Tamra Judge Reveals She Has "Autism??"

RHOC star Tamra Judge has just announced her recent "autism" diagnosis. Let's discuss...
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[@robertasaujon2680]

Autism is not a lack of compassion

[@teresalove9413]

She is so full of shit what a shame that she would stoop so low

[@itsmerobinann]

She's a narcissist.

[@deirdresomner8749]

@@teresalove9413 I couldnt agree more with you she is just stupid. Actually my Autistic grandson is an empath , Tamra should be fired asap.

[@grwoobie1297]

My grandson is the sweetest most compassionate person in the world and he is autistic.

[@journeylvr]

Oh Zack. As a retired Special Education Teacher your comments were so right!! If Tamra was given this diagnosis by a Therapist, I wouldn’t recommend THAT Therapist!

[@Whatsup766]

That therapist want to hope their name doesn’t get out there.

[@amandadoh2875]

Especially on her first visit, within an hour. Drive through therapy excuse to hold onto her job and gain sympathy.

[@esterdrass4964]

It would make sense if she said, I have been going to this therapist for a couple of years now and this is what she thinks and what I should do. But after one visit? How do you diagnose a person's whole entire behavioral pattern in one hour?

[@sherrislocumb9244]

Not only is it the diagnosis, it’s the timing of it.. I call BS

[@esterdrass4964]

@@sherrislocumb9244 True. It seems so suspect.

[@darcymiller6639]

She is trying to save her job. She does not have autism and she should be ashamed for using it as an excuse for her horrible behavior. Zak I stand with you. ❤❤❤❤

[@nancyelmon4544]

She has diarrhea of the mouth

[@esterdrass4964]

It seems so. This way she can justify her behavior (in her own mind of what autism is) at the same time, no one can say anything to her. So, she feels like she has now cornered everyone.

[@Roz-y2d]

She’s invented this to take the heat off herself.

[@terrycoleman550]

Totally agree 😡😡

[@swtdi40]

Completely agree with this statement

[@m.c.7741]

Such a slap in the face to those actually suffering with autism (and yes I said suffering! Autism is NOT a superpower and that’s OK TOO!)

[@margueritekreitsek4530]

Period

[@susiecharbonneau6420]

100%

[@melissam.5890]

As a mother of a high functioning adult child with autism you have articulated this very well. As if Tamara could possibly be more disappointing than she already was, she has succeeded

[@bss6273]

1,000%

[@CrazyMomma007]

I have a PhD in child development & have taught for over 30+ years, including a specialty in autism therapy (ABA). I agree with you a MILLION percent. Anyone who's worked with these special kids/ppl knows someone like Tamera is no way autistic (esp bc social communication is the prime area of deficit). Tamera does not have trouble with social cues. Tamera does not respond overly literally bc she misses social cues. She does not display other physical traits (odd gait, tippy-toe walkinh) nor any self-stim behavior when under stress. Tamera smiling measly when she lobs a veiled insult then pretends to be saying it out of concern is a very sophisticated social awareness. Zack, you are correct & on the right side. Tamara is more likely a sociopathic, narrsisric imo (not diagnosing).

[@CrazyMomma007]

@Zach I would highlight there is a known, classic deficit in PERSPECTIVE TAKING. Autistic individuals have issues re theory of mind. Not understanding one's inner thoughts are only known to self, as self is creating those thoughts, as well as an inability to understand OTHER PPL can't know what's in the autistic individuals' mind. Lying isn't easy bc they assume the other person has access. Anyway, lack of empathy in a narcissist, mean girl IS NOT THE SAME as an autistic individuals' inability to understand that others EVEN HAVE A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE. Tamara's social game playing clearly shows she DOES understand other ppl can't see what she'd thinking/feeling/planning. Tamara has consistently blind-sided cast mats for a dramatic moment. She chooses to ignore the pain she causes by ignoring the other person's perspective, but she clearly knows they have a different perspective (theory of mind).

[@michellegerard9789]

Thank you for posting this . I have been working in disabilities since I was 16 also my son was diagnosed officially at the age of 3 . I pretty much knew he did by his actions and lack of attention towards us . His official diagnosis took three years . He went through a battery of tests Dr appts , etc . The self stem is one of the key factors in his diagnosis. He also has 3 additional diagnosis on the DSMR . Having worked also with the different spectrums over the years I feel I can somewhat know when I see someone on the spectrum. Never have I even thought of TamTam on the spectrum, I feel now she has put the knowledge of autism backwards in the public . I truly believe no therapist that is licensed or certified would diagnose after a 2 hour session. Especially in California after the many misdiagnosed cases in this state . Everything you described is behaviors I have seen over the years both at home and at work . I can’t believe Bravo would allow their employee to use this disorder for their own selfish reasons

[@pearlbubbles6885]

Making a diagnosis without meeting with the patient, is that ethical?? No

[@itsmerobinann]

She didnt. ​@pearlbubbles6885

[@amandanelson4681]

So sorry for your loss 😞 Tamra Judge is using “autism” as a crutch to excuse her abhorrent behavior and her pending legal issues. She is awful.

[@melissa20805]

Thank you Zack for speaking out I have an older sister that has autism she will be 38 in a couple weeks, life has always been a challenge and different. Celebrities that want to claim things like this is a slap in face, to families that truly know every day life

[@m.c.7741]

@@melissa20805 this!!! My daughter also is autistic and this is so fucking triggering for me 😡🤬

[@sladesmiley9404]

Amazing how she got such a complex diagnosis in two days after being called out on the reunion show.

[@Kennyg106]

She needs to stop making excuses for her behavior. I have two children with Autism. No Tamara own your behavior or change it. Zack thank you for sharing your story so people can understand.

[@dianaguenzler2897]

Tamara has Autism is BS Like I'm the queen of the Nile!

[@lauraanderson2199]

Right, I think a personality disorder is more likely to explain her lack of empathy for others.

[@jsm8841]

Thank you for sharing about Ethan. We can see how much he means to you and how much work you’ve done for people on the spectrum.

[@marieeakin8534]

We know that..."Narcissists " lack empathy. Tamra knows exactly what she's doing when she purposely launches the darts! So sorry for the loss of your Grandfather.

[@JU-bp7tx]

Autism doesn’t make you an asshole.

[@claudianieto7285]

Thank you, Zack, for speaking out and being raw and honest🎉❤ Calling Tam out is everything. Now she has Autism? Funny how she is coming out with this now. She's getting so much bad press and people wanting to sue her. How convenient 😮😅

[@triciasvader]

It looks like she's now doubled down on her diagnosis & has announced she's going to handle it privately. UNBELIEVABLE

[@esterdrass4964]

Wow. She was the one who brought it up on her own show. The response wasn't what she thought it would be and now she wants to be private about it?

[@carlawilliams8097]

My daughter is autistic. Thank you for explaining this to people. I am so upset that she is saying she is on the spectrum. 😢

[@Therealdeal631]

My son is AUTISIC and he is overflowing with EMPATHY. People with Autism don't use it as an excuse for their behavior.

[@911pballgirl]

Thank You Zack! You are extremely knowledgeable, articulate, and compassionate. I am a recently retired teacher and have worked with/supported many children with Autism and their families. Thank you for bravely representing their reality and perspective.

[@anntahhan8930]

Autism doesn't make you toxic.

[@allisonc.-jt4rc]

Thank you. ❤

[@michellefletcher6517]

She's unbelievably narcissistic and so starved for attention she will lie about such a sensitive topic! I applaud you for speaking your truth and keep it up! Best wishes for your brother! I hope that your family heals from your loss 🩵🩵🩵

[@doshablalock8484]

She teared up on last show with Eddie at a restaurant and he told her not to cry. She was feeling and showing empathy for herself bc she felt bad on the Ryan remark and was embarrassed that Eddie had to calm her drinking.

[@MaureenBrennan-f3k]

I am so sorry you are having to go through this at the same time as losing your grandfather. Tamra is a despicable person. I’m so glad you got your do this show and express yourself so eloquently. God bless.

[@Jenski-cx3fy]

Thanks for talking about this Zack. My 4 year old granddaughter just got diagnosed with autism. She barely says words. But you really got me with the sensory topic. She is on a long waiting list to even start with a therapist to help her. Scary to think how many do have this that she has to wait so long.😢

[@joellepatry493]

@@Jenski-cx3fy aww, sorry she’s having to wait for treatment. I understand early intervention is crucial, as in most conditions. Hope she gets the assistance she’ll be needing. 🧩

[@claudianieto7285]

Thank you, Zack, for sharing your story! I am.so glad you are explaining this to us. 👏

[@chrisg993]

Thank you speaking out on this ! My son is 11 today and got diagnosed at 3 w autism . It is tough and I get so tired of thinking autistic people don't have empathy. They feel more than we do. If my son sees me cry or upset he immediately gets so upset. Tamara is a monster devil woman

[@askrobinww]

Thank you for your perspective, Zack! I’m so sorry for your loss. May your grandfather’s memory forever be a blessing 🙏💔🙏

[@BrandyPatterson-bx7ur]

When I saw this I was WTF. This woman has no shame. As a mother of a son with Autism where we had to fight for everything. He is an adult and in college. Thank you for advocating for all people with autism.

[@CharlenePatterson-jr8mb]

You Zack are such an impressive man! You speak respectfully of your brother. Your knowledge on this topic is incredible and obviously comes from living with a loved one who lives with Autism daily! Then your heart carried you in the direction of working with families who deal with this on a constant basis! Your passion & compassion are beautiful traits that make me admire you daily! I'm sending my condolences to you & your family over the loss of your grandfather! If you're ever having a tough day, please remember how loved you are & how your intelligence shines thru all your videos! I truly admire you & want to thank you for your unfiltered opinions & facts! Sending huge hugs! 💖

[@queenbee7749]

Go off Zack 💯!!!!!!! So sick of people using their fake diagnosis for attention/sympathy/excuses.

[@JC_118]

You are 1000% correct! Bless you for being strong enough to continue to call out these ridiculous autism diagnoses. Please don't stop! Others should follow your lead!!!

[@vickyroper9762]

So sorry for your loss. Thankful that Ethan has you for an advocate.❤

[@angelacaudill453]

And…, Moms who devote every hour of the day, no matter their loss of sleep and lack of time to themselves…..yes. Please keep us informed. Ty💜👏🏼

[@traceyrusso9655]

You are breaking my heart- as a mom I could only hope that my children will be this kind to each other. Thank you for speaking about this in an informative and direct way. You were able to articulate how Tamra’s comments made me feel in a constructive way. I love learning from you and hope this becomes required viewing.

[@ritalopez6877]

Tamara I’s just trying to cover her behind so she doesn’t have to accountable for all her bad behavior. She doesn’t want to get sued again. This is beyond disgusting.🤮

[@janicefrillmann]

My son has Asperger’s, ADHD and sensitivity issue. Love the fact that you are able to help your brother. While adult ADHD does happen, Tamra would not be able to be on tv.

[@nancyjackson6084]

My condolences on the loss of your grandfather. Thank you for sharing your, so personal, life dealing with autism. You are such beautiful person. 💕

[@sarahkaylor9175]

Thank you so much zack you give a voice to the voiceless. God bless you ❤

[@beckywilson1772]

Thank you for speaking out. I can see it makes you anxious but you did the right thing.

[@angelaneri1904]

A really powerful episode today Zack ❤ I’m so glad that you are conveying accurate information on such an important topic

[@katjaxxx7353]

Zack, thank you for bringing awareness, it's so important for our loved ones who struggle daily that we stand with them - I love you

[@Annemarie2023]

Donated in your name. Thank you for raising awareness and thank you for calling her out publicly ! ❤️

[@sandralamkin2252]

So sorry for your loss. I have 4 grandchildren with autism. So smart in school but emotions are difficult to deal with.

[@Annemarie2023]

Well said Zack!! Love fact your putting your integrity over any possible celebrity relationships!! agree with everything you said!! Hats off to you! 👏👏👏❤️

[@sharonrak5512]

Sorry for you loss Zack. You are truly gifted with words.

[@taramc6794]

Thank you! Thank you for sharing the truth. Thank you for speaking for those who can't. It is absolutely insulting when people try to excuse their poor, distasteful, disrespectful behavior by hiding behind a new found "DX".

[@ceforaprescott]

We are here for you Zack, sending our love to your family ❤

[@Therealdeal631]

Really she needs to be held accountable for her BS. There is no excuse. After this SHE NEEDS TO GO.

[@sallyseesu]

Thank you! For informing all of us. Your brother is so blessed to have you.

[@msvlines]

First of all, condolences on the loss of your grandfather.❤️ Next, thank you for your frank sharing of the struggles of those afflicted by autism, as well as their families. You may take some heat, but you are truly doing a service by sharing this awareness. Thank you for your voice.

[@KatTheOne]

Thank you Zack for being so real. Bless your Mom. 🙏🏻

[@CrazyDog_Lady]

Thanks for taking a tough stand Zack. I’m a mental health professional of 20+ years. In the past 5 -10 years, young people consistently come in with a laundry list of self diagnosis, including ADHD, OCD, borderline, personality disorder, autism spectrum disorder, etc. Everyone that’s been in a bad relationship is a victim of narcissistic abuse. While I am glad there is more awareness and acceptance of mental health issues, the pendulum has swung far the other way, which can severely negate those individuals with actual, clinical diagnosis. You said it perfectly, we all have traits of varying levels of these disorders, it becomes a clinical diagnosis when it impairs your functioning in multiple areas to a significant degree. It’s extremely frustrating.

[@swtdi40]

I agree at some point it is time to stop being a victim and time to put on your big girl/boy panties get on with life. Thank you for being in mental health. I know people need it. However, I just move on from my trauma. I am a productive compassionate caring RN, raised 3 children and have many grandchildren. You can be ok

[@angelacaudill453]

Ty for taking about Autism. You’re right about the analogy between autism diagnosis and oxempic diagnosis. It’s somewhat like adhd! It took me 4 appointments, lasting over an hour each. I was hoping for an adhd dx because I’m really struggling. Please continue to provide us with information. I barely understand it. I totally appreciate you!!💜🌷

[@karenwhirley4932]

Thank you Zack be my son is 29 and is non verbal. It is an insult that TAMRA WOULD SAY SHE IS AUTISTIC!!!

[@karenwhirley4932]

AMEN!!! You sound like me so I know u are VERY EDUCATED. I’m in B the same situation as you. Thank you for defending the autism word. I’m a Momma and I will be right beside you and go head to head with someone who says there autistic and knows nothing about it!!

[@SunshinenTexas94-rd3qp]

Thank you for saying ALL of what you said! As a parent of a young adult with autism this needed to be said. Many can not even begin to understand the struggles our kids go through. I know this was hard for you to do and I just want you to know I appreciate this so very much! ❤️

[@MarianneColetti]

Zack, a Beautiful commentary of the truth. I despise that Hollywood and TV personalities are loose with what Autism truly is. My daughter Sophia worked at the Lilly House in Houston. I learned so much about Autism because of her work there. Continue to stay strong in representing the truth. ❤🙏

[@nancycorreia1517]

Hi Zack, I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of love your way!❤

[@SuzanneKilbane]

Wait a minute- Tamra said she doesn’t drink when she isn’t filming. She was doing shots in Vegas - she says she only drinks when she’s doing the show . Hmmmmm

[@Yosoy919]

I love how u break it down not only regarding Autism but OCD and ADHD ppl love b n diagnosed as an excuse for bad behavior as if ppl with Autism have all these negative hostile traits. Thank you for soeaking so intellectually about this. Its why i love your Podcast

[@bonniewilliams864]

Thank you for the interesting explanation of Autism. You are such a wonderful brother and son. Bless you.

[@jillbox1013]

Yeah right none of us believe that she's just a mean person

[@clarisaanderson9936]

You are giving her so much grace and that’s very big of you. I’m having a hard time “liking” her right now. Also, roll back the footage of her with the blinking headband from Mexico

[@NicPsmith]

The idea of being diagnosed out of nowhere in a single appointment raises so many red flags... Having said that, I'm thirty-four and this past year, within two appointments with a new psychologist, she was asking whether I'd looked into whether or not I had autism and got me to complete lots of online tests. After doing so, she recommended I see another psychologist with more experience with neurodivergence. This second psychologist got me to complete the same tests and we talked some, and she then started operating under the assumption that I was autistic in future appointments. I wasn't content with this and wanted something more definitive so sought out a diagnosis. The neuropsych I saw generally does four one hour appointments (plus prior paperwork such as school reports, tests, self-reported history of experience), but was more than satisfied within two hours and gave me a positive diagnosis. So it doesn't HAVE to be a super drawn out process. But I appreciate you sharing your own family history and experience and perspective on this, and I do hope she is more cautious going forward with this topic.

[@esterdrass4964]

I am guessing her therapist may have suggested that could be a reason why but didn't diagnose it.

[@shelbymeenaghan6732]

I want to know what her daughter that doesn’t speak to her has to says . Sorry for blowing your comments up but as a special Ed teacher I’m livid

[@minders554]

🙏 Prayers of peace for your entire family during this time. I just want to thank you for sharing your story with all of us. You are a true testament as to what it looks like when younger people go through struggles but get through them and come out as an incredible and well adjusted adults. I have always loved how fair, unbiased and honest you are but I just fall more and more in love with you as a person the more you share. You are a blessing! 🙏

[@KathleenBratier]

Don’t take away from what your mother and stepmother have had to deal with. I, as a Mother dealing with a very serious mental illness is a lot.

[@robertasaujon2680]

Yes and Teddy diagnosis 😂

[@cababeachside]

Thankyou so much for sharing your experience with Autism 🤍

[@shelleyfroese9126]

I’m so sorry for your loss Zack. You are such a great brother to Ethan.

[@triciasvader]

So sorry for your loss. Sending love & prayers 🙏 🙏

[@hoytcurtis6968]

She meant she has Spectrum Cable!😅😅😅

[@lallaveg]

How is a therapist diagnosing her as autistic? It should be a medical Dr. & Other specialists who test for that.

[@toyamichelle]

Tamra, girl bye !!!

[@swtdi40]

I have an MR son and he isn't austic and i remember all of the IEP's and red tape and fighting for services

[@ceforaprescott]

The old Tamra used to be so full of fun, joy, smiling, social with everyone. Them she started to get bitter. Jealous of everyone, white trash behavior. As she gets older, she's more bitter. She doesn't forgive, she thinks that she doesn't ever makes any mistakes. Sad, for people from her church, it gives Christians a bad name. God bless her and her family 😢😇🥰

[@ritalopez6877]

So sorry about your grandpa Zack. All my love & prayers to you and your family.🙏❤️Tamara spectrum please!! That’s ridiculous, I’m ashamed for her.

[@beckywilson1772]

Tamra would serve herself much better to face what is really wrong with her. She keeps making excuses & blaming others instead of humbling herself & facing she’s just a self-centered person. She came into this season thinking attacking Shannon would serve her with the fans. And won’t admit she was producing herself -and the direction of the show-& that it was more important than her supposed friendship with Shannon. -

[@queenievitug9783]

Thank you for this episode on bring Autism, in your experiences. We are a family of ASD for 19 amazing years. Keep on fighting for our Autism Warriors ♥️ #autismawareness

[@katjaxxx7353]

yes

[@ednafearns2958]

So sorry to hear you have lost your Grandma Zack, sending you all love and prayers.💔💔💔🙏

[@jbrimble1957]

Hello Zack when you have the knowledge of autism that you have your entitled to say the truth about the effects of the condition Well said 👍👍💜💜💜

[@minders554]

Zach I have always appreciated how fair, unbiased and honest you are, but the more you share your story and mind set, I just love you more and more. Thank you for sharing your story with us. You are a blessing! Prayers to you and all of your family during this time! 🙏

[@shelbymeenaghan6732]

It’s like Brooks and cancer. Idk how you are being so nice about this!

[@SavannahJ79]

So sorry for your loss Zack and prayers and kind thoughts for all your family, especially your mumma. I think you have spoken respectfully, kindly, with education and knowledge and have been extremely gracious towards Tamra It's odd to me that Tamra and Teddi for that matter, put this podcast out knowing what was in it. Both of them have been very, very vocal when it comes to people claiming they have any sort of illness before getting a formal diagnosis. Like everyone else, I think Tamra's outburst was awful, uneducated, harmful and hurtful. Don't want her cancelled, but do want her taught.

[@af-of9yi]

Zack, thank you so much for explaining to us all. Totally stand with you, lots of hugs.

[@littlenutball22-cp6ne]

Hey Zack…i love all your videos and youtube channel…but on a more serious note i know you said autism is near and dear to your heart…do you have ideas on what a hopeful mom can do for her child that is non verbal with autism …to maybe open the door to communication? i swear his voice will be the most beautiful sound i never heard…he makes sounds..just doesn’t talk yet but im still hopeful…do you have any inside knowledge ? maybe things i haven’t tried ..thank u ..love u ❤️

[@HereForTheComments990]

Umm…that’s not how you spell “psychopathy” Tamra!

[@5652debgilmore]

So sorry for your loss. Sending prayers for your family. 🙏🙏🙏🫶🙏🙏🙏

[@shelbymeenaghan6732]

She would be better off saying she unblocked childhood memories and something happened. That would be more believable

[@swtdi40]

That is heartbreaking. Such a hard situation

[@joellepatry493]

Zach, I have to agree with what you’re saying here. I feel sh*tty questioning anybody’s diagnoses. I have MS, Fibromyalgia, GAD (anxiety), CPTSD, and more. I have struggled with others questioning my own Dx. However, this feels so off to me. The timing of her sharing this is suspect, to say the least. Tamra has not exhibited outward signs of this, on the show. It feels like it’s an excuse for her bad behavior. Lacking empathy is also a symptom of narcissism. That feels more on the mark, if anything.

[@tamiwright8188]

100% Zach , my nephew has High Funtioning autism. We can't go in crowds, bright lighting and also it's very difficult to go somewhere when we are meeting friends he hasn't met. Thank you for speaking out ❤

[@cutypieable]

That is BS ! A therapist couldn’t diagnose that alone. She would have to go to a doctor and have several tests run. This is her excuse for her bad behavior ! 😡

[@coggieskaz7115]

..and after one...1...one session.

[@sallykettle8428]

Thank you Zach for saying what most of us who have truly been affected are thinking . I’ve worked with children and young adults on the spectrum for many years. Tammy Sue is flipping clueless !

[@trinapemberton]

Im not sure at this point who will even read my comment. I have a 21 yo son and almost 18yo daughter who had both been both diagnosed with adhd since very young. My son had all the classic signs of adhd and i never questioned nor really knew what a high functioning person with autism looked like. I only barely understood severe autism. When he started drivers ed (much later than most kids due to fear) and he started working at almost 18, a whole miriad of things started happening coming to light and my questioning led me to high level autism. He was almost 18, we knew he would never go to college, almost all of his gaming friends (his only friends really, besides 1 kid in school who btw also had autism). I need to add i started homeschooling my son in 8th grade and my daughter the year prior who was at the end of her 4th grade year. In deep diving this diagnosis , my daughter who is 3 years younger started working and drivers ed. We started seeing all these things with her that we couldn't understand. I couldn't ever keep her taking adhd meds to help with school and she said she never felt they helped her at all. She also got told she had adhd from my sons psychiatrist when very young. I thought she was bipolar. She was put on mid stabilizers for serveral years. Not sure they helped anything. Shed get angry so easy, she'd be a demon to her brother. Her teachers thought she was an angel but she'd come home and lose it every afternoon. I tried to get help from her school, i told them its lije she tries to be so perfect all day long and was worn out by the end of the day. We fought every morning to get her dressed, everything that touched her, bothered her. I had to but her ponchos for winter cuz she wouldn't wear a coat. Lets not talk about her socks, behind the knees, and her almost with king sleeves shirts. Id tell them its like she's got some sensory issue. At work, her social issues and cues caused her to lose her first job already. We just got her into the testing Dr for possible autism, and dyslexia which i truly believe she has. It's affected all her schooling. THE Dr said she doesn't have have autism nor ADHD. her ADHD Dr at this children's hospitol when we were trying to get her to be allowed to go get tested said all the social symptoms im describing is classic ADHD. So this testing Dr said she doesn't have autism nor ADHD, nor dyslexia. She tested in 1 area for sure my daughter said she thought it was 2 areas but he said in this 1 or 2 areas she tested at a 1 percent out of 100. So 99 percent of people tested higher than her. He said the area this was in wouldnt affect her now that she's almost done with high school. I said um she wants to go to college. She isn't gonna be happy working for minimum wage and living at home. Shes very high iq but i believe some type of learning disability keeps her from successfully being able to spell, she can memorize like crazy but she can't memorize every word so she can't spell 4 letter words some times. She cant do math well because the numbers me's her up so bad. This is really getting long but he said its kind of on the line, it depends on the dr if they'd diagnose her with dyslexia. So basically he took away i feel, a diagnosis that could get her help to be able to get through college. He took away an ADHD diagnosis (im not complaining if he's right btw) which is a learning disibility on its own. So he said she has generalized anxiety, severe social anxiety, and possibly ocd. Hed need to do further testing. Im at a loss of what to do. The leaning and social issues affect every part of a grown up life. If a Dr or anyone reads this i hope i didn't leave anything out. I just want her to be able to go to college like she could if she didn't suffer whatever it is that she actually has. She also lacks empathy or acting "normal" during anything serious like sickness or death. Anyways i know she's not like Zachs brother but she's also not like me and i belive im adhd. I had signs from my child hood too, but noone knew. We didn't even have insurance or saw Drs at that time unless we were very sick. Im 50.

[@doshablalock8484]

Some people just have a mean girl spirit. Tamra is one of those and too ashamed to admit it.

[@jillbox1013]

Her baptism was a joke

[@RUTHANN-ck6yc]

I AGREE!! SHES NO CHRISTIAN! CCHRISTIANS DONT ACT LIKE HER!

[@jillbox1013]

It was all for show and such an offense to Christ ​@@RUTHANN-ck6yc

[@jillbox1013]

That baptism happened several years ago and it has been bothering me ever since because her behavior is not christ-like in one iota

[@joellepatry493]

@@RUTHANN-ck6ycSadly, many so-called Christians are enormous hypocrites.

[@terrycoleman550]

It was 😂

[@lizzie4freedom323]

I have deep empathy and respect for you and your family loving Ethan through his struggles with Autism. I saw where this was going a while ago with people “revealing” they have Autism. I knew the flood gates were going to open the exploitation of this horrible condition. Tamra jumping on the bandwagon imo is nothing more than an escape route for her behavior. In these times people are vilified for shining a light on these untruthful narratives. Much respect Zack for speaking out. Love, compassion and Blessings to you ❤️🙏🏻

[@tracim2329]

Prayers to you Zack for your loss of your grandfather. Your brother and your description made me cry. Thank you for sharing ❤️ one never knows what others are going through. Prayers for your family.

[@CrazyMomma007]

We are NOT all somewhat autistic. There are brain imaging stufies showing a clear structural difference btwn autistic & neurotypical individuals. Autism shows up as a huge amount of dendrite overgrowth & tjis overgrowth reaches into non-typucal brain region areas. There's a hypothesis there is a lack of developmental pruning which leads to a cacophony of stimuli. Stimming may be the behavioral adaptations to shutting out that over sensory information resulting from that overgrowth. The amount/severity of overgrowth & in what areas is likely the biochemical reason for the severity "spectrum".

[@joellepatry493]

@@CrazyMomma007 Thank you for a more clinical explanation of the condition.

[@CrazyMomma007]

@joellepatry493 You're welcome. I have dyslexia myself & there are lots of sensory issues (on a lesser scale). I am lucky to have had decades of educational opportunities working with neurotypical & neurodivergent populations. Even experts are still working on how differences in brain development affects all 3 areas of learning (physical, socioemotional & cognitive/intellectual). I enjoy sharing my opinion.

[@joellepatry493]

@@CrazyMomma007 I have MS, and there’s still so much to learn about the brain, & how it operates, right?

[@CrazyMomma007]

@joellepatry493 yes! You are 💯 right imo. I hope you're getting the support you need. MS can be draining.

[@SheilaJ-y2x]

Thank you for this. I have two close family members with autism and am a social worker who has worked with children with autism for almost twenty years. it is not caused by 'trauma' nor does having autism mean that you don't have empathy it is just expressed differently. For her to use this as a way to excuse her behaviors is disgusting. Tamra has issues for sure, possibly a personality disorder (I'm convinced that many of the housewives do-lol!), but autism? nope. I just gotta say, I love what I do, I love my students and nephews- I learn from them everyday. Not that autism isn't challenging, I have the scars to prove it but it can be so rewarding when gains (even the smallest) are made. So sorry about your grandfather, and your brother's reaction to it. I have written social stories about death/losing someone and found it very helpful for them- death is such an hard concept to understand the permanence of it.

[@sarahmoore2225]

My ex’s son is autistic. My mom was a SE teacher for 20+ years. Everything you said is 100% accurate and extremely important. Thanks! 😢