The brothers have a heated discussion - Zwai to blame? | Bala Family | S1 | Ep 12 | 1 Magic | DStv

[@tshepoanointed6093]

I love how zwai is so strict..What a brother❤️❤️

[@polokegomampane2848]

Must be strict to his kids! Zwai makafokofe maan!

[@neliswajokweni5872]

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[@xoliswamartin6714]

Zwayi is too straight forward and once again he is trying to instill sense of responsibility ku Phelo to stop pointing fingers ebantwani and start making introspection..again why Phelo is so comfortable with Jen and Loyiso its because she understands Phelo s irresponsible acts, and she doesn't care noba iphalele something Jen will never allow to her kids when they not doing well in thier lives like drinking, don't take care of thier jobs and Phelo iyawuthanda umhlaba ohlayo ongena hayi..So Jen clever destroying Phelo slowly but surely I don't care who says what ayikho lento bayenza kuphelo ba understand Phelo ngento e wrongo there is no excuse one get drunk such that he cannot go to work...gqitywa ngu tatu Jafta mntaka Bawo tsalela kwelicala line nyuku Ema suburbs

[@nobantumarele9028]

Ohhhhh Thank you ,I love u zwaii nonPink

[@nellydyaloyi5028]

What if they are trying to build him psychologically? Cz the way I see they give him support he needs , therapy and freedom so he can find himself and Phelo akana fokol guys uhlala eTinarha will make him worse zosela uzotshaya he won't focus I don't see anything wrong eyenziwa ngu Jen n Loyiso ku Phelo, uZwai unomona

[@xoliswamartin6714]

@nellydyaloyi5028 Look golden opportunities were served in a platter ngu Zwayi for u Phelo wadlala ngazo and Phelo umaI u Zwayi xa esengxakini and yet u Loyiso yena akamnqandi u Phelo xa enxila edlala ngomsebenzi osisonka sakhe, bamane bembhambazela esenza wrong things worse part of it akakhuli uxhentsa enkunkumeni eloxesha wafundiswa ngu Zwayi oo Loyiso they enjoy uPhelo to live in thier shadow while Loyiso is getting successful nefamily yakhe futhi ke apho imbi khona u Jen will never let any of his children misbehave or destroy thier lives the way she let Phelo did and also encourage him, guys we must be realistic siyeke ubumenemene noba buyers, xa umntu ezimiswle kwaye efuna ukumakha omnye umntu. You speak the truth and stop speaking what the ears of that person want to hear. Zwayi is telling the truth that breaks no friendship akanantsimi yaNkosi uZwayi uthetha inyaniso whether you like it or not.. He doesn't care who says what..

[@xoliswamartin6714]

@nellydyaloyi5028 If you have no interest at heart in building life ne career ka Phelo ngoba mdala ngoku and ixesha liyahamba aluzulinda yena. fmFanele azimele ayazi into ayifunayo one can utter these words uzitshoyo. U Zwayi became a family father at a very tender age of 13yrs and he has interest at heart nge family yakhe qha everyone could see that ngaphandle kwemfama nomntu ongenanyani naturally ke siphila kwilizwe le colonialsm namasiko ezinye iintlanga that we have adopted and mixed with christianith eyexa nabasentshona beli uncultured elalahla ii principles of Africanism that's why kunjenjenje naqhathwa native Christianity iyanibhidisa ngoba kaloku nizilibele your roots and traditions of yesterday umntu ontsundu ugcwele yi confusion qha ngoku and unfortunately ke abantu abafana noo Zwayi who knows thier background they are the victims of people like you to be criticized yi society engazazi nemvela phi yayo. Zimkile iinkomo Magwalandini

[@nobantumarele9028]

@@nellydyaloyi5028 Plzzzz drop le uyithethayo ba u Zwaii uNomona How

[@siphisibisi9336]

I also Love Zwai,ubu strict bakhe towards his brothers buna THAT THING 💕,Loyiso on the other hand is sooo down to earth ♥️

[@tkasiam8322]

I've been watching this new season, Zwai is not pretentious and not in this show to be liked by anyone. The thing with most of us humans, we don't like the truth.Loyiso is too soft, no wonder Jen is the head of the family and Zwai is straight forward and I feel he really wants Phelo to man-up he can see through him that he's lazy want to play victim all the time he's confused whether he's coming or going, he's actually behaving like a spoiled 2000 sensitive to everything that doesn't go his way....Bigups to Zwai for not being pretentious in this whole show...As for the poor Loyiso, I really feel sorry for him for falling into a trap of a narcissist(Jen) 😢and sadly he's not getting out...

[@puseletsomonnaemang2958]

💯

[@xoliswamartin6714]

Enkosi ngokungathengisi ngenyaniso..Society esiphila kuyo ayinanyani even if the writing us on the wall soze bayibona..wena uthenga inyaniso Camagu!!

[@IamBarati]

I'm so glad someone can see it like it is. Jen is a dangerous person

[@popcornpepperspic3]

True Lloyiso is a people's pleaser that doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings that's why it's hard for him to make Phelo take responsibility for his actions despite knowing he's wrong. Which makes him weak and unable to stand for himself.

[@zamadlomo3118]

Wow wow wow. Thanks for this Revelation because a lot of our society do not want to realise this truth. You are spot on. I 100% share exactly the same sentiments.

[@nosphiwenxumalo4375]

"You wanna try and corner me so you can say ahaa" 😂😂😂

[@ziyandakodwa5798]

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@siviwemapekula1689]

People seem to be missing the point here that Zwai still has a grudge against Loyiso based on what happened in the past; hence he still feels like he can't trust him...

[@SamKaNomafu]

People like Loyiso and Phelo don't like to hear the truth the minute you bring up uncomfortable conversation they take it as an attack.

[@fionachauke-n4s]

Did i not die chomy

[@carolinephorosi2345]

Zwai is abusing his power of being a big brother I suspect he has unresolved issues

[@busisiwerosalia2823]

Hai,Zwai you have anger issu Be alert! You shall loose your brothers. Pls work out your anger!!!!!Your family members know you very well that when you start getting angry,your facial expression changes with all your facial parts shivering whith sweatim. I llike you so much but acknowledge your weakness and get help before you loose two brother

[@NtombizethuDlamini]

Loyiso is a professional and he takes care of his family. Keep it up Loy. You have a good wife Jen. You are good together.

[@thembi221]

I like Mzwandile straight to the point my guy ❤

[@nette2144]

Like me! My siblings are different. 😂😂😂

[@mkcece6112]

Can Zwai please leave Loyiso alone🤦🏽‍♀️.. Loyiso is peaceful and we should let him be 💯

[@puseletsomonnaemang2958]

Loyiso is a menemene 😂

[@nobuhlebendalo3844]

​@@puseletsomonnaemang2958 Inyoronyoro😂😂😂

[@nobantumarele9028]

Loyiso limenemene ,and they don't care about u Pelo ,zwaii thetha inyani zodwa

[@puseletsomonnaemang2958]

@@nobuhlebendalo3844 elikhulu yhoo, he's those type of people abangafuni thatha side because of ubugwala and wanting to appear nice

[@xoliswamartin6714]

Niyambhanxa u Loyiso, He is alizard u Loyiso I see no backbone ku Loyiso

[@thandokaziayanda5518]

Please update the whole episode 12

[@londiwembokazi447]

I think Zwayi has a controlling personality ....

[@akhonablayi1474]

Over.... And Jen is not buying it tuuu

[@xoliswamartin6714]

Uyamtyhola u Zwayi

[@yanelediniso2833]

Unyanisile bhuti zwai lentwana yakowabo ayikho ryt le

[@xoliswamartin6714]

Zwayi is so smart and he can see his siblings beyond thier tricks because he raised them

[@kholekaposwa732]

But what i like is they still give their brother respect they are not rude they just in disagreements with each other

[@nombasadaka1363]

Buti Loyiso stand your grounds brother & keep protecting your wife

[@lusandamanjezi4475]

Hay shame u Loyiso ufuna u pleaser wonke umntu. And shame lonto imenza angabinaso I stand. Fike eqhwanyaza kaninzi. Hayke u Phelo yena 😂. Si aram esithetha ngathi kuqaqamba imihlathi.

[@sizwefulani6252]

Utheni? Haymaan sugeza ....lol

[@lusandamanjezi4475]

@@sizwefulani6252 🤣🤣🤣 uyadika maan soze akhe atsho ba yena into imvisa njani. Hleli nje ukwi middle ground. Phelo ke yena uhamba nomoya 🤣

[@nombulelopriscilla114]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nobantumarele9028]

Loyiso ligwala

[@paulanyati4533]

😂😂😂😂

[@sindiswasheleni262]

There’s a saying that says if you don’t tell a person no, as you are expected to, then you are condoning the behaviour. Jen is umakoti, she’s supposed to be in the kitchen making tea and cookies while the family meeting carries on, when an advise is needed from her then called to be part of the family and that is Loyiso’s responsibility not Ta Zwayi’s. U Jen must not be “somlomo ka Bhut Loyiso, I appreciate the fact that Lloyd has a deep understanding and a relationship with molokazana, but her views maziphelele e rumini when she’s empowering her husband for the next meeting, the person that must speak is myeni with his family issues u Jen angabilisebe lika Lyod, it’s clear Jen is a speaker and actor maybe an instigator too or rather too confident but not kwi meetings zekhaya ezinje, some family issues are very sensitive to that family you need to trend carefully, Jon is not even allowed to express her observations of opinion as to “ oh how contradictory is that statement by sis Pinky or ta Zwayi, No no no, I like ta Zway, set boundaries and express your expectations of your brother in the issues at hand, at the end of the day you aught to have the same goal which is to support each other and build the family, that’s just my opinion. Phelo is a baby utefela nje o bhuti bakhe just need guidance here and there nguntondo otherwise he knows what’s right and wrong, ngungondo kaloku lona., hold your horses Jen, you don’t seem to be doing any justice for Bhut Loyd. But Lyoyd thetha kuyonakala your character is significantly needed you can’t all be the same anyway. Khanibizane nangesiduko maan nizoncuma., yacengwa i family that what I like about you all, you are not aggressive at all you only have different views.

[@nellydyaloyi5028]

My question on this part, why did the meeting took place in Jens Kitchen if she was not allowed?

[@sindiswasheleni262]

@@nellydyaloyi5028 that’s my question as well, but the answer to that reveals itself now on this episode, even the blind can see.,

[@mtombomagadla8399]

You can't say Jen must do this or that, but for years she was ignored and not invited to anything. But she must now jump for Pinky and Zwai. Loyiso's family created the gap and she moved on. And now she has to move in a way that pleases them

[@maggiemofokeng5270]

This is disappointing. Why must they hang their dirty stuff in public. Loyiso is a family man, a happy married husband, and daddy he must stop all this and think of his children and wife 🙏

[@sonenibeatricemhlongo7953]

He seems like a person who is so calm,. a. family. man . Abamxolele. I felt so bad when I saw him crying.

[@thembakazitsheke9909]

Hay Zwayi uyi bully ngoku tyhini u Loyiso doesn't do any thing without his wife!!!!

[@ritarethabile3743]

Utheni uZwai e bitter nje maan

[@constancenikiwe4145]

Akekho bitter u zwai u straight forward inyani Yinyani into Xa ingeyiyo ayiyo sanubhanxwa yilento ingathi u Loyiso u soft look the action of his wife towards his family

[@xoliswamartin6714]

Akakho bitter u Zwayi at all..watch all the episodes and listen to the family history nicely

[@NtombizethuDlamini]

Uyabheda Zwai. Live Loyiso and Jen alone. Have your own life and focus on it. This is unfair to Loyiso and Jen.

[@PHoz_y]

Where is the full episode?

[@DrTebelloMatsela]

Been searching shem😂😂😂

[@PHoz_y]

@@DrTebelloMatsela nam! Since Monday!!!! I’m so lost nje

[@NtombizethuDlamini]

Phelo you can speak English well, you are handsome and have a good body, start a presenting show, Podcast any any other thing on top of you good singing.

[@nellydyaloyi5028]

Hay guys Zwai needs help, kakhle kahle guys may you balance me here wenzan uZwai empilwen yakhe? It's like he want to be relevant or recognized through bulling his siblings, hay akamfuni uJen ndikcamile😅

[@xoliswamartin6714]

Yjoo zuyimamele uyibuke kakuhle I Reality show ka Bala family you, if you are intelligent enough to see and distinguish izinto..You will find the answer of your question phaya kweza episodes..Zwayi has done a lot for his family he raised his brothers all by himself and his sister Pinky as a deputy mother, he supported and educated financial and otherwise he opens doors for opportunities as a result they are where they are because of Zwayis networks.. when Zwayi s father pass on he buried him all by himself making funeral arrangement ngemali yakhe. a very tender age, at 13 he buried his father himself engancediswa mntu, I mean imalinyokungcwaba itatakhe yaphumanku Zwayi Ena 13yrs esebenza, he opens the door of education for his brothers e Drakensburg Mountains Musical school and endure the first degree of discrimination ngamabhulu ukuze not only his brother got opportunity to study there the whole SAcan black child, wasika apho wophangelela abantakwabo wabafundisa phaya nditsho u Phelo mo Loyiso namhlanje they are enjoying opportunities of getting jobs nge network ka Zwayi bonke bayaphangela noPhelo lo uske wawunxilela umsebenzi u Zwayi ebemzamele wona, umama ka Zwayi eaitya I soft life uZwayi no Pinky bengabazali boo Loyiso njengokuba namhlanje bengamazeli ntweni nje u Zwayi plus ne society imjaja unyana womntu engenzanga nto I wrong nakancinci all Zwayi's wishes is to see his family successful qha that's all. As for uJen kange angamfuni tu Zwayi if you are an African you will see and underatand that behavior ka Jen inesimilo esinemihlisela again if you can watch reality show you will see how rude Jen was whe she communicated nomamazala wakhe. Again if you Atmore a true African I mean ke umXhosa you will know that u Jen as a wife akangeni kwindaba zasebuhlanti zomzi wakhe as u mendi unless ke ulirhanuga Kuba kaloku le Westeen civilization and the Christianity that was adopted zi Africans zayenza eyazo sogqiba zalahla amasiko nezithethe zawo then you will see and understand that Zwayi has nothing against Jen all ZWAYI is trying to do is to protect his legacy yakowabo nemvelaphi yakhe and also his interest at heart is to make sure his family is successful qha and sorted so that they can move on with life.

[@tkasiam8322]

Zwai doesn't need help, you need help of understanding and seeing things for what they are.Zwai doesn't have anger issues and because he's not pretentious ,he gets angry because his points are misunderstood yet he mean well. Pray for the ability to listen and to watch carefully before you turnish someone's character with lies...

[@xoliswamartin6714]

Umntu who needs help ngu Phelo nala tata u Jafta ngathi yinfcuka no Jen plus no Mrs Bala-Jafta uLoyiso yena akhulule I khetshemiya ne daskoti alike u Jen abesekitshen yena axoxe indaba zomdeni wakhe ebuhlanti

[@xoliswamartin6714]

@tkasiam8322 oh thank you for your good point

[@rethabilenxumalo9742]

Zwai uyabhora 🙄...he is exhausting 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@lmx113]

I still wonder what is the root cause Zwai and Melanie divorced🤔🤔🤔

[@akhonablayi1474]

Andonele ngu Zwaai yhuuuu...

[@agelessdream5340]

Yhoooooooo Zwaiii kaloku 😂

[@SisLinaM]

Wooah uMzwandile uyandidika

[@nobantumarele9028]

Ngoyena ,no Pink banenyan People plzzz jongisisani

[@SisLinaM]

Yes banenyani but indlela yabo yothetha ibenza bajale also, thinking that people will do what you do is wrong. He is bossy, akamhloniphi uJenn and that means akamhloniphi uLoyiso. So noba enenyan but uyadika ngembeko engekho

[@nobuhlebendalo3844]

Ukuba ungumXhosa, bekufanele uyayazi ukuba uZwai ubeka uJen endaweni yakhe njengamfazi pha kwaBala, nto leyo kwakufanele yenziwe nguLoyiso kudala. Uyambona uZwai ukuba umninawa wakhe uLoyiso uthambile. Ngoko uzama ukunqanda ubunokhontoni bukaJen bungangeni apha kusapho (family as a whole) lakwaBala, buphelele pha kwaLoyiso. Ngumsebenzi kaZwai ke lowo njengankulu emadodeni kwelakhaya.

[@SisLinaM]

Hay Nobuhlebendalo ayikho nje lonto. Xa egood kangaka ekubeken abafaz babantu endleleni uphi owakhe? Nyaniseka nono, ayisosixhosa into yodelela kuka Zway adelele uMka Bhuti wakhe. Kona, why ecinga ubunkulu uzobenza ebantwin abadala? If akamfun uJenn he must be prepared to lose uLoyiso. Most people xa uMntu ethule njengo Loyiso bamenza ipenti, bamgezele. Also, what did Jenn do that was so wrong? Maybe ndishiyekile

[@nobantumarele9028]

@@nobuhlebendalo3844 ohhh Thank you cc ,abantu bathi u Zwaii uNomona How ,yena no Pink bayayimela.inyan

[@gugulethuthimane7189]

Zwai is a bully period

[@nockeyandisiwe8179]

Bhut mzwandile wenza kakhulu xhego i mean u hv to to stop before everyone leaves u and u will be stuck wt sisi pink bcz ninochuku marn

[@malizoleplatyi]

uZwai unalanto yoba yinkulu so uVru-vraya wonke umntu

[@yolisamrso9827]

Haywethu Zwayi why do you want to trust people. Dont you know what the Bible says about trusting people.

[@nobantumarele9028]

Zwaii yayimela into yakhe qha qwaba ,Loyiso yikaka uomntu

[@yolisamrso9827]

@@nobantumarele9028 Haywethu uZwai unomona, unochuku ugade nje yonke into. Ezinye izinto aboziyeka zizidlulele

[@nobantumarele9028]

Andivumi ,shame le Yomona ,bt Nam makabayeke azithulele ,into enfiyaziyo yonke into inexesha layo ,ajongane no Sis Pink qha qwaba

[@sihledlomo9864]

Loyiso selokhu ecwayiza yintoni

[@DrTebelloMatsela]

If there is someone who should have twasaed 😂😂😂to solve his problems is Zwai!!! Such anger is too much to comprehend! He is emotional! EVVVVVVVVVERYTIME! 😂chila Zwai

[@nomagugumwedzi]

Yooo Zwai you are so so nagging hayiboo

[@nellydyaloyi5028]

Whoss funding Phelo kqala, if Loyiso is also funding Phelo he is narried Jen has to be involved in finance decisions