That's Not What Wives Do | Cuffing Season Vol. 3 | Part 3 | Issac Curry

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@elizabethmercado7589
@elizabethmercado7589 2 жыл бұрын
Remember Ladies he is talking about men who are actively looking for God and growing not a man who is doing nothing. Don't ever settle for a man that treats you badly or puts your life in danger. He is talking about a man who is doing the work and is actively seeking God.
@reneanorman
@reneanorman 2 жыл бұрын
I was just about to say the same
@adorablebelle
@adorablebelle 2 жыл бұрын
Keyword *actively*
@senseilj
@senseilj 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Consistency, Work Ethic and Clarity are all fruits of that he did a great job setting this foundation in in the message
@trulyloved3544
@trulyloved3544 2 жыл бұрын
Lol oh because I was lost with this message
@bobchar1120
@bobchar1120 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN, AMEN, and AMEN!
@zumbawithkelli6931
@zumbawithkelli6931 2 жыл бұрын
When God gave Eve to Adam, he already had 2 things...1. a relationship with God 2. A job/ purpose ( name the animals). Women are a gift from God to man after he has certain things in order( He who finds a wife finds a good thing and finds favor with the Lord.) Jerry always says we need to find our purpose before our partner. There is a difference between sharpening a man and raising a boy to be a man. Unfortunately, the ladder is happening more and more in the culture we live in. God please help us as your people to make disciples like you told us as your last words. Let us help raise up godly men and godly women who walk rightly and finish the race well🙏🏻
@terrybrown7510
@terrybrown7510 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!
@victoriawilford8797
@victoriawilford8797 Жыл бұрын
Ameeeennnn! Thank you for this comment!
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Some women got in their feelings when they did the message pertaining to men this past Thursday. We have to learn how to receive instruction, correction, and humility ourselves in Jesus name. We always want men to listen, but we don't want to listen to comprehend and digest what is being said. All we want to do is act like we are so good, and have a huge chip on our shoulder, and choose to reject what is being said altogether. And only choose to hear what we want to hear.
@yahkar
@yahkar 2 жыл бұрын
🚩🚩🚩 Everywhere in the chat today, and what was the Title of the Lesson?🤔🤣🤣
@leilag1076
@leilag1076 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVED the message Thursday!!! I sentv it to several people because it's necessary to get things back in order. We need the brothers to heal too!!! We are all connected so it needs to happen! 👏
@Lee-up2cy
@Lee-up2cy 2 жыл бұрын
That’s why most of us are not wives aswell because of this same thing instead of receiving and making the adjustment we find fault in everything.
@iamissaccurry
@iamissaccurry 2 жыл бұрын
Bless you Queen! 👑
@peacestartswithin
@peacestartswithin 2 жыл бұрын
You are right sis. You’re right.💯
@Valencia_Rethabile
@Valencia_Rethabile 2 жыл бұрын
Coming across this page really is one of the Best ways that God shows His unfailingly love for me😭😭😭😭
@beekreative6217
@beekreative6217 2 жыл бұрын
Yea indeed!!! I so agree 🥰
@terrybrown7510
@terrybrown7510 Жыл бұрын
This page helped me change my life and more importantly my mindset! I know that God is doing a work on me and moving me closer to my purpose!!!💯🙏🙏
@drekathigpen4869
@drekathigpen4869 2 жыл бұрын
Because I myself am a flawed individual, I don’t expect any man that the Lord has called me to help to be perfect. That’s the entire point of help. I take accountability for being scorned by trying to help men who I was not in covenant with. But you have to shed that fear to be able to help your husband and speak to the king in him, not build him but help him grow just as he will see something in you that you don’t see and will support you in getting there.
@tru_hart
@tru_hart 2 жыл бұрын
I fully agree that culture has the ear of women today.. that we place unrealistic expectations on men and move the goalposts in search of obtaining some perfect caricature of a man. The focus has been the material and superficial and not the spiritual. Kingdom men and women are those who are seeking first the kingdom of God (Matt 6:33). However, men who are “kingdom kids” are not ready for the heavy duties and responsibilities that come with being the head of a household. They are to sit under the leadership of God until they are weaned off milk and ready for meat (1 Peter 2:2, Hebrews 5:12-14) Wives are not called to “build” husbands. That’s God’s job. That is what He does in us through the power of the Holy Spirit. He who began a good work in us will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ (Phil. 1:6), it is God who works in us both to will and to do for His good pleasure (Phil 2:13). God is the author and finisher of our faith (Heb. 12:2) Instead wives are called to respect, obey, reverence, be a helpmeet, submit to and encourage their husbands. (Eph 5:22-24,33; 1 Pet. 3:1-5; Col 3:18; Titus 2:5, Gen 2:18, Prov 31.. We are all growing from glory to glory in this kingdom walk. (2 Cor 3:18) but anyone that vulnerable or susceptible to having kingdom choked or squeezed out of him isn’t ready be a husband/to lead a family and any woman that is imposing earthly and superficial standards on a man isnt ready to be a wife. Let both establish that solid Rock foundation first.
@maggievada4797
@maggievada4797 2 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@ginaafrican3680
@ginaafrican3680 2 жыл бұрын
Amen.... Well said indeed.
@j.j2846
@j.j2846 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@allendennison3428
@allendennison3428 8 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@nayinayi1
@nayinayi1 2 жыл бұрын
Kingdom men are not born, they are made! True in everyway...We also need to understand that kingdom women are not born, they are made - it is a process! Culture is against all, not just one gender - but all genders. This is needed bcz those who claim to be kingdom men & women, have been not invested in the word - we have settled on being superficial & we are without sight & wisdom.
@maggievada4797
@maggievada4797 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent words. Thank you.
@allendennison3428
@allendennison3428 8 ай бұрын
Dr. Myles Monroe is a great source to learn from on the teaching of the kingdom principles.
@cadenorris4009
@cadenorris4009 2 жыл бұрын
Man! I'm a white man, but I absolutely LOVE the preaching of both you and Jerry! You have given so much wisdom, and it makes me appreciate the fire and fervor in the hearts of African American ministers. God bless you.
@prettyinpink230
@prettyinpink230 2 жыл бұрын
My GOODNESS!!!… I’m @ work teary eyed. I take full accountability for what I was NOT in my marriage. I feel like I’m in training lately for my next season….
@celiese03
@celiese03 2 жыл бұрын
I cannot wait for God to send the husband He has for me but I will worship and submit to God while I wait! This series is everything. I just ended a situationship because he was not a leader of himself so I knew he couldn't lead me. Got to be intentional and be in the will of God. My arms are ready for him to rest and be safe with me whenever God sends him! See you soon Husband! 😊
@abeekuworldchanger380
@abeekuworldchanger380 5 ай бұрын
Honestly, keep doing that. Understand when people say faith is attractive. It really has benefit in our lives.
@HisHemDanceMinistry
@HisHemDanceMinistry 2 жыл бұрын
15:25 ~ She saw the Kingdom in him, even though it was in 'kid' form! THIS!!! * 31:30 ~ 'Don't suffocate, don't kill, the Kingdom in him because it's in kid form.' * 41:00 ~ 'A man will settle down ... with who makes him feel (home).' #CuffingSeasonTheSeries #CuffingSeason2022 #CuffingSeason
@sukislide
@sukislide 2 жыл бұрын
Listening to these sermons and even the ones after this are helpful for me. When I show my wife these sermons, she misses the point and want to reverse what the pastor is saying. It's like she refuses to take accountability for her actions and deflect them. It's rough sometimes because we can be having a good time and the next minute she brings up something that kills vibe/moment. Its like she does it on purpose. I love her with my heart but I need her to speak more life into me instead it feels like she rather just tear me down.
@GQ-jv9uw
@GQ-jv9uw 2 жыл бұрын
She has a her problem
@danyhoward5103
@danyhoward5103 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe tell her you need her to "speak life" into you simply using examples. Or start speaking life into her continuously. I had to learn in my marriage somethings/messages were solely for me, not to share with my spouse but to act on accordingly to be the change I wanted to see.
@amirperrymusic
@amirperrymusic 2 жыл бұрын
I had this same experience. It’s like she can’t look at herself for nothing.
@abeekuworldchanger380
@abeekuworldchanger380 5 ай бұрын
Jerry Flowers in the previous sermon talked about communication. Have you communicated that with her? Also, a year since your comment was posted. How is the marriage going compared to where things were a year ago?
@YatandeSarah
@YatandeSarah 2 ай бұрын
It’s maybe because when she gets in her feelings she doesn’t fully communicate how she feels. I hope it’s better now tho
@PatriceElam
@PatriceElam 2 жыл бұрын
This Word right here tho….. Whew… if people are offended they just gonna have to be offended because this was TRUTH. We need to dispel all the lies that culture has taught us. When Pastor Curry said, “does it matter to you if he’s doing what he is called to do although it doesn’t provide you the lifestyle of the image that you have in your head” 😫😩 THAT PART RIGHT THERE!!!
@abeekuworldchanger380
@abeekuworldchanger380 5 ай бұрын
Yup. We have to be offended. That's where truth is and that's when growth happens.
@yahkar
@yahkar 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾Speaking from a Kingdom Man's perspective; society tricked women into thinking we care about what society cares about. We Dont! We never really cared about how well your Mac Makeup is or how well you can fashion your locs on your journey through life. I didnt see my mother caring that much like women do today. I didnt see my Grandmother caring that much like Grandmothers do today. They are my example of good women because they didnt conform to what society was doing at every turn. Us as Kingdom men honestly just want to know if I invest all my Love, Time, Commitment, Integrity, Money, and Husbandry into you; Will you reciprocate that in a way that makes me want to Never Leave You nor Forsake You. Your make up doesnt matter in this case. Will I feel safe in your arms not just during the good times, but also through the worst times? It doesnt matter how long your locs are, how long can you be down for me? Yeah your eyelashes are thick, but are you willing to endure when it gets thick in life? Like @Isaac Curry was saying in the message; we as men just want to feel safe enough that we can bring out that inner boy, then we can express our true selves. We can open up the locker of our heart and let you help heal what's inside as our Kingdom Woman. For a woman to tell her man " *You are a Good Man* " and he cries; That would be my reaction too. (Curry's) If one of my ex's told me "* Your a King Amongst Men* " bruuuuuuuh I'd be on the floor on a knee like marry me now we can pick your ring out tomorrow🤣🤣🤣 (Flowers) I hear encouragement from my Mom and Dad, but if my future wife said it. I would cry just knowing that she took notice enough to validate it. We all have baggage and things locked in our Heart Locker. When the other lets something out is when we should be the most caring and encouraging. That will allow that issue to remain out the locker (wall taken down) and other issues to be more likely to be freed as trust is built. Good Lesson @Isaac Curry you really made the 🚩🚩🚩 show in people today. All Glory to YaH 🙌🏾
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 2 жыл бұрын
Hmmmmmm. I watched this movie called break every chain. It's based off of a true story. Everytime this woman would pray over her husband she would say, God he's a good good man. No matter what he was or wasn't doing. She would start the prayer out like that. They had a bit of a rough patch, but God brought them through it, and out of it in Jesus name. AMEN
@ryansmith7721
@ryansmith7721 2 жыл бұрын
Love this!!! Amen!!!
@foreverfavored729
@foreverfavored729 2 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said!
@JT-sc4ke
@JT-sc4ke 2 жыл бұрын
Brah, Man, My brotha…. All I can say is…. So duly noted and Amen!!!
@iamissaccurry
@iamissaccurry 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your perspective brother. Bless you man.
@camillatucker9802
@camillatucker9802 2 жыл бұрын
Being a single 30 year old in this time this entire series has been needed‼️ thank you so much for the guidance
@chillycity8885
@chillycity8885 2 жыл бұрын
“If the rib ain’t right, he can’t stand straight” Amen I receive that
@AyoAwotona
@AyoAwotona 2 жыл бұрын
"One of the greatest threats to the manifestation of more Kingdom men is culture influencing Kingdom through the minds and mouths of women who profess to be Godly". WOW!! I had to pause right that and type that up so I could better process that. WOW! That was NASTY 😂. SOOOOO GOOD Sir!!!!
@valeriasannchez
@valeriasannchez 2 жыл бұрын
I used to be a radical feminist and be around a lesbian community here in Brazil. I met Jesus. I’m married now to a kingdom man. Thank you for what you’re doing. Is blessing my life and my husband’s life in a wonderful way. God bless you ❤
@spiritandtruth194
@spiritandtruth194 2 жыл бұрын
A truth teller should never worry about bringing offense. Drop it (truth), and let ‘em deal with it!
@victoriawilford8797
@victoriawilford8797 Жыл бұрын
I've never watched a sermon on this channel before. I literally wrote down bible scriptures last night in preparation for my help mate! This is confirmation and so helpful!! Thank you!
@msaverielle
@msaverielle Жыл бұрын
Be his peace in the chaos.❤
@abbib7347
@abbib7347 2 жыл бұрын
That’s a beautiful sermon filled with wisdom! However, these pastors received that type of grace from their women because they were in their early 20’s. Most of us single women of God watching are in our 30’s. A man in his late 30’s and early 40’s ,needs to have gone through that pruning and building process before me. I can help multiply his fruit, but anything multiplied by 0 =0 🤷🏾‍♀️
@tribeofbenjamin6
@tribeofbenjamin6 2 жыл бұрын
So what were you doing in your 20’s?
@abbib7347
@abbib7347 2 жыл бұрын
@@tribeofbenjamin6 giving grace and helping men I wasn’t called to help…you know what a lot of misguided women do 😭
@tribeofbenjamin6
@tribeofbenjamin6 2 жыл бұрын
@@abbib7347 Hey sis, I get it. I was doin the same thing, being disobedient, extending “grace” to the wrong women.. But I pray you seek The Most High and find a true Kingdom spouse 🙏🏼🙌🏼
@abbib7347
@abbib7347 2 жыл бұрын
@@tribeofbenjamin6 thank you sir, all the best to you 🙏🏾
@GQ-jv9uw
@GQ-jv9uw 2 жыл бұрын
True 😂
@ninasky7
@ninasky7 2 жыл бұрын
A partner in spiritual warfare!! Yes !! Exactly!
@reneejohnson7521
@reneejohnson7521 2 жыл бұрын
I love when he speaks. He is so transparent and it resignates in his messages.
@deneanetucker374
@deneanetucker374 2 ай бұрын
Once GOD is leading us we cnt b wrg. Though it's a process we will progress. Amen
@rachelwalkuw6199
@rachelwalkuw6199 2 жыл бұрын
This message is exactly what I needed in this season of my life. Im now just trying to live in my truest calling which is to be “a rib”. To help him on his journey but not push him or lead him.
@niyavernice
@niyavernice 2 жыл бұрын
THIS IS SOOO GOOD!!!!!! My only worry is that I try to be the wife he needs and he takes advantage of that.
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 2 жыл бұрын
Why are you worried about that?
@ThisAndThat4All
@ThisAndThat4All 2 жыл бұрын
@@ladennayoung2939 isn't it obvious? because there's a real chance he might actually take advantage. Maybe not in the beginning but after a while, when he gets too comfortable
@niyavernice
@niyavernice 2 жыл бұрын
@@ThisAndThat4All I’ve had my share of heartache!
@mrsbrownsugarsweetz
@mrsbrownsugarsweetz 2 жыл бұрын
I understand because it has happened to me. However my advice would be to always seek God and keep Him first. We pray to God for the husband but we don’t continue to seek Him for the marriage, in every stage. If u wait for ur purpose partner, and he really serves God, u don’t have to worry. Just continue to seek God and to pray together and for each other. Remember God will never let u be forsaken, so u don’t have to worry.
@mrsbrownsugarsweetz
@mrsbrownsugarsweetz 2 жыл бұрын
Oh and don’t do anything that u don’t want to do for the rest of ur life. ❤
@gabriellejames4976
@gabriellejames4976 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate what he expounded on about Eve and how God made her. Making is a process and we’re all in the process of being more like Jesus.
@novlettemillerdilworth483
@novlettemillerdilworth483 2 жыл бұрын
I can appreciate some of what Pastor is saying. The question is; why was Bro Isaac harkening to the voice of his first Fiancee by trying to be what she wanted? Why wasn't he following Jesus? When I examine Scripture, Adam was not under-developed, he disobeyed a direct command by harkening to the voice of Eve. Abram, just like Sarai, was exposed to the same culture and he chose to harken unto Sarai. Job rebuked his wife when she was listening to culture; which was to curse God and die. So when we are walking with Jesus and culture presents itself, we have a will to choose to follow Jesus or harken to the voice of culture. It is good to be encouraged but when you know the truth the onus is on you to rebuke/correct those who do not know or do not want to submit.
@healinghubwithPraiseMercy
@healinghubwithPraiseMercy 2 жыл бұрын
Whoa!!! I've been away quite a minute and then I come back to this!!! Whoa!!!! This is truly powerful, may God help me to see the king in the man He brings my way; I have certainly been reprimanded on the issue of wanting a ready-made king...🙌🏾
@abeekuworldchanger380
@abeekuworldchanger380 5 ай бұрын
Yes, I beg you in the name of Jesus. A lot of us kingdom men are definitely trusting God for a spouse, but this sermon is also evident that there are some out there that aren't the Proverbs 31 woman is representing. He needs to know how to lead, but many men are looking for someone who will listen and allow us to feel heard and not shut us down 🙏🏾
@chanelle.n
@chanelle.n 6 ай бұрын
This was a tough word but it was much needed. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@yolandawilliams3319
@yolandawilliams3319 2 жыл бұрын
WHAT AN ON FIRE MESSAGE THAT PASTOR ISAAC BROUGHT ON TODAY! IT WAS VERY HOLY SPIRIT FILLED AND EDUCATIONAL AS MANY OF US WOMEN THINK WE HAVE THE WHOLE PUZZLE OF LIFE FIGURED OUT BUT ARE STILL MISSING PIECES! THANK YOU PASTOR ISSAC FOR WAKING ME UP IN AREAS THAT I DIDN'T KNOW WAS ASLEEP! I PRAY THAT GOD CONTINUES TO FILL YOU WITH HIS ANOINTING OIL DAILY AS YOU SEEK HIS PERFECTION!
@OG_Genesis216
@OG_Genesis216 2 жыл бұрын
This was soooooo good. I needed this right now. Lord, I pray for every kingdom wife who is striving to become our kingdom husbands peace, partner, and help mate. TEACH us, how to do that. Give us the discernment on when to help and when to allow our kingdom husband to lead. Show us what a wife does and help us shed anything that a wife doesn't do. We understand that marriage is kingdom business and we want to be about our fathers business, along side our kingdom husband. Amen🙏
@theshift2024
@theshift2024 2 жыл бұрын
love that this is directed to Christian Women we need to listen and think about this. Then go to God and repent.
@joycewatt800
@joycewatt800 2 жыл бұрын
This is a word of wisdom and knowledge right here. Culture is misleading many women. Don’t follow the crowd. Follow the narrow path. Follow instructions from God and His Word only.
@sjsu5685
@sjsu5685 2 жыл бұрын
I think overall this was a great and necessary message! I was able to read between the lines and understand the true meaning of some statements that didn’t initially sit well. Based on comments, it seems like everyone has an understanding of what Pastor Isaac was trying to communicate to us. However, I do agree some points could have been communicated better and teased out a little more. We are all human though, I think we are all guilty of miscommunications. That’s why it’s our responsibility to know the word so we can better understand. I receive the intended message and stand in agreement.
@doreneagministries7406
@doreneagministries7406 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I had to read between the line to.
@Nay-ji4zs
@Nay-ji4zs 2 жыл бұрын
Same. However, the problem is this message is online for all to see and hear. So someone who doesn't have bible background and are is not able to "read between the lines" can get the wrong message from this.
@doreneagministries7406
@doreneagministries7406 Жыл бұрын
@@Nay-ji4zs I totally agree, however, being a pastor myself. I scan the room because it's like teaching our children to understand is more than just imparting information. It's helping our children get the doctrine into their hearts. So we should never teach people on a level to have to read between the lines, we must teach with understanding. We're not going to tell our children to read between the lines, we're going to make sure they understand and that's what leaders should do. Everyone is not churched and will not read between the lines.
@abeekuworldchanger380
@abeekuworldchanger380 5 ай бұрын
I think it's a good message, but like anyone we listen to, we should go back to the Lord. That's helped me in my walk with God for years. You'd be Surprised what the Lord will show you. Listen and hear the word , but then afterwards, what is the Lord showing us after the word we heard? Lots I could say, but I trust Gods final authority more because people are human . That's why there's no perfect church /perfect pastor
@ChanelMichelle99
@ChanelMichelle99 9 ай бұрын
0:34 They laughing, but I felt the anointing in that prayer 💕
@tyeishablackson5874
@tyeishablackson5874 2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽👏🏽I received all of that! Thank you for that message.. actually this teaching came right on time for my current season.
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 2 жыл бұрын
And those who HEAR you. Thank you Lord Jesus Christ of Nazareth. WE have to choose to hear what God is trying to say through His vessels, people, and messengers in Jesus name. AMEN.
@Issicfrom401
@Issicfrom401 7 ай бұрын
This was my last relationship to the point wow😮💪🏾🙏🏾💖
@enaruvie
@enaruvie 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this brothers candour. 15:02
@LRNJ-43
@LRNJ-43 Жыл бұрын
Simply put...this so good y'all!!! Thank you IC and Redefined TV 📺. Go forward and higher 📈 in the Lord.
@LilyDenise
@LilyDenise 2 жыл бұрын
This message was so profound! Thank you, Pastor Curry! 🔥🙏🏽
@wavynaturalista
@wavynaturalista 2 жыл бұрын
“I guess I woke up this morning and chose violence.” -Pastor Issac Curry (shortly before snatching our collective hairlines, lives, and birth certificates ) 🙆🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️
@amaragrace94
@amaragrace94 Жыл бұрын
I am just learning what I need in a husband by reading the bible. Sadly, my dad just wasn't it, though he had some positive qualities. Culture ain't it. God is it🙌.
@abeekuworldchanger380
@abeekuworldchanger380 5 ай бұрын
If you're attending a Church or even have articles or books to read on kingdom marriage or even KZbin content, look at that. I'm glad I grew up in the Church, but I want a marriage where the fire of God is real. Where it's not just attending Church, but being the Church in everyday life. Culture definitely isn't it. That's why we shouldn't look at ungodly marriages in our lives as examples. Love on them, yes, but they're not examples to follow.
@amaragrace94
@amaragrace94 5 ай бұрын
@@abeekuworldchanger380 I definitely did/do that. A year later and I'm happily in a relationship that is Christ-centered and the goal is marriage. We have our firm foundation who enables us to love and support each other through times of celebration, struggle, transition, sickness, and so on. Healthiest relationship for me.
@abeekuworldchanger380
@abeekuworldchanger380 5 ай бұрын
@@amaragrace94 GLORY TO GOD!!!! Hallelujah. Yes Jehovah. Thank you Lord. That's awesome to hear. Praise be to God
@chocolatetiea1127
@chocolatetiea1127 2 жыл бұрын
Tanisha cracking up and commenting in the background does it for me everytime 🤣 😂
@ryansmith7721
@ryansmith7721 2 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhhhhhh Lord!!! If culture had her ear…Lord help me not conform to this world!!! 🙌🏾❤️💪🏾🙏🏾💜
@SB-ze9xs
@SB-ze9xs 2 жыл бұрын
Ouch, hallelujah!!!! Very good Word.
@ceeare12345
@ceeare12345 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not feeling this one. There was one nugget I thought was good but so far I feel this is off. Fundamentally, a man should absolutely be ready to lead before he enters into a relationship with a woman. Women are not bob the builders. A man is the one who should lead; not her. I don’t think women should “put up” or “stick around” with a man who hasn’t fully matured into a “king” from jump of the relationship. Nope.
@Beredefined
@Beredefined 2 жыл бұрын
Interesting outlook, the truth of the matter is, if a biblical definition of a wife is a “Help Meet” that must mean by default, there must be some places he can’t meet without her help 🤷🏾‍♂️ There’s not a kingdom husband you’ll ever find that will tell you that his wife has not helped him evolve in his manhood, not one. Every woman who desires a husband is literally saying, God send me someone I can help. Because the biblical definition of wife is helper. Pastor Issac hit it on the nail when he says that culture has made us overlook that Wait until this coming Sunday when Pastor Flowers preaches “Wife Is The Tile, Help Meet Is The Function” 😮‍💨
@BearingMySeoul
@BearingMySeoul 2 жыл бұрын
Whether or not you like the message, you must be pretty young if you haven't yet realized it's true. LOL 40+ single, childless, never-married and been in church the whole time. It is what it is. 🤷‍♀
@ceeare12345
@ceeare12345 2 жыл бұрын
@@BearingMySeoul I’m 28 so I’m definitely never above gaining wisdom as I get older. Praise God for the fact that we constantly grow and learn as life goes on. 💛
@abeekuworldchanger380
@abeekuworldchanger380 5 ай бұрын
This may be true, but Id say there were other aspects of the message that women can learn humility in too. Men are often being put down in marriages because some women don't validate the man nor listen to him. Yet there are some women who expect the man to be all these things. Yes he needs to lead, and he the head and that's what the Bible says. But one should also be asking the question if the environment is safe for the man to do so. Marriages run into issues if either the man or woman aren't communicating or listening to one another, which Jerry Flowers talked about in the previous message. Furthermore, the kind of man you're describing, some aspects are true, but in this faith walk, we'll never arrive completely because everyday is a day for learning and growth in Christ. Even things you'll learn a month from now will be different than what you knew 5 years ago. Could some parts have been worded better? Absolutely, but we should go back to God's word when it comes to these messages and spend time with him to hear him for ourselves
@burnettbianca
@burnettbianca 2 жыл бұрын
Another great message! Thank you.
@ceeare12345
@ceeare12345 2 жыл бұрын
I always gotta up the playback speed with this one
@adorablebelle
@adorablebelle 2 жыл бұрын
Isaac is preaching these days!
@keh-dalia809
@keh-dalia809 2 жыл бұрын
There's a great fundamental flaw with this teaching. A godly man is someone who sincerely wants the Lord and is taught by the Lord through his daily pursuit of the Lord, through being in the word, in prayer and seeking HIM. A man is supposed to be lead by the Lord making him the head and leader of him, and through the relationship with the Lord he learns how to lead a wife. The bible clearly says how a husband should lead, and likewise how a wife behaves. But this teaching is putting it on women to be the leader and train up a man, that is backwards. I can agree that culture is influencing people in the church, and that's not good. But the solution is to be influenced and transformed by God and the word and obey God word. That is God's way and it works!!
@ronasykes4416
@ronasykes4416 2 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY
@lifechangingbeats5151
@lifechangingbeats5151 2 жыл бұрын
@Keh-Dalia This message is absolutely not putting everything on women. It is however putting a demand on women to love a man where he is and not where they think he should be. And he did not say that women should train up a man. He said women should love the kingdom kid in him because while he is being led by God he will be transformed by God and he will ultimately mature in his walk. Women are called to help, and the main problem he is pointing out is that women don’t give men enough time to grow in their walk with Christ but they would rather see him “there” already.
@Chantusyluvmuzik
@Chantusyluvmuzik 2 жыл бұрын
@@lifechangingbeats5151 well said and explained for those didn’t get the message as it was given
@maggievada4797
@maggievada4797 2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY the SAME point I made in the comments section. Thank you. With that said he may have other videos on the channel more on point? Possibly and probably so. Your assessment was correct overall. Yeah. Ain't none of us perfect and maybe he can pay attention to "clarity" the next time he speaks on this subject. Peace of Christ. Have a blessed day now 🤗
@torimathew7241
@torimathew7241 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. I've made peace with my singleness. If I don't find a man who isn't already there and being led by God and ready to lead a family, I'm okay with remaining single.
@traceydumase
@traceydumase 2 жыл бұрын
"Are you being led by the Holy Spirit of God" Mmm👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@maggievada4797
@maggievada4797 2 жыл бұрын
He sounds more like a grown man needing a parent/child relationship with his Wife. And had some good points about female superficiality. Commentary weaved in and out of reality with truth kernels.
@Beredefined
@Beredefined 2 жыл бұрын
Or He sounds like a grown man trying to remind a generation that the purpose and biblical definition of a wife is “Help Meet” Which must mean by default there’s some places he can’t meet without her help If you desire a husband, you’re desiring God to send you someone who needs help. Stick around as the series continues, there’s a lot of unlearning that needs to happen in all of us.
@lailaav
@lailaav Жыл бұрын
Train yourself trough kingdom
@GQ-jv9uw
@GQ-jv9uw 2 жыл бұрын
We definitely suppose to learn and develop together unless you plan on getting together in your 30s because if you wasn't raised right that's about how long it will take for you to get there and yep BET and music has severally messed us up but to keep it real alot of people play like that about the Bible when they are really not Jesus told us you can tell by there fruits real people that's about the scriptures for real are already headed in the right direction and that Peace part was A1 and love the jacket 🙌
@abeekuworldchanger380
@abeekuworldchanger380 5 ай бұрын
Oh goodness, Black Entertainment Television seemed so good when I was in the world. Praise God he delivered me from it years ago. Or even these messages when you look at shows like Jersey Shore or the Bachelor/Bachelorette...... All these influences culture have really have affected the minds of believers. That's why this is a message men and women need to learn and unlearn things
@bigboy23005
@bigboy23005 Жыл бұрын
Man you PREACHED THIS!!!
@MsBuffalo
@MsBuffalo 2 жыл бұрын
💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽 Pastor Curry…thank you!!!
@JT-sc4ke
@JT-sc4ke 2 жыл бұрын
OH OMG, OH OMG! My brotha, brethren, You are preaching, real I mean super duper real good! for real, for real! I would say the same thing people would look at me like I'm crazy or hurting. I am enjoying you and your dove ministry. Yes sir! gotta stay connected. Keep preaching and teaching truth! Yes old wives fables, so duly noted and Amen!! Praise Yeshua!!!!!!
@LJene
@LJene 2 жыл бұрын
Loving rebuke, thank you🙏🏾
@Shawn_Shawn
@Shawn_Shawn 2 жыл бұрын
when I say, this has hit home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Walk that thing PREACHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@shondamiller4552
@shondamiller4552 2 жыл бұрын
This was 🔥 I have definitely learned from this
@princessreesepieces
@princessreesepieces 2 жыл бұрын
Walking with you👍🏼💯👀👂🏽👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@RhenaLoveTarot
@RhenaLoveTarot 6 ай бұрын
Lord help my husband mentally ,etc
@IAMCARLAHADDEN
@IAMCARLAHADDEN 2 жыл бұрын
This is soooo Gooood!!!! 🔥🔥🔥
@karensimmons4560
@karensimmons4560 2 жыл бұрын
Great teaching 👍👏👌❤
@eileenn2383
@eileenn2383 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor for this very much needed message.
@kimbrown4772
@kimbrown4772 2 жыл бұрын
He talking real!
@chriswilhite9155
@chriswilhite9155 2 жыл бұрын
Amen brother❤ May The Great I AM keep you!
@kawaniabrickhouse9353
@kawaniabrickhouse9353 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for word Man of God!!!!! “ Peace”
@vanessaweaver1826BIRDIEBOO
@vanessaweaver1826BIRDIEBOO 2 жыл бұрын
POWERFUL WORD 🙌☝️🎤🎤😁❣️❣️❣️💃💃
@robertclarko78
@robertclarko78 2 ай бұрын
Amen amen amen
@debbiemelancon1391
@debbiemelancon1391 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome word!
@lisagoldsmith7435
@lisagoldsmith7435 2 жыл бұрын
There’s a difference if this man is draining the life out of you!!! I was bout dead dealing with this man!!! I kept pouring and pouring and getting nothing in return!!!
@geebee4166
@geebee4166 2 жыл бұрын
Your not supposed to pour he’s supposed to pour you receive and multiply
@scheherazadewherry1410
@scheherazadewherry1410 2 жыл бұрын
Culture is a trick....come on and PREACH
@jvdh1887
@jvdh1887 2 жыл бұрын
As a woman..God builtme!!
@narrowwalkwithlynn
@narrowwalkwithlynn 2 жыл бұрын
This was realllyyy good!!!! 🔥 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@msaverielle
@msaverielle Жыл бұрын
Ask yourself “Can he lead himself”?, “Does he know the WORD of God”?
@jessicalong6011
@jessicalong6011 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother 🙏🏾
@beekreative6217
@beekreative6217 2 жыл бұрын
Whew he cutting up!!! 😅😅 I hear you Rev 💯🦾
@latavious48
@latavious48 2 жыл бұрын
19:00 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨…. Thank you pastah!!!
@vanessajohnson7662
@vanessajohnson7662 2 жыл бұрын
Teach💖💖💖
@againstallodds144
@againstallodds144 2 жыл бұрын
Powerful message 🕊♥😌👐
@shondamiller4552
@shondamiller4552 2 жыл бұрын
This was so good
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lord. In JESUS name we pray. AMEN.
@_humblekay7075
@_humblekay7075 2 жыл бұрын
Anything that has no relationship to God is profane
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 2 жыл бұрын
I was led to speak on this earlier, and how we need to let it go. Because it's a form of a generational curse. And it must cease, stop, and GO.
@Phebe10
@Phebe10 2 жыл бұрын
Come on Lanite!!! Preach!
@reneeorsak1144
@reneeorsak1144 2 жыл бұрын
Help us!!!! Wow
@AshleyHicks-fp8di
@AshleyHicks-fp8di 2 жыл бұрын
this is all good if the man desires to seek the kingdom.....what if he doesnt want the change?
@lisagoldsmith7435
@lisagoldsmith7435 2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know who I was, so I definitely couldn’t see who he was.
@carohndz6059
@carohndz6059 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message
@itsnothardtotalkabout-minl8012
@itsnothardtotalkabout-minl8012 2 жыл бұрын
It’s also important to know “What Husband/Men” shouldn’t do! A lot of times when men try to get the attention of a woman he is attracted to his flattery, gifts 🎁 and the impression he gives us in the beginning she will want to susbtain that! Be mindful that women see potential but be who u are MEN - the authentic u so she can fall in love with that, verses your representative!!! Also chose a full size woman vs a a small woman who can cook and spoiled.. Men are so visual- choose Wisely men. Look beyond beauty!
@latiffany8682
@latiffany8682 2 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@arthan06
@arthan06 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@erikaplayer3426
@erikaplayer3426 2 жыл бұрын
🙌
@jesmodelx2831
@jesmodelx2831 2 жыл бұрын
🙏
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 2 жыл бұрын
You can't ever learn by choosing to speak to soon.
@doreneagministries7406
@doreneagministries7406 2 жыл бұрын
Some people listen to anything and call it God.
@abeekuworldchanger380
@abeekuworldchanger380 5 ай бұрын
Sad but true. I hear it a lot in the Church too. Then when you ask certain people if they went to God about it first, it's like some give this very disgusted or unhappy look. Some even take it far as to use their feelings not to go to God. Anything above God in our lives in an idol.
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