The misuse of grooming should be stopped as it takes away from its real usage which is children
@StormyJBlake Жыл бұрын
Thank you! These grown reckless men know exactly what they were getting into. Just short of threatening their lives or holding them against their will, no one can make an adult, and certainly not TWO adults, do anything they find unsavory or wrong. I hate how people use that term to describe their and others' s3xual misadventures or to justify their guilt afterwards.
@aj25055 Жыл бұрын
Glad I read this! So I don’t have to watch this one. These grown folks are willing participants.
@callmeonkeshiasphone Жыл бұрын
yes leave the gay 2pac alone
@professorh7024 Жыл бұрын
Young grown people can and do get groomed by older adults. I feel what you're saying though. Grooming doesn't seem to really apply to this situation.
@bigelowkaryn Жыл бұрын
@@professorh7024Adults can be taken advantage of and violated. But grooming is specifically what happens to children. Again, adults can be harmed, but grooming has a specific definition. The brothers were using the term incorrectly
@chantasworld4970 Жыл бұрын
They need to stop using the word grooming, that word is normally used, when adult is trying to take advantage of a minor, he's a grown ass man, no one is grooming him!
@saltnpeppanatural1931 Жыл бұрын
There’s no way he could walk in the bathhouse and not know what it was 😂
@dennisfredericks7626 Жыл бұрын
No way in hell😂
@SuperLarryF Жыл бұрын
Not no way at all
@dennisfredericks7626 Жыл бұрын
For those who have never been, this is how the few that I heard from a friend work. You walk in, there's normally a line of men. If you have gaydar, you know that they are all gay. You go to the counter, you pay for a locker or room, and get buzzed in. There are supplies on the inside for sale to coincide with sex. Usually condoms are abundant, and you notice blatant sex imagery. Everyone is wearing towels, underwear or nothing. Based on how nice it is, there are hot saunas, wet saunas, maybe a pool, darkroom, porn, men, and sex.
@tincredible Жыл бұрын
Those brothers and Jussie are 3 lying birds of a feather; they're all opportunists. I saw that from the beginning & never understood how they could ever successfully position themselves Jussie's "victims" in their little press tour. In bathhouses, there is so much OPEN intimate activity between men that it's impossible not to know what the deal is upon arrival. The fact that he returned for 2nd and possibly a 3rd visit tells us all we need to know. The brother is lying. He was gay for pay at the very LEAST. I remember the bathhouse brother (the one on the left) bragging in another interview about how he'd graduated from college with a 3.5 GPA, dual degrees, and as a member of his university's honors program. If he's THAT smart, he certainly could figure out what the bathhouse was about after a few minutes inside. You can't brag about your education and intelligence in one breath, but pretend to be dumb when it's convenient. Just think about this: If someone is willing to conspire to stage an illegal act in PUBLIC for a fee, what makes us think they wouldn't legally whack off with another man in PRIVATE for a fee?
@robertervin6920 Жыл бұрын
How the hell could you be over 21 and allow or even think someone is trying to groom you?Yeah,he full of shit.
@callmeonkeshiasphone Жыл бұрын
when that degree bites them
@Phillybags Жыл бұрын
Adults Can Not be groomed. Adults are not naive like children and can put two and two together to figure out someone’s intentions with them. As an adult you’re making a conscious decision to play along with the attention, free dinners, trips, etc that is afforded to you because you understand how the situation it is beneficial to you
@candycane3301 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. The only way this could apply to an adult is if they have certain mental disabilities/disorders. A lot of adults with those circumstances will still sense that the situation is odd even if they can't quite put their finger on what's bothering them.
@bigelowkaryn Жыл бұрын
I largely agree, but people can adults who get violated. But totally agree that grooming is exclusive to children and these men went in eyes wide open
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
I'd say "most" adults cannot be groomed...but there are different levels of development and vulnerability regardless of age But I agree that the word "groom" is being used loosely and likely doesn't apply here.
@caralate Жыл бұрын
I would beg to differ... similar to love bombing.... there's a level of manipulation and exploitation involved
@blackdaria9075 Жыл бұрын
Adults can be naive, especially in a state of trauma. They can be fully taken advantage.
@TheAspiringHomemaker Жыл бұрын
What I understood from the interview is that, they needed a job, and was willing to do whatever to advance their careers
@b2bgood870 Жыл бұрын
Which , it won't last long
@tincredible Жыл бұрын
...including be gay for pay. That's the kicker that they're refusing to admit.
@jahneen13 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!!! @@tincredible
@dennisfredericks7626 Жыл бұрын
A bathhouse is not the place ANY straight man would feel comfortable going to. If by chance you were misled in going once, I can't imagine a straight guy going a second time. Not unless unless they were fully comfortable with being semi naked in very close proximity to men having sex, looking for, looking at you sexually and touching you sexually. With them being desirable, they would be instantly targeted.
@hennesseyme9112 Жыл бұрын
These men should be in prison also. They went along with the whole thing.
@Chris-dz5tv Жыл бұрын
i said the same thing. They were fine with it until they got caught😂 snitches
@traceymitchell6763 Жыл бұрын
@@Chris-dz5tv They are the ones that set Jussie up period and think they are getting away with it.
@faithwilliams7826 Жыл бұрын
Why prison? Isn't this the American way???
@hennesseyme9112 Жыл бұрын
@@faithwilliams7826 No it isn't and yes, prison.
@obi.A. Жыл бұрын
Hijacking your thread to make some corrections: Jussie is 41 y/o, Ola and Able are 27 and 30 y/o respectively. Having this knowledge, "grooming" is not the appropiate term here. Maybe misusing his celebrity status to take advantage of them given their desperation would be better. When you say not wanting to be labelled _"a gay african male"_ is assuming that _ALL_ african countries are homophobic which is _FALSE._ You might want to specify which country exactly which in this case is Nigeria. And yes Nigeria is homophobic but these individuals are not Nigeria born and raised. As far as we are concerened they are of Nigerian heritage but are American. Not wanting to identify as gay _(if they truly are)_ especially given how old they are has absolutely NOTHING to do with the aforementioned. It's their perogative .
@mableking5358 Жыл бұрын
Like Kandi says..THE LIES THE LIES THE LIES!!!!! 😂
@Heygirlhey70 Жыл бұрын
Omg I need to find Raeshonda.... I was laughing tears...when she gave directions and said you got me fycked up over here 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@iamcourtneyphillips1652 Жыл бұрын
Can’t no grown man be groomed 🥴
@AgapeIV Жыл бұрын
Especially if he's not into Men.
@anastaziarahnae5749 Жыл бұрын
This the comment I was looking for because they need to stop the cap
@Hi_Tamera Жыл бұрын
Exactly it’s sounding like 🌈 for pay
@mstate_ Жыл бұрын
Bathhouses = Gay sex! Period! Straight men do not visit bathhouses 🤷🏽♀️ Hearing someone say, “Is he ready?” Could literally ANYTHING!! Why would one assume it was related to a “gay” sexual encounter? That man needs to come on out the closet! If you’re secure in you manhood, you wouldn’t internalize being in the presence of gays makes you be seen as gay! 🙄
@wenonawynn37 Жыл бұрын
"I went there 2, 3 times" I guess adulthood begins at 65
@sbaxter3252 Жыл бұрын
I believe it was more than 2-3 times. Most things they said aren't believable
@MySweetestLily Жыл бұрын
You hit it on the nose abt the scary oily mess on Lee Daniel’s head!!!! I just love you MIMS!!!
@bettyas74 Жыл бұрын
It's always been my theory that Lee Daniels was involved in the planning of that set up!
@678niecy Жыл бұрын
I’m going to concur with the person who wrote that MIMS intro and the pop ups are unmatched! I’m cracking up at work. Now what we talking about again? 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@limzprettythang Жыл бұрын
Man or woman, if a person is deceitful by nature and they’re diligently hiding things from you, you’re not gonna know. PERIODT. THE “signs” are microscopic. You’d literally have to be questioning and watching your partner and every move daily. I would never want to live that way.
@TTDoYouLoveMe Жыл бұрын
You are cracking me up with this displeasure with Lee Daniels’ hair!! 😂
@AgapeIV Жыл бұрын
Not Gay Gay but Gay for Pay MIMS.
@360photoboothpdx13 Жыл бұрын
I don't believe anything Tasha K says after she lied on Cardi B and a few other people. She can kick Rocks!
@phylliscrosby4 Жыл бұрын
What did Tasha lie about that cardi didn't admit to?
@TheNaeKu Жыл бұрын
She not gonna be happy until she's in jail or worse. Smh time to find a new hustle.
@co9971 Жыл бұрын
Ive been to Steamworks (the bathhouse) many times and I have never seen either of them...however, there is no way you could enter that bathhouse and not know that it's full of gay men. (that's not the steamworks photo of Chicago btw). That said, Steamworks does have rooms that you can rent --so you can be there and not necessarily mess around with other guys. Also, it's open 24 hours so if you are tipsy and you just need to sober up, you can go there and rent a room and sleep it off.
@lisam830 Жыл бұрын
I’m DEAD at the hair being such a distraction 😂😂😂😂😂
@msdiva Жыл бұрын
Oh Mims....that whole dialogue you gave about Lee's lacefront was hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣
@Penny-qh6ks Жыл бұрын
I was waiting for L Daniels name To turn up in this 🤦🏾♀️
@tcurry2832 Жыл бұрын
MIMS is so so good looking! Love the show!!!
@ysl1126 Жыл бұрын
MIMs is fine!
@joliegurl7527 Жыл бұрын
@@ysl1126Fr Fr 🎯🎯🎯
@liberiarose6565 Жыл бұрын
Isnt grooming a very Hollywood thing that happens all of the time? These stories are not uncommon.
@specialkay4329 Жыл бұрын
Grooming isni a "Hollywood Thing". All pedos groom, sexual deviants groom, that dirty uncle, brothet, father, they groom.
@preppsterswag Жыл бұрын
You can’t groom a sane grown adult man. Come on now
@sherrigrant573 Жыл бұрын
Since the beginning of Hollywood
@FasterFaster1966 ай бұрын
@@sherrigrant573Since the beginning of time.
@arguewithyamama8176 Жыл бұрын
They ALL lied so what they still going on and on about this for 🙄
@camrymoore134 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@bumpinggums412 Жыл бұрын
Ok the bathhouse solidify they were dating.
@chanelhutch Жыл бұрын
The hair rant😂😂😂 "I don't like it" ! Me neither MIMS
@ElizabethHome153 Жыл бұрын
Mims there's something that calls gay for pay, and I do believe that's what those brothers did. Worked in walt disney world, and Amazon I've seen it happened alot. It's where a straight person acting or participating in gay activities to get a job, or a promotion, and work every times. I've even seen people moved in with the gay person, and leave after they gotten the promotion they wanted, then get married to an opposite sex.
@Kelli_Ess Жыл бұрын
That pic with Lee Daniels and Damon Dash is Hilarious 😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣
@tyniesham39 Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon, MIMS and chat!
@aletaadams86 Жыл бұрын
They had floated three different lies. 1. They were his trainers 2. They were his body guards 3. They were just trying to help a friend out
@christinagoins2012 Жыл бұрын
Hey y'all!! Happy Friday MIMS! 💜
@nycqn Жыл бұрын
Now Mims, I need you to know I was cackling at your hair take. That was too funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am team Raeshonda, people are being too hard on her.
@MakeItMakeSensemims Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@ryanehardy5671 Жыл бұрын
@@MakeItMakeSensemims you sexy
@dennisfredericks7626 Жыл бұрын
Nah. At a minimum, Raeshonda knew her wife was a fake Christian. She had to know that her wife said one thing and did another.
@ericacaldwell8899 Жыл бұрын
I SAW THAT INTERVIEW I LAUGHED SO HARD 😂😂😂😂
@swallacegray2013 Жыл бұрын
Not u said ur unhappy with Lee Daniel's hair, I'm screaming MIMS😂😂😂😂I am too! So disappointed😂
@tgoody1975 Жыл бұрын
Idk they seem like opportunists, they might do anything...lol
@christinagoins2012 Жыл бұрын
Right, why put yourself back in that situation?
@REALITYBEASTTV Жыл бұрын
Great video! classic Mims commentary 👏🏿 ❤
@t8styc8kz Жыл бұрын
🤦♂ this lady still hasn't learned her lesson
@MakeItMakeSensemims Жыл бұрын
Oh my Gawd lol
@cll27 Жыл бұрын
Nope
@ShayP76 Жыл бұрын
Not one bit!!
@Nisha1833 Жыл бұрын
NOT AT ALL!
@DaRealSteph314 Жыл бұрын
I finally catch you live
@fah232 Жыл бұрын
Why is he going out with Jussie allowing him to pay for all of their outtings??
@vickysmith3179 Жыл бұрын
Groomed - prepare or train (someone) for a particular purpose or activity. "star pupils who are groomed for higher things" Anyone can be groomed not just children. And Lee Daniels casting couch is believable. Imagine what Smollet had to do to get the part.
@nikkiwilliams5973 Жыл бұрын
Can you use the term "grooming" for adults? I feel at that point its a choice.
@stephanieray7205 Жыл бұрын
MIMS... you didn't have to make us see "the hair" just cuz YOU saw "the hair." I promise, I could have gone the rest of my life without seeing that. I really could have. 😳🙄🤦🏽♀️😂😂😂😂
@SlasherChick Жыл бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree 😂
@sbaxter3252 Жыл бұрын
😂
@ericacaldwell8899 Жыл бұрын
THAT TABLE COULDN'T GO EITHER 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@TA-fm1nq Жыл бұрын
Where did you purchase Jim Townsend’s book?? “snakes in the garden”
@sbaxter3252 Жыл бұрын
😅 Did MIMS reallly call that book "Snakes on a Plane"?!
@andrewDaMack Жыл бұрын
The brother in the all black with his eyes close in the photo is giving a whole lot a gay vibes but anyway, If those brothers aren't gay then they were willing to be gay for access and opportunities. You're right MIMS they're only trying to spin whatever perception there is about them, they're trying to save face with their family and tribe back home.
@limzprettythang Жыл бұрын
10:18. That Phaedra clip 😂😂😂
@ericacaldwell8899 Жыл бұрын
I Laughed so hard RENT A CENTER TOOK THEY DINNER TABLE 😕🥺😵💫😱😁😁😳😂🤣😂😂
@grandhustla85 Жыл бұрын
Yall come on they mess around he just scared to admit
@ladygracetalks Жыл бұрын
I cannot get past his hair. 😂😂😂cause sir?
@MercuryBubble Жыл бұрын
Oh please. Abel and Juicy(Able probably gave him that nickname) were HUNCHING and now he scurred.
@Amani_Umoja Жыл бұрын
The Lady has a messy spirit. I don't go around there to hear nothing she has to say.
@Kaleepha Жыл бұрын
I can’t with you and your facial expressions and these meme’s 😂😂😂
@73shay93 Жыл бұрын
Raeshanda is giving she didn’t learn forgive, but never forget. Because after the issues with her ex husband & her mother ( the people you should have been able trust the most) she have never trusted that so called wife that much.
@netsey4236 Жыл бұрын
HI Sherlock Mims! I think you should start the "Snake ...." book from the beginning and build. Maybe do a one hour live on the same day of the week and preferably at the same time. This could include maybe a 20 minute discilussion. Consistency would create a following. And I think it could be fun!
@sbsuccess7854 Жыл бұрын
Haha...you mentioned Jimmy Butler!
@tgoody1975 Жыл бұрын
Hi Mims! Greetings from Detroit!
@christinagoins2012 Жыл бұрын
Hey neighbor! I'm in Detroit too! Transplant from Louisiana, lol! 👋🏽👋🏽
@tgoody1975 Жыл бұрын
@@christinagoins2012yes! Straight shooters are worldwide!
@netsey4236 Жыл бұрын
FOR THE BOOK READING: Maybe a half hour reading at lunchtime, while urging listeners to take notes, then follow up with a half-hour discussion in the evening.
@jamiAkos Жыл бұрын
I think there's cultural differences and nuance being missed.
@camrymoore134 Жыл бұрын
He said Juicy Smollet😂😂😂
@Maral1234sara Жыл бұрын
Who can't 🏃♂️ ?Tell 'em gurl!
@RNDiva33 Жыл бұрын
I did not know they still did bath houses. 😢 They actually became illegal in a lot of states.
@queenie_the_virgo Жыл бұрын
I remember that hair. It was giving “coke wh0re”
@SuperLarryF Жыл бұрын
I am really sad about Raeshanda. I thought they were such a great couple and sorry to hear it went this way
@christinagoins2012 Жыл бұрын
That red Polo sweatshirt looks good on ya.. 😊
@mschism20 Жыл бұрын
I need this video of the girl asking who can't run lol
@vickysmith3179 Жыл бұрын
BISHOP BULWINKLE SAID PIMPS IN THE PULPIT.
@tanyawhite4864 Жыл бұрын
You had a lot of fun on this one Mims 😂. But frfr, the guys sound ridiculous
@3x3mm Жыл бұрын
I wanna k what Rick Ross is doing with his left leg in the intro-make it make sense The big girl is life " who cant run".
@shawndalyn6767 Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon Y'all
@MakeItMakeSensemims Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon
@destinymckay871 Жыл бұрын
I live for ur intro darling
@milchaohara1793 Жыл бұрын
Hi 👋 Mims and Happy Friday ❤
@MakeItMakeSensemims Жыл бұрын
Hi
@honeybadgerusa568910 ай бұрын
Your intros are fricken hilarious!!!
@soniajohnson4238 Жыл бұрын
Look, let's keep it real. In this business, you have to be willing to do the rituals to get to that platform you want.
@peeweecrawford3349 Жыл бұрын
I LIKE THE HAIR LEE DANIELS GIVIN "SUPER FLY PLAYER VIBES"😆😆😆😆😆
@vanessahouse3307 Жыл бұрын
What does he mean gay bath house? Well are there any other kind of bath houses 🏘 🤔 🧢
@MeaghanTamara Жыл бұрын
Lee has grroming allegations and his hair has grooming allegations.
@MissN77 Жыл бұрын
I can’t lol
@Kaleepha Жыл бұрын
That couple something in my spirit don’t feel right with them she’s talking about I’d rather burn a bridge while I’m standing at it honey. Why don’t you get off the bridge? Why are you on the bridge because when the bridge was benefiting you, you rather stand on it, so you wanna burn it down And separate yourself from that bridge to save yourself but when that bridge was useful, you was all over that bridge standing on and walking across that bridge driving back-and-forth to where you needed to go on the bridge but as soon as that bridge, don’t serve you any purposes you want to burn it down OK see situations don’t make people they reveal up and another thing I heard was when you around somebody with a character like this it starts to rub off on you too
@treasuresofglory9615 Жыл бұрын
Who are they trying to fool?
@kiashaw Жыл бұрын
When did these allegation happen about lashanda?? I need to go back and find that video. What is thr name of the video, what date???
@rudolphmcneill515 Жыл бұрын
DAMNIT MIMS!! Your intros are UNMATCHED!! 😂😂😂❤ At this point I'm not interested in Jussie, the brothers or Tasha K. Lol. "Grooming"? This ninja is a full grown a** man. Smh.
@adrieneford9228 Жыл бұрын
They need jail time too
@Darbykins27 Жыл бұрын
Ooh, I'm with you on that hair!!! I don't believe what proven liar Smollet says.
@alleylane6458 Жыл бұрын
Lee Daniels wanted him to train with that beef jerky! 😅
@MekaHall1078 Жыл бұрын
Just call him Juicy if you can’t pronounce Jussie, because we not about too disrespect 2Pac like that!
@akuamirci33459 ай бұрын
not TRIBE?!?! in 2024 tribe? you gotta make that make sense.
@AgapeIV Жыл бұрын
Miss Lee Daniel's was behind this Stunt
@fah232 Жыл бұрын
I didn't know a 30 something y/o can be groomed? Or maybe I just don't know this...Those brothers played along and threw Jussie under the bus.
@sbryan8163 Жыл бұрын
Pastor-wife just waiting for the next shoe to drop: kicked out of the church, charged with (this ain't) stealing federal funds, fired from her job...
@ericacaldwell8899 Жыл бұрын
Not unhappy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 about the hair 😳😳😳😳🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 I'm with you Chile
@Jamietheroadrunner Жыл бұрын
Oops, I’m early for a change. You can bet I’m going to take a bathroom break at work to watch when u go live 😂
@MakeItMakeSensemims Жыл бұрын
Lunch time video
@tatyanagarner6984 Жыл бұрын
I don’t find it strange at all that a straight man wouldn’t take the gay bait so to speak. Not asking Jussie about what lee may have meant about the “is he ready” comment could mean that there were other opportunities on the table for him being Jussie’s friend and him already having an idea of what it meant. Maybe If he would have asked Jussie straight up what that meant and had been firmly against Jussie’s response, it could be the end of their friendship and ultimately his actual goal. There was more than one opportunity for the brothers being around Jussie anything surrounding a sexuality that he was not wasn’t the only one.
@bumpinggums412 Жыл бұрын
Already hit the line button
@MakeItMakeSensemims Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@gshire8999 ай бұрын
Congratulations 🎉!! Happy Birthday from the boot!
@moniquelee7090 Жыл бұрын
I remember reading an interview Lee Daniels did and I believe this 100% because of the way he spoke about his young boyfriend. He’s disgusted me ever since. I believe the brother was scknd D but, Lee Daniels is 🤮
@ysl1126 Жыл бұрын
What did he say?
@moniquelee7090 Жыл бұрын
@@ysl1126 i think his boyfriend was there because they may have been interviewing him at his home. His bf was in his early 20s i think like 22, and honestly I can’t remember the exact words but it was like he was his play toy. I remember him mentioning something about taking his bf on vacation overseas and it just sounded real groomy like. Lee is like 30 years older than him and calling him a “boy” in a way you can tell he likes them young. I really read in between the lines and it gave me pervert vibes for real. He may have groomed Jussie idk but he is WEIRD
@jvsminerhvziv3289 ай бұрын
"Oh the other one is closed, I wasn't gonna argue"...so your phone don't connect to the internet? you can't search for other places yourself? lmao