The best decluttering decisions I've made (to live my best life!)

I have gotten rid of almost everything I own in the past year. Not to exaggerate, but it truly changed my life for the better. Today, I thought I would share with you the things I got rid of to live my best life. Physical things and the mindset I left behind with them.
“The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions, the work you do, social status and recognition, knowledge and education, physical appearance, special abilities, relationships, personal and family history, belief systems, and often also political, nationalistic, racial, religious, and other collective identifications. None of these is you.” -Eckhart Tolle
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[@SakshiSingh-oi8tg]

One thing I absolutely admire about, is the way you look at the concept of Minimalism. It gives it so much freedom and doesn't really makes it like a toughest practice but more like soul nourishing lifestyle

[@MalamaLife]

I'm so glad my message comes off that way 😁❤️ thank you for watching and supporting

[@tshiamoleipego5549]

Less is more.

[@MalamaLife]

🥰❤️ truly

[@user-mf7ke7em9r]

Once my beloved husband, who is 14 years older than me, said: "never worry about what society thinks about you." He didn't even mean the concept of "people"! He said exactly "society".His wisdom helped me a lot. And he taught me to be free until today. This is what I am teaching my son now.

[@sunshinebwari1593]

No amount of validation will feel as good as living my own truth💜💜

[@simplifyslow-downlive4017]

Dear Malama. I love your content. Please write a book about your knowledge, mindset & experience. I would love to buy it. All the best. ❤

[@rrosarii]

I just wanted to say that your content is exactly what I need at this point in my life. I’m 25 and feel like this is my year to let go of all the ‘clutter’. Social media makes it hard not to seek validation but I am working on it and just being who I truly am. Thank you for making this video! ❤️

[@MalamaLife]

🥰❤️

[@rangabeats]

Getting rid of all social media was the best decision I’ve ever made. No more Snapchat, FB, instagram. Once you free yourself from the algorithm you will see a world of difference with your mentality.

[@chantalelzingaofficial]

It's definitely something to get used to, I was addicted to Instagram, checking the new likes and comments constantly on my pictures.. I missed it for maybe 3 weeks and than I was actually happy that I didn't needed to spend so much time on validation anymore. Crazy but true, I started to validate myself more without.

[@mansavenkatesh4643]

I’m 25 too, this is so true. I’ve been completely off instagram since the start of this year and it has made a world of a difference. we subconsciously accumulate so much clutter in our lives, its so important to clean it up slowly and effectively.

[@arielhayat3427]

Thank you so so much for reminding us that "no amount of validation will feel as good as living our own truth" 🥰 Now THAT is powerful!!

[@MalamaLife]

❤️😍 I repeat this to myself when I feel doubtful or insecure

[@bayha5065]

You inspired me to be ok with wanting less. I’m simple and I use to feel bad about it. Like I’d be boring. I see how liking who I am is the most satisfying feeling. So much more than feeling like I fit in.

[@han7650]

Up until the last year or so I've loved bits and bobs and suddenly one day I realised how much I hated having a cluttered bedroom and having to clamber over stuff all the time, in total I've probably got rid of almost 10 bin bags worth of stuff and it STILL looks fairly cluttered but I'm moving into a brand new house next month and I'm only going to be taking essentials and buying essentials! So excited for a constant clean space!

[@MalamaLife]

I went through that same exact feeling!

[@JoyfulOne468]

I was looking for a youtube page that I can go to for relaxation and inspiration. I just ran into your page and I am so glad that I did. Your peaceful voice and words of wisdom are a blessing!

[@MalamaLife]

Aw thank you so much ❤️

[@sarastilleke]

Thank you for making the connection between minimalism and a scarcity mindset! It makes a lot of sense, and by being content with what I have it will bring more joy to a minimalist life! ❤

[@MalamaLife]

🥰❤️ for me, there was a huge correlation! Thank you for watching

[@Moonlvr555]

That is so true. I find myself stocking up and buying doubles of stuff due to some of the challenges we went through during the pandemic. I don’t know how to get rid of the scarcity mindset.

[@anamisidro8453]

I’m listening to your words and I find myself thinking that there is so much noise around us trying to point us the right direction to go, the right Dodd to eat, how do we get rich. And suddenly we find ourselves without a self driven purpose. We don’t know what to do. Just fit in and keep going. I welcome the silence and the stillness of nature and I breathe. Thank you 🙏

[@MalamaLife]

Thanks for watching ❤️

[@eliv1194]

such a beautiful video, you’ve been helping me so much with becoming a minimalist. i cant thank you enough

[@MalamaLife]

So happy to hear that. Thank you so much and good luck on your minimalism journey

[@gracew9357]

You are a true blessing to watch. You’ve changed my whole mindset towards having a clean, more fulfilled life. Sending love from London 💞

[@MalamaLife]

I really appreciate that 🥰 such a motivation for me to hear it

[@bmaypacana6459]

Hi im from the Philippines your channel help me think to really live a simple life now that im in my late 40's i realize i dont need a lot. Inspire more 💗 less is happiness and peace.

[@myrahtariqkhan]

Sometimes, I feel like you are a mind reader. The real hidden meaning of finding yourself. To stop for a moment and start again. And I feel that is truly amazing. Getting closer to yourself is must. You're trying to enlighten us with your thoughts... I just love the way you express your feelings 🤍 Best wishes.

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you for watching

[@nazokoli8]

The peace i get from your video’s can’t be compared to anything

[@MalamaLife]

😍❤️ aw that's really sweet!

[@itkuttan]

dont know what to say....make me speechless..... feels like getting filled with a feeling of bliss....thanks in ton...

[@MalamaLife]

❤️❤️❤️

[@bredanyambura8072]

Abundance starts with contentment ❤️

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you ❤️🥰

[@djc283]

I’m 64 and I like to keep things that reminds me of past memories because someday those memories, within yourself , will sadly be forgotten from age .

[@violin.aj.23]

This is so peaceful. I always click on your video and then minimise the video. I appreciate how much effort goes into video editing (since I edit covers) and that too, at your level. But your voice is something else. I just close my eyes and it always feels like I'm listening to my ideal self. Thank you so much.

[@aubrey18460]

These videos have such a calming, inspiring effect. I love them.

[@user-ys8ti3px4z]

Your videos are so comforting for me... I am at this point of my life where I need to take decisions and make radical changes, everything feels so overwhelming. I am moving from this small apartment I've been living for the last years and I almost hate my self for all the stuff I gathered all those years and right now feels like a burden I need to get rid of. I never realized I had so much stuff in this tiny apartment. thank you for giving me strength and inspiration to create and embrace a simpler life.

[@123eih]

I love your videos! It’s like a soothing pep talk I need to hear from a friend when I’m stressed or while cleaning up.

[@notsowilderness]

I've followed your methodology for 3 years and feel so free. Thank you.

[@fsu3786]

This was one of the most compelling and inspiring videos! I could really FEEL the presence and the space that you've found though your intention to live your best life. Thank you💗

[@serenaniederkorn4882]

I truly enjoy when u upload Sophie, every topic that u choose is really moving and wise. You talk abt things in a way that lead to a healthier life in such a gentle way.

[@jojowhite1124]

Thank you for posting this. This is my first time watching your videos. I love how you are intentional. You inspire me.

[@neelofarbano4323]

best ive discover on youtube thankyou making me feel safe secure and peaceful

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you for watching

[@Bythesea449]

This was so healing. I really am grateful for you and what you’ve shared. Truly thank you

[@shraddhawaigaonkar9983]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE ur Channel!!!! I come to it for peace and direction when i feel lost.

[@xploringvibes]

your voice and these ideas are just love 🤍

[@MalanaBouarouy]

Sophie your videos always gives me a safe space to come to. One that is always so calming and rewarding. Your growth of your channel is a true reflection of all the time you put into your videos ❤

[@par11]

Yes abundance begins with contentment 🙏🏽🌹

[@yildizgozlemcisi]

I was in such an angry mood today and your video calmed me so peacefully down. Thank you

[@silverphoenix1418]

So happy for you, Sophie. You are truly an inspiration and one whose example to always follow. 🙂

[@theresiasukmawati8212]

Thank you for sharing this Sophie. The closing statement really speaks to me that I often forget that no words are also words, no actions are also actions, and no possessions are also having.

[@annvu8806]

This is precisely the message I'm needing. Thank you for this kind of grounding content so I have something to combat the swirling tornado of other influences!

[@poppycalliope]

No better way to start my morning than with a video like this one ✨️ you're always so inspiring to me ❤️

[@selenophile1480]

Your thoughts are exactly what i need right now❣️ building a beautiful life must be our priority..

[@carolineblackstone6161]

Why am I always waiting patiently for your videos that’s how much I appreciate your kindness

[@purplecowmovement7677]

You're so inspirational. I've been contemplating on decluttering my possessions and you confirmed how I felt about it this whole time. I can see it being liberating. Thank you for your videos I sincerely enjoy them ❤🙏

[@dakshagaur2475]

This video is exactly what I needed, I m awestruck by how u convey these strings of thoughts that often turn out to be so complex in our minds, so easily. I hv been trying to declutter such things, this video just solidified my belief and motivation. Thank u so much ☺️❤️

[@sacharymateo1710]

This is what i love about you, the wisdom that was poured in this video was magestic, thank you so much for always show the importance of being true to who we are and the process to learn it, as always I loved this video♥

[@toniclark3512]

I absolutely love this channel especially getting rid of STUFF, what a calming voice.

[@ellenbiss]

Poignant. Eloquent. Timely. Thank you especially for your parting thought regarding fillers. Transformative. God bless you! 💕

[@OscarakaBigO]

Story telling, cinematography, and a great message. Thank you! My new favorite KZbin channel.

[@saramarkowicz]

I adore your videos. So simple and effective. I also got rid of many things from my past : letters and photos, souvenirs... I know that I will always cherish them but they were taking so much space ! I felt better and lighter when I got rid of them. But it's important to never forget where you're coming from ! :)

[@mirandabrouws1158]

This resonates with me completely…thank you so much for sharing your journey and with it, the wisdom you have gained. I love how calming your videos are, i find them really helpful in my ówn journey…Sending you love, peace and happiness🙌🏼❤️

[@par11]

I’ve been feeling this way lately regarding fillers. It’s a great way to start-leaving them alone 🌹

[@flourishwithzel]

Wow. I've recently decluttered before moving to a new house but I realized, I still brought a lot of things that I won't be needing again, but holding on to them coz maybe, just maybe, a joy will spark again when the time comes. And this video makes me realize that "that time" will never come, because I gotta create it now, intentionally. So stop holding on to material things and live intentionally. Thank you for sharing this. ❤

[@juliaodonovan]

You always give me such a lovely and gentle reminder to be present and continue honing the art of discernment 💚 I put a pile of clothes on my dresser that I recently thrifted online and in person that I don't even want anymore. They're not soft, they don't fit right, the colors don't suit me. And I realized life is too short to wear clothes that don't feel incredible on my skin. No more 'filler' clothes! 😊 Thank you for the lovely video 💚

[@MalamaLife]

❤️😍

[@user-nd8ur7ic9e]

I’m much older than you but your videos really inspire me. I moved into my parents home and I’m finding it hard to let go of their items, clothing, furniture etc. but I’m realizing those are just stuff. I will always love my parents I don’t need their clothes to remind me of them. I’m lucky enough to have the best memories with them. So starting today I’m letting go of all the excess and just keeping the things that I will actually need and use. Social media doesn’t help because they are always pushing us to buy this and that. Thanks for your content😊

[@tan-tantv]

I love your content.This is what I need to start the minimalist lifestyle. I will start slowly until I get there..

[@dinuli2494]

This video made my day today🥺❤️ Thanks so much for what you do Sophie and keep going😇🥰

[@rickperez6342]

Thank you. I needed to hear your words today. I needed to hear about your discipline. I needed to hear about your mind set. I needed to hear about your solutions. Thank you for you and what you share about growth. What a blessing you are....🌈🦋❤🦋🌈❤🦋🌈❤🌈🦋☀️☀️☀️🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@maheshikaudhani1594]

I'm in love with your contents. It really makes me realize a lot of fake and temporary things in our lives lately. Love from Sri Lanka💗🌻

[@patrice9365]

I started decluttering a few weeks ago after watching one of your videos. I watched this video today and it gave me the push I needed to throw out the things that I cannot donate but will never use again. I am so grateful to you. Thank you.

[@jeewanipitakotuwage1566]

Thank you, always stay blessed!💞🙏

[@TimelordUK]

You are such a beautiful person. I always enjoy your calming videos

[@MalamaLife]

Awww thank you 🥺❤️

[@sylviadunnink5715]

I love your video's so much! They give me so much peace and inspiration, thanks!!

[@IamKalvik]

As a fellow empath, that was totally relatable! And the ending had some serious tao te ching vibes, loved it! Thank you! 🥰

[@Federica1975]

Thank you for your words that inspire me so much! I've started my jorney to minimalism and intentional living and you make it so easy and enjoyable! Kisses from Italy

[@yanetaaiboy5378]

Thank you for helping me find a path to be a minimalist. I am so greatful to watch your videos. You have a nice voice that calmed anxiety. Love you from Papua, Indonesia.

[@sofiasilva7998]

And today I experienced that feeling of contentment and i felt abundant its amazing great video ❤

[@anitacarter8060]

Letting go of “ things” is so liberating…I keep life simple…and I’m happy and content! 🙏🏻🥰

[@tamandaflynn6090]

Thank you for the reminder - I needed this today ❤️

[@mansavenkatesh4643]

Hi sophie! what a great video! and congratulations on 600K! it was absolutely well-deserved. :)

[@sarah-lee2822]

This is beautiful. Thank you.

[@chairgg]

You beautifully put my own mindset shift into words!

[@Tanvi_Soni]

One of your best videos!. Superb 👍🏼 watching again and again..

[@rosiesavvis845]

I genuinely enjoy and appreciate your videos. Perhaps I misunderstood, but I never think of any interaction with others as a waste of time. I always try to connect with others if only with a smile and a hello.

[@yogeshwarihozumi8980]

Thank yiu for uploading this video! I’m watching this one for the third time for shaping a minimalism mindset. My choice to experience more than settling, and my decision to relocate myself to India is taking me to stand where living like a traveller of life with only essential items to carry with is necessary. I need to shape a totally new mindset to start my new life! I have only 10 days to let go of old/not nescessary items before my flight.. I feel I don't have enough time to declutter, and feeling overwhelmed.... but I know I’m taking the first step towards a simply life. This will be my Bible while creating a new mindset. I‘ll keep listening to it. Thank you. 😄🙏✨

[@maryjoybuizon]

I always play your video every single morning. I get inspired and feel the slow morning because of your voice. Please, continue this vlog❤ i love it. Stay happy 🥰 love from the Philippines 😘

[@leideleon8604]

Another inspiring video from you that’ll help me re-establish my goals or what I really want. I also like reading the comment section because everybody has their own special take in your videos. 😊

[@user-fx2kk5cy8u]

Thank you, dear Sophie, for this video!

[@nathaliez5750]

This is the reminder that I needed today. Thank you for this beautiful video!

[@MalamaLife]

❤️🥰

[@Rchli.]

I needed to hear this, thank you so much.

[@JoamarJohnCanosa]

Another beautiful video Memory already has a permanent place in you. Struck me the most!

[@temomoreno2018]

Sophie, thank you very much for my daily dosage of inspiration 😊.

[@MalamaLife]

😁❤️ thank you for watching

[@leighonfilm]

You’re an inspiration ❤

[@themagicallandscape]

Great work and message. Your audio has improved quite a bit since I started following you, and I appreciate your effort to hone in on your craft. Thanks.

[@rosieburrows3410]

I love this! Thank you so much for sharing. I especially love the "memory box" advice xx

[@MalamaLife]

😁❤️

[@XeniaSketchbookPages]

Greetings from the Netherlands! Thank you for this inspirational video! Just what I needed today 😉❤

[@mariadefatimacacau1509]

Your videos are so deep that makes me cry... 💚 thank you for sharing the lessons from your heart 💚🌟🕯

[@broomhag]

this post hit a nerve and made a lot of sense to me today. Thank you.

[@sabihakabir413]

Your videos are soo calming... following you since 2022 ... Eagerly waiting for your new videos ♥️♥️

[@MalamaLife]

❤️😍

[@c.k.1958]

Thank you so much Sophie for this wonderful and precious video! Everything you said is 💯 true! Xxx

[@MalamaLife]

❤️❤️❤️

[@atreyee09]

I am always thankful to you for how I see minimalism and simple living😍now.

[@Julie-si3hi]

You tube reccomended your channel,and I'm so thankful it did! This couldn't have come at a better time x new subscriber from England 🇬🇧

[@DaWildWolfGirl]

Your energy is so so lifting, I appreciate you so much!! 🤍

[@MalamaLife]

❤️🥰

[@tinylions]

Changed my life. Thank you!

[@davidwilliams7159]

Thank you , you are so inspiring, can’t wait for the next one.

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you for watching ❤️

[@newleaf_22]

Really enjoying the scenery in your videos... Especially the sunsets. thank you for sharing~ 💕❤️

[@natalliamagnetto8295]

I love your videos, Sophie!

[@minimalistmindset1143]

So peaceful, thank you 🤍

[@gisele4563]

i found out about your channel and its sooo magical,meaningful💙

[@gw9710]

Another good reminder to live simply, and enjoy life in the other way thanks. 😊👍 God bless you.

[@user-mf7ke7em9r]

Hello, dear Malama! Thank you for the opportunity to touch your inner peace - it works healing for me. I noticed that I always look forward to meeting you on the channel. Among some of the tips and suggestions that I particularly pay attention to, yours are in priority. Sometimes we push simple and affordable things very far, precisely because of their accessibility. We are looking for where there are difficulties, like a buried treasure). And happiness is close, and often just on the surface. Thank you again for the fact that, without knowing it, you support me at such a great distance, in especially difficult times for me. ❤

[@myrajohnson500]

Thank you for your videos. I have watched more than 20 recently. I had chosen four words to be a guide to me for the new year: Slower/Intentional/Calm/Open. When I found your videos, you were speaking to all those things. 💞💕

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much Myra ❤️ it means a lot