The *BIGGEST* Difference Between Your Purpose and Calling (& How to Rest in it) | Melody Alisa

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Hey, sis! In today's video, we are breaking down the all-important and kind of overwhelming concept of PURPOSE and what God's purpose is for our lives. Through my church's current sermon series on purpose, conversation about "our purpose" I've been having with the girl in my membership club, as well as things God has been speaking to me in our quiet time - I AM SO EXCITED TO SHARE how maybe, just maybe, we're confusing "purpose" with "calling/ assignment" and starting TODAY, right now, we can begin to truly find REST in God's purpose for our lives instead of feeling stuck, confused, or doubtful. I hope you enjoy!!
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Hi! My name is Melody Alisa - welcome to my channel. I lived in South Korea for two years where I met God and I documented my life as an English teacher (check out my Life in Korea playlist for more on this!) Now, I call Atlanta home. On my KZbin channel, I share my Christian faith and life as a creative, a newlywed, and a new mom through weekly new videos!
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[@MelodyAlisa]

hey sis! I know this one was short & sweet!! Let us know in the comments how God has gifted you (it's so cool to see how uniquely He made all of us)!! & give this video a thumbs up if you want part 2! If you don’t know where to start with your talents/ gifts, check out this free spiritual gifts test. It’s a great tool ♥️ - mintools.com/spiritual-gifts-test.htm

[@samantharassie4554]

Yesss please part two.. I like all your videos before you even complete your greeting section..🥰❤you're an absolute blessing

[@ke.phenyo]

Yes please to part 2!!!!

[@oneof7billion627]

Ty for the test...blessings Melody Alisa!!!

[@charcrawford3961]

Hey sis! Yes please part 2 is needed!

[@shavonyawashington8353]

My gift is caretaker. When people come into my life they always say no one has ever cared for me the way you do. That is always confirmation for me. It use to bother me because I felt like I was constantly pouring into people and not getting it back in return. But I began to realize how much God was pouring into me. I think sometimes we run from our gifts or don’t recognize them as such. But being in relation with God helps us discern.

[@kaeisha_marie]

I love the way you explained this! I often feel this way too

[@nicoleplummer3285]

You just spoke to me. I felt the same and started to withdraw myself everyone around me. When you said “ God is pouring into me” I need to hear nothing more. It’s time to start again

[@MelodyAlisa]

this is so beautifully written! I love that being in relationship with God has helped you see and love your gift. It was so intentionally gifted to YOU! It sounds like everyone who comes into contact with you leaves better and that is a beautiful, beautiful thing!

[@jasminearmstrong4000]

Amen.

[@tracyakinade]

THIS.

[@itsjustjanice2986]

It randomly dawn on me this morning that God gave me the calling of inspiring/encouraging others. Andddd I got my passion back to walk in my purpose so I definitely need a part 2!

[@vedawattieram15]

Awesome 👍

[@fefemyluv]

My gift is listening. A lot of people are comfortable opening up to me. Even as a teenager, some grownups would come to me with their issues or situations. At first I didn’t understand it, but I understand now. It does get challenging from time to time, but I know even the best (Iike Moses) had to accept, endure, and find passion in their calling. I knew this was my calling when I saw the impact this had on others. It’s not always easy to listen, contrary to popular belief. But I’ve always suspected our gifts and callings have a lot to do with service to others rather than our own interests. That’s what Jesus was called to do.

[@kagontleserutle5775]

Perfectly explained#❤

[@louieunlocked]

I think God has gifted me with leadership, innovation, creativity, thoughtfulness, singing, and empathy!

[@funsizedchelle]

Some of the things God has gifted me with is writing, encouragement, and creativity. There’s probably more, but those I can think of. Thank you Melody for being used by God! I am grateful for the way you articulate what God has to say to us. Have a beautiful day and all of you ladies that are watching as well! 💕💕

[@AvangelineHeart]

God has gifted me through my art . Art of Speech. Art of Connection. Art of

[@ThePrayerfulBride]

My gift is the spirit God gave me. I’ve always had a gentle , loving spirit. People always feel safe around me. With my gift comes an immense amount of love, patience and understanding. I’ve always been able to love people deep, care for them and just be a calm presence.

[@MelodyAlisa]

What a beautiful gift!! This is so special

[@sheilarichard4610]

Gifts….Shepherd, Minister, Faith and Service. Yes, I would love to do Part 2

[@carynwollow4097]

Part 2 please❤🙌 My gifting:baking, decorating, teaching, prophetic dancing and just loving people and especially children. Oh and intercession. There are so many gifts I would need to sit and make a list for myself. Ahh God is just so gracious, generous and loving! I am constantly in awe. This is evoking gratitude in me now. I love you Melody Alisa!! Sending you love from South Africa ❤🇿🇦

[@infinitybless7132]

Our purpose is to show Godly character. To be love 💕 joy 🤩 and peace ☮️. To follow in the ways of Jesus. ❤

[@Mzreddz]

I’m still trying to figure out what my gift is. I feel so lost and stuck and I pray God helps me with this.

[@core8886]

Maybe pay attention to what you do day to day. Most of us have our gifts right under our noses.

[@mariahornage527]

I believe those who "know you best", know what your gift is. They have seen your light shine. Ask them. Then pray and ask God what you need to do next with your gift. Someone is waiting to be blessed by you!

[@Mzreddz]

@@mariahornage527 ❤

[@Kemecia13]

It's usually something you do for fun and enjoy while helping others

[@vanessadobbins6885]

You are not alone! I’m feeling the same at this time in my life! Praying for you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽Gods Will be done!!!!!!!!

[@crystalsimon8860]

My calling is to encourage and uplift! 💕

[@kala7347]

I've been always looking for my person but the point you made is when I realized, I've been walking in my purpose the whole time. My calling is encouragement, art, film, speaking and basically through how I interact with others!

[@luciakimaro5252]

My gifts are creativity,Helping people and Listening ,Teaching as well

[@MsAdreaL]

I'm currently experiencing the realization that one of my gifts may very well be public speaking! (This video is a tool God has used to help with this!!) Once I overcome the fear, (which God instructs us to do many many times throughout the Bible), I feel like I'm kind of a natural it. When I'm well rehearsed I actually relax and start to really enjoy it! Other people have always told me how great I am at it, and that I'm a natural. I was an extremely quiet and shy child, and the Lord miraculously opened doors for me to ultimately become a speech therapist. The irony! My brother has told me that the Lord really must want me to speak, for some reason... I've also been told that my actual voice is one that's great for speeches and public speaking. 😲🤗🙏🏽💖

[@mizzmeliinspires]

Yes sis! I agree! Our purpose is the same but our “calling” or means by which we are called in each season differ. Love this! ❤️

[@tinalindsey2723]

Yes continue on purpose please

[@ShineYourLightAlways]

This was so good!!! Mind blowing, I also interchanged purpose & calling so this was so good is helping understand the two. And taking the pressure off of finding the “right purpose or calling” - because our purpose as humans made in the image of God does not change, just the way we walk it out based on our gifts/talents (calling). Such a good word!!

[@MelodyAlisa]

yesss!! so glad you enjoyed this, Daniela!!

[@KristenDeandra25]

This is a tremendous blessing. Thank you ❤

[@shandreka_monique]

God has gifted me with BlessedHandz to enhance the beauty of clients. I have a home salon and its set up to pamper one client at a time. We laugh together, have real talk and cry if need be. I pray over every client while washing their hair and if they have prayer requests, I'll pray aloud. I always speak LIFE to them & they leave my shop looking and feeling good each time! May all that I do always bring God Glory🙏🏾

[@zuzu_1]

This was perfect timing Melody, I’d love to see a part 2! I’m still unsure about my gifts and on how they can bring glory to God. I do art, I love encouraging people, and being kind!

[@spirtedaway2]

Yes please continue with this point on purpose

[@GcinekahleDhludhlu-yj5kr]

I need part 2. I enjoyed listening to this. God bless you

[@ronniquebishop3984]

This was SUCH A GREAT video/teaching! I’m going to listen to this often… and meditate on those 4 main things. Yes to Part 2! Also you look amazing! Nice lipstick and hoops! My favorite combo ☺️ For me, I know that God has gifted me to write.

[@MelodyAlisa]

Hey hey Ronnique!! Thank you for your kinds words - I was feeling the lippy too! haha & I'm so glad you found it helpful!! Writing is such an awesome gift because girl, words are hard!!

[@ayandan3826]

I don't know what my calling is, which worries me sometimes (actually, all the time). Thank you so much for clarifying our purpose; I also interchanged calling for purpose.

[@sharoncarruthers2102]

God has gifted me with the ability to mobilize groups of people and engage them in group discussions. Also the ability to write in an engaging and authentic way. He has gifted me with certain life experiences from which I have learned and grown and from which I can now share and help others.

[@vanessadobbins6885]

Amen and Amen!!!!!! Thank you (again) sister Melody!!! You explained very well through the Holy Spirit the difference between purpose, calling and assignment. I’m seeking our Lord for my assignment and know the purpose will not change (which is to serve God…period)!!!!!! I appreciate you and thank you for sharing your wisdom. God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@sherarose-del]

Hi Melody. Thank you so much for this video. I was about confused about my purpose and my calling. this video helped me to different between the two. And I've also looked at another video recently Where you said the that amplified version of the bible explains better and it really does!! Thank you! You're a blessing to many. God bless you!

[@TAZZARAY]

Please do a part two about walking in your purpose .. I’ve always been very maternal I’m definitely naturally a care taker

[@DebbyOkoye]

I realized last month that God has gifted me with creativity, words of wisdom and encouragement. No one has a conversation with me and leaves the same.

[@babyt080299]

I am new to this whole on line thing..however my love for God is extreme and I really want to get in better relation with him. I truly enjoy your video's and listening to your journey and breakthroughs. Thank you!!

[@ladylovely4265]

Yes… Please continue with this series

[@LCCHI927]

This was amazing needed to know the difference. I have a strength of patience and being able to motive and help others

[@valeriespencer5637]

This really answered the question for me. THANKS ❤

[@shesashlynn1555]

God has gifted me with encouraging others and really letting him or her know the Father's heart giving reassurance to who HE really is. Love this video and that analogy of the toaster like OH MY GOSHHHH SOOOOOOOO TRUEEEEE 😊

[@connienakato5427]

Hello ladies. Pray for me for God's grace upon my life. Pray for God to open my womb

[@latoyriadesignsdecor]

You put this into a great perspective for me! I was comparing God’s purpose and assignment as one. God has gifted me with home decorating.The way you explained it makes so much sense to me know me and I’m glad as soon as I logged on here God directed me right here! You’re wonderful per usual …yes we need a part 2❤️

[@danielle538]

Wow, thank you so much for allowing God to speak through you, and using your gifts to share with us. I have been going through it with this teaching job I'm currently in. It's the path I didn't want to go down but God opened up this path for me to continue down. My purpose in this season has gotten clouded by uncomfortable partnerships, working with people who are struggling and spreading their hurt onto me and others, wanting to lead but having to follow or lead in a different way. I have the support of others outside the space and a couple in the space but the words of others only last so long before I get tired of being around and dealing with the negativity. I also have dreams and gifts of creativity, fashion, style, and art that I would love to tap into but haven't been able to use any of those gifts yet in this space. So because I haven't gotten to use those gifts along with leading and teaching the way I know how, it's made me so frustrated. After hearing your words about purpose, I know I need to refocus and learn to follow less about the actual job and title and much more about how I can serve God in this space, in this season. My dreams of being a designer, a creative, and an artist will arrive probably sooner than I think but how am I using my purpose in this space. How am I letting others know the power of God in this space, the sacrifice and Jesus' name, with my words and the way I carry myself. When I return back to work tomorrow, I want to come in with the peace, the strength, my, God's purpose for my life written on my computer as a reminder to continue walking, seeking, and following God. Glorifying him, Enjoying him, Knowing more about Jesus, and making Jesus known! I'm staying the course!

[@maphanganomcebo4584]

Yes yes yes please let’s continue here I think a lot of us are confusing purposes calling and all . ❤

[@robyn1945]

Need A Series !!!🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

[@kimmalcolm8918]

Yes continue. 🙌🏾

[@veronicaparker209]

Yes please thank you

[@shar9456]

Great teaching. I needed the clarity.

[@t.monique9777]

Wooooowww I literally caught chills when you explained this!! Like the Holy Spirit literally spoke through you to clarify my understanding on this 🙌🏾🤍and yes please do a part 2!

[@krupaabrokwaa]

I love topics about purpose, I just never know how to articulate myself well around it but YOU, you really know how to articulate it well! Thanks for this video sis!

[@MelodyAlisa]

Thank you for being here!! So glad you liked it!

[@camillebineyard3926]

Let's continue 🙂☝🏾

[@reyiannaarye]

Thank you so much for this video!! God has revealed to me what my calling is to encourage others through my KZbin and I was a little confused on my purpose and calling would be. But this video explained the different between my calling a purpose! ❤️ Thank you so much!!

[@mariavigo2143]

Thanks for your insight. So needed this and please continue

[@Tee_thelight]

Yes please I want a part two. Infact a whole video on purpose

[@sheilarichard4610]

Yes continue with part 2

[@blessedbosserica4186]

Please continue on this video of Purpose

[@sharon6981]

Wow! This blessed me! I’ve been thinking about my purpose nonstop. This gave me SO much insight. Thanks for letting God use you.

[@youandreese]

Thank you!!! I needed the break down and difference between the two..

[@MelodyAlisa]

Glad it was helpful!

[@GabiHume98]

yes definitely. Part 2 please!

[@mooret212]

My God-given spiritual gifts are encouraged, compassion/mercy, and giving. I also have gift of teaching and talent of writing.

[@tiffp148]

I appreciate the way....you shared this, in excellence! Very precise & sweet. There is a lack of discipleship & mentoring in my state. It is a blessing to have this channel as a resource. Thank you!

[@anne.8830]

Yes, I really want you to go on. Been feeling stuck in the middle. Hmm.. my gift is probably loving little Children... What I mean is I am that babysitter you would want for your child😂❤️. And ermmm.. my friends call me a mentor cuz I'm good at advising, encouraging and inspiring them.. I love doing that

[@Andrea-ro5ju]

Yes! Please!!

[@SheWritesHerJourney_]

I love this breakdown on purpose, thinking about “purpose” itself you can see it as, but it ultimately brings you back to following him. His purpose Your purpose Pain purpose.

[@MelodyAlisa]

yep!! love how you worded this!

[@ibiyemib2191]

Always great! Some of the gifting God has given me is a heart for generosity, encouragement, vulnerability, writing, public speaking, coaching etc. Such a good reminder that at the core of it, your purpose remains the same even though the day to day can look different. Thanks for sharing

[@kwazzik5453]

This is what you call short and spicy. I love this! Thank you for explaining the difference between our general purpose and our calling.

[@MelodyAlisa]

Short and spicy 😂😂 i love it! I’m so glad you enjoyed!!

[@pre.Heaven.Community]

Yes, we should keep talking about this topic please :)

[@bernelee_van_rooy]

For the first time someone has the same exact view as me when it comes to purpose..

[@mwakamwape4348]

Your last 2 videos have really spoken to me in this new season of my life. Thank you

[@serwaa8697]

We need a part 2!

[@withlovebyads]

This was so helpful! God bless you Sis… We need a whole series 🤍 My gifting is writing and creating things with my hands x

[@teamroberts0315]

Yes a part 2 sissssss!! Never heard it simplified in this way true gift 🎁

[@EncouragementAndPrayer]

This was on time and great information/reminder for me. My top two gifts are Exhortation, Service. Giving and Prophecy were both tied for number three. Thank you so much for this God knew for sure what I needed confirmed. I haven't been part of a church in some years and have been feeling the tug to get back into 'congregational' fellowship and service for the Kingdom. Looking forward to part 2. Blessings and Peace upon you and your family near and far.

[@marya.8087]

Thank you.

[@chiamakanwoko6262]

Yes to part 2

[@ranitahollinshed1454]

Part 2!! When I tell you this video and your last one both speak directly into my current situation and are more helpful than you may understand ❤ thank you!

[@Shamira_Vega]

As long as we are toasting we are good!! This was helpful!

[@danielramirez1676]

yes do a part 2

[@HealthyWayILive]

Yes continue please ma’am!💛💛

[@sophianiyifasha4793]

Yes continue on purpose ❤️❤️❤️

[@stephaniepineda1631]

loved the toaster analogy

[@MelodyAlisa]

Right?! Soo good! I don’t think I’ll ever be over the analogous! Ooh creativity is such a beautiful gift!! Al

[@ArtiBurg]

Yes!!! Definitely do a part 2. You explained this so well!🙌❤️

[@turanejohnson9196]

Really liking the consistency, Mel... Keep it up!

[@user-km1ll6wh1h]

Wow wow wow!! My mind is blown!! Yes for part 2!!

[@AccessoRe]

Absolutely want a part 2

[@MelodyAlisa]

its here! kzbin.info/www/bejne/eH6YgHtnmql6laM

[@dlesley95]

Yes, love it! Part 2 please!!

[@BrittyGirl95]

Very good insight. Yes to part 2!

[@nicholasjude7937]

Beautifully explained Melody !

[@talibahheywood7734]

Yes! Yes! I would love a Part Two because this was too awesomeeee!

[@sistershellie]

You broke this down so simply. Well said lady💕

[@shardaibree]

This entire video has blessed me & I’m sooo thankful for it! ❤️

[@eyethumfazwe]

So good, thank you for sharing such helpful wisdom and the Bible verse. I'm still seeking God on more of my gifts but I know so far , He has gifted me with encouragement and worship.

[@danyellaw21]

Yes, would love a series on purpose vs callings Melody! I’ve been thinking so much lately about my unique assignment and have deeply struggled as I’m not sure where it aligns to my years of training in a specific field. And thank you for making the time to share your wisdom in this area. It’s greatly appreciated by many!!

[@akedaaan]

yesss pleaaasee a part 2 !!!

[@serwaa8697]

Thank you for this God-given message, He spoke directly to me through you!

[@InThisSeasonOfFaith]

This was so knowledgeable

[@daniellescott1445]

this has helped change my perspective on purpose so much! Thank you!

[@elizabethdaniel22]

yes part 2 please!

[@paulamoreno9007]

Beautiful revelation. Please continue blessing us on this topic

[@krystaldean5423]

Fresh fire from heaven! Thanking God for this content.

[@glowgirlempowerment_1]

Thanks for the clarification I would definitely like to watch part 2!

[@ke.phenyo]

May God bless Melody for dropping these gold nuggets! This is so timely and I love it so much.

[@barrieladipo7783]

definitely need a part 2 my dear. this short and sweet video was direct and clear. thank you so much for obedience and guidance.

[@kvngdex3917]

Great explanation!