The BRUTAL TRUTH About Being LONELY In Your 30s

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@fuzzypanda1684 12 күн бұрын

The most important thing you need to figure out in life is what difficulty setting you're living on. If you're living life on Easy or Normal mode, all you have to do is show up and things just kinda fall into place for you. Maybe you have to hit the gym for a bit or something if you're on Normal mode, but things will have a way of working out. But if you're living on Hard or Nightmare mode, everything ends in loss. Everything. Get into as good of shape as you want, travel the world, spend your time improving yourself, it won't make any difference, because the universe will make sure things fall into place in just such a way that things DON'T work out for you. Ever.

@Giuseppe_Paolillo 12 күн бұрын

@@fuzzypanda1684 that’s quite an interesting point of view. Where do you select the difficulty?

@fuzzypanda1684 11 күн бұрын

@@Giuseppe_Paolillo If I knew, I'd change it lol. As far as I can tell, it's set at birth and nothing you do will change it. And I've seen far too many instances that support the concept to not believe it at this point. Although what I call "life's difficulty setting", other people call luck, God, the universe etc. Whatever it is, it's real, and it absolutely controls how things will work out for each and every one of us, and how much success, or lack thereof, we're allowed to reach.

@Giuseppe_Paolillo 10 күн бұрын

I think some conditions are settled, but then you can work on anything else. I am a 1.75 tall man who lives in a first world country. I can’t go to the NBA but neither I am starving. Then from there, you can kinda work on anything else.

@fuzzypanda1684 10 күн бұрын

@Giuseppe_Paolillo Very true, you can work on almost anything, improve it, and with enough effort, develop a top-level version of it. However, that's where luck, or your life difficulty setting, comes in. Because you can put in the work to build a great physique and charismatic personality, but if your luck is bad enough, you won't get any results with women. Or you can study hard, get good at something, and go after it, yet all you get are roadblocks and people trying to stop you from succeeding.

@Giuseppe_Paolillo 10 күн бұрын

@@fuzzypanda1684 I think it depends a lot. The difficulty level, at the end of the day, might be just the amount of times you have to try for something. So its a pain in the ass to overcome, but still possible to overcome :)

@arnaupuig5097 8 ай бұрын

I am in my 30s, I am lonely, and you know what? It's GREAT.

@Giuseppe_Paolillo 8 ай бұрын

Agree! Few very valuable friends!

@arnaupuig5097 8 ай бұрын

@@Giuseppe_Paolillo Indeed!

@Giuseppe_Paolillo 8 ай бұрын

Yes! Till you don’t screw up too much, 30 is just chapter 2 with more money :)

@drharry1311 8 ай бұрын

all these dark but true facts is big for a person{me} who just crossed teen drama

@Giuseppe_Paolillo 8 ай бұрын

It’s probably something you can still experience when moving from teens to 20s, but hopefully in your 20s you can still recover from. In your 30s it just becomes harder. Not impossible. But very hard