Terry Crews: Men don't see women as 'all the way human'

[@IglooDweller]

I've noticed that men will often say they don't understand why women get upset over certain things, but then react exactly the same when the same thing happens to them. I feel like they think we're a lot different than we are.

[@name-eo1lv]

@RP S i get that that was a joke but actually research on the process of food making in space

[@drewyetti]

They just get infuriated on how men are always wrong all the time while women are always right all the time. If anyone says one thing wrong with women, there would be a backlash.

[@amiyafail9961]

@@drewyetti not where I'm from its the complete opposite

[@drewyetti]

AMIYA Fail where are you from?

[@amiyafail9961]

@@drewyetti GA

[@sitdownstandup91]

Realized this over the years so now I just stay away from men. Minimum interaction. No energy to try and convince a guy to view me as a human being.

[@Onepieceistheworstanime]

Why would he view you as a human being when you don’t act like one?

[@zero-one2585]

Y'know you won't actually find a good person if you stop trying to look

[@Warsie]

Women generally do not like being treated as human beings it seems.

[@Warsie]

@@KamiylahIsreal women sy those things about wanting to be treated likehumans or equalityy and when put inthose situations where they ARE put in such a situation, they dont like it.

[@m7mdalrajhi725]

Lol so dramatic

[@thepostnihilist]

Pornography, I believe, helps fuel the fantasy of women being simply objects to toss around sexually. I think that's why Nate Parker, in his mind, didn't see a problem with inviting his friend, someone Jennifer didn't even know, in to have sex with her when she was intoxicated. I mean, it happens in porn: multiple guys, strangers, on one woman. The danger and tragedy comes in when one realizes that the way they are wired, the woman actually wanted a relationship: Jennifer liked Nate Parker. But Nate Parker not only had sex with her but invited a stranger in to have sex with her as well without asking her if it was okay, not that she could've give full consent being that she was intoxicated, and treated her like a porn star to suit his fantasy while feeling nothing for her: “'I don’t know how to explain this to you, but she is not the kind of girl that I would date,' Parker said, according to Weaver’s testimony."

[@30ajgo]

BS, that is all.

[@prettyfacejenkins3337]

T J how

[@charlief2085]

@Onion Potato Men really want to be oppressed don’t they. You realise why it’s the man making the money for a woman?? It’s not women doing this to men it’s the systems men have built up to oppress women affecting them. Women weren’t allowed to open bank accounts for decades, they had to live off the husbands money. And why is that? Because men told women they were weak and that the should stay home and look after the children. It’s so deeply ingrained in our culture now it was in those movies, it is not women who put these systems in place. Stop blaming women for their own oppression.

[@charlief2085]

@Onion Potato Please enlighten me on these “extra rights”

[@charlief2085]

@Onion Potato I agree that these are problems but I fear you don’t want to hear the reason why some of these are issues. Take a guess as to why women are protected and men aren’t? Because women are seen as weak and can’t fend for themselves, who came up with that idea? Men. The reason women get custody over children is because women are expected to care for children and men aren’t. Who came up with that idea? Men. Why don’t men have help with domestic abuse? Because women are seen as too weak to hurt a man and if a woman does hurt a man he is expected to deal with it. It wasn’t women who told men they had to hide their emotions. It was men. I’m not denying those issues are a problem and we certainly should solve them but you can’t solve an issue without finding the root problem and that problem is the patriarchy. You sound like you would be a feminist as they do look at these issues. Although I’m not sure about the women living longer part, I think that is just biology.

[@emilyantonia197]

He’s right. I have always felt that disconnect between men and women. I wish it wasn’t like that, I love men, but they also scare me. I don’t feel that my feelings or opinions are important to them, so I avoid them completely. Women are taught to cater to men and I don’t think love is one sided. I’m sure some men feel similarly about women, but this is more of an issue of being the man; the central figure. Whilst the woman is just an accessory. We are human beings, just like you. Just because it’s normalised to see women like that, doesn’t mean it’s the truth.

[@BashaerB-h2c]

Eloquently expressed 👏 As women, since most men don't see us as humans, we should channel that love towards ourselves, other women, children and pets that deserve it instead of men. Maybe one day that will force them to wake up and acknowledge our humanness. Even if it doesn't happen, who cares because men like those aren't even worth caring about. After understanding how most men really are, I stopped giving them time of day or attention because their view of women disgusts and repels me to no end. Only real men deserve our attention. And they must COMMIT first.

[@calmv3587]

@@BashaerB-h2c sometimes, fighting is needed, love sometimes and courage doesn't help at all but i agree with you.

[@cygnusablackhole74]

@@BashaerB-h2c I mean men cares about a women's feelings if they love her. I don't like to disrespect women. As a man when I see a sexy woman i mostly care about her body

[@BashaerB-h2c]

@@cygnusablackhole74 Hence what I meant by "commit". No sleeping with a man until he's committed and we are married.

[@sarcodonblue2876]

Exactly 💯

[@AdrienneJung.M]

Honestly, this is a big part of why so many of us become obsessed with our appearance. Because we get the message that our looks equal our value/status as a person.

[@aoyamiuriko5059]

Wow I agreed with this so loudly…sadly

[@BashaerB-h2c]

This is so sad. It makes sense why Muslim women hear hijab then because they force men to see them as humans and focus on their intellect instead of their beauty.

[@sarithajagajith6568]

But that is wrong! Women should be valued based on who they are . Women are not barbies to be valued on looks. And women mostly wear makeup because people thought women are creative and men are logical.

[@sarithajagajith6568]

@AlwaysOutnumberedNeverOutgunned men who see women as beauty objects are shallow and wrong.

[@sarithajagajith6568]

@AlwaysOutnumberedNeverOutgunned women don't. Their old generation parents do. Women nowadays are independent.

[@deezed6478]

This is what women have been screaming from the rooftops for ages. I don't get why most guys find it seemingly impossible to treat us as humans with feelings

[@deezed6478]

@Man in Pain I’m sorry you feel this way but I think you need to change your perspective. Not using women for sex is not hurting yourself. The same way you don’t punch everyone just because you feel like it you can’t use women for sex just because you feel like it. It’s also the same as resisting junk food cravings to feel happy long term. It’s perfectly normal for people to let certain urges subside to enjoy long term happiness. Women treat men they’re sexually attracted to as all the way human, and men can do that too.

[@deezed6478]

@Man in Pain Respectfully, you need to get a grip and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Other people matter too. That's the way the world works. It doesn't hurt you to not have sex with someone.

[@deezed6478]

@Man in Pain You're not making sense. I suggest you re-read my comment and understand what I actually said.

[@deezed6478]

@Man in Pain Not having sex with someone you want is not painful. Stop pitying yourself.

[@deezed6478]

@Man in Pain I hope you get over yourself. Women getting raped and being sexually harassed all the time is what’s hard. Not men not having sex for free with whoever they please.

[@littlelily4]

Gosh that's exactly the feeling I am getting from some men's attitude

[@Campocosas]

Porn is not allowed in middke east and they woman are the most oppresed.

[@truth_seeker5]

Men also get that feeling from women

[@laurengails1fan285]

Ya especially online, so many men these days are open about the fact they don't view us as human

[@goxyeagle8446]

It depends what certain man wants from you. While one is into fulfilling his sexual fantasies other one might fell in love with you.

[@antonioyeats2149]

Oh man... thing is it has nothing to do with feeling and everything to do with what a load of bull this whole sentiment is lmao 🤣

[@lucyabdrews7312]

Women already knew this. We are waiting for someone that isn’t plagued by this and it’s hard to know if men see you as an actual person or not.

[@lilmamagc]

Yep, men like that are rare like unicorns

[@Melanatedsince2000]

Nope they aren't you just have to look for them instead of the bad boys y'all love soo much

[@lucyabdrews7312]

@@Melanatedsince2000 “good guys” are so delusional. I’ve never seen a girl interested in a misogynist ever.

[@Melanatedsince2000]

@@lucyabdrews7312 I'm not a good guy bitch I'm just me.

[@Melanatedsince2000]

Not a criminal y'all like either

[@TheDude90100]

I love how the commenters on here are essentially proving him right.

[@Naomi-xu4hq]

@ lol you’re further proving his point as you dehumanize the men by giving them the names of their female counterparts already proving that you see women as less than men

[@anonymous-cx7ng]

@@Naomi-xu4hq wtf??

[@Dennis-nc3vw]

No, if we wanted to prove him right, we would all pretend to agree so we could get laid.

[@dandandan1359]

it's not even men,some mother see their daughter as sexual object to sold out to men too,you see it in the case of many single mom,who beat their daughter and don't care for them,some even see them as competition,because her daughter is younger than her which will be more desirable to men.

[@sarithajagajith6568]

Say that to yourself.

[@munkqiking7207]

@@sarithajagajith6568 You might not believe it, but it happens often. Especially in third world countries.

[@jasminaaz]

So true

[@itscloudstrife]

i think because it's a product of extreme sexual objectifcation that this happens. the mother feels more in control over herself thag way its a sad cycle of trauma

[@oOo-dj7pt]

It was really upsetting to me to hear american men say that they wish they could adopt the Taliban's treatment of women.

[@liefvirnwianti6205]

That's horrible and then those trashcans say feminists are annoying

[@arcane1282]

That’s disgusting, as an afghan girl, thats fucked up.

[@mohamedf8859]

If that happened both men and women will live happily in their relationship And remember this is what all people used to do including eroupens and Americans before the liberal propaganda brainwashing

[@tylerharris4392]

Honestly I don’t think I have a problem with that

[@dianamarcekova9615]

@@tylerharris4392 What? Forcing women into having sex with other men?

[@praggypopsqa4652]

Thank you Terry. A Black men needs to say this. If Black men can say this, they can lead in change. The time has come.

[@ChosenMan37]

first lead your community out of the ghetto. talking about change. moron

[@23imsoawesome]

@@ChosenMan37 I thought since black men are "the head of the household" that that would be they're responsibility, right? Fucking dummy.

[@23imsoawesome]

@MALVINDINHO Are you a child? Nobody said anything about feminism. Besides toxic feminism and masculinity isn't about whether men or women are inherently bad. It is the SYSTEM from which a gender participates and benefits from and whether that system simultaneously harms another. It would be in the hands of men to fully reform this society as it is MEN that dominate it. Stop putting the responsibility of the community on black women and teach your sons to be better.

[@23imsoawesome]

@MALVINDINHO you must be slow. I never said men made women act toxic. I never said women couldn't be toxic. You're making shit up and it's clear you can't read. So I'll be on my way.

[@juanthereloadguy8528]

Why does a black man need to say this?

[@listeninghere]

Hearing Terry Crews acknowledge specific ways men objectify and dehumanize women is heartening. Terry demonstrates security in his own masculinity, and courage in trusting that others will hear him. His words and actions strengthen our paths for mutually respectful relationships. Thank you Terry Crews.

[@topgurl9313]

It's great but, women have always been saying this. The women that noticed it. And now all of sudden people listen. Nothing against Terry, but it's interesting.

[@listeninghere]

What's different is this strong masculine man is acknowledging how men dehumanize women. When a masculine man speaks this truth it's safer for some men and women to recognize it in themselves and change.

[@millabasset1710]

@Analyzing Male Slavery liar

[@listeninghere]

@Masticatious Ouch! But good point. However it's still good for men say what's true since it's usually only women protesting.

[@blackswan4486]

listeninghere people should listen to this because it is true, not because of who the listener is. And I don’t know if I agree with the original commentor that being secure in your masculinity has anything to do with being good. You should be a good person without having to be masculine.

[@Grace0724]

This is so true, particularly regarding pornography and the violent and degradation which is so mainstream now

[@juanthereloadguy8528]

Leah We want woman. But we also want just certain parts of women sometimes. That’s why no man is satisfied with just porn.

[@Grace0724]

Riley Reads you do realise women are human beings we are whole people?

[@juanthereloadguy8528]

Yes. I am aware that’s why I said no man is happy with just porn we want real women. And not just for sex.

[@Grace0724]

Riley Reads apologies I read your comment incorrectly

[@nowaynowau]

@RP S I bet you're single...

[@autumnmoon8459]

Look at all the videos they put up of women crying while they laugh… This man speaks the truth.

[@antonioyeats2149]

That goes to show chicks are inherently liars. Not that they're by and large dehumanized.

[@moonlightstargem1006]

I’m staying single for the rest of my life

[@bullgirlmamamuse7452]

@MoonlightStarGem Always remember, you are a beautiful, strong and valuable woman. You make your own life decision and that's how it should be 💜

[@morrisonyeukwu8926]

@@bullgirlmamamuse7452 what the heck are you talking about

[@donthidefrommeh5374]

@@bullgirlmamamuse7452 and what about men? Live like others slave?

[@redgelag8197]

@@bullgirlmamamuse7452 what strong ? The world female came from feminine which means soft what strength your talking about I’ve never seen a strong woman compared to a man physically and mentally

[@ramlasis7358]

@@morrisonyeukwu8926 A mad virgin man who never ganna get pussy moaning over here lol

[@askurgirlaboutmee]

All I’ve ever wanted was to be seen as an equal

[@mr.t658]

Guess what.. your not and will never be

[@calmv3587]

They fight for equality yet they become toxic misogynist, as well as with the toxic feminist, it's never about equality anymore it feels more like "who wins the rap battle" and/or just straight up racism.

[@askurgirlaboutmee]

@@calmv3587 yeah but most of the time, when you see a man or women being so crazily sexist, it’s usually in defense. Men deny everything women go through and women deny everything men go through. It’s like the trauma Olympics or something. “I go through worse” “no I do”

[@wow-jz7me]

@@calmv3587 did you ever talked to an actual feminist before or are you just making excuses to not listen to women.

[@ArranVid]

@@wow-jz7me Nah he is right. Many modern so-called feminists are radical and are misandrists.

[@svenskaela1234561]

I stopped going on dates bcs I felt like no guy ever actually cared about who I am as a person. I would sit there and start talking about my hobbies and see their eyes just go blank like they aren’t even there. I always felt crazy like this can’t be real I must be imagining it. Am I the problem am I as a person boring? Then I meet a guy who actually listened we had the same interests and would talk for hours about things it was amazing I felt like I had a future with him but he moved away for collage and we stopped talking over time as our lives took over but since then I don’t date I’m waiting for that feeling again and I don’t want to force it.

[@user-ev5zg9pl8t]

oh:(

[@SKuLLxKruSHeR]

A man and woman care about different things, nothing wrong with that. Men like crankshafts and bolt carriers, women are interested in the latest show on Netflix or Kim K's new relationship. Nothing with this arrangement, been this way for centuries

[@I-kd3cz]

@@SKuLLxKruSHeR im a woman N I couldn't give less fucks about the two things you mentioned lmao. Go back to the prehistoric period idiot

[@RR.LL.3B]

@@SKuLLxKruSHeR lmao what men and women can have the same interests what are you talking about not everybody is the same so because you’re a man you like putting make up on because a gay man does it literally what you’re saying

[@SKuLLxKruSHeR]

@@RR.LL.3B Yes, and some black people don't like the taste of chicken, Some Asian men have 10 inch dicks, it's called an EXCEPTION to the RULE. That's like saying you know someone with only 1 hand, and then saying not all humans have 2 hands. Exceptions don't prove the rule

[@AlexOrozco-Social-Pariah]

I have always been astounded of how some straight men talk with real hatred about the people they allegedly are "attracted" to. The perspective many straight dudes have of women is adversarial to the point of ridicule.

[@DionAlaniz]

Terry Crews' analysis is correct. Bravo to him for articulating this concept.

[@christopherrembert6356]

Dion Alaniz Except, his argument is flawed. Most men would sacrifice their lives for women. And, let's not pretend that women don't ignore men.

[@DionAlaniz]

Neither of your assertions contradict his thesis.

[@DionAlaniz]

Friea Prydwen - your comments are unresponsive to Terry Crews' assertion. He describes the cult of toxic masculinity. He makes no assertion regarding what percentage of males subscribe to the tenets of this cult. Please apply the critical thinking skills that you espouse.

[@DionAlaniz]

Friea Prydwen - You clearly do not want to engage with the issue that Terry Crews discusses. That's fine.

[@DionAlaniz]

You clearly have many trigger issues unrelated to what Terry Crews is talking about. Nothing you are talking about has anything to do with the subject under discussion (e.g. your injection of race and parenting into the discussion is a complete non-sequitur). So, I'm going to bow out and let you ride your anger to wherever it might lead you. Good luck.

[@johannanguyen9101]

If we are being consistent and treating both men and women as human beings with value and worth, if a woman is "damaged goods" for her sexual past, what does that make the man that overall has had more sexual past experiences than her ? Scrap ? Past repair ? Just imagine what will the world will be for men if they where measured with the same ruler that women are measure with 😢

[@TheyDontKnowYouExist]

Can’t measure men and women the same

[@johannanguyen9101]

@@TheyDontKnowYouExist We should.

[@TheyDontKnowYouExist]

@@johannanguyen9101 no we shouldn’t wtf , different roles and abilities

[@TheyDontKnowYouExist]

@@johannanguyen9101 think more

[@johannanguyen9101]

@@TheyDontKnowYouExist Different roles and abilities are not the same as having different value as a human being because of your gender. That's a poor excuse for double standards. Maybe you are the one who needs to "think more".

[@Kerry.moynihan.intellectual]

He made a really, really good example with the strip club comment. That is the exact difference between being attracted to an object and being attracted to an actual woman.

[@dc5945]

Those btxhes at the club leave their humanity n dignity in the trash what a horrible example 😭😭☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️

[@greenbayfan915]

A lot of men don't care about emotional relationships with women. I know I don't. Sex robots are the future.

[@unikeko96]

@@greenbayfan915As a woman i want a male robot who loves me, not just because of my appearence but because of my brain too. I'm also ok with having imaginary man. At least he is nice and caring unIike real "men"

[@greenbayfan915]

@@unikeko96 That's honestly really sad and basically defeats the purpose. That means somebody just programmed a robot to seem like it cares about you. Kinda dark that you would actually be content with that.

[@unikeko96]

@@greenbayfan915 WeII it's better than men who don't seem to Iike women (they just love our pussy, not us as a whole person)

[@HelenaGLongbottom53]

I feel this, it’s body parts not an all thinking, loving, conscious person it’s just bums and boobs to men and it’s sickening. My job is close contact with men and in my mid 20s I no longer am naive to their motives of getting into your pants, they are all the same honestly.

[@sarcodonblue2876]

They sure are! The good ones already have partners who snapped them up in their teens. If you don't marry your high school sweet heart who isn't a jerk then you won't find a decent one again.

[@antonioyeats2149]

Lmao 🤣 it's hilarious how chicks complain about this bull then turn around and behave the same way. Project much?

[@happysunshine1988]

​@@sarcodonblue2876 100% true. When old, some of them become widowers, but again, they are very quickly taken. That is why there is no any point to search for good men on dating sites.

[@moonlightstargem1006]

Even my first love viewed me as a sexual object

[@dustman96]

Yeah, and women never want to get into men's pants...? Right? Hypocritical bullshit. And if you don't want to be seen as bums and boobs then stop putting them on display. Funny how many times I've gone out and am hitting it off with a woman only to have some attractive alpha male douchebag strut around and the woman ultimately goes home with exactly the kind of guy you are bitching about.

[@thickaroniandcheese9836]

I don't respect anyone who's ever gone to a strip club. If you are capable of dehumanization like that then I don't want you in my life. Luckily I'm with a man who also thinks strip clubs are disgusting and the people who go there are low lifes.

[@drno1257]

i agree ,, men who go there are pathetic is better to spend money on a hooker you get pussy at least..

[@billbop9795]

Wow so your husband thinks those strong women just trying to get by are disgusting? What a POS

[@Grace0724]

Absolutely! The minute you hear a guy has been to a strip club attraction levels fall to 0. If a man can objectify women like that he won’t make a good life partner.

[@antonioyeats2149]

Lol what about the hoes up there dancing?

[@Dennis-nc3vw]

🤮 I know with absolute certainty you don't accuse women who buy Sexy Fire Fighter calendars of dehumanizing people. What about the people buying Play Girl? Are they dehumanizing men? Are gay men who buy that magazine self-hating? You prove what we all know. Objectification simply means male heterosexual attraction. Nothing more. But tell us again how the Only Fans girls are so empowered.

[@Nicole-lx1um]

Men I think tell themselves lots of lies to make their bad behavior seem okay. That's called rationalization. Men dehumanize women, in order to rationalize their bad behavior. Dehumanization and violence have been found to be directly correlated and women are hurt and assaulted with alarming regularity. Objectifying women or anyone else is never a benign process, it's based on a lie that there's a separate species of human that falls under the classification of "non human." Once you believe in the idea that there are non-humans that look like humans, but are instead objects, then all the sudden every bad thing you do, is just okay- I mean, they aren't human, so they don't feel pain like you do, so abusing them is fine- so you don't have to bear the burden of guilt. Self-assuaging logic is always faulty. If women are believed not to be human, then how is it that we give birth to humans? If we were non-human we would give birth to other animals like deer. The logic of mainstream masculinity is lacking so much, it's a good thing that men have the physical power to compensate. Or to put it more appropriately, their physical strength may offset their psychological weakness. It takes a strong person to admit to themselves what reality is, and face the pain that follows that knowledge. A weak person instead, will avoid the truth and use every rationalization in the book to attempt to dissociate from the knowledge that they are doing something wrong. Deep down, I think men know it's wrong, but they love their privilege too much to give it up. Men are only half of the only sentient species we know of in the universe and the way they treat the other half of the species is barbaric and wrong. There is no justification for it. What sex organs you have really doesn't give you the power to define right or wrong. Or, in other words, a penis in no way makes you a deity who's exempt from consequences for bad behavior. If you have all the power, as men do, and ruin the planet, the act doesn't become good just because men think it's their right to dominate and screw things up because it's pleasurable. Men are mortals like the rest of us. A person can think they're a god and above the law until the karma, or consequence, from all their bad behavior comes to collect them. Maybe it will take a climate crisis catastrophe that wipes out most of the species or some other by-product of patriarchy to teach these people that what they're doing is not working. Don't expect much change until then. Hopefully, these problems will teach our violent, confused species to start being mindful of our true place in the universe. Men are just flesh and blood creatures who live within limitation like the rest of us. Rather than glorifying the sexual act, maybe men need to do some deep contemplation about why their base drives are so pressing that they feel the need to hurt others. Maybe they need to look within themselves and find what is really lacking in their lives. If they can sort that out, good for them. Until then, expect our current problems to escalate.

[@antonioyeats2149]

Naw chicks just like to justify their sense of entitlement like "if I'm not getting what I want it's because men don't see me as human" or some other such nonsense. Fact is most broads don't really acknowledge the humanity of anyone but their own selves

[@Nicole-lx1um]

@@antonioyeats2149 Whatever. I can't understand, but it's hard when I'm female and I don't have mommy issues which make me want to dehumanize and control a female. Get a pacifier and a therapist.

[@joshs7160]

"Once you believe in the idea that there are non-humans that look like humans, but are instead objects, then all the sudden every bad thing you do, is just okay- I mean, they aren't human, so they don't feel pain like you do, so abusing them is fine- so you don't have to bear the burden of guilt" Yeah. No one other than a psychopath actually thinks like that. The real issue is that men on average simply have less respect for women who are sexualized.

[@antonioyeats2149]

@@joshs7160 funny enough psychopathy is a real mental health issue and psychopath are humans as well. Using the word like am insult only show hypocrisy

[@joshs7160]

@@antonioyeats2149 being a psychopath is bad mmmmkay

[@TH-eb7ob]

Takers mentality. I used to look at men like that. Being a young black woman with low self esteem, I was always ready to climb over someone to lift myself up. All men , and people in general, were tools for me. That the name of the game for many (NOT ALL - not the ones with self esteem), they are only trying to better themselves. Sadly at the woman's expense. Like going to work. Some people go to work to take as much as they can while giving as little as they can get away with. I would imagine there would be a correlation between people that take at work and people that take in their personal lives.

[@blackswan4486]

But you were not unaware of their humanity. You just didn’t care about it. Big difference.

[@AubreeGames]

@@blackswan4486 YES

[@adamson786bi3]

i have to respect a person who puts his sins/secret negative side of himself on the table to teach us not to make the same mistake.

[@amalmystic11]

Funny he brings up when women talk….every time we talk it’s considered nagging, whining, negative and killing the vibe.

[@chocolateprincess8543]

They shouldn’t give us things to complain about then.

[@sgzjajsjsi133]

I believe this is due to them not seeing us as fully human also.

[@XxxX-wx3er]

I’ve never seen what’s so good about men anyways.

[@Chud-mb7gl]

The world they made for you and all the safety you enjoy daily.

[@Fandar]

@@Chud-mb7gl and who made women unsafe in the first place?

[@Chud-mb7gl]

@@Fandar Why would I care? It wasn't me

[@ChimeraKiller09]

All the comments that are bitching about what Crews said just proved his point.

[@Sarakujal]

I wonder if you bitching about people disagreeing with a claim someone else made proves a point in itself.

[@dontes5009]

Or, he could just be wrong and pandering to his mostly female base. That's pretty much what Crews does.

[@dontes5009]

@im_also_an_avacado Nothing about Crews is real or "the truth". He paints men with a weird broad brush, and plays on women's emotions for support.

[@MultiTaz333]

@daily_dillusion and women use those horny guys as tools to get money...

[@realmaletearsaspatriarchys1351]

@@Sarakujal your a real bitch ass so I wonder why you make so many accusations when your the monster in the horror flick?

[@JoeMcKenzie888]

Experienced this so many times and can confirm.

[@antonioyeats2149]

Lmao how do you experience something, that someone else feels?

[@JoeMcKenzie888]

​@@antonioyeats2149you fell on your head as a kid?

[@matthewlee9879]

That was deep,I understand what Terry is saying and I also feel we live in a world where we don't treat each other human alot of times because we are taught with a "me first" mentality which creates a "what can you do for me" outlook on life and this leds to people looking at others as attools for a means to an end.

[@realmaletearsaspatriarchys1351]

TOXIC MEN & THEIR TOXIC FORM OF IMITATING MANHOOD!!

[@wakeup6778]

@@realmaletearsaspatriarchys1351 hahaha

[@kaianamosley6845]

I think your missing the point… this is talking about how MEN don’t see WOMEN as humans.

[@joannamonique707]

@Ghostfem lol you sweet mf. People don't run around crossing each other all day so we can avoid a civil war. There are consequences to actions and the threat of those consequences is what keeps most people at bay. It's not always about morality. It's about survival.

[@mw5727]

@@kaianamosley6845 you're right but I think you guys are also missing the point that men are like that because of selfishness and selfishness thrives because society or THE WORLD IN GENERAL rewards it, and this is not 100% bad ((now I didn't say that this is good if you think I did then you need to get a course on basic reading comprehension)), nor is it good, it's just reality, cry about it it's still reality, some people learn this so they play and win the "game" but sometimes idiots go too far and violates others' rights, reality is always in between so I don't know what the truth is, but I will say that this is 50% good, so we respect and learn from each other, we keep the good and discard the bad, for the betterment society, adios

[@leafyveins4985]

What an articulate and intelligent person. Huge amount of respect for this brave man.

[@erigirl9358]

I discovered this just when I was a teen because how my half brother used to treat me and my sister, but thank God my dad stood up and let him know that way of treatment was not acceptable in our home. Sadly that's how he treats his wife rn, sometimes I wish he won't give birth to a girl

[@jordanferguson2254]

Women also need to stop getting in relationships with these kinds of guys though. I see so many codependent women afraid to be alone that they'll put up with bad behaviour just to be able to say that they're in a relationship.

[@DeathnoteBB]

Remember that one guy who didn’t realize his wife was a person for a decade?

[@Josh-sz8ip]

Ironic. To suggest a human couldn't tell another human was human, is dehumanising to them.

[@Maksie0]

The vitriolic comments on this video are disappointing, but not surprising.

[@tompor561]

HOW DARE THEY CRITICIZ THIS VIDEO GRRRR

[@millabasset1710]

@@tompor561 criticism not based on logic and respect for other's feelings.

[@AngMcE]

This is raw honesty. More men need to step up like this.

[@djr_drums]

What a fantastic man.

[@Sukunasenpai-p4n]

How fsntastic

[@crisptomato9495]

Terry Crews is unbelievably based. I’m appalled at everyone who has tried to invalidate him.

[@Ashy-zz5ug]

Let's change this. who's with me?

[@askurgirlaboutmee]

Me

[@Melly16yr10]

Me

[@rebeccalafortune3317]

The real question is how? Any ideas on what we can do?

[@lunaloynaz-lopez2318]

These men are not your friends or allies. You will need to force the change. They benefit from us being under their feet too much for them to help us.

[@Dennis-nc3vw]

@@rebeccalafortune3317 By brow beating people who have nothing to do with it, obviously!

[@Tiredttttttt]

They hate us 😢

[@ShawnEvans-Akere-mu5mz]

Boo hoo go cry about it 🖕🏾🖕🏾

[@okcomputed1287]

I had a severe pornography addiction from the beginning of middle school till mid highschool, I'm now entering college and still left with this terrible mindset. I've been researching looking for some sort of insight, I hate that anxious feelings when a woman comes around that I deam attractive, I can't stand the hypersexualization of normal interactions in my day to day life. So many relationships have been ruined by this mindset and I'm tired, I want to love the women in my life like they are human, not like they're prized possessions

[@fifi7112]

Not all but a majority do , I hate the objectification of the female body , and to the extent it takes place nowadays .

[@YourMom-iy6cv]

An d u see it in music videos with rapper who have like a whole set of prostitutes just to get fans because other guys like it’s it’s saying that is okay and it sets bad example cause it’s not and celebrities are held accountable for this

[@fifi7112]

@@YourMom-iy6cv What decent man would want such a woman around him anyhow ? All got no self respect or morals

[@fifi7112]

@@YourMom-iy6cv And why are you calling yourself a dumb name Your Mom ?

[@YourMom-iy6cv]

@@fifi7112 chill spice girl

[@fifi7112]

@@YourMom-iy6cv 😂 Spice girl 😏

[@nooralshehabi5487]

Is it normal for a woman to feel this way towards men? I feel like this is how I see men I can't understand them and I can't recognise them as human beings, its a bit weird to me

[@antonioyeats2149]

Nah it's just pure cope. Women are narcissistic and dishonest by and large and when their entitlement isn't catered to its always some bull like this

[@jorgenavarro311]

Penis envy

[@pinkflu5939]

@@jorgenavarro311 envying a penis for what tho? making it's owner more susceptible to pedophilia? a clitoris gives the same pleasure while limiting deviancy

[@kiratwo4u]

honestly it's probably our hormones affecting our thinking

[@hkd8227]

Men learn from women. Women learn from men. The only way out of this cycle is to seek the truth and understand the other.

[@chelseadorcelus8004]

He is right. Because this generation is lost into lust, if the guy is not a true man of God, it will be difficult for him to visualize and treat women properly.

[@anunc8797]

I was brought to a strip club only once for a birthday, but i was raised by women, and i couldn't but helplessly talk to the girls as if they were just normal people. All the "ooh baby"s and the like just rang so fake to me. Turns out, you can think a girl is just a walking masterpiece physically and also understand that she is a fully fledged human being with hopes and fears and dreams at the same time.

[@0206-b8z]

Kevin samuels has helped the type of mindset that Terry is talking about

[@lynnharris9454]

Immensely!

[@shimsokshim2995]

He literally has yelled at guys who are average that think they deserve a hot woman. So no, he hasn't. Don't use 60 second edited clips of him to make judgments.

[@mp6471]

As a guy I have to say that sadly there's a part in my animal brain which thinks just in this way, thinks women are sexual targets and doesn't consider them humans. I know this and I always use other parts of my brain in order to treat women as humans instead, but there are guys who don't bother doing this.

[@dustrepellent8986]

Wow. That’s amazing. I think if more women knew this, all hookers, hoes, wives, housewives, side chicks and strippers would go on strike. Lol

[@Sukunasenpai-p4n]

Sow what does the women do ? Change them selves to men ?

[@LfunkeyA]

women also see you as a sexual target, and can also be extremely un-empathetic and brutal when they dislike you. the stereotype that women are far more loving and empathetic applies only to select cases - children, old and infirm people, the unfortunate, etc. there isn't much empathy for the average man.

[@silentgrind34]

Bullshit I'm 100% man I'm not gay in the slightest and when I watched this video I laughed out loud.....because he is absolutely right

[@BashaerB-h2c]

Wow.. How depressing.

[@thickaroniandcheese9836]

Glad dehumanization of 50% of the population is funny to you. Guess we know you're part of the problem. Can't imagine how its funny. You must not have a mother or sister or daughter. Oh wait.

[@ripehoneydew]

Then men wonder why they don’t get affection and end up bitter and miserable in their later years, you get what you give, bitch ass.

[@Sukunasenpai-p4n]

He is right ?

[@JAHIDxJD]

Man I noticed sexualising women causes A LOT of anxiety too. Not good for the heart

[@ZachVanHarrisJR]

I wonder if or when the full video is/ will be available to view..?

[@newme572]

So why tf men get to have their humanly moments and we understand but men can’t do the same for your woman or the women around you

[@Onepieceistheworstanime]

When tf did women ever tried to understand men?

[@Belladonas]

@@Onepieceistheworstanime but we understand with men that it is a man’s nature to desire more than one woman’s body, even though we may not like such. Isn’t that understanding? 🏃‍♀️

[@nicholasemjohnson47]

I don't see women as objects.

[@BisharpnearOhio]

You dropped this 👑

[@nicholasemjohnson47]

@jonnyneace8928 None of the women I've known have ever hinted at that.

[@MalesAreDemons]

@@nicholasemjohnson47Good boy

[@ultravioletpisces3666]

Harrison Butkers graduation speak made me think of this.

[@ultravioletpisces3666]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/on6ZgXdrrsmLm8Usi=BVEK8uFQwLmHCpSG

[@GabrielofAdonai]

Respect to Terry for saying this. As a man, a lot of us are exposed to pornography young. I'm talking elementary school I saw nudity in the 90s. Terry's story of overcoming porn addiction inspired me. Once I quit porn I was able to find a godly woman. She is my queen, but the battle is not over. Being in a relationship is more than just sexual, it's all about communication, and I'm learning this as she's my first long term relationship. Be patient with us ladies, a lot of us are unlearning our bad habits from boyhood and adolescent behavior. It takes time.

[@babygirl_likestochewgum]

Respect to You for being able to recognise this, it really gives hope to us single Christian women out there.

[@K.DaWriterKid]

Can we get her side of the story and how she’s doing in the relationship. I’m not taking a man’s word speaking on his woman and her state of being that easy. Let her speak for herself. We’d like to hear her take! And no, come prepared for the relationship as a man. Take the time in your singleness to get your stuff together and heal. Don’t bring that into a relationship. Just by you “just give us time” is demeaning. No! It’s expected of the women to know how to be in a healthy relationship. It’s about time men do the same, and prep themselves. You got lucky. But a lot of men are learning and going to learn the hard way that a lot of women of today have decentered men. And if we decide to engage; either you must be fully developed as a man or you getting left with your other single brethren. It is not a woman’s place to help raise, evolve, and make a man better. That’s a lie patriarchy has told men. Do your work! But again! I’d like to hear from her!

[@ArYan-fx3ty]

Never in my life would i have thought someone like Terry crews stands for woman equality. Good for him a very good example.

[@EXSkywarp]

Redpillers, MGTOW, Incels, and the manosphere explained in less than two minutes. Hats off to you, sir.

[@progressiveresourcecenter754]

Well, you can just listen to someone who is inside the echo chamber, or you can get some perspective from someone who left the echo chamber. kzbin.info/www/bejne/aYiwpq2ehr19pbs

[@EXSkywarp]

Progressive Resource Center I'm actually one of those who left that horrid echo chamber of hate, as I'm praising and commending Mr. Crews for his courage in breaking that cycle. I'll check the link, since I'm always looking for ways to combat that evil ideology of the so-called redpill/manosphere/whatever those losers call themselves.

[@progressiveresourcecenter754]

Thanks, that's all that anyone can ask. I'd really like to know what your thoughts are about that video and Cassie Jaye. Thanks again!

[@krisg1604]

EXSkywarp preach it!!! :)

[@juanthereloadguy8528]

EXSkywarp Just cause I like tits doesn’t make me hate women.

[@lawliet3855]

This comment section is really one sided. What Terry says is absolutely true and that's part of his experience. But when discussing topics about objectification, I believe that people like him are not fit to be a spokesperson. Please bring in proper analysts who have actually done research and carried experiments on a greater sample size. It is absolutely true that when a man is attracted to a certain woman sexually, they would find them as 'objects,' this has actually been proven as it has to do with a part of brain that lowers it's levels when it sees objects and rises when it sees humans. However, here's the funny part, tests shows that similar objectification occurs in the brains of women when they see an attractive or successful man. And so far the results are pretty balanced, that there is equal objectification, just that men tend to act upon it more than women.

[@solimine1007]

I know of the study of Nebraska Lincoln that shows how men objectify women. what's the name of the universe that did that did the study how women objectify men? Can you share it with me so i can look it up?

[@WeatherMondacicci]

@@solimine1007 It's been months and he hasn't given one link to this study he is talking about which means that it's all BS and made up. These "MRAs" tend to do that to make their side appear to have backing and that they hope that someone won't question about it and when they do, they don't respond.

[@munkqiking7207]

@@WeatherMondacicci Ah yes because it couldnt possibly be the case that anyone forgets about an arbitrary comment they made on a youtube video. Obviously everyone has comment notifications turned on and checks their comment history eagerly awaiting to reply. Also, why did you put MRAs in quotation marks? What exactly were you implying? That he isn't a true MRA or that their cause isn't legitimate? Do you also generally devalue and belittle people and opinions you disagree with? I'm not sure the one with issues here is him. Furthermore, I have seen feminists do what you were referring to as much as "MRAs". I assume you feel the same way about their BS being made up? Ofcourse, we could just be talking from a point of bias rather than objectivity, but such is the nature of anecdotal evidence. Which is why it is taken with a grain of salt by anyone reasonable.

[@munkqiking7207]

@@WeatherMondacicci I mean logic dictates applying occams razor to the circumstances rather than cynically villifying him with no basis other than your "hunch".

[@f_dog4392]

please send a link to the study you got your info from, im interested in seeing the statistics

[@daysoftheboo]

Yeah my partner left me because HE gave me HPV I had to have a leap biopsy surgery I can't have sex with him anymore or he'll reinfect me and he left me because I can't give him sex anymore because I'm not a human to him,, if I can't give him sex then I'm useless and that's why he left It still hurts

[@LfunkeyA]

almost every woman will leave a guy who's shy during sex or is unable to get it up easily. i've seen it many a time. stop with the double standards. human sexuality and male-female interaction can be brutal,cold and unfair - this is seen throughout nature with most other sexual creatures too.

[@daysoftheboo]

@@LfunkeyA I bet you're not afraid to walk alone at night I bet you're not afraid of an old man touching you when you're riding the city bus

[@daysoftheboo]

@@LfunkeyA sex is not even important it's not essential If you stop having sex you're not going to deteriorate loose muscle and die like you will if you stop eating, but it's the only thing most men care about

[@TheAmazingLucas]

Terry blamed his wife for his innaction. Let that sink in

[@blackswan4486]

He still does?

[@yoginamz]

@@blackswan4486 no, not anymore. 💜

[@9t568]

@@yoginamz this man is not an ally for women

[@joannamonique707]

@@9t568 I disagree.

[@joannamonique707]

Yall trippin on that? When I heard he was assaulted and he didn't so anything I was shook cuz I though he was like assaulted assaulted. When I found out it was just a nit sack grab I was oh OK cuz wtf my dude who yo big ass let a man do you like that lol its the equivalent to an ass slap to me. Imagine if a woman shot a ma over slapping her ass. Everyone would call her crazy. But he was supposed to flip out and damn near kill dude? I think he handled it cool. Yall just insecure in your masculinity and Terry isn't.

[@ArranVid]

I get what he is saying. I also used to think of hot women as sex objects, but then my mind became more mature and I saw them as human beings and not as sex objects as time went on.

[@ArranVid]

@@scientist_32484 I saw them as humans. But when I saw sexy women e.g. female pornstars, Princess Xena, Britney Spears, Jessica Alba, I did not think of how their parents or siblings would feel about me lusting over them...and when I was thinking about marrying a sexy woman, I did not think of their parents or siblings or their close family members (their reaction to my lusting over the sexy woman)...the lust part of my brain was predominate and in control over those moments and I saw the sexy women as both human and sex objects. I would think about all the sexual things I would do to the women (nothing rapey, just fantasy) and I would fantasize about being the husband or lover of the sexy women and I would think about their pretty faces and their boobs and the revealing clothes that they were wearing and I would think about them being naked and I would think about doing sexual stuff with them. Ever since I was around 6 years old, I have been thinking about women that way...but I remember watching a show on the television when I was around 16 years old and it was called 'The Millionaire Matchmaker'...and I remember watching shows like The Real Housewives of Orange County and The Millionaire Matchmaker just to get turned on by the sexy women there...and I remember this millionaire man who was choosing which woman to date with the help of the matchmaker (Patti Stanger). When I saw the woman that was chatting to him (a hot woman with long, black hair who was wearing red clothes) I remember being quite turned on by her and the matchmaker was asking the millionaire questions like 'Do you have a crush on her after you two have got to know each other?'and his reply surprised me a lot...because I had never thought about it that way until he said it. At that time, I was only thinking about the physical aesthetics of women, and I did not care about how their parents or siblings or immediate family would feel. But this millionaire guy was hesitant about the matchmaker's question and he replied that he wanted to get to know this woman's family better and he said that marriage is about marrying into another family (that there needs to be compatibility with the mother-in-law, father-in-law, brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law) and that it isn't just about the physical aesthetics of the woman herself. This kind of blew my mind, because like I said, I mostly saw the sex object side of sexy women, and I never considered their close family members. After he said that, I then thought of women more as human beings and less as sex objects. Well, whenever I see a very attractive/hot/sexy woman in public, I still lust over them and fantasize over them in my mind but I also think about how their family members would be feeling and I don't think of the women as sex objects alone. My mindset about women is how 90 percent of us men who are turned on by women feel.

[@BisharpnearOhio]

W

[@Sukunasenpai-p4n]

And men are sex objects ?

[@Sukunasenpai-p4n]

@@scientist_32484 and women ?

[@41kils]

Terry describing how men addicted to sex and porn (which he is) see women*****

[@AnonymousRandomGuy006]

Lol Someone’s projecting Men and women Please rise above the distractions. Stop creating these imaginary social barriers for yourself. Limit the confirmation bias going on in your mind. Create the life that you want by any means necessary because you only get one of these so make the best of it.

[@lilmamagc]

Well when men stop making sexual comments at me, grabbing me, and catcalling me, then maybe I can.

[@AnonymousRandomGuy006]

@@lilmamagc How is that stopping you from creating the life that you want? If anything it means you are attractive and should have an advantage on the chess board over other people.

[@anonymous-cx7ng]

@@lilmamagc I wish that would happen to me lol

[@dragonfox2.058]

well I don't view men as fully human so we're even

[@antonioyeats2149]

Most broads don't really realize anyone but their own selves are human

[@dragonfox2.058]

@@antonioyeats2149 well most men are sick as little doggies it's true. something seriously wrong with you people. all the hair and big brow ridges...you really need to EVOLVE and stop pasting attributes onto yourselves that aren't there

[@alishaaaax]

@@antonioyeats2149 men don’t have emotions that means they arnt humans. That’s why they are told to be stoic and don’t have any empathy for women. They are dogs with sexual urges and an atm machine for women to use.

[@pearlslast]

⁠@@alishaaaaxthe thing that distinguishes humans from other animals is mostly morality / empathy (most animals do not have empathy) . therefore ure right men are not human several studies show that men have an empathy deficit and behave immoral and use "exercising their masculinity" as an excuse

[@Selfmadehuman50]

So who is actually human😂

[@thorspower]

I love Terry such an awesome dude.

[@imthebossmermaid3648]

I am so glad that Terry Crews is talking about this, and also that he said "I am guilty" acknowledging that he too has internalized misogyny and has accountability. I am glad that there are more men that are vocal about this, but I wish that people listened when women spoke about this to begin with.

[@marythompson711]

thx Terry for your honest and insightful video.

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

I love Terry Crews so fing much. This is powerful. He's such a positive example for young men.

[@sircharles1248]

We men are too terrible. I don’t know why you keep trying. If we could be better, we’d be better by now. People like Crews mouths great words in front of a crowd. In the end he’d still be attracted to a woman based on her beauty.

[@Dhuxul9]

Same for women too dude multiple studies found women choose men based on money and attractiveness

[@sircharles1248]

@@Dhuxul9 I know. At this point, I’m only trying to make things worse. 😂

[@CharaDreemurrfan]

@@Dhuxul9 Doesn't everyone choose the opposite gender by attractiveness?

[@Dhuxul9]

@@CharaDreemurrfan of course that is what I’m saying

[@truth_seeker5]

He's talking as if women are interested to hear life stories of male strippers. People go to stripclubs to release stress and have fun, not to hear problems

[@Fandar]

I'm glad Terry Crews understands.

[@anotherbigfootwithinternet2147]

Let's make the title more accurate "Terry crew doesn't view women as all the way human"

[@Myday_145]

Who does? Women objectify themselves lmfao 💀

[@Melanatedsince2000]

Bingo.

[@anonymous-cx7ng]

@@Melanatedsince2000 please tell me the title is wrong I’m scared

[@jamiefagan9129]

This is such a gross generalization of men. Some women these days see men as expendable, whose sole purpose is to provide and cater to them. We need eachother, more than we know

[@jamiefagan9129]

@ladyonthecoast I think you're spot on. Many of these podcasters aren't in any position to be giving people advice. I went through a short phase of looking at those kinds of podcasts, but now I see that they are honestly just cringe. They showcase the worst kind of people like Affiliate marketing gurus and only fans models

[@TheCollectiveMessenger]

This is not really talked about often. I’m more than just a piece of meat or an object for you to conquer sexually… I dress up and love on my body because I feel good on the inside and I feel good expressing myself. There’s a difference between being dogmatic and appreciating beauty while being respectful. If a man tells me I look nice, it makes my heart melt because of the intention and kindness but when you’re coming forward with the vibe that you’re lustful, it’s annoying and gross. Women deserve to feel comfortable in whatever state they’re in. We are more than an object for a mans use. We are more than our body. It makes me so sad and I see more people gas lighting women and telling us we should be happy for the attention when we only want to be happy by feeling safe. I want to feel safe being sexy. Being in my skin without someone treating me like a sexual conquest for their own pleasure.

[@30ajgo]

We all want stuff to to happen but reality(or as long as humanity exists) men are always going to have sexual urges cause it’s how we survived as a species. It is just how it is whether you like it or not cause men don’t want to be objectified as an ATM machine but as long as they’re men they’re gonna be looked at as the provider. You wouldn’t want to go out on a date with a bum now would you, now why can’t a men look at women with lust if that’s what we were created to have? I’m not saying put your hands on a women, but just like you want to be safe showing off skin, men want to be safe looking with lust without being judged or worse but I think we both know that ain’t gonna happen. Ps: Men ain’t telling you “you should be happy you’re getting attention” to gaslight, men say it cause it’s true. Women are so privileged and don’t even know it. The ratio of compliments women get a men gets one every decade from a women and usually they are grandmas. Men do it to give you the compliments they never get. Plain and simple.

[@rileahangelaweston]

And men don't even care.

[@Josh-sz8ip]

They probably didn't want her to talk about her life because they were paying for her service at the time. If I hire a clown for my kids birthday party, I don't want him to talk about his life problems at the party. I want him to perform. Doesn't mean I see the clown as not human.

[@SantanaCampbell]

Immodesty and contraception help men objectify women as well. In chapter 17 of Humanae Vitae, Pope St. Paul VI predicts that men after being used to contraceptive methods will lose respect for the woman as his beloved companion, and this is happening now!

[@penny4thought168]

So, medicine makes me objectify women? How the fuck does that work?

[@Grogurt1998]

What I get from this is don’t wait for men to ask questions if you’re interested in them and you think they might be interested in you. Just talk about yourself. Relate his stories to your story if he runs, well, you know why.

[@GrammaWilli]

Real talk 🙏🏽 Bless the real men and women 🙏🏽

[@Northwesternforcefield28]

To view women in this light shows unintelligence and delusion. “Uhh me man, can’t see you woman as human- me live in my own made up fantasy world. Stahpp.”

[@colorfulforesight]

Very observant!

[@spiritualak5147]

This is true but only when you watch porn you think this way

[@Sukunasenpai-p4n]

And what about women when watch porn

[@Sukunasenpai-p4n]

@jonnyneace8928 and women see men as sex objects ?

[@hbunnyo]

Some men do. If one man said all men do it seems like a deflection from the fact that they alone thought or still think terrible things. After all how can it be their fault when it's everyone?

[@blackswan4486]

Like a typical abuser, terry hasn’t changed but is just acting well behaved in public and trying to act like he just didn’t know women were human - meaning, he’s still making half truths and excuses about his actions. According to Lundy Bancroft, a male anti-abuse author who has counseled many abusers and has heard things from the horses mouth, abusers who speak publicly against abuse often get worse in private because the attention they get feeds their ego, which is a core component of an abusive mindset.

[@boredshrimp9425]

I kinda agree with you, but this mentality is really common among men and women attest to that

[@munkqiking7207]

@@boredshrimp9425 Common with the men you meet perhaps.

[@kaianamosley6845]

It’s mens brain y’all born to see women as objects sadly

[@joannamonique707]

He didn't say all men. He just said men. He was generalizing. He also used to word "sometimes." Masculinity SOMETIMES can be like a cult.

[@TriggeredAmmo]

I date a man who is like this. So so difficult as a hopeful-romantic. Feeling so objectified all the time. Having my baloon so to speak deflated with any kind thing i do. Hearing how he speaks about me as a sexual conquest. Hearing his past sexual conquest stories like they are a brag.. God help me, please work on this man.

[@arstars411]

Thank you Terry!! Please say it over again and louder!!

[@HoradrimBR]

The problem with this talk is to pick those who are off the mark and use them as blueprint for what a "standard man" is. It's not.

[@drewyetti]

He’ll say anything to please women as long it fits the narrative that “men are wrong and women are right”. Men don’t see women as human and that’s because they were raised to place women on a pedestals as “innocent angels” that cannot do no wrong.

[@raesmith2164]

So you think men are innocent angels who can do no wrong?

[@drewyetti]

@@raesmith2164 I don't as both sexes are capable of being good or bad. Difference is men know they ain't perfect while women will act as if they are.

[@ahhwe-any7434]

Trolls mean nothing to me. Chang e the numbers cowards

[@solimine1007]

University of Nebraska Lincoln study. Just saying.

[@munkqiking7207]

@@raesmith2164 Thats what you extrapolate? Reading comprehension is a skill like any other. You need to work on yours. It was never said nor implied that men are innocent angels. He was only highlighting the absurdity of the notion. Which you took as implying men are innocent angels and you ran with it. And women say men don't listen.

[@moonlightstargem1006]

Why do men treat women like sex objects in porn?? I feel like i was too sexually objectified

[@joannamonique707]

To be fair a lot of women see men as not all the way human when it comes to their lack of emotionality. Let's not pretend that we don't often veiw men as dumb uneovolved jocks. In an animal way, the strength difference between men and women creates an inherent lack of understanding that can lead to a serious lack of respect and trust between both genders. The man undervalue the woman because she is physically weaker and the woman disregards the feeling of men because on an animal level she sees him as a potential predator. It's kinda fucked up nature did us like that lol

[@lilmamagc]

maybe if men didn't act like actual sexual predators then things would change

[@-wallenstein-7540]

@@lilmamagc Lmao

[@anotherbigfootwithinternet2147]

@@lilmamagc yes cuz that's the way every man acts, and if women didn't act like gold diggers posting lewd pictures on the internet, they that person wouldn't be viewed the same. This video is really "Terry Crews and his panthetic football friends don't view women as human"

[@Melanatedsince2000]

Stop this shit foreal. Men are the pillars of society, whiteout men our society will crumble. Dumb jocks you say? Well what have Women contributed to in the past 100 years that directly influenced our society besides this feminist BS, twerking and objectifying yourselves for clout, money and attention?

[@joannamonique707]

@@anotherbigfootwithinternet2147 yeah Terry is not the problem and your not about to convince anybody that's he's a bad dude.

[@conorfromouterspace]

I'm on my femcel era bruh this man is so right omg

[@moonlightstargem1006]

I have respect for terry cruise too! He’s a great guy :)

[@davidpruitt517]

Take two men who look exactly the same and have the exact same personality and characteristics. One is a janitor and one is a doctor. Tell me which one has more female attention. I'll wait.

[@Stanlos]

Terry Crewes has stones! Kudos to him for calling bbn out the BS. And a huge side eye to the silly abortion comment below.

[@rashad8509]

Stanlos whoa! holy shit not the side eye. Anything but the side eye!

[@keifer7813]

Take away the attraction and the lust, it's hard for me to connect with a woman and thus see her as a person like me. Though I also think part of that is because women have their guard up and will think I'm hitting on them. So I just avoid them altogether unless they speak to me, then im polite and engaging

[@LfunkeyA]

thats a you problem

[@Chud-mb7gl]

​@@LfunkeyA It's not, he's right. They're essentially protected species with more rights, less expectations and duties than us and are worshipped by every class all across the board. Rich, homeless, intelligent, stupid, young and old, all show unlimited bias towards women. I simply don't see them as fully human exactly because they didn't see me as a human during my life at all.

[@Josh-sz8ip]

But she's a homo sapien, and women are the apex predators of Earth sans men.

[@unapologetic6159]

Speaking facts

[@eigelgregossweisse9563]

We did. And then they asked us for our resources, and they don't look at us as human beings. Who need love, care, hugging, but they equate all that to "men want sex". Oh yeah, whose mostly homeless? Who has the most suicides, depressions etc? Men. And us men view each other as objects. Now women see men as status objects. or just financial objects. So many men repress their hurt feelings, when they blow it all up they get labeled as "abusers". Is it any wonder, why men view women as 'all the way human', when women themselves don't allow them to be viewed as that? When we voice out our feelings, when we display emotional neediness, what the fuck happens? We get cut down. We are viewed for how we look, what we do as a job, what our physical strengths are, etc. But women downplay it, and say, "okay-insecure guy, work on yourself". I feel like women are the biggest projectors on men for themselves rather than men do. All men need sex. That's the unfortunate world in which we live in, biological urges. Sure, women have a womb and are basically seen as "the progenitors, future of humanity", when today, I swear it's better off humanity shouldn't continue. Women aren't good childbearers, their biological reproductive systems aren't even truly suited for it, they're just as bad, if not worse than men...but sadly the myth around beauty = love, nurturing, caring, etc qualities that are imbedded in a woman, are nonexistent today. Oh sure, yeah... women are truly human. Well they're pretty human in the regards that their instincts are even baser than men, only that they front the facade of the qualities that men give them. Granted, there's nothing else, no cloning chambers... women are the only procreators and progenitors of the human race at the moment. Men can't give birth. Not all men are abusers. The abusers are once the abused, did you ever stop to think about that?

[@lostapwbm2790]

Men don't see women as human? Said without a hint of irony while sitting right next to Lauren "Wake me up when men are obsolete" Duca.

[@Iquey]

lostapwbm I wouldn't mind if today's definition of "manhood" becomes totally obsolete though.

[@blackswan4486]

I mean, it’s not mutually exclusive. Women could not see men as human, and men could still see women as in human also. I don’t think any sex sees the other as in human, I think it’s more that people ignore each other‘s humanity.

[@RiverseaYT]

Love women ❤❤❤

[@decode_music]

Love men 😆💗

[@josermtz]

Thank you, Terry.

[@the_glitter_is]

PREACH

[@jag5014]

Crews is a Hollywood star and former pro athlete, so his perspective is going to be skewed as he's probably experienced and witnessed women constantly pursue him and his colleagues left and right, therefore they're probably more inclined to treat them like they're disposable. That's not the experience of most men out there.

[@thepostnihilist]

But many men who aren't celebrities and athletes look to celebrities and athletes as role models. People oftentimes get their reality from the TV set, radio. I'm not saying all people do, but the average person owns a TV set, radio and respects at least some of the characters that appear on it. So they aspire to be rich and famous with all the perks that come with it. If you want to see who a person is, don't make them poor, make them extremely rich and then see how moral and righteous they are when they have no restraints to live out their true desires.

[@ahhwe-any7434]

Im just venting. I didnt even watch. I didnt know he did anything else but sing dun na dun na dun na dundundun. A thousand miles