The Consequences Of A High Body Count

Gracie, Jen (Gracie's mom) and Corey discuss the consequences of a high body count of intimate partners. We discuss how having a high body count is not healthy and illustrates a lack of self-love, self-respect and low standards for oneself. What women look for when they go out to party with their girlfriends vs. men.
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[@BurgerBoyda3rd]

The young girl hit the nail on the head on why body count is a problem. "She literally said that was a cool little connection we made. Let's move on with our lives and remember each other" Woman remember and compare. Men don't want you remembering other men

[@user-rc4jz9dy1i]

Yeah, I hear that and was like, what is there to remember? Any one night stands I had literally meant nothing to me. All I can say about it is I was attractive enough to get easy sex.

[@jeffcole4203]

How in the hell did the idea of having sex with someone become such a fleeting notion !?!

[@SFbayArea94121]

No ability to pair bond. So you’re no different to them as anyone else prior basically

[@jimmyjamesiv]

💯

[@Ferg778]

Let’s keep it real. Body count DOES matter for both men and women. A high body count effects a women differently, but it does matter. As men we want purity. Corey says all the time that if a women tells you she has cheated on all her boyfriends to not take her seriously, because she will probably do the same thing to you, but in the same breath he says body count doesn’t matter. He says look he her actions. On a balance of probabilities a women with a low count will stay faithful vs a women that has sleep with 60 dudes before you.

[@estushka5270]

I agree with you. Some women like myself care about the number of women he had. The problem is that it's hard to find a guy around 30 years who didn't sleep around and don't intend to. I'm myself a 28 year old female virgin who doesn't wait for marriage but for a special person. Dating is hard for me.

[@Ferg778]

@@estushka5270 28 and still a virgin? That’s what’s up. I respect that.

[@zoewitt_6525]

you want purity but you also want a girl that's experienced and will let you do whatever you want to her on the first date. modern men

[@Ferg778]

@@zoewitt_6525 yup. Men want virgin H$@s and women want faithful millionaires..

[@zoewitt_6525]

@@Ferg778 yup

[@lil--mo2025]

Looking for a wife/husband in a club is ridiculous on its face.

[@lil--mo2025]

@@kjettern wherever you partake in activities or hobbies.

[@sukhmann5623]

I go to places in the day, finding girls at night is much harder.

[@thereeceforbes]

What about of the girl your with used to sleep around for 2 years cause of her mental stability but now she's fine sex body count 80

[@cp90_]

Hey, live your life, but sheeesh

[@m_jay5]

No serious long term relationship / marriage will come from the club

[@ClutchMaster14]

High body count screws up a woman's ability to pair bond. Women are emotionally driven during intimacy so multiple men creates a numb woman. It's a psychological problem.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Men who sleep with hundreds of women are psychopaths

[@turanasan5368]

@@CoachCoreyWayne any scientific research about that ?

[@t-rizzle0509]

@@turanasan5368 - Did you go look?

[@Frank.Melendrez]

@@turanasan5368 That’s just not normal stable behavior. Come on man!!

[@railander]

@@CoachCoreyWayne psychopaths may be a stretch but definitely are sociopaths.

[@fatalradius]

High body counts leads to emotional numbness. There is always a sacrifice...High body counts usually lead to not being able to maintain a relationship on both ends.

[@mohicanmowl]

I know people with high body count in committed relationships

[@saucegodnas7318]

@@mohicanmowl What he’s saying is they don’t last and you’re not as special as you think to the person that has had that many men or women.

[@boomernality1904]

@@saucegodnas7318 Yeah that's how I would feel, you're just another body to them. The main thing is that it shows a lack of self respect and self value. Which is important for both people to have in a relationship.

[@jamesharris6368]

Look ladies ALL MEN care about your body count, so if you go out with a guy on a date just tell him upfront "Look I got 50 bodies under my belt, so you wanna be 51 or call it a night and we both move on" and trust me you'll save yourself the time and headaches of arguing about it later on. Real men have pride, and love to flaunt their girl, but you can't flaunt something everybody already had.

[@Alan-rw3ez]

Being with someone where it’s effortless sound so peaceful.

[@CMR3105]

I wish i could have talked with my family so openly about this crucial topics. Gracie and Chunky are so lucky to have that opportunity, i believe must of us didn t have that guidance. Also, Its interesting to see how coach and Gracie’ s mother are completely direct and say what it’s on their mind unapologetically, while Gracie tries to be more politically correct trying not to say something that may be offensive. Great video as always, keep it up with the great content! 👍🏿

[@jaypietersen6093]

Word of advice for Gracie from a serious 3% student: don't sleep around like your friend or like the girl in Coach's story. High value men will be quick at figuring things like that out and will with no hesitation move on to the next option. All the rationale in the world won't change that. As Coach said, studies show that high body count affects women's ability to pair bond and it doesn't do this for men.Great topic, interesting answers.

[@Tyler-qw8kn]

She slept with a ton of dudes to fill a void. -"It's not her fault" 🤦‍♂️

[@yutu3327]

So her friend started sleeping around just get over her breakup and gain validation? Well that's her own shortcoming, she should have dealt with it with more maturity, just like most of the guys do because it's far more easier for women to sleep around than us guys who have to work a lot before we score. Your actions, your consequences.

[@yutu3327]

@@ConanTheCimmerian if they do, they shouldn't complain later when guys don't want to deal with damaged goods . They want freedom, well freedom comes with responsibility.

[@CMR3105]

I 100% agree with you. I believe Gracie is a great girl, very empathic, but way too political correct by trying not to say something offesive about the bad decissions of her friends, even if its true. Still, she is just learning, so i dont understand why people went berserk on her.

[@ausar3852]

@@yutu3327 Hell yeah... Well said man

[@medicisounds1384]

Exactly! Majority of men go through breakups and we have to do it usually alone. We hit the gym we gain new hobbies, we IMPROVE. Meanwhile women are getting ran through

[@LukezyM]

It’s funny how she said it’s only a number. Haha, women, they always make excuses for themselves, always sticking together. We’ll have to start doing the same, or else we’ll just go extinct.

[@Nimbus849]

Bless her heart for being that ignorant. If a girl has a high body count, she opens pandora's box. They have a lesser chance for pair bonding, and they tend to not be able to stay in a LTR, always moving from guy to guy. When the woman gives too much of herself to random men, she will have nothing left to give to her husband. There are men that also run into this problem, having a high body count.

[@mucleboy0151]

Yea it sucks wen u get lonely rt

[@mucleboy0151]

Alot of yall regurgitate what everyone else preaches on youtube if thats the case why was kim khardashian able to.stay wit kanye in an ltr and also lori harvey is in a ltr with.michael b jordan the list goes on and on its all personal its not the same for everyone you should remember that

[@ausar3852]

Its both side's problem not only woman

[@mariotovar92]

Facts

[@matthewobrien7526]

@@mucleboy0151 kim and kanye got divorced. but anyways, you’ll always be able to find exceptions to the rules

[@CJ0101]

Watch what women do, not what they say.

[@jacksoncage1617]

“The body count for making love and the body count for sex is such a different number” Translation: “Hun, my body count is only 3 because those were making love. Ignore the other 47 because they were only sex.” C’mon, man. 😂

[@physicaldigitalnft]

Lack of responsibility. Accountability. Low integrity.

[@RoyAsastha]

Women with high body count can't pair bond and the relationship is just like a time bomb. It will END sooner rather than later...

[@positiveandhealthy2728]

The best thing ever that is good for me is I practice my hobby every day or when I feel that I have to do so. Doing things that you love every day helps in activating your brain and to feel comfortable.

[@yandanima7747]

In addition to what said, I found out my self that during the periods I was busy sleeping around with different women, my life was not progressive. I lacked focus and felt empty. I found joy when I met the one I connected with. Peace of mind also not longer afraid of STDs compared to when I was sleeping around

[@mwloos1]

8:52 Its not so much about judgment its about biological attraction. Attraction isn’t a choice. If I know she has a high body count my attraction drops immensely. Same as a woman loses attraction for a guy based on behavior, beta personality etc, it just happens. It’s not a choice. So women trying to justify their high body count, because men do it, is a losing battle. Also the guys that she “tried to win” is the number you’re going to get, which doesn’t include the random hookups in between.

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

High body count is a + for mistresses..

[@Wardztv]

Also the way she compares that aspect of why women get a high body count (just want a love story) and men just want sex for the sake of it. WRONG! While it’s true that when we go out that could be a high priority, the reason why we want sex is anything but straightforward (other then being wired for it). We want to feel worthy, accepted, we want the feeling of achievement (because for most men that’s an achievement).. Women just don’t seem to realize that men have it on hard mode in dating.

[@maxtechmax]

Been watching Corey Wayne for a while. His content came in my life when I was at my lowest, and a lot of me being at my highest and continuing to grow is due partly because of him.

[@Kevin-sq7nm]

I second that dude! 👍

[@gregthompson9434]

You can sugar coat this to hell and back , but in the end she belongs to the streets

[@1970broncoman]

Corey needs to explain to these girls how it’s easier for women to just hook up whenever. I think most women think all guys have it as easy as women when it comes to finding a girl to hookup with on any given night. Otherwise I agree with what COREY said. I don’t think these girls are as aware as Corey.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Child please. Jen has worked for me for almost 7 years and she taught Gracie well.

[@1970broncoman]

Fair enough, you know them better than I! I still carry the opinion that women take their dating experience and assume it’s the same for men.

[@joeykunz]

@@CoachCoreyWayne I can’t tell if she’s asking what the difference is between men and women’s body counts. Basic shit. A man who has a high body count with good looking women (7 to 10s) has multiple high value traits.

[@Frank.Melendrez]

@@1970broncoman that’s their ignorant prerogative and no man should be responsible for women’s pre-assumed assumptions.

[@Amctothemoon]

Women date who they want men date who they can A women’s body count is different than a man as it’s easy for women to have sex Only 10% of the men are having sex with 80% of the women

[@brent7261]

As Corey Wayne once said “she belongs to the streets!!”

[@angeloliver7613]

You belong to a psychological institution with that mindset.

[@rodeowerewolf3004]

no one needs to accept a high body count on a significant other...because reasons, doesn't matter. A person is the outcome of their decisions not how they feel about them. A history of bad choices shows a history of no accountability, one of the worst traits a person can have.

[@Trubishka]

Women with high body count are not serious relationship material/wife material for any thinking, high quallity man. I think that's beautiful because later in their life, promiscous women, learn how awful their behavior was, and regret it.

[@Chisscaso]

First time disagreeing with Corey in 3 years.

[@realgems24]

It's not as easy for the AVERAGE man to accumulate body count

[@starman8928]

Hey Corey, I like the longer style of these videos. When it's too short I usually don't watch them because I listen to you while I study

[@paulofurtado4925]

Why would she stick with you if she can move on and keep doing what she been doing, even without counting the struggles that the two might have in the future and the boredom of some moments. High body count its probably result of trauma that only a therapist can help no one else.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Soy

[@paulofurtado4925]

@@CoachCoreyWayne why? And why the insult?

[@Alan-rw3ez]

@@paulofurtado4925 what does soy mean?

[@paulofurtado4925]

@@Alan-rw3ez soyboy, its a weak guy, dont even understand how that has anything to do with my comment.

[@Alan-rw3ez]

@@paulofurtado4925 that’s strange he called you that. Does he insult people often?

[@jayeffink]

Love ya Coach! Even asking a girl how many dudes she's slept with is a super beta/insecure move. If you've read 3% Percent Man enough times, you should intuitively know at some point whether a girl has high "body count" or not.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Fact check: true

[@garygreen7104]

@@CoachCoreyWayne very true...I usually get a sense if a females body count is high via attitude, instability/stability, her stories etc

[@Wonkobonko]

bullshit, talking openly about sex and about history is alpha...

[@russellsaffa3062]

I think it depends on why you’re asking

[@ErkekAdam]

Asking a girl how many dudes she's slept with will let her know that you are not comfortable with high body count and probably make her lie about it anyway. Behaving cool about it and watching her actions is more clever.

[@AJCzarkowski]

That was pretty cool hearing what Gracie's mother had to say because it kind of verified what Corey has talked about for years but from a women's perspective.

[@Joelthedreamer]

There’s a healthier way to fill the void

[@russellsaffa3062]

The fact remains that lust is destroying mankind’s ability to evolve spiritually or consciously however you want to look at it. Anyone going out to a bar is looking for sex a lot of people just lie to themselves why they’re going out. Which is why you’ll hear things like I don’t know how it happened i just went out to have a good time. I never do this kind of thing. Etc

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

Many girls.play with this lust ability to drive men nuts, then leave for her next prey..

[@mysterio1570]

Women can always out sleep a man. There is no real Male brothels for females. If a woman wants sex. It's get Boyfriend. Its easier for them at all times. Even if she is heavy set. All she has to do is be sweet and at least be cute in the face.

[@stevet6676]

Answer to the same woman at 16 minutes. How do you know if a man is looking for a wife or a hookup? Easy. Don't have sex on the first date or really for quite awhile. Get to know the man, let him get to know you. If the man won't go on more than 2 dates without sex, he is probably a player. So, part ways.

[@jamesgutember6234]

People here don’t understand that they’re just having a conversation like a family. There’s not debate here, nobody is trying to win an argument and show off their intellect. They’re just talking and hearing each other’s opinions. Coach Corey even disagree with some thing but the way he does it, it’s an art. This is next level. Most people even family members can’t have a conversation and disagree without being toxic. This is great. I see other peoples channels the host fighting with women and being disrespectful just wanted to show off how is right and they’re wrong.

[@st6887]

Coach, I’m getting married with a high quality woman because of you. Thank you! I’d love to invite you to the wedding.

[@RodRuth]

Men and women might be looking for the same things; however, women have a much easier world accomplishing the goal of going home with somebody. They essentially don't have to do any work; are not under the same stress, and most importantly, they do not risk the chance of rejection. I believe they take full advantage of this. Unfortunately, the more sexual partners a woman has, the less value they have with a high value man. It's counter productive to their goal..... In my view, there is no question that women have a much higher body count than men.......It's a pity, but doesn't it speak volumes...?

[@therawb7501]

When describing this scenario i look at it like if i was a hiring manager looking at Resumes. I would prefer to have a lower body count and having that generally leads to the traits i desire, but that isnt required in the job description. Provided they can prove they are Loyal, Open to communicate with me, and are generally pleasant to be around NOW, thats all that really matters.

[@stevet6676]

Well, maybe there are multiple issues here. First, as a man, I see no need to denigrate a woman who has slept around. That doesn't translate to I would see her as a possible partner. I won't. Generally, it seems that women go through life based on what they feel. Men are more inclined to go with their thoughts. Not 100%, and not everyone, but in general. Here's an example: there is a woman who has a youtube channel that is an escort and has a presence on just for fans. She is older, and states she has a body count of over 2000. She has stated that only about 1-2% of men have ever "blown her away" in bed and openly states most men don't know how to please a woman. OK. Who would choose to form a relationship with her? No healthy man, I think we can agree on that. But, she seems to indicate that she would be open to a relationship and has a fairly long list of traits she would want. Now, as a man, the first things I would be concerned about, even if you can leave her history behind, is I have a 98-99% chance of NOT pleasing her in bed. What then? Second, when a woman has had that many partners, you are bound to "run into" some of them in everyday life. She would say the man is insecure. I would say, you must be kidding me.

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

That is what girls say , insecure, when body count matters..

[@frankg897]

Personality and "who you are as a person" don't come out of the blue. It is a result of what you do and experience.

[@theBusterMan215]

Excellent video! I think Gracie has the most pragmatic and closest view to reality here. At least in my generation (I’m 35) I think both guys and girls seek out one-night stands depending on the emotional state of the person and not necessarily because they don’t value themselves. Many times it could be for validation, or even physical need (younger dudes due to hormones like Corey said), but there are times when single people who want to stay single or are emotionally unavailable will seek out a one night “fun” experience to connect one time only. Eventually, though, Corey is spot on when he says everyone wants a deep connection, partly due to our need for stability as humans. I noticed that Corey mentioned Jordan Peterson, who says high body counts can lead to psychopathy due to mindsets of seeing people that you sleep with as being disposable. I think that’s highly plausible with people who do it perpetually as their normal state of being, but I personally don’t think a high body count is representative of anything except the states of mind you have gone thru in your own path. Some people marry the first person they date (common in some churches) and so their experience or lack thereof is only representative of their path. Same with people with high body counts…. Maybe they’ve gone thru heartbreak. Or maybe they’re just really good looking and get lots of attention. Who knows? It’s just part of the path of their own personal story.

[@Lawrencezo]

Why pay full price on a used vehicle when other people used the crap out of it and test drive the shit of it? If she has her millage racked up I wouldn't see any value on her at all. I wouldn't put all my resources to fix her. I would rather buy a newer one with no mileage and no maintenance needed. Women needs to be accountable on there bad decisions. Girls are valued by their beauty and preservation. Men are viewed as success objects.

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

You may fall in love with the slut, and not with the Virgin. Can’t control the magnet..

[@audioelitist3677]

Yeah, with a high body count, I'm not jumping to any conclusions to say, "She's a w**r3" At that point, it's a well established fact and she no long has any real value to men in terms of a relationship. That ship sailed when she needed more than one hand to count her partners. She'll be used as such for as long as her looks hold out, then she graduates into cat lady.

[@kevinalmiron8693]

As a guy. You dont want a women with a high body count. We care about her past. Says a lot about your future with her

[@timothylloyd3852]

As Dr . Glover says for “oneitiss” , it’s a lot easier to walk through open doors than continue beating on a closed one.

[@cp90_]

“A fun little connection we made.”

[@thebayareagrind8609]

Chief you are made me into someone who enjoys life being myself.

[@luisortega9073]

All of these types of conversations talk about being ultra-compassionate with women and how men have to change their feelings. Still, I have never seen a video of someone talking a woman into liking lazy guys. "He is dirty you must give him a chance! ""He doesn't like to work, it's part of what makes him who he is, you should try!" NEVER. All types of mental gymnastics are performed: "there is a difference with having sex and making love" as in "there is a difference between crossing the street to get a hot dog and crossing the street to catch the bus" you are crossing the street

[@SelfRighteous101]

Yeah Euphoria is not a reflection of real life. 😂😂😂

[@JuiceBox801]

It’s easy to be easy for a girl …

[@DogeLeague]

Lol these women are trying to muddy the waters with their words. Only Corey talked rationally here

[@Wardztv]

What this women is saying is kinda ridiculous. You simply can’t hold men and women to the same standard when women can so easily go and get laid, get a high “body count”. That’s why that’s not on top of their mind when they go out (probably).

[@mysterio1570]

To me. As a man. If we just want sex. We will just pay for it. If we are asking women out to do social events with us. We are exploring a woman as a Romantic prospect. Its that simple. I have both male and female friends. All my female friends want relationships. The men only want to date to find a LTR. Just focusing on men in this post. All men need to Vet for life. No matter what woman is in front for him says. From a man's perspective. No Marriage/No Bio kids or Cohabitation with a woman until she is at least yr three with him. Even then. Its a LTR and if Marriage is in the cards. Its well talked about subject. Also both the man and woman have to be close to 30. Its not about being perfect its about beating the odds and mining success.

[@yandanima7747]

This is quite a interesting Topic. I think it all boils down to individual preference. Its about what goes for you. If you are okay with a man or woman that has a high body count fine. My personal experience with women is that, the ones with higher counts find it more difficult to trust and bond emotionally. I feel a woman that can easily give her self away for sex without zero attachment has no value for herself. Most of the women I dated in the past that cheated on me had higher body counts. They often felt no remorse because for them it is no big deal. I respect both views. Whatever works for you, go for it

[@Peter_Wang]

Women, listen to this: Love is a choice, not a feeling. Think about how many times you've chosen not to love someone anymore ...

[@MR2SpyerJournal]

There's a lot of goal post moving here

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Lot's of listening with the intent to reply here, but not to understand.

[@adamroma2000]

Great video Coach!very interesting material .It always makes me think how much guys (and woman) put up with,with their partners or people they start dating,because of insecurities.A lot of people should start doing some self help and read your book. It will make the world a much better place!thank you always coach!

[@blade3399]

This is amazing insight from both perspectives. The Mom is really pretty.

[@GoldenBoyJOE]

@@ADUAquascaping it's pretty self evident a woman's good skin and hair makes them pretty, whats your point?

[@ValeTijuas]

It doesn’t matter if you are broken as fuck you will just look for sex to ease the pain for women and men.

[@estushka5270]

I'm a 28 year old female virgin who doesn't wait until marriage, just for someone special. Dating is super hard for me. Some guys don't want to continue to go out with me as soon as they find out I'm a virgin, some respect me but when I found out they have a body count higher then what I feel comfortable with (10 womem), I get anxiety and turned off. I just want someone who share the same mindset as I do 🙄

[@stayswervin554]

Ur running out of time tbh id take the guys who are willing to commit put aside your anxiety tbh

[@alphabeta3105]

Rest assured, there are tons of men who are virgins even till 35

[@SimonKnight1023]

@@alphabeta3105 she doesn’t want them lol

[@alphabeta3105]

@@SimonKnight1023 yes, ahaha. Virgin M35 is bio trash

[@Buubje13]

Don't care about body count. But rather: let *your* body count!

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

ha ha

[@realgems24]

I love how the young girl get silent when the convo gets real

[@CapAnson12345]

Women hate inconvenient truths.

[@ikaros6633]

Looking for sex shouldn't be your go to in any situation to fill the void. Honestly it will just look bad, seek family and if they suck then close friends. Not some random jock to have sex with, that's stupid and dangerous. Edit: how is her going out and having sex because she's sad is not her fault? I get everyone handles things differently but how is it not her fault?

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

Why her fault, women enjoy immensely their one night stands. They feel 'bad ' about it only when a guy is interested in her..

[@JuiceBox801]

So each girl is trying to fall in love with each encounter …?

[@piketroy4576]

It's more than just a number. The best way to predict future behavior is by past behavior. If a person has a high body count they also have a low probability of fidelity. The itch will return. Just one more time is never enough.

[@thereeceforbes]

Same for low sex drive if you have less sex

[@jtrad3z]

Hmm talking about sex for a release and sex for love….. Don’t we look for both? And is sex for a release, apart from love, considered a “sin” … aka leading us into living in “hell” (figuratively speaking.. A hell in our own mind.. depression) Curious coach, what is your philosophy to live a happy life? Why aren’t you married with kids? Isn’t that the goal of a relationship?

[@jayd495]

For men to have a high body count takes time and resources. For a woman to have a high body count. They just need to have a lack of morals. Thank god I do not have a daughter. If I did she damn sure wouldn’t go to college. College is just a 304 factory. But hey. Live your life. Just know there is plenty of consequences for sleeping around.

[@mfsanderss]

Is this part of a podcast or something? If so, where can I find it?

[@Mksiangco]

Body count matters. Women bond when climaxing and the feeling of closeness, imagine sharing that experience with other dudes with your wife. I’ve always thought that once you’ve shared that part of yourself with someone the possibility of revisiting will always be there. Just my .02

[@sindelscat9336]

I think that applies to both men and women.

[@mlfitness67]

Only a woman would say, "I wouldn't blame her." For decisions she made.

[@darinhollis1269]

Ur opinion don't matter ....high body count means u belong to the streets

[@RBJ_LTD]

The dating games changed. I go out to the club now looking for a ‘deep and meaningful connection’ with a woman, not just for sex.. if it leads to sex that night and nothing more after, the lady will ‘totally’ understand in the morning since we’re both looking for the same thing 😇 that being said, I try not to go out much… I like to limit my deep n meaningful connections’ as I don’t have the bandwidth to keep up. 😂 Asking a woman how many ‘connections/or whats her body count’ is like asking her to lie to you so don’t ask!. Just enjoy the moment you have and maximize that ‘connection’ … everyone’s getting ‘connected’ be happy connect safely 🤓 Oh, and don’t wear your heart on your sleeve … or you’ll get disconnected quick. ✌🏽

[@davidcastro9164]

You sound like a wuss man. First of all you shouldn’t be looking for a connection at a club lmao

[@grannyary]

Torn on what is being said. Are you saying that girls that came from a broken or abusive home are immediately disqualified for a pair bonding relationship. Thats harsh and unfortunately very cruel since the child has no control over parental behavior. We can only control ourselves not even our own martial partner.

[@boomernality1904]

The world is very unfair

[@CjInge]

I had an abusive ex who abused me because I came from divorced parents. People who think like this believe EXACTLY that.

[@trollol_]

This conversation reminds of the movie line. How do you write women so well? I think of a man... and I take away reason and accountability.

[@FootballRob2010]

I would ask girls about how many partners they had back in my beta days. As if she was going to be honest about it. Just pay attention to the clues and come up with your own conclusions.

[@arturs079]

Good video! Much more explaining than the first podcast about body count and pair bonding. The mother also seemed quite wise woman. But what drew my attention - when Corey told the next morning after bar story with guy shouting "thanks for the pussy!", and Gracie replied "that's why woman feel they are not enough" - nevertheless this story illustrates that woman are attracted to (and have sex with) such kind of bad guys, because these girls by free will went home and had sex with these guys, not with some nice guys, who would be nice and polite. My point here is that guys actually do not have a choice but to be kind of bad guys, otherwise women do not FEEL attracted to them (whatever women themselves would say).

[@GreenLifeOmaha_GLO]

She wants the "love story" at the bar lmao. Women are delusional AF. Protect your seed.

[@philipschroder3934]

It is quite easy, when you want a baby, it is easy for the woman to find out who the mother is, but it is hard for the man to find out who the father is. And that problem doesn't get better when a woman sleeps around. And men in general don't want to devot their lives to raising another dudes offspring.

[@Jimminityjabooboo]

Most guys would love to have the ability to go out and have sex, but most men cannot. Most men prefer relationships but end up in relationships where they aren’t having sex.

[@Kevinbrvo]

So my question is what is a high body count per age? Low, Average and high? Based off age can we solve this for 2021

[@risingeagle6332]

What?!!! The body count does reveal an aspect of your personality and one’s inability to practice self-restraint. If you have a high body count, the. you should be in therapy for two years, once a week. This needs to be done to get to the root of your personal problems. Men and women with high body counts are not marriage material at all. Consider the psychological damage you walk away with each time. Fast people are not one’s to marry.

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

In Europe girls brag publicly about they body counts. They find validation and pride for that matter..

[@arc1756]

Hey Corey, can you expand on this topic into the porn industry and the men who watch porn? This would be a fantastic video to watch! Thank you.

[@michaelbarrett9107]

I actually thought this video was legit as hell until the young blonde was like “sometimes one night stands can be fun.” I’m a 38 year old male. I have had several one night stands over the years and I never felt a good feeling after. Yeah I did it cause I wanted companionship for the night or I wanted a released but the next day always felt pretty empty. Deep down we all wanna be in a love story like Corey said. Finally bough the 3% book Corey! I’m excited to get into your work beyond watching vids here and there.

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

If your background is conservative you might feel bad afterwards, but most girls are having fun having their one night stands, with one, 2 or more guys at the same time. They may show some regrets later on, when they fall for one guy..

[@schahrzadmorgan]

I agree w you. The MGTOW guys point to studies showing body count predicts fidelity and that women's pair bonding is more easily permanent disrupted with sleeping around. This is not my personal experience. I had a high body count and was monogamous for my 25 year marriage.

[@godwillbongani5240]

Ur the rule not the exception let men have their own preferences some of us dont want women with high body counts thats it

[@schahrzadmorgan]

@@godwillbongani5240 You don't have to want it. It's just becoming harder to find virgins. I think marrying your virgin high school sweetheart, finding a religious woman (they get snatched up by early 20s) , or someone who doesn't like sex are about the only options. Some guys go overseas, but then I've heard horror stories of these women changing completely once they become Americanized. Good luck out there!

[@godwillbongani5240]

@@schahrzadmorgan its not hard there r plenty its just guys r mostly focused on hot bodies than the actual person plus it depends were u hang around u cant expect virgins handing at the bar change yr atmosphere

[@a.Murder.Of.Crows.]

"was monogamous for my 25 year marriage" - so you're no longer married? Why not?

[@derfholl5216]

It’s not the physical trauma, but the compounded mental damage.

[@samirgarcia1611]

Very great to get both sides of the coin.

[@alfredbornemann792]

Too long Will watch later if i can get it to come up again on you tube

[@Rodeo-iz7cg]

A woman with high body count shouldn’t really mean much. If you worry about how many dudes she slept with prior to you then it will just get in your head. What should matter is what she is doing in the present, the past is the past. When women ask me if I care about how many dudes they slept with (which is oddly a common question) I say “I don’t really care, we are here now and the past can’t affect that unless you decide to let it”.

[@Rodeo-iz7cg]

@@nathanmorgan3647 yea good point, touché

[@AR7271]

@@Rodeo-iz7cg The past is not the past if she tells you what her count is. It's one thing if you are the one asking, but if she reveals that information unsolicited, then she just brought the past into the present!

[@boomernality1904]

Been on loads of dates and formed connections etc. Today I went on a date with a woman I hooked up with a month ago, her body count is 64, prob 65 now because of me but still. Felt impossible to form a bond with her emotionally, literally impossible. Even when I open up myself to let her in on the date, she is just felt emotionally numb. This is real because today I spent £50 on the date and it was terrible. Though I prefer more friend dates than romantic interview dates which this one became because I hate them haha. (Her that made it this way tbf) But yeah if you're a girl, please don't go through a "hoe phase" or whatever it's called. I feel it's different for guys, I've actually got more emotionally connected the more I've been with. But for women it appears the opposite sadly, ladies please save yourselves because I don't think she will ever find that connection.

[@ricobennett5175]

The reason is a mans hoe phase aint on the same level as a woman’s. A guy hoeing around is like 1-2 new girls a week ik girls who are with 5+ new guys a week sometimes 2-3 in a day

[@boomernality1904]

@@ricobennett5175 I do think it's because women when they have sex it's emotional where as men can do it without any emotional connection. Not saying this is the case every time and every girl/man is different.

[@LukezyM]

@@ricobennett5175 I would say the average for an average man is a lot less, I’d say 1-2 girls a month, or even less.

[@m_jay5]

I'm a virgin male who is about to be 31 and it's finding a virgin woman or nothing for me, a deep fear of mine is a non virgin woman who ends up comparing me to her past partners she's had :/ I couldn't do it

[@mrdojob]

This is needlessly insecure thinking. At 31, it's unrealistic and unfair to expect no prior experience. I honestly find it fun learning about someone's past escapades, learning what they liked and didn't like. Let her past partners make the mistakes for you so you don't have to. Trust me, they always tell you what they disliked. Plenty of deflowered people who make perfectly good partners.

[@kjkgood]

many men as they grow and mature, want the connection and then become vulnerable when they love and they don't want a weak person who will fall apart when times get tough that's the issue and what effect does a high body count have a girl's psychology? Is it true that women often end up with BPD after high counts? Many of us don't want that exercise sex, that's a boy thing- not a man thing

[@Xxxxxrrr6464]

Gods work Corey

[@alphaj9]

Unless a woman is actively seeking to date other women their opinion of body counts and the way MEN view it doesn’t matter. It isn’t just a number!

[@russellsaffa3062]

You shouldn’t be procreating if you don’t have the slightest idea of the inner workings of your mind and why you do things.

[@timothycorless7286]

Wow! The contradictions in Jen's and Gracie's statements . Add the fact that they are using plausible deniability to justify women's actions, reactions plus, true to their nature, put the blame on the men and it's all their fault. Using Jen's own words "in reality" it "IS"the woman's fault that she has the meaningless sex.

[@henriwilson2155]

is it weed or cigarettes Gracie? 😂Super raspy voice