The 5 SECRETS To Find The PERFECT MAN TODAY! | Stephan Speaks

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Get "The Man God Has For You" here 👉 bit.ly/TheManG... - The 5 SECRETS To Find The PERFECT RELATIONSHIP Today... In this dating advice video, I will give you the five secrets to find the perfect relationship today. Everybody wants to find a perfect relationship and it may be either on first dates, online dating or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips and be sure to watch the entire video so that you can learn how to find the perfect relationship.
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@Courie11e
@Courie11e 3 жыл бұрын
It's the healing part that folks don't take the time to do.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Healing is definitely key because when you heal you will be able to see things more clearly!
@rosameijering5161
@rosameijering5161 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks yes!
@Pheonix1111
@Pheonix1111 3 жыл бұрын
7 Mistakes We Make: 1. Not being ourselves 2. Not asking enough questions 3. Not sharing our expectations 4. Not healing from our past first 5. Not being honest 6. Not expressing enough desire or intention 7. Not trusting our gut, intuition, or spirit 8. Not asking God about the person we are dating Deep Connection can be felt immediately by both the man and woman from the start or quickly. Both the man and woman use their respective gifts in which they balance one another in their relationship. Love is not an action. Love can be expressed through actions. Love is our spirit. What is our intentions towards the other person? Are we being selfish or selfless? What are their intentions towards us? True love is a two-way connection. Why Relationships Fail: 1. Lack of Emotional Maturity (do not react immaturely - we must manage our emotions in a mature manner - instead pray, think, and process what we are hearing) 2. Poor Communication (discuss issues calmly and effectively - listen carefully) 3. Not Maintaining Who They Fell For (eg. no longer performing behaviours the other person desires/admires about us) (be our true selves always) 4. They Were Never Who We Truly Wanted 5. There Was Never a Deep and Genuine Connection (i.e. our spirit recognizes our match) 6. Not Putting God First and Relying on God Have a Great First Date (Tips for Women): 1. Speak in the Positive (do not be critical or negative) 2. Take our Appearance Seriously (dress in our best outfits - feminine style & colourful - get other men’s opinions) 3. Smell Good (Shampoo, Perfume, Etc.) 4. Let Conversation Flow (do not interrogate or force issues) 5. Flirt, but do not get Sexual (flirting shows interest in and desire for the man - eg. give compliments, being affectionate without being sexual like hug or kiss on cheek)
@lindahughes6501
@lindahughes6501 3 жыл бұрын
In my post on 9/20/21 I put 4 things of what u mentioned. 1. Honesty, 2. Truth, 3. Trust, 4. Respect All very important. God is everything period.
@fatimakeita901
@fatimakeita901 3 жыл бұрын
I'm never bored listening to u Stephan
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
@steph_steph876
@steph_steph876 3 жыл бұрын
@Fatima Keita NEVER!!! lol...
@fatimakeita901
@fatimakeita901 3 жыл бұрын
@@steph_steph876 I know right
@versatile3169
@versatile3169 2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@annekajordan6952
@annekajordan6952 3 жыл бұрын
Putting God first 💯 yes - can’t go wrong with that!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right when God is in charge all will be well.
@annekajordan6952
@annekajordan6952 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely ☺️
@Pilateswithfatou
@Pilateswithfatou 3 жыл бұрын
Your content so refreshing especially in an era where “agents of chaos” are doing the same thing at a larger scale but mostly dehumanizing women. Thank you Stephan 🙏🏿 May God reward you
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I appreciate your support!
@j.i.l2167
@j.i.l2167 3 жыл бұрын
It is very important to communicate early on in the relationship, and making your expectations known as well as discussing your role in the relationship. 🥰❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
@j.i.l2167
@j.i.l2167 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Amen 🙏 🙌 it gives clarity and ✌ peace .
@avasears2516
@avasears2516 3 жыл бұрын
I love you Stephen and wish I could have known about your relationship tips when I was in my 20’s but I’m still praying that God reveals me to my Godman even though I’m 64 I feel that he’s out there looking for me,, positive is how I live,, here in St Thomas living my best life 🙏🏽♥️🦋
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@Sunshine-nj8cd
@Sunshine-nj8cd 3 жыл бұрын
ava dating men here in the caribbean is like quick fashion LOL 😂
@avasears2516
@avasears2516 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sunshine-nj8cd that is sad but very true,, I have determined that celibacy is the best way of life here in the Caribbean and meeting men with no expectations,, so when you find out that he is married with a mistress and a girlfriend your heart is not broken yet again,, it’s taken me years to heal and I just refuse to allow brokenness into my soul,, 🙏🏽
@Sunshine-nj8cd
@Sunshine-nj8cd 3 жыл бұрын
@@avasears2516 my secret now is to speak up from the very begin earlier the better no time wasted wondering my very first time and it worked state your case save the energy dear .
@Just4uJules
@Just4uJules 3 жыл бұрын
Great point about letting people connect w/the true you! God can’t bless who we pretend to be 💯❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right!
@AlainaCain
@AlainaCain 3 жыл бұрын
FIRST DATE TIP: #6 Do not go out at night. Dating at night makes both parties feel uncomfortable. Whereas a daytime date has a more relaxed atmosphere there are activities that a couple can engage in without tension or worry.
@ban6096
@ban6096 2 жыл бұрын
You touched on something extremely important by saying that we should be ourselves as we won't be able to sustain being and acting like someone else. EXCELLENT point! Thank you for reminding us just how vital it is to act on this point.
@thisismystone9658
@thisismystone9658 3 жыл бұрын
These things never get old. Each time you listen to them, they are new.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@sherry2250
@sherry2250 3 жыл бұрын
Don't go there with someone who is not truly your type and who you're not truly attracted to. No need to settle because you're still going to be miserable. It makes no sense to do that just to show the world you have someone and you're not up for grabs anymore. If the connection is not correct today then it won't be correct tomorrow!!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@prinprin3324
@prinprin3324 3 жыл бұрын
I definitely think it’s soooo important to have the serious talks upfront of what you like don’t like and what you expect!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
@rosieo3811
@rosieo3811 3 жыл бұрын
Healing before getting into a new relationship...agreed. Made many mistakes in jumping out of a relationship and into another quickly. All ended bad. Always following my intuition.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing healing and following your intuition are definitely key!
@Lcrunner1968
@Lcrunner1968 3 жыл бұрын
I love your laugh. 😂. It makes me smile. Good advice.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you I appreciate that!
@watchman1988
@watchman1988 3 жыл бұрын
No relationship is perfect except you want it to be .....choose wisely
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!
@jenniferheinke1354
@jenniferheinke1354 3 жыл бұрын
... go with the flow... don't get stuck in your own head and thoughts too much about what you want to say and/or get out of it...it's about cooperation and feelin' it...
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@vashtikelly6837
@vashtikelly6837 3 жыл бұрын
6th secret to find the perfect relationship..........keep watching, and listening to Stephan's videos......
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
🙌
@vashtikelly6837
@vashtikelly6837 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks STEPH THANK YOU....
@gebettetaylor-goode4219
@gebettetaylor-goode4219 3 жыл бұрын
There's a whole lot to be said for discussing "the non-negotiables" early in the relationship.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!
@JGIgirl
@JGIgirl 3 жыл бұрын
I wish this was around for me years ago, I've learned so... much from Stephan Speaks, I feel like I'm so behind and I have catching up to do, I realize I had no business even dating, Trauma, verbal, mental, neglect etc.. I should've been healing and not dating 😔💔 I guess better late than never. Thank you ❤
@deanj8870
@deanj8870 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Be yourself. Not being some one else. Ask questions in the right way👑📖🙏🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
@deanj8870
@deanj8870 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I'm truly appreciate a brother like you with wisdom, knowledge and understand. May the Most High continue keep you and bless you👑📖🙏🏾
@TamarasTreasureTrove
@TamarasTreasureTrove 3 жыл бұрын
Dude... spot on! SO much respect for you, Stephan. Thanks for reminding us that it gets better. Feels like I'm finally on the right track 💯 💯 💯
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@kourtney101
@kourtney101 3 жыл бұрын
It seems like we are content with putting love on a timetable or restrcting it to when we're ready... If you love you, you're ready
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@purecoachingvietnam3827
@purecoachingvietnam3827 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing
@derickcastor8008
@derickcastor8008 3 жыл бұрын
Man, you're the prophet of relationships
@cammyTalksLife
@cammyTalksLife 3 жыл бұрын
Heal and release that negative energy for a happier life . I wrote my 1st letter to my Dad , released it, meditated and let that ish out . I feel light . Thank you Stephan for the Healing after heartbreak set . Blessings and big up yuh self 🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
@rhondastewart3915
@rhondastewart3915 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes Speaks does some of the funniest things!
@dashaspeaks
@dashaspeaks Жыл бұрын
I have been healing since 2019 and I’m just now getting to healing from my daddy issues. Healing is a very important piece.
@valarierice3455
@valarierice3455 7 ай бұрын
Love your work, see your passion for healthy relationships. I’m a therapist and will NEVER tell a client that Love is action, again. I’m grateful for the new knowledge and insight. Thank you 🙏🏾
@diannovianti101
@diannovianti101 3 жыл бұрын
Truly contemplative and insightful messages Such a wonderful messenger🧡 All the best to you, Steph! 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
@UdyBee
@UdyBee 3 жыл бұрын
LOVE IS NOT AN ACTION! God bless you Stephen for saying this. You are very correct saying this. I learnt this the hard way in 2019 and it made me come to the conclusion that even if I see a man take a bullet for me, it is not enough to prove his love for me after all he may be wearing a bullet proof underneath his clothes and have the scenes all played out in his favour. That's not to say I don't believe good men exist. It means I go in with my senses heightened and eyes sharpens, that way I know if he's for real or not. Better still, I don't expect so much from a person so I don't get hurt when I realize his true intentions were selfish.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@Drostvideo
@Drostvideo 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@jujubee90275
@jujubee90275 2 жыл бұрын
Love your energy💝
@virginiaAngelina
@virginiaAngelina 3 жыл бұрын
My first time talking to a so called prophet , I was told that I laughed to much and that is why he stop talking to me,,,lol 😂😂😂
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 3 жыл бұрын
What !!!! Im always looking for my next laugh....Im very humorous...he would hate me 😂😂😂
@julanre3160
@julanre3160 3 жыл бұрын
You are an amazing man Stephan.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾 Bravo!!!!! Stephan, your insight on building a successful relationship is uncanning. These tips are not just tips. They’re the whole entree! The core fundamentals to any great connection. Thank you for providing honest advice to your audience of followers. Their lives is instantaneously enriched by what you help them to identify within themselves and others. You’re teaching them to trust using their instincts, encouraging them to heal pass their pains and stay committed to being their authentic self. Not neglecting the advantages of Godly wisdom and spiritual discernment. These are wonderful keys to a healthy mindset and wholesome individual. These people as well as their choice of mate receive the benefits. You’re simply amazing!!! Keep up the exceptional guidance. Blessings BIG BIG L💞VE - 🌺InspirationByB a branch and affiliate of ⚜️HairByB
@thesingerintheshower
@thesingerintheshower 2 жыл бұрын
Freestyle and figure it out. I appreciate this juxtaposition that he made.
@shellyanncunningham3606
@shellyanncunningham3606 Жыл бұрын
True Stephan, hurt people hurt other people because they are not healed so they see everyone as the same but remember we are uniquely made by God this is not a perfect world is by knowing God that helps make us better individuals
@tashajones7864
@tashajones7864 3 жыл бұрын
😌 I (We) appreciate you Saint🙌
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
🙌
@sctc7102
@sctc7102 Жыл бұрын
So very true. I remained single for 6 years after my marriage failed however it’s not the time it takes but the work you put in. It wasn’t until my divorce 2 years ago I noticed my bitterness. Finally 6 months ago I started to allow God to work on my heart and for me putting in the work. We have to work on healing as well.
@irenecephas84
@irenecephas84 3 жыл бұрын
that’s me right there,am in a married that the and don’t even look at each other for 14years and 16th years of relationship whenever something happens when we try to talk about it he will definitely forget about what he did and turned the table on me for many years now the point he brought a lady to our home home make friends with me and later they both almost took my life if isn’t God i don’t know where i was going to be,all thanks belong to God for directions since i started listening to you i had learned so much i never knew about is God that brought me across you so for this reason i am asking God to strengthen you give you more wisdom knowledge for us to learn more about relationship in christ i pray
@naturalbeauty8366
@naturalbeauty8366 3 жыл бұрын
Good day Stephan. What's your thought on a man who always wants to do 50/50 in everything we do together.? Is he just cheap or don't really care much about me.??
@nalalal8228
@nalalal8228 2 жыл бұрын
🦋🌹🦋...YOUR DATING GUIDANCE HAS BEEN IN MY HEART FOR A LONG LONG TIME, NOW, YOU HAVE AWAKEN MY "NEW ME"!! I THANK GOD FOR GIVING US YOU TO GUIDE US!! 🙏 🌹
@barbarabrown2277
@barbarabrown2277 3 жыл бұрын
FOOD FOR THOUGHT THE TRUTH ALWAYS PREVAILS!!!
@JamaicaLove876
@JamaicaLove876 3 жыл бұрын
Great video. Agree with your key points, connection, communication, chemistry, knowing your purpose, prayer,honesty. Very informative and true on all accounts, especially important for the believers to have that deep spirit connection., that's first.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@lizmatt3314
@lizmatt3314 3 жыл бұрын
Love all your tips I'm working on us and its working very well!!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@Ginclifestyle.shaina
@Ginclifestyle.shaina Жыл бұрын
Love this… thank you for your videos. It really changed my perspective since I started listening to your KZbin channel🙏🏾🇭🇹
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@Ginclifestyle.shaina
@Ginclifestyle.shaina Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks definitely. Already had been sharing to my family and friends
@heavenlyassigned.5374
@heavenlyassigned.5374 3 жыл бұрын
Just wanna say that you have a beautiful smile Stephan. I see so much joy.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@fruitfulhands3138
@fruitfulhands3138 3 жыл бұрын
Don't you think that there's a certain point where healing alone can only get you so far? Dont you believe that some healing needs to also follow inside of a relationship to expose and peel away some other things that you couldn't see on your own?
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Healing is definitely key!
@fruitfulhands3138
@fruitfulhands3138 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks yes, understandably. But how can you heal 100% on your own? Isn't it said scriptually that marrying also helps sanctify you? Doesn't that mean helping you expose the areas or corners of you that still need to be cleaned out? I mean I've been single for over 3 years from and abusive ex that I have 3 kids with. I've read so many books, put in so much work, really am healing and getting my physical health on now( challenging with an 8, 6, & 3 yr old but I'm still chasing after the best version of me) but there's so much I feel I can't heal from without someone else present things I can't even learn about myself to correct until.there somewhat of a reflection by someone else to identify.
@AmelciaQ
@AmelciaQ 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I would like to hear your views on this too!
@Heyu7her3
@Heyu7her3 2 жыл бұрын
Heading is a journey and I'm not sure if the mental health professionals believe it truly has a endpoint. So, that would mean that we continue to heal within relationships.
@lethiwesithole2232
@lethiwesithole2232 Жыл бұрын
i knew from the start you're sent by God to my life, cause wow right now you're telling my story, i'm very quick to react shem,big time and only to find that it's not even worth of that energy and tone that i used, i'm still to learn to calm down and sop reacting in the moment, and trust God and also pray, i like to assume, i'm not good into getting clarity, i just fire on just to protect myself from hurting, yuhhh
@Veronicabac
@Veronicabac 3 жыл бұрын
This is the best I have EVER heard!
@topaz44niki53
@topaz44niki53 3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@lisajones-franklin3574
@lisajones-franklin3574 3 жыл бұрын
The biggest thing for me is making sure that I consult God and listen to Him. Does anyone know the exact scripture that says God's timing is perfect? I can't find it. Thank you. Thank you for this video Stephan. ❤🙏🏽🙌🏽
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@759ramon
@759ramon 3 жыл бұрын
Ecclesiastes 3:1, 3:8
@lisajones-franklin3574
@lisajones-franklin3574 3 жыл бұрын
@@759ramon thank you. I've read this verse before and I must be missing something because I don't see where it says God's timing is perfect. I'm going to seek wise counsel so I can understand this. Thank you for your help.
@Heyu7her3
@Heyu7her3 2 жыл бұрын
@@lisajones-franklin3574 I think you are looking for an exact phrase, but Biblical scripture is interpreted from Hebrew and Koine Greek, but to mention all the different authors for the chapters. This may be one of those things that people latched onto that isn't exactly scriptural.
@kristinewaithaka2947
@kristinewaithaka2947 3 жыл бұрын
You make so much sense.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@anamariam5391
@anamariam5391 3 жыл бұрын
How wise and indispensable you are with your advice... i love listening to you because l learn a lot of u!
@sarahvogel2931
@sarahvogel2931 3 жыл бұрын
That's what I always said to be yourself
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace being ourselves because the other person will love you for who you really are.
@chiliconcarne4274
@chiliconcarne4274 3 жыл бұрын
In essence, ❤ is an action with the right motivation behind it! The reason behind the action is all if not more important than the action itself! For anyone who truly believes, 1st Cor 13:4-8 is a guideline.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!
@DeanaFrenchHairby
@DeanaFrenchHairby 3 жыл бұрын
If you're paying attention on the 1st date, people will usually tell you what is wrong with themselves. It may take a little decoding or take you awhile for it to be played out ......
@terrismith8378
@terrismith8378 3 жыл бұрын
Such a powerful video and the one thing I can say is be your best you and be your true you and you will find that one that is for you every video and message that was delivered is right on spot the truth needs no support and confirmations just keeps coming I'm waiting patiently for the one that is for me
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I pray you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you!
@terrismith8378
@terrismith8378 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I want to thank you for keep bringing such powerful messages and I definitely appreciate you for what you do and I am patiently awaiting for who God has for me
@2012MEGUSTA
@2012MEGUSTA 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all the wonderful advice. I am from Spain but studied clinical psychology at UCLA, and I can say I agree with everything you say, and also learn a lot. Every time you say “All right?” I melt😍. Must be the accent🤔😉 Keep up the good work and be very proud of how many people you are helping. God bless you.
@Veronicabac
@Veronicabac 3 жыл бұрын
Cod has given you an amazing amazing gift, Stephan !!! God bless you for going with it for help soo many. You are a gem among people,
@aprilnixon2050
@aprilnixon2050 3 жыл бұрын
You have show me so much and thank God because still healing thanks God for you.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to help and I pray that you heal all you have been through! 🙏
@aprilnixon2050
@aprilnixon2050 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank
@antoinetteroberts5626
@antoinetteroberts5626 3 жыл бұрын
Great, Great, Great. I totally agree. Make sure their is a connection too. I think connection, compatibility, values, love, respect and friendship are also very very important in relationships. And Yes, honesty is very important.
@TeresaMiAmore
@TeresaMiAmore 2 жыл бұрын
Where is the video on "Connection".. I've been waiting for a whole minute... Thank you in advance
@Abby0324-
@Abby0324- Жыл бұрын
C'est la vie!! You're such a positive person. 😊
@irenecephas84
@irenecephas84 3 жыл бұрын
boy is like you are talking to am grateful that i came across you
@ramonaphillipsteach3284
@ramonaphillipsteach3284 2 жыл бұрын
Take time to heal.
@karinagarcia4138
@karinagarcia4138 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Love ❤️ for the video 😊sending you and everyone positive vibrations 🙏🏼❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
@karinagarcia4138
@karinagarcia4138 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks 👏👏🙌🙌👍
@dare2bda137
@dare2bda137 3 жыл бұрын
This is GOLD. Ty Stephan.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@denisedepass2592
@denisedepass2592 2 жыл бұрын
Good morning stephan
@devonnabooker5206
@devonnabooker5206 3 жыл бұрын
Please keep up stephanspeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I appreciate your support!
@angeliqueweeder4935
@angeliqueweeder4935 3 жыл бұрын
communication is vital in any relationship💕
@chiliconcarne4274
@chiliconcarne4274 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed, Amen💯!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@chiliconcarne4274
@chiliconcarne4274 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Amen!
@mauryspeasethebeast4777
@mauryspeasethebeast4777 3 жыл бұрын
Great vid as usual... very crucial lesson in this day and age 🙏🏾💪🏾😎
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response, and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@mauryspeasethebeast4777
@mauryspeasethebeast4777 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks yessir
@Veronicabac
@Veronicabac 3 жыл бұрын
Soooo right on... balance and connection,!
@jacquelinenoakes8673
@jacquelinenoakes8673 3 жыл бұрын
You are telling the truth! But this really hurts!
@jenng5925
@jenng5925 3 жыл бұрын
Is this a compilation of previous videos? I’ve already heard the first tip.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
You're right it's a mashup of previous videos.
@jenng5925
@jenng5925 3 жыл бұрын
😉
@RemainForeverHealthy
@RemainForeverHealthy 3 жыл бұрын
All true. Great points
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
🙌
@steph_steph876
@steph_steph876 3 жыл бұрын
Always love these compilations.... :-)
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@ifynyce
@ifynyce 3 жыл бұрын
So true 💯 💯 💯 God in all things!! Bless u! 🙏 🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that I appreciate your response and may God bless you as well!
@bodunrinogunlola
@bodunrinogunlola 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Stephan 🙏🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@Veronicabac
@Veronicabac 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. to.be positive!
@tashamack8701
@tashamack8701 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Stephan you are giving some good pointers. I love listening to your videos. Putting God in your dating life is very important. I have learned the hard way with that. As i am getting older i am leaning more on God. Healing is very important i totally agree. Can you make a video about staying in a unhappy marriage with mental and verbal abuse going on. My best friend is really going thru something like this. He is staying in the marriage because of his son. I would like to hear your input on this situation. I really appreciate you. You are truly made for this. You have purpose Stephan. ❤❤❤💯💯
@Veronicabac
@Veronicabac 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, woman running away from extremely strong positive feelings....so true!!,
@virginiaAngelina
@virginiaAngelina 3 жыл бұрын
Great video
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@laurenholly1849
@laurenholly1849 3 жыл бұрын
Right, I've noticed no matter how casual you come across, some people will simply not discuss what is really important to them. They will wiggle out of discussing their political views or spiritual views or what they really expect from their companion. I've seen people reluctant to discuss something as simple as their skill set and how they came about getting that skill set. After talking for a few months, that is not too soon to ask about. Too me, that is part of getting to know them. I've found most of the people I encounter who do this are hiding circumstances of their life they don't want to reveal right away, such as being in a very negative financial situation or dealing with a lunatic ex. They don't have a problem with me getting attached to them first and THEN asking important questions. That way, they feel they are less likely to be rejected.
@rosemariecalumpangtapis6296
@rosemariecalumpangtapis6296 Жыл бұрын
As for me, I felt strong attachment when I join an activity of stephanspeaks but I feel a wave feelings not long even if he represented that man he initiating but I felt a man in front of you but not a man represented him. I saw the man he represented but no wave feelings. I don't know it comes only me. If I think the man who I join in his coaching I fell again there's magnetic force or the wave feeling felt again. If he say some expressing words of love you feel there's a truth in it and you fell vulnerable also to say the love words. I actually not internalize but you cannot ignore your feelings why you felt that man and he ignore also he said don't internalized it. Even if you don't internalize, if you think of him or he is always in my thought there's a wave feeling again. The other person he is initiating, observing the chemistry in connection but he is unwilling to communicate or lack of emotional maturity or there is no deep connection between us or no feelings in matching each of us. I don't know who is the man for me but I felt the man who I always join or presence in his coaching activity I felt some vibration. There's growth within or trust and respect each of us and he value me or giving some progressive feelings within us or I don't know not confirming actually or it seems there's a truth in it Even if he is a married man or not I will just gradually depart my feelings but remain in his page to know more about his coaching about in relationships and moved to be alone in healing the hurt you feel and be myself again to be happy together with my families or friends in real life with truth.
@PsychicMedium777-uw4mm
@PsychicMedium777-uw4mm 3 жыл бұрын
PRAY! 😎
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
💯 Yes! 🙏
@Veronicabac
@Veronicabac 3 жыл бұрын
Love IS a spirit !!
@cjr8042
@cjr8042 3 жыл бұрын
Easy, choose yourself. The perfect relationship is easy. Quit looking, looking for a needle in a needle stack it is not worth it.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@anamariam5391
@anamariam5391 3 жыл бұрын
Talent example!
@coletta1181
@coletta1181 3 жыл бұрын
Stephen His last text just today . Song: Only A Moment Away. By Will Downing. Please listen to it . This Man is killing ME softly!
@realangels3122
@realangels3122 2 жыл бұрын
Your tapping right into my reality 😔😔😔
@nana.dayton5290
@nana.dayton5290 3 жыл бұрын
But what if they love you and you don't feel the same way , you feel like y'all is the opposite. Your unhappy in the relationship feels as if your forcing yourself to be in it. When you tell them your unhappy and you both not compatible they don't believe you. They'll say yes we are and your not unhappy because you laugh sometimes. Alot ppl can hide their pain& feelings behind that smile and laugh😒🤦🏽‍♀️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation but we have to focus on doing what is truly best!
@shachandaj6040
@shachandaj6040 3 жыл бұрын
That sounds more like the other person is obsessed and has all of these issues that Stephan is talking about. That person not only has poor communication skills, they also fail to listen completely. A person should never allow themselves to feel like a piece of "property" because that surely isn't love. Whomever this person is, I wish them the best, but it seems like this relationships could be a very dangerous one and could possibly turn into a fatal attraction. 😬😒😔😔
@thisismystone9658
@thisismystone9658 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, is it possible to truly love someone but they are not upto standard. That even when you imagine yourself being with them you feel a headache. Yet deep down you hate the idea of not being with them?! I am trying to understand this love thing really.
@DianaGarcia-lb9dl
@DianaGarcia-lb9dl 3 жыл бұрын
It's a possibility that you may have an unhealthy attachment to them.. try to make sure you dont only love the idea of what you wan them to be. Look at their character at their moral compass does it align with yours? What is your instinct telling you to do..does it tell you to run? What your instinct/intuition is telling you is what you should do..you should also get his book love after heartbreak..it changed my life it's on Amazon
@thisismystone9658
@thisismystone9658 3 жыл бұрын
@@DianaGarcia-lb9dl thank you. I shall recommend
@inspiringthroughhushtoroar1368
@inspiringthroughhushtoroar1368 Жыл бұрын
" Erm I liked you before, but I don't anymore, but can you still sleep with me?" 🤣🤣🤣. I love you 💞 Stephan. I'm learning so much. Thank you.
@ramonaphillipsteach3284
@ramonaphillipsteach3284 2 жыл бұрын
Teach! Communication, talk about those things early.
@cynthia59665
@cynthia59665 3 жыл бұрын
You right 👍🏼
@gaildavis8004
@gaildavis8004 3 жыл бұрын
You have profound insight….
@srushtishah1862
@srushtishah1862 3 жыл бұрын
Pls make a video on feeling insecure in a relationship
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
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