Tarbiyat e Aulaad | Islam & Child Psychology | Paris 2014 | Pir Saqib Shaami

Raising Children in the Modern World.
In the light of Islam and Child Psychology.
Join Hazrat Pir Saqib Shaami in Paris as They delve into and answer one of the most asked questions of the modern era. This lecture tackles issues related to parenting based on Islam and Child Psychology.

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مَاشَآءَاللّهُ beautiful bayaan.. Allah sab parents ko ispar amal karne ki taufeeq dain. Sharing the notes that I made while listening to this bayaan. Hope it's useful to someone. Please remember me and my family in your dua. Jazakallahu khair. Tarbiyat e Aulaad: Aulad ki tarbiyat jab maa umeed se ho tab se hi shuru hojate hai. Pregnancy ke dauraan kasrat se Quran ki tilawat kare aur durood padhae. Baap is 9 months main bilkul bhi ounche aawaz main apne zaujah se baat na kare kyunki uska bohat bura Asr hota hai bachae par Jab bacha 0-2 yrs ka ho to usko baitha kar Quraan khud padhae take wo sunae, durood aur naat padhae. Use much nahi padhana hai bas aapko deen ka environment create karna hai Jab bacha 2-4 yrs ka ho to bachae ko Huzoor ﷺ ke mojazat sunae. Is umr main bacho ko sirf miracle sunae. Book for reference: Ash shifa by kazi Ayyaz rahimahullah. Jab bacha 4-7 yrs ka ho to usse Huzoor ﷺ ke mohabbat ke waqiyaat sunae, Sahaba ke muhabbat ke waqiyat aur qususan nanhe Sahaba ke waqiyat sunae. Bacho ke dil main Ishq e nabi dal de. Jab bacha 7-10 yrs ka ho to use namaaz ki targeeb dain. Pehle khud namaaz padhae aur phir bacho ko namaaz pe pukhta Kate. 0- 10 yr age bachae ma aur baap ko impress karna chahta hai aur unke tarah banana chahta hai isliye bachon ko bohat time aur attention dain warna bachae baad main walidain ko time nahi denge. 10 yr ke baad main bache ka mind badal raha hota hai ab wo apne Walid se muktalif banna chahta hai, wo apne Dostoon se impress hota hai aur unki tarah ban na chahta hai. Yeh bohat critical time hai. Bacho se material relation nahi emotional aur pyaar ka relation banaye taki wo bigadae nahi. Points to remember: 1. Sab se bada aur kharaab baby sitter TV hai . TV se door rakhae. Agar TV dekhana ho to khud bhi bsithain aur content monitor karain. 2. Bacho ke samne kabhi jhoot na bolain. Aap ke baat main aur amal main contradiction na ho. Daranae ke liye bhiabhi jhoot na bolain. 3. Bacho ke samney kabhi jhagda na karain. Kabhi buland aawaz main na baat karain. Jhagda karne se bacho ke dil main doore aajate hai. Wo ma baap se door hojate hai. 4. Ma apne bacho ke samne baap ke izzat/badtare bayaan kare respect karain, aur baap ma ki khidmat ke bare main samjhae. 5. Bacho ko khush rakhae jaye. Yeh ek deen ka kaam hai aur un ma baap ke liye jannat main ke special makaam hai. Rishtedaroon ke samney bacho ki hausla afzai kare. 6. Bacho ko kabhi bad dua na dain. Kyun ki uska asar hota hai. 7. Walidain bacho ke liye dil se dua karain. 8. Bacho ko khelne de aur Walid bachon ke saat zaroor khelain. Huzoor ﷺ ne farmaya ke jo bachae bachpan(0-10yr) kheltain hai wo badae hokar akalmand bante hai. 9. Bacho ke galti par unhai Foran kabhi na gussa karain. Buland aawaz main kabhi na dante. Time le aur aaraam se samjhayain. 10. Bacho ke dil main ma baap ka dar ho. Unhe kabhi burey lakab na dain unke galteoon par.Ex: jhoota, makaar, etc. 11. Friendly relationship rakhae bacho se ki bacha aapse koi bhi baat discuss karsake. Unhe bar baar bataye ki wo zindagi main kabhi bhi kuch bhi unse share/ discuss karsakte hai. 12. Kabhi one side argument sunkar judgement na karain. Jab two kids ho to har baat ki tehkeek Kare, oneside decision na lain. 13. Bachae ko bure sohabat se bachaye. Total check rakhain ki wo kisse doste rakhta hai. 14. Bachon se pyar ka izhaar karain. 15. Bachon ko rizq ke halal khilaya jaye. 16. Bachon ko Sakhi banaye. Bacho ke haat se khairiyat karvaye. 17. Jab bacha kam umr ho (2-7 yr) Sakti kare (Marey nahi)use discipline banane ke liye. 18. Ma bacho ko baap ka ehtaraam sekhain. Jab baap room main aaye to bachae khadain hojaye aur unka haat chumain aur apne jagah unhe offer karain yeh sunnat hai. 19. Walidain bachon ke samney sache baat accept karain. Agar bacha kisi chez majn zyada knowledgeable ho to accept karain. 20. VIP--> walidain apne bacho ke sath baith kar khana khae. Agar hosake to ek hi plate main sab khae Girls ko bataye ke Huzoor ﷺ ne auratoon ko kya diye hai. Deen e Islaam se Aurotoon ko kitni izzat mile etc.

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hazrat As salam o alaikum this is Syed Noman Ali Qadri muje Masha Allah apke bayan boht dil pr lgta hy mere or mere maa bap or puri family k haq mai dua kijiyega Mai apse boht pyar krta hun Allah Ahle sunnat or hamary ulamao ko mere Aaqa k sadke taqayamat tk hamaray saron pr qaim rakhe Ameen Yaa Rasool Allah hi salallao alaihi wasallam apke chahne walon ki khair...

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Allah apki umar mein barkat de .Allah ap se aur mazeed deen e islam ka kaam le .

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MashaAllah SubhanAllah, Allah Paak Apko salamat rakhy Ameen

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aap ki taqreer kafi had tak islah ki hamil hoti hai Subhan Allah maza aajata hai

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Subhan Allah. I've never heard a speech on this topic before, amazing knowledge being passed on by the shaykh

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mashallah awesome lecture may GOD bless u pir saqib sahib❤

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Masha allha Shaqib shami is my ideal person

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Dil mai hai ye tamanna ki aap se roo ba roo mulaqaat ho jaaye... Luv uh so much.. Allah aap ko salamr rakhe...

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mashallaha bhut khobsorat bayan hy allaha pak ap kay ilm men mzeed barkat day ....( Aameeen )...

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Beshak haq subhan Allah Masha Allah

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Saqib shaami sahib apka andaza bayan hi alag ha masha Allah bohot acha bayan ha insha Allah amal Katanga💜💜💜💜👍👍👍

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Allah aap ko darazi umer bil khair ata kare

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Subhaan Allah!!! Great lecture Janab..

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Eid Mubarak Hazrat MashaAllah

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MashaAllah, subhanAllah, Allah tallah apko seht o tandursti de Ameen., hamy amal krne ki tofeeq de Ameen jazak Allah...

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plz insb videos Ko sirf dekhe hi nhi blki share bhi Kia kare funny messages toh hm kitna share krte hai k viral ho Jata hai Apne Deen Islam ki in pyari pyari sachi aur sahi baton Ko bhi share Kia kare take zyada se zyada Muslims Apne islam Ko Jane aur samjhe aur jb usse koi nonmuslim uske Islam k bare me puche toh usse kisi maulvi Ko call na krna pare kiu hm esa sochte hai k Deen ki baat Janna sirf molvi aur Maulana ka kaam hai har Musalman Ko islam Ko Janna chahie

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Every parent should watch this video

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Jak khair. I learned a lot

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Maa Sha Allah We Love You All Time...

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mashallah so educating for all Muslims

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Allah hame bi enke jaisa avlad ata far maye ameen I love you pir Saqib Shami sab

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Ya Allah Thank You for the real MuhammadRasulAllah-rahmatallil-alameen.

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MashAllah...

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Most beautiful speech for the life

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Mashaallah subhanallah Bahut khoob Allah aapki umar aur lambi ata farmaye Aameen

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بیشک سبحان اللہ ماشاء اللہ کیا ہی بہترین بیاں ہے

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Masha Allah,

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ما شاء الله...بارك الله تعالى في علمه..استفدت من المحاضرة..

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This should be shared to those who say Islam oppressed women. 😭

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allah pak ap ko ajar dain or SB ko amal krny ki tofeek ata krain .ameen

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It does not matter if we come from different religions, the basics are always the same - Parents are irreplaceable and obviously the first teachers ❤❤

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یہ ناز یہ انداز ہمارے نہیں ہو تے جھولی میں اگر ٹکڑے تمہارے نہیں ہوتے بے دام ہی بک جاۓ بازار نبی ﷺ میں اس شان کے سودے میں خسارے نہيں ہوتے۔

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excellent bayan....

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Allah ki rehmat aap par Pir Saqib Shami

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Insha Allah

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Wow, Very good lecture ,For Childs

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Assalam alykum pir saheb mashallah bahut khub, parents k liye zarruri hai, inshallah amal karenge, duaon ki guzarish

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سبحا ن اللہ 🌺🌹🌻👍👌👌😊

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Who Can Listen this Bayan In 2024❤

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Me ❤

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I am listening

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Mashallah isase acchi takrir Pahle Kabhi Nahin Sune ab taklif bahut bahut bahut bahut bahut acchi Karte Hain

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mshaAllah...mashaAllah

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Allah apke elm or iman me barkat De or tamam musalmano ko nek tofik de

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MASHAA ALLAH JAZAA KAL LAAH HAZRAT SAHAB

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Mash Allah ❤️❤️❤️

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Very much helpful jazzakallh 🙏🏻

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Apne bht acchha bataya hai... Allah pak hame amal karne ki taufiq de

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Ameen Mashallah subhanllah ❤❤❤

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Great Guidance.. May Allah give me hidayat to bring up my child according to Sunnah

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MASHALLAH BEHTAREEN KHUTBA

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Allah pak tamam muslima ko rahe haq pe chalne ki taufiq de Islam zindabad Musalman zindabad

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allah apki umar main barkat de k hum or vi kuch sikh paye

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Haq saqib ya saqib sunniyoun k haami saqib shaami saqib shaami....

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Masahallah Excellent Lecture

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Asklm mashallla Shubanallaha apne both achi achi baate batayi hai inshallaha apki baat per hum amal karenge