Playing the Victim - Tapping with Brad Yates

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[@nadinewaldmann5890]

Brad is one of the best things about the internet.

[@tapwithbrad]

😊

[@kimberly-abriefongrief7777]

I wholeheartedly agree 🥰

[@thelucidrose]

Straight up

[@mareeagraz]

without a doubt. 💖

[@backineurope6680]

He sure is ! I agree a 1000% , I love and bless him 🍀💚

[@227Love]

It takes great courage to remove oneself from victim mentality, mostly because we are so stuck in that dynamic, where as children we might have actually been victims with no way out, but as adults, we must take responsibility for childhood traumatizing repeated patterns such as being stuck in victim mentality. We are free to be free 🙏🏻 And sometimes that means setting ourselves free 🔑

[@margaretcoates8094]

Brad, I've 'known' you for several years now and have learned to turn to you when I am swamped. It's uncanny how you always have the right words to soothe my anguish. I'm a senior, being evicted due to rezoning of my mobile home park. Housing prices and rents have recently doubled. Poor little me! I have been retelling the story and whooping it up in the biggest, blackest pity party ever. I've decided to be excited and look forward to the biggest changes and most hopeful prospects of my life, beyond what I can even imagine right now. 🤸🌟🏡

[@BM__8]

I love this comment.

[@lune78]

This is a tough one for me, because my victim mentality is probably the thing I dislike the most about myself. But I'll keep tapping until I can take my power back. Thanks Brad!

[@aznauk]

Brad, I've been watching your videos, on and off, for years. Clear scripts, and delivered slowly enough to keep up. I just wanted to say, I think they're wonderful! And so are you for wanting to help so many people. They've helped so much! Thank you.

[@meanymouse]

So funny. Just yesterday I was thinking, "I wish there was an EFT for taking responsibility for myself." And here it is! Another amazing gem. Thanks, Brad!!!

[@maxd5373]

Brad, thank you so much. For a while I was thinking: "man, this guy looks super sketch". But now I 've been listening to your videos for 3 months and tapping daily. You have given me astounding strength to tackle my deepest and darkest fears. Thanks for doing this channel.

[@xkels81]

Thank you Brad!! I've played the victim for too long. I'm done punishing myself. Your video is really helping. 😊

[@SK-ug3tw]

I saw the victim whenever I looked at myself in the mirror. Thank you for helping me noticing that it was always about me and what story i Tell about myself💚

[@ninainsinna2209]

Daily tapping is getting me through a most difficult time. Thank you Brad.❤

[@restituare]

Oh man Brad … I so wish I would've found this 45 years ago and this morning. Thank you … thank you!

[@WezaMind]

whoa.. thats the most impactful thing I have ever heard. Thank you for carrying this message 💝

[@tafkap4d]

Love this one, Brad. It is now my favorite tap! I LOVE how you "snuck" the serenity prayer in there...nice surprise.

[@michallee6037]

Dear Brad, Thanks so much for the love and gifts you share with all who are open and ready. Your EFT healings, whether you made them today or 10 years ago are Amazing! We beings find them when are hearts are ready. You are a Great Thanksgiving Blessing that happens everyday of every year until infinity. Hugs and Blessings, Calli in Canada

[@ritaraniwala9084]

Thank you again for rising up here today as I was in this story and was not able to deal with it . I have realised going through your videos that depression is nothing in its own self but there are some other root causes to it . And you have given me rich insights . This I knew ... the poor me story . But do greatful. To you and the divine for bringing it right here today when I was feeling lowest . Thank you. May the divine always reside in your heart & being .showering you with Super magic and abundance .

[@victoriakenworthy9862]

Dear Brad, I cannot even begin to express my gratitude for all of your help over these past few years. The issues i have dealt with have been over the top, and having opportunity to change the energy behind the issues has literally saved my life. I love that your videos are so easy to follow, so easy to understand! You are a very good instructor!! Thank you for gifting us all with your work, and broaching some really painful and sensitive subjects! You are a very brave man!!

[@jayvondah8373]

Hi Brad, firstly I must thank you for posting these videos. I was fortunate enough to experience energetic healing & I was told that I have victim mentally. This was first for me but it made so much sense. When I look back at my life I realise all my decisions have come from this way of thinking. But NO MORE! I am doing this tapping daily and I'm choosing to be empowered. Thank you Brad

[@giovannaformica9660]

Powerful Sequence! With Much Love & Appreciation… THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU…♥️🙏🌟♥️🙏🌟♥️🙏

[@saidaaggoun3672]

Thank you so much Brad, I love you so much, you've helped me a lot on my healing journey and I will forever be grateful for you 💚💓

[@squeesplort]

Thank you Brad! I was feeling like a victim today, and I realized I wanted to shift that thought. I couldn’t seem to climb out on my own. I wondered, “Does Brad have a tap for that?” And you DO!!! Of course it helped.

[@reefprayerresin]

I think the title of this session is perfect Brad! - That's why I watched it. You worded this so beautifully. Thankyou.

[@katerinafrances5918]

Thank you for all that you do Brad.

[@hearts24cherry5fun]

This was very emotional for me, brought up a lot of stuff. Thank you!

[@katharinaarpagaus3554]

Thank your for your wonderful work, I'm so grateful for the inspiration and deep healing.

[@elenasultanshin7855]

Thank you, Brad! For this videos and many others that are so helpful!

[@MyretteElSokkari]

Thank You Brad. Always amazing tappings. Blessings to you for all you are offering.

[@lunastar8448]

Brad could you please do a video on people accusing you of things you didn't do and the injustice that brings up? Thank you so much. x

[@tapwithbrad]

I'll add it to the list. In the meantime, you can keep in mind "I feel bad about being falsely accused" and tap along with this or some other video. Maybe this one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d529nqttrdmGbcU

[@lindaburgess833]

You are amazing Brad thank you for your videos. They help so much. Love the work that you do.

[@janetredrea1854]

Thank God for Brad! I like how you give space so I can say the words after you. And your calm voice. You are a blessings xxx

[@laurarascon1371]

Love this one! It's great!

[@beverlyjl]

Brad, Thank you for this video. I really think it found me today and it was just what I need to keep tapping on. You bless me every time I tap.

[@SarahLaneTherapies]

Thank you, another great video! Very useful!

[@RachelLynnSebastian]

Thank you 🙏🏼

[@Maria-mp4hw]

Thank you!!!!

[@d.earth.angell]

thank you SO much❤ I felt a release thru my tears and do feel SO much better ITS AS SIMPLE AS A CHOICE AND RELEASE ❤

[@861karolla]

Thank you❤

[@ericschwefel]

Thank you 🙏

[@arghavan9325]

Loved it! Thanks :)

[@titodelbloke]

The words I needed

[@elab4187]

Thank you for helping me rewire my brain❤️

[@TheHeraldOfChange]

Hey Brad, you've been so generous and helpful with all your videos. And some that you've recommended to me have kinda helped me to get deeper into the underlying cause of me circumstance. Anger, frustration, lack of recognition, feeling undervalued, intolerant of fools, impatience, being a victim, these are all above one word that is finally registering/resonating with/for me. That is, the feeling of being thwarted. Computer/Technology/gadget/ rage; road rage, personal clumsiness rage, troll rage, what ever the slightest trigger that disrupts my direction or plan rage. I deliberately use the rage word here because it is a sudden, uncontrollable, kinetic anger that flares up the instant I feel thwarted. I'f the trigger is non-human then the anger can result in destruction of the thing triggering the anger. If the trigger is something caused by a human other than myself, then either I verbally explode, or I go all passive-agressive and simmer in wrath until the anger subsides. So, what do you have for dealing with, feeling constantly, daily, thwarted by everything and anything around me?

[@tapwithbrad]

I hope some of these help: kzbin.info?search_query=brad+yates+rage and: kzbin.info?search_query=brad+yates+thwarted+defeated

[@Ondesdevie]

This is great, thank you

[@karynsiouxhamon2714]

That was beneficial. Thank you

[@jelenakodzo5837]

Thank you

[@sophiagilbert4376]

I have been a victim throughout life" pushing that huge ball up hill with my hands tied behind my back", as my brother said. People deal with circumstances not of their making, born into toxic families,rape, pillar and plunge, are in toxic marriages, endure children who disturb lives, abuse abounds. I pray, use EFT, get body work, practice yoga, chant, hike, meditate, express creatively finding outlet for being a victim. When people in your family damage, it is excruciating. Thank you!

[@angrybird1917]

thank you

[@WezaMind]

a difficult opening 🤣 but you handled it welll

[@sophiagilbert4376]

I use your emotional pain EFT and that is great. Thanks for your generous heart, you touch and help. Some of the wording in this made me cringe, as many are victims, over and over. I googled EFT for being a victim and found this. Thank you.

[@nataschathomson9173]

Love it

[@gavink80]

thank u !!!!!!!!!!

[@asdepiqueyt]

Thank you thank you thank you

[@tapwithbrad]

I'm afraid the expression I used as a title has given you the wrong impression - I'm sorry for that.

[@ricketsie]

hi can you make the eft for martyr syndrom? thx

[@22utubeaddict]

Thankyou very much ch for your video. It's very helpful. I like the positive affirmations with the tapping. Can you elaborate more on tapping please? This is the first time I've heard of it.

[@tapwithbrad]

+22utubeaddict If you are new to tapping, please watch this video so you understand what it is about: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJqnaGWZj5qgmbc

[@22utubeaddict]

I think this is a really neat way to implement mindfulness because it allows you to deal with unpleasant feelings without the anxiety and feelings that you've been suppressing that doesn't allow you to be mindful - if that makes sense lol. It really does help - because I find I "obsess" over thoughts and no matter how hard I try to ignore it - it somehow keeps on coming back - and tapping let's me deal with why i'm thinking that way and to accept the thought and then the cause and make changes to it - so now when the thought comes again - I allow myself to feel uncomfortable knowing that I'm improving and not judge myself or get uptight about it in a downward spiral. Anyways I definitely want to implement this as a daily routine. Thanks Brad for your videos - I am so happy I stumbled upon them - you're making this world a better place through your videos and helping people whom you haven't even met :) God Bless.

[@complexjanedoe]

+22utubeaddict this just help me give myself permission to feel uncomfortable thank you for sharing this.

[@Yeshua144]

Nice one Brad ^ do i hear bineural beats in the background? great accompany.

[@titodelbloke]

Greetings from Mexico

[@margarethadden1188]

Feel you have it eft brad yayes

[@massiveluck7211]

I choose to be more responsible for my life 👍🏻🍀

[@elab4187]

💜💜💜

[@farahhosain6077]

❤

[@kimberly-abriefongrief7777]

👍💜

[@radhikaladia9193]

Brad you are wonderful...how can we msg u if i want to learn for a particular issue

[@tapwithbrad]

Thank you. :) tapwithbrad.mykajabi.com/contactbrad

[@SuperNinjasoccer]

I feel the negative energy but I don't feel the shift

[@maxd5373]

"I didn't know I needed to know" victim

[@veronikareniers2750]

☀️🐲☀️

[@dcooper8933]

Can't hear you talk

[@brightchange6065]

I wish the word "Playing" on the title and video could be changed. That sounds like, well, play - if you get hit by a car, you ARE a victim, you wouldn't be playing or acting like one. Playing is acting, pretending. Feeling like a victim feels better to me. II like the language later in the video that being responsible for myself is not saying that I am to blame for whatever happened. Thanks!

[@trueopinion1775]

This is the only video of yours that I haven't liked so far. I like the intention behind the video but not the wording-I got the feeling that you weren't completely comfortable with the wording you were utilising either(if you were then you wouldn't have had such a long disclaimer). I would have preferred focusing on taking responsibility for yourself and your actions. No matter what way you explain it 'playing the victim' comes across as victim blaming. But hey I guess it would be a miracle if I liked all of your work and I really do appreciate your efforts ❤️

[@krisvictoria8810]

I think it would be a great idea for you Brad to redo this video. There are many things seriously wrong with it. You can do a lot better as you have expert knowledge. The content of this video seems to reflect a limited understanding of the human psyche and makes offensive statements/affirmations placing blame and oversimplifying things. Do you think its as simple as that? If someone has been victimized either once or repeatedly that means its easy for them to blame others and they are deflecting responsibility??????? I would also be cery careful with using the term "playing" victim. Are you invalidating what truthfully happened to people? Do you think they are acting or faking it? There are plenty of people in the world stigmatizing and blaming victims. Its like getting stabbed twice. Would you like to rethink this? Thanks

[@tapwithbrad]

I hear you, Kristina - and I'm sorry the video came across that way for you. I certainly don't mean to suggest that no one is ever actually victimized - far from it. The Trauma and Abuse video would be more appropriate for many of those cases. But sometimes some of us fall into learned behavior around feeling/behaving like a victim where it may not be necessary or helpful. Unfortunately, no video I make will be right for everyone - or in all situations. I certainly make no claims that I"m an expert or that I always get it right. But as you can see from the other comments, the wording in this did resonate with a number of folks. I don't know if you tapped along with the whole thing, or if it felt too off-putting to do so. A second listen - especially to the beginning - might feel different. And maybe not. As you might imagine, if I tried to word videos in such a way that no one could find fault with them, I'd have no videos here. I hope you will find some of my others beneficial.

[@krisvictoria8810]

@@tapwithbrad thank you. I appreciate it. I have found all your other ones beneficial. I still disagree with the term "playing" the victim in all the different fields of psychology it is currently being used in as it is harmful in many ways. On the other hand i agree with you on that it would be impossible to please everyone. It is also not nesessary nor expected. Thanks for all you do :)

[@tapwithbrad]

@@krisvictoria8810 To be honest, I'm not wild about the expression either... but I used it as the title because it the term that is used so often that it helps folks know what it's about.

[@krisvictoria8810]

@@tapwithbrad thank you for taking the time to respond. God bless you:) Ps: which video would you recommend for me if i struggle with constantly manifestingbwhat i do not want? All my fears come true constantly. Im unablw to break or get awsy from negative patterns. Thank you 👍 Ps2: your customer service reps are very kind, attentive and genuinely helpful. Thanks for that also.

[@tapwithbrad]

@@krisvictoria8810 I hope these might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pGqTanyeo71_Y80 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/baeXd4qmmryad80 to start with, and see where those lead. :)

[@amyo858]

Thank you!!!

[@Flaviat57]

Thank you!

[@marg4570]

thank you