why would I have to HANDLE you? I'm already outside trying to make money to take care of you, and the kids and the house and the cars. you think after all that I wanna come back home, a place that is supposed to be the only thing in my life that is PEACEFUL and HANDLE you? ANY GIRL who thinks like this is going to end up ALONE with 84 cats. this is a huge red flag and one of the most toxic traits a person can have. imagine every guy you meet is your brother or son trying to find love, you will no longer think this toxic way about guys ever