The Confidence Secret Of Ryan Gosling [Emma Stone Pick Up Line from Crazy, Stupid, Love]

[@srbaruchi]

5:10 ... MAJOR teaching moment (which you did touch on). In just a few seconds, Gosling acknowledges the friend; compliments and shows respect to her; involves her (even more, although she is stricken from the start); creates an ally; and redirects smoothly to his target. Flawless brilliance executed like a BOSS!

[@sovereignion6802]

Hollywood portrayal is NOT reality. Many actors do NOT conduct themselves like this in real life. Instead, they are reading off a script and can be confident knowing that the actress is going to simply play her role and not take offense, and he has nothing to lose by being flirtatious, cocky, and whatever else. Saying he sat there for 2 HOURS, sounds like a sissified douche bag. Hollywood got it wrong! Plus, he kisses arse, doesn't construct his sentences cohesively, spontaneously, fluidly and instantly...he is ACTING. Observe the actors people model themselves after...they DO NOT CONDUCT THEMSELVES LIKE THIS IN REALITY. Even Will Smith in live videos struggles to construct sentences...Ryan says incoherent sentences, with gap-fillers that OOZE desperate attempts for VALIDATION. Saying things such as, "like", "you know", "um" and seeks validation from women in a bad way that makes him come across as needy. [You heard this from me FIRST! There are too many phony's who are parrots who talk the talk but do NOT walk the walk! As for Ryan watching that bitch for 2 hours is beyond borderline STALKER and CREEPY. Who on earth is genuinely confident and does NOT show glimpses of INADEQUACY? FACT: Most women will brush off guys when they are with a friend. Girls are clingy to their friends and very hard to separate.

[@srbaruchi]

@@sovereignion6802 Gosling's pitch is not "perfect." (Agree that the "sitting for two hours" line was ridiculous and out of character for a real player.) But he interrupted smoothly, and made it fun and exciting for the ladies. OBVIOUSLY, we are watching a film and a well-rehearsed script. The exact words are not important. The point is that the right combination of timing, teasing, complimenting, assertiveness, humor, and persistence -- delivered with the confidence of many successful experiences -- is "lethal." And it helps to be handsome, groomed, and stylish.

[@bruh-oz1fy]

9:25 where you talk about how despite being rejected, he keeps trying playfully. The balance is key here. He hasnt given up as soon as she left, being a loser. But he isn't trying enough to seem needy. He is being playful, where it seems like a joke (which brings you out of the needy category) but also may be a turning point for her and she agrees (which brings you out of the loser who gave up category) Playfully tease/banter, push-pull, hot-cold works wonders. Girls just wanna have fun!

[@zuse8831]

To be like Ryan you really need to learn a lot and know what to do in every senerio. Keep practicing and you will get better.

[@srbaruchi]

You need to be an improv master. That is the art. However, you can only go so far if your dialog partner is not engaged.

[@technaisci9489]

@@srbaruchi ikr im a university student now and the girls (I approach) are giving me answers so weird to not continue convos. concise

[@srbaruchi]

@@technaisci9489 You're still young. Over much time and practice you learn what motivates people (women and men) to engage you in banter and more serious interactions. Hone your sense of humor. Everybody finds laughter fun and attractive. I'm 67, and was married for almost 35 years. I never lost interest in "The Game" (of pursuit), although I was loyal to my wife. Now, after her very recent death, I am a single guy again, and will have to be back in the market. Wish me luck!

[@landonsolley487]

3:48 I was so close to never watching this guy ever again when he said he couldn’t remember the actresses name (The one and only perfect Emma Stone who if you can’t tell I’m deeply in love with but that heather here nor there 😂)

[@srbaruchi]

Or is it "Heather" that you REALLY love???

[@justindartenay7883]

Thank you! Agreed with all your commentary. Very accurate and useful. Guys listen to him and by all means don't be chauvinistic or cheat-code cocky; use this knowledge to not trip over yourself if you're unnatural with dates, but don't overthink what should be a fun time with a beautiful guest. Thank you The Attraction Switch!

[@BadassBobY]

Funniest alpha male movie I've watched ever

[@andrewmorgensen326]

He's not an alpha. He is a sigma.

[@DarkRedScepTeR]

@Ephraim Samuel George That's clearly not an alpha bro! He puts her on a pedestal at random times.

[@RR-et6zp]

@@andrewmorgensen326 sigma is a myth, wolfs arent alone. He's an alpha

[@ryancbarrett96]

Do the opening scene in Hitch. That is some uber Alpha shit from a dude I've never really considered Alpha.

[@Josh-fp2qn]

I'm 35 and have social anxiety. I have no confidence. And I want a girlfriend. How does a man get confidence?

[@marcopinto1068]

EMMA STONE

[@begobolehsjwjangan2359]

how to have confidence like him in this movie, 1. be white 2. be rich - some guy on youtube comment section.

[@RR-et6zp]

not true

[@kenneththompson6543]

This scene is golden.. 1 of my favorite movie & scene

[@jawi499]

This only works if you look as good looking and tall as Ryan Gosling. Otherwise the women would immediately dismiss him for interrupting their conversation. Truth.

[@fightsmart6836]

Strongly disagree.

[@karna5998]

It would work even if you're decent looking but are very confident (and don't come off as cocky)

[@SriM0]

Or looks rich.

[@Blanca1205]

You are absolutely right.

[@abramgrey2237]

He would've looked like a creep if he wasn't rayan gosling😂

[@thetruesigma7076]

Dude that was a great video! Really could be of great use to me!!

[@thetruesigma7076]

Dude this was a great video! Love it man!

[@zazinha3810]

As a girl, I have to say that a lot of these pieces of advice might come across as obnoxious. A lot of women prefer more humility and naturalism than this "alpha male game" cliche. This is just a movie, and I'm not even sure it would work for Gosling irl if he wasn't famous. Also, it's not the best idea to just butt into just any conversation. Women can be really turned off by that. The key is to do it when you are *absolutely* sure they're not talking about something serious. Just make sure you're not interrupting or asserting yourself into a personal convo, because if you interrupt that and impose yourself, we're gonna have our guard up...Ask the women in your life for advice if you can. Alpha males think they understand us, but honestly they don't really.

[@bruh-oz1fy]

It might come across as obnoxious if you are imagining someone following rules by the book to learn game. It is more just observing game and applying it situationally in different circumstances with different girls accordingly. With confidence, it does wonders with girls. Humility and naturalism are great, but it isn't necessarily attractive enough to get the attention of any girl. It's great for a long-term relationship for emotional connection, not necessarily for sexual tension or attraction

[@askelenaaboutrealestate]

Was it not possible to find a room without a music playing on the background to shoot this video? Cm'on!

[@kenneththompson6543]

Breakdown the movie "let the game begin"

[@michaelduff-kelly4771]

Please do a Paul Newman video. That man is the Godfather of charisma.

[@crashoverride337]

- Hi! - I love you!

[@MrCooper83]

So basically if you are being yourself (as Steve Carell) and being loser then the girls will not give a shit about you. But if you lie to them and tell them how confident and good you are (again this is a lie as Steve Carell’s character in the movie is a “loser”j then you will find love or girls for a night or two. So if you lie to them in the very first minute you see them you will be successful. My question is how can you expect that the girl is not lying to you when you do it at the vry beginning of the relationship?

[@josemama5274]

Yes

[@bolobalaman]

Selling is lying

[@bolobalaman]

The thing is you not looking for a relationship with this type of technique. U looking for a hook up. U got the wrong idea there

[@MrCooper83]

@@bolobalaman Im not looking for a hook-up :) You got the wrong idea here....

[@jetcustomsdbz5821]

Got it all wrong Steve Carol was not the loser he was successful has money great dad but he treated himself like a loser until he didnt

[@jb0579]

"We end up making out, or something like that..." okay I actually thought this was real until that moment - then I realized this is a punk video. Had me going there for a while.

[@CassendreXavier]

"Girls" are children. Also, the person doing these things in the movie is the movie character, not the actor. This is someone playing a role in a movie. It would be better to either referring to the character or using a clip of Gosling being confident and sexy in an interview or somewhere else besides a film role that is scripted for him to take on certain behaviors. I have seen several interviews of him and he's pretty much a goof. Adorable, but still just kind of a goof. Intelligent and highly aware of the bullcrap involved in show business. He's just a guy who can act.

[@sosiso4ka449]

How is it possible to forget her name?!?!?!

[@DownHillSkateTime]

Because he's gay duh

[@luhmickeanggraini1991]

Indeed

[@atanasioorleans5227]

Most of protogonist in the movie are alpha man!!!

[@tejuswadbudhe7909]

Thank you

[@theattractionswitch9425]

Thanks for watching Tejus :) -RR

[@sanaullahmolla6921]

why did youtube told me that this channal is no longer available...? is this hacked ?

[@pillai555]

What movie is this

[@josephvalentine7]

Elite lol ! Bit of a stretch or even a leap huh ? Come on dude

[@martinrharris]

I love that you make cash from this!

[@sandis9129]

But asking her do you find me attractive is not needed. If you ade confident you never ask that.

[@taylorpack7705]

Am I the only one who don’t find Emma stone all that hot? I think half the women he gets with in this are way prettier than her.

[@srbaruchi]

I've been watching her for years, and don't yet get the big appeal. Talented, attractive, pleasant ... sure. But not beautiful, curvaceous, womanly, or hot (in my ledger).

[@v.m.m101]

I think the Asian girl was better

[@adamtuts6253]

Please make subtitle in indonesian language, 🇮🇩

[@dinradja8487]

Just translate it by y'r self..

[@CatLives9]

Gosling's character was a fuckboy in this movie.

[@uttamkumar6393]

Great 😉

[@jedimota]

fails anyway...

[@emptyendeavor2762]

Elite. Like...... elite miko?

[@raymason3580]

TV show sex and the city. Lover,king, warrior,magican

[@theattractionswitch9425]

Lol interesting combo. -RR

[@donaldbiden9492]

This scene isn't alpha or good game. He's is nearly begging for her and she's trying way to hard to act like she's not into him. Movies are pretend.