sails away on a cloud*

[@TheTamarDavis]

Oh no come back lol. Thank you for listening.

[@tw6361]

@@TheTamarDavis I love how you sing this!!! So grateful for your gift!!! Keep killing it!!!

[@mamichulacortez1666]

@@TheTamarDavis you are one of the best singers out. Unbelievable. And.. you did a comfortable slay. You never oversing or destroy a song’s integrity. Amazing!

[@camissashelton5076]

Me to

[@jordandavis2110]

Jordan Davis 21 The Tone Her

[@jadafisher2494]

im Literally Obsessed With This Song 🌚💖

[@hershe782005]

same here! It's so beautiful and she sings so flawlessly.

[@ajones8356]

This song will never get old to me!

[@thelmajohnson6072]

you sound like me I absolutely love this song

[@jasminemoney3452]

Jada Fisher same sis!!!!!!!

[@TheTamarDavis]

Thank you Jada for your encouraging words.

[@artbylisa1031]

Underrated! I still get chills listening to this after all these years 😭💯

[@jayintuitive7717]

She was SANGINGGGG!!! Gave her all on this song🙌🏾

[@Rotatinhatin]

Feel some type of way when she sings this 😩🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 2019..still get goosebumps!

[@jessicaracquel269]

Yyyyeeeesssss

[@kaseyb.4440]

I’m on this train too!!! Chills and still amazing to this day!!!

[@TOshunJai]

Still here too 😩😂❤️

[@tw6361]

Yasssss!!! 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 #Iloveher

[@doriandaniels6078]

Oh my God! I do too!

[@luvLyfe00]

Her vocals are impeccable, i just had to find this song, i wish they had it for purchase.:(

[@JSmith-gq6xi]

She blew me away singing this at the play... I was literally in tears. Amazing performance

[@dannymitchell2736]

I went to see the play too & I was like WHOAAA can we run that one back! Should’ve been a single!

[@ashleelois]

On repeat, my neighbors probably really hate me right now. Love this song and the beauty singing it

[@LovinMe60]

me 2!

[@tonisiahholley5872]

Ashley Hankins you can't help but love it she is so talented, officially my fav singer on Tyler perry plays😂😂

[@camissashelton5076]

Me to hun

[@ladennayoung2939]

Oh well. They will get over it. Lol.

[@GEERONAful]

i just searched like hell to find this song again...beautiful!!

[@kye9208]

looool so did I.. I was typing in all types of stuff to find this.. when I first watched the play I got cold bumps and cried to this... it was so real.. omg she sangggghgggg

[@GEERONAful]

kye i cry like a baby every time

[@kye9208]

so glad there's someone else out there who feels the same way I do about this song..this voice

[@playmakinjody4205]

Just went through that same thing lol

[@AlluretheGOAT]

I was reading an unauthorized Destiny’s Child book written from their vocal coach. This was the one (real name Ashley) who was let go when Matthew took over management. Now I see why. Her voice is incredible and she would have also stood out in the group.

[@CeCe0714]

If you listen to the beginning of Flawless they say her name in the clip. Most don't know she started with the ladies.

[@jordandavis2110]

Jordan Davis 21 Her book And

[@Zebras_2005]

She definitely would have stood out❤❤

[@harmony3279]

Yesssss.

[@harmony3279]

Beyonce didn't want any competition.

[@dopeschool]

Dawg.... That shit at the end. My word! Tear jerking.... I remember when I was younger and I first heard this...I couldnt believe what I was hearing. She is unreal.

[@trilldjay7429]

Over 10 years later it’s 2022 and this song is still sooo good

[@mrstceubanks]

maaaannnnn she is a cold piece.... i love to hear her sing.

[@keiarabee213]

No matter what she sings I cry every time. Her voice is so beautiful. 😍❤️

[@pettypatty329]

+Lady Boss I never knew of her before missing her blind audition on *The Voice* tonight. I hope I catch the repeat because I believe they all turned around for her. Tyler Perry was there with her for moral support! Way to go, Tyler! 3-8-16

[@LUX_8]

+Lady Mcalady Initially only one judge turned around. At the last possible sec, Blake then hit his buzzer. SMDH.

[@pettypatty329]

Is she still competing? I really don't watch these shows much anymore. They bore the hell out of me. She does have a very nice voice. I'm trying to think of who it is she reminds me of..

[@jordandavis2110]

Jordan Davis 21 is So What Her

[@musicinmybody7]

She murdered this, I love her voice! #teamtamar

[@calmcfarlin6941]

I fell in love with Tamar Davis every since I heard her sing on one of Tyler Perry's play's. No matter what song she is doing she makes it her own and I can literally sit back and listen to her songs all day. And I know every song that you have done by heart. You are my biggest music inspiration... #TamFam

[@tyeWantspie]

This woman deserves so much more credit than what she's getting. Her vocals are completely unique....why does this not have more views? ㅠㅠ

[@Brincess_803]

she has a beautiful voice

[@laquelcox7308]

Tamar Davis is such a talented lady and Tamar looks like a nice person so Tamar if your listening God bless you and I am your biggest fan of your work and know this God will always be with you and he loves you too so be encourage

[@StrwbryMuffin]

OMG, she killed this song! I don't know how many times I've heard it! Love it!

[@TheTamarDavis]

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Seriously.

[@TheDshodges]

Giiiiiirrrrlllll, you betta sang!! ***throws my hands up in the air like Eddie Kane's mama***

[@nickilewinsky4070]

Diana Hodges 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@SwTal3ntz]

😂😂😂😂

[@camissashelton5076]

Yess

[@Innerpeace-hl1rp]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ladennayoung2939]

LOL! You are silly. I had an aunt that reminded me of her. I needed that laugh. Thanks for sharing. God bless you and yours in Jesus name.

[@Error-lc1jy]

THIS VOICE IS EVERYTHING. Perfect song to show her talent.

[@warrenkbelljr2129]

Tamar is such a beautiful singer😍☝👍

[@goodiegoodgurl18]

out of all the songs from his entire collection of plays this song is the best. Has me always crying and always hits the soul. #repeatbutton

[@m.natasha3452]

The words, the delivery, had me in tears. Been hooked on this tune ever since.

[@queet9138]

YASSSS! I look @ the play just to hear her sing this! Give em lyfe honti!

[@marcuslundy8662]

2021 and I’m still coming to hear her sing this song. 😭😭

[@kelleemyers120]

2022 and I’m here🤗

[@shana8745]

Love this song.. Best from his play

[@Cameo96_]

Still the best song on any madea play 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@mmabion]

2024 we need more Tamar!

[@CindyMindy-qy7wj]

Yes❤

[@crystalcrystal3986]

Still come here.. Deep down wanting to be able to sing this to someone one day...

[@crownr0yalonice]

3:14 to 3:27 takes me away EVERY. TIME.

[@TheTamarDavis]

thank you lol. And the fact that you put the times in there lol #TamFam

[@natoriwilliams9029]

TheTamarDavis love your vocals at the end I just love you

[@natashax8444]

B HM yesssssss

[@TheTamarDavis]

Natasha x love and hugs. Thank you. God bless

[@TheTamarDavis]

Natori Williams hugs beauty

[@lavell9816]

2023 anyone 👀

[@artbylisa1031]

✋🏾

[@Chaisvoice]

2024❤

[@FlymoufDiction]

I LITERALLY WATCHED THIS PART OF THE MOVIE UNCOUNTABLE TIMES!! I LOVE THIS WOMAN... SHE GAVE ME CHILLS LIKE ERYKAH BADU OR JILL SCOTT.. IF SHE SUNG THAT TA MEEEE, I WOULD LOVE HER FOR LIFE LIKE JODECI!! LOVE YOU TAMAR

[@natoriwilliams9029]

I feel in love with her the first time I seen her on the plays she sings good.like I love her so much

[@Brionnayvonne]

Does anyone still listen to this song besides me ?

[@ChataraBerry]

I’m listening to it right now ❤

[@kelleemyers120]

August 2024❤

[@owliannablaze5869]

I love this song the way her range reaches it gives me goosebumps

[@loveu0214]

Love this song. My heart feels it all. Don't allow your past pain to become today's troubles. Let go.

[@donnellgreene9933]

Beautiful and can blow... the sound of your voice took me away especially the end

[@Twoods328]

So loving this song. Cant stop hitting replay...lol Beautiful

[@LUX_8]

This girl really knows how to connect her soul and emotions to the lyrics of a song! First time hearing this song and I really like it. Hopefully she'll be given the opportunity to perform it on The Voice (minus the guy part). Keep the piano intro and the band, but add some strings.

[@TheTamarDavis]

Lee it was a pleasure reading this message. I wish I could have but...I will be announcing some things about this song soon. So thank you for the encouragement.

[@jordandavis2110]

Jordan Davis 21 This Keep be

[@Iknowjasmine]

3:15 on out.. Wow!!!

[@LUX_8]

+Jasmine Watson IKR? Fav part.

[@ShareeseHarris]

This song still does it for me. 😢❤

[@Bunny72007]

This song speaks volume to me! So beautiful! She definitely killed that note at the end!

[@classicheart4124]

This song has lived rent free in my head for years..my absolute favorite from all his plays.

[@dnetanya]

I cried but i had to hear it again

[@TheChellezBrand]

Kept replaying this scene over and over again. Love the way she performed this

[@lorettasalinas320]

one of her best songs,,she is going to the top and will overcome all obstacles..love her voice

[@shakeananorthern1555]

This song makes me appreciate what i have cause i sometimes still let my past guide me but i love you sooooo much Grover Smith

[@jennifercarson8337]

2022 and I still look up this song on KZbin for it’s the only place to listen to it besides the play and it still gives me chills. Love Tamar her voice and story are inspiring.

[@antionettebrown728]

Tyler Perry her all times in his plays

[@GarrellWoods]

Her voice is immaculate!

[@Pralifik]

I just like the way she sang this. The sound and note at the end ❤

[@marijhamoore]

I listen to this everyday her voice is beautiful 🖤🖤🖤

[@andreawicks970]

Great singing, great play, and great bass

[@ischelajennice8463]

she bodied this oneeee👋🏻when i tell you she ATE THIS UPPPP

[@astaciamckinnis9197]

This girl killed it! Brilliant singer

[@therapture27]

When I saw this play back in 2010, this song was imprinted indelibly on my brain. It resonated strongly with me due to my own failed relationship. The song takes you through the characters lows and gives you a glimpse of the boundless love that she could have for her husband. I hope that Tamar's voice can heal women's hearts all over the world and salvage relationships that are on the brink due to unspoken conflict within themselves. #Tamarhasabeautifulvoiceandisbeautiful!!!!

[@charityjohnson2834]

I almost threw my phone!! You better sang sis

[@LikeMagic4u]

I can totally relate to this beautiful and magnificent song!!! #Love

[@bigladytf]

Same here

[@rebeccathomas9717]

I can related to this song I'm going through things with my bf

[@LikeMagic4u]

Rebecca Thomas I hope things get better with you two!

[@rebeccathomas9717]

Javona it's a little to late for here I am bout to have my baby and he left for another woman less then two weeks

[@LikeMagic4u]

So sorry to hear that Rebecca Thomas. Congratulations on the upcoming birth of your child. Cheers to new beginnings without his or her father. Someone else will come along and love you the way you deserve!

[@beautifulviptflame8985]

This song speaks to my heart !!! She's simply Awesome with those vocals!!😍😍😍🦋🦋😘 fly gurl!

[@gina2406]

LISTEN TO HER SHE SOUNDS THIS WAY LIVE!!!!!!!! BEAUTIFUL VOICE

[@mr.fisher2320]

Exactly why they cut her from Destiny’s Child… Truth is, she would’ve been too much competition for Beyoncé. But God always has a plan💯

[@lsmith4971]

EXACTLY.

[@jurelljohnson2147]

Her family pulled her from Destiny’s child lmaoooo

[@briancaelayshia20]

Thank you, for putting up with me...😍 That's why I'm grateful for my man because my anger is out of control & he doesn't judge me. I love him so much. I've never cheated on him, but I know I'm a handful.

[@audreyhill6020]

Brianca Elay'shia Life is too short Ask god what he could do for you to calm your self down.Anger leads to Illnesses And Early death. Be. Blessed.

[@itsshyheim]

2020. I surely will bring this beautiful voice in the new year. Love her voice ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥

[@TheFameyous]

135 people didn’t know smh cause she sang the heck out this song!!! 🥰🥰❤️❤️

[@TheChrisFrench]

she really ate this up

[@Shonniism]

I loooove this song! I had a "Just Because Party" for my husband and dedicated this to him!

[@thurmond062976]

Can't stop listening to ( literally )

[@bestseller8735]

I watched Madea big happy family 9n Bet and I forgot how much I Love her voice. Another underrated beautiful black woman.

[@Adoores1]

MY GOD this girls voice is GREAT!

[@charleswells4307]

Roaring through my heart still in 2022

[@briannakache98]

i had To Play This Likee 100 Timess To Dayy !

[@Lampkin84]

Anyone listening in 2021?

[@bigswol34]

I sooo love Tamar! She is truly not given the amount of credit/publicity that she TRULY deserves!!

[@monicasmalls07]

I love this song

[@TheTamarDavis]

Thank you

[@rebeccathomas9717]

TheTamarDavis thanks for this song I can related

[@shevasher1208]

This is by far the best song I've ever heard. The most underrated artist I've ever came across.

[@Legoflymaster89]

Love this song

[@whighamdejahn]

best song ever tamar davis has sang

[@sharitaroyal6165]

I love you so much Tamar

[@daishanayheard8445]

2022 still listening💕

[@kiacarpenter8279]

I watched the play for the 1st time on Friday and this song hits my soul so deep . All I can do is cry !

[@XxDarkMoonFighterXx]

I love this song she's a beautiful girl with a beautiful voice

[@msnoe1980]

She killed that, I cried, it really hit close to home..!!!!

[@eagle13400]

This is my joint! I wish I was the dude she was singing to OMG! I rocked this on the beltway today. God has blessed her with a beautiful voice.

[@CindyMindy-qy7wj]

She's an underrated singer. Love her ❤

[@branishalofton711]

SHE HAS A BEAUTIFUL VOICE!!

[@TheTamarDavis]

Thank you

[@amazinglythick87]

got A madea christmas all of the actors from the big happy family are on there including her and the two guys graig and lewis singing is amazing!!!

[@Shawnmyrelle]

This really puts it into perspective- being a man in a woman's life.

[@Ivory4oe]

I just keep listening to this song over and over it’s never gets old

[@bettyboop5069]

Such a pretty voice, I love to hear her sing.

[@monicabanks5717]

She's has a beautiful voice 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 this is one of my favorite plays

[@missyyystacy]

2021 and this song still touches deeply 😢💔

[@itsjohngarrison]

she always sings my favorite song in any of the plays. I love it!

[@markm7260]

very nice Real smooth jam

[@lanagang3500]

Yasssssss 2020 still listening to this ❤️

[@kaykaybhoo1]

i love this song every since i saw the play 😍😍