How to talk to your boss | Peter Matthews | TEDxUWA

[@honiideslysses12]

What we need to be educated on is how your boss should speak to you. We need more employee empowerment especially in the face of horrible bosses who think that they can bully, belittle and berate their way to the top and take all of the credit.

[@cherylshort5005]

❤kindness is the key❤

[@silver5499]

Everyday I go to work I am thankful that my boss is someone that work WITH his employees instead of OVER his employees.

[@kinyunjarmon8575]

I hate my boss. I have asked the Universe authorities, the Ancestors, God, and Satan, to remove him!!! I am willing to give up chocolate for his exit. I hope he finds another job before 4/20 or die...I'm good with either. 😅

[@jackburt4549]

Yeah at McDonald’s

[@bumbum7584]

Simply apply to a better place instead.

[@jennyneon]

TED Talk, I appreciate your help. I followed your advice & Iʼm now unemployed with $100,000 in debt. Thank you so much.

[@regalchic]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@briannaadkins3924]

Come on bro no one gives advice. They offer factual experience and factual information for the masses to put what resonates with them into practice if it makes sense to better your own personal or professional lives. You're not serious right?

[@moradshebli9562]

Bro WE ALL NEED TO BE TAUGHT THIS BEFORE GETTING JOBS WHAT THE ACTUAL MOTHER NATURE! I am literally having goosebumps all over my body while listening to this guy say all those jewerly words.

[@user-vi1dl3xg4g]

I usually read the comments to prepare myself for the Talk ( or to exit) I actually think this is a really really good talk, and not what most of the comment section imply. I guess the majority have already learned what I did not know :)

[@IKEMENOsakaman]

Oh I misread the title as "How to take down your boss". I watched the whole video, eager to gain that knowledge, and then noticed that I was wrong lol Well, it was fun anyways lol

[@4D2M0T]

🤣 you can do it take that boss down🤜

[@fignewton8690]

🤣😂🤣 good stuff!

[@arian6565]

Yes FBI, this guy right here

[@carolasasira3219]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌

[@dezb8510]

We are rooting for you! Give me the info I will call and complain about your boss!

[@marccollins9673]

Great presentation. Loved the way Peter told his stories and shared a wealth of experience on how communication is so key not only what is being said but also how its delivered.

[@SCRT]

Can we all appreciate that he uploads consistently? 💕

[@santiagohernandez..]

It’s the rules of power. You bow down to your superiors.

[@aaaaaaaaa52]

This guy has never had a bad boss haha

[@stephaniesalmeron7787]

🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:08 *Workplace relationships key.* 01:20 *Young workers' mistakes.* 02:20 *Age divide challenge.* 02:35 *Small talk importance.* 05:09 *Silence holds power.* 08:42 *Advising shows expertise.* 09:54 *Utilize project opportunities.* 12:07 *Positive feedback approach.* 13:51 *Engaged, prompt responses.* 15:06 *Advise and summarize.* 16:04 *Positive language use.* Made with HARPA AI

[@cherylshort5005]

Lol! Ok, I'll be 60 soon, I can dance through all of office from outlook folders that mail files itself based on sender and which email it came through to creating access databank, charts & graphs in PowerPoint of course word and interlocking spreadsheets that feed into another spreadsheet in excel. I still have the newest of all offices that I subscribe to on my note 9 phone, my tablet, (surface Pro) and laptop. Lol I started with DOS, first windows I saw was 3.1. So don't count out every older person using technology. Many of us got in on it when computers were the size of a room!

[@wishfull3nigma]

Sadly many never kept up is the main issue. Its not that they can't, it's that they've become to proud, bored, or sometimes just indignant in needing to learn a new skill.

[@cherylshort5005]

@@wishfull3nigma Actually, among ones my age those people are actually more fearful literally afraid they can't learn, then they have that prideful anger. Now contrary to that , a friends mom, never got technology, she's 90 sharp as a tacklearning so fast it blows me away! Her comment was that I'm patient lol. She's really fun to teach cause she's like a sponge full of curiosity!

[@krthkh]

22 years old, running a business for 4 years, in strategic marketting, wow

[@tiktokshorts7250]

love how he express it..💓💓

[@efremboyee8820]

Thank you.

[@Yub1Tub1]

Funny and educational. Enjoyed it

[@donnaaddy7265]

I’ve had to do the same thing when meeting a new eager professional (regardless of age) for the 1st time. Slow down! Let’s find some commonalities before we dive into the good stuff.

[@veniz2809]

Very well said

[@Tmandoesgames]

To anyone with an brain, it’s simple. Just be honest, humble, and put others before yourself. And also, a corny joke is literally the worse way to start an presentation, and trying to keep them awake.

[@XstrioX]

what a nice lad ^-^ great talk

[@tatianecarvalho6623]

So much helpful, thanks a lot!

[@leblose]

BE YOUR OWN BOSS

[@megphillips8054]

This is amazing!

[@Theking-cs1gf]

Thanks

[@ronalddancaliva883]

It's doesn't matter work is work , when you accidentally see your boss eating out of the trashcan it's not of your business at all

[@donniekrahn8427]

As long as he doesn’t take it back to the kitchen and serve it. 21:27

[@severtyn]

Thank you

[@JayPhelps-vt5qy]

Many thanks

[@brookeking8559]

Say “you’re welcome” to “thanks.”

[@user-vi1dl3xg4g]

Actually, I always prefer thank you to other persons thank you. It’s good to have opportunity to serve others, and I am thankful for that

[@bukurie6861]

Thank you!To be to all boss Best...⁉🌞👋

[@mamsmojs6295]

Nice boss

[@c1ph3rpunk]

22 and worked 4 years, not exactly a great sample, gain a bit more experience.

[@julianaalcantara3595]

Sudenly life or other definition get us tired in a way that not even here or there for ourownselves but even tough thanks amen

[@mexicans6592]

He didn’t drink enough of that water. I can feel how dry that mouth is through this speaker

[@Leo_de_janeiro]

True, i can hear it too and hate it.

[@easyenglishwithdaisy]

✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️

[@irmamartinez6826]

👍👌👍👌👍👌

[@HomesteadHarvest]

Get a drink Peter. All I can hear is the yak n crackle with each word. There ya go Peter

[@arian6565]

can someone pls summaries this, I dont bother listening to this

[@user-vi1dl3xg4g]

Don’t bother, don’t learn :)

[@famousbowl9926]

Ikr im out.

[@arian6565]

@@user-vi1dl3xg4g as if it's something deeply valuable, silly

[@user-vi1dl3xg4g]

@@arian6565 the world is full of people thinking that they have just learned enough

[@montagemanman1389]

Please summarise, I don’t bother with learning. …will that do?

[@amf8551]

And he is in expert in this area... interesting... I have been in the work force for 40 years.... my bosses could care less about their employees... This guy is in serious need of a rude awaking...but fun motivational story I guess...

[@kristineo6600]

A MF--I too have been in the workforce over 40 years, and have been imagining the 'rude awakening' quickly heading his way. It's going to be earth-shatteringly unexpected, humbling, and painful. By the same token, it will be a much needed lesson.. Sometimes being publicly taken down a notch is worth more than a decade of work experience.

[@cookwithshabanatahir6458]

👌👌👌👌💕

[@Phatxual]

Anyone else hear that miserable clicking in the audio?

[@Leo_de_janeiro]

Its his mouth going out of water.

[@Phatxual]

@@Leo_de_janeiro Naaaaaaw, I thought that at first but I don't knoooooow, it just doesn't quite line up right, I feel. And that's the only reason it bugs me haha

[@QuethLevi]

nothing learned

[@julius333333]

wtf do you know about relationships at 22, & wtf is that weird sexist joke to open with. the opening is like a parody

[@deaddownduck3998]

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[@JayJonStew]

He's too young to pull off this talk.

[@JayPhelps-vt5qy]

Yeah, he was pushing himself, but he managed his nerves well. If he keeps practicing he’ll develop into a great speaker (or he’ll overdo it and get stressed out)

[@icarustheother8591]

Thanks for the video feed but I'm going to tell you this right now. The way that I talk to my boss but not disrespectfully. Good morning constituent I'm here to work with you not work for you but somebody has to know what's going on so you got my bid. I'll learn everything about the job that I can from you thank you for your experience and thank you for your grace and understanding of my situation and thanks for hiring me. All of my best to you and yours everyday heading my troubles at the door do my job pick him up on the way out. . And yes I'm still not watching the video but here's the comment maybe later for the watching. Take care thanks get some inspiration out of this. Or something else anyway just get some.

[@holygoat188]

bruh what

[@icarustheother8591]

@@holygoat188 elaborate on your question please sir. If you didn't get it the first time there must be an obvious question about the comment instead of Bro what. And I ain't going to fix that. What do you mean? Explain yourself. Or don't. At any rate have a great day all of my best to you and yours for the shore good luck. And it's deeper questions situational awareness might be a solution

[@holygoat188]

@@icarustheother8591 I had a stroke reading your comment. It's so unclear.

[@icarustheother8591]

@@holygoat188 well the way I look at it is that the waters are so muddied at this point being a little unclear in my comments might help people think about clearing the water and their own minds. That's all just trying to motivate thought just trying to motivate. Dang it is it working?

[@holygoat188]

@@icarustheother8591 Sounds like you're lazy and don't actually care to explain what you initially wrote in a clearer format.

[@severtyn]

Thanks

[@JayPhelps-vt5qy]

Thank you