The #1 Turn Off For Every Woman

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[@rejectionistmanifesto8836]

The woman can depend on a man yet act like a man, but the opposite is bad. Did I get that right?

[@financeinfluencer2158]

Women don’t care about your struggles, they wait at the finish line and pick the winners

[@wc3362]

Sadly, the world has no empathy for the struggles of men

[@DeezNutzMMA]

Shout out to Rich Cooper 😂

[@Nwalker4111]

@@DeezNutzMMA lol fr

[@jazzyone1986]

As she should, every male is not a man.

[@scinnyc]

@@jazzyone1986 Lol And still Black women are the most single women in America. So maybe that strategy isn't working too well

[@tarelakentebe465]

Dating just seems pointless. Feels like the job market at this point

[@Arcilios]

Because it IS like a job and it IS pointless. It's not fun anymore, now it's "you need this list of requirements and prerequisites before I even give you a kiss or a bj". I'm tired of it. Women can f off

[@Roman-lc4wf]

@@Arcilios right. People don't even want to work on relationships and get married. Then why have requirements if People only want to sleep around smh 🙄

[@Arcilios]

@@Roman-lc4wf very true about the not wanting to work on relationships thing. You'll often find the girl doesn't want to discuss accountability, real feelings or talk about real important things right as they arise. She'll either let it build up and talk to sisters, friends, girlfriends and then let that dictate what she says like the girl in this video or she'll be reluctant to support emotionally, actually discuss problems and work together towards solutions, no she'll just go in her phone and talk to other men and that's about it, you lose. It's pretty retarded, yet it's the state of the the "dating game", now.

[@Roman-lc4wf]

@@Arcilios they don't want to put in work these days. Their are good women out there but they are also like unicorns.

[@realitycheck4746]

Like I always say, dating is prostitution with extra steps.

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

Treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan

[@Arcilios]

Facts. So just don't treat her at all

[@oluwarotimiojo6734]

Dude your on every self improvement page on KZbin

[@soul9312]

Gold

[@jsutton241]

Damn, well said

[@atlboi5744]

@@Arcilios nah u treat her like a casual. If u don’t treat her at all you have no connection with her

[@night-stargaming9493]

“Men don’t date potential” because we know y’all won’t want to change, it’s always “Take me as I am or don’t take me at all”

[@LoveIsWar977]

Fck that, I look at the bio in the description and analyze before I swipe 😂

[@nahomaberra9192]

That’s the double standards in full effect ofc 😂

[@teresam5199]

@@nahomaberra9192 No, its just that men and women want different things from their partners. A woman doesn't have to work to achieve the things men want, just maintain her beauty, but men do have to work to achieve resources to provide.

[@tomotombo]

@@teresam5199 its more than beauty women be forgetting they're completely disrespectful ways and expect people to just accept it. More men get left and turned down and cheated on for the pettiest things.

[@tomfassel6563]

@@JustThinkingAboutIt if both of y’all are on the same level financially then who’s raising the kids some stranger? Most guys work long hours and lots of days so if the woman is doing the same who’s raising the kids, taking care of the house, etc.? The only way that works is if you don’t want kids imo

[@r.j.w7924]

I think it's hilarious how she tries to evade every question because she doesn't want to sound "typical" only to finally give the OBVIOUS answer we already knew when pressed. 😂🙄😂

[@garronphillip]

Gentlemen, just don't date until you have your financial life together.

[@diegobriones9219]

Dude exactly. Just gotta do that and be patient till it happens

[@tomibally6546]

Fr

[@chineduamonu2553]

haha basically

[@breakingthemasks]

You better get some practice in though... Because if you do get financially put together, there will be women targeting you. You had better know how to sort them out.

[@chineduamonu2553]

@@breakingthemasks very valid point. Happy hour should be your bestfriend when you're trying to date as you get your financial life together.

[@dominating_reality]

Rule 1 don't believe a word a girl says only what they do in their actions

[@scinnyc]

Facts. Women like this have kids with broke Pookies snd Ray Rays everyday.

[@dominating_reality]

@@scinnyc agreed I see these these youtube interviews with chicks and they straight up lieing saying things like oh personality is better and just be a nice guy meanwhile the alpha is behind the curtain.

[@jennyma.1699]

And men

[@CaesarToland]

Facts!!!

[@leofeza9325]

The same can be said for men.

[@soystef]

This is very relatable, unfortunately, "dating potential" is dangerous and this is why this channel is so important!!

[@unspokentenacity]

Yup for both women and men. I’ve definitely seen guys date potential too.

[@unspokentenacity]

@New Alfa it’s just the natural order of things. Read more Jordan Peterson.

[@scinnyc]

@New Alfa Exactly. It's all just hypocrisy. Most women want to be equal to men but treated like a traditional woman all at the same time.

[@SkyraXD]

@@scinnyc No they don't actually. They actually want the Tradition they just wanted the CHOICE to pick either or. Now they are learning you can't have it all

[@tracemagace8434]

@New Alfa this wasn't about money. Did you hear? It was about AMBITION. Don't get it twisted to fit your own insecurity. Get off yo ass and have direction. Women respect that. Always.

[@kkv6124]

Most important thing to do as a young single man is 2 secure your 💰. Everything else follows in line and if it doesn't you can walk away.

[@valeriobertero8872]

Real talk my fella

[@bigsmall2842]

Or to show proof that you’re working towards that. Dudes needa stop chasing relationships until they’ve built themselves up or are thoroughly in the process of doing so. Men need confidence and ambition, and you aren’t having a successful relationship without either

[@kkv6124]

@@bigsmall2842 facts

[@soloyolo904]

Its contradictory for a woman to say that she's independent because she doesn't want to depend on a man but wants a man to be a provider.

[@BRlGADE_KINGPIN]

Most American women are lost in 2021 brother. It only gets worse.

[@taunantaunette4828]

I agree. She should explain her definition of independent in order for this to make sense. Men need women, women need men. Her words are coming off as men are options. They’re not. Their needed just as well as women are.

[@AgentSickOrange]

@@taunantaunette4828 That's the problem with the world we live in today, people see other people as options. Instead of sticking together and grow together in life.

[@wolfreese8817]

She wanna save her $$ and spend yours basically bro

[@diegofonseca6708]

@@BRlGADE_KINGPIN not just women in America my guy women are like this in majority of the world lol 😂

[@jcf8880]

Bruh ... I thought you had Saweetie on here for a second 😅

[@jamesmontoban1338]

Yo i swear 😆

[@TheCaptain773]

I thought that was her also. Is it not? lol

[@Mr.JackMe0rClapMe]

What’s her @?

[@leleste5465]

@@Mr.JackMe0rClapMe she is Taty Cokley on KZbin

[@leleste5465]

@@Mr.JackMe0rClapMe she gives relationship advice

[@Defathomize]

She wants to be independent, but don't want people depend on her. When has that ever classified as "strong"? Sure you are strong, but for nobody except yourself. She is not looking for a relationship in the first place and that attitude is never going to work.

[@maryamhassan7060]

You're being judgemental

[@Defathomize]

@@maryamhassan7060 So are you, what does that have to do with anything?

[@avon2alpha676]

I guarantee his side of the story, don’t match hers. If didn’t have ish together now. He didn’t have his ish together when you pick him...In the voice of KS

[@cybertutorials5609]

Well they were together for 4 years and since they’re both young, that means they met in highschool. Most likely he was just a broke college kid like everyone else but since she started getting famous on social media, she probably wanted someone more on her level. Unfortunate, but it is what it is.

[@j_an3365]

@@cybertutorials5609 They did meet in high school and she’s also older than him.

[@andremotivation6561]

@@cybertutorials5609 EXACTLY she was blessed with looks and she knew how far she could go in life.

[@breakingthemasks]

@@cybertutorials5609 ... Nailed it

[@kapeeshmenzies6971]

it comes by being raised by a single mother , the girl cuts the heads off her Barbie's , Mom runs out and buys her a new one , the Father would say NO more toys until you learn to look after them

[@willm7994]

I made this mistake and my marriage in a critical state . Young men focus on your dreams your partner is a by product of your journey not the main course

[@realjcoop182]

Funny how they give drug dealers all the support but a regular guy gotta get his sh*t together....💀👀🤔

[@almightytrillionaire]

🤣🤣

[@MrGayle_]

Pokee and RayRay

[@realbigboss1009]

Strictly transactional

[@kunited9]

The next generation of 40 and single

[@kopage2334]

Facts💯

[@spiritualt2004]

Men will get the last laugh 😂😂😂

[@ALLCITY73]

Talking about "I choose to be single"

[@mokhan7907]

40 with 2 delinquent kids and no father

[@michealmajor7883]

Sad part is most people don’t realize they men don’t reach this level of maturity and ambition until late 20’s early 30’s. Smh

[@lrod312]

“First you get the money and then you get the power and then you get the woman” ~Tony Montana

[@Braydine]

There is a old saying chase women and you will end up broke, chase money and you will never run out of women.

[@skillazj5692]

Well said

[@dot242]

Fax 💯

[@BRlGADE_KINGPIN]

Money and women are meaningless. But a good wife (not an ig model) and a family to come home to makes life meaningful. Come on brother..

[@Braydine]

@@BRlGADE_KINGPIN I have both brother but ok lolol

[@MikeJones-pf4wd]

Very true.

[@prathammehta9167]

saving this video so that I can read the comment section later

[@zeeelander]

She's full of it 😂 That dude she's talking about dodged a bullet fellas.

[@gavinhomourinho1359]

never trust a woman who blames everything on her ex

[@skrttskrtt9964]

The money was more impartant than the relationship.

[@Arcilios]

Always is.

[@marcellet8351]

No finance no romance hahaha

[@d4mterro320]

back then, we had to date them to understand why we don't want them. Now they're freely exposing themselves on the internet. Pretty easy for us fellas.

[@leondreamcast]

I really love when you invite women on here to interview because it’s really nice to get the female perspective on her own female nature.

[@michaelwojcicki3624]

She is smart, attractive and could manipulate either of you two, at will.

[@megatron_steel704]

If she can manipulate you then it makes sense why your here LOL don’t let that happen broski give your self some value.

[@michaelwojcicki3624]

@@megatron_steel704 an attractive women "could" get their; tire changed, door held, etc. It's nature.

[@megatron_steel704]

@@michaelwojcicki3624 Manners is good I have em which put me in a lot of great situations but you don’t have to treat open all there doors trust me woman will never go for a guy who is nice to every girl but just as long as he’s nice to her, doesn’t mean to be rude tho just know when to do these things then you gas em up.

[@walking4g924]

🤣

[@westsideslide5873]

Nah

[@inquisitionagent9052]

Yeah... this isn't fun anymore. Relationships these days sound like a chore. I want a partner. Not a second boss. Edit: Mind you I'm not using this as an excuse to not try. I hate chores but I still do em.

[@AJxBishop]

their audio levels are peaking a little hard. Love yall work bros🤙🏽🤙🏽🤙🏽 Keep killing it

[@1punchusleep628]

Men there will always be someone with more money, better looking etc... Just be the best you. No matter what you have or don't have, you are the line between peace and chaos, a home without you is dysfunctional, being a man has nothing to do with what you have, it's who you are. The best & strongest men I've ever met, were classified as poor.

[@tunde_b5662]

@1PUNCHusleep: Well said!

[@spiritualpriestess1316]

The one who is most aware & sincere about the connection... are ALWAYS the last to cut the cord. I feel like she is STILL cutting that cord. Otherwise, she wouldn't be laughing or making excuses.

[@Saywatnah]

Just left a relationship in the exact same state. But he wasn't going to let me go. I had to rip the bandaid off 2/3 times before i finally stopped turning back. He moved on and I'm tryna heal and detach myself best way i can. I still have to see him as we share a child together. I broke it off but I'm the one hurting.

[@PardonMyPresence]

I'd like to hear his side of the story. It really sounds like she destroyed the man's self-esteem to the point where he no longer wanted to try for her. Women can either be a muse and inspire or they can become a detriment a negative energy that will close you off and cause you to disengage.

[@Price8903]

The ambition has to be present within the man already, a woman can support or nurture it however it can’t be solely put on the woman or be her duty to “inspire” him.

[@PardonMyPresence]

@@Price8903 yes but we're talking within the confines of a failing relationship. I know alot of men, me included who temporarily stopped trying once they realized she was going to destroy it all or take half. Ambition deferred until you break free from the relationship/marriage

[@thedcbroker7264]

She is keeping control by being involved in every little thing he does. Don’t let a woman do that!! That’s why her respect dropped. She was trying to run him, but he didn’t want it.

[@Thechosen0010]

“Girls know what they want” yet we see many with a bunch of bums lmaoo

[@Sweetbunniez]

Super generalized statement with lacks substance. To say one gender is more ambitious than the other is ridiculous. Qualities vary by individuality not gender by gender. This girl isn't the brightest.

[@Thechosen0010]

@@Sweetbunniez indeed

[@sarahvanbuskirk7432]

So true i feel like i always have to keep all the men on track arround my age. I feel like My brothers expect me to spoon feed them half of everything. I hate how helpless people act sometimes.

[@sarahvanbuskirk7432]

Thats true. Thanks for replying. I appreciate it.

[@KessO2424]

I’m independent, and empathetic. And not single. There are plenty of women out here that support the blk mans progress. The comments are 🧢🧢

[@mrj8940]

Still rare... Why would anyone take chances

[@Okieant]

You are the exception. Not the rule

[@Jaketheson144]

Explain how are you independent inna relationships 🤔 😕 🤣

[@RackeddUp]

Bro I’m bout to go back late from break and ima jus have to tell my boss I had to finish this video man lmao😭🤌🏾this is funny as tffff 😭😭😭” watch how she makes up a story in her head “💀this whole interview a good vibe . She speaking facts

[@sibomanaambassadeur1596]

It confuses me when a woman says that she's independent because she doesn't want to depend on a man but wants a man to be a provider.

[@jordan9503]

everyday the thought of just paying for a surrogate mother to carry on the bloodline is looking like a better and better option . its soo bizarre

[@red154154]

I believe you must have a kingdom before you bring in your queen

[@realbigboss1009]

I wouldn't use the words queen but I agree

[@thethinkingmansgame5050]

She give horrible advise to women..and they believe her... she isn't married..she doesn't know what it takes to keep a relationship

[@jeremiaha5167]

4:05 That bit was really wholesome funny

[@andysmith3329]

At 0:58, she says how women wanting a traditional man (ambitious, masculine, hardworking, breadwinner) is all a social construct - what they're taught - and not what she's biologically attracted to. She says she'd be okay dating a modern man (feminine, less ambitious, not the breadwinner), as opposed to a traditional man. She then proceeds to vent on how her boyfriend was not a traditional man, lies about her cutting it off and puts the blame on him, then basically admits to only being attracted to/looking for traditional men. The fact is this - women are either lying or too ignorant/privileged to see - they want to skirt the responsibilities of being a traditional woman, while still requiring men to be traditional/responsible. The only question is: why are they surprised they can't lock down a high value traditional man, as irresponsible, modern women?

[@_MoneyMike_]

Exactly, the bottom line is they don’t know what they want

[@MrGoogle87]

Don’t settle for this type, not going to last!

[@raquelmacdonald8572]

I understand where she is coming from and can relate. When a man has no vision, isn`t progressing in his purpose, not financially trying to better his situation, a woman cannot respect him nor view him as a leader. The issue comes when people want to encourage mediocrity by keeping standards at an all time low. I am glad that she saw this huge red flag and kept it pushing. Ladies, more of us need to do this and not settle for potential.

[@vishnudev4754]

You are not even worthy to date the potential.

[@evaristomutale903]

Nah, the man wasn't the problem, I don't agree with how the points were put. What's happening here is you have a woman driven by masculine values and ideals. He may be fine where he is/was at that moment or the present, maybe he was making $80,000 which is okay for him and she made 6 figures. She wanted more, him to be more, he couldn't give her that so she left. That wanting more, that never being satisfied, wanting to change men, women following masculine ideals is where the problem is, not necessarily how much the guy was making. He was on his own journey, most likely on the way to forging his own path

[@koryshepard770]

Well said this is why I hate videos like this 😒 its just dis honest dating potential ....that mindset its condescending as hell ....

[@LB-do7kw]

You came to this conclusion how ? Her wanting more is masculine. Will you tell your daughter she shouldn’t want more. I guess we wouldn’t have a Vice President as a women because it’s masculine and she wanted more.

[@ChiniBaba096]

But if dude unemployed or working minimum wage she would have a good point right? I know some dudes that really ain’t motivated in life, but they young so it’s okay, but if he older then it’s definitely not okay.

[@evaristomutale903]

@@LB-do7kw she literally just shared masculine ideals, we see this all the time with women on Kevin Samuel's shows. Women rating eating themselves on masculine values, being very ambitious and expecting the same of men. He wasn't making what she was making. She obviously wanted a 6 figure with what she was talking but how many black men make 6 figures again???? How many are actually all that interested in being in the top 1-10% of earners?????

[@nickjulius9078]

I don´t get why your hating on her. She gives her own experience. Some man complain that woman dosen´t listen and put words in their monuth but you do the same. You were not there, you don´t know what happend. But in your opinion, becouse she has her own income and has ambitions, you trasch tallk her?

[@Diallo13]

This was the EXACT reason I broke up with my ex gf. I had to focus on myself and improving my life instead of trying to pour that energy into making someone else happy who clearly did not respect me. If there is a lack of respect, she will NEVER submit to you. Just wish I'd known this information sooner but you live and you learn.

[@alvinjperez8007]

Feel that

[@pela907]

Dating potential ain't the same as dating an ideal

[@godgotme5300]

Value your partner the way you expect to be valued

[@michael43567]

Chris is finally in front of the camera for a podcast guest. Was starting to think he is intimidated by the guests

[@Jdog305Cubanito]

I dig the “Salsa Dancing 🕺🏽” logic facts 💯

[@blessed1ne]

It’s always about money. Period. If a woman is driven and makes more money than you she’ll never respect you. And if you are driven and make more money then she’s threatened by you and extremely insecure. With these new woman it’s almost a lose lose. A relationship built on the foundation of unconventional love and supporting one another basically doesn’t exist or is very rare.

[@teresam5199]

So glad to see someone on this channel who can adequately address the false depiction of so-called "independent women" as the problem. As she said, the problem is not with women who are striving, attaining educational goals and professional and financial success, but the absence of male counterparts who do the same (or better) and have the same drive.

[@michael43567]

there are way more successful male entrepreneurs than female. The real problem is more & more women trying to be men instead of being feminine & nurturing like they're wired to be. Successful women are looking for successful men. Successful men are looking for the prettiest & most feminine woman

[@teresam5199]

@@michael43567 there are not more male entrepreneurs in the BC

[@michael43567]

@@teresam5199 give me a reliable source. It's a known thing that males in general are more entrepreneurial because we're more risk-loving. So yh, grab me that me source

[@teresam5199]

@@michael43567 You volunteered the statement that there are more male entrepreneurs, so your request suggests that you don't have a source(s) for your own assertion. Conduct your own research.

[@d.michael372]

She’s an agent of chaos. How typical. Keep it moving gentlemen

[@larrywmedford6587]

She is proof of the saying that a man marries a woman and hopes she will never change, while a woman will marry a man and try to change him to what she wants him to be.

[@kapeeshmenzies6971]

it comes by being raised by a single mother , the girl cuts the heads off her Barbie's , Mom runs out and buys her a new one , the Father would say NO more toys until you learn to look after them

[@tyronejames4187]

I avoid bashing women for wanting a man who makes more money than them or at a higher level, and to provide for them. If that's what you want, then that's what you want. The problem I have is when those same women say, "I don't need a man," or "I'm independent." Because if you can do provide for yourself, then why would it matter that he provide for you? I can understand her not wanting to provide for man, so he can't be completely broke. But if makes enough money to live a comfortable life, but he just so happens to make less money than you, then why would they reject him? Women can provide for themselves, right?

[@AyeeeTV1]

Talk like this is very understandable and all good until the person that feels like they’re “on their sh*t” meets someone and says “oh yeah I can be with this person cus we both grinding, focused, doing our thing” and then that very person looks at you like you looked at the previous one like “ehh, I mean I’m way up here as far as my grind and you’re kinda in the starting stages as far as being on your grind” and moves on from you because they feel like you’re not “on your sh*t” how you thought you were. I’m sure that’s a humbling experience to say the least

[@itsraheem]

She is being honest. And I respect her for that

[@uptown-h]

You don't ask fish how to catch fish, you ask the fisherman, girls don't know what they want

[@semitruckliving6524]

Met a girl like her at 24. Driven smart and beautiful. She left my ass. Why? Because at the time I was still a little boy. It traumatized me in a way that made me question everything. I eventually realized that it wasn’t my woman leaving me... it was my mommy leaving me. That’s why I was so traumatized. To this day, I cannot express the gratitude I have for that woman. And all driven woman for that matter. Ya’ll are gold. Especially for the kids... regardless of age. A lot of guys think they’re an adult because they hit a certain age or can pay a bill, but with a mother like this you’ll realize that it’s the farthest thing from the truth.

[@semitruckliving6524]

@@The-DAWG957 yup. A broke man may as well be broken. It’s all designed to make us better so long as we chalk up our losses and become our best selves.

[@mireauxrascian]

One of the most effective dating rules ever. Do not do for someone you are dating what you would not do for your close family members.

[@simonscowled9925]

Girl finds you attractive; anything goes Girl finds you unattractive; nothing goes

[@channelsimon2601]

I can completely relate to what she said, never date potential. Every man is not capable of achieving their full potential, they have to be driven and focused on achieving goals and progressing in life.

[@carissaexplainsitall8481]

I like these guys. So much wisdom

[@kingdommarriage480]

The female nature naturally should submit to the man and the man be masculine. We should never grind for women but only for our purpose. Genesis 2:18 “ The LORD God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.'"

[@kubasniak]

Yeah he made a helper my ass. God doesn't exist and if he does he's full of sh1t. This Genesis quote is a man made fantasy for the world he wish it was. Unfortunately you can't bend reality to what you want so burn that wicked and false book full of contradictions anyway.

[@blakemcmahan3960]

@@kubasniak everything but the Word of God is wicked. You have it twisted

[@koklol2837]

@Kea Lucky In what way are you equal to a man? The answer; None. No wait, you are equal in one way, we are both human mortals and that's pretty much it.

[@koklol2837]

@Kea Lucky To vague, typical woman talk. What do you mean by 'no human is above anyone'? You know that dosent make any sense what do ever.

[@koklol2837]

@Kea Lucky Wow you are going for the two misspelled words and choosing the academic superiority as an out.

[@elmalanmalan2175]

Back in ancient times there was not such thing as dating. Men just be yourself and stop trying to impress women.

[@hannahi9355]

It's so true, it's the settling. We don't have a problem with y'all not being perfect we just want to see growth 📈

[@fkcavs]

Growth is a very general term. You have to be specific if you're equating growth with financial success or do you define growth as money, emotional, spiritual, etc. In this conversation I'd be willing to bet the growth she was referring to was purely success related.

[@hannahi9355]

@@fkcavs Y'all always wanna believe the worst. I'm gonna assume you don't have it like that because if you did you wouldn't be being so negative. I did not once mention money. Besides if you get your stuff together money will generally follow.

[@fkcavs]

@@hannahi9355 I don't know what " got it like that even means" but I was simply asking for your perspective since your statement wasn't specific. My career is good and I have an above average income so not sure if that = got it like that or not but 🤔

[@DeezNutzMMA]

And when the relationship doesn't work out you take my hard-earned money no thanks

[@fkcavs]

@LION THE KING No lies told at all 💯

[@jovangaltic]

Fake nails, fake hair, fake skin, fake eyelashes, fake eyebrows, fake lips...

[@SirMovies101]

Here's the confusion... What exactly is getting your "ish" together? I'm a 9-5er. Good solid job with potential growth in the company if I choose that route, but below High value standards because its less than 100k a year. Am I failing? Sounds like I'm failing when I listen around. If men started thinking like women and saying to themselves... I want more and get your "ish" together, especially during the relationship, we would be called bully's. Or we would get the excuse, just accept me as I am. Love me for me. Social expertement (don't actually do this) Go tell your girl right now, I want more from you. More cooking, More dressing up, More Cooperation, and More Se# and More whatever... Watch they eyes roll behind they head and hair electricity sparks come from sky and dust and rocks swirling around them. Men would be walking away with a black eye

[@keviscold]

First thing first... High Value ain't got nothing to do with money..

[@SirMovies101]

@@keviscold copy that. What are your opinions when you hear - getting your ish together? Remove the notion of high value.

[@Arcilios]

@@keviscold i mean it helps, yet high value is about your mindset. Your mental strength to control your own life. Can you handle the pressures of life without freaking out and getting emotional, cracking under the pressure? Or will you be a beast, beat all the odds, become financially stable and win. It's all in you. That's what high value is. Can you smile and laugh through the pain and come out a better man on the other side? Or do you let your circumstances, people in your life and emotions get to you and ultimately rule you? It's hard to walk the path of confidence and strength. It's so difficult and painful. You will cry, be hurt, feel sad and down and in pain. It's all about how you stand back up from it and fight on or give up and become low value.

[@jojofilippa]

First of all - 9 to 5 job does not mean you’re failing but I do understand why you’re questioning it......a bit sad in terms of the expectations and today’s society we live in Secondly.....focus on your masculine energy because that is actually what mature women truly desire at the end of the day.

[@cdwalker15]

To a lot of women, in this day and age, “high value men” equates to ur income. Apparently the standard is six figures. Ask the women, listen to the Kevin Samuel types and so forth and that’s the number. It makes hard working men making under that feel worthless even though they are high value in every other regard. Kevin Samuels specifically says if ur making less than 10k a month ur not high value. There’s a lot of good men with great values making 70, 80 90k a year taking care their wives and children just fine. This income starting point to consider a man “high value” is just bullshit.

[@ALDIRO24]

That's her side to the story. I bet her ex might have tried all he could but it was just not enough for her

[@legoboy-ox2kx]

Well, not all people are super into constant self-improvement. It's important to at least be always making small improvements, but some people just want to have some stability for a while without having to be worried about if their woman thinks they've "won"

[@shanemcmahon6364]

She is actually a great conversationalist..she sees and speaks the bigger picture and common facts..and not through feelings..👏..she gets it.the levels..and balance of feminity, masculinity and the extreme importance of walking in your purpose!..she is a wife!!!

[@125henni]

That's not neccesarily true. I can't date women who don't have they stuff together. I have dated chicks that i felt had "potential" but that sbit drags you down

[@siriusbizniss]

Ladies and gents, the word of the day is H-Y-P-E-R-G-A-M-Y, it is activated whenever two X chromosomes come together.

[@SophiaJones777]

Wow so Young so Knowledgeable 😍😍🙌

[@colorfulcodes]

She is.

[@Bluesnakes333]

You can be completely independent as a person yet still feel that person adds value to your life and you WANT them. Not need them

[@imhappysavage5059]

But do you honestly think a relationship would have a better chance of lasting if you just want them rather than feeling like you need them/they complete you? Personally I’ve never seen a relationship last because both parties just “wanted” each other. But what do I know? That’s why I’m asking you 😂

[@mysticstrikeforce5957]

Yha i don't really care if a women is independent i just want to spend my life time with her if she is also doing the same. I mean if you don't want your partner to make more or less then you then why date at all as dating is a team effort not a one sided thing.

[@Bluesnakes333]

@@imhappysavage5059 True, valid thoughts there. I want my husband to know that I stay with him bc I trust, love, & adore him. I don’t want my reason to be “it is easier for me to stay due to the financial stability” He and I have built a great life together. I just reassure him that I would be with him even if we had nothing. I do like my independence for practical reasons (if a spouse passes away - God forbid). It is important to be able to stand on your own.

[@OriginalDJPlatinum]

Who is she kidding?! SHE ended it, not him! Come onnnnn!

[@dimarazruv7032]

being dumb is the worst thing

[@Nothing-But-TheTruth]

Watching these videos make me a whole new kind of depressed.

[@bigtimes1]

She completely contradicted herself.

[@herlittledove]

interresting how she said that he was still partying...many men do not realise how they become unfocussed by still getting stuck in that phase ... woman want the head to take over responsability

[@conwellkid]

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[@Andrew-km1we]

My major turnoff: having your baby hair glued to your forehead !

[@yalelop428]

Stick to your boney pale women

[@frankc4364]

Lol I know what's with that looks like gel at the side of her head all these black girls have that now

[@Andrew-km1we]

@@yalelop428 lol chill. She’s beautiful. I’m only poking fun.

[@ibexy]

she left him because she was investing in stocks! Liar!

[@meditation4632]

Can someone please explain what “submissive” means and give examples

[@juicejones]

An alpha female cannot be submissive idc what they say. Independent is the opposite dependent.

[@naikie1239]

That's not true. I don't date what i see. I look at her work ethic, drive and passion.

[@itstheiceman11]

Be a respectable guy. They hate that. 👏🏻

[@KJ-pu8dw]

This is a great conversation. But I would like to see a conversation explaining difference between financial success and masculine. They make it sound that they are linked. They are not linked anymore due to women being able to work and be more independent in modern times.

[@stephenterry6993]

This is a young people look on life in the dating world.This younger don't think about better or worse

[@SomeTechGuy666]

Nice to see you removed my comment that politely called a spade a spade. What ever happened to free speech ?

[@AnimeCultist15]

If a woman can’t see that you’re actively grinding towards something, or are already smashing goals and leveling up, you’re unattractive and no shawty is gonna come pull you out of the rut

[@larryschnellope80]

She wasnt submissive to her ex… you can’t be submissive to someone you don’t respect, and a woman doesn’t respect a man that she feels she is having to “elevate” them on every level. She was basically his mommy, very unattractive to a woman. To be submissive you need to be able to look UP to that person. Be able to go to that person for strength, support, guidance, etc. That’s how you garnish respect from your lady and that is how she becomes infatuated with you. Have all the answers, be decisive, have a moral compass and standards and stand firm to them, express negative emotions subtly if at all, NEVER confide in your woman. That’s what your boys are for.

[@jarreaubridgeforth5639]

It’s all fun and games until the woman gets in those mid 30s and still talking about the bag like men are walking wallets! If he is able to provide for u n a family and willing to marry you...I would suggest women get on board, or possibly be thrown around from relationship to relationship without anything serious! Women=feminine,fit,affectionate, Pleasant to be around,good communication skills. Date the man not his wallet! But we must be able to provide. Lead

[@toddoren3730]

Exactly

[@teresam5199]

I know you're not suggesting that women just marry a man simply because he is willing to marry them. If we marry, we have to marry a suitable mate not just anyone who comes along willing to marry us.

[@axxelfoley3304]

Your dreams aren't someone else's people put their dreams of themselves on other's

[@knowledgewind]

Yo this 🔥🔥🔥mind blown , ah lot of people can relate.

[@gns4838]

“I do not want to be somebody’s boyfriend” that is masculine energy. Why be with a man? if you are independent why do you need him to be on your level? when you don’t want or need anything from him? Ladies that does not makes sense to us because two independent people cancel each other out. I think Kevin Samuels would eat her up. Ultimately she picked a dude who wasn’t about his grind, That’s on her! Why would you ever think you could fix someone? Setting yourself up for failure.

[@seanreid4687]

You have to be a King if you want a Queen.

[@jaetok]

Masculine females I keep my distance.