Terrible Cooking and Feeling Torn | MOTHERHOOD | Louise Pentland

[@rosiefloydx]

I was expecting you to ask Chloe what her new year resolution is! 😂 (Showing I’m an oldie but goldie there 🙈) xx

[@Louisepentland]

I'm impressed! I'll ask her next time! xxx

[@maisiemanfield]

Me too!!

[@LozzyLovesLife]

Yes!!!

[@jessiehope7593]

Same here!!

[@HayleyRll]

Yes!

[@Saskaphone]

Think it’s a very powerful person who’s overcome childhood trauma and grown to be a very strong woman and loving momma who would confront that specimen at the pool, and I think you should be applauded for it.

[@katiem5679]

The way pearl shouted “daddy!” With a huge grin and massive cuddle when she see Liam. Oh my heart 🥺🥰

[@Amydisney]

Why don't you and Judith do a whole video of you and her cooking something yummy together? Maybe even something sweet and something savory?🧡

[@Louisepentland]

SUCH a great idea! xxx

[@izzykate1806]

Would love to watch this!

[@WellOfEchoes]

Yes yes YESSS!!!

[@MusicalLion07]

The kind of content I signed up for!

[@jennymcmahon4935]

i would love to see that! :D

[@charlottewhyatt4614]

What you did during the swimming lesson was right Louise. I work as a Nursery Nurse and it is actually everyone's responsibility in public to safeguard children hence why some children are failed by certain services as these things are often overlooked so it was definitely the right thing to do. Xxx

[@pineapplex2479]

I work in child services and what she did was NOT right. When dealing with a nacissistic parent the last thing you should do - for the safety of the child - is confront someone who may have psychopathic tendencies. She put that child's safety in jeopardy.

[@mon5845]

Lou you did what’s best in my personal opinion!! Xoxo 💋 you are a gem to the world and I am absolutely proud of you for being a brave human and speaking up for someone who cannot properly defend themselves. DO NOT let those with opposing opinions to get you down and make you overthink your courageous actions. You are a lovely woman who just does not want history to repeat itself. Much love from Monica in 🇺🇸 ♥️

[@teepotx]

Pineapplex2 I also work in child services and perceive what she did to be correct, she wasn’t intimidating or shouting, we are taught that it is everyone’s responsibility to safeguard children, she shouldn’t have ignored the perceived injustice?

[@teepotx]

Pineapplex2 also you can’t just diagnose him as a narcissist haha

[@jessicawatson7360]

Sarah_Elizabeth psychopathy is I really mental belt problem though, when I was doing criminology we had a speaker on it, it was really o

[@krystinapearson8417]

Louise, I work in the safeguarding world and I absolutely agree with you, that situation must have been terrifying for the child. I agree with if that's happening in public what is happening in private? I would ask to speak to the instructor and suggest that she maybe monitors the situation and the child going forward. And report anything as relevant. Any disclosure/reporting is confidential. You're a great mum and person! You'd have been commended if you were on that show x

[@niahorton5421]

I have been that child and I cannot explain how much I wish someone had done that for me as a child. I agree completely that if he’s like that in public he’s likely worse behind close doors and if he is making you and your child in anyway uncomfortable then you had every right and reason to say something.

[@jessbedoyan6945]

Pearl running over to Liam and hugging him was the cutest thing🥺❤️

[@traciekennedy5]

I blooming loved this vlog...when you gave Pearly a snack and asked her to say thankyou and she just walked off. They way your camera just stayed there aimed at the empty space was hilarious 😂🤣😂🤣 xx

[@Louisepentland]

Ahaha thanks bae xxx

[@donnabrown4195]

Every child deserves to be defended, a good parent will appreciate someone watching out for their child. You were brave and kind, well done.

[@1anna1]

31:42 louise! you can do a weekly or monthly cooking series with judith! it would be a win win situation for both of you :D judith could teach you and you can film it and boom :D you can get matching aprons too 👀

[@kimleahb6635]

I'd love this so much!

[@sarahmarie4546]

I came here to say this too!! (not the matching aprons though, but that would be amazing) ✨ Please do it!! 🤞💖

[@plunkybug]

Yessss!!!

[@vasaline8745]

It was really brave if you to say something about the situation I wish more people would because he may not have realised how he was being and a stranger pointing it out could have made him realise xx

[@erinnenchanted3164]

I'd have gone sick at him personally. You seem like you were very polite and I don't think I could have kept my distaste to myself. There are other children around, including your own, and his behaviour makes other people feel a certain way, not just his child.

[@mariadoas5829]

There is a difference between judgment and sticking up for what's right. By doing nothing you allow evil to continue its better to stand up for whats right.

[@extremelycosmic]

I'm 18 and I'm sat here open-mouthed and wide-eyed watching all the footage from the soft play I would've LOVED that as a kid, I've never seen a soft play like it!

[@connieporter2952]

I'm in hysterics in my hospital bed! "I needed something else in it though" "what flavour?" "yea" and then the silence!!!

[@spotdot27]

well done for speaking up louise, at least you’ll never regret not saying anything. i’m a teacher and we need to be the voice for vulnerable children.

[@673mclover673]

Your face when you were going down the slide, “quite fast” 😂😂

[@Cvitti]

Loved Liam’s face when you asked about your cooking....😂😂

[@crystalmagic13]

“Cooking food that my children wont eat, yeah” WORD!

[@TaRa26502]

True story 😄

[@missmisss2690]

Theres a HUGE difference between safeguarding and interfering. Thank you!

[@SiCr1989]

So refreshing to see a woman cooking like a normal woman cooking. Always a breath of fresh air, Louise. A lovely lovely woman living her life. I hope you feel happy in the knowledge that when you look back on all of this you won't think about unflattering angles but how wonderful those moments were and what a great idea it was to capture them all.

[@friendlyneighbourhoodforei5533]

Oh Louise dont be embarrassed about your cooking! It breaks my heart to see people feel bad about developing a skill just because they arent a professional from the start! Be proud of yourself for doing anything at all in the kitchen, I think it's amazing that you're experimenting with recipes like this I'm so impressed!😊😊

[@suebraid2480]

Always it is the right thing to stand up to bullying especially for children who can't stand up for themselves. It sickens me that you had to go through that but GOOD ON YOU!!!!!!!!'

[@staceylatham3857]

Everyone needs an auntie Judith, she seems like such a lovely woman 😭

[@thedaddylife5449]

I swear every time you show the hub you show something new that I’ve not seen before. It looks fab!

[@AkiraChan24]

I'm very proud of you for standing up for that boy. (I hope that doesn't sound condescending - lol) If I were in your position I'd want someone to tell me it was right, too, and so I'm adding to all the other comments and saying you did good. :)

[@maisiemasterman8259]

Thank you for helping that boy! I’m training to be a primary teacher and I think it’s been said but it’s everyone’s duty to safeguard. Although it was horrid for you you could’ve been the highlight of that boys day and even you saying soemthing could be the start of him knowing something isn’t right. We can only judge in what we see 💜💜

[@jadefillmore97]

Louise you 100% did the right thing. I think it is important to stand up for kids / animals who don’t have the voice to stand up for themselves. The fact that he went off at you continuously after makes me really worried about how he treats his child. I’m so sorry that happened to you but thank you so much for standing up for his son. ❤️

[@BlogManiac64]

so proud of you for standing up for that boy! and you did it in such a respectful way, the mans reaction 100% reflects his character not yours 👏🏻 you honestly inspire me to be braver too even if it's uncomfortable

[@eiaeheh]

I really needed this reminder because I have come to the point of shouting at my toddler in public because he is at that cheeky stage and I am constantly stressed out with juggling grocery shopping and keeping an eye on him at all times, and once in a while I get a reminder like this and it really makes a difference...

[@vegg39]

Just wanted to say you did the right thing for that boy, the swimming club or centre should have a safeguarding person and if you carry on being concerned you can speak to them for advice/ share your concerns and they should have a policy on how they follow this up.

[@thenaaadia]

For anyone who is interested, I was in Peter Jones the other day and they have a whole kitchen set that matches these pans! Toaster, kettle, knives, more pans! Also because it's Peter Jones they were super discounted! Happy shopping :p

[@sonomalouis7131]

louise you are so strong for standing up for that child. children need a voice and i can only imagine how you would have wished someone had that voice for you as a child when you felt helpless, scared and intimated. i am a new mom (to a 2 month old baby) and your strength as a woman is so admirable. trust your gut always. thank you for sharing.

[@mitzimitzi2715]

I’m starting the Louise Pentland lip challenge! She’s just got the most beautiful lips and every lip colour suits her😩❤️

[@hsimpson6581]

you are a hero to that child !! 33:33

[@Louisepentland]

[@charlottesmith5885]

Louise the cooking segment might be the best thing you’ve ever done. I LOVE it!!

[@Louisepentland]

Ahaha really? I can do more slightly crap cooking if you like?! xxx

[@elle_maisie2426]

You definitely did the right thing by saying something! If someone had have stood up for me as a child I would have appreciated it so much! If they’re doing things like that in public, they’re most likely much much worse behind closed doors.

[@emilysian8532]

You may not see this comment as I know I’m a day late , but honestly Louise thank you for being so real! You’re so inspiring and I can’t wait to be a Mum like you. So real, so honest, so naturally beautiful and selfless . And I most definitely signed up for satisfying avocado shots ! xx

[@maremchale]

You also showed that little boy that he’s not alone and that there are safe spaces for him. ❤️ you’ve encouraged me to do the same if I see something.

[@karmariver2480]

Louise love watching how positive you are with your life. My kids are grown and I wish I had people like you to watch when I was raising them. Just be you because you are a fine woman. Best wishes

[@izzykate1806]

Was just watching an old Weekly when this popped up, yay! Perfect background video for essay writing ❤️ EDIT: also I think you were absolutely right to do what you did, it was in public and if Darcy said that she was uncomfortable then imagine how the poor child must have felt; you’re absolutely right to say something as a parent to your daughter & someone just generally looking out for other children. And as Liam said, if he was intimidating you and not having a problem with it then who knows what the child may have been feeling. Props to you for having the courage to say something x

[@Sab.86]

“The gratitude I get from my children is breathtaking” haha SAME! I really just felt that completely! My kids are the same... also the story about the kid at the swimming pool made me cry you were completely right!

[@BeatlesNinja]

I know it's because I'm American, but hearing Pearl talk in a tiny British accent is honestly the cutest think I've ever heard.

[@naomilaura2594]

I really do just love your content Louise :) I'm only 20 and still feel like I can relate to you so well! Thank you for being so open about your life on the Internet. Lots of people don't understand how wonderful it is to be able to feel connected to someone you've never even met. You are one fabulous lady :) I look forward to the Weekly's every Sunday and am super stoked about the new cooking portion (don't change the jingle, it was perfect the way it was heheh)!! Sending love from Canada xxx

[@oliviarogers7930]

consider the man's intimidating reaction when you called him out with his behaviour, I don't think that's the behaviour of someone who is 'just having a bad day'.

[@HannahElaineStudio]

I love your bravery in this video. So inspiring. From letting messes be in the background to cooking even when you're not fully confident, and especially standing up for the boy. Thank you for being authentic. I feel like I'm hanging out with a friend when I watch this ❤😘

[@charchaz00]

Pearls little pigtails in pink bows😍😍 she's too cute

[@schrumpelblume]

Wait, we need to know if Chloe has a new year's resolution this year! I think it was two years ago she decided to make her bed every morning!? I actually copied her resolution last year and it was really nice to come home to a semi-decent made up bed every evening (even when the rest of the room was an absolute tip). x

[@WellOfEchoes]

And last year was not eating meat? I think? She wanted to be vegetarian? I can remember her cringe when Louise would as “The Question!” 😂🤣 when she’d break it ...because it wasn’t just Louise she was answering, it was all louise’s followers 🤣🤪 No pressure...

[@plunkybug]

I started making my bed since late August of 2018 when we moved into a new suite that’s fully furnished and the bed was so nice. Had to try to keep it that way. Sometimes it’s not done, but 98% of the time it is.

[@liveveganwithme1906]

I’m sorry but that cooking segment might just be one of the best things I’ve ever watched!! 😂 I love how honest and normal you are Louise!

[@katiec3686]

This has me in tears @Louise Pentland xxx you definitely did the right thing, it’ll definitely make him step back and think. That’s so true about what they’re like behind closed doors. My nana once stopped a lady in the town centre and shouted at her because she slapped her young daughter really hard across the face, we were in tears and everyone else just ignored it and carried on walking by. So so terrible, you definitely did the right thing xxx

[@lynnemaree8346]

You're are beatiful soul Louise, thank you for showing that little boy that it's not ok to be treated that way. I myself have done something similar and its very daunting but you did the right thing.

[@JessicaBurridge]

You did the right thing Louise. I was that child (well right up to the end of my teenage years really) and I hoped a person like you would have come along and helped me. I want to say thank you to you on that little boys behalf for doing what you did, we need more people in the world like you xxx

[@laurawestenra]

I would love to watch videos where Auntie Judith teaches you to cook things. 🤗💗

[@talankarim7930]

There’s nothing wrong with what you did, it shows a lot of courage and so happy you spoke about it because it reminds people that everyone has to sometimes go out of their comfort zone for the greater good. Your vlogs just make me smile and thank you

[@sparkles877]

You done the right thing, Louise. I work in Social Work and child protection and safeguarding really is everyone's responsibility. I applaud you for your actions. You're a wonderful, intelligent, empathetic woman. Lots of love x

[@amandarippee3785]

Louise thank you for having the courage to say something. I am a therapist in the US and those type of poor kiddos come to my office or they come to me as adults. There is nothing more difficult than dealing with parents that want to point the finger at their kids or everyone else for their problems.

[@rebeccabennett5767]

A favourite quote ‘Bad things happen when good people stand by and do nothing’ 🥰

[@sarah760]

Oh my days. The cooking segment is my new fave. Just the 'SAUTE!' gestures had me creasing 😂 you're a good egg xx

[@emilymoreton8381]

I think you are an incredibly brave and inspiring woman. Your daughters are so lucky to have you as a mother and I hope, when I am a mother myself, I am half as much of a mother as you are. Truly truly inspiring and thoughtful.

[@jenniferhenderson6154]

Well done Louise I wish someone had stood up for me when i was little . Hope pearl has a fabby birthday 🎂 x

[@im_an_oyster]

Since you're just starting at cooking I highly recommend getting a crockpot if you don't already (I think that's a brand name but it's a slow cooker). They're amazing you just throw everything in in the morning, turn it on low, and then at the end of the day you have a delicious meal. You can make all kinds of things in it too.

[@shylanponton3483]

That soft play is AMAZING! We need something like that where I live. My kids would love it!

[@bethrussell7276]

Always watch Louise when I’ve had a bad day, her videos never fail to cheer me up!

[@rhiannon2293]

I live in Oxfordshire and yet seriously considering visiting the hub so my child can experience what looks like the most glorious soft play ever

[@ellieley-moyse5088]

A 46 minute vlog is JUST what I need! YESSSSSSSSS xxxx

[@clairethemamabear]

Lou, you did the right thing, safeguarding is so important, right or wrong, you don't act that way in public. I've caught a few parents doing that and I've given them such disproving looks that they shut up! You're an angel. Love the cooking 'portion' I'd love to come and cook up a storm for you! Lol. Much love x

[@missbexxa]

'Cooking food that my children won't eat' has been my motto for the last 23 years so just to let you know... it never changes :D also I find drinking the box of wine makes me a better cook so there's a tip. I was also waiting for the new years resolution question lol.

[@hollymarie5968]

I think saying something was good, because even if he is calm and patient most of the time, chewing out your kid like that in public is humiliating for that child. I think to lecture or shout at your child in private is one thing, but in front of other people it would be so embarrassing

[@Momoko524]

I don't have kids but I think that too. Plus it just makes you look like a monster and makes the kid feel absolutely awful.

[@helenagrace3733]

Your vlogs never fail to put me in a calmer, better mood when I desperately need it!

[@tylergardner7667]

Very brave of you! It’s uncomfortable to correct another parent but if it feels wrong then it probably is, even if he didn’t realize it. But now he does! If I were doing something to make my child feel intimidated I would be appreciative if someone put me in check and brought me to their perspective. Praying that was the case and not an ongoing matter 🙏🏻❤️ Proud mommy moment for sure!

[@oliverhalewood3364]

This was a really nice snapshot of life

[@lauralivin]

I think you have a kind heart and I think that it is beautiful to have moments of sympathy like these that stem from awful things we went through in life. Maybe nothing will ever make us feel like going through those things was "worth it," but in this one moment perhaps you were able to make a difference in that little boy's life and in his parent, all because you could see yourself in the little boy's shoes.

[@elseamoon6779]

Thank you for sticking up for that child in the swimming lesson. It might have been a parent on the edge or a one off but sometimes as parents we need someone to say "chill out a bit" or "check yourself". Even the best parents in the world have bad days but its always the kids who suffer. More people should say something because it might be something that changes an adults behaviour once they calm down and reflect on their situation later.

[@umerahshuaib9935]

Absolutely loved watching this. So real, so me, so hilarious and so brave, well done! You are amazing.

[@lx7825]

You know when people say “oh it’s going to be really basic” and then it never is?! It REALLY was with Louise! And that’s why we love you 😂😂

[@philiplindley7384]

Honestly, in those situations, a lot can be achieved with just a look. An impassive face is often the most powerful answer to a difficult event.

[@gemwitters7963]

I think in that situation you were probably a godsend for that kid in that moment. Just a momentary interruption, where the dads anger can funnel in another direction probably meant a great deal. You're such a great mum and wonderful caring human Louise! X

[@Helenmalaine]

It was really brave of you Louise to speak out, I wish more people would do it. I found myself in a situation at a family event not that long ago and spoke out myself. Some of my family are now not speaking to me and some have praised me. I don’t regret it at all and I think if I hadn’t of said anything that would of got to me a whole lot more. 💕

[@tracyhalpin724]

Great to go online and see new vid! Just what I needed today ! Had bad day at counselling,, then had to make an appointment at vet for my doggie and only appointment was at my daughters swim lessons - so had to listen to one daughter have a meltdown 🤪😬 other daughter was so sweet and understanding! So just sat after coming home n finished their homework ti have a cuppa and this sweet angel came up !!! Thank you my sweet louise xxxx

[@Louisepentland]

Sounds like you've had quite a day! Well done for juggling it all and making it all happen. A sit down and cup of tea are VERY well deserved I'd say! xxx

[@bexroxmysox]

I love this video SO MUCH it has everything!!!!!! Pearlie content, cooking, chatting, a happy free Louise!! It’s perfect 🌞

[@michaelwest8583]

Definitely think you did the right thing, as a kid the few times other adults challenged my mothers behaviour was really affirming to me and meant that I still had some trust in other adults growing up even if I couldn’t trust my mother. I think it was really brave of you to say something as well, especially because of your history, because seeing that happen to another child can really bring you back to when it was happening to you and make it so difficult to say something so well done and thank you for standing up for that kid ❤️ also the pasta with Philadelphia is one of my favourite meals! So quick and easy and delicious!

[@miahwilliamson6068]

You’re such a good mum💜

[@anneh6342]

What you did was the right thing to do. You are, first and foremost, a wonderful Mom and, we Moms have a gut instinct. I have done the same ... and I would do it again.

[@Fifettey]

I’m so proud of you for standing up to that parent! Xxx

[@emmarose7933]

Hi beautiful! For most of us lay people, we don't even notice angles and lighting and what not. So when I watch your videos, especially your vlogs, I feel like I'm there with you in person! Just like if you had someone come over, you wouldn't sit them in a place where the lighting and angles are perfect! I like your videos because they don't feel overproduced (that's a compliment not a diss). It's homey and relaxing and REAL life! Love your videos! Happy new year to you and the fam! XOXO

[@TheKrissySnow]

That lovely tinkling intro tho🥰 ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 (secretly wishes that played every time I stepped outside lol)

[@JustN3SSA]

Your kitchen looks normal to me. I didn’t even notice the background until you mentioned it. Also I am so for this segment!!!

[@nrg1123]

You absolutely did the right thing in that situation, it definitely would eat you up if you just did nothing.

[@rhiannonbasher6968]

you did the right thing!!!! always remember you are an inspiration, and I wish more people, parents were like you!

[@txshhh93]

i really enjoyed this video! as a single parent i don’t see it as ‘mess’ i see it as life as a parent and it’s so refreshing! 💕

[@aimeecsherwood]

You did the right thing! I would have done the same. None of us are perfect parents and it doesn’t matter how patient or kind we are, we all have our moments of anger. Some of us need someone to interrupt our moments of anger in order to snap us out of those moments. I know for myself, sometimes I don’t realize how upset I’m getting until it’s brought to my attention. Don’t be so hard on yourself.

[@conniebenka7704]

I completely understand why you said what you did. I think you did the right thing at that time. Your protective instincts kicked in,nothing wrong with that. Here's to a loving and caring Mum!!!!:-)

[@Hannah-hm1bh]

"do you want one of these?" "Oh that's a yes" *Hands snack* "Say thank you" Pearl ignores mum, takes snack and runs Pearl is my kind of gal 😂, snacks before chats 💞 If these vlogs ever stop I might have a breakdown ✨

[@airin1305]

Hannah I want a T shirt that says “snacks before chats” now

[@earie5403]

also i love that you're sharing the cooking again! i just love it :D and am i the only one who doesn't know what bottom drawer means?

[@Louisepentland]

Ahh, so it's from the olden days when girls would collect home items in the bottom drawer of their dresser, ready for when they married and set up home with their husbands. So my grandma gave me a silver cutlery set from Viners for my 'bottom drawer'

[@tracyeast3397]

We called it a hope chest here in Canada

[@EEN63]

Urska Erzen We call it a Hope Chest in America, like our Northern neighbors in Canada.

[@sophiemurray24]

Yay loved this weekly as always!! Loving that you're "caring less" in the sense of trying to make things look perfect as honestly I wouldn't have even noticed the stuff in the kitchen if you hadn't pointed it out! So you're definitely saving yourself time rather than spending time cleaning the background to keep the minority of people that would comment on it happy! Also loveee how you're making a proper effort to get into cooking more and it's so nice sharing the journey with you, that alongside sharing your daily to-do lists not only satisfies my nosiness but also makes me motivated to have productive days too if I feel like I'm doing it with you, so thank you!! So awful to hear about the swimming situation but I 100% agree with what everyone said, I could empathise so much with your reaction and conflicting thoughts because I get exactly the same when I've been in uncomfortable situations and just having a million thoughts at once so I hope you're feeling better about it now. Something really heartwarming though after that segment was how you went down to your beautiful family where there is so much love and happiness, and it made me feel super proud of you and excited to have a family of my own one day, an environment full of pure love for each other that you can feel safe in after being in situations like that! Lots of love xxx

[@itsabbie10]

I found the fact that you’re going to be less worried about how you or look or seem really inspiring. I try and do this in my videos but when editing sometimes, as I’m sure everyone can, you find yourself worrying a bit. So this is really inspiring! X love your videos!

[@Louisepentland]

I'm still hugely worrying but I'm FORCING myself to do it until I just stop worrying. We are who we are and that's ok yanno? xxx

[@itsabbie10]

Yeah 100%, we’re all amazing in our own way xxx

[@um1569]

It's so lovely to see you have such a close relationship with your aunt...it's like having a little piece of your mum with you :)

[@penguinhippo88]

Oh what a lovely treat on a cold and rainy monday evening

[@samthomson1921]

You are amazing lou we all need to stand up if we see something that our gut is telling us is not quite right, he intimadated his own child he also has to understand other children were there that witnessed and more than likely very scared, also you are there with Darcy who was also intimadated please don't feel wrong at all you was protecting a child also your own child well done xx