What do we truly need in our lives? Mathias Lefebvre at TEDxQueenstown

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In his talk at TEDxQueenstown 2014: Sense of Place "Piano Man" Mathias Lefebvre, the ultimate lifestyle designer, talks about how he got to the place where he lives his life on his own terms.
Every day Mathias tells his story with music on the grand piano he pulls around the streets of Queenstown but today he shares it in words and asks us to think hard about what we really need in our lives and how we can cooperate for a better future for all.
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@eloisefvg924
@eloisefvg924 9 жыл бұрын
To the people who call him naive: I think we are just used to our overcomplicated way of thinking, confused by all the supposed "needs" that are just unnecessary desires and addictions
@joyyu7753
@joyyu7753 8 жыл бұрын
i completely understand his point, and i agree with it mostly, I travel instead of buying a car and I try not to be held up by materials etc. However, I think it is also important to note that many of people were born with responsibilities of others thrusted upon them, as in, if one has a sick family member, it is not so easy to drop the work we find stressful and just do our own things.
@dandanmist
@dandanmist 7 жыл бұрын
food, shelter, and love. How true! loved this man who truly understands life.
@khalidsafir
@khalidsafir 9 жыл бұрын
In a lot of poor/developing countries, people may have physical fences but they dont have the boundaries you find in the West. They already practice a lot of what is said here but I totally understand where the speaker is coming from. In the West we have a lot to learn. We got good at getting stuff but we forgot the invisible stuff that really matters. I left London a few months ago because I got tired of living among zombies who had forgotten what really matters, I feel sorry for them. I've moved to Jordan (in the middle east) where I live a very simple life, where the standard greeting from strangers is "fadhal" meaning "welcome to my home" and they mean it.
@lyubgan
@lyubgan 10 жыл бұрын
The world needs more people like this guy!
@Viv8ldi
@Viv8ldi 10 жыл бұрын
Then start by being one of them rather than just demand
@lyubgan
@lyubgan 10 жыл бұрын
I wonder if I can...
@boat9966
@boat9966 10 жыл бұрын
lyubgan you can
@lyubgan
@lyubgan 10 жыл бұрын
Nads508 I'm trying.Thanks!
@boat9966
@boat9966 10 жыл бұрын
lyubgan me too!
@eugenebajyana9612
@eugenebajyana9612 10 жыл бұрын
Mathias, what an outstanding pathway, so singular. From Tournai, 20 years ago, to this little street in Ubud, in 2010, i learnt from you that peaceful, but determined discovery of yourself. Thank you for that, you're the man !
@orangeazahara
@orangeazahara 9 жыл бұрын
This address acts as a brain tonic. Loved . Full of wisdom and content. Worth listening to several times and pay close attention.
@Funandconsciousness
@Funandconsciousness 10 жыл бұрын
A wonderful personal story, authentically offered to all of us in the true spirit of love ... after some fabulous piano playing! Great one, Mathias.
@pontiacmon
@pontiacmon 6 жыл бұрын
And it is all offered for free. Maybe that is how you find freedom, and that is to give what you have away? !
@Socrates...
@Socrates... 10 жыл бұрын
I'd like a follow up interview when he is is in his 40's or 50's, and see how comfortable he is with this lifestyle
@GauravYadav-gr9wd
@GauravYadav-gr9wd 5 жыл бұрын
Socrates life is not about comfort it's about struggles
@meganlevegan
@meganlevegan 8 жыл бұрын
This guy is ridiculously charismatic
@sandracarli1110
@sandracarli1110 9 жыл бұрын
I agree with him. It is so crazy to pay taxes on the land and even on the houses people build with their own money. In addition to this, every person who has land, even just a garden, knows that it is impossible to eat all that the plants produce by oneself. For ex. one single tree produces so many apples. It is impossible to eat them all. It is really like a sign that we have to share. And the vegetables, they can also be so much! In nature, all is multiplied. From one seed you get a plant that produces much more. And this goes on and on towards wealth. This is one of the Earth's principles. There are already some communities where all is shared but they are still only few of them...
@sandracarli1110
@sandracarli1110 9 жыл бұрын
+katherine sell Thanks. I always love the moment when people have so much in the garden and start to share with others. Usually it is also all natural and and you can see it by the funny shapes fruits and vegetable have ;)
@kungkungzaa
@kungkungzaa 8 жыл бұрын
+Sandra Carli im appreciate your comment
@deborahoramajama3603
@deborahoramajama3603 8 жыл бұрын
+Sandra Carli You would have to have good neighbors to do this. And if you each grew a garden with different plants, it would be a wonderful thing to share once a week on the street.
@9catlover
@9catlover 9 жыл бұрын
I wish I didn't have to work! So I quit a full time job, to contract and earn more money, so I can take a month or two off here and there. I'm a lot happier now. We all need to do more to make our lives happier. I'm growing my own veggies and making my own compost. It's great.
@mathiaspianoman
@mathiaspianoman 9 жыл бұрын
cindy chan Good on you man ! Growing your own food is such a great thing to do, so healthy, so cheap, so rewarding, so fresh !!
@kurrbey
@kurrbey 9 жыл бұрын
cindy chan his story was better
@shuvellmum1424
@shuvellmum1424 9 жыл бұрын
Sounds idiotic to me. 😀 I had a very stressful Sales job with stressed aggressive people. j resigned and found a less stressful job but on a lot less pay. I am miles happier BUT I would really like to earn more. Can't have your cake, eat it and make love to the baker it seems.
@9catlover
@9catlover 9 жыл бұрын
Sarah Lovell i understand...stick in there...am sure you will find a way. it took me a while of contracting before i started to earn more.
@shuvellmum1424
@shuvellmum1424 9 жыл бұрын
Cindy I am sorry I meant to type idilic NOT idiotic! You are so right, you cannot rush these things..especially considered directional career progression. It would be easy just to take the next job that paid more, which is where I went so badly wrong 2.5 years previous! :)
@infamousfanclub
@infamousfanclub 10 жыл бұрын
Excellent speech. Loved the part about the world being fenced in. Cooperation eliminates endless competition. Awesome.
@danpt2000
@danpt2000 10 жыл бұрын
that is the flaw of Capitalism, constant competition, not enough cooperation.
@suesheification
@suesheification 10 жыл бұрын
danpt2000 capitalism itself is a flaw, set up by the elite to keep us divided and competing against eachother for their benefit.
@faiyazshaikh123
@faiyazshaikh123 9 жыл бұрын
danpt2000 its the flaw of our minds, reflecting in the world. whatever we see in the world is a manifestation of whats in our mind.
@Competitiveforlolz
@Competitiveforlolz 9 жыл бұрын
sue she Jup in a sense. In another one its for the increase of the standard living, increase of knowledge, technological growth.
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 9 жыл бұрын
To everyone here who has complained about capitalism: why don't you start sharing right now. E.g. open up your house/apartment to others who need a place to stay/live. List your place on airbnb.com (but put the price of $0) or Craig's List. Soon, I am sure, you will abandon your naive concepts of "right" and "wrong" and return to your regularly fenced place.
@77777aol
@77777aol 7 жыл бұрын
This put a smile on my face ! Daisaku Ikeda wrote, 'The age of war is dead. The age of economy his waning. Now is the dawn of the Age of Culture.' Thank you Mathias, you have your finger on the pulse ! Paradigm shifts take time, they also require courage as you testify. Courageous faith is the path of no regret and is what is sorely needed at this present juncture of human history. Humanism must win. Humanism will win when decisions are people centred - decisions based on the happiness and welfare of others. When we revolutionise our own life our outer wold will reflect this, one of transforming from hard power to soft power; respect for the dignity of life, the power of creating value, humanitarian competition, education and realising the inextricable interconnectedness of all life etc. ! (Yes, words are easy!)
@Lawreformisneeded
@Lawreformisneeded 6 жыл бұрын
The question at the end of speech is definitely worth giving a serious thought for anyone who live on this planet. We can only do this TOGETHER. But, I am afraid there are many people who want to live in fear and competition because that's all they know about this life. And plus, we can't overlook people's greed.
@Exceltrainingvideos
@Exceltrainingvideos 10 жыл бұрын
A true yogi! Co-operation is truly the key-word. At present this looks like a distant possibility. Competition and fences are making us insecure.
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 9 жыл бұрын
Dinesh Kumar Takyar Would you walk your talk by, say, sharing your home for free? List it on Craigs List, for example.
@geminisonar9979
@geminisonar9979 8 жыл бұрын
one of the most humble and wise things I ever heard
@joepesci9949
@joepesci9949 8 жыл бұрын
think the same way. really really happy.
@vandelayindustries5814
@vandelayindustries5814 9 жыл бұрын
It's interesting when you look at the word 'compete'. Today's interpretation you may think of athletes vying against each other. In the business world you may think of two professionals vying against each other to achieve a promotion. There's a sense of two forces working against each other. The origins of the word 'compete' is 'com' (latin), meaning together and 'petere' meaning aim at, seek. The words today is pretty much the antithesis of it's origins. From the origins you get a sense of two forces moving towards something together. (parallel instead of collision course) Sign of the times?
@saptarshi-banerjee-9322
@saptarshi-banerjee-9322 9 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message. Truly what we need is Shelter, Food and Love. But it is also true that that these are the three we stand for till today. Mostly competition what we mean as process to grow over each other is growing as we see towards love as something to depend upon and more interestingly we all fight for food and shelter not only as they our need, but also because we we have the feeling of finding love only if we have shelter and food. The term cooperation said is something very important to be thought about. Because love, shelter and food three of them gets cultivated from that. So they are not our dependability, that is we don't depend on three of them. We depend on the betterment of the cultivation. Lastly coming to competition, it is not unhealthy. Because competition is not actually the game of pulling each other back and always trying out become the first. Competition is the process of making the vision of the need more clearer for all who are involved in the process. So being our own competitor is the best techniques to grow individually. Lastly individuality is something which can't be ignored and cannot be prime concern too. Because if it is ignored people doing so may starve in many respects. Making it the prime concern can make the world as a battle ground. So at least I feel what we truly need is cooperation which will bring mutual respects in all respect and cultivate food, shelter and love for all.
@jordynp.2671
@jordynp.2671 10 жыл бұрын
Food, shelter, love.
@pontiacmon
@pontiacmon 6 жыл бұрын
And?
@coreycox2345
@coreycox2345 5 жыл бұрын
@@pontiacmon What else could a person need? :)
@pontiacmon
@pontiacmon 5 жыл бұрын
exactly. Thanks for your reply. I just watched the video again, and it is even more inspiring to me now, it makes me want to make some changes.
@pontiacmon
@pontiacmon 5 жыл бұрын
I just found a great video that you mite like.' Paper Hats - with Mathias Piano Man's 'Erlinda' (Music Film)'. I really like it, hope that you do to.
@RealSaudiExplorer
@RealSaudiExplorer 4 жыл бұрын
@@coreycox2345.. He said: "I don't need much".. But, he only mentioned 3 needs.. He said you can grow your food. Then, he said: "I Googled... how to grow food... and it's easy" This implies that in order to be able to grow your food, you need to Google how to do it. To Google anything, you need a phone or laptop, electricity and internet. Therefore, we also need electricity, internet, and a laptop. To live in a home, you are going to need to pay for some bills unless you are planning to live without A/C, light, fridge, and stove which consumes gas. He thinks he knows it all. I know better. He also needed a camera and a stage to deliver his commonist message. He does not accept that making money is a need. And, spending money is a need. He wants to get in your home to sleep. Then, wake up and play with your wife. Then, move to someone else.
@AussieStreetScene
@AussieStreetScene 7 жыл бұрын
This man is the truth. All the people laughing because they don't know how to take his point of view, it goes against what they've been programmed to think and believe. I've been trying to build wealth to achieve this exact goal, total freedom. This speech just changed my view on how to acquire that though. Damn good pianist too.
@THEARTURLIVE
@THEARTURLIVE 7 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@New_Talent
@New_Talent 7 жыл бұрын
We all have always something to say. Let's just be still for a moment. Forget your names, nationalities, race, genders, jobs, wealth as your core isn't identified with them... let's be human beings and shine our light; no judgement, but acceptance in love.
@hotty19821
@hotty19821 9 жыл бұрын
This cannot be DONE!!!! because.... Oh wait.. yes it can! If we want it, we can make it. Great talk
@RudolfGraspointner
@RudolfGraspointner 9 жыл бұрын
+Michelle Hall > It can be done. Join your local "Ubuntu Party"?
@LenoraForest
@LenoraForest 7 жыл бұрын
Lovely. What a great way to see the world. Beautiful daughter !!
@kdavis1001
@kdavis1001 9 жыл бұрын
Every moment of this is beautiful. Thank you.
@wisepersonsay3142
@wisepersonsay3142 7 жыл бұрын
Life without music and arts is unimaginable. Life itself is an art of living.
@pablocege
@pablocege 9 жыл бұрын
I don't think the audience really understood his message... they just laughed at every revealing point he made.
@johnbennett7554
@johnbennett7554 8 жыл бұрын
it's a Ted talk, it's generally rich/middle class people who see these talks. They benefit greatly from Capitalism, of course they laugh and don't see the true message he is sharing. There are members of the proletariat who will never see the exploitation they are under. They will willingly accept it knowing 'it could be worse' a simple, yet scary way of dealing with the problem we have. cognitive dissonance allows them to acknowledge (I.e. laugh at each point he makes) but still disregard it, it's easier to deal with that way
@MadalinaS55
@MadalinaS55 7 жыл бұрын
I felt the same. They kept laughing when he was serious about it. Made me cringe a little.
@pontiacmon
@pontiacmon 6 жыл бұрын
I thought that also.
@annailina1668
@annailina1668 7 жыл бұрын
its easy to say when u have nothing to lose. lots of people wont give up on the things they got by working hard . thus we will never get such a world he is speaking about .we need extra planet for this)
@rajeshbykani
@rajeshbykani 8 жыл бұрын
Food,Shelter,Love we dont need much and everything else is unneccessary
@mssaarahn
@mssaarahn 8 жыл бұрын
We need to live like farmers, I like it.
@mssaarahn
@mssaarahn 8 жыл бұрын
I'm completely serious, just so you know. I've always wanted to move to the countryside-away from the big city. Just so llong as I have wifi and a good dog.
@mssaarahn
@mssaarahn 8 жыл бұрын
*long
@THEARTURLIVE
@THEARTURLIVE 7 жыл бұрын
YES
@garyhunter2496
@garyhunter2496 10 жыл бұрын
Creating lifestyle from abundant resources others ignore, Mathias sets the bar well above where most would care to reach. He suggests "Less can be more" in an insecure world if passions can simplify complexities, and lifestyle can follow suit. Mathias knows. He is living the dream convincingly, in Queenstown.
@neonize3652
@neonize3652 8 жыл бұрын
I'm sad and happy simultaneously that I've watched a video that explains my thoughts and needs in 100% correct way. My surrounding just seems not to get right, sadly.
@TeleportlabsETH
@TeleportlabsETH 10 жыл бұрын
I like the idea of not working, who doesn't? I also like the idea of just being free to do your thing and just be with the people you want to be. However, if someday we return to the past, we will just loop to our current state again. Which is why we need to be able to reconclile both worlds, technology and nature, it's the only way to truely find some balance. Obviously materialism is something that is essentially meaningless when you buy things just to show-off or to feel part of an in-crowd but we can't discard the potential advantages that technology gives. For one the speaker wouldn't have been able to google how to make a garden or build a house. I guess it's not that necesary because there is always word of mouth but problems arise when you have a group who's access to information is essentially closed, you get fools and you get charlatans. Even in an age of information you still have a lot of people that get duped on the daily basis, imagine if somehow people reverted to a prior stage in social evolution. In conclusion, i like the idea but within the context of harmonizing technology and nature so as to evade future turmoil. I mean, it sounds nice, but since we can't control future generations, we have to think ahead and also look back at history to figure out why things had to change. There are no final frontiers, change is the law by which we live.
@lifeisbeautiful5998
@lifeisbeautiful5998 3 жыл бұрын
This was one of the simply most important videos of Ted ever
@RiteshManTamrakar
@RiteshManTamrakar 9 жыл бұрын
Lets share. What do you have? What do i need? What do i have? What do you need?
@RudolfGraspointner
@RudolfGraspointner 9 жыл бұрын
+Ritesh Man Tamrakar > that is the way. Like socialism but without the tyranny and without dictators :-)
@bababuba
@bababuba 9 жыл бұрын
What he's talking about is community living, which is essentially connected to our very souls and deeper longing to feel a sense of belonging and connectedness. It's it's deeply profound in our psychology to live communal lives which we have lost our barring a of in our western consumer societies creating an unnatural way of being.
@shanoofali5195
@shanoofali5195 3 жыл бұрын
This is what I was looking for...
@bundashiniho
@bundashiniho 10 жыл бұрын
Mathias you are the man! i agree with you! i miss queemstown and i miss you!
@ZEITGEISTism
@ZEITGEISTism 7 жыл бұрын
And he on lives in one of the most expensive places in New Zealand Queenstown is a tourist town not cheap to live there, so good for him
@arhabersham
@arhabersham 10 жыл бұрын
A mixture of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs ( 11:05 ) with a criticism to land ownership (and consequent competition) as described by Marxism (13:55 ).
@kingcarloish
@kingcarloish 10 жыл бұрын
food, shelter and love! yeah
@coreycox2345
@coreycox2345 5 жыл бұрын
I would go beyond and say that it is worth working toward human fulfillment as in Maslow's hierarchy. To have the luxury of self-defined personal achievement is at the top.
@melodymakingmelodies4896
@melodymakingmelodies4896 4 жыл бұрын
I just loved listening to this guy. Informative and enjoyable.
@andygriffiths9916
@andygriffiths9916 8 жыл бұрын
This guy is a visionary.
@TheStroppyOne
@TheStroppyOne 10 жыл бұрын
An eloquent description of our digression from tribal cultures, through the agricultural beginnings to our current condition. He describes how humans only need three things and each of them can be gained from belonging to a tribe; the norm for the vast majority of our past.
@GenuineMusicFan
@GenuineMusicFan 9 жыл бұрын
So glad that someone else has a similar ideal lifestyle with me too. Just dont know how to carry it out..
@RudolfGraspointner
@RudolfGraspointner 9 жыл бұрын
+MsSHE4eva > It can be done. Join your local "Ubuntu Party"?
@MIOLAZARUS
@MIOLAZARUS 9 жыл бұрын
i love this man. Everything about him.
@sujeetsingh436
@sujeetsingh436 9 жыл бұрын
That is something I was hoping and I am happy to see that the way you conveyed the message is awesome. I realize the importance of life now.
@eudaimoniacat5668
@eudaimoniacat5668 9 жыл бұрын
sweet, nice way to put it...its great to question ourselves! "I dont need much" :)
@djnAbNo2
@djnAbNo2 10 жыл бұрын
What this speaker is talking about, living without fences, was the norm for humans many millennia ago, and still goes on today within indigenous communities whom all live together as a tribe/family. But it doesn't only exist within tribal communities, in various parts of the world, most usually in the "less developed" parts (although it does exist in small non-urbanish towns in the developed world), people within their small villages or towns have a much greater sense of community and belonging to one another. Yes there still may be fences in the literal sense, however all neighbours either are or feel very much like family and they lead quite simple lives. I am born in the UK, however my parents are from Eritrea (in East Africa), and grew up in small villages, and I can very much imagine the relationship between members of the area, as well as nearby villages and towns, who are very much family. What people forget is, in particular if we consider people residing in countries of their heritage, that everyone around you is actually related to you. If you go back hundreds of years it is likely that you share many common ancestors/grandfather/grandmothers with people in your town, city and even country. If you think about it, once we get to our third cousins we start to lose awareness with who actually is related to us. I can safely say I know almost up to all my second cousins, at least within the UK, but past that; like one and that was by accident. Go back thousands and thousands of years, and even people across the globe from each other have ties. You see, we are all family. We are all humanoids, it makes pretty darn sense. Does it matter? Just because hundreds or thousands of years ago our ancestors were brothers what bearing does it have now? It's a debatable topic, and your conclusions will be based on your own personal philosophies, however the next time you feel hostile to a complete stranger, or someone you see on the news, or those "bloody immigrants in our country", maybe you'll pause and realise that the only thing truly separating us is our environment and education. I also just want to add that what has led to what is common place in developed countries and urban cities, this reality of competition and lack of closeness between neighbours, is due to Capitalism; a system where there are always going to be a divide between rich and poor. Why can't everyone or mostly everyone just be in the middle ground and live great lives?
@ريامالشمري-ل4ه
@ريامالشمري-ل4ه 9 жыл бұрын
? How is it that
@djnAbNo2
@djnAbNo2 9 жыл бұрын
Which part in particular do you want me to explain?
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 9 жыл бұрын
*****: " ...is due to Capitalism; a system where there are always going to be a divide between rich and poor. Why can't everyone or mostly everyone just be in the middle ground and live great lives? " Because there are always those who are unable and/or unwilling to be as useful to the society as some others. Look up thugs who wear their pants at their knees' level.
@djnAbNo2
@djnAbNo2 9 жыл бұрын
humanyoda These aren't just things which naturally just arise out of nature, black people in America for instance were all, unless I'm mistaken, talking like Martin Luther until whenever that kind of speech stopped. This mentality and style of thought if you look closely is just popularised and personalised aggressiveness, which as can be obviously seen stems from feeling like being the undermined of society. You don't get such behaviour naturally occurring, unless it's been imported from the West now, hopefully not, in Africa. Anyway, point is such self-destructive behaviour doesn't arise naturally out of nature. I easily could have turned out a thug, just give me a crack mother for a mum, and useless father, neighbours selling drugs, and bad personal mental habits. I add the latter because individuals process things differently to and extent, which I believe comes down to personality and character, which is also influenced from environment. Anyway I mention all that because your statement is from an enlightened perspective useless. Those people are the most damaged of society, let's forget about those for the moment for the sake of argument. Close community even remedies these issues naturally, as you can see in the positive primitive communities of the Amazon and elsewhere. I can't be bothered to say anymore, but just give people a break.
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 9 жыл бұрын
***** I would give them a break, but they are everywhere here. It's like a zoo.
@toddcouchman4344
@toddcouchman4344 9 жыл бұрын
Awesome talk. Very well delivered with excellent flow of personal experiences with a great message. Very much enjoyed.
@THEARTURLIVE
@THEARTURLIVE 7 жыл бұрын
This has to be millions views!
@hdebbesie7780
@hdebbesie7780 10 жыл бұрын
Mathias, this was such a great presentation. Food, Shelter, Love! all the way. But now you need to understand how you contribute to those you love is what gives you value. and in the present world, your Value = Money, to buy you that piece of land or whatever it is you need. That's just how the world works, there's no escaping that! eliminate the word slavery from your vocabulary, that's just your mind telling you lies. Can't you see you are free?
@mathiaspianoman
@mathiaspianoman 9 жыл бұрын
H Debbesie No I can't see I am free. Because I not allowed to sleep on the beach (not even in my van), to build my house on a empty patch of land, to get access to any ressources. I am being shafted from the planet I live on, and it's the same for everyone, we all try to gain access to the planet while it should be a given.
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 9 жыл бұрын
mathiaspianoman: _"we all try to gain access to the planet while it should be a given."_ Why? Even animals compete for resources.
@oson3061
@oson3061 8 жыл бұрын
Amazingly Beautiful and educational presentation!
@Ariel-pi6lw
@Ariel-pi6lw 7 жыл бұрын
love this speech! if only it would become a reality someday
@THEARTURLIVE
@THEARTURLIVE 7 жыл бұрын
It would become, if you do something for it. Not just wishful thinking.
@pontiacmon
@pontiacmon 6 жыл бұрын
I recommend that everyone save this post, watch it again, and share it with at least one other person.
@azzurres1
@azzurres1 9 жыл бұрын
Nice talk.. and the song is just epic!
@juandiegoaucacamarivera2596
@juandiegoaucacamarivera2596 9 жыл бұрын
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@Blakrequiem
@Blakrequiem 9 жыл бұрын
Of course i am against this way of life and the madness of consumism, but we still need to work and be usefull to one another. And that means that sometimes, you have to spend time doing something you dont love in order to keep the weels turning.
@looopaa9783
@looopaa9783 4 жыл бұрын
they’re laughing but it’s the truth, all we need to do is simplify our current lives, i think the internet is very contradicting to this ideal, however it is a beautiful source of information. So it is just one of the things we would have to simplify to keep in our lives; say we run websites on solar and put up with blackouts when it’s rainy. We would need to solve like this for problems like healthcare also.
@73jandersen
@73jandersen 10 жыл бұрын
Good talk, Mathias. Hopefully our 'insane' culture and society will devolve and simplify a bit as you point to. "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a sick society" -Krishnamurti
@Nate1975
@Nate1975 6 жыл бұрын
lovely talk, hes very right. I am off to play my piano for more inspiration
@arthurbissolotti
@arthurbissolotti 10 жыл бұрын
Simple yet, amazing
@carljarvi2914
@carljarvi2914 10 жыл бұрын
reminds me of the book and 8 hr course by joe demingus and viki robbins.." Your money or your life". I would add to the mix clothing especially if not in subtropical climate.
@LiciJamaicaLi
@LiciJamaicaLi 7 жыл бұрын
Wauw.. Now I really understand why I am so depressed... cus I am having everything but, those 3 things I really need... All I want is just to live freely on a mountain in South Korea.. I'm not asking for diamonds, just for a small space for myself and Why is that so hard...ㅜㅜ
@kathyhaynes6818
@kathyhaynes6818 7 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!
@kalaenapertofsky840
@kalaenapertofsky840 10 жыл бұрын
Dr. Seppala's incisive thinking reaches deeply into the some of the most challenging questions of contemporary life. How is a strong and sustainable culture created? Are we drifting towards alienation and distress, or towards deeper connection and contentment? Dr. Seppala expertly blends cutting-edge research with the ancient wisdom of spiritual traditions, as she awakens the possibilities of a culture that cultivates joy, success, connection and deep meaning and purpose. Fabulous, inspiring talk, professionally and personally!
@2005debasispanda
@2005debasispanda 10 жыл бұрын
This guy has really lived his life.Yes it is very tough to follow whatever you say in this competitive world and a world where most people follow rat race chasing an unrealistic dream.If everybody will follow their passion instead of chasing an unrealistic dream and following rat race,world will be a very beautiful place.
@BalajiLoganathan1
@BalajiLoganathan1 10 жыл бұрын
i think the whole world is moving towards it may be after a 500 years we ll all be as educated as he now..................
@Ariza23
@Ariza23 9 жыл бұрын
Landowners who own more than a square mile of land should watch this and think about the backward paradigm of land ownership and how it robs people of a truly happified life. Leasing portions of land and providing land trusts makes it possible for many more people to feel secure, and masters of their destiny.
@mathiaspianoman
@mathiaspianoman 9 жыл бұрын
Carol Hathor Indeed, the system of ownership without consideration of the whole, inevitably creates lack of land at some point or another. Thus creating slavery, thus societal tensions, disrupted behaviors such a competition, indifference, theft, etc. We try to fix this with psychologists, drugs and mostly, repression through jail sentences.
@pramodsaxena480
@pramodsaxena480 9 жыл бұрын
Incredible truth
@anitac.g.8136
@anitac.g.8136 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you, so true!!
@badrinathramamurthy3906
@badrinathramamurthy3906 10 жыл бұрын
Lovely. Simple.
@hehehe1991able
@hehehe1991able 9 жыл бұрын
Very true, loved it
@JeffersonDinedAlone
@JeffersonDinedAlone 10 жыл бұрын
There is no need, there is only want. It simply takes different degrees. All that we really need to live is to sleep in a cave, drink and bathe from a stream, dress ourselves in animal hides, and eat fruits and vegetables from trees or the ground, but who wants to live like that?
@mackie172
@mackie172 10 жыл бұрын
I do. Did you hear him talking about stress and competition? That is the cause of many diseases and depression. Imagine always being pleased with life!
@mackie172
@mackie172 9 жыл бұрын
Yes of course, but I still think most of us could live happier lives if we had less choices to make and going more on instinct rather than living in the past constantly. When we focus on the things we really need for survival, we truly feel alive. That's my opinion. But as you say, a lot of the mechanics of survival has been scaled up to fit whole civilizations. It's not about you vs. me, it's my representatives vs. yours, If we were to have a disagreement. Both of us are most likely a bit "brainwashed"(or affected by or surroundings) too, so when we discuss, it's the values of my culture vs yours. I wish we could be more like animals in that regard.
@byooteful
@byooteful 9 жыл бұрын
He is not saying that we must live in caves...nor to erase technology, medicine, knowledge.. it is a bigger picture than that.. it is about cooperation.. we have every resource available to us.. yet we are all born homeless.. he is simply opening the gates to get us thinking...what do we REALLY need.. and finding connections with each other from talking and thinking about it, by opening these fences.. to make the changes in our lives. how to live more simply..thus more inner peace..life should not be this complex.. we are all here once after all..
@mathiaspianoman
@mathiaspianoman 9 жыл бұрын
CCharlotte C Yep, that sounds like it :)
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 9 жыл бұрын
mackie172 The levels of happiness varies from a person to person in the modern systems, with money, competition, etc. You already HAVE ways to be less stressed and happier. But you choose to complain instead of using those methods.
@ajgebinathgoswami9580
@ajgebinathgoswami9580 8 жыл бұрын
yes i agree with you. when we think we exist. like in sleep what happens we don,t know. but others can study or observe me so he can tell. so i alone can,t know everything.we want to know what we don,t know. this very idea is what. so one can be noble like neutron like in atom which we know because of our scientist but still there is curiosity to know what is inside it like what can be the smallest particle. it exists because we think . then logical or which is also a notion of our mind came into existence when we shared our experiences. just like we are defined by name and our living and non living(but what is not living it is made up of same electron proton and neutron and their arrangement),so what is true because no one can know everything because not everyone are connected to one other so one cannot say what other thinks.even we don't know what thought can come in our mind.the thought may be the result of our experience but the notion of future how did this come or change is life.
@PetrGladkikh
@PetrGladkikh 7 жыл бұрын
I already know the answer: be happy. Do not even want to waste 18 minutes watching this.
@jenniferhartnettserenity1039
@jenniferhartnettserenity1039 9 жыл бұрын
great talk
@MrEngAbdulRahman
@MrEngAbdulRahman 9 жыл бұрын
very nice man
@janetjsharp
@janetjsharp 9 жыл бұрын
The early Hawaiians, before their contact with the west, shared the land and its bounty without land ownership.
@AlexGargilisChannel
@AlexGargilisChannel 9 жыл бұрын
He's already done so much in his lifetime- just imagine how many more experiences he will have had by the time he turns 20! Seriously, its easy to get sucked into these feel-good new age talks with tinkling piano solos but its just not as simple as people will have you believe. There are all kinds of unexpected problems beyond what children like this guy mention besides food, shelter and money. People get really sick, get afflicted with depression. Then they cant make any money at all. They lose their homes, they cant afford to buy new clothes. It can fall apart in months. So while it would nice to take the advice of a tawny wind-swept 20 year old we need to avoid these kinds of TED talks and get real.
@vitor2009ization
@vitor2009ization 8 жыл бұрын
Chris Gordon So you really didn't get the point of this speech. People get really sick and depressed exactly because they strongly believe they need more than food (health one) , shelter and love.
@paulacoalho665
@paulacoalho665 9 жыл бұрын
Love it!!!!
@verona123
@verona123 10 жыл бұрын
Let the music talk for him!
@elsagrace3893
@elsagrace3893 7 жыл бұрын
At the turn of the century people thought that freedom from necessary daily chores would be freedom. We now have washer/dryer, dishwasher, microwave, automobile, airplane. So much stuff and even less time, more health problems due to sedentary life.
@THEARTURLIVE
@THEARTURLIVE 7 жыл бұрын
No need. Useless and pollutes the planet.
@kaybee8950
@kaybee8950 10 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@Jok3r157
@Jok3r157 8 жыл бұрын
what's the song called in the beginning and where can i find it :)
@st2791
@st2791 Жыл бұрын
14:06 , damm true , this is where all it started
@Dadaistish
@Dadaistish 9 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@faza553
@faza553 9 жыл бұрын
Bravo!
@anwarchergui3567
@anwarchergui3567 9 жыл бұрын
hey guys was he playing somthing spesific symphony or something it was really good
@jaypeabeecreative2185
@jaypeabeecreative2185 7 жыл бұрын
I feel like we do need money but not in the stressful way people think of it. Just as a way to make trading fare. We need to trade, we need to help each other. Our work should be things we're good at and can help others with. We give and we get and survive. All work is hard and not always enjoyable. We are made to do hard work though, their is reward in accomplishment, helping others, using your talents and getting paid for that. We can enjoy the good things in life but all that involves hard work. The main things that I think really need to change are stress and greed! If people weren't greedy they wouldn't push themselves so hard that they get stressed. If people weren't greedy and saw that there is hard work to do and other people need your help/work they wouldn't get stressed because of others. (There's a lot more too all this too) Caring less and needing less? Not necessarily. Care less about yourself and more about others. Need less for your self and thing about others needs. Then we all look out for each other!
@realyntan3159
@realyntan3159 7 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring...his visions actually allign with God's promise from the bible. Psalm 37:10-11 "Just a little while longer and the wicked will be no more, you will look at where they were and they will not be there; but the meek will possess the earth and they will find exquisite delight in abundance of peace" Isaiah 65:21-23Psalm 115:16 Look it up in your own bible or in google..We were all meant to live in paradise earth ruled. by Jehovah God with abundace of peace, security and happiness where we dont have to work for anyone but ourselves to get food and shelter. Soon it will happen, when God's kingdom take over the earth with Jesus our king.
@anthonyzestley3980
@anthonyzestley3980 2 жыл бұрын
🙏 maranatha
@samlovesyoga
@samlovesyoga 10 жыл бұрын
inspiring stuff :)
@anastasiyapilipas9631
@anastasiyapilipas9631 9 жыл бұрын
GREAT!
@HishamAlNahla
@HishamAlNahla 5 жыл бұрын
After all this .. We really need to Work
@project10bball
@project10bball 9 жыл бұрын
This is a really good piece, what annoys me is that the timing feels off at multiple times
@BingeCenter
@BingeCenter 10 жыл бұрын
thinking outside the wall
@debbiemullis8316
@debbiemullis8316 10 жыл бұрын
I'm wondering how working at the job of your choice is a form of slavery? In his world of cooperation, how does he get the materials to build the house, grow the food, clothe his family? The barter system works until you don't have something I want to barter with. I think that's mostly how money came into being. I think money is a form of barter. How does cooperation work when I live 20 miles from the nearest source of water? Do you help pipe the water to me our of kindness? I agree that most of us have far more than we need and a simpler lifestyle is preferable, but I don't think money is the root of all evil, perhaps the love of it is.
@derbenrich
@derbenrich 10 жыл бұрын
I think he addressed that problem. You should do what you love AND what adds value to the life of others... else "if it doesnt work out you are screwed" 16:10 ;)
@joepesci9949
@joepesci9949 8 жыл бұрын
+Debbie Mullis I think Eddie veder's song "society" answers your question. and the answer is "human greed". until people will not stop being greedy the sustainable happy state can not be achieved. learn to share, not be full of fear, stop watching TV and stop buying the next version of things. build a self sustainable system. if you think after all these years of progress, knowledge and development we can not help each other then I don't know what to say. stop taking loans. And its not like we have developed all bad things in all these years some things are really really good for eg. Health care(in case you get sick), internet(for entertainment and sharing knowledge), clean water systems. you know things like that. MAKE THEM FREE FOR ALL. Now there are some natural things that we are buying these days instead of just doing it... > Sex : people should fuck as much as possible i means whats the downside? just fuck in the name of lord whenever you think you are having the feeling of getting fucked. do not rape. mutually do that. gay straight whatever. > physical, mind games : that does not need lots of gear. > sleep : its a good good thing. > talk : with friends and family that this guy already said. > weed: free, grows wild and you can share it with other people. best thing you can smoke and can feel really really good without any problems and moderation is the key. > old music movies etc.
@tjdoss
@tjdoss 6 жыл бұрын
Nice conversation that is very much required in a generation, where the new kids are born only with an online window to the world. In native-oriented lands. if you are a street performer, you will perform for other's happiness and in exchange they will give you some produce to ensure your livelyhood. They have temple estates where you will get to live and your generation will ply your trade. This manages competition in skills based on demand. This way of life can be assumed dead, however, some cultures still follow this. But something to clarify here is nature of "do what you love" is purely transactional in corporate world (I'm trying to stay away from first and third world context because it's very opinionated), where your compensation happens with money that you trade for in exchange of mostly material pleasure on top of your basic needs. If we need to break this, Farming has to be basic education for everyone. But this approach will stop global aspirations such as travel etc, as you will become very localised to your farm and probably live in it as it's the only affordable piece of land for you.
@ukrainer
@ukrainer 7 жыл бұрын
Well said, simple and to the point! 100% agreee. =)
@ramlakhanchauhan
@ramlakhanchauhan 10 жыл бұрын
Love this.............:)
@zoeyjordan8767
@zoeyjordan8767 3 жыл бұрын
read the word of God to keep awareness
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