Never try to please anyone anymore. I learned my lesson.
@CampingFever6 ай бұрын
Hater’s will hate n in America the land of the free it’s not all about relatives everyone for their own
@ouradventuresnspecialmoments6 ай бұрын
Go to God! Only his love is unconditional ❤️ Those relatives are only users!
@kaoxiong61486 ай бұрын
Sometimes, you don’t have to have relatives…just focus on your success and ignore the envy people…you should never shed a tear to evil and envy people, especially your relatives…😩!
@hollyzx4305 ай бұрын
Always keep your life private and circle small. You don’t owe anyone anything. If you do, do it freely with no expectations. Most of the time, the only person/people that will be there for you in the end is your significant other and your children. Best of luck!
@user-bw9ro3jz4v6 ай бұрын
Haters are usually families. Just like you said "only family knows you no one else do" its true. Having a better life makes everyone jealous. Families will compete with one another out of jealous just because they wanna be the top. When they cannot be the top, they will find ways to ruin your marriage or life. It also test how strong your love is for one another.
@enangthao85096 ай бұрын
People want you to do good but never better than them.
@chiachang-p8k6 ай бұрын
Not all friends are true. It’s better to have no friends than a fake friend. They don’t pay your bills so live your life. Stay away from negative people is the best healthy life.
@jqhuahawj32726 ай бұрын
Life is truly sad in a sense of “belonging” when one comes into this world as an orphan. Pple only want to know/remember you is when they need something from you, that benefits them. Money is the #1.
I don't know why people hate so much. They hate you when you're poor, hate you when you have money. So I'd rather be hated for having money.
@ThePrincessWorrior6 ай бұрын
Treat people outside of your spouse and children in a moderation and consistency without telling them your financial situation (+/-) they won’t know what to gossip about you. But when you went on the extreme like these people and then later change to the opposite extreme, then of course people’s egos will get disturbed and jellyfishes will fly like birds. Me, I go to relatives’ events on my own term and schedule. No body knows how poor or rich i am. I don’t ask about people’s financial situations and open no mouth about my own. I have no known enemy in our relatives. Everyone there, i treat equal, no dramas, no gossips, no side taking, no favorites.
@ShouaTojsiab6 ай бұрын
Stay away from these haters and go on with your life. You don’t need people like these in your life. They’re just too jealous of you. Jealousy can kill people. Ua neeg nyob ces luag hlub yus li cas hlub luag txij li ntawd xwb mog.
@cealla9996 ай бұрын
Damn that lady was so jealous of you to even make a fool out of herself. I wonder if her husband divorced her or maybe they were in it together. Glad you left
@xisha8736 ай бұрын
Yog kawg vim lawv khib koj tshaw koj lub neej thiaj xav rhuav koj lub neej mas
@mayxiong53736 ай бұрын
OMGGGG stop with the pettiness of not having any support or respect from your friends or family!! You are winning in your own rights and your life. I would not be sad or keep on dwelling that people don’t respect us because I have no family.
@KathyLee-o7k6 ай бұрын
It so true what this story say...
@chanmanyher46326 ай бұрын
Cas koj txoj neej neeg yuav thooj li kuv txoj thiab os. Thaum yus txom nyem los lawv ntxub yus vim lawv ntshai tsam yus mus thov lawv. Ho thaum yus ho muaj dua lawv lawm los lawv ntxub yus vim lawv khib yus lawm thiab.. tu siab kawg peb cov uas tsi muaj kwv tij niam txiv ib plab 😢😢
@crystalxiong7356 ай бұрын
Good story thiab hais tau zoo kawg.
@lisvaj73756 ай бұрын
Jealous people are like this, they are your biggest haters cause they want to be just like you but can’t. Keep doing you booboo!
@nkaujmoobleeg6 ай бұрын
Wow! You both were smart n alert! If not, your marriage would have failed. Your niam ntxawm was a dog!
@jiaxiong89916 ай бұрын
Haters will always hate because you’re doing something right and they think you’re better than them so they try to make you look bad. Seems this so called niam ntxawm is just so jelous of you that she has every agenda to ruin your life. Glad you and your husband are strong and smart not to believe them.
@MaryLee-mo8rr6 ай бұрын
Agree but not always. Many times people just made up their story and claim to be the innocent one.
@พรสวรรค์-จ1ค4 ай бұрын
ชง. ... .....,.ใใ......... ............😅
@huntermoua45365 ай бұрын
Don't care what people said just do the right ways sister
@myprecious67516 ай бұрын
Jealousy and envious and greed
@dewmo7676 ай бұрын
Siab dub ce s yeej tsis tau ntuj ntoo li os❤
@XiongLee-yq2cy6 ай бұрын
Mhoob mekas ma lim lim kawg li
@yerthor42076 ай бұрын
Zoo kawg os cia nw khib2 kom nw huaj cheej kiag lo ma ca Tsi cia nw yuav2 paj rau neb kom nw pluag Kiag na lub ntuj daim av yeej txawj2 pom cov neeg siab phem os cia yawm saub mam txiav txim rau nw os Kav Tsij rau2 khwv kom tsua muaj yeej Xwb os mog
@michaelf27006 ай бұрын
This is why Hmong people have no country...siab phem siab khib li khib tsis sib pab sib txhawb.
Man! I would have flipped that moment when he said he would have borrowed it to me instead. I would have raised hell on the spot. 😢😢
@touxiong77506 ай бұрын
Cov neeg npaj rhuav tshem lwm tus thaum kawg nws yog tus txais txoj kev phem ntawd.
@kelbra36896 ай бұрын
There are people out there with savior complex. They have an inflated sense of self importance and get off on helping those who they feel are under them. Sometimes, when those that they helped surpasses them in life, they convince themselves that their friend would had never been successful without their help. Soon jealousy turns into hate and then they'll do whatever it takes to make sure the world knows that it's because of their help that these people are successful, even when it's not completely true. It's a mental illness when you have uncontrollable anger over your own feelings that your friends and family do not see you as superior to them anymore.
@touathao33976 ай бұрын
Yog kawg
@chouathao21226 ай бұрын
lol these people have nothing better to do. just ignore and stay away from them.
@chaiyang66466 ай бұрын
Good lord. This is why my husband and I don’t have no friends or relatives. Too much drama. I like a drama free life. My husband and I are each other’s best friend. We just moved to a new state and we try to be friends with other Hmong people around here, but when we feel the vibe that they don’t care to be my friend, we stop trying.
@user-xn7rz9pb4b6 ай бұрын
This is why I stay away from people. I only have two very close friends that I stay in contact with and I distance myself from relatives. If they call me to go help or eat, I’ll go if I’m available.
@pajthao48136 ай бұрын
Cov neeg npab li ko tsis tas nrog ua phoojywg los yog txheebze ces khiav kom deb2 xwb
@hlubforlife6 ай бұрын
Just tell him "I'll give you 40K loan, but it's gonna to be 25% interest".😅
@nkaujmoobleeg6 ай бұрын
I hate those net working insurance agents. They literally pressure you n force you, put you in a very awkward position. 😢
@phiablauj9316 ай бұрын
Tsis yog yus kwv yus tij niam txiv yug ib plab ces txhob mus caum cov tsis yog yus kwv yus tij os txawm zoo phem los kav tsij nrog yus pab yus pawg nyob xwb txhob mus raws cov tsis yog yus kwv yus tij os
@MaryLee-mo8rr6 ай бұрын
Tabsis koj yeej pom 1 txhia yog 1 plab los tseem sib foob mus txog court thiab hos, nyob ntawm yus ntsib tus zoo los phem xwb os
Cia kom lawv ntxub yus thiaj tsis muaj leejtwg tab kaum yus os , cov neeg lawv ntxub koj txawm koj yuav maj yuav pluag los lawv ntxub yus os , just move on , go with your dream your goal , no worries about other.
@vuexua87026 ай бұрын
Hmoob siab yeej pheem os hmoob
@tiachang-sn5ic6 ай бұрын
Some people very evil 😈 I have pass I don’t care them waste time
@kevkawmkevpaub61896 ай бұрын
This is the 21st century, and we are living in a modern civilized society. Tsis txhob ua neej nrog neeg txheeb ze lawm. Hmoob twb ua neej li no los ntau txhiab xyoo lawm twb tsis vammeej. Yuav tsum ua neej nrog neeg txawj ntse xwb thiaj vammeej.
@ninjaballer85374 ай бұрын
Well what you put in is what you get out! Yes you’re making money cos you put the work in, but when you don’t wanna attend events then yea people are gonna say something. You gotta balance it out. I have relatives that never want to attend events cos they don’t wanna give away gifts/money….but hey they wonder why no one wants to support them
@dejntshiabhawj82246 ай бұрын
Tus ntsej muag dev no es tuaj txais luaj nyiaj es muaj ntsej muag tiag22 li laiv yom. Cev neeg coj li cia dab coj mus ua nais thov khaws lawm dab teb
@caaspasvang74276 ай бұрын
Cov neeg khib li ntawm cia nws khib nws kom txaus mas hmoob aw….
@bgr46696 ай бұрын
Some hmong people need to get sued for defamation (especially if ur business & reputation is getting affected). The lady in this story needs to get screen shots of those FB pages/comments, then have an attorney send a cease & desist. Also, need to report to police about those flowers/random letters.
@Justin-q4w6d6 ай бұрын
What clan is this..let me know so I can expose them hahahab
@tongyang63146 ай бұрын
Hmoob tus cwj pwm mas ntxim ntxub tshaj thiab khib neeg tshaj plaws li, koj ua tsis tau li luag ua ces txhob khib2 koj tsam koj plaws ho nres, luag ua tau cia luag ua luag.
@gaosayvu65546 ай бұрын
Xa paj tuaj ces muab ntsaws thoob khib nyiab xwb mas es thaij duab tib si xa rau nws ntag kom nws pom es nws txhob xa xa paj tuaj lawm
@xeeramirez94616 ай бұрын
Ua cas tsi mus ua mekas kwv tij xwb xav xav muaj kwv tij hmoob ces zoo li koj hais xwb nawb mog
@sengyang54026 ай бұрын
Cov neeg phem ko ces yeej txais tiag yog muab ces tag zoo yog tsi muab tsi txais rau xwb . Tsi txais ces hais tiag dag xwb yog txais ces lauv noj dawb xwb mas mog yus txom nyem lawv zoo siab xwb . Yus muaj ces luag ntxub yus lawv liam yus tub sab xwb sim me neej noj yus yog tus neeg luag ntxub ces yus muaj los ntxub yus txom nyem los ntxub li os lawd.
@chiliayang58326 ай бұрын
Viv ncaus tsis txhob mus caum cov kwv tij uas tsis yog yus cov kwv tij li lawv yeej tsis hlub yus kiag li nawb
Cov koces nqa mus ces yeej tsis them yus lawm os, neb tseem muab kuv ces tsis hais li os
@sikamoua67606 ай бұрын
Stop feeling obligated to give people money. That's the reason why we have banks. Block, delete.
@hmongremark26866 ай бұрын
Koj yog neeg txom nyem es koj ho rais ua neeg muaj no ces luag lwm tus yuav pib ntxub koj vim yog luag khib xwb. Yog koj ib txwm muaj, luag tsuas khib xwb. Tus neeg khib koj ntawv yog pib kiag ntawm koj tus identical twin tuaj mus ntag.
@TubLaibVaj5 ай бұрын
No need for these fake kwv tij these day. It’s America. Live for yourself and your family. These older generation just too desperate to get accepted and get fake love and support.
@ameeshayang89496 ай бұрын
Kuv xav mas thaum neb muaj nyiaj lawm ces neb tsa tsa ntswg rau neb cov kwv tij es lWv thiaj li ntxub neb. Feem coob cov neeg muaj nyiaj yeej saib tsis tau cov neeg txom nyem, lawv khav khav theeb xwb….
@ThePrincessWorrior6 ай бұрын
Koj puas yog niag niam ntxawm today ne 😂
@lovinguniversity2166 ай бұрын
Aunty change your battery 🪫. Change your fire detector the battery 🪫 is low. That’s the beeping noise in the background
@nploojsiab236 ай бұрын
Dang!!! 40k es leejtwg muaj muab rau nws nas?? Tsis muaj nyiaj yuav tsheb es tuaj borrow es them puas taus yus rov qab lawm nas? Dang peoples!!! Forgetting about caum tej neeg es tshuav yus li os.
@mainenglee-xiong33446 ай бұрын
Maybe you don’t see your own fault. Not every relatives hate you when you’re successful. Seems like you’re greedy, selfish and cocky at times.
@iavang46235 ай бұрын
Wow. Neeg siab phem tiag tiag li os
@sabrinayang85076 ай бұрын
May, where is that story about the divorcee who was talking to that counselor just to find out he was also married?
@douangvue59626 ай бұрын
Oh Hmoob meskas mas thiaj txawj phem tiag2 siab los lim hiam tshaj plaws li os yom.
@px28246 ай бұрын
I hate stories about gossips. So boring. Grow up people! If they committed a crime or felony, call the cops or take them to court and stop bad mouthing about each other.
@สุภาขวัญวารี6 ай бұрын
😢
@NcoKojTsisPloj6 ай бұрын
Me cas kuv tsis nkag siab es yus ib nyuag muaj luaj pheej ntxub yus ne?
@deucexiong7716 ай бұрын
This lady is using May’s platform to brag about herself. If all her clan hates her, then she obviously has some faults too. We just hear her side.
@nkaujhmoob86jual726 ай бұрын
Peb haiv hmoob mas thaum yus nyob level lower or higher than them....they won't respect you either way.
@debbieyaj46426 ай бұрын
Es neb puas muab hlob puas khav theeb mas es lawv thiaj hais li rau neb. Yog yus coj zoo lawm mas nyaj yuav tsis muaj neeg thuam hais yus qhov phem.
@tubhmoobhmoob29446 ай бұрын
Neb tsev kwv tij ntawm ko yog ib tse kwv tij ruam tshaj npua thiaj ua li ko rau neb, luag tej laus yeej ib txwm hais tias xyeej tsawg xwb tsis xyeej coob, tsev kwv tij ko ruam tiag2
@Niamtswv001096 ай бұрын
Get away from those people
@MaiParadise20246 ай бұрын
Hmoob ces in tug yeej Xav kom ib tug phem tshaj ib tug os tub siab rau hmoob kawg.
@Lubneejlwjsiab856 ай бұрын
Hmoob lub siab yeej zoo li no. TOS hmoob tsis muaj teb chaws os
@avang076 ай бұрын
People really have no life at all
@chakatalee6 ай бұрын
Haters will hate no matter what. Remember to love your family first. We all have haters. I enjoy having haters cause it shows how much better I'm from them...lol
@luckyvang66976 ай бұрын
May you getting so old now
@yinglee11606 ай бұрын
Um… if you claim you’re that innocent then no one would spread rumors around. Ntshe yeej muaj tej yam neb tau ua lawm lawv thiaj tsis nyiam neb.
@tengher61116 ай бұрын
YEP, THATS HMONG CULTURE RIGHT THERE. NOTHING NEW. glad youve moved on.
@pangxiong22736 ай бұрын
Tus mi sister. Mloog koj zaj story tag nrho mas kuv xav li no. Koj zaj no yog pride and dramas xwb. Kuv mloog mas kuv xav tias yuav tim koj lawm. Rau qhov koj cov lus mas yog she said he said nkaus xwb. Ua cas nej yuav taug xaiv ua luaj? Qhov teebmeem tiag yog nej cov ladies taug xaiv dhau lawm xwb. For me, feem ntau tibneeg tsi tuaj taug xaiv rau kuv. Vim tus trouble maker yog tus uas pheej tuaj gossip rau kuv. Txij no mus, txhob listen rau gossip lawm. Close that door. Whoever tells you that so and so is talking about you. Remember, your friends defending you behind your back.
@myprecious67516 ай бұрын
You're too foolish. Why do waste your time and efforts and money on these haters? You should've just distance yourself from them. You should've sued that lady and that guy for deformation, slandering, damaging your reputation, business.
@bliaxiong95636 ай бұрын
Cas muaj ib cos neeg siab phem zoo lis no nyob rau hauv lub ntiajteb no thiab. Thov kom Vajtswv muab ntshem mus pov hlawv kom tag, nyob los nyhav av xwb.
@ntxoovlee84276 ай бұрын
noj mov li cas ho tag $ 1800 nab ? es pes tsawg leej noj ho tag ntau ua luaj li os .
@MaiVang-l5r6 ай бұрын
Kuv kuj xav paub thiab noj mov dab tsi ho tag $1800 ntau dhau lawm hos
@ThePrincessWorrior6 ай бұрын
@@MaiVang-l5r Ntshe ordered txhua yam hauv menus, ib yam 2 taig ne😂 Thaum xav tias yuav tau noj dawb no ces tas mav order lau. Thaum noj tag yuav has raug them ces double taug xaiv ntag
@mailynn80786 ай бұрын
I don’t believe you. There’s always 2 sides to every story. I’m sure they have a good reason why they treated you the way you claimed🙄
@ThePrincessWorrior6 ай бұрын
Pretty sure there’ve been ton of gossip and things gone sideways during each episodes to be that much dramas. In my side relatives or husband’s side, i’m with them on my own term and schedule, no favoritism, no gossips, and aware of boundaries- I don’t have drama. No body knows if my account is empty or overflowing- no one can be jealous of me. I don’t know of theirs, i don’t have to keep and carry them info in my precious head.
@ALiu-u4l5 ай бұрын
Tsi yuav kev kiag lis os cov khibkhib ces tsi yg leej twg yog yu ib co xwb qhov no muaj tseeb
@shengyang8726 ай бұрын
Neb tus txiv ntxawm ntawm ko yog tseem thab ncaj kuv tus thaub thiab mas ntshe nws tau kev tws kiag .
@beevveil22406 ай бұрын
Yeej yog li Nws haus thiab lauv. Nej cov neeg qhib taj laj mas Cuag nej tsis txawj tuag tiag hos. Huas nyiaj nkaus xwb