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One of the 5 languages of love (from the book The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman) is Acts of Service. If you’re somebody who believes that Actions speak louder than words, you probably prefer someone to show you love by doing things for you.
If your partner has Acts of Service as their primary love language, you will need get very good at speaking this language! There are many ways to show love, but the three ingredients are:
Do the act of service with no strings attached! Don’t expect them to say thank you or publicly recognize you for it. You are only doing this to show love to your partner in a self-less way!
Do it with a good attitude. Don’t complain about how difficult it was or how tired you are, or the sacrifice you made. Don’t bring it up later as a “pat on the back” type of thing. Show your love cheerfully
Be Thoughtful. Don’t wait for your partner to tell you what to do. Just consider yourself in their shoes, and ask yourself how you could best serve them. If they pull up with a car full of groceries, tell them to go inside and relax while you unload the car. If you notice their car is dirty, wash it for them. Bring them their favorite drink, or offer to take care of dinner if they are stressed or busy. There are countless ways to NOTICE your partner, and demonstrate your love by service.
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