The BIGGEST lesson I've learned this year...

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Title: Closer by Spiring
Genre and Mood: Dance & Electronic + Bright

[@poulomeeroy899]

This is so relatable Malvika ma’am …I was married young ..just after my graduation…got separated in a year due to cheating …came back ,completed my internship,cracked medical neet pg and got my childhood dream branch obgyn ….during that preparation of exam I was going through all these …but I gave myself break ..focused on my mental health and then started studying …I am so happy now …..I thought all my peers are so ahead in professional and personal life …but that time I invested on me …evolved emotionally…it is even helping me in residency and my colleagues praise me for my ways of handling things in labor room 😊 you are so right …we are conditioned by society ..it’s all in mind ❤

[@gautamipati7870]

You go girl....rule the world 💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🌟

[@shreyaea21]

Any Tips to focus on mental health

[@poulomeeroy899]

@@shreyaea21 no need to hurry through the healing process….its different for different ppl…do what you love …just take it slowly …and any physical activity of your choice helps

[@shrutirathi5687]

Wow!

[@UshaRavi254]

I was going through a tough time this video made me realise there is no time line for doing great things

[@anandimukherjee5808]

Mals, you are doing so much better. ❤ You are Glowing ☀️ I could totally see the difference. I know things are tough but we are only getting stronger 💪 More power to all of us 😊

[@uvinyagunathilake3886]

Thank you Mals for this. It just made me understand where I stand through my grief period. This year was hard for me as well but you inspired me to pull through whatever the betrayal or hardship i went through. Your transparency and genuineness means alot ❤

[@surabhijain9934]

I went through lot of bad times stuck in a marriage where i went back and forth. and now i got married again and i never thought i would have a stable relationship. And looking at you , gives me so much confidence and looking at you make me feel strong. whatever is happening is just for the moment and this day will go. Just remember nth is permanent.

[@thehiepriestess]

I didn’t complete my degree on time. I invested over 5 years trying to get a man, any man, to love me. I lost my job, boyfriend, best friend and also my mother on the same day (19th June 2023). The people mentioned are alive, they actually abandoned and blocked me because that was the day I had my unaliving attempt. I understand not everyone can help a mentally ill person but to be left by the people you trusted to stand by you, it’s worse than dying. After getting out of the ICU and into therapy/spirituality, I’ve accepted the situation and I actually thank the universe for every closed door. Because I’m wholeheartedly trusting myself now. I just had to trust myself. Once you are in line with your own self, things stop overwhelming you. You learn to ground. This is what Mals is saying as well - take accountability, accept what you might have done to bring yourself to this point in life, accept it and start looking forward. We should always strive for self actualisation through accountability ❤

[@ayushisharma8534]

Hey,I am going through very hard time wanna die need someone to talk who don't judge me

[@ThatGirlInVogue]

Aah so beautiful ❤

[@adititripathi9380]

​@@ayushisharma8534yes u can talk to me

[@chairao]

I feel i reached a dead end in my life...😢

[@KHUSHISingh-rq9hn]

Personally I am so thankfull that you came up with this video. I can not thank enough, I am going through the same loss. I lost my 9 years relationship. This video is indeed insightful. I am trying my best to come out of it, and I hope i come out of it and I do have a pressure of exams in 2 months. But i think we all are getting through and I'll get through it too. Love you mals. May you heal more and more. I want to glow like you one day.

[@The_lilac_moon]

You won’t believe how much you mean to me ; I started watching you years ago since you appeared on INTM , and there is no going back . It’s not just makeup and skin care Malvika , you taught me how to conduct myself and be a better person ! I just adore you , and the fact that you have gone through so much and never ever directed any hate towards anyone . Even in your rough phase you managed to glow and shine brighter than your OG Mac highlighter ❤ You are not just an influencer or a KZbinr to me , You are the person I look up to when I feel sad and broken and hopeless ! Love you a lot queen ❤

[@ron-zd2br]

You're the best, I've been obsessed with only you for years now Mals and I'm so content that I actually invested so much time getting involved in your content.

[@niharika1303]

Been through a really tough time past few months, and a major learning was, that don't try to control life too much. The way sand slips through our fist, life also will slip away, if we try to hold it too tight under any control🥺 you can only plan to a certain extent 🥺it will all be what is destined for you✨

[@riddhithacker7795]

Ohhh god I am crying 😭 you don’t know how much I needed this right now, want to thank you for your amazing talks and make me understand the situation in life 💯 and am 100% sure that this will help me alot ‼️Thank you so much and GOD BLESS YOU FOREVER ❤❤

[@preeti9710]

So much wisdom from such a young person its both sad & yet powerful! You should be very proud of yourself

[@Debasmita_dutta]

The best youtuber ever i could say , you’ve really taught that , what showing up means. How to work so hard every day despite all the hardest days. Lots of love to you ❤❤❤❤❤

[@snehakasiviswanathan3471]

Missed this kind of videos...where just momma teaching us life lessons from her own life...

[@wildatheart15]

22 has been very hard on me. The idea of a timeline I had in my head has been crushed to its core 🙃 so Mals, you're definitely NOT ALONE

[@AbbyliciousM]

I've had the roughest year of my life last year. Went through a major meningioma surgery n basically thought yeah my life is done now. But yes Malz what u said is absolutely spot on n it's true that anger n grudges against someone or even on ourselves plays a major role to where we are right now n what's happening in our body. These stages were taught to me by my counsellor too. I would like to add one more thing here it's very random but it's something that's helped alot in my healing journey is listening to BTS songs. I mean till now I never took any efforts to even look them up but suddenly during last year I just happened to come across their songs somehow n the way they speak about loving yourself n accepting urself the way u are. It's inspiring seeing that someone who were so basic can be so successful just through acceptance says alot ❤.

[@shshsh0795]

I've been pregnant the same time as you, Mals and I lost my baby during delivery. It's super hard and the struggle through the 5 stages is so real, but there's this sixth stage that I'm beginning to understand. Finding meaning in whatever we do. :)

[@alkaalka3529]

Mals you should start a podcast. I'm sure many of us will listen to you without any doubt. You are so inspiring. I love you❤

[@dobhalrishika95]

Mals genuinely i would like to thank you for this ❤ Some traumas can’t be forgotten but yes acceptance is the key!

[@user-js7ix2ci9v]

Recently in Netflix I watched Ginny and Georgia and I loved the mother - daughter bond......malz you'd be the coolest mom ever,❤️

[@wildatheart15]

This video spoke to me on so many levels ❤ Mals how did you know I needed to hear this 🙌 Especially the university part and the pressures... oh god 😔 it's like my whole life crumbled this year, but I am coming out of it ❤ one step at a time

[@poojithap22]

I can keep listening to you! 🫶 So much positivity ❤

[@RoseIncognito]

I went through a very painful break up in the past too but three years since that I feel like it's the best thing that happened to me. I found myself. Often times we don't realize that the pain always leaves a blessing. I believe that the best is yet to come for you, I hope you believe it too. Mals you have achieved so much you're such an inspiration. It's very few people who have the determination like you. Count your achievements mals we're so proud of you.

[@mehulsingh1626]

You're that cool, calming and incredible adult that I never had in my life. Love and only love to you

[@hrutikkaap1733]

Everything that you spoke about is so relatable n it's really sad that we have been conditioned to thinking a certain way and I think the timeline we put on ourselves comes from a past where we know we have coming next once we start school n till we finish college. After which it's just really easy to feel lost cause there is so much uncertainty n fear within as as to what happens next, cause things don't go as planned and we feel like we are failing at life. We forget to see how far we have come and what it took for us to get to where we are right now. This is where it becomes important for us to stop and kinda be present in the moment n evaluate the way we feel . Everything you said was so relatable. I hope that you feel better soon ❤

[@sonamsingh9125]

Wow Mal! You just quoted each and every point which we all go through at some point in our lives. It feels so sane to know that yeah what I was thinking or trying to figure actually is a thing. I love your honesty and your straight out of heart talks. I just got a real heads up for life in a positive direction. Thank you thank you thank you ❤️ lots of love to you , Abby and nona 🥰

[@manishatanwar9130]

I m addicted to you now , you are truly a positive source of power for me ...i was struggling but everytime i see you ...i feel relieved ..thank you so much ...i love you ..❤

[@snehalvernekar5374]

I like the way you openly own up your feelings, be it negative r positive, because in this world it's really difficult to open up about it,they just tell u to somehow just be happy

[@anushrimajumder28]

commenting after a while but i really really can listen to you forever i guess, the way you speak & the life lessons you share are truly helping many of us, I believe! can you try to do some podcast thing ??

[@poojaverma7558]

Hi mals, you are not alone I am also going through rough phase. Separated during my pregnancy becoz i got to know about my husband cheating..he abandoned me and my son in a blink of eye...i did all those things..denial, blame, angry, what ifs, depression and i am right now on my healing journey. I still sometimes feel very low, cry. But i think you are right i should accept and take accountability. What's done is done. I shouldn't blame my father , family for my arrange marriage thing. Neither God . I guess my life motto is something else. God don't want me to be a just normal housewife. I have come a long way... The betrayal, trauma is still there. I am in middle of court case. But yeah i can say stay strong mal. I can understand you, feel you , world most difficult task is to accept. And we will one day accept everything. Lots of love to you and your baby.❤️❤️🦋 Ps ..i have gone through lot of mental abuse during my pregnancy and after delivering. I really feel bad for my son he felt each and every abuse of his father.🥺🥺🥺🥺🙏 May God bless him

[@sadaffatima7391]

Can't take my eyes Off😍😍 A hint of color looks great on you mals🫢

[@astrohiddenlife]

I'm actually 28 and I quit my job because my mental and physical health was suffering. But I don't know which direction I should go now. But at least I feel better everyday and I hope to find my niche soon

[@theroadnottaken63]

Mals make one video 9n how to live your 20s well for all us young girls out there. Share your experience about ur 20s. Love u malz❤

[@katherinepierce5335]

YOU ARE MY GARDIAN ANGLE MALSSSSS EVERYDAY I LEARN SOMETHING FROM AND GET INSPIRED TO LOVE MYSELF AND WORK HARD FOR MY GOALS 🤗🤗❤❤❤❤🤗🤗

[@deesur]

Thanks for this video about timelines. I have put so much undue to pressure on myself and at the cost of my physical and mental wellbeing. There is so much I realise through this video. Could you share your thoughts about friendships (jealousy, envy, girl gangs), etc.?

[@nibhasada1772]

Love the video Mals. 🤗 God bless you with everything you deserve!!!

[@aayujain5371]

That phase where she says I don't know...feels like that is also name of some makeup

[@khushisomani1882]

The best talk channel I come on and grow as a person. You are an amazing woman to listen to. Modern age woman tips and tricks 🙂 👠

[@Missakshita21]

Luv you malz....u always make me feel good about myself and with you defining stages I could totally relate how it went on from Feb to August but iam in a happy place now .....u r an inspiration ❤❤❤❤

[@olympiaafonso6135]

Malls you are such a Beautiful Soul.God Bless you Dear

[@nicolethomas1869]

The 5 Stages of Grief: 1) Denial 2) Anger 3) Bargaining 4) Depression 5) Acceptance More power to you Malz ❤🙏 #Bestrong #gogirl 🫶💌

[@procaffeinate_withbooks]

The good part is, we all learn... from our mistakes and sometimes also from the mistakes of the ones around us. In this case, you .. taught us to be the 1st person for yourself

[@kamaalmadam]

My dad passed away one week before my daughter was born . Every time he was ill , I was there with him from hospital visits to taking care of him . I was 9 months pregnant when My dad was hospitalised and I couldn’t even meet him properly due to motion sickness . Those were so hard days . 5.5 months passed fewww!!!! So hard days . 😩

[@anindita1217]

Mals your makeup is lookin gorgeous love It

[@niharika1303]

Same babe🥺I am fighting with this idea of doing everything at the same time, almost everyday because it is so restricting🥺22, always had a plan, a goal. Only to realise now, that i didn't really deeply want, what I was working so hard for past 5 years🥺now I am the most clueless I have ever been, with no idea what to do in life now. My life is a literal mess rn, with no support from anywhere what so ever. But I still don't wish to giveup, that's not me🥺 so going to just take slow steps as of now🥺lots of love babe✨this video helped me✨

[@dianajyothimendonca7942]

Mals, whatever you are saying I could relate exactly with my life!! I was so into so called society timeliness,like marriege has to be by this year kid at this age bla bla ,but my perception towards life changed when I had a divorce and I kind of deniel mode and finally started accepting myself and started my life as fresh and that too the way I wanted and today I would say, no fear of this world like if anyone judge me for who I am or what I do, basically what I feel is,99% people in the society bother about others opinion towards us and because of that either we kill our own desire or manage life the way the other person wants..I am married again and having kids at the age of 40 and now I'm like who cares,it's my life❤ Very very informative video ( I am talking about life lessons😊) Love you darling,bless you all

[@kriturajputkarishma350]

I love her talks, she really inspires me a lot ❤

[@bhavikarathod4442]

OMG the overall look turned out soooo sooo sooo gorgeous...also I agree 💯 with all what you said..❤

[@drardra]

Missed you so much, I was constantly checking your mums, brothers and your channel atleast to get a glimpse of you . Im not on insta. love you girl❤

[@tanushreedas1413]

Congratulations for 800k 🎉❤

[@arpanasharma5828]

You are so real and relatable ❤I m happy to find you on KZbin ❤keep growing

[@NehaSingh-cc8kd]

Sucha a therapeutic video mals !!! The look is stunning! Can u share the necklace detaiks or source which youre wearing plz ?

[@happinesspeace8682]

I do feel it even if nothing big happened. I feel like the fear of it made me into all these stages too.

[@warshmachughtai976]

Followed you after watching this video! So inspirational.

[@canadaislove]

Such a strong n confident women more power to u mals

[@shavyjha7087]

Few days before my Last birthday, i lost my dad. I didnt know what grief was, i wasnt prepared on how i'd deal with all the pain, thoughs, memories and everything. Bought few books, took everyones suggestions and i still couldnt figure out how i'd get out of it. This year, my birthday is in 2 days, and 10 days before this birthday I lost my dog, whom I loved more than anyone and anything. Now, im not sure if I even want to try to get to the other side. It hurts too much to even try.

[@deepikas8667]

u goin strong mommy…proud of u..these all r passin clouds..this shall pass too…god myt hv kept smethn v precious for u..sit bac ..hv patience….god bless u..loads f love n hugs…

[@smrutinair9225]

Can we take a moment and appreciate this comment section !! Ufff 😍❤!!! I feel an unsaid bond between all of us... Mals, thank you, thank you for always coming up with these pure emotions and expressing it with so much love.

[@tiriveedhitejaswi2581]

I suffered at a lot from my age 17. I battled with anxiety and depression even now I am suffering with it . And yes we will have set timelines for everything like before 25 we should get a good job and before 30 we need to get married and children. These are all to satisfy our parents and society.

[@the_cosmoholic_8]

Loved the look Malz.... Taking one day at a time, like u said 😊❤

[@Stylishlyslick]

Love the whole chatty video Mal! Can you share where is your necklace from ?

[@nouhabousshmine2816]

love your words and the maturity in it yes we experience pain now it is time to spread hope god bless all inshallah

[@riyashaji5654]

Your words made me strong and bold.. Lots of love to you Mals♥

[@abcde1640]

Kindly mention the book wherein stages of grief were read out from. It will help a lot of people

[@mohiniOrdineryGirl]

Its really amazing how you say it all in the best positive way and no Negativity is around 😍 also the way you do makeup is really best

[@Missakshita21]

Your rings n hoops r sooo prettttyyyy❤❤❤pls share the link!!!!

[@aanchalsharma1115]

Continuous comparison with what other people are achieving etc can also lead us to believing in the “timeline” :)

[@ThatGirlInVogue]

Yes.

[@marishkadias4140]

Lovely video ❤u r getting stronger by the day …love u mals

[@anushymemonn8513]

Your skin looks so fresh and glory please share your skincare routine ♥

[@bd9123]

Awesome one Mals👏🏻👏🏻

[@suranjanapatowary9524]

Hi Malvika, I am not really a make-up person. I just come here to see you. I was recently going through a trauma and the 5stages of grief that you spoke was so relatable and relief at the same time. And yes, I did all the bargaining, etc. But at the end, it feels like all that was necessary and I am more powered by my own better self now. Have a nice day.

[@reviewsremediesbyquratulai2764]

You are my inspiration ❤so genuine so natural ❤❤love you mals❤

[@happinesspeace8682]

Am just in a denial mode of why all the women have to go through these and nobody understands it.

[@wildatheart15]

People refuse the speak up because they don't want to give women the satisfaction of being understood. But guess what? You don't frickin need anybody! Uplift yourself ❤

[@kinjalkhimesra3998]

So very helpful, love you Malvika

[@jenniferfernandes3388]

I just saw the thumbnail malzz. Oh god, you’re looking like a fairy. Btw I just realised you look like serena in Gossip girls ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@madhurijoshi8236]

Thank u mals for boosting us

[@gautamipati7870]

You are literally a Born warrior 🔥in my opinion 💯

[@rizarozi6368]

She is soooooooooooooo strong ❤

[@vipashabanugaria4585]

I m the same person who always want to work in timeliness n control myself n put that pressure on me like the same u said beb.... I also felt that these things are making me so sad n depressed n i just dont give time to myself n my happiness..... But have changed my attitude a bit from the day i got pregnant.... Just go with the flow ❤❤❤

[@farahfatemachowdhury756]

Can you please make a video on best skincare products?

[@vasudhaagrawal5718]

You are therapy!!!

[@aditi75303]

Love ur aesthetic ❤and you🥰

[@AasthaChaturvedi1992]

Love this earrings that you are wearing! Could you share the link

[@Scrubsandtales]

You should watch kdramas really. Hometown cha cha our beloved summer ❤ you will absolutely love these

[@somapradhan3773]

This is nice video Malz

[@MonikaLiveYT]

You are an inspiration ❤

[@ron-zd2br]

Also Also, What a beautiful look 🫂🔥🔥

[@anushka___0809]

OMG i love such type of videos yaar!!!🤍🤍🤍🤍😘😘😘😘

[@nehadeshmukh732]

I know everything you said was in refrence to a relationship break up and relationships in general. But I feel like this applies to everything. I was in a med school and medical field is one of the most tough and toxic field out there. People are egoistic and very competitive. There's a lot of corruption and people can legit flunk you for personal grudes It's like survival of the fittest there. And I flunked two of my subjects, I had a very hard time dealing with everything. And when I flunked I was so mad because I have always been a bright student, I blamed everything on the system and the people and I was so mad.I verified all my results and asked for revaluation and it was clear that my professors had punished me for a personal grudge. And then I realised okay but wait I knew people here are egoistic I knew that they can and they will exploit their power. I knew I was opinionated and had my own ways about things. But I could have always kept that in mind and maybe learn to make my point in a way that doesn't hurt anyone's ego. Maybe I should have picked my battles wisely. We live in a world where authority will exploit their powers. I should be the one to learn to work around it. I should be the one to learn how to make a point and still save your skin. Because college or otherwise I will always encounter such people and such systems.

[@harshagobinath9384]

Thank you so much for sharing this coz unfortunately this happens a lot and we need more awareness around it. People say be bold speak up etc but sometimes that's not exactly the best route to take just to be on the safer side.

[@sanatanwar4243]

Broo... U made my day❤

[@learner782]

V luv u respct u....n always stand by u....n how can u speak so well

[@snehasethiya2254]

Love u malzaz more power to you and abby

[@TheShila1234]

Mals am tired. I am physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted 😢

[@anupamasaha6236]

I am very happy 2 see u doing well 💗 Mals

[@lifemountainspeace732]

Hii Malvika i love your rings collection, if possible then please make a video on your accessories❤ Actually I love all your accessories collection❤❤❤ If video is not possible then just share with us the link of your rings collection❤❤

[@mpmousumi]

I just want to hug you ❤

[@meerakumar8888]

Beautifully said! ❤️

[@ahnhyejin7043]

Please need vlogsss Love your vlogss Abbika series is what we missing

[@Mahaahmedvlogs]

❤❤luved ur vlogsss

[@Rajawat330]

Hey does your foundation and concealer oxidise after some time? If if does what do you do and if it does not then also please tell??