You don’t have to shrink yourself down, be who you are my friend.

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Tank Tolman

Tank Tolman

Күн бұрын

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@Silversong_Reavers
@Silversong_Reavers 5 күн бұрын
An emotional support Viking is the best thing to ever come from the Internet, and I love it
@Spencer-w3s
@Spencer-w3s 4 күн бұрын
Only 60 likes and 0 comments I can fix that
@RedJohnO22
@RedJohnO22 3 күн бұрын
Absolutely! Long live our emotional support Viking! Hail Jarl Tolman.
@sarahstanton6483
@sarahstanton6483 Күн бұрын
Emotional support Viking 😁 I like it.
@vegaspada8075
@vegaspada8075 Күн бұрын
I've been going through a lot since September, and this made me feel a bit better. Thank you so much for the supportive words!
@sharronbenson4537
@sharronbenson4537 5 күн бұрын
Thank you 🖤
@AngelusNielson
@AngelusNielson 5 күн бұрын
Proud to be a member of this crew.... HAMMAH! On my friends.
@tiponishoshonee3974
@tiponishoshonee3974 5 күн бұрын
Thank you Tank Tolman for being an amazing friend and light in this ever darkening world!
@brianevans6423
@brianevans6423 5 күн бұрын
I love your content brother. My sons and i watch all the time. The positive msg you send is amazing and we need more like you in the world. Thank you my friend.
@j.d.naradjr.758
@j.d.naradjr.758 5 күн бұрын
You dont know how you're videos impact me ......thank you! And Hammer!
@AaronFava
@AaronFava 5 күн бұрын
Earl Tank, thank you for a message to encourage. Old wounds run deep and are felt reopened during the holidays. I have dreaded Christmas and hearing others say it means the world. Travel safe family and be blessed!
@arthurwhite100
@arthurwhite100 5 күн бұрын
I could have used this message other years. I’m lucky enough now not to be alone anymore but I think that there are many that will benefit from your kind words. Well done! Greetings from Spain 🇪🇸👋
@franken-pattern
@franken-pattern 5 күн бұрын
You're beautiful, too, Tank! Merry Christmas ✨️🎄✨️
@Matthew-xh4uz
@Matthew-xh4uz 5 күн бұрын
Damn, this made me cry! Love you, Tank... you're a very good man.
@WaterlilyBambi
@WaterlilyBambi 5 күн бұрын
Stop making me cry ya adorable lad!
@ninaisreal5576
@ninaisreal5576 5 күн бұрын
I needed that today. Thank you friend. ❤
@lisa_wistfulone7957
@lisa_wistfulone7957 5 күн бұрын
Thank you, Tank. I masked myself around almost everyone for decades, not knowing I was actually autistic and ADHD. “Fitting myself into a smaller box” was exhausting, always trying to be “calm and pleasant.” It was difficult but liberating when, after my very late diagnosis, I finally learned to allow my silliness, exuberance, sensitivity, and my own needs back out into regular daylight. Thank you for understanding and supporting everyone who has had to squeeze themselves into a box they never asked for.💝✨ Wishing you the brightest of holidays!🕊️
@thegracklepeck
@thegracklepeck 5 күн бұрын
This is me exactly. I hope your holidays are filled with warmth and joy, knowing yourself and not apologizing for being your unique self ❤
@Cock_It
@Cock_It 5 күн бұрын
Thank you brother. What’s it like to be loved by people you don’t even know?
@lionessoftor4139
@lionessoftor4139 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for being the positivity I need. Sometimes before I even know I'm struggling. I tend to disassociate when stressed. Then you come and it's like taking a deep breath. Thank you Tank! Have a great holiday season and even better new year.
@Z-Hunter649
@Z-Hunter649 5 күн бұрын
Thanks, Tank. My mom's boyfriend has recently proposed, and my siblings and my mom get to meet the rest of the blended family, which has me a little nerve wrecked. Thanks for the motivation boost. Have a good Christmas. HAMMMAAR!!!
@wingeddrake4227
@wingeddrake4227 4 күн бұрын
Hugs, friend. All the hugs.
@michelleagnew8780
@michelleagnew8780 5 күн бұрын
Beautiful message 😇❤️
@Soberdragonfly
@Soberdragonfly 5 күн бұрын
Tank, you are so Awesome! Thank you for reaching people right where they are!❤
@Peyton-L-15
@Peyton-L-15 5 күн бұрын
Thanks bro I needed to hear that
@frenchfriar
@frenchfriar 3 күн бұрын
You have a beautiful soul too, my Viking friend. Wishing you a very happy holiday season, Tank!
@catcolb11
@catcolb11 5 күн бұрын
Happy Solstice, Tank! ❤ ❄🌲❄ Thank you for being you!
@sararathbun4268
@sararathbun4268 5 күн бұрын
Thank you, Tank. Your words were exactly what I needed to hear. Love and blessings, Brother.
@death12100
@death12100 5 күн бұрын
Thank you Tank I am having a better day after watching your vid hope you have a relaxing Christmas with famliy
@rogannmcfall3138
@rogannmcfall3138 5 күн бұрын
God bless you friend! We do not know each other but I believe in you. Your dream is beautifully amazing!
@ziummikal9643
@ziummikal9643 5 күн бұрын
I don't know why but felt that I needed that pep talk.
@TheWiseRaven
@TheWiseRaven 5 күн бұрын
Thanks Tank! Heading back down to England for the holidays in a couple of days and I've been dreading it. Somehow, your videos always find me when I need them the most! So thank you! And Merry Christmas 🎅
@eightiesforever7795
@eightiesforever7795 5 күн бұрын
I wish that I had been told this a long time ago, it took me far too long to realise that I needed to be myself, not what people expected me to be 😊
@R4ng3rG33k
@R4ng3rG33k 5 күн бұрын
Thank you Tank, Happy Holidays.
@theweirdowatermelon3354
@theweirdowatermelon3354 5 күн бұрын
Thank you Tank these videos are alway the high light of my day! Hope you have an amazing holiday and a great New years and the same to all who read this comment.
@Oceanview-d7h
@Oceanview-d7h 5 күн бұрын
You allways make my day thank you for this I know for sure I will be watching this again on Christmas Day ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@BookwormDCR
@BookwormDCR 5 күн бұрын
I appreciate the virtual hug. Every time. I myself am a bit hugger, (though I haven't been doing much of it lately sadly. It can be tough finding other huggers) So this is awesome for me.
@Tiffthehuman
@Tiffthehuman 5 күн бұрын
Knowing you have a safe space with chosen family when you don't have one with biological family is so important to have. ❤ thank you Tank
@talos115
@talos115 5 күн бұрын
I lost my brother. I miss him a lot.
@catcolb11
@catcolb11 5 күн бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss. We've had several deaths in my family this past year. It's been a hard year. I hope the new year brings healing and happiness.
@IdaDuplechin
@IdaDuplechin 5 күн бұрын
So sorry to hear this. Know that your words have been read and you're being sent blessings. Peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️🙏
@adedow1333
@adedow1333 5 күн бұрын
I've got a bigger personality, and I've become hyper-aware of "taking up space" as you say in social situations. I tend to make a bit of a bang walking into a room, not as a physical noise, but more psychological. People are almost always aware of me. I have to concentrate to not feel like the center of attention. It's good to know that even when I am, its not a bad thing. It's just hard to keep the balance to let other people shine too.
@DoctorPhilGud
@DoctorPhilGud 5 күн бұрын
Love you tank. Thankyou for these.
@rubikcuube9950
@rubikcuube9950 5 күн бұрын
This is beautyful. Thank You❤
@boblablablaw6677
@boblablablaw6677 5 күн бұрын
Blessing to you Tank. HAMMER!!!
@Qcw9135
@Qcw9135 5 күн бұрын
Thank you man for making videos like this they always gives me hope and a little reassurance, I doubt you’ll read this but I just want to show my appreciation to the channel
@jonathanmerrell5766
@jonathanmerrell5766 5 күн бұрын
Honestly, you're one of the few people that I actually like to meet in person. Get to know
@mindstormmaster
@mindstormmaster 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for being you TT, I am excited to play a D&D character inspired by these shorts you create in the new year!
@living4107
@living4107 5 күн бұрын
you always lift my mood... thank you. hope you had a nice yule
@theanonymousprepperchannel
@theanonymousprepperchannel 5 күн бұрын
Always important to promote good energy my friend. Not many of us left that do this in this dark world that grows darker each day. Namaste ☯️
@justiceforall274
@justiceforall274 5 күн бұрын
I needed to see this video, thank you 😊
@thegracklepeck
@thegracklepeck 5 күн бұрын
That was a lovely message. As a late diagnosed autistic AFAB individual, this was really reassuring that I am enough. I don't have to pretend to be someone I'm not. Thank you.
@Mylife123jo
@Mylife123jo 5 күн бұрын
Thanku 😊
@SerrynRS
@SerrynRS 5 күн бұрын
thank you Tank
@SilvrWingsDragon
@SilvrWingsDragon 5 күн бұрын
Needed this after a friend told me they didn't want what I had spent so much time on. This helps.
@TexJester-no8th
@TexJester-no8th 3 күн бұрын
I learned this lesson about 20 years ago - I'm now 61. I've been a lot more content with life. When you change who you are for someone else, you start losing who you are - and that can lead to all manner of psychological issues. Be who you are, and if people don't like it, screw them! Find people who do like it.
@ScottBurgess-i4v
@ScottBurgess-i4v 5 күн бұрын
Thank you. You know how to talk to people
@manuelkatholnig3149
@manuelkatholnig3149 3 күн бұрын
Help people is good...but he knows who need it at most in the right Moment...I really think that he saved people with his humanity 👉👍👈
@voswell3292
@voswell3292 5 күн бұрын
I recently left a job where I felt I needed to play small to allow space for my manager (new to leading people) to feel comfortable. Two years of misery later, I finally realized there is plenty of space available. I never needed to be small. Take up the space you need. There is plenty of room for everyone.
@Sem-xy1lc
@Sem-xy1lc 5 күн бұрын
Thank you Jarl Tolman, for being here when I need you and when I think I dont need you. ❤
@wytewillow00
@wytewillow00 15 сағат бұрын
Thank you Tank. This time of year is so hard for me. I truly have no friends nor family. It is emotionally painful. It’s nice I don’t have the need to fit in another person’s box though😏😊
@ninjafist101
@ninjafist101 3 күн бұрын
Thanks for the positivity and reassurance, my friend! But I am not worried I won't fit in with those I am around. It's more than the season has been made a little sour because of someone I don't see as often anymore. The family I spend this time with this time of the year are always there for me (and you, of course!) to make it better!
@bryancoffey9320
@bryancoffey9320 5 күн бұрын
This time of year is hard for alot of people. Keep doing what you do. You touch alot of them. He who talks softly but carries a big HAMMER!.
@SallyClapper-y8e
@SallyClapper-y8e 3 күн бұрын
A warm and wonderful blessing to us all. 💚 Thank you.
@musicenjoyer8605
@musicenjoyer8605 Күн бұрын
Keep up the positivity, it's wonderful to see.
@ChelseaDry-tn9pe
@ChelseaDry-tn9pe 5 күн бұрын
Thank you Tank this really helps me with my own anxiety and aggression and depression
@rila9476
@rila9476 Күн бұрын
I really needed this. Holiday time isn't exactly overwhelming for me since I don't spend it really with anyone but I do still feel like I take up space and am a burden to most. Every time I come across your videos it makes me smile and cry a bit. I don't usually have a reason to smile. so thank you for giving me one whenever I find your videos
@JillDonaho-q1d
@JillDonaho-q1d 4 күн бұрын
Akways giving advice to better the world. Hugs are healing.❤
@christineungaro3246
@christineungaro3246 3 күн бұрын
Needed to hear this, Tank. Thank you for being you as well ❤ Always put a smile on my face! Happy Holidays and Hugs for you too 🤗⛄️🤗
@deanmarkovics
@deanmarkovics 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for being you. I appreciate you!
@Mistyveil550
@Mistyveil550 5 күн бұрын
You always make me tear up when you do this Tank, Thank you my friend! Hammer!!! Merry Christmas, Happy New Year!
@OrokNivek
@OrokNivek 3 күн бұрын
Spending Xmas alone in New Zealand thank U for aaaaall Ur encouragements they keep me going daily and thank U for the love and hugs
@Amanda-x6t5z
@Amanda-x6t5z 4 күн бұрын
Tank, you're a good man. You always put a smile on my face. Cheers to one of the good humans left.
@DraconicFlower-mz5lw
@DraconicFlower-mz5lw 5 күн бұрын
As a closeted gay teenager, this one felt INCREDIBLY personal But like in a good way, I can't tell how that came off lol
@duanepreston6342
@duanepreston6342 5 күн бұрын
Thank you, my friend. I needed that more then you could have known. Hard times for me right now. But you sead exactly what I needed to hear. Bravely carry on, bravely carry on!
@StarLightVenus
@StarLightVenus 4 күн бұрын
Thank you very much for this. I needed this tonight and I think a lot of people need to hear these words. Love you Tank!❤
@MsMeffie
@MsMeffie 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. Those videos of yours always make me emotional (and I always see them when I need to, it seems).
@billiehudspeth5015
@billiehudspeth5015 5 күн бұрын
I love you. You give me hope and joy.
@chrisburdick8393
@chrisburdick8393 5 күн бұрын
Thank you sir for all you do
@darknessmohag6181
@darknessmohag6181 5 күн бұрын
honestly.. I am one of those that feel like being around people (family/friends) can be a bit overwhelming. I tend to never be able to spend more then some hours on get togethers and such before I need to pull myself back and be alone. there is people in my life that think that I am wrong in wanting to leave get togethering earlier then others.. just because its family. and sadly it gotten me to feel disconnected from a lot of them.
@Vikingo_cubano789
@Vikingo_cubano789 3 күн бұрын
Thanks you very much my friend I need this, you are the best psicologist I never had
@szandorheller7928
@szandorheller7928 5 күн бұрын
Your one of my favorite KZbinrs man. Mutch love.
@kaylalopez777
@kaylalopez777 5 күн бұрын
Thank you feels good 🙏🙏🙏💖💖💜
@AmanitaHobbi
@AmanitaHobbi 17 сағат бұрын
Thank you. I needed that today. 🖤
@Zweckhaft_Falle
@Zweckhaft_Falle 5 күн бұрын
Bro is Kind hearthed. Dont judge a book by its cover. You look like a strict guy but your a kind heathed happy supportive person on the inside
@stefanpape-by1qw
@stefanpape-by1qw 3 күн бұрын
😊❤.merry Christmas, all
@user-BloodCandle
@user-BloodCandle 5 күн бұрын
This man is a good person I think
@MeeksDaSneaks
@MeeksDaSneaks 5 күн бұрын
thx brotha💪🏻🔥❤️🔥❤️definitely needed these kind,wise words rn, and! the big viking warm hug. thx for being there
@Vynrotak
@Vynrotak Күн бұрын
Opening KZbin and seeing this just made my day. It's a few days past Xmas but it's a hard time if year for me. Thank you. Skol.
@StarsELB
@StarsELB 3 күн бұрын
I absolutely love these videos, it often makes me cry, thank you so much for being the amazing Viking you are! HAMMER
@robertwhaley8069
@robertwhaley8069 5 күн бұрын
STOP MAKING ME CRY!!!!
@NecroBaby
@NecroBaby 5 күн бұрын
it doesnt exactly fit my current funk, trying to draw and paint but failing at both, but it still makes me feel better. keep up the awesome stuff tank!
@theSheighani42
@theSheighani42 5 күн бұрын
Wish I got this as a kid 🥲 still struggle with trying to fit others' expectations and demands. Regardless if it hurts me or not... Thank you Tank. Ever always be yourself! 😊 hammar on!
@reddragonlegacy
@reddragonlegacy 4 күн бұрын
This time of year has always been rough. Lost my mom 8 years ago. Turns out she was the "Christmas Spirit" of the house. Always making sure everything was decorated, the house always smelled like baked goods, and there was always Christmas Music or Movies on in the house. This year, we lost my grandmother to Cancer, and my grandfather is in the Hospital recovering from Pneumonia. I have been run so ragged trying to keep everyone else together that I'm burning out. I'm depressed. I'm exhausted. Because anytime anything happens in this family, I'm the one called to "put out the fire". I'm the one called when the nieces and nephews aren't behaving and need to be out of the parents hair for a bit. I'm the one that gets called when others are having money troubles, barely being able to take care of my own things. I'm the one that gets called on for everything. Yes, it's Family and I will do anything for them. But I just need a rest. I'm grateful for them, and love them all. But I just need a break...
@L-ghtlessSky
@L-ghtlessSky 3 күн бұрын
judging solely by that “ooouahh” you probably give THE BEST hugs. like. proper dad hugs.
@haribodriving5951
@haribodriving5951 4 күн бұрын
Much love brother ❤
@TheKjoy85
@TheKjoy85 2 сағат бұрын
One of the hardest things about this holiday season is realizing that there were no family gatherings for us to go to now that my grandpa is gone. For the last 6 years or so, my mom, my brother, and I have been taking Christmas dinner over to my grandpa's house and eating with him. My grandma died 7 years ago, so without us, he was alone. Without him, we had nowhere to go, and money was too tight for us to buy each other presents. I have a 6 month old Mastiff puppy, so all my "extra" money has gone to food and toys for her.
@Thepreistofcyn
@Thepreistofcyn 4 күн бұрын
This is what I've needed thank you
@martijnklaver23
@martijnklaver23 3 күн бұрын
Proud to be welcome to the viking community
@williamlingle5244
@williamlingle5244 5 күн бұрын
Thanks tank I needed that I love you man your soul is beautiful also happy holidays
@theetruetolkienpatriot7701
@theetruetolkienpatriot7701 2 күн бұрын
Merry Christmas
@RiF-u1l
@RiF-u1l 4 күн бұрын
I will be celebrating another year by myself as my family and friends abroad. But I will visit them later in a year, I always do 😊
@garystearns5922
@garystearns5922 5 күн бұрын
Thank you my Viking friend you are a light in the darkness. Hammar
@wildboytommy7295
@wildboytommy7295 4 күн бұрын
I love these videos. They always make people feel better
@natevaughn2307
@natevaughn2307 4 күн бұрын
You almost had me in tears
@fjeldfross9327
@fjeldfross9327 5 күн бұрын
I really, really love you for your content. thank you, especially the holidays are incredibly hard sometimes. Wish you a blessed time.
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