😨The 11 dark sides of Kindness! THE HIGH COST OF BEING TOO NICE & Being Too Nice Can Destroy You|Zen

[@BuddhistWisdomDaily68]

The teachings on suffering and detachment are truly eye-opening. It’s helping me let go of so much negativity

[@beverlydacosta6492]

This is truly a good teaching. My heart resonate with all as I was lost also when I realised that I was unhappy as a result of putting others before myself. I was thought as a child its better to be a giver than a receiver and working as a caregiver. On retirement I realized that I had given too much of myself to others. Today I am learning to balance as you are teaching us. Thanks.

[@WisdomInRealLife]

I'm delighted to hear that our video resonated with you and that you're finding value in these teachings. It's a common journey for many, especially in caring professions, to give so much that we forget to look after ourselves. Realizing this and learning to balance giving and receiving is a significant step towards personal well-being and happiness. Remember, your needs are just as important as those you care for. Thank you for sharing your story, and we wish you the best on your journey of balance and self-care. Keep watching and learning with us! 💖🌟

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@@WisdomInRealLife Thanks so much for understanding what I felt through my own misunderstanding of caring for myself.

[@olupotdeogracious9192]

I was too lost this is profound to anyone in or yet to fall in the same scenario

[@francesf3581]

Yes, being to nice does not work with some people. They would take advantage of kindness. Have to know who to be nice to nowadays. Have to be careful. It's just so sad that we have yo think that way. Thank you for you explanation of kindness and being nice. I just love reading and listening to your advice and calmess I'm life.

[@WisdomInRealLife]

Thank you for your thoughtful comment and kind words! You're absolutely right - while kindness is a wonderful quality, it's important to be discerning about how and with whom we share our kindness. Unfortunately, there are situations where people might take advantage of excessive kindness, which is why balance and mindfulness are key, as emphasized in our video. It's indeed a bit sad that we have to be cautious, but it's also part of taking good care of ourselves. We're so glad you find value in our content and that it brings a sense of calm and understanding to your life. Keep enjoying our readings and advice, and thank you for being a part of our community! 🙏💕🌼

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God has been teaching me just what you are saying I am experiencing this Right now, God is working through all thank you

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It's wonderful to hear that our message resonates with your personal experiences and spiritual journey. It sounds like you are in a profound phase of learning and growth, guided by your faith. It's truly special when life's lessons align with spiritual teachings, reinforcing the belief that there's a greater purpose and connection in all that we encounter. We're grateful to know that our content is in harmony with what you're learning and experiencing. Thank you for sharing this with us, and may you continue to find guidance, strength, and inspiration in your journey. 🙏💫✨

[@sannajohanna5579]

”To be kind in a smart way!” Excellent! ❤

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[@annettetaylor8218]

Thank you for the wisdom of sharing in not always being s0me0nes puppet.

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[@patriciagonzalez6903]

My take away from these lessons is that, we need balance, balance, balance, in all areas of our lives. Thank you! Thank you! Blessings to all.

[@WisdomInRealLife]

Absolutely, you've hit the nail on the head! Balance truly is the key takeaway from these lessons. It's wonderful to hear that this message resonated with you. In everything we do, whether it's kindness, work, relationships, or self-care, finding that harmonious balance is crucial for a fulfilling and peaceful life. Thank you for emphasizing this important lesson and for your warm blessings. We're grateful for your engagement and wish you continued balance and joy in all aspects of your life. Blessings to you too! 🌟🙏⚖️

[@ingridgranger9991]

This is really great teachings!

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*Thank you for sharing this beautiful video on Buddhism. Your effort in spreading the Dharma is deeply appreciated. 🙏*

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[@lowdoris6535]

Thank you for your advise. Is really very true in real life especially to our family . Pls pls advise one more step to us how to balance out . Thank you❤

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Thank you for this program 🍒

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You're so welcome!

[@banjodubghall84]

Being online is Being offline. The true connection is in existence, your existence in nature not in the man made synthetic web. Not in the screens false sense of connection. True connection is with another soul weather together or far apart it is not the phone the internet that keeps us connected it is the spirit. Man carries the capability to communicate telepathically with one another and to send good vibrations to others emanating from source therfore in us and to others. Disconnect to recover from amnesia and seek thr truth. The truth is the way the life. It's within and all around as if life is a collage of mirrors. Look deep look on the surface and you'll see that that is microscopic is also gigantic universal. Make the two one. Loose life to find it.

[@편안한클래식음악]

Thank you very much sir for sharing is valuable information.. Actually I have done all these mistakes and I suffered a lot because of that.. but I understood it and I promise myself that I never do it again in my life because it was the best lesson I taught in my life.. I thank you again for these wonderful words..

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[@knowledgeberakah1728]

It is! I took many losses cause of it

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[@cyworld2707]

identifying with our name or self in other words our reputation can be a problem because we become a prisoner to others expectations of our reputation

[@WisdomInRealLife]

You've raised a very insightful point! Identifying too strongly with our names or reputations can indeed become restrictive, as it often leads us to live up to others' expectations at the expense of our true selves. It's like wearing a mask that we can't take off. Buddha's teachings encourage us to find freedom from these attachments and to discover our authentic selves beyond societal labels. Your comment highlights the importance of self-awareness and the courage to be true to ourselves, regardless of external pressures. Thank you for this thought-provoking contribution! 🌟🙏🌱

[@yoojinia]

Being 100% nice all the time is actually naiveness... immature state of being... salt is as necessary as suger. Just being nice is a state of child who lacks awareness of situational direction to act accordingly

[@WisdomInRealLife]

You've made a very insightful point! Striving to be 100% nice all the time can indeed be an oversimplification of how we navigate our complex world. Your analogy of salt and sugar is apt - just as both are essential for balance in flavor, a blend of kindness and assertiveness is often necessary in life. Recognizing when to be kind and when to set boundaries is a sign of maturity and situational awareness. It's about understanding the appropriate response to each situation, which indeed requires a deeper level of awareness and discernment. Thank you for sharing your thoughtful perspective on this! 🌟🧂🍬🙏

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Hi edagdwg I enjoy watching people seeing them for who they really are life is soooooo real knowing God for myself is a forever loving gift from God only. Being yourself is real peace joy true love is real Linda j.peace

[@WisdomInRealLife]

Hi Linda, thank you for sharing your beautiful perspective! It's wonderful to hear about your appreciation for the genuine nature of people and the deep sense of peace and joy you find in being yourself and knowing God's love. Embracing authenticity and experiencing the love and peace that come from within are indeed precious gifts. Your words are a reminder for all of us to cherish these truths in our lives. Keep enjoying and sharing this positivity! 🌟💖🙏

[@doneecemcneil7826]

@@WisdomInRealLife Gm thank you for sharing God's gifts of true love and life Linda j. Peace

[@kevintewey1157]

63 and I almost "kinded" myself to death several times

[@WisdomInRealLife]

Thank you for sharing your personal experience with such honesty. It's a powerful reminder that while kindness is a beautiful quality, it's crucial to find a balance so it doesn't become self-detrimental. Your journey highlights the importance of self-care and setting boundaries, even in our efforts to be kind to others. It's never too late to learn and practice this balance. We hope our video offers some guidance and support in finding that healthier equilibrium. Wishing you strength and well-being as you continue to navigate the path of kindness with wisdom. 🌟🙏💖

[@lizgilliard436]

This is correct for those of you who think it's corrupt. You need to take another look at yourself this world needs more kindness not evil!!!!! This is how God children will behave, Have you ever heard the say kill them with kindness!!! You will get more out of people when your kind not rude that's the devils work. We all have choices and chooice wisely.

[@WisdomInRealLife]

Thank you for your passionate comment! You're absolutely right that the world needs more kindness, and each of us has the power to contribute to that. The saying "kill them with kindness" reflects the idea that kindness can be a powerful force, often more impactful than negativity. Our video aims to highlight the importance of balancing kindness with self-care, ensuring that our acts of kindness are sustainable and genuine. It's about making wise choices that honor both our well-being and our natural inclination to be kind. Thank you for reminding us of the power of kindness in creating a positive world. Let's all continue to make choices that spread goodness! 🌍💖

[@areyoufreeenough1372]

"Finding a balance!"🤗some feel they should give give give and those are the ones losing themselves. If you notice those who are too kind sometimes do not like to receive from others.

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[@peacenholiness6855]

True

[@sc2706]

I need to learn this really because i can't ever say no

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[@lowdoris6535]

Fully agreed with you.

[@lindaesmerada]

Thank you

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[@scott-o3w]

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[@lexy3049]

😢😢😢resonate Master too much love will kill us

[@WisdomInRealLife]

🙏 It's touching to hear how deeply this message resonates with you. It's true, an imbalance, even in something as fundamentally good as love, can have unintended consequences. Finding balance in how we give and receive love is crucial for our well-being. Buddha's teachings often remind us of the middle way, where we can love generously but also preserve our own health and happiness. Remember, taking care of yourself is as important as caring for others. Your emotional response shows your deep understanding and empathy. Stay strong and keep seeking that balance. 💖✨

[@TikawangAmbo]

Im afraid i cant stop being kind to others

[@WisdomInRealLife]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us! It’s truly admirable to have a strong inclination towards kindness. However, it's also important to remember that true kindness includes being kind to yourself. Sometimes, setting boundaries is necessary to protect your own well-being. This doesn't mean you have to stop being kind; rather, it's about finding a balance that allows you to be kind to others without compromising your own health and happiness. Our channel, 'Wisdom in Real Life', is here to support you in discovering that balance. Feel free to explore more of our content for tips on maintaining this balance and integrating mindfulness into your acts of kindness. Keep nurturing your compassionate nature, but remember to include yourself in that compassion too!

[@TikawangAmbo]

Yes i believe in you..i know i need to change myself at this time because i am now at the point that i am realizing of forgetting myself just making them satisfy

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[@banjodubghall84]

Being online is Being offline. The true connection is in existence, your existence in nature not in the man made synthetic web. Not in the screens false sense of connection. True connection is with another soul weather together or far apart it is not the phone the internet that keeps us connected it is the spirit. Man carries the capability to communicate telepathically with one another and to send good vibrations to others emanating from source therfore in us and to others. Disconnect to recover from amnesia and seek thr truth. The truth is the way the life. It's within and all around as if life is a collage of mirrors. Look deep look on the surface and you'll see that that is microscopic is also gigantic universal. Make the two 9ne

[@WisdomInRealLife]

Thank you for sharing such a profound and thought-provoking perspective! Your view highlights the essence of true connection, transcending the physical and digital realms to tap into something much deeper - the spiritual and natural bond we share with others and the universe. The idea that our deepest connections are rooted in our spirit and not merely in our online interactions is a powerful reminder of the vastness and depth of human communication and connection. Your mention of telepathic communication and sending positive vibrations touches on the incredible potential of human consciousness and the interconnectedness of all life. Disconnecting from the digital world to reconnect with our inner truth and the natural world around us can indeed be a powerful way to rediscover these deeper connections. Your words encourage a deeper introspection and appreciation for the profound mysteries of life and existence. 🌌🌿🙏✨

[@banjodubghall84]

@@WisdomInRealLife thank you. Thank you kindly

[@acajudi100]

I am kind, but no a fool. Try to eliminate me, then you are blocked, and placed in the hands of God. I know how to say NO, and I do warn folks, not to ask me for loans etc/ Slick beggars are disgusting.

[@WisdomInRealLife]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! It's great to hear that you've found a strong balance in being kind while also setting firm boundaries. Saying 'no' when necessary and being cautious about who you help is an important aspect of self-care. Your approach of being kind but not at the expense of your own well-being is commendable. Keep standing strong in your values, and thanks for being part of our community. 💪🌟

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Thank you for sharing your perspective. It seems you're touching on some complex social issues regarding relationships, societal expectations, and personal growth. It's true that many people, regardless of gender, face challenges in finding meaningful connections and understanding their past experiences. Meditation and mindfulness, as taught in Buddhism, can indeed offer a way to find clarity, forgiveness, and peace within oneself. It's important for everyone to reflect on their journey, learn from past experiences, and move forward with wisdom and compassion. Remember, each person's path is unique, and understanding our own choices and experiences is key to personal growth and happiness. 🌍🙏💭

[@alisonarmstrong8421]

good advice but too repetitous...

[@WisdomInRealLife]

Thank you for your feedback! We appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts. It's great to hear that you found the advice good. We'll definitely keep your comment in mind about the repetitiveness for future videos. Our goal is always to provide valuable content in a clear and engaging way. Thanks for watching and for your helpful input! 🙏💡

[@narinderseemungal744]

This is corrupt. There is no such thing as being too kind!!!

[@reddotcam]

INDEED. IN LIFE ONE NEEDS ONLY EMPATHY AND COMPASSION AND THESE ARE FEELINGS FROM THE HEART. KINDNESS IS A BYPRODUCT AND CANNOT BE QUANTIFIED. TEACHING PEOPLE TO SUPPRESS KINDNESS IS PREACHING AGAINST BUDDHISM ALTOGETHER.

[@WisdomInRealLife]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Indeed, empathy and compassion are foundational feelings that come from the heart and are central to Buddhist teachings. Kindness, as you mentioned, naturally flows from these qualities. Our video aims to explore the balance in expressing kindness, not to suppress it. It's about understanding how to be kind in a way that is healthy for both the giver and the receiver. Buddhism encourages mindfulness in all aspects of life, including how we express kindness. We appreciate your perspective and are glad to have sparked a thoughtful discussion! 🙏🌟

[@lindaesmerada]

I should not lose myself being kind. This is very important. I need to water myself. Not just watering others all the time.

[@mauratierney371]

Love thy neighbor as ourselves...as is a little word with a big lesson. If we neglect our health use all our time and energy to prop some one else up,we end up devalued and exhausted. Kindness sometimes means we have to step away... Follow God s will for your life . Peace and love for you.

[@peacenholiness6855]

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