THE CHILD WE LOST 1963

[@truth654567]

Virtually every song on this album has brought me to tears.

[@TheseBitchesWantNikes]

truth654567 This. Oh my god this album will destroy you.

[@FadedLaser]

saaaaaame holy shit

[@jl5948]

This song will really do it.

[@rawrskater1]

"Only told you, it was perfect where your sister went." that's heavy stuff.

[@leighduncan3272]

Out of all their songs, and I have listened to each and every one, this one has to be the one I hold closest to my heart. I have miscarried two babies, one at 20 weeks, the other at merely 7. I was only 14 for the first, the pregnancy was of a shitty circumstance (not consensual), and I had to go into labour instead of having a D&E. I buried my first child before I could even know what love was. The second, I was 17 and in a relationship with a person I loved, but I was a child, still. I found out, and before I could even figure out how to tell him, I lost the pregnancy two days later. I had a D&E for that one. But it still hurts. Everything I had and lost, so suddenly. I felt like I was being given a second chance, because I always blamed myself for losing my first. And then it was gone.

[@TheseBitchesWantNikes]

Leigh Duncan So sorry to hear that. I hope you have been able to heal. This song hits really hard. I lost a stepsister to a car wreck recently and my step mom had a stillbirth way back in the 90’s. So the last line where he talks about the grandpa and child being reunited really breaks me down.

[@rottenangel1155]

I’m so sorry you had to go through that know your always a mommy of 2 beats angles that will always be with u

[@Trowa71]

I'm not a religious person at all, but somewhere they wait for you.

[@samschnabel4121]

just something about there sound that makes me feel everything that they are talking about in their songs.

[@ashondriezek1084]

Lost so many siblings growing up. Most stillbirths, or miscarriages. This song hits deep as a 22 year old. Really makes you wonder what might've been if they'd been here.

[@mrunner7854]

Lost a niece about 6 months ago and this song just destroys me. I don't think this band ever know how much they mean to the people in this generation.

[@sunnylane8909]

My son was stillborn at 28 weeks. July 26th, 2019 was his birthday and the worst day of my life. It’ll be a year on Sunday and it hurts just as bad as the day I heard “I’m sorry there’s no heartbeat”

[@moishabolton2122]

I lost my son last month, he was stillborn and never did I ever think I'd be able to relate to this song so much

[@fiilisboa]

The vocalist should write a book or something...

[@XDario91]

10/10 would buy

[@liz_3d]

He did, it comes with a special edition of this album it's called 'yesterday's home'

[@fiilisboa]

I didn't know that! So cool.

[@XDario91]

Lizgony need it asap! :D

[@darrynfool0074]

Don't get it, it's just a book of the lyrics from the album.

[@ManchoSrpak]

I bought the album yesterday. Even though I heard the whole thing online before, nothing can replace the feeling of pulling the cd out of the case, putting it in my car radio and just chillin' with the feelin'. GREAT ALBUM!

[@ornifexxx]

these comments are gonna make me cry. this band makes me cry. you guys are so special. whoever here has gone through such a tragedy i hope you find peace and happiness and im sorry

[@descendingoncewhile]

the imagery of the grandpa holding the baby at the end though... it makes me cry every time

[@TheseBitchesWantNikes]

Omg same

[@blackstauber]

The beginning remembers The most beautiful bitterfruit

[@andrewmartin6639]

Eric Resende Same beat to begin with

[@frieddeadkittens]

i thought the same!! i even posted the same thing

[@kenyholt5036]

Can we address the fact that we all are so different and brought together by the beauty of the horror of life through La Dispute. I love you all! Dont forget that!

This album still feels new to me and it's been 6 years.... Whoa guys

[@alondracortes9756]

i decided to listen to this band by Frank Iero's recommendation and... HOLY SHIT WHAT A GREAT BAND HOW COULD I HAVE BEEN LIVING ALL THIS TIME WITHOUT KNOWING ABOUT THEM?!

[@VideInfra]

When did he recommend them?

[@kylamarie4970]

I lost my baby in January (still birth) and I fully intend to play this for my kids one day when I tell them about their sister

[@mrwhiteguy908]

This whole album makes me cry

[@daethrow123]

Damn it Jordan, always making me cry.

[@emmymcclellan7117]

My mom had a still birth with my little brother, this reminds me so much of him..

[@tumblebeetreasures1334]

This was so beautiful and heartbreaking. I cried.

[@analiesedelgado3823]

lyrics are always so raw and meaningful

[@frieddeadkittens]

this beat at the beginning is almost exactly like the most bitter beautiful fruit

[@ldinmyheartforever3836]

Thank you, For singing this song at the show today. (Downtown Dallas). It was amazing. And finishing with Kings Park. You guys killed it. Even tho the stage made you sorta dizzy. (:

[@AskingCynthia]

There has to be a moment of silence when listening to this song. The lyrics are so heavy La Dispute never fails to bring songs that make you think and just give goosebumps.

[@ThePurpleZebraEater]

This album is so beautiful oh my god

[@xcuntxcunt5791]

I want this band to narrate my life

[@always_on_ten]

They already do just press play

[@kenyholt5036]

I pretty much just listen to la dispute and cry. Thats my entire identity

[@Steambolt_]

the climax of the album. beautifully unnerving

[@felipesoares3483]

this band is just fucking beautiful.

[@paaandz]

that transition @ 2:12 - 2:18 .. fucking goose pimples

[@wolfgangegermann5632]

At 2:38 (you were visions, etc), he sounds a bit like Cedric Bixler-Zavala

[@laciduckett9125]

this song strikes a nerve every time I hear it.

[@blueberryswamp2172]

LOVE

[@trishabrady9337]

some things come, but cant stay here

[@leandroantelo7154]

other things go when i want they near

[@mb4709]

So deep.

[@dumnass3500]

for sale: baby shoes, never worn

[@joshbelanger2326]

shit this comment cuts deep

[@pigeon3616]

SHUT THGE FUC

[@recz2812]

omg noooo :c

[@madeleinep.828]

What if the shoes just didn’t fit the baby?

[@DH-ve5bl]

I thought the music was awful, but the lyrics were very good. Sad, but real.

[@ihavenoidea9991]

HOLY FUCKING SHIT SO GOOD!

[@VideInfra]

This is their heaviest song.

[@BriK33]

"this song sucks, bc I can't mosh to it..." -says all scene kids

[@andreabowser75]

punk*. Scene people don't mosh. and i talking about real punk like NOFX not bring me the horizon or bands like that.

[@andreabowser75]

*I'm

[@abigailaustin5666]

Folk punk for life bro

[@Kitty4u]

You could though.

[@roemip]

andrea bowser “real punk like NOFX” LOL

[@mclguitar1]

this is so sad :-(

[@V1D30Cr1T1C]

was nightstand spelled wrong? haha, great song nonetheless