Thanks for watching. Let me know how you chill tf out :)
@hannapepe3 жыл бұрын
My motto is: it is what it is 🤷♂️
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
@@hannapepe yessss
@Shawteeee3 жыл бұрын
My way is : just not get bothered about certain things. Lmfao
@lo-siento-wilson2 жыл бұрын
Chilling harder than u
@georgiagalaxy Жыл бұрын
I do it naturally every day :)
@smalltownautosalesbg3 жыл бұрын
Being chill is the best way to enjoy life. Not taking things too seriously and not letting things have too much of an effect on you when they don’t go your way is really the best way to keep a clear mind and do your best thinking. Plus if it’s something you have no control over then there’s not much of a reason to worry too much about it. Love your videos!
@williamkinsey8174 Жыл бұрын
I've also found how we drink has alot impact on how we feel.
@jenniewinter3196 Жыл бұрын
@@williamkinsey8174 in what way? 🙂
@spoopyidk2 ай бұрын
@@williamkinsey8174 I know this is from a year ago, but when I drink, I take shit WAY too seriously. The amount of arguments I've caused over random shit when drunk is unreal. I can be chill, and I feel chill when I'm not drinking. I used to like drinking a lot, because it was fun, but when it wasn't fun? It REALLY wasn't fun.
@akram5913 жыл бұрын
Man i used to want to be the center of attention and and i used to try to be funny bruh it makes me cringe , i think it's all because of how media unrealistically portrays main characters and what being cool is.......so i think i got so caught up in that idea that i got tired and like you said "you could only do so much" and so after countless efforts and after people didnt really care about my fake ass i just gave up and started being myself not trying to impress anyone it does sound like a sad story but I'm very Happy like this
@farahimaram72213 жыл бұрын
salam akram
@sensus4943 жыл бұрын
@@farahimaram7221 salam Maram
@haytamdasavage60383 жыл бұрын
Akram mnin nta Sat
@volonidminus2 жыл бұрын
I wanna tell this kid that's in my class this exact lesson. The extra problem is that my other classmates rile him up making fun of him but he doesn't know that. I've told him to stfu but it never works because he's getting attention for it. He's a loser so any attention is god status for him. He has a corny youtube channel and promotes it thinking the people annoyed by him are just haters. How do I stop this. One we hit high school it's gonna be game over. I don't hate him but he's super annoying. Help
@xxgacha_moonlightxx-18443 жыл бұрын
Im chill to the point where people think I smoked three blunts and ate a whole pack of edibles and im 13
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAH
@skizofriendic3 жыл бұрын
BAHHAHSAJKAJHA
@sh3llie3 жыл бұрын
LMAO PLSSS
@jayc33day3 жыл бұрын
Lol same
@volonidminus2 жыл бұрын
God damn bro
@thevindictive61453 жыл бұрын
My niece when she was 8 once told me that she was bored. I told her that the world exist in her heard and not she exist in the world. She should decide how she would feel, not feel whatever the world projects on her. She decides not the world decides her destiny. 10 years later and she turned out weird but very happy. I am keeping my opinions to myself next time.
@lilasa023 жыл бұрын
LOL
@CyclesSomething3 жыл бұрын
As an intj myself I find it hard to be a chill person cuz I'm always surrounded by idiots no matter how hard I try to escape it
@epicperson65783 жыл бұрын
lol
@farahimaram72213 жыл бұрын
gosh, i highly relate. seriously, let's make tiny groups of intj's to sit in circles and share our deepest thoughts, theories, or even make a secret group of *friends* to plan on how we will rule the world. but after all, you and I don't need a friend as an intj's, our minds are the most loyal friend for us. but i'll be hoping to meet someone who isn't ridiculous or childish or idiot or *feely-touchy* lol, it irritates me being surrounded by these types. i'm suffering.
@bigshark58953 жыл бұрын
I'm a infj-t
@thevindictive61453 жыл бұрын
Story of my life, but honestly two INTJs are not fun either. Both wanna rule the world.
@farahimaram72213 жыл бұрын
@@thevindictive6145 right.
@Shawteeee3 жыл бұрын
As a person who’s short tempered and is hella loud, I kinda find it hard to become calm around my friends. I am really calm inside my house, I’m trying to become more quiet and mind my business so not many things bother me now a-days.
@volonidminus2 жыл бұрын
By chance do you happen to be a short girl.. nothing biased just wanna know
@bigshark58953 жыл бұрын
I used to think trying to be funny was cool. I then became chill and laid back and people talked to me more and got more girlfriends. Being chill is really good try not to stress even in stressful environments.
@ussr48312 жыл бұрын
Aight
@volonidminus2 жыл бұрын
I dont really try to be funny and I think that's fine for me. I'm not super corny or annoying just kinda unfunny. Guess i could just chill and vibe. The hoes will come one way or another
@Rawuna Жыл бұрын
Its Stoic
@ImranRai3 жыл бұрын
"life as a logic game". YUP I needed that🤞🏽
@michaelm41533 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your advice, as an unwise and stupid teenager who is about to face the wonders of the world, this quite helps, I’m trying to build a perspective and a plan for my life, i gotta be prepared
@georgiagalaxy Жыл бұрын
Same :)))
@thechilterns3 жыл бұрын
I can't remember the last time I was chilled ( properly ) ! In fact I am generally pretty restless with my mind constantly plotting new ideas and fantasies and often ruminating worries and troubles. I look to the past and then dream about the future. But somewhere in between I find peace in a lovers arms or a beautiful sunset. Nature does me good.
@ashley_brown61062 жыл бұрын
The weirdest thing about me is that I'm super calm about the serious problems (breaking up, losing a friend, getting fired etc) but I snap at the smallest inconvienience (like my glasses falling on the ground or the phone ringing while I'm in the bathroon and I can't pick it up). I'm trying so hard to control my reactions but I just can't seem to figure out how. Even the smallest inconvienience can send me to a yelling and swearing rage for like 30 seconds to a minute. But on the other hand I handle the serious life problems like losing my job or getting cheated on with the calmness and put togetherness of a yogi? I can't make sense of myself..
@thelydshow2 жыл бұрын
you know... I actually can be like that to. I can be calm when the worst things happen and something small can make me very frustrated. It is very confusing to be us lol
@yoyobil3sal8933 жыл бұрын
I'm a supeerrrrr chill person with anger issues ...i definatlydon't get angry easily but when i do it's the Beginnig of a disaster i just become the most honest and cold hearted person ever ...but Even so i think that i'm not wrong people just cross the Line way too much cuz they see me as the calm girl who doesn't give a fuc* 🤧
@kiuura2 жыл бұрын
lol same
@yozora78963 жыл бұрын
I definitely fit the category I just like this video lmao I am always silent and laid back but if someone wants to talk to me I definitely would say something if someone initiated contact and I’m the one friend in the group who just sits there LMAO
@williamkinsey8174 Жыл бұрын
I'm on the threshold of being middle class. But it occurred to me yesterday I'm not going to achieve it until I achieve some self control and being cool. I've had a wonderful time celebrating what I've achieved financially but the last step,as they say,is the hardest.
@dababy74003 жыл бұрын
As a spaz who gets hyper easily It Just feels uncontrollable to take a chill pill
@volonidminus2 жыл бұрын
May be an adhd symptom. If you do have adhd you can get medicine for it
@zeltusCW Жыл бұрын
I relate relate. Just a lil sour this morning, and wanted a refresher, but I’m back n chiller den EVA. Thank you man
@moon95743 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty chill but I laugh alot I have adhd and stim alot but ye I kinda just sit there quietly waiting for someone to talk to me starting irl school today I’m N E R V O U S and gonna cry rn I’m really just AHSHEHEHEEEE
@volonidminus2 жыл бұрын
Guessing you're a girl and trust me you're the type of person that doesn't annoy people unless you have a loud annoying laugh. The chill girls are mostly respected
@butternutter9582 жыл бұрын
Relatable 100% people ask me the same questions and I honestly have my unchill days cause I’m human but 99% of the time people think I’m tired or high and I don’t sleep that much or do drugs. I have a natural high on life I listen to a lot of music and that reinforced positivity of happiness and musical energy has really made me feel chill all of the time thx for the content keep doing what your doing.
@davidgardiner1166 Жыл бұрын
A laid back attitude for me comes from my mother and my own life experiences over my first 30 years, the 2nd 30 has been better,it’s not always been a positive thing, but has definitely been helpful, I don’t think it’s something that can be taught, (my mother didn’t teach me, she has the same life attitude)it’s either in you or isn’t through life’s experiences , I do know that in relationships it can be infuriating to others, some people I think see it as a “don’t care” thing which is completely wrong , I see it as more of a very quick realisation that “it is what it is”
@suga2fnlw4833 жыл бұрын
6:20 is when the rules start :)
@teehee14042 жыл бұрын
this entire video itself is so chill
@evelic Жыл бұрын
I noticed that too recently. That when you decide to do something, the unvierse throws at you the exact opposite to test your resolve. Fucking sucks, but im starting to see whats happening.
@thaninadjoudi60252 жыл бұрын
Girl you have a CHILL FACE !! 🖤😹
@SaraH-ys1qv3 жыл бұрын
Please do a makeup routine on the looks you wear in videos💖
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
awww honestly i don't really know how to do makeup so it would be a terribleee video. However I do have a skincare page on insta if you're interested :) instagram.com/fckitskincare/
@vop48133 жыл бұрын
There is this thing called temperament which people have since they develope in the womb and that has lot to do whit the being chill. Also what is the persons regular positivity level(which also partly comes from genes) So some people are naturally more chill and some not but both can learn to be
@tonyscardaci2089 Жыл бұрын
Subscribed, thinking about the Move... love raven hair, and yours looks very healthy ! Cheers
@klip136 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! Cool point how people "become" chill. Do feel a little conflicted being called chill though 🤷♂️
@vampppp-l8e2 жыл бұрын
I overreact and get sensitive and offended by almost everything. I yell all the time and well my life just sucks. So tired if myself cause y know self issues and well I just want to be chill. Uncaring, don't give a damn doesn't take anything seriously you know. I know id be happier
@volonidminus2 жыл бұрын
It'll get better. That's how I used to be. Ofc I'm still not that perfectly chilled person with no cares but i just matured a bit. If you are matured by chance and don't know what's going on I would do the unethical method of being tired but not annoyed by everything. What I mean is just kinda don't talk unless you're being talked to or there's a convo you feel welcome to join in, stay in your lane. Brush off what people say or do as them being an idiot below you and move on. This isn't what I do but it may work for you
@woody55633 жыл бұрын
This is a great video and should have over a million views.
@marisajaydenn52563 жыл бұрын
i love this whole video 💗 your energy is lovely
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
my lack of energy haha
@kittychicha75573 жыл бұрын
thanks for raising me
@williamkinsey8174 Жыл бұрын
I think your intention is good You do tend to r as ramble a bit But your right Chill is built on a realisation that I have to be cool with this. That's not easy! But it is a starting point And a realisation that we are not the only ones trying to achieve this!
@williamkinsey8174 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely brilliant and your spot on Life is a simulation and a game. And the object of the game is to win it doesn't matter what you have to do.
@kwokyincheung84752 жыл бұрын
Greetings from Hong Kong. I was looking for videos in chill vibes and this just popped out One helps me a lot is “Momento Mori” which I think it’s quite similar to what you said Will definitely check out more videos from you🥳
@ArtandKitchen_11 ай бұрын
Im the chillest singlemom ever, but I still know my responsibilities,, I am not happy go lucky, just chill
@pedroalonso30473 жыл бұрын
Wassup chill gang 😎😎😎
@shahzaibkhan-fl4lr3 жыл бұрын
Hey wassup ✨
@slomowrx7893 жыл бұрын
Thx for this, it helped a lot 👍
@kiuura2 жыл бұрын
idk how to explain but I really relate to your videos lol thanks dude
@thelydshow2 жыл бұрын
that sounds like a great explanation. thank youuu
@exxaisaloser67092 жыл бұрын
im italian, i was born loud.
@tamarahhabib3 жыл бұрын
as an infp, chill is engraved in me🙄🙄
@jokesonyou2222 жыл бұрын
😜😜 im a infp tooo
@gjwkzvaksb3682 жыл бұрын
"Everything happens for a reason"
@hiDevgarg Жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video. Love from India🙏😇
@thelydshow Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@person69yearsago373 жыл бұрын
I want to be chill but still fun and hyper
@isassin2 жыл бұрын
I wanna be good at puns and a vibe like sans the skeleton
@Emilybackfisch3 жыл бұрын
“You spend the whole first year crying maybe even the first 20 years” 😂
@Mr._.Andrian3 жыл бұрын
Ayoo chill vibes from israel 🍹🌆 Also you made me realize that Sims comes from the word simulation Great video btw
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
I think the question is, are we the sims?
@Mr._.Andrian3 жыл бұрын
@@thelydshow nah, I see people more as GTA characters - chaotic and bad at driving
@augieroncaglia22973 жыл бұрын
I’m going to high school soon and I want to chill out so I’m not bullied
@younginlp97153 жыл бұрын
Number one thing in high school is mind your business unless you like fighting
@greglast5082 Жыл бұрын
if it’s not abt money,self happiness or family it won’t bother me
@thelydshow Жыл бұрын
wise words
@odell3 жыл бұрын
I need a friend like you.
@piratethornx15542 жыл бұрын
bing chillin
@gjwkzvaksb3682 жыл бұрын
Bing chillin
@danielapereira64952 жыл бұрын
New channel I’m obsessed with
@thelydshow2 жыл бұрын
awww this makes me so happy you don't understand
@jeremyknifley2 жыл бұрын
I am totally a chill person a 39 year old cool guy!
@joshstevens46262 жыл бұрын
I try to be chill and cool like Clint Eastwood but I can’t 😭
@rjain9652 жыл бұрын
I think you should read the secret.
@williamkinsey8174 Жыл бұрын
One thing I would add is that often when we think there is no solution it's because we are running on stress. Stress begats stress as they say and the answer often is there it is just hidden. The Japanese use a method called ikebana. Which having a minimalist place or maybe even just a wall where they can think things through calmly!
@priyankapawarjawalgikar336 Жыл бұрын
I love ur video....I'm a doctor n being a chill person really helps....I hope you become a good one.
@Sigmacoolboy17292 жыл бұрын
I'm chill myself,I've only become this way a few months ago. I've noticed people are meaner now,And that I don't get mad about it and move on. They become More aggressive. I don't understand people. Any advice if you got some?
@thelydshow2 жыл бұрын
odds are people have gone crazy during these past two years and seem 'meaner'. My advise is don't waste energy on people who aren't worth it :)
@minbutt39483 жыл бұрын
t-the real question is where are you now? 💀
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
secret undisclosed location
@SupermanSavage3 жыл бұрын
It eeeez what it eeeez! 🤷🏾♂️
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
it eeez
@Strawberry_Angelic3 жыл бұрын
Idk what chill is but I’m quiet not a spaz but friends say I need to learn to chill still soo like ???
@niqchen Жыл бұрын
I feel like I was in the UK heading back to usa at the exact same time as you haha
@thelydshow Жыл бұрын
no freaking way
@niqchen Жыл бұрын
@@thelydshow Yaa what airport did u fly out of?
@ma16103 жыл бұрын
The 500 like is here 😂💪 Lol once you said that you're an assertive INTJ and I just felt it and one question? 🤔 According to your Te Isnt that a little hard sometimes to be that chill? I guess it is lol
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
yeah every couple of months I have a scheduled breakdown
@immanuel123412 жыл бұрын
Good for you.
@muhammadtahabutt20722 жыл бұрын
I can never be understand that fact that more the country is successful and 🤑 less the cloths they have
@Kodex282 жыл бұрын
Or just be you unless you REALLY want to change
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes Жыл бұрын
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@graveyardspliff2 жыл бұрын
We’re just introverts 😔
@Islamic....vibesforever Жыл бұрын
🔥
@Braadsterr3 жыл бұрын
I’m just annoying and toxic
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
yikes
@silviazandona87852 жыл бұрын
omg same
@erockbrox84847 ай бұрын
I would have to say that the whole Covid thing, I don't think this was supposed to happen and that the world would be better if this didn't happen.
@thelydshow6 ай бұрын
i mean i do love wfh which perhaps covid accelerated
@PRINCEGOYAL0006 Жыл бұрын
I have to disable Subtitles 😂
@mr.shrestha5031Ай бұрын
👀
@goku52972 жыл бұрын
My name is Jay kitchen counter table floor pizza slice on top and I’m loud as freak for no reason
@CaptWeeThaBarrrmy2 жыл бұрын
🎼🎵🎶🎤🐸💖🐷🇺🇸 Lydia O Lydia… Say have you met Lydia? Lydia the Taaattooed Lady… 🎶 She has eyes that folks adore so And a torso even more Lydia, oh! Lydia, that “Encyclopedia” Oh Lydia, the Queen of tattoos….🎶 🐸🐷 (The Muppet Show circa 1977) (If I get 123 “Likes” I’ll finish the song 😜😘)
@matthewharries-vq4fq Жыл бұрын
I'd love too chill with ypu❤
@zhailok3 жыл бұрын
room tour :)??
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
i have an apartment tour vid up!
@zhailok3 жыл бұрын
oh thank you : D
@vnd3rwrldvxbez9483 жыл бұрын
becky sounds like a hyper type of girl
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
lmaooo
@Enzo-xx Жыл бұрын
You kinda look like aemond from house of the dragon
@thelydshow Жыл бұрын
LMAOOO I see it too unfortunately
@chadester0012 жыл бұрын
What is ur ethnicity beauty ?
@thelydshow2 жыл бұрын
69% neanderthal
@orduni902 жыл бұрын
How to be chill? Be born a Sagittarius.
@thelydshow2 жыл бұрын
absolutely not sag, wildest people I know
@ragh90143 жыл бұрын
Everything was cool until you said "Israel" Yeah whatever, next video
@thelydshow3 жыл бұрын
To judge me based on what I call a country when this is clearly not a political video is uncalled for. When I purchase a flight to a place, I give the name of the destination written on my ticket. Period.
@ashley_brown61062 жыл бұрын
Umm what is she supposed to call it?😅😅
@ragh90142 жыл бұрын
@@ashley_brown6106 Its real name? Palestine.
@jakepaulpound-for-pound94182 жыл бұрын
“What killed the dinosaurs? The Ice Age!” - Arnold Schwarzenegger