The Biblical Response to the Narcissist In Your Marriage

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[@lyndseyrawling3521]

What a revelation, forgive me Father for getting in the way. I repent, change me, have every part of me. I bless my husband. In Jesus mighty name. Amen 🙏

[@Adrianne316]

I'm at the end of my rope. I want to end my marriage, but then I hear sermons or read things that say to keep going, don't give up. My heart is broken and my spouse won't change. He doesn't believe he's done anything wrong.

[@rossanderson5243]

We are born in God’s image but the narcissist lives for their own. Instead of being children of God, their selfishness makes them an adult child that doesn’t learn the principles that God gives us but seeks your emotional supply. Don’t give it. You won’t change any emotions that are going on. If it’s emotional it’s personal and you won’t be able to change his personality. If the trauma is great and the damage is so much and you feel you can’t go on then leave. Feelings come before emotions and are intuitive. Feelings are your heart and the Holy Spirit will guide your heart and you will intuitively know what Needs to be done.

[@allanstevenson474]

I’m on your road right now but the genders are flipped. Covert Narc destroying my soul. There isn’t even a flicker of hope IMO.

[@bassman6692]

@@Adrianne316 Your situation is very similar to mine. If I could offer any advice it would be to go to the Father and ask Him to reveal any inequity in your heart. He will show you this. It must be done fervently in my experience. Then pray that your husband does the same. God will show you what is wrong. We must go to Him first before we can go to or understand our spouses. He is the only way to restoration. You are in my prayers sister.

[@elainesmith5313]

If he has broken the marriage covenant, the marriage according to God is invalid. You have no obligation to him anyllonger.if he gas dishonored you. Emotionally neglected you, cheated on you, stole from you. It's over, I don't care what pastors preach, what got say us Truth.

[@melindalemmon2149]

​@@bassman6692SHAME ON YOU FOR BLAMING THIS WOMAN FOR HER ABUSE. GOD IS NOT THE TYRANT YOU MAKE HIM OUT TO BE, AND IS NOT HOLDING HER SAFETY AS A CARROT BEFORE HER, WHICH SHE CAN ONLY GET TO BY TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE FREE WILL ABUSE OF HER PARTNER. SHAME SHAME SHAME.

[@LylaReid-i8q]

No flaws sir. You have given me the truth that I so much needed to understand to my marriage restoration. I have been under a fog of confusion and misunderstanding of how the Lord handles this specific topic. Today the Holy Spirit led me directly to your channel after much tears and discussion. I thank you for sharing your wisdom. Glory to God❤

[@lucindacoca6615]

This convicted me on staying on track in my transformation rather than fixating on the prodigal spouses issues.

[@truthreigns369]

“ When you dance with the devil, he always leads. When you dance with the devil you think you are leading and you are not even aware you are dancing with the devil.”

[@allanstevenson474]

I’m amazed how the Narc never seems to grow tired of themselves

[@2780-l2k]

They stay too distracted with people or activities that prevent that from happening. They hinder genuine self reflection and remorse etc. The selfishness comes from a place of justifying everything in order to maintain said lifestyle that props up the false self, not a self in Christ. Even if they’re a church going and Bible study attending Christian; “having a form of godliness”…

[@charlierlaflosstv]

This teaching was a blessing. I have seen the narcissist humbled to the point of tears but it was only when I responded with the love of Christ. So, what you’re teaching is God’s heart for that person which is healing and deliverance of the soul. Bless the Lord. And God bless you please continue edifying God’s body with these issues with the wisdom from the Word of God! ❤

[@kelleyprimozic3859]

What a true blessing this was to come upon today!! Thank you for Godly correction on the course I was taking and reminding me don't trust what I see.

[@katrinaedwards9843]

I needed this. Grateful...

[@altarwork]

Victims of abuse need to leave abusive relationships/marriages! Not look for something wrong in themselves. The only thing wrong is that they are tied to an evil and abusive person whose father is the devil.

[@rem97881]

This is spot on! This is the exact answer I’ve been asking God about all day

[@Grammamellow1]

Thank you For this. I have been searching for a Biblical Approach. My marriage was destroyed and my family devastated during isolation of the lockdowns. Glory to God we are still Alive to overcome.

[@Granerson-ub1sk]

I’m so glad to be in the last session this video hit the bullseye for my marriage, I’m grateful to be walking thru Calvary… So Be It ! Agape “4000”

[@missLech]

I loved watching this video! It really captures the truth about dealing with a narcissistic person. Thank you, Dominic, for sharing this valuable insight

[@Kl6784zu]

God bless you! You are the best ❤❤❤❤ thanks so much for your teaching! And after praying I really got a Bible verse which said 'be still and let me fight for you'

[@bassman6692]

What you have said certainly resonates with me. Although my wife isn’t a narcissist she has many traits. She would never accept responsibility for hurtful behavior and turn it around onto me, never apologize without withdrawing afterwards, constantly project her issues as my own, gaslight me, leaving me feeling like I was going crazy, emasculated, and unable to be vulnerable. This lasted 7 years until I found out the reasons why I was having theses feelings. Every single symptom was related to emotional abuse. The examples given were like it was written by me. When I brought them up to her she moved out when I was gone. No contact for seven months to present. The day after this weeks first for Walking Through Calvary session, I received notice that she filed for a dissolution. I’m so crushed.

[@truthreigns369]

You are so free. 🤗now heal and move on. Do not get into another relationship until you have healed and know God’s plan and love for you.

[@dorynchand6192]

Its so hard. Especially when the love we’ve had for our partners were so real in the past years. It hurts so bad and I pray God restores your marriage and makes it better than it was

[@propheticwarrior]

@bassman6692 Hey brother you're not alone. I am married to a woman who is exactly like you described. It's so painful! Mine has not divorced me yet but she has told me that she wants me out of her life and that she hopes I die. Having boundaries with someone who has these characteristics is nearly impossible. Boundaries cause nothing more than offense in them and then we are to be blamed. What he said at the beginning of this video, for me, bears witness. I have been derailed and lost any vision for my life. I have been praying asking God what to do but I still am unsure as my whole being feels scrambled from the toxicity and abuse. It's very hard to think living in this and there is always a knot in my stomach. Even today I am looking at videos like this to see if there is anything I can apply to my situation. Prayers appreciated and I will pray for you for healing and restoration. Be blessed.

[@sharonrivera8488]

You truly have the wisdom of God. Thank you God bless you 🙏

[@flashlitestriker4028]

Wow, Bro... your videos that I've been watching tonight MAKE PERFECT SENSE -- both from my decades of Bible studying AND from all the (seemingly) crazy experiences with various relationships over the years (decades), too... plus, my RECENT, renewed and careful studying of 1 Corinthians! Thank you SOOO much! ♥

[@johnjmathew55]

Amen 🙏🏼 I surrender to you AlMighty Father God I release all anguish , bitterness and works of the flesh and humble myself and repent for my sins and bitterness. Do take care of my blessed spouse and release her from this bondage so that we can go together towards Calvary as a family

[@loriduran7630]

I would love to walk through Calvary with God. Unfortunately my financial situation is severely struggling. I pray that Father God will provide a way. I pray for everyone in Jesus' Mighty Holy and Precious Name Amen 🙏❤️

[@HealedbyGod18]

Exactly! What happened during our first reconciled separation. He said all the things and landed up hurting me more than ever before filed again. Now I’m in a second separation beyond repair D is in the earthly courts now. 😢 it would definitely have to be God bringing us bath together if it’s his will.

[@jennyeverbless3211]

the strongman in my marriage is a jezebel home breaker, my sister in law and my mother in law. These people are real evil. I let go and draw closer to God.

[@ninaruthie]

Wow so powerful the whole thing but especially around 27 minute or 28 minute Mark where you just speak the truth in love about that we're giving too much credit to the enemy that we're really studying about the enemy and thinking that somehow that's going to defeat the enemy instead of the finished work of Jesus at calvary! Wow! I needed this

[@truthreigns369]

You know everything that I just walked in for 42 years and before. It is demonic. Finally God broke this off of me and released me after 40 years of bondage. But I had to repent and come to the end of myself.

[@MarieFrancoiseAMevs]

Thank you 🙏

[@karriesaunders8597]

I was told by two different deliverance ministers that my partner was coming hone and he never did and actually ive been told he had a kid with someone else,this was after telling his child with me he was coming home. Ive never got over this absolute evil,i missed one opportunity to bring them through to Christ,i considered it. risk what i needed to do. Im in depression again,since my family was torn apart.

[@cristidormiendo5743]

How do we help our children that are witnessing this unhealthy behavior in marriage? I already pray for our children. What else can be done to help them so they don’t repeat the bad behavior or the bad response to the narcissist behavior?

[@karenpierce4909]

The terminology of a person of this behaviour is called a humbug!

[@StormsHurt]

That solid green shirt removes years from you sir 😊

[@sabrinatoglia4729]

Dominic , can you do a video about a spouse who suffers from alcoholism? My ex spouse has developed alcohol related Parkinson and has stage one dementia as a result to the Parkinson. He drinks a bottle a day of pure vodka and seriously I don’t know how he is still alive! We’ve done interventions but he thinks we are the crazy ones. Heavily in denial! I have been taking care of him for the past year ( since his girlfriend left him) but I don’t want to help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves. It’s taken a toll on our two teenage girls as well. On top of all that he is a narcissist ( has to take center stage always). I have been standing for marriage restoration for years but I think the Lord is wanting me to let him go. Alcoholism has got him bad. Thank you😢

[@beverlyjackman2669]

Good you possibly give me a few scriptures to pray over and repeat

[@CathyHinson]

Nice video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@edwardbrown5075]

You describing my wife and all the women in her family. I realized that I had to be delivered within myself, and all I can do was pray for my wife. But it's hard to watch, it's has hindered by ministry.

[@mariafinke9913]

💪🙏📖🙌😊 be strong hold vast 📖

[@loricarini2260]

I wish I had a way that I could do your workshop, Dominic because this is exactly what I needed to hear in the season that I am in right now in ! Our marriage is definitely toxic,...But there is a big time difference between you and us! I'm not sure where exactly you are doing your Walking through Calvary Seminars, but my husband and I are ministering and sharing the gospel in Bangladesh. With BDT, We are about 10 hours behind New York, which is not far from my home town. I've been here in Bangladesh about 5 years. Is there a way to see any of the workshop recordings? Please let me know. I want to be a clean vessel as I pray for His deliverance. Blessing to all of your discipleship work. I found this video during a time I took for fasting Today. God is so good! He's working a miracle already! Hallelujah Amen 🙏

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[@loricarini2260]

@RestoringRelationships ok. Thank you !

[@PistolPete1980]

27:26 lol bait and switch. Love it 😂

[@cathymiller6670]

Good, wise words and scripture. Thank you! Question, how should a spouse deal with the abuse, silent Rx, promises they will do something and then get angry and don't follow through, rage sessions.... stand there and take it and get beaten down spiritually emotionally and mentally? God' s wants us to florish in Him...

[@Shama_0507]

Lord teach me what I cannot see❤❤

[@AshaA-t6z]

Pastor do we have to pray everyday to God to restore relationship

[@kathleenwharton2139]

I don’t need no Bible! God HimSelf carried me through and Saved me from a narcissist when my youngest son graduated HS. 😊❤

[@SherlynBarrett]

Amen

[@Kimberly-cn8ro]

What if he never goes to God

[@ninaruthie]

😂 about 32 minutes back to 33 minutes such truth spoken and then I had to laugh because you say the enemy is going to try to steal this in about a minute will be like what did he say again? That's why I had to timestamp this so that I could remember😅

[@Shama_0507]

Wow!!!!!❤

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How do we sign up?

[@amanece777]

Pero como no mirar al enemigo cuando vives con él y te jace la voda muy difícil e incluso te maltrata psicologicamente?

[@Kimberly-cn8ro]

But what if they never change

[@Yuefoh]

Amen!

[@annelegaie]

Please my husband live me I want him back

[@MT0832]

Amazing helpful insights! WOW 💜

[@nannyregis4015]

Help please i need Jesus

[@aprilortiz3612]

How much is the subscription?

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[@nellacorggens6316]

I wish I could do this.

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[@MegaWojtaszek]

How to defeat a female Jezebel spirit in marriage ??

[@kimmieM0927]

The same way you defeat Jezebel male spirit in a marriage. And I wish I had the answer. 😢

[@melindalemmon2149]

Charism and sales are not the answer

[@kacythomas1327]

I'm not married and never have been

[@nicholecornes1915]

Give up!

[@ThriveMental_HealthWellness]

Wow very helpful ! Do you all have an email address or phone number?

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