The Asad Sisters Episode 7 | Dating as a Muslim, Spilling ALL the tea!

[@hutchlass]

When I was getting interested in boys, my mom always said, "Can you see him and his family sitting around the table with your family? Will he respect and care for your parents, aunts & uncles, grandparents? It worked. I've been married to a wonderful man for 47 years!

[@justcommenting3515]

Great advice

[@amalalmasafri9138]

Appreciate the advice ☑️ I will consider when I choose my partner.,

[@imanemachata8794]

Great

[@ri9596]

Beautiful advise. Your mum sounds like a great woman. 🥰

[@X_m19]

This comment is so pure. Wish you the best ☺️

[@Esxae]

“Everybody wants you anyways, might as well wait until you can pick the good ones” 😂 Love this energy from Loren 🙌🏼

[@ragaamahmoud9114]

The most important advice I can give to Muslim parents is to rais your child with very strong self-confidence and they should always have friends like them with the same roles and cultural and with their American friends allows the to come home to your house and try to know their families too. And when your son or daughter tells you a secret don’t judge them and you always say if I was you I will do this and that makes them trust you and be there for them they will always count on you. I raised three kids, I never told any of their secrets to their father they know right from wrong and they have to have conscious that God is there watching not me not dad.

[@queenqueen73]

Thank You so much this is so helpful as me myself is a Mother of three

[@SonyaBay]

Love hearing from other moms 💕👍

[@katy_._chtr8903]

Mashallah love that

[@RanaYurtsever]

This is soo helpful! I have 2 daughters 1 and almost 3 and am already thinking about this. Thank you!! 💗

[@AC-iw5mv]

❤️❤️

[@chickenbaddie318]

DO MORE PODCAST STYLE VIDEOS. I love it!! It’s so easy to listen to cause I could do something will listening to you guys.

[@asadsisters7018]

We will!

[@belentorres7941]

yes! I was driving while listening to them 🧡

[@MEOW-ef5yo]

@@asadsisters7018 love from Afghanistan

[@shabsb1282]

can even be added to podcast apps :)

[@chickenbaddie318]

@@shabsb1282 inshallah they have a large following to have it

[@nailaabdul-hakeem7104]

This just brought back so many memories that I used to have with my friends back in the day about finding guys we were going to get married to. I'm glad you guys are showing that Muslim women go through the same things that other women go through.

[@SafiaFeroze]

My husband and I have 4 girls ages 11,9,7,5 so in my opinion it starts at home life. Even if you aren’t talking about dating and boys you have to teach them about our faith. Now in days kids have bf/gf at like 5 in kindergarten. These kids out here are hyper sexual and the media isn’t helping that’s why it’s so important to make sure your household is the way you want your kids to grow up it doesn’t happen overnight it has to start from a very young age.

[@pumulomambwe9585]

The sad thing is society ends up having more influence on children than parents, because they’re at school for 8 hours, on social media for like 3 hours and with their friends for the rest of the time theyre awake. So if they dont turn out how you planned, its probably not your fault

[@Fizvidz]

Agree 💯

[@sarahmeidan8066]

I honestly wouldn't even mind if u guys kept doing these type of videos, theyre so comforting its like having a girls talk with 3 older sisters

[@aqzismail9281]

I'm turning 20 in a couple of months and this is something that I've been thinking about more as i get older... there's no one in my family that around my age that i can talk to about these things and my close friends aren't muslim so its kind of hard for them to relate to the whole "dating for marraige" perspective. I have not the slightest clue about relationships or what to look for when getting into one and so listening to you guys has given me a better perspective about this. You girls are the older sisters that i don't have ... thanks so much for just being you... lots of love from South Africa 🇿🇦💖... (also loved the editing of the vlog 😂😘)

[@aqzismail9281]

@Imadah Fataar Hi 😊💖

[@Peace-88843]

Hi sis, i highly recommended listening to the podcast ‘mindful muslimah’. She gives great guidance on this topic

[@melatimohdsalleh1880]

With all the nuanncess about dating in US and western cultures @Asad Sisters , it is Best as practicing muslimah to say we do “courtship” because courtship is getting to know someone is chaperoned meetings with the intention of possible marriage . Courtship

[@zahramoussati9079]

im looking forward to this because its something that has been on my mind a lot and is a hard topic and not something that we talk about enough

[@luckyahmed200]

Im not a parent but I think regarding Alaina and kids in general, if you explain the faith and answer their questions properly, for them dating won’t be a big deal, yeah they will have crushes but as Leena said, they won’t act on it and won’t feel left out that everyone else around them are in relationships. For bangladeshi households, they make you fear God and your family and then the kids are doing things behind their parents’ back and get into situations they shouldn’t be in. For younger Muslims, It’s ok to date with the intention of marriage but while you find a potential partner, involve an adult you trust to know and give you halal advice. Some people will take advantage of you, be it boy or girl, and use and abuse you so becareful how you proceed

[@missdalina608]

I do think you can grow attracted to someone, like if i meet a men to whom i am not physically attracted at first but then get to discover his personality and self and if they match mine i will definitely start seeing him in a more attractive way physically and in general

[@zeynand4039]

It's like that with friends too. Once someone starts talking I start to like or dislike them.

[@julia.md2b707]

I grew up catholic with pretty much the same rules and expectations. My parents decided to rule with an iron fist and all it did was ruin our relationship for years and make me leave our church. I think if they had sat down and actually had a conversation with me things would have turned out very differently and I probably would have followed all the rules and expectations. When our religions were established everyone got married during those early years of puberty. Now we wait to finish our educations but it makes those teenage years hard. I wish my parents had been willing to listen to my struggles without getting angry or punishing me. I hope that you can do that for Alaina.

[@ummeaiman9134]

May you find your way of hapiness sis :)

[@daldula81]

🦃 I have 3 girls, 18, 16, and 12. Best advice I can give you is keep them busy, whether it’s sports, musical instruments, academics, and most importantly, connected to the masjid. Highly recommend to get them started in a Quran programs and youth programs in the masjid. And last thing, don’t forget to always make duaa for them, ultimately that’s the most important thing.

[@Aliiiciiaa]

I loveee this style of video. You girls need your own podcast, I love listening to people (ones I like) talk. I can listen/watch whilst cooking/cleaning/working out. Great video as always! 💡

[@aabidahsiebritz3839]

Leena literally said what I always thought after I got married, like I can't imagine being so close to someone and then his not the right person, that is very intense.

[@danaalkandari3373]

Raising Alaina with a strong faith from a very young age will allow her to grow knowing that she doesn’t need a boyfriend/date to be satisfied, the love of Allah and the religion will surpass any boyfriend/dating thoughts. Women in Islam are honoured and respected, we don’t need a boyfriend to validate our existence. Proposal dating to know the guy should be around family members to make it halal. Anything oustide this boundary is against the teachings of Islam and it shouldn’t be taken lightheartedly.

[@sarahhadj3548]

You are so right they shouldn’t encourage young girls to date a year before marriage without family members. Islam made everything perfect for us even when you don’t understand it in the moment

[@alhamdulillhforislam458]

Lo! men who surrender unto Allah, and women who surrender, and men who believe and women who believe, and men who obey and women who obey, and men who speak the truth and women who speak the truth, and men who persevere (in righteousness) and women who persevere, and men who are humble and women who are humble, and men who give alms and women who give alms, and men who fast and women who fast, and men who guard their modesty and women who guard (their modesty), and men who remember Allah much and women who remember - Allah hath prepared for them forgiveness and a vast reward.(Quran chapter 33:35)

[@oumaima3547]

@@sarahhadj3548 hasn't Amanda been seeing mohamed for more than 3 years tho?

[@user-is2mk9vo3o]

This is the right comment 👍🏻

[@A14BYT]

I love Loren she is so brutally honest and her and Amanda are so funny and Leena is so sweet x

[@sysamanthahope9033]

I agree with this, as a practicing Catholic Christian we also have boundaries of no intimacy before marriage, and dating is ok in the sense that you can eat out in a restaurant and talk, but not more than that, there is wisdom in it as many women are heartbroken after giving themselves to their boyfriends who end up leaving

[@ertugrulbae46]

As a Muslim, I'm surprised Catholic Christians are the similar..its usually the Eastern Orthodox but even then...chastity is super rare for them these days But it's really cute and wholesome..I find it really sweet ❤

[@ertugrulbae46]

@@princessraj5921 that's a really cute story. Also it is modest according to your beleif and standards in yhe western society here. The Islamic rulings are for Muslims only and the whole idea is that you're trying, God centred and God willing good will come from it...and it has many times before :)

[@ertugrulbae46]

@@princessraj5921 over here in the UK its a concept which is practically non-existent. I thought the US would be worse due to even more secularism..kinda like the big cities in UK. But I guess I was wrong.

[@ertugrulbae46]

@@princessraj5921 what was your experiance with the Muslims in the US like?

[@faithjames8900]

@@ertugrulbae46 y r u surprise Judaism n Christianity leads up to Islam!!!!! The pure things still stay the same!!!! Most Christians r just not as discipline as Jews n Muslims to be honest( not saying there r not Muslims n Jews who r not as discipline as well)

[@sunnyflour4324]

Honestly dating and finding love in general is so hard as a Muslim girl, especially in the west. Like idk how I’m going to ever find someone that not only do I love/ feel attracted to but that also fits into my life and gets along with my family. I’m probably going to be alone my entire life because there’s no way that that person exits

[@user-bk9xs3hy7y]

You are not alone on that

[@Sona77.]

I feel the same. I’m Not Muslim, but having the same issue.

[@soukymiller3657]

Same, for a load of girls its the truth unfortunately

[@ulama7828]

GO TO ISLAMIC EVENTS AND MEET PEOPLE

[@mariemeriem]

Hi, I feel you girl, I'm exactly in the same case. Were do you live ? I think we can create a group of the “singles ladies living in the west“ 😆

[@j72726]

amanda is actually so funny though😂

[@sammysnow2161]

I seriously enjoyed this video. Your true personalities came out which was so great to see! Keep up the great work. Oh, loved Amanda’s sass. Thanks for letting us see this side of her. 😂❤️

[@Hayaaaasd]

Thank you for speaking about this. I am a revert (of 9 years) and was raised to have morals and values of respecting myself, but not a religious home. This meant I was freely dating without a worry, and my family were always welcoming and accepting. As a muslim now, I want to raise my children similarly to me, because my parents were open with me and we had a mutual respect for one another, I never disrespected them or myself and only ever had one Partner (who i am now married to) however so many girls i know who grew up in muslim households rebelled due to overly strict rules with no explanation to their kids. My best friend is muslim and East African- she got pregnant out of wedlock and so many people i know have been through this too. Its hard- and its so nice having women who have clearly been raised to have morals which support our religion, but not strict where they need to rebel. Thank you for showing the world we can be Muslim, fun and free!! 🥰

[@roshanara4810]

Pregnant out of Wedlock is Haram. You need to ask a good Islamic scholar about what to do. People don't have knowledge, they need to educate themselves

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Dating is haram in Islam

[@jamilaibrahim2162]

Felt like a different side to Amanda’s personality came out more in this video...the sass...loved it ❤️

[@danahportlouis3776]

Right 😂

[@narimanech1562]

I like how Loren and Amanda kept borrowing from lena's makeup the entire time 😂 but seriously had a lot of fun watching you guys just talk ❤ 🦃

[@qudsiyahmohammed5303]

leena looks so pretty with no makeup on مَا شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ‎ ! so do amanda and loren but i’m just not used to seeing leena without any on and she looks so pretty!

[@thetrendytoonie-makingfina5480]

Love this video ladies! Would love to hear more about how it was to grow up Muslim in Texas and how you envision raising your future children in Islam IsA.

[@zainababiera4110]

I'm 46 and I love ❤ this conversation. This is so helpful for ladies who didn't get chance to go out nor speak to anyone openly about this things. Especially for those who don't have a sister. 🧡❤💜

[@moniqueaugust6719]

I would say this to my daughter.... "you a smart girl and you know what you need at this moment to reach your goals and to achieve more for yourself ,so ask yourself if having that extra person as more than a friend is going to benefit you in any way and if you think it's worth it to start dating now already ,while you have so much going on?"

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Dating is haram in Islam

[@yaldasafari1496]

Who else just love watching The Asad Sisters video? 💖💗💖 All three Sisters are like a big sister to me Mashallah!! 💖🥰💖

[@aokiji97]

I am looking forward to watching this video honestly!!! You made me super happy! ❤️❤️

[@Salsssssss]

I think a podcast series on the sister channel should totally be a thing!! I would love it

[@munamahamed790]

Amanda is literally funny 😂 love this video

[@sherryidibo2304]

I have enjoyed this episode so much...all of you are just being natural and spontaneously about this interesting topic.

[@МиаАннаМесарош]

I'm living the best life being a single woman and never dated anyone cause I was homeschooled thank God! My parents were totally fine if I dated when I was younger there were no restrictions, but I made a promise to myself and the Almighty that I would wait till I was in college like at least 20's. I also wanted to find a guy who is a believer and goes by traditional values also believes in a covenant marriage (it's holy). Anyways blessings to y'all

[@rym2557]

Love your channel ! The Muslim women point for view is so important for this generation of young women and helps break the taboos in the Muslim community so we can educate each other ! Also, I'm a graphic design student and I would suggest not to use an outline on the font in your thumbnails ! It sometimes makes it harder to read ! You can simply keep the font black because it's the strongest color for contrast ! Hope I could help you !

[@PastleLif3]

All these 3 sisters are so perfectly different! Amanda favors her mom so much!

[@yassminsaqri8795]

Love love LOVE this format. Petition to start an Asad sister podcast!!

[@axa4483]

This was the best!!! Loved this video. Love how u all were open about relationships and giving advice on what to look out for in a relationship and something that is long-term.

[@aminakucci4218]

Such a good topic !! What a pity u haven't started this channel only three years ago, I was in so need of an advice ^_^ anyway, m eager to see what u have to say about it

[@user-xn5nc5bz7h]

Love this podcast style, but also love the rest. Maybe switching it up here and there will be so fun to watch

[@zahraakhan2793]

I love this little sit-down it feels so refreshing yall answered all my questions so much, love

[@schoolprojects6786]

You guys should do more podcast, it would be a hit cuz no one else has your vibes and aesthetic

[@fh7041]

I personally teach my younger sister (7yrs old now) to enjoy her own childhood. She is great at math and timekeeping so the concept that childhood is the shortest time of her life, she easily understood. Now she says I'm protecting my childhood (she really is building the skill of living and enjoying now. which I'm still working on LOLLLLLL) I am hoping to build her character so no matter what happens she has more than enough tools to succeed at whatever journey she has in life. So don't worry about boyfriends :D teach her great decision-making skills, self-worth, communication skills, people skills, and so on. The value of protecting her childhood. She will have enough time for romance and adulting.

[@mariemclute755]

I loved this so much! Can't wait to see another one of these

[@NadiaButler1]

Assalam Alaikum, I love all the Asad sister's videos, I don't think I've heard any profanity used ever which I love as i hate the sound of profanity. I agree with some points you sister's have made, however I disagree with dating before marriage as a Muslim, as this really does go against Islam. I agree that you should get to know a potential spouse, within the Islamic guidelines. I know living in the West it can be hard, as many young people don't want their parents hovering over them. However, this is only for our benefit. Remember Allah Almighty has not obligated something, except that it is for our own good and to protect us from harm. SubhanAllah Think about it if you date a guy who says he's interested in marriage, he could just tell you a bunch of lies and waste your time, as is the case a lot of the times. Also, you may think that no physical contact will happen but an 'innocent hug' could very quickly turn into something more and it doesn't matter whether your in public or secluded , your still alone. The Prophet of Islam (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No man is alone with a woman but the Shaytaan will be the third one present.” My advice to any sisters reading this comment is to first and foremost make sincere dua to Allah Almighty. Remember He is The Only One Who will grant you a righteous spouse and He is The Only One Who puts the Love between you, And it is among His signs that He has created for you wives from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquility in them, and He has created love and kindness between you. Surely in this there are signs for a people who reflect. The Holy Quran Surah 30 Verse 21 I would let your parents know that your interested in getting married before even meeting anyone as this would make your parents feel happy that you are letting them know before anything, and if you do meet someone to tell your parents straight away as there shouldn't be any secrets, if this man seriously wants to marry you he would immediately want to speak to your father, any man that avoids the topic of getting family involved should be avoided, as he is clearly showing his true motives, please don't fall for any of his excuses. Sisters Islam has honored you, why are you degrading yourself for a little boy who can't even speak to your father. If a man likes you, tell him to go talk to your dad, if you like a man tell your dad to talk to him, simple Start your marriage by obeying Allah Almighty and you will have a blessed marriage. JazakAllah sending love and prayers always xxx

[@amphoteric]

getting to know someone like that is also considered dating. idk why yall always jump to sex as a part of dating but dating is whatever u make it. and not everybody has sex lol

[@BushraKhan]

i'm so excited to watch this 🥰 brb while I go grab a snack

[@stargirlnous]

OOMMMGG MY TOO FAVE KZbinRSS!!!

[@BushraKhan]

@@stargirlnous awww 🥺

[@P5yduck-q7i]

More of these podcast-like videos pls!! And you guys looked stunning MashaAllah!! Yall skins are amazinggggg😩😍

[@betulkablan3710]

I would like each of you guys to have little mic, the sound quality would be better, keep on podcast style coming 🌸

[@anitatapiocah]

🦃 loving the energy from you guys, I follow you all separately, but am so happy to watch you three interact, great video, can't wait for the next one!

[@whereheathergrows]

Hello! Married 30 years here~ and very happily I might add. He’s Turkish and I’m a native Texan that grew up in a very conservative Christian home. I rebelled in many ways and I joke that I married the first Muslim dude I found 😉 I’m kidding but also that is true. He was not raised with his religion~even though he was expected to practice it. It was very confusing. But as you said our morals aligned. And we’ve been madly in love ever since. Don’t limit love. (And we made every effort to share his Turkish culture with our kids, educating ourselves along they are 23 & 19)

[@rayene1683]

I genuinely loved and enjoyed this girl chat with y'all beauties😍 I wish you continue this concept from now and on, It's so cool n amazing👏👏❤

[@ladychi7618]

Loren cracked me up hahahaha Leena and Amanda *gasp* " You did?" Loren "Yeah!" So funny!

[@khll422]

Love you guys, Amanda looks gorgeous ! I love Lauren's charisma and lina she is so calm😍

[@larissavasquezz]

I usually don’t comment what I think if it seems bad, but I would have liked Leena to speak more about her relationship with Omar. Loren and Amanda discuss how a person changes so much after high school; I would have liked to hear the input from Leenas perspective of finding your person at such a young age. I enjoyed the whole video, but just wanted to put that out there. I feel like others would have appreciated that perspective as well as Loren and Amanda’s. All the love 🤍🤍

[@Bethkopay]

I like the topic. I feel though I would like a “this is what I’m putting on my face right now” make up tutorial. I didn’t realize so many products existed, how to use them, and whatnot. Great video and I’m excited to see the next one!

[@alexsghostcookie8142]

I‘m 27 and I’m a German Muslim of Turkish heritage. My Turkish family always told me that I’m only allowed to marry a Turkish guy and said that all other nationalities are „dirty“ (yes, my family is Muslim 🥲). This has hurt and traumatised me so much that I decided not to get married as I feel like they care more about their reputation and roots then my happiness in a (halal) marriage. Life feels lonely sometimes as my friends are getting married or non-Muslim friends are in relationships but it’s okay. I just try to have sabr and focus on myself and caring and loving myself.

[@Alexandra-lh3vw]

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that by focusing on God, you'll be able to find strength through the difficulties.

[@lillillee]

Its interesting how the conversation keeps going. But maybe put a little space in between. Like it's a lot of nonstop and its easier to watch if its broken down but with a little space

[@habibaayman8958]

The talk was really beneficial and informative but I would just like to say that actually an engagement in Islam was actually made for a couple to get to know each other and it’s nothing but a future promise for marriage that is actually supposed to be very low key however some cultures have turned it into an actual marriage. So it really depends on our view of what an engagement is. I think that if we just actually do an Islamic engagement there wouldn’t really be a problem and couples would actually get to know each other in different contexts as intended.

[@hiba.soomro]

Leena is so mature MashaAllah ❤ you guys are so lucky to have each other ❤

[@paolagonzalez3831]

This was actually my favorite video!! 🦃🤍 love y’all’s personality

[@taramisu1483]

Leena is 💯 first born vibes #firstbornsquad

[@Withloveleenaofficial]

Yessss 😂😂

[@zuzumeyer6467]

Can we get a story time on lorens past relationship pls🤭

[@celiabonadies5667]

Yes, wasn't she engaged?

[@KeketsoN01]

Its the first video on her channel

[@amy-mayfreeman2879]

@@KeketsoN01 which video ? I think she may have deleted

[@KeketsoN01]

@@amy-mayfreeman2879 i do think she now deleted it yes

[@zehra6059]

@@celiabonadies5667 right? thats what i've been thinking am i tripping wasnt she engaged? inshallah nothing serious bless her :(🧿

[@Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

I think u guys shouldn't use the word dating because its a western thing like going out to a restaraunt just u and him etc which isn't allowed But yeh in islam its fine to talk to the guy you're gonna marry if you're mahrams are around to get to know them nothing wrong with that

[@inaya738]

Can’t wait for another amazing video!!

[@asadsisters7018]

Yay! Thank you!

[@SamirSiraj8542]

​@@asadsisters7018 are you guys Muslim? If yes then remember, Dating is haram in Islam

[@fdiabss]

i love that video i'm agree with everything, the other day i was talking the same with two of my muslim friends and i was saying the same you are saying and they become the haram police like i don't get it so you telling me that i have to marry or get engaged with the firts person that i saw or what. I NEED MORE CONTENT LIKE THIS AS A MUSLIM TEENAGER WITH LITERALY NOBODY TO TALK THIS THINGS I would appreciate it. One topic that would be good is that type of parents/aunties that wants you to marry your cousins lmao or the pressure Muslim women feel to be perfect and do nothing wrong while men in our cultures can do whatever they want.

[@lmangies]

Im 18 years old and never been in a romantic relationship bc i dont find my mental health good enough But here are some tips Teach her to know true values in guys to be a confident girl not to fall under the influence of the environment and of course teach about faith Im orthodox and we have similar values

[@essi2932]

Love that you addressed the taboo topic- dating. I wish it was discussed more but parents dont know how to approach the subject comfortably with daughters

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Dating is haram in Islam

[@hyrunnisa997]

In terms of raising kids it will be easier for them to adhere to their own religious beliefs if they think of them as their own. They need to have a relationship with God, they need to love Allah and Islam and modesty. Then it will be their choice to not have a boyfriend because they want to please Allah and they don't want to sin. So that means taking extra time to teach them the faith, read books about the prophet, go to Sunday school. Take your kids to the mosque. Have them join a Muslim youth group. Have other kids of the same age and gender who are Muslims as friends. Thats my advice.

[@abbydavis3138]

🦃 I loved it!!! Please do more! Amanda’s personality is really coming out! I love it!

[@farahahmady4547]

Thank you so much for making these videos. It really can be helpful for a confused mom like me.

[@asra9897]

Thank you so much for talking about this 🥰 as a Muslim teen I've been tginking abt this for so long, and kinda felt insecure for not having boyfriend and stuff ...

[@aqzismail9281]

Same.. especially since my close friends were non-Muslim and were in relationships while in high school and i always felt like i was 3rd wheeling them during lunch breaks and stuff

[@ertugrulbae46]

Well I advise you hang out only with Muslims which are practicing so you won't feel excluded. I'm 24 now and never been anywhere near a woman. And honestly wouldn't want to be with a girl who can't provide the same back

[@cindybusingye6455]

Love this podcast/talkshow format!! "Lightswitch" has me dead 💡💡🤣🤣🤣🤣 Its weird that I watch all your individual videos but someone I got to see more of your personalites in this group video 🦃🦃🐔🍗🍗

[@sb1539]

I have been brought up taught that dating was haram though? Unless there is a mahram of the female present in the room? I don't think one to one with a male is allowed before marriage in Islam guys :)

[@Missy_Dee]

It is haram. You are right. Dating is haram. I was confused too watching this video. It’s also sending out the wrong message to young Muslim girls.

[@SamirSiraj8542]

You are right. Dating is haram in Islam. Anyone that thinks dating is right is out of Islam. You can talk you the girl, you are supposed to marry in presence of her wali

[@OurSabeel]

i watched for advise as i have two girls 5 and 6 yrs old currently and i think of this all the time as im a revert. Im so glad that they have eachother to grow up with and go through this. I agree 100% percent about being open and honest with them.

[@areebakhan9296]

I literally loved this video! You guys are awesome and inspire me a whole lot! Keep up the fantastic work! Ilysm💖

[@amadou.oury.diallo]

Thank y’all so much for another great video. 🖤 I really enjoyed hearing y’all’s perspectives on this topic (especially the various points of views of y’all have based on your individual experiences). I love this format y’all have started. 🦃🖤

[@Bhana8]

I love your sister channel! :) I honestly prefer the vlog style though and what a day/few days look like in your guys’ life.

[@e.m.g3]

For Alina.. U just gotta explain to her the right teachings of Islam and that boys and girls aren't allowed to get gf or bf .. And concepts like ( girlfriend or boyfriend) aren't in our religion.. I'm 18 and I totally understand this.. & I'm happy cuz I know dating or (engagement ) starts when u are physically and mentally ready to get married .. At my teenage years I just have to focus on being a good human, developing myself , knowing more abt the world and focusing on my studies to be a good human ,good wife and good mom in the future.

[@ayahattar6670]

Guys keep in mind they are giving advice based on their opinions and experiences. That does not mean Islam endorses dating

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Dating is haram in Islam.

[@zuzumeyer6467]

Loved this video so much, pls do these more often. There were definitely very useful tips! ❤️❤️ love you guys

[@amandanena4114]

I totally agree with teaching our children to wait until they are ready for marriage to pursue someone BUT it’s going to be so hard for me to enforce that when my husband end I met in HS and started “dating” lol 😂 god willing it will all work out!!

[@Withloveleenaofficial]

Omg SAME!!!

[@mariamm3579]

Loved this video style and also props to the editing it was very on point and funny 😆

[@nadakaba7748]

Although I agree with some points I didnt get the reason why the guy shouldnt be on social media or why they see it as a negative thing while their whole life/work is in social media….

[@labibatahsin4873]

I always used to think Amanda is so serious all the time idk y but just seeing all the sisters together on this channel is so refreshing and everyones personality shining!! Hahah amanda is actually jokesss, love alll of them so muchhh

[@wissam7830]

It truly felt like having a warm dicussion with 3 new sisters ✨ loved the energy in the video!! ❤❤

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Dating is haram in Islam

[@cecilyspencer7753]

Leena I am a mom to 9 kids. I’m not Muslim but we have similar values. May I suggest you look into the book parenting with love and logic. It will help you with, well, everything but it will lay the groundwork so as a teen Alaina will be able to think through decisions based on your values and the relationship you have and it will be easier on her to live within those boundaries. Also would you all consider doing a video for your non-Muslim followers regular song the rules for dating and engagement that you follow? I notice your sister travels with her fiancé and I was curious about that. Thanks

[@SweetAily331]

Her sister had her Islamic wedding already, which is essentially a very intimate religious ceremony. They are married religiously, which means they can travel and be together alone as a married couple. However they still haven’t had the traditional big wedding yet, which is why they still refer to themselves as fiancé fiancée.

[@valf156115]

Its cultural they way they refer themselves as fiancé, in my culture, as soon as you do your nikah (islamic wedding) you are referred to as married

[@MariamNouser]

I love this style of video! Makes me wish I had sisters but I live vicariously through yall

[@tayseerismail9497]

the thing about the early engagement is that getting engaged doesn't mean that you have to marry this person. Actually the engagement period is the getting to know the other one period.

[@joodk4517]

exactly! "dating" before that is haram!

[@SamirSiraj8542]

​​@@joodk4517Dating is haram in Islam. You can't be with opposite gender without marriage

[@SamirSiraj8542]

Dating is haram in Islam

[@noreenkhawaja9289]

I loved this topic!! Can you ladies do more videos covering relationships??

[@user-kn7yj4il4h]

Loved this, please do more vids like this 💚

[@fr3agy]

I love these sit-down videos and it was sooo fun to listen to you three ❤️❤️❤️

[@yousamezian]

My prob is that I don’t meet people now that I’m finally ready for the next step in my life. I also noticed when talking to a guy i felt really guilty and disgusted by myself. I hated it so much but to be able to get into a potential relationship working towards a marriage that’s the only way to go these days. Even if you get introduced by your parents you eventually have to get to now them by yourselfthrough talking and whatever. The whole talking stage is sooo hard for me. All advice is welcome

[@Huba_beauty]

As a muslim i would consider meeting someone for marriage purposes is totally okay but getting intimate before marriage is not okay you lose your worth and you should not loose your pride for someone else..when you intimate before marriage partner will never give you that respect

[@dowana.d]

I love you all but Amanda is killing it I love her ahah such a cute video!

[@tuba268]

This video was so fun!! I felt like I was right there with you girls!

[@lailaqadr2305]

I loved this video sooo much and had me laughing multiple times so thanks for all the humor hahahahaha. Amanda is hilarious hahahaha. I didnt know this side of her yet, really refreshing to see! :) Keep up the videos, really enjoyable and fun!

[@aleynanurbozkurt5846]

This was soooo much fun!! I think dating is very important too. As a muslim girl it's hard to keep your boundaries if you love someone so much. That is why you should not have to date someone for like 5 years. As you guys said, one year is enough (if you have the chance to get engaged and get married until then) to get to know each other and see if that is the person you see yourself with the rest of your life. I really liked the podcast style. The other style you were doing was also really fun to watch, but you guys already do vlogs on your own channels and show us your 'real' daily life. This way we could listen easier and also now your thoughts on different perspectives. Maybe you can choose a specific theme every video to talk about :)

[@anakarenina3437]

00:50 it was 😅- but this style was really fun to listen. Love you girls and hoping for more podcast style episodes 💗😍

[@laibakhan3769]

I kinda don’t understand the whole the guy shouldn’t have a social media aspect when the girls are on there.. what if he has a decent profile? Or is blogging too? Would that be a turnoff? If yes then it should be allowed for the guy also to make his decisions based on the girls ig profile?

[@joodk4517]

exactly! they are all over social media so it doesn't make sense that they criticize a guy for it

[@12sumra]

Laurens eyeroll got me dyin🤣🤣🤣