The Consequences Of A High Body Count

Gracie, Jen (Gracie's mom) and Corey discuss the consequences of a high body count of intimate partners. We discuss how having a high body count is not healthy and illustrates a lack of self-love, self-respect and low standards for oneself. What women look for when they go out to party with their girlfriends vs. men.
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[@BurgerBoyda3rd]

The young girl hit the nail on the head on why body count is a problem. "She literally said that was a cool little connection we made. Let's move on with our lives and remember each other" Woman remember and compare. Men don't want you remembering other men

[@user-rc4jz9dy1i]

Yeah, I hear that and was like, what is there to remember? Any one night stands I had literally meant nothing to me. All I can say about it is I was attractive enough to get easy sex.

[@SummerSolsticeSon4203]

How in the hell did the idea of having sex with someone become such a fleeting notion !?!

[@user-pv2dp4dq8b]

But that's not the woman's problem. That doesn't diminish her value. That doesn't make it so she's less capable of having a committed relationship or being faithful. That's just your own insecurity. If that's the real issue here, then it's OK for women to sleep around and men have no right to treat them differently for it.

[@user-pv2dp4dq8b]

Then that's your problem. That's your insecurity. If that's the real issue, then women don't have a diminished ability to be faithful or committed in a relationship due to high body count. You then have no right to treat her less than for having a high body count than you do a man.

[@SummerSolsticeSon4203]

@@user-pv2dp4dq8b Are you on glue ?

[@lil--mo2025]

Looking for a wife/husband in a club is ridiculous on its face.

[@lil--mo2025]

@@kjettern wherever you partake in activities or hobbies.

[@sukhmann5623]

I go to places in the day, finding girls at night is much harder.

[@thereeceforbes]

What about of the girl your with used to sleep around for 2 years cause of her mental stability but now she's fine sex body count 80

[@cp90_]

Hey, live your life, but sheeesh

[@m_jay5]

No serious long term relationship / marriage will come from the club

[@AntonioStark7]

High body count screws up a woman's ability to pair bond. Women are emotionally driven during intimacy so multiple men creates a numb woman. It's a psychological problem.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Men who sleep with hundreds of women are psychopaths

[@turanasan5368]

@@CoachCoreyWayne any scientific research about that ?

[@t-rizzle0509]

@@turanasan5368 - Did you go look?

[@Frank.Melendrez]

@@turanasan5368 That’s just not normal stable behavior. Come on man!!

[@railander]

@@CoachCoreyWayne psychopaths may be a stretch but definitely are sociopaths.

[@Ferg778]

Let’s keep it real. Body count DOES matter for both men and women. A high body count effects a women differently, but it does matter. As men we want purity. Corey says all the time that if a women tells you she has cheated on all her boyfriends to not take her seriously, because she will probably do the same thing to you, but in the same breath he says body count doesn’t matter. He says look he her actions. On a balance of probabilities a women with a low count will stay faithful vs a women that has sleep with 60 dudes before you.

[@estushka5270]

I agree with you. Some women like myself care about the number of women he had. The problem is that it's hard to find a guy around 30 years who didn't sleep around and don't intend to. I'm myself a 28 year old female virgin who doesn't wait for marriage but for a special person. Dating is hard for me.

[@Ferg778]

@@estushka5270 28 and still a virgin? That’s what’s up. I respect that.

[@zoewitt_6525]

you want purity but you also want a girl that's experienced and will let you do whatever you want to her on the first date. modern men

[@Ferg778]

@@zoewitt_6525 yup. Men want virgin H$@s and women want faithful millionaires..

[@zoewitt_6525]

@@Ferg778 yup

[@fatalradius]

High body counts leads to emotional numbness. There is always a sacrifice...High body counts usually lead to not being able to maintain a relationship on both ends.

[@mohicanmowl]

I know people with high body count in committed relationships

[@saucegodnas7318]

@@mohicanmowl What he’s saying is they don’t last and you’re not as special as you think to the person that has had that many men or women.

[@boomernality1904]

@@saucegodnas7318 Yeah that's how I would feel, you're just another body to them. The main thing is that it shows a lack of self respect and self value. Which is important for both people to have in a relationship.

[@SFbayArea94121]

No ability to pair bond. So you’re no different to them as anyone else prior basically

[@jimmyjamesiv]

💯

[@Nimbus849]

Bless her heart for being that ignorant. If a girl has a high body count, she opens pandora's box. They have a lesser chance for pair bonding, and they tend to not be able to stay in a LTR, always moving from guy to guy. When the woman gives too much of herself to random men, she will have nothing left to give to her husband. There are men that also run into this problem, having a high body count.

[@mucleboy0151]

Yea it sucks wen u get lonely rt

[@mucleboy0151]

Alot of yall regurgitate what everyone else preaches on youtube if thats the case why was kim khardashian able to.stay wit kanye in an ltr and also lori harvey is in a ltr with.michael b jordan the list goes on and on its all personal its not the same for everyone you should remember that

[@ausar3852]

Its both side's problem not only woman

[@mariotovar92]

Facts

[@matthewobrien7526]

@@mucleboy0151 kim and kanye got divorced. but anyways, you’ll always be able to find exceptions to the rules

[@Alan-rw3ez]

Being with someone where it’s effortless sound so peaceful.

[@yutu3327]

So her friend started sleeping around just get over her breakup and gain validation? Well that's her own shortcoming, she should have dealt with it with more maturity, just like most of the guys do because it's far more easier for women to sleep around than us guys who have to work a lot before we score. Your actions, your consequences.

[@yutu3327]

@@ConanTheCimmerian if they do, they shouldn't complain later when guys don't want to deal with damaged goods . They want freedom, well freedom comes with responsibility.

[@CMR3105]

I 100% agree with you. I believe Gracie is a great girl, very empathic, but way too political correct by trying not to say something offesive about the bad decissions of her friends, even if its true. Still, she is just learning, so i dont understand why people went berserk on her.

[@ausar3852]

@@yutu3327 Hell yeah... Well said man

[@medicisounds1384]

Exactly! Majority of men go through breakups and we have to do it usually alone. We hit the gym we gain new hobbies, we IMPROVE. Meanwhile women are getting ran through

[@LukezyM]

It’s funny how she said it’s only a number. Haha, women, they always make excuses for themselves, always sticking together. We’ll have to start doing the same, or else we’ll just go extinct.

[@CMR3105]

I wish i could have talked with my family so openly about this crucial topics. Gracie and Chunky are so lucky to have that opportunity, i believe must of us didn t have that guidance. Also, Its interesting to see how coach and Gracie’ s mother are completely direct and say what it’s on their mind unapologetically, while Gracie tries to be more politically correct trying not to say something that may be offensive. Great video as always, keep it up with the great content! 👍🏿

[@jamesharris6368]

Look ladies ALL MEN care about your body count, so if you go out with a guy on a date just tell him upfront "Look I got 50 bodies under my belt, so you wanna be 51 or call it a night and we both move on" and trust me you'll save yourself the time and headaches of arguing about it later on. Real men have pride, and love to flaunt their girl, but you can't flaunt something everybody already had.

[@jacksoncage1617]

“The body count for making love and the body count for sex is such a different number” Translation: “Hun, my body count is only 3 because those were making love. Ignore the other 47 because they were only sex.” C’mon, man. 😂

[@nordiccombatant2167]

OKAAAAY🙄🤔🤔🤔

[@yandanima7747]

In addition to what said, I found out my self that during the periods I was busy sleeping around with different women, my life was not progressive. I lacked focus and felt empty. I found joy when I met the one I connected with. Peace of mind also not longer afraid of STDs compared to when I was sleeping around

[@jaypietersen6093]

Word of advice for Gracie from a serious 3% student: don't sleep around like your friend or like the girl in Coach's story. High value men will be quick at figuring things like that out and will with no hesitation move on to the next option. All the rationale in the world won't change that. As Coach said, studies show that high body count affects women's ability to pair bond and it doesn't do this for men.Great topic, interesting answers.

[@lambchop6278]

I think that's bull shit. The amount of men that cheat: PROVES it. You are just finding a study that SUITS your bias and double standard. I don't trust men who focus or emphasise a big difference between men and women. It's like saying: I want a faithful woman who will give me security that I can take for granted and cheat on. ...Take a hike!!

[@lambchop6278]

You find a study to suit your bias. I don't trust men who emphasise a big difference between men and women. Just tells me that they only want monogamy to be given to them, but are totally ok with being promiscuous themselves!! I've visited a Reddit forum with a high percentage of former players who complained of not being able to commit despite really wanting to. One, not even after therapy. A few others complained of women they really liked rejecting them because of their pasts sleeping with heaps of women. So don't give me that nonsense that it's all on women to control themselves whilst men get a free pass!!!!

[@physicaldigitalnews]

Lack of responsibility. Accountability. Low integrity.

[@CJ0101]

Watch what women do, not what they say.

[@positiveandhealthy2728]

The best thing ever that is good for me is I practice my hobby every day or when I feel that I have to do so. Doing things that you love every day helps in activating your brain and to feel comfortable.

[@brent7261]

As Corey Wayne once said “she belongs to the streets!!”

[@angeloliver7613]

You belong to a psychological institution with that mindset.

[@mwloos1]

8:52 Its not so much about judgment its about biological attraction. Attraction isn’t a choice. If I know she has a high body count my attraction drops immensely. Same as a woman loses attraction for a guy based on behavior, beta personality etc, it just happens. It’s not a choice. So women trying to justify their high body count, because men do it, is a losing battle. Also the guys that she “tried to win” is the number you’re going to get, which doesn’t include the random hookups in between.

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

High body count is a + for mistresses..

[@maxtechmax]

Been watching Corey Wayne for a while. His content came in my life when I was at my lowest, and a lot of me being at my highest and continuing to grow is due partly because of him.

[@Kevin-sq7nm]

I second that dude! 👍

[@Tyler-qw8kn]

She slept with a ton of dudes to fill a void. -"It's not her fault" 🤦‍♂️

[@Wardztv]

Also the way she compares that aspect of why women get a high body count (just want a love story) and men just want sex for the sake of it. WRONG! While it’s true that when we go out that could be a high priority, the reason why we want sex is anything but straightforward (other then being wired for it). We want to feel worthy, accepted, we want the feeling of achievement (because for most men that’s an achievement).. Women just don’t seem to realize that men have it on hard mode in dating.

[@1970broncoman]

Corey needs to explain to these girls how it’s easier for women to just hook up whenever. I think most women think all guys have it as easy as women when it comes to finding a girl to hookup with on any given night. Otherwise I agree with what COREY said. I don’t think these girls are as aware as Corey.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Child please. Jen has worked for me for almost 7 years and she taught Gracie well.

[@1970broncoman]

Fair enough, you know them better than I! I still carry the opinion that women take their dating experience and assume it’s the same for men.

[@joeykunz]

@@CoachCoreyWayne I can’t tell if she’s asking what the difference is between men and women’s body counts. Basic shit. A man who has a high body count with good looking women (7 to 10s) has multiple high value traits.

[@Frank.Melendrez]

@@1970broncoman that’s their ignorant prerogative and no man should be responsible for women’s pre-assumed assumptions.

[@Amctothemoon]

Women date who they want men date who they can A women’s body count is different than a man as it’s easy for women to have sex Only 10% of the men are having sex with 80% of the women

[@AJCzarkowski]

That was pretty cool hearing what Gracie's mother had to say because it kind of verified what Corey has talked about for years but from a women's perspective.

[@jayeffink]

Love ya Coach! Even asking a girl how many dudes she's slept with is a super beta/insecure move. If you've read 3% Percent Man enough times, you should intuitively know at some point whether a girl has high "body count" or not.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Fact check: true

[@garygreen7104]

@@CoachCoreyWayne very true...I usually get a sense if a females body count is high via attitude, instability/stability, her stories etc

[@Wonkobonko]

bullshit, talking openly about sex and about history is alpha...

[@russellsaffa3062]

I think it depends on why you’re asking

[@ErkekAdam]

Asking a girl how many dudes she's slept with will let her know that you are not comfortable with high body count and probably make her lie about it anyway. Behaving cool about it and watching her actions is more clever.

[@jamesgutember6234]

People here don’t understand that they’re just having a conversation like a family. There’s not debate here, nobody is trying to win an argument and show off their intellect. They’re just talking and hearing each other’s opinions. Coach Corey even disagree with some thing but the way he does it, it’s an art. This is next level. Most people even family members can’t have a conversation and disagree without being toxic. This is great. I see other peoples channels the host fighting with women and being disrespectful just wanted to show off how is right and they’re wrong.

[@RoyAsastha]

Women with high body count can't pair bond and the relationship is just like a time bomb. It will END sooner rather than later...

[@rodeowerewolf3004]

no one needs to accept a high body count on a significant other...because reasons, doesn't matter. A person is the outcome of their decisions not how they feel about them. A history of bad choices shows a history of no accountability, one of the worst traits a person can have.

[@user-pv2dp4dq8b]

I agree with her original statement. It's more based on what the woman wants at that point in her life, not what she's done in the past. Men are too hung up on this as a result of their own possessiveness, insecurity, women-hating, etc. Just because a woman has a high body count, why does that mean she's a cheater? I was married for 10 years. I have never cheated on anyone. I've been tested plenty. I've had situations where I thought I was going to snap. So, I know very damn well what kept me from cheating. And it was simply that cheating is morally wrong. It's the same reason you don't rape a woman when you're sexually attracted to her but she's not into you. It's wrong! You're doing something awful to someone else! Just like sex and rape are different, cheating and casual sex are different. Casual sex is not morally wrong. If a woman has lots of casual sex, has fun, then she changes what she wants in life and is ready to settle down, have a family.... you're telling me she's morally incapable of not cheating for some reason? You're telling me she's not capable of really committing to giving the relationship it's best shot? Show me the science that shows her biology is broken and she's high risk. So far, all I've seen is a bunch of super questionable correlative surveys that prove dick, and a bunch of irrationally biased men.

[@starman8928]

Hey Corey, I like the longer style of these videos. When it's too short I usually don't watch them because I listen to you while I study

[@wenisinvietnam]

Corey since I found your work in January this year, I’ve gotten laid more than I had in the last 3 years and a similar change in gaining new friends. I’ve read the book 3 times (rookie numbers!) and I practice the shit out of your work. There was one girl in March that stuck around and was crazy about me, but I had to let her go because I started uncovering a lot of undesirable traits. The rest of the women haven’t stuck around for more than a week. Same goes for the friends I’ve made. Some have stuck and others have faded or I had to just let them be. I need to thank you for providing the philosophy that has turned the interpersonal side of my life around. I believe I can continue making meaningful connections and the ones that stick around will be the right ones. I am worthy. Life is much more easygoing and peaceful now. The future is bright, coach!

[@Trubishka]

Women with high body count are not serious relationship material/wife material for any thinking, high quallity man. I think that's beautiful because later in their life, promiscous women, learn how awful their behavior was, and regret it.

[@Trubishka]

@@Ash71452 Everyone can make a mistake. That doesn't mean she is bad, maybe the guy was bad.

[@gregthompson9434]

You can sugar coat this to hell and back , but in the end she belongs to the streets

[@Chisscaso]

First time disagreeing with Corey in 3 years.

[@paulofurtado81]

Why would she stick with you if she can move on and keep doing what she been doing, even without counting the struggles that the two might have in the future and the boredom of some moments. High body count its probably result of trauma that only a therapist can help no one else.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Soy

[@paulofurtado81]

@@CoachCoreyWayne why? And why the insult?

[@Alan-rw3ez]

@@paulofurtado81 what does soy mean?

[@paulofurtado81]

@@Alan-rw3ez soyboy, its a weak guy, dont even understand how that has anything to do with my comment.

[@Alan-rw3ez]

@@paulofurtado81 that’s strange he called you that. Does he insult people often?

[@mysterio1570]

Women can always out sleep a man. There is no real Male brothels for females. If a woman wants sex. It's get Boyfriend. Its easier for them at all times. Even if she is heavy set. All she has to do is be sweet and at least be cute in the face.

[@russellsaffa3062]

The fact remains that lust is destroying mankind’s ability to evolve spiritually or consciously however you want to look at it. Anyone going out to a bar is looking for sex a lot of people just lie to themselves why they’re going out. Which is why you’ll hear things like I don’t know how it happened i just went out to have a good time. I never do this kind of thing. Etc

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

Many girls.play with this lust ability to drive men nuts, then leave for her next prey..

[@realgems24]

It's not as easy for the AVERAGE man to accumulate body count

[@frankg897]

Personality and "who you are as a person" don't come out of the blue. It is a result of what you do and experience.

[@stevet6676]

Answer to the same woman at 16 minutes. How do you know if a man is looking for a wife or a hookup? Easy. Don't have sex on the first date or really for quite awhile. Get to know the man, let him get to know you. If the man won't go on more than 2 dates without sex, he is probably a player. So, part ways.

[@stevet6676]

Well, maybe there are multiple issues here. First, as a man, I see no need to denigrate a woman who has slept around. That doesn't translate to I would see her as a possible partner. I won't. Generally, it seems that women go through life based on what they feel. Men are more inclined to go with their thoughts. Not 100%, and not everyone, but in general. Here's an example: there is a woman who has a youtube channel that is an escort and has a presence on just for fans. She is older, and states she has a body count of over 2000. She has stated that only about 1-2% of men have ever "blown her away" in bed and openly states most men don't know how to please a woman. OK. Who would choose to form a relationship with her? No healthy man, I think we can agree on that. But, she seems to indicate that she would be open to a relationship and has a fairly long list of traits she would want. Now, as a man, the first things I would be concerned about, even if you can leave her history behind, is I have a 98-99% chance of NOT pleasing her in bed. What then? Second, when a woman has had that many partners, you are bound to "run into" some of them in everyday life. She would say the man is insecure. I would say, you must be kidding me.

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

That is what girls say , insecure, when body count matters..

[@Joelthedreamer]

There’s a healthier way to fill the void

[@RodRuth]

Men and women might be looking for the same things; however, women have a much easier world accomplishing the goal of going home with somebody. They essentially don't have to do any work; are not under the same stress, and most importantly, they do not risk the chance of rejection. I believe they take full advantage of this. Unfortunately, the more sexual partners a woman has, the less value they have with a high value man. It's counter productive to their goal..... In my view, there is no question that women have a much higher body count than men.......It's a pity, but doesn't it speak volumes...?

[@kevinalmiron8693]

As a guy. You dont want a women with a high body count. We care about her past. Says a lot about your future with her

[@audioelitist3677]

Yeah, with a high body count, I'm not jumping to any conclusions to say, "She's a w**r3" At that point, it's a well established fact and she no long has any real value to men in terms of a relationship. That ship sailed when she needed more than one hand to count her partners. She'll be used as such for as long as her looks hold out, then she graduates into cat lady.

[@estushka5270]

I'm a 28 year old female virgin who doesn't wait until marriage, just for someone special. Dating is super hard for me. Some guys don't want to continue to go out with me as soon as they find out I'm a virgin, some respect me but when I found out they have a body count higher then what I feel comfortable with (10 womem), I get anxiety and turned off. I just want someone who share the same mindset as I do 🙄

[@stayswervin554]

Ur running out of time tbh id take the guys who are willing to commit put aside your anxiety tbh

[@alphabeta3105]

Rest assured, there are tons of men who are virgins even till 35

[@SimonKnight1023]

@@alphabeta3105 she doesn’t want them lol

[@alphabeta3105]

@@SimonKnight1023 yes, ahaha. Virgin M35 is bio trash

[@Lawrencezo]

Why pay full price on a used vehicle when other people used the crap out of it and test drive the shit of it? If she has her millage racked up I wouldn't see any value on her at all. I wouldn't put all my resources to fix her. I would rather buy a newer one with no mileage and no maintenance needed. Women needs to be accountable on there bad decisions. Girls are valued by their beauty and preservation. Men are viewed as success objects.

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

You may fall in love with the slut, and not with the Virgin. Can’t control the magnet..

[@cp90_]

“A fun little connection we made.”

[@timothylloyd3852]

As Dr . Glover says for “oneitiss” , it’s a lot easier to walk through open doors than continue beating on a closed one.

[@ikaros6633]

Looking for sex shouldn't be your go to in any situation to fill the void. Honestly it will just look bad, seek family and if they suck then close friends. Not some random jock to have sex with, that's stupid and dangerous. Edit: how is her going out and having sex because she's sad is not her fault? I get everyone handles things differently but how is it not her fault?

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

Why her fault, women enjoy immensely their one night stands. They feel 'bad ' about it only when a guy is interested in her..

[@Peter_Wang]

Women, listen to this: Love is a choice, not a feeling. Think about how many times you've chosen not to love someone anymore ...

[@MR2SpyerJournal]

There's a lot of goal post moving here

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Lot's of listening with the intent to reply here, but not to understand.

[@CapAnson12345]

Women hate inconvenient truths.

[@serphv6531]

“Trying to fill a void” huh? Id say she filled it alright

[@mlfitness67]

Only a woman would say, "I wouldn't blame her." For decisions she made.

[@Wardztv]

What this women is saying is kinda ridiculous. You simply can’t hold men and women to the same standard when women can so easily go and get laid, get a high “body count”. That’s why that’s not on top of their mind when they go out (probably).

[@ValeTijuas]

It doesn’t matter if you are broken as fuck you will just look for sex to ease the pain for women and men.

[@JuiceBox801]

It’s easy to be easy for a girl …

[@Buubje13]

Don't care about body count. But rather: let *your* body count!

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

ha ha

[@mysterio1570]

To me. As a man. If we just want sex. We will just pay for it. If we are asking women out to do social events with us. We are exploring a woman as a Romantic prospect. Its that simple. I have both male and female friends. All my female friends want relationships. The men only want to date to find a LTR. Just focusing on men in this post. All men need to Vet for life. No matter what woman is in front for him says. From a man's perspective. No Marriage/No Bio kids or Cohabitation with a woman until she is at least yr three with him. Even then. Its a LTR and if Marriage is in the cards. Its well talked about subject. Also both the man and woman have to be close to 30. Its not about being perfect its about beating the odds and mining success.

[@jackdjacki1872]

if you don't want to talk about the body count, it is obvious, you have different standards and it is BAD to date each other, it will not end well.

[@realgems24]

I love how the young girl get silent when the convo gets real

[@JuiceBox801]

So each girl is trying to fall in love with each encounter …?

[@jayd495]

For men to have a high body count takes time and resources. For a woman to have a high body count. They just need to have a lack of morals. Thank god I do not have a daughter. If I did she damn sure wouldn’t go to college. College is just a 304 factory. But hey. Live your life. Just know there is plenty of consequences for sleeping around.

[@DogeLeague]

Lol these women are trying to muddy the waters with their words. Only Corey talked rationally here

[@piketroy4576]

It's more than just a number. The best way to predict future behavior is by past behavior. If a person has a high body count they also have a low probability of fidelity. The itch will return. Just one more time is never enough.

[@thereeceforbes]

Same for low sex drive if you have less sex

[@risingeagle6332]

What?!!! The body count does reveal an aspect of your personality and one’s inability to practice self-restraint. If you have a high body count, the. you should be in therapy for two years, once a week. This needs to be done to get to the root of your personal problems. Men and women with high body counts are not marriage material at all. Consider the psychological damage you walk away with each time. Fast people are not one’s to marry.

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

In Europe girls brag publicly about they body counts. They find validation and pride for that matter..

[@briansigma1342]

I don't think women in the club is looking for the right man to bond with and have a real relationship. They do go for the guy that has women falling all over them.

[@st6887]

Coach, I’m getting married with a high quality woman because of you. Thank you! I’d love to invite you to the wedding.

[@darinhollis1269]

Ur opinion don't matter ....high body count means u belong to the streets

[@angelkalathas]

High body count isn't healthy whether you 're a man or a woman. Everything in moderation.

[@davepazz580]

The difference is men usually can't get a high body count at will...

[@michaelbarrett9107]

I actually thought this video was legit as hell until the young blonde was like “sometimes one night stands can be fun.” I’m a 38 year old male. I have had several one night stands over the years and I never felt a good feeling after. Yeah I did it cause I wanted companionship for the night or I wanted a released but the next day always felt pretty empty. Deep down we all wanna be in a love story like Corey said. Finally bough the 3% book Corey! I’m excited to get into your work beyond watching vids here and there.

[@Jean-de-La-Chap]

If your background is conservative you might feel bad afterwards, but most girls are having fun having their one night stands, with one, 2 or more guys at the same time. They may show some regrets later on, when they fall for one guy..

[@Jimminityjabooboo]

Most guys would love to have the ability to go out and have sex, but most men cannot. Most men prefer relationships but end up in relationships where they aren’t having sex.

[@luisortega9073]

All of these types of conversations talk about being ultra-compassionate with women and how men have to change their feelings. Still, I have never seen a video of someone talking a woman into liking lazy guys. "He is dirty you must give him a chance! ""He doesn't like to work, it's part of what makes him who he is, you should try!" NEVER. All types of mental gymnastics are performed: "there is a difference with having sex and making love" as in "there is a difference between crossing the street to get a hot dog and crossing the street to catch the bus" you are crossing the street

[@seaneendelong8065]

These changes in just the last decade or so is CRAZY to me- Even in 2010 or so 50 was viewed as very high even if you had a couple adult decades as single. Now.... The numbers are drastically higher, and nobody seems to have paid any attention show they got there 😶 And no, it screwed up every female I know who had higher than say 25- drank far more than baseline, unhappy with their life options, bitter about men and relationships, depression was rampant. And men racking up over 50 by say 30 had lost the ability to trust anyone at all to be honest and they assumed non fidelity was the norm, so they weren't either. Now multiply that by a whole additional 10 to 15 years worth of new teens to adults layered onto the ones already down that path. We have 2 to 3 generations that are screwed.

[@Frankya92]

Holy shit coach, I just realized how contentious this topic really is after all these years. Thanks for this conversation. This is definitely the next topic I’m going to be looking into next regarding women and dating since I have very little experience. I’m also currently on my 7th read on your 3% man book

[@yandanima7747]

This is quite a interesting Topic. I think it all boils down to individual preference. Its about what goes for you. If you are okay with a man or woman that has a high body count fine. My personal experience with women is that, the ones with higher counts find it more difficult to trust and bond emotionally. I feel a woman that can easily give her self away for sex without zero attachment has no value for herself. Most of the women I dated in the past that cheated on me had higher body counts. They often felt no remorse because for them it is no big deal. I respect both views. Whatever works for you, go for it

[@trollol_]

This conversation reminds of the movie line. How do you write women so well? I think of a man... and I take away reason and accountability.

[@SuryaEliteGroup]

It's not just a personal opinion-it's a full-on self-justification, wrapped up in a defense mechanism. Funny how every woman’s all about being a 'boss lady' or a 'b!+¢π' when it's convenient, but the moment reality checks in, suddenly it's 'offensive' and 'disrespectful.' Guess the truth doesn’t sit so well when it's served straight up.

[@alphaj9]

Unless a woman is actively seeking to date other women their opinion of body counts and the way MEN view it doesn’t matter. It isn’t just a number!

[@thebayareagrind8609]

Chief you are made me into someone who enjoys life being myself.

[@SelfRighteous101]

Yeah Euphoria is not a reflection of real life. 😂😂😂

[@philipschroder3934]

It is quite easy, when you want a baby, it is easy for the woman to find out who the mother is, but it is hard for the man to find out who the father is. And that problem doesn't get better when a woman sleeps around. And men in general don't want to devot their lives to raising another dudes offspring.

[@schahrzadmorgan]

I agree w you. The MGTOW guys point to studies showing body count predicts fidelity and that women's pair bonding is more easily permanent disrupted with sleeping around. This is not my personal experience. I had a high body count and was monogamous for my 25 year marriage.

[@godwillbongani5240]

Ur the rule not the exception let men have their own preferences some of us dont want women with high body counts thats it

[@schahrzadmorgan]

@@godwillbongani5240 You don't have to want it. It's just becoming harder to find virgins. I think marrying your virgin high school sweetheart, finding a religious woman (they get snatched up by early 20s) , or someone who doesn't like sex are about the only options. Some guys go overseas, but then I've heard horror stories of these women changing completely once they become Americanized. Good luck out there!

[@godwillbongani5240]

@@schahrzadmorgan its not hard there r plenty its just guys r mostly focused on hot bodies than the actual person plus it depends were u hang around u cant expect virgins handing at the bar change yr atmosphere

[@a.Murder.Of.Crows.]

"was monogamous for my 25 year marriage" - so you're no longer married? Why not?

[@FootballRob2010]

I would ask girls about how many partners they had back in my beta days. As if she was going to be honest about it. Just pay attention to the clues and come up with your own conclusions.

[@derfholl52]

It’s not the physical trauma, but the compounded mental damage.

[@mfsanderss]

Is this part of a podcast or something? If so, where can I find it?

[@russellsaffa3062]

You shouldn’t be procreating if you don’t have the slightest idea of the inner workings of your mind and why you do things.

[@Kevinbrvo]

So my question is what is a high body count per age? Low, Average and high? Based off age can we solve this for 2021

[@MyKhalilovic]

Imagine a podcast where a man say, height /salary it's just a number, women should not give it to much importance because people can change.... They don't get it, the repulse and disgust we feel it's biological, deep deep biological reaction

[@DFENSFL]

That a "hoe phase" is a thing now tells you what a sad time we live in now.

[@DFENSFL]

No - not all men have, or want, a high body count. There are still decent men with moral values who want women who are not hoes. It makes a difference.

[@MB-ep8zc]

Why would you have a 19 year old on to talk about this subject? Her answers were exactly what you would expect from a young girl. Not rooted at all in reality.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Because I value her opinion, input and she’s very wise for her age.

[@MB-ep8zc]

@@CoachCoreyWayne fair enough. I thought yourself the other woman had answers more rooted to the reality. Guess it's good to have different perspective

[@boomernality1904]

@@MB-ep8zc they gotta have someone to prove wrong otherwise it's not as entertaining.

[@Mksiangco]

Body count matters. Women bond when climaxing and the feeling of closeness, imagine sharing that experience with other dudes with your wife. I’ve always thought that once you’ve shared that part of yourself with someone the possibility of revisiting will always be there. Just my .02

[@sindelscat9336]

I think that applies to both men and women.

[@grannyary]

Torn on what is being said. Are you saying that girls that came from a broken or abusive home are immediately disqualified for a pair bonding relationship. Thats harsh and unfortunately very cruel since the child has no control over parental behavior. We can only control ourselves not even our own martial partner.

[@boomernality1904]

The world is very unfair

[@CjInge]

I had an abusive ex who abused me because I came from divorced parents. People who think like this believe EXACTLY that.

[@nethervvoid]

Funny thing is all these guys come from messed up backgrounds too. So... if a woman who is awesome and from a great background gets with a guy who is crap from a crap background... why would they do that?

[@adamroma2000]

Great video Coach!very interesting material .It always makes me think how much guys (and woman) put up with,with their partners or people they start dating,because of insecurities.A lot of people should start doing some self help and read your book. It will make the world a much better place!thank you always coach!

[@RBJ_LTD]

The dating games changed. I go out to the club now looking for a ‘deep and meaningful connection’ with a woman, not just for sex.. if it leads to sex that night and nothing more after, the lady will ‘totally’ understand in the morning since we’re both looking for the same thing 😇 that being said, I try not to go out much… I like to limit my deep n meaningful connections’ as I don’t have the bandwidth to keep up. 😂 Asking a woman how many ‘connections/or whats her body count’ is like asking her to lie to you so don’t ask!. Just enjoy the moment you have and maximize that ‘connection’ … everyone’s getting ‘connected’ be happy connect safely 🤓 Oh, and don’t wear your heart on your sleeve … or you’ll get disconnected quick. ✌🏽

[@davidcastro9164]

You sound like a wuss man. First of all you shouldn’t be looking for a connection at a club lmao

[@Thetruthhurtstrump2024]

If a woman opens her legs on the first night she is worthless and does not value her self and does not value you. The saying goes it’s like throwing a “hotdog down a hallway”

[@thereeceforbes]

What about if she's horny u need to satifoe that

[@GreenLifeOmaha_GLO]

She wants the "love story" at the bar lmao. Women are delusional AF. Protect your seed.