The BIG REASONS Men Don't Like PROMISCUOUS WOMEN

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The BIG REASONS Men Don't Like PROMISCUOUS WOMEN... In this dating advice video, I will give you the big reasons men don’t like promiscuous women that you should never ignore. You may see men who don’t like promiscuous women on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips and be sure to watch the entire video.
I don't want you to automatically guess what men want or how men think, I want you to be able to understand men so that you can know why men don’t like promiscuous women. In this dating guide, I will give you dating advice for women that will teach you what men think enabling you to understand men and know exactly what men want.
I want you to embrace this dating guide and the dating tips for men that I share so that you can have fulfilling dating experiences and enjoy a healthy relationship with your man. When you are able to understand men and know what men want then it will be much easier for you to have successful relationships and you will definitely enjoy dating.
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[@chefnic4763]

Promiscuity shows a lack of self discipline, self control and self care. Treat your body as a temple and never settle. ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback!

[@Sandrinarhonda]

YOU BETTER PREACH !

[@lpslancelot05]

I just got taken to task on Reddit for saying this. Backwards world now.

[@chefnic4763]

@@lpslancelot05 People rather be blind and deaf to the truth and will crucify anyone that speaks out against it. Always stand in the light! Don't back down.

[@lpslancelot05]

@@chefnic4763 💯 🔥

[@vashtikelly6837]

STEPH MY POINT AGAIN IS......IF A MAN CAN LAY DOWN WITH A WOMAN THEN GET UP AND JUDGE THAT WOMAN FOR DOING THE SAME THING WITH HER....HE'S A MAN WHO THINKS HE'S BETTER THEN SHE IS....HE'S JUST AS PROMISCUOUS...THERE'S NO DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HIM AND HER.....

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@vashtikelly6837]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks STEPH THANK YOU....

[@pmo7780]

Just take what I'm saying as a possibility and give it a thought. Don't think of it as me presenting it as a fact. Just because you two do the same thing doesn't necessarily mean you should be treated the same. If someone is underage and drinks alcohol, it's considered as breaking the law but if someone's of age and gets wasted, it's ok. The government isn't a hypocrite for treating them differently because they are not the same when it comes to that subject. Even if you don't agree, understand that there is a possible reason for the problem you presented but in any case, it's pretty dumb and weird to have sex with a women and then judge her infront of her

[@eleanorr2928]

Yes, you speak the truth.

[@VidWatcher01]

@Angel Noel Exactly! Dude was making a serious reach just now with that whole teen drinking vs adult drinking. If that was the case they wouldn't let children have wine in France because they are underage. Make no mistake about it double standards are BS & regardless of gender no one should want to be promiscuous

[@honeyjazz4147]

Your videos help me understand men a little more, because I'm at a loss how men brains work.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help!

[@missniki4890]

Biggest mystery EVERRRRR🤔🙃❤️

[@DianaGarcia-lb9dl]

You should read or listen to the audiobook Men dont love women like you by GL Lambert..its a great perspective on how men think regarding relationships and also The way of the superior man by David Deida

[@Mekia-hr8qh]

Personally I choose to wait until I’m married before I engage into sexual relationships. I’m worth waiting for and it’s absolutely more to me than my sex. Sex complicates so many things if you move to fast. And so many people tend to overlook red flags because they get caught up in sex. Awesome Video. Thank You Stephan .

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@francinehakim3916]

Personally, I would never marry before having sex with a person…building a sexual relationship is important part of marriage too…

[@Mekia-hr8qh]

@@francinehakim3916 It is very important. But speaking from a woman who as married 20 + years now divorced it’s a lot more to marriage than sex. Sex is the Cherry 🍒 on top. But it’s not the ingredients needed to build the cake (marriage nor is it the ingredients for the icing on the cake) I’m the type of woman who has prayed to God. I have told him every aspect of what I want in my future husband down to the sex, manhood size, the way I want him to be able to make me feel outside of the bedroom because a mature woman knows sex starts before the bedroom. I have enough faith in God to know he will grant me my hearts desire down to everything I have asked for. Yes we know sex is very important but sex is no good without emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually being connected. Without these qualities sex is just two people making friction. Everyone is different. Sex is very important to some. Sex is only important to me if it was with my husband. Because in my mind I’m nobody’s girlfriend!

[@VidWatcher01]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@thisismystone9658]

@@Mekia-hr8qh this in comment is just about everything

[@marlijewel]

I wish I could have a pastor, or a youth leader like you growing up!!! This is very important to learn, coach...... Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad this has been helpful to you ❤ don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!

[@laurenceum2657]

"You deserve the best, you deserve the best and you deserve the BEST! And I truly hope you have IT!!"

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@chosenvessels87]

Child Man brain= "I want it now!" No delayed gratification. Grown Man brain= Ill invest and wait for the greatest return. Grown Men and Women need a Warren Buffet mindset with JESUS(my opinion). PRAY, INVEST, AND WAIT ON THE LORD! THE RETURN WILL ALWAYS BE BETTER! TRUST ME GOD KNOWS WHAT YOU NEED AND DESIRE.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback, and I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you!

[@yojankicks]

In my culture no sex until married..my husband devirginized me

[@user-pf2lv5ul7r]

Oh so true!! Love it !!!

[@DeaconChriss]

Other men didn't invest, so why would a (grown man)

[@chosenvessels87]

@@DeaconChriss Sounds personal. Invest in your mental health! Have an amazing day!

[@nyatichiasango993]

I just love you, i was loosing in relationships, found myself in toxic ones each time but i healed. Healed from the trauma of Rape as a child thanks to you. God Bless you ❤️

[@blondieb.harris1330]

I haven't listened yet; but going by the title, a woman that gives herself freely to anyone, and I'm trying to be nice, and not step on anybody's toes. Blessings 💖💞

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and be sure to watch the entire video to learn some more!

[@x7Votorious84x]

Herpes isn't a blessing.

[@blondieb.harris1330]

@@x7Votorious84x Ture that. Blessings

[@princessc3039]

Thank you so much Stephen... I needed this information years ago. It would have saved me so much heart break. You are a blessing to me. Please pray for me.. I need your help and strength 😞

[@samrawitkristos403]

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[@abigalestoll]

The best thing to do is to wait until you're married or in a commited relationship because soul ties are not to be overlooked. I'm not doing it now that I know better. I wouldn't want my soul to be tied to a negative, irresponsible person.

[@lovleesmoviereviews]

I’m so happy I found this channel….these videos have really helped me…male perspective in different situations is helpful!

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[@lovleesmoviereviews]

Will do!! 🙏🏽❤️

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@Lovlee’s Movie Reviews Welcome aboard ❤ 🙂

[@sarahrayman620]

Stephen, yes there's pit falls in the moment. God protects people by telling us to wait till marriage. Marriage and sex are to reflect our spiritual life, connectedness of our love walk with Jesus. So out of respect for the man, myself, and a Holy God, sex is to be a celebration of the love already developed. I encourage people to wait so that they can feel accepted and protected in the proper relationship.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

[@nicolesawyer7117]

I agree waiting is good. But for me personally I have to test drive the car before I buy it lol!

[@shutit4024]

@@nicolesawyer7117 😉

[@boostmobile9249]

That is RIGHT! THERE IS A COURSE TO GO THROUGH, COURTING getting to KNOW EACH OTHER first. Not just each other's bodies. There is VALUES

[@Lexury11]

Beautifully said

[@laurawilliams4087]

I'm 30 and still waiting till marriage and its not easy finding a man who wants the same. Men always ghost me when I tell them I'm waiting.😔 it seems like waiting is not benefiting me. And also I know u said women don't want sex as much as men, but speaking as a woman maybe I'm weird because my hormones are always raging and I think about sex all the time. Its been hard waiting all these years and every year it gets harder.

[@beefaye6861]

Good you are waiting....instead of telling them you waiting....try "Im not ready" ....if he say when do you think you will be ready .. try "I will know when that time comes ".....dont tell ppl yo business....you don't OWE anyone anything....be blessed 🙏

[@laurawilliams4087]

@@beefaye6861 yeh, but a lot of men dont even want to wait 2 months or even 6 months so they are going to leave eventually and they WILL NOT marry me unless we have sex first because they say they want to see if we are "sexually compatible" first. So it will be a waste of a lot of time leading them on like that.

[@beefaye6861]

@@laurawilliams4087 Just please be safe whatever you decide for your life....it could cost you a lot trying please a man.

[@peacefaith560]

wait on God... you just a baby lol its hard but worth it

[@nikki8789]

@ Laura Williams I have a twin brother who would praise you for waiting.He's only been with one woman and is now waiting until marriage. Most of them will leave but there will be that one guy who thinks you are strong and amazing for holding onto your beliefs. I know it's been hard but it'll be worth the wait. :)

[@geraldineblackmon2644]

No, you should wait. If you love God & want to please him & do his will & not settle & know your worth. You seeking to become a wife not a doormat, wait you will be viewed as being moral & having good character. You don't want a toxic soul tie. Trust God!

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

Stephan this needed to be said, too many women are out here giving it up fast and in a hurry, but then regret it later. I have been there and done that during my college days, never again.

[@sg222009]

I think this title needs correction. Lol these men like promiscuous woman. They may not marry them but they like them.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate your feedback!

[@jhonnycultura4455]

It's easy to get experience something that slot of women want from man cause they shame you for not having options or experience like them when it's harder for most guys to get it 🙄 that's why it's more valuable trait in a men than a woman.

[@shutit4024]

Only Kanye did 😂

[@lionelt7882]

Men like promiscuous women they way women like tricks. We really don’t like them. We like the easy benefits from them.

[@laurawinters1504]

Sex on the First date: if a woman is a free spirit and just want to enjoy the moment and does not care about what the guy thinks, she may not worry too much about it. But if she wants a lasting relationship, sex on the first date may be a big no, no.

[@mssouthernlady222]

Are we surprised that some men judge women for sleeping with them too soon?

[@kourtney101]

I adore you, Stephan, and the incredible work you do. You take great care in guiding BOTH sexes in getting out of their heads and being conscious abt their choices. Keep impacting the masses w/ intelligence over instant gratification. 👑

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much, I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@francinehakim3916]

Absolutely,

[@Katrica670]

@KourT JEffE love your comment!

[@suzannemurnane2714]

I love your videos! You are spot on and I love how you express your opinions! You are my favorite to watch! This helped me so much!

[@coritaburks758]

Grateful for the truths/insight in these videos and the discernment that comes along with them! Blessings to you!

[@nataliabelyaev8232]

You nailed the problem! When we get into sexual relations with someone we don't know we know where we start but we don't know how the situation will unfold! Bad or good! It can happen that day after day will be deeply falling for him because not only the sex is good, he is that good!! And he is not willing to for some reason! Then it is a mess! Then you will not be able to handle it emotionally!Yeah we have to understand what are we getting into...

[@tameikacathcart1536]

I'm so glad my cousin turned me on to him and I left that Kevin Samuels KZbin channel this is more my speed with your approach on how you communicate the message . Very well delivered. Your tone got me in engaged. And I will definitely be a subscriber. Thanks

[@sunshinesunflower4110]

My ex watches the KS channel. He blocked me without saying anything when I asked him a simple question. SMH

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@ Hola Hope! I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through!

[@sunshinesunflower4110]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you! I'll be fine. I will work on myself because I know I was good to him, I poured my love to him. It hurts right now, but I am positive that I will bounce back. I think I am even more inlove to you now than to him. Lol

[@tameikacathcart1536]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you . Through Thearpy and God and Prayer . Thanks I'm enjoying the videos and I did subscribe.

[@samm8380]

Thank you for the video. I believe that men love to chase. I also believe that after the chase, once he gets what he wants he either likes the sex or doesn’t. Not sleeping with a man won’t guarantee he actually likes you as a person more or less this will not dictate that he will be with you or ask to be with you on a serious note if you decide to not give him any. My father told me when I became an adult to not sleep with a man and see how long he stays around. He also told me that men just want sex. In today’s society you won’t find most men will want a relationship if you don’t give him any but it could in small cases make somewhat of a difference. I wouldn’t put hope out there that if I don’t sleep with a man sooner than later he will indeed actually want to be in a serious relationship with me. You will find the guys that are more attracted to you then you of them are the only ones that will wait around in hopes he gets lucky because he’s just sooo attracted to you. I have three right now that I haven’t slept with that keeps asking me out and one claims he loves me which I don’t believe. He’s hinted he wants more and even told me but the reality is he just wants to sleep with me. He’s chasing.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

[@beefaye6861]

Remember....men fall in love through sex....a man will tell you anthing to hit it....please believe he does not love u.

[@tess7798]

Oh my. So timely, and so accurate. Thank you so, so much!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@UnaffordableTiff]

“ Im not judging… at the moment( chuckle 😂) or ever” #priceless Great video!! Thanks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@TheBlackErikaCane]

Depending on what type of woman you are* If a man wants you & you have a real connection together honestly you can't do anything wrong. He has to want you!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@jayc5756]

Not necessarily. You actually can do something wrong. Yes that's the foundation for a good solid relationship...but that doesn't mean she's the 1 for me. Cmon now. I know a woman friend that I have that connection with...and had an attraction too...but she's just not the 1 for me. I recognized that after 10 years now...but still. Lol. IJS

[@Trini190]

Jay C That doesn’t make sense! If u had a connection Why not take it further? I can understand you saying that it was an attraction but no connection but how can u have both and not take it to the next level?

[@jayc5756]

@@Trini190 You can have a connection...but they can not be the 1 for u. Whether them still wanting to be players or whatever. Connection just means yall attract each other and get along. As far as me...I tried...numerous times. It just didn't work. So now I know that we will just remain friends. It is what it is.

[@mentoriii3475]

here's the problem, yes there are men that don't mind about your past but definitely not the men you want, the men you want will 99% of the time go for the younger and not promiscuous women

[@cleoshelton1084]

Although im a widow, your videos has prepared me for future love; if I decide to date or ever get remarried.

[@cleoshelton1084]

@@gracestone9262 im a widow, I'm not sure if you read what I wrote. My king passed 16 months ago.

[@antilaw9911]

Life is indeed like a box of chocolates 🍫. You never know what your gonna get. So true!! Nobody is going to wait 10 years to truly know someone. Every relationship is a chance. And, sex is overrated.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@maggievada4797]

TOTALLY agree that women get emotionally damaged by seeking love in sexual encounters. Tyler Perry USED to banner the good cliche "Lock the box!" in early years of his plays. Good words. Good embrace.

[@gertiewarnick5596]

No sex on the first date. You don't even know the guy. But everyone is different. Thank you for not judging, it will make someone happy. You are a unique person, that's why God choose you to help us (women).

[@Skannerz]

Thank you!

[@Halllie]

I've seen too many times where the men knew a woman is promiscuous and they still married that woman anyway.

[@davepazz580]

Because he felt he had no better choice...

[@RhondaR4]

Thank you, Stephan for this video!❤️ I know many people that just want to have fun, they get married and the marriage is miserable. One day I want a healthy relationship/marriage. I’ll continue to wait and work on my emotional side because I’ve been damaged.🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Healing is definitely key!

[@antilaw9911]

Why was your marriage miserable? You nailed it!! Your emotions!

[@ichbinschlechtinclashroyal6833]

​@@antilaw9911she said other people's marriage, not hers

[@Trini190]

This recently happened to me for the ompteenth time! I gained weight during qaurentine 50lbs so I’m attracting guys who like me sexually but don’t want to be seen with me.🙄😩

[@jackiehall__7275]

💎💎💎's this man speaks nothing but facts it almost made me wanna cry i felt like he was talking directly to me

[@nurseray6866]

"just slapping cheeks" 😩🤣🤣

[@thisismystone9658]

Hahaha. I heard it too and I was like.. ooooos

[@haanrey]

A person who has multiple sex partners ( 3+ ) will always find extreme difficulty to be at ease and feel joy . Meditation is very much recommended to remove past confusing memories from the mind and body .

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@terrim8572]

Interested in you elaborating 🙏🏽.

[@haanrey]

@@terrim8572 Sexual Interaction is very high emotional investment particularly in terms of females ,because male and female body react to sex in very different ways . So if a female has many sexual partners , her mind will be , almost everyday , in a state of chaos and conflicting thoughts . In short , she will lose her ability to be at ease . This happens with promiscuous men too ... but male body reacts to it much less intensity ... And whoever it is ... whether male or female ... if they want to achieve their earlier state of being at ease ... they can ..through meditation practices which help to eliminate bad effects of past memories ...I personally try Anapana Meditation and Vipassana Meditation to heal and make myself stronger .

[@vickiefullmer2477]

Oh my goodness! You are amazing Stephen!! You got it! Keep bringing it!

[@elliejeen]

You’re amazing: so insightful and smart. Thank you for the work you are doing.

[@RhondaR4]

WOW WOW WOW! You are in my head. I was just having the same conversation!❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you thank you for sharing!

[@positiveenergyonlyasmr2943]

I TOLD MY DAUGHTER AND HER GIRL FRIENDS, IF YOU ARE NOT OK WITH HIM WALKING AWAY FROM YOU, THEN YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THAT SEXUAL EXPERIENCE WITH THAT PERSON. YOU HAVE TO BE MENTAL STABLE WITH YOUR DECISION. STAY POSITIVE!!

[@berifan390]

I learned too much from your blessing advise. Thanks allot ❤❤❤❤❤🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

[@boostmobile9249]

Hobbies are healthy, Education is important. More important than SEX. NATURAL Interests.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@monicawilcox418]

This 🔥

[@peacefaith560]

i love to travel !!

[@crystaliiams8410]

I want life time realationship until death do us part !! I LOVE HIM SO MUCH HE IS MY LIFE & I CARE FOR HIM !!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@debralink641]

Just guard your heart, and make sure he loves you just as much as if not more then you love him. I once gave a man my everything, and he took life from me until I had nothing else to give not even to myself. I finally left him and he divorced me, but was when I knew the Creator had something much greater for me, so now I live my life in the Now moment. That energy that I gave a man, I now give to Wisdom and to the Creator - Momma & Daddy and I breathe.

[@peacefaith560]

God is my life, my husband is 2nd!!

[@againstallodds144]

Dating has always been for me collecting data to determine if this person is what i need in my life are am i codependent on the experience

[@rubysmith4295]

I don't believe in sex on the first date!!! But I have had a One night stand!!! which cause me to Judge.Myself ! I couldn't remember his name, what he drove or where he even lived! I definitely devoted myself Worth in cleaning my spiritual healing 🙏 with God to build my overall life Journey!. Please don't the consequences are overwhelming!!!

[@lavonnethompson3243]

I needed to see this video before my last relationship. I truly would have done things differently. Thanks for sharing this Stephan! ❤❤❤❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@macme66]

I'm feeling like I never want to have sex again because it seems like I was in a toxic walking coma my whole life and just woke up to find I didn't even ever know the rules of this game.. 😔 Thank you for your insight and honesty.. 🙏💚🕊️

[@alphafemme8154]

No one knows the rules! 😴

[@jmcattpisanodance6295]

MANNN. OH mannn !!! Stephan Absolutely has helped me! Was confused with trying to accept a situation ~ and wanted to! But something was off for me.. it was… the emotions. I couldn’t follow thru taking this man as I wanted as a lover beCAUSE I’ve come to accept I could not have dealt with the separation from an emotional connection. THANK YOU for allowing that to be… OK! I was down ON myself because OF THE FACT THAT I could not disconnect from emotions. Just so love your material! If you knew the many nights you actually fell to sleep with me :) and were there the next morning… … ??? On my IPAD !!!! ☺️😂😅😇 ❤️ Live snd light ~ Catt 🙏🏼

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

[@DivinelyGuided777]

Good afternoon Stephan 🙏🏻 As I responded in past post; sex shouldn’t just be about fun; our body’s are Temples……Nowadays, soul ties that only consist of sex are dangerous, because NO genuine feelings are involved….it’s all about games with most nowadays…. No one want to be bothered with all of the games that come with having casual sex with a person who’s not emotionally attached to them or committed; or at least wanting a real relationship……it’s a waste of time, and here go the start of your negative soul ties🙏🏻Thank God I am wrapped In God’s cloth and honor my body of every inch and every part to protect it in every way; and not living loosely for the flesh🙏🏻 or acting loose in my actions🙏🏻 Those things are not appealing to one’s character or to God…..My body is a covenant of grace and God’s love ❤️ and in fact I am considering embracing the Christian Monasticism Coventry Lifestyle for the best of me.❤️👑🙏🏻

[@roslynjones5886]

I have decided to be celibate since 2016. It’s just not worth it. I agree with Stephan 100%!!! Women, when you wait to have sex you are mentally strong enough to keep it pushing because he says something or does something that will make you so happy you waited and didn’t waste your time having sex with him. Please believe, you start off dating his representative. That’s not the real “him”.

[@milliejohnson-realtorandla1475]

I have listened to you a lot! This one is by far one of the best!! Thank you for your work.

[@madamchioma]

You make everything so clear and concise. Thanks for all you do 🙏🏾🤎

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@sharonbolton6847]

I Don’t Think it’s in the Best interest of women to sleep with a Man that soon if she wants a relationship, There Needs to be a Foundation before you give yourself so freely.

[@frnatb]

I agree with you 100%. I find myself telling guys im waiting and I have not been with a man in that way in 8yrs they pursue me more. Why? It really pisses me off because I feel like my values are not being respected.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@dawnstonerock4253]

God gives us His precepts for a reason. It's His protection for His daughters. Sex before marriage is playing with fire. I know.

[@Ifeoma999]

The batman signal! Hahaha 😆 Great video Profound Truths!💜 I feel as women when she decides to have sex to early, then all of a sudden automatically your in a "relationship." Blinded by "Good Sex" she may find herself looking at that man like all he has to offer is his "pipeline" so to speak... Many women will find themselves having babies, paying all the bills, taking care of him plus the children and many more and all he does is lay down the pipe. 😏There are many men out here that banks on his sex moves to catch a woman for many reasons. Spiritually, Sex is considered to be an "Ritual" connecting our spirit to people inner being attachments that could be toxicity. Self worth is our Precious Value 👑.

[@dianethompson6804]

I learned this the hard way! I didn't give a guy sex too soon, I slept with someone who obviously didn't want a relationship. I was waitressing part time in addition to my full time job. This guy came in with his friends and started flirting. Pretty soon he came in by himself and waged a full fledged 3 month seduction. He never asked me out, which should have been my first clue!! I hadn't had a boyfriend for a long time and I liked him. I went to bed with him and the sex was good and then he said "you're the best Lay I've had in 2 years!". I was heartbroken that I was just a lay, not anyone special! That was a one night stand, something I'd vowed I wouldnt do. I signs were there, I just didn't pay attention. They don't say older/wiser for no reason. After that I waited for a man that showed he seriously wanted a relationship--the man who ended up being my husband.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@tangoalpha94]

I feel sorry for your husband

[@marcialawrence7967]

Hi stephanspeaks i'm learning so much about men sometimes am wondering wht are they thinking of and why u have tough me alot thks i listen to some of yur videos gd job

[@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997]

Your videos really open up my mind more on how men really operate.

[@janilleism]

Then why do they look at Instagram models naked?

[@jayc5756]

What chu mean??

[@jayc5756]

Cause most just wanna have sex with them. Yall gotta stop focusing on those ppl man. SMH! Like yall jealous of those IG models and want those f*ckboys that want them...instead of the men thats not into that. But Whatever

[@janilleism]

@@jayc5756 maybe your search history needs to be looked up and who you follow on social media 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jayc5756]

@@janilleism I don't follow any IG models anymore mami

[@mrc7627]

It's lust not love

[@terrim8572]

I also want to add based off common sense, and observations, it’s really hard for a man to seriously bond with a woman that had multiple sex partners. Why? We’re emotional and whether we believe it or not, women have some type of emotional attachment to previous partners. That’s why many still stay in touch with their exes. They haven’t gotten over them and they could never have a quality relationship with a man that genuinely cares about them. We’re emotionally driven. Men are logical driven. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@jess_is]

No.

[@Xenlacasa45]

@Marie Baker you don’t make the rules Marie

[@Xenlacasa45]

@Marie Baker false men don’t get used up. Men that have been around are experienced and know how to please a women. Women love that. Many have told me they like older men for this reason. Women don’t want no Virgin 😂

[@Xenlacasa45]

@Marie Baker men do the fucking so how are we being used up ?

[@boostmobile9249]

Compatibility. COMPATIBLE. COMPATIBILITY things in common as friends Relationships. Wait. Get to KNOW EVERY THING ABOUT the potential person. Can we GET ALONG? IS HE HEALTHY, MENTALLY - EMOTIONAL & FINANCIAL STABILITY AT ALL TIMES!!! Buddy's! Similar hobbies! & More..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Absolutely!

[@rosemariecalumpangtapis6296]

It's too late now let's continue tomorrow ok I appreciate so much to be at present with you all, in good mood and I'm very thankful and very grateful for hearing all work effort in your coaching patiently in vibing you to determine the redflags thank you so much and God bless to us! Stay safe always and keep strong more!

[@brendarodrigues3046]

Wow! A bulk of information in such a condensed period of time. I’m blown away as usual by your wealth of knowledge on these subjects. The insight is all encompassing and I don’t believe you leave any stones unturned. Well Done!!!! Blessings BIG BIG L💞VE - 🌺InspirationByB

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate you're feedback!

[@brendarodrigues3046]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you’re more than welcome. It’s my genuine pleasure. Blessings

[@vickiefullmer2477]

You are very wise! I'm getting everything you are saying! You prefer every subject exceptionally!

[@almetabowman990]

Precious Stephan please know that even though I've shared with you these videos of others speaking on similar topics, none of them speak nor communicate with my spirit like you do. There is Unique Anointing that you have which makes the difference. You are not a carbon copy of anyone. So please continue to be your Authentic Self in the miraculous and powerful name of Jesus. Always Love Queen Almeta ❤💥🔥😘🙏🏿

[@DefaultName-zy2cz]

This man looking and sounding like Boaz. I'm buying your book!

[@joanagain007]

The intro music was too loud above your voice... was very distracting, hush, see if you cld perhaps adjust it... big up yuhself!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Noted and thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@boostmobile9249]

End results disasters for her. A good beautiful woman person. A PERSON. A PERSON!!! ESTEEM HER!! 💛💛💛⚖️⚖️⚖️🗝️🗝️⚖️🤗💡🏆💡💡💡💡💡💡 INSIGHT!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@magalyledezma6533]

I thought the music was going to continue. I’m glad you cut it off and did that intro

[@sharondawilliams624]

Ok. So... men don't like good women and they don't like promiscuous women either... So, what do they like?

[@x7Votorious84x]

Why are you generalizing all men. If you’re promiscuous then you’re not to be taken seriously but you can get in my bed although I’d prefer to not even give them my real name and probably rent a room.

[@sharondawilliams624]

@@x7Votorious84x What are you talking about? :/

[@x7Votorious84x]

@@sharondawilliams624 you're acting like all men are into the same things.

[@sharondawilliams624]

@@x7Votorious84x Ok. If you say so.... 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@shutit4024]

They like other men that dress like women that’s why most of the gay men be exposing them lol jk

[@Andreia_169]

I dont like promiscous men.

[@peacefaith560]

exactly

[@ladyzinada5341]

Me either. Nasty

[@Sandrinarhonda]

Facts !!!

[@davepazz580]

There is no such thing as "promiscuous men" because men don't control access to sex... women do.

[@skinblossom5958]

They are disgusting, repulsive and not attractive at all. Everytime a player approaches me I can't help but ask myself how many 😺 did this mouth lick clean? I'm sorry but I just can't with players. However I knew a player who only enjoyed the chase but never the prize. I suspect he was gay.

[@sandramoore1391]

Facts Stephan I totally agree with you. I feel the same way that having sex too early the man will think you will do the same with any man. Love this video. You are excellent In giving relationships advice💯

[@roslynjones5886]

Currently we are going through a world health issue. If it is too uncomfortable for you to go through medical history as well as getting tested together. What do you even know about him? Just wait it out!!

[@vanessakilvin285]

Good question .... .

[@dionnesimpson6183]

Sex is sooooo overrated.

[@liascott2014]

My take for women from a women’s perspective. It’s not fun to sleep with someone who doesn’t respect you!! It’s not about what he wants it’s about if you feel safe and cared for and took time to get to know eachother, and you actually like him and feel a connection. Then you kind of just need to take a chance. Some guys get freaked out if they like you too much and will run away after still. It’s very disappointing but unfortunately there’s always a risk. So you just need to take time to heal, let go and stay open to meeting someone. SLOWLY. Don’t force yourself, ever. Honestly sleeping with a guy is emotional no matter how much most women don’t want to admit it. Yes most of us do feel more vulnerable after and more attached. There should be no shame it that either. Your feelings matter. So be careful who you share that with. It needs to feel right, and you need to feel like you can trust the guy and feel safe with him. Ps - yes some of this is similar to what he is saying. It’s very accurate and I really appreciate that! Most people don’t think about this stuff.

[@blondieb.harris1330]

To have intercourse on the first night for me is a no, you eventually learn as you get older that you're not a piece of meat, or an automobile that someone has to test meaning to drive or taste, you become more ladylike, more responsible, respect, and learn to love yourself, and that's especially if you are a believer in Christ. 💖💞🙏

[@paularoux4483]

100% true for me. Being authentic to your essence. Soul ties are real 😁🙏🤲💪❤

[@lavernebrockington8128]

Falling in love with Jesus Falling in love with Jesus is the best thing I ever done ever done. 💓

[@ninamkillings2702]

PERSONALLY I MYSELF IS iN A STAGE WHERE GETTING TO KNOW MORE OF THE MAN FIRST I WOULD WILL DISCUSS THIS MANNER IN A PROSPECTIVE LEVEL ESPECIALLY LIKING MORE THEN WEAS HIM AND I WOULD TRULY TAKE ALL IN A GOOD SET TO UNDERSTAND THE MEANINGFUL OF THE RELATIONSHIP WHEN I WOULD DEFINITELY SEEK INTO UNDERSTANDING .,AS ALWAYS MR, STEPHAN I ENJOY YOUR SPEAK OUT ON A MAN’s POINT OF VIEW 🙏🏽✝️🕊

[@reneebcc]

Great info and tips Steph ❤😍

[@jayc5756]

True

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 Yes!

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

THIS IS A MUST WATCH🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Thanks Steph

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤ and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

[@chitchat1212]

IMO men want intimacy too. They just feel more comfortable with saying/acting in a sexual manner. They’re not gonna say I want a hug because I had a bad day. Instead they’ll focus on a sexual encounter to be close (intimate). Men usually open up (vulnerable in their feelings) after sex.

[@gealove3007]

Hey Stephan I love your channel so much!!! Question: Are there a lot of men watching your channel? I see a lot of women names in the comments! I hope a lot of men are watching and listening to yoouuu!!!!

[@terrim8572]

Brother, one thing I am noticing about a few of your videos is you talk with caution. As though you may offend someone or anticipate someone to have a contrasting perspective. As a believer and a child of the Most High, at some point, you got to keep it 💯 and not care who you offend. The truth hurts and we need to hear it. That’s the problem with many relationships now, there’s no accountability or willingness to accept any wrongs. I honestly thought this video was going to be spent on the spiritual dangers of promiscuity and how it emotionally damages women from having a committed long-term relationship/marriage. I suggest you do a video on that because many of us need to hear that. Followed by a follow up video on how to destroy soul ties from multiple sexual relationships.

[@mjki4569]

I just realized you in Atlanta, GA I have always wanted to move there and now I plan to by next year

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing I'm glad to hear that!

[@keica6062]

Surely

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@nicolesawyer7117]

Thanks for mentioning that not all women are this way. And that is ok. I have been told that I think like a man and I have yet to find a man that can keep up with my sex drive. A lot of men think we are all the same and it is so frustrating. I hate these double standards but I am not the typical woman that you speak of, I cannot relate. I can have sex without emotions but I find if I do that with the same person they get caught up emotionally even if I lay the cards on the table lol! I don’t like sleeping around or one night stands but I also am not looking for a relationship at this point in my life. This can be hard to navigate.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It isn't an easy situation but you need to focus on doing what is truly best!

[@independentthoughtsnotthot9030]

If you were born with a vag you are a typical woman. Humans are humans. People are not unique in the slightest when they are programmed.

[@la6136]

If you can have sex without emotions it means you are emotionally unavailable and something is off. Sounds like you may need to do some inner healing.

[@nicolesawyer7117]

@@la6136 if you read what I said you would know that I said I am not looking for any emotional relationships right now. Nothing is off. I am just focusing on myself at this point in my life.

[@ingakamynina8056]

You are not alone! 😄 I just want to have fun and marriage is not in the picture of my life

[@alphafemme8154]

I think it depends on each individual or each connection. No one has brought up the dynamics of health issues / disabilities and sex! And, there's also being friends for along time, going on a date and doing the deed. Dare I mention, again for medical reasons, some women have high levels of testosterone in their bodies making them have a high sex drive. So its not always about being promiscuous, lacking self control or trauma issues, as some are saying in the chat feed. Oh and it's not Christians viewing this channel. Ultimately it's down to the individuals involved and it's nobody else's business to judge, some are saying in the chat feed they're not judging but blatantly are! No one has brought up a man who may have trauma issues and how that plays out with sex 💡

[@pamelabivins7470]

No I don't think you should have sex on first date. Relationship is more than just sex. There are things involved etc. Spiritual, emotional, connection, trust commitment, communication and just getting to know one another first. You need to have balance. Don't rush take your time, so you will know if this is the right relationship. Be blessed and much love

[@alib1255]

Lol I can see both sides of the coin. As a women, I’ve wanted both at different phases of my life. One partner may be purely physical and fun, where as we were on the same page. No strings attached. I wasn’t looking for love (door #2). I was highly selective not promiscuous! On the other hand…when I was looking for a LTR and/or intimacy.. I made that clear. I think it depends on what an individual’s looking for.

[@sharondawilliams624]

Asking previous question for myself. Thanks.

[@sandracandelaria0317]

I’ve declared you my best friend.

[@stefycute6792]

I did handle it until u find that hit ur heart 🤷🏻‍♀️ i had problem guys who want to stick until found one 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@dtanner70]

The problem is that experience and then the next and when you get married, you can’t let but compare one to the other which stays in your head, if you have just your husband it’s all good cause there nothing to measure against

[@cammyTalksLife]

Sir it’s the late night podcast stories for me on how you usta Run these streets 🤣. One the real , the podcasts are the heavy hitters . Great content on the underlying issues on the performance on having sex to soon.