Temper, Irritation and Resentment and Handwriting Analysis Graphology

[@AnushkaSharma-ii5do]

I liked how you've started explaining solutions to these problems as well,apart from identifying the traits of temper,irritation etc.thanks.

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

Thanks for the feedback, Anushka ... I will continue doing that:)

[@mathewdsouza3397]

you should control Virat's aggressive temper

[@amisha25211]

@@mathewdsouza3397 hahhaa🤭😂😂

[@ShankhoChakrabortyy-d3u]

A ton of thanks madam.

[@sushimaccheese]

I've seen few of your videos and they're great! Thank you for sharing, Fiona. I wonder how to apply these theories to non-cursive handwriting where there's no upper/lower loops, no rigid initial strokes that start at/below the baseline, etc.

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

Thank you, "Rika Rika" - I'm glad you are enjoying my videos. Non-cursive writing (printing), as you say, does not have the connection strokes. So when you analyze it, the things that show only in the connections you cannot tell. Printing therefore can indeed be analyzed but gives a less comprehensive picture than does script. However, print-script, which is a mixture of printing and script gives actually the most of any kind of writing.

[@pinkybishnoi6150]

i like your vedios ma'am can you tell the meaning of circle in the place of dot above i and j

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

Thanks for the question, Pinky. A circle in the place of a dot above i and j is written by someone who likes things to be a bit unique, and they themselves like to be different too. They may be good at coming up with unusual answers to problems, or they could just enjoy doing things in a different way.

[@ankitab172]

@@FionaMacKayYoung but ma'am you said that "it has problems of it's own"

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

@@ankitab172 I'm sorry -I don't understand that comment??

[@harisharanmishra9778]

So nice of you Mam my aim is also to be a graphologist

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

Excellent, Harisharan. It's a totally fascinating study.

[@m.f.richardson1602]

Great Video. Lots of informative and knowledge. Thank you.

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

Thanks again, Mary.

[@radhiaaggarwal]

Hi Fiona! Which tarot cards would you connect with this handwriting or emotion of temper and resentment?

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

An interesting question! However it’s not quite as simple as that. If temper and resentment are in the writing, then just about any of the Tarot cards which show potential problems could trigger it. So, the Devil, the Tower, the 3 of swords, 5 of cups, 5 pentacles/swords or wands - to mention just a few. But every trait that shows in writing is affected by every other, so will the temper and resentment dominate? That is the question. Then too, every tarot card is affected by the other cards that are drawn, the spread used and the question asked. The traits of temper and resentment tell you that this person is liable to feel this way and exhibit this type of behavior. The rest of the writing and the tarot spread will tell you whether or not these traits are likely to be in evidence at this time and if so, how strongly. It’s all about interpretation. Identification is just the beginning. Hope this answers your question … it was a good one and got me thinking!

[@radhiaaggarwal]

@@FionaMacKayYoung This was very insightful and got me thinking further. It all makes sense. Much deeper than what we perceive.

[@animula6908]

Tempers are a good thing in general. Or at least neutral. People with tempers usually crave stimulation and are fearless, and often they use it to serve society’s good. There’s nothing inherently virtuous about remaining placid and apathetic under all circumstances, either. Feelings shouldn’t be condemned or seen as inherently good or evil. They’re feelings, and should just be accepted as such. You’re not a stronger person because you are always pleasant to others. Sometimes you need to harness the power to be quite unpleasant.

[@fionashandwriting]

I agree with some of what you say, Animula - not all. In handwriting not having one trait does not mean you have the opposite. So not having a temper in no way indicates you are placid and apathetic. It just means you don’t angrily fly off the handle. There are many other ways to cope with difficult situations & people other than getting mad with them - or at least without showing you are mad at them. Internal anger can be demonstrated in positive ways by taking the time to work out how best to deal with whatever it is and then, calmly going about doing so. This does not mean you are bottling up your feelings, which I agree is not healthy. It means you get angry, understand what it is that is causing it, and set about dealing with it in a non-explosive way. Not getting demonstratively angry does not show any weakness. In fact getting angry and showing that as pure anger does show weakness. It shows that this person does not have control over their feelings, actions and does not have consideration as to how this behavior impacts others, or indeed how it could impact their own lives. One can be very firm, stand up for what one believes in, make one’s point etc without exhibiting anger, at least the explosive anger that this t-bar means. Anger, as shown in the t-bar off to the right of the t-stem in writing indicates someone who cannot put a cap on their anger but will fly off the handle just as the t-bar is flying off the t-stem. It may be righteous anger at times, but it’s still uncontrolled anger and very seldom positive.

[@pianocrooner]

One unique thing, I like about these videos is the fact that you are excellent at explaining what these human characteristics are, Fiona. Often we have muddy ideas about these distinctions but you clarify them beautifully

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

Thank you Neils, it is always helpful to hear what viewers like (or dislike) about my videos. And yes, KZbin did remove your other comment with the link - I could read it in my notifications area, but it doesn't appear in the comments section. I often have fun with that letter and that topic when I do live presentations:)

[@stephanielouise2442]

How to spot talkitivness? &...how to remove it please. thank you

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

Thanks for asking, Stephanie. Talkativeness is shown in the lower case letters 'a' and 'o' and in the circle part of 'd' and 'g'. It is when there is a gap, or opening in the circle. To reduce talkativeness practice writing with the circles closed. kzbin.info/www/bejne/eJ61ZK2im8-apJY is all about letters 'a' & 'o' and included talkativeness. Hope that helps.

[@ΧαραλαμποςΤερζοπουλος]

Goodday from Greece.If you make a ''g'' with a full loop and the loop has an angle instead of a curve or it looks like a triangle, doesn't this show resentment?Thank you.

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

No, not resentment. An angled lower extender on a ‘g’, depending on the size of the angled loop it makes, means a mixture of desire and rejection, dissatisfaction in the physical realm, hurting. I have a video on resentment: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jXPJaIhpnbeofc0

[@ΧαραλαμποςΤερζοπουλος]

@@FionaMacKayYoung Thank you again and Merry Christmas.

[@nandinihirawat3392]

Very helpful...Thank you!!

[@masteryoflife5133]

I definitely need to work on my handwriting being very spiked. I also notice that the lower zones on my y’s and g’s often slightly jolt to the right then goes straight to the left like it is underlining the word, what does that trait mean? Can spikes writing just mean a lot of energy because I do have that which some people mistaken as anger?

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

I’m not sure what you mean by “spiked”. If it’s pointed tops to ‘m’, ‘n’ and perhaps ‘h’ it means investigative thinking - which is good. Other than that, I can’t think how “spiked” writing would look. And again, the ‘y’ and ‘g’ lower zones… there are several meaning that could fit that description, but without seeing it, I can’t tell which it would be, and I don’t want to give you the wrong answer by guessing.

[@Janaysnewlife]

can you post videos with print writing

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

Is this what you are looking for Janay? kzbin.info/www/bejne/d4bGcpSIqs6MoLM

[@mandapallisanthosh1581]

I'm not understand the how the initial strokes mam

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

The initial stroke is when the pen first touches the paper after having been lifted. For resentment, this initial stroke has to start either at or below the baseline. If it starts higher up, it can't be resentment. This initial stroke also has to be completely straight. The exact direction in which is goes is not important. What is important is that it is completely straight with no curve whatsoever. If it has any curve to is, it's not resentment. I hope that helps.

[@mandapallisanthosh1581]

@@FionaMacKayYoung tq mam

[@vinodpp4022]

Madam, Very good lessons. Thanks a lot -

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

Thank you for all your kind comments on the different videos, Vinod.

[@0812Sara]

When you say temper do you mean anger? It seems to me that would be more accurate, in this case temper would be a noun, meaning state of mind. Irritation may be a milder form of anger but it's not a milder form of temper. Irritation being a milder form of temper would be saying Irritation is a milder form of being able to self regulate, when people say they have a temper they are really saying they have an inability to temper and associate it with anger. People temper happiness all the time and they seem quite dull and lifeless and they don't have a temper.

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

In graphology, having a temper, which indeed is a noun, would mean the tendency to fly off the handle rather more quickly than a large percentage of the population, i.e. “losing one’s temper.” Yes, it is a state of mind, but is not a permanent state of mind, meaning that this writer may get into that state of mind sometimes or often, depending on how strong the trait is in the writing. However they will not be that way all the time. When one loses one’s temper, one gets angry. To say however, that someone, from their writing, has anger would suggest that it is a permanent situation: that they have psychological anger issues. That is a whole different situation than that of most people who just get angry a bit more frequently than most. Irritability, in graphology, indicates someone who does not go as far as to get actually angry that easily, but will be inclined to be rather short with others, or in some way show their displeasure, again, rather more easily than the average person. And yes, I know, there is now way to judge exactly what the “average” person is, but here it indicates that these behaviors will appear more frequently in people who write with either temper or irritation in their writing than it would in the writing of a large percentage of the population. Temper as a verb has a different meaning. The Dictionary says this: to act as a neutralizing or counterbalancing force to (something) - "their idealism is tempered with realism." This does not relate to these traits in writing or to my description of them.

[@richardbutler9217]

The American Psychological Association and the British Psychological Society have discredited Graphology because many research studies in psychology have not found support for handwriting characteristics being related to personality or behavioral. Graphology is considered to be a pseudoscience with no scientific credibility by psychology, sociology, anthropology, and criminology. Studies using adequate samples, measurements of variables and appropriate statistical analysis have not found support for Graphology. Graphology appears to work with single subjects because of confirmation bias and illusory correlation.

[@5daembarshrestha]

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[@vineeta5474]

The traits for resentment are just like that of humour

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

No, they're not the same. Resentment is rigidly straight starting from at or below the baseline. Humor is always curved and always starts well above the baseline. The only similarity is that they are both initial strokes when the pen first touches the paper.

[@GURCHARANSINGH-vc7gx]

What does it mean when someone has overly fancy or pretentious handwriting?

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

Well, without seeing it it's difficult to say, but generally overly fancy or pretentious handwriting would indicate someone who is somewhat pretentious and feels they are very important.

[@bellamichs5887]

If you have a temper then you have a temper then

[@keineahnung6124]

The pointed handwriting (resentment) is picture perfect for Donald Trump's signature.i wonder how his father treated him when young😬

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

There are lots of interesting indications in Trump's writing. Everything you hear about him - it's all in his writing, and yes, resentment is one of them. As to his father, I don't know much about him or Donald's youth.

[@Melodyloveshorses1]

See, we we're taught in school to write (in the resentment portion of the video) this way- with a bit of a tail before writing the letters in lower case letters, but you say this shows resentment...hmmmm....

[@FionaMacKayYoung]

No matter what you were taught in school, once you are no longer required to write a particular way, any personality traits that do not belong with you will disappear - your writing will change, perhaps just in small ways, but it will change to fit who you are as a person. So if, indeed, you do have resentment in your writing it is not the fault of the school writing system. However, are you sure your initial stroke is absolutely rigid and straight? Because even the slightest curve takes away the resentment.