The cycle of generational trauma

[@celinadaniels94]

I’m from India and I’m breaking the “rough talk” “harsh love” and “you should only study hard” for my kids.. so I’m being rejected by the uncles and aunts of my family but my husband is supportive so we moving forward 😋❤️

[@Belle-and-Vespertine]

Proud of you ❤️❤️❤️

[@izzy-ky9yz]

south asian sister here! i’m so so proud of you for being strong & taking a stand. and i’m proud of your husband for rejecting patriarchal standards & beliefs & supporting you. i wish you both endless success, happiness, contentment & love in every way♥️✨

[@EvaHolly.L]

yasssss my queeeeeeennnnn 🤩

[@KatSuki_Wuki]

❤️

[@Alex23_bubbles]

I am from India to!

[@z0mb1cxt49]

I’m gonna break the “overweight, depressed, poor, bad parenting” chain :)

[@strangerthingsfan6049]

So ur going to be skinny, happy, rich, goddess parent good for you

[@pi_da_ras17]

@@strangerthingsfan6049 I think this person meant they're gonna not have any children.

[@strangerthingsfan6049]

@@pi_da_ras17 oh possibly

[@Maria-up2yv]

You sound like a spoiled brat

[@greens253]

Same here

[@GABZPLAYRZ]

I’m Nigerian and I’m breaking the “I DONT CARE IF U CRY I WILL BEAT U -O”AND IM BREAKING THe.*laughing when ur child cries and mocking them” IT SO HARSH TO LIVE IN MY HOUSE

[@nickeni3050]

I'm gonna end the "depression is just a phase", "verbal and physical abuse is the way to teach a child", "struggling in a 9-5 job is the goal" and "a woman's life is can only have fulfillment by marriage" in my family... I'm gonna do everything thing I can to shock them by doing way better than they could ever

[@Ms.Emerald]

I'm gonna end the "getting pregnant and marrying at a young age" generation😆

[@uryuniverse]

Me too! My mother had me at 17, and when I was that age I was so scared because I thought i'll end up like her. But i'm 20 now and still single so I think i'm safe.. for now.

[@karubaki_nag_6239]

@@uryuniverse , yeah, same. I'm at the age when my mum had me. While she handled an infant, her studies , in-laws and household chores, my greatest concern at this age is the transition from online back to offline classes. We both still laugh about it. 😁

[@Belle-and-Vespertine]

@@karubaki_nag_6239 okay but that transition is traumatic 😭

[@Daeneiracorn]

I plan on having a kid at 30. Its reasonable and i'm not "wasting" my 20s

[@SantasFavoriteReindeer]

I'm 18 and my dad's mom asked me when I'm gonna have kids 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@luanunes14]

My mom broke her "bad and toxic parenting" chain in our family and I'm proud of her

[@rainbowpuppet77]

how did she break it if she had you???

[@luanunes14]

@@rainbowpuppet77 By not being a toxic parent. She raised me without being harsh and ignoring me in favour of other things, she also taught me that I should do what makes me happy, not what my relatives expect from me

[@N0b0dy1mp0rtant]

Same!! My dad broke his to

[@danielamorales8570]

​@@rainbowpuppet77 breaking a cycle is being different and changing not not having kids

[@rainbowpuppet77]

@@danielamorales8570 yeah but that solution is very rare so most of the time to break the cycle people just dont have children

[@indigo9453]

i'm breaking the "going into the military is a must" and the "therapy makes you weak" and don't forget the "you'll want children when you're older" chain. if i ever do want kids, i'll have them and you will NEVER catch me dead telling them "you'll want kids eventually" if they have specifically told me "i don't want kids"

[@stellaaj5474]

I believe at some point in your life you need someone around and a close person

[@punyashloka4946]

@@stellaaj5474 actually traumatized people specially the one who suffers from trans generational trauma likes to live alone and in isolation harsh but true.

[@Kitkathere]

Gosh I hate the "You'll have kids eventually" thing. Like, I've proven I would never be a good mother, and I don't handle pain or discomfort well at all, so getting pregnant is out the window, so stop bugging me about it XD

[@ritub4425]

I wish my mom was anywhere near as open minded and supporting as you.

[@stellaaj5474]

@@punyashloka4946 hmmmmm i love to live alone but not now

[@delilahclark1267]

I felt so bad for the grandma getting hit by the book, no one deserves that. I know it’s fake but it happens in real life too 😩

[@asifmetal666]

Grandma getting hit by the book! We r beat by the freaking belts in our ass!! WTF is wrong with u people. Parents didn’t schooled u n didn beat u generation produced more fucked up soy boy ever

[@thatthatilikethatbabe4398]

Yes poor woman

[@Yurovishna]

Oh dear.

[@elizebeths.8880]

True, no one deserves to have religious Bible propaganda beaten into them!

[@saturn6563]

@@elizebeths.8880 If the video and comment were more the popular, the Christians would’ve come storming at you 💀

[@insanicasuccuba820]

I'm so glad there are others who can see the problems I do, my mom constantly preached about breaking the cycle yet being a part of it. I plan to really break the cycle like she says, I was raised spiteful. To the cyclebreakers, I wish you luck ❤️

[@christeltaljaard1329]

Thank you. Good luck to you fellow cyclebreakers

[@violett9758]

i'm gonna end the "eating nothing for the perfect body" generation. If i ever have a child i will not control what they eat or how they eat. as long as they stay healthy❤️

[@Belle-and-Vespertine]

❤️❤️❤️

[@lama_veryepic]

Yas!

[@stoopyrosekrewfan]

YESSS SLAY 😁

[@ajlack]

To my fellow cycle breakers , have a good day

[@Houskeepeen]

Why tho what’s the objective

[@honey_167]

Thank you ❣️

[@Mystery_minder]

I am breaking the "I'm out of country to earn money for you", "learn chores", "get married+have kids" and "strict parents" chain by not having kids at all. Living a life with a roommate, earning your own money and having a stress free life with no negativity.

[@ajlack]

@@Houskeepeen to not abuse ur kids? LMFAO

[@wolfspirit3158]

I’m gonna end the “I beat the discipline into my child and emotionally abuse and manipulate them” cycle

[@tokyoMHAkc6js]

me too

[@sudekarakurt1161]

I'm the cycle breaker of "running away with boyfriend, marrying and getting pregnant at young age, don't study" generation in our family

[@corylee88]

That was my mother and I broke the cycle of being the first gay one in our lineage 🤣

[@alexandermuller950]

​@@corylee88me too lol

[@DreamsComeTrueEnglish]

I'm also breaking the cycle of narcissism from my mother, it ends here. I'm happy you made a video about this, thank you and I hope you are healing from a parent like that.

[@Belle-and-Vespertine]

Thank you ❤️ I’m glad the video found you. You’re the exact audience I made this for ❤️❤️❤️

[@mynameisreallycool1]

Everyone in every generation likes to say they're "breaking the cycle" but 99% of the time, they end up either acting just like their parents, going the opposite extreme and traumatizing their kids another way, or being only slightly less toxic but still mostly the same. If more people were self-aware and put ourselves in our kids' shoes, then that leftover 1% can grow bigger. All we can do is hope this will be the case.

[@Fedya_Svetlaya]

Да.. все так считают Моя мама всегда говорила, что она не будет такой, как бабушка, получилось плохо И вот сейчас у меня дочь, вроде все нормально должно быть, психология, 21 век и тд И я впадаю в истерику, когда слышу от себя даже интонацию похожую на ее Очень сложно, ведь как по-другому нас никто не учил, а большую часть жизни мы видели именно такой пример И именно эти люди нас учили говорить и действовать Грустно

[@nemaele]

I hope to break the cycle by being either a good parent or a good aunt to my nieces and nephews. Not to say all the parental figures in my family are bad, but we all went through shit.

[@thisisaverylongusername]

You could be both right??

[@kimberlyakin8908]

It is so Hard. My Mother was abused. it was said that in her family they only Liked Boys. she was treated Like crap. then she married and Had 5 Kids. But her Husband went NUTS really He was diagnosed with Schizophrenia. she she Had to divorce Him then Married My dad who got her pregnant 4 More times. { Youngest of nine} But I was the Last Nail In the coffin. she didn't like Me and didn't want me. thus she a overworked Poor woman trying to feed clothe and House 9 kids she didn't give a fig about me. So I was Hit kick pushed around and generally treated Like a House elf by My siblings I tried to Be a Better Mom and a better wife. One child thinks I did great and thinks the One who is a jerk was Just a a Hole and spoiled. But did my Lack of parenting to me did Not give me the skills I needed to Be a Better Mom to Him? probably But I still take the blame for his ........ anger and pain But his actions are His own

[@hannahdoesacting5820]

My mom wasn’t treated badly but her dad had to go the hospital when she was ten because he got Alzheimer’s and she never saw him again then 4 years later he died. My grandmother on my moms side was from England and lived there during the war so her house got bombed and she was forced to move away from her parents later she had very serious PTSD. My grandfather on my moms side (yes the same one that got Alzheimer’s) lost his entire family (even his 1 year old brother) during the war and he was forced to join the army luckily he survived but as I said earlier in my comment he did die of Alzheimer’s and last but not least my moms oldest brother died at 2 months old so my family went through a lot (namely grief and suffrage) just not abuse or narcissism.

[@zoomerlovex]

The grandma getting hit with the book- 😭

[@cinnamonroll906]

r.i.p 💀

[@thecutefacedbookw9wgxcq535]

I see her mom is asian

[@jellycookie685]

IKR- 😭

[@dumdum6829]

lmao💀

[@yarielyzsierra6123]

✋💀✨

[@RealPumpkinJay]

The cycle in my family is pretty clear: The firstborn gets used, abused emotionally, and kicked out of the house at 18. It happened to me, my father, and my grandfather. One by one. I am raising my child in a household devoid of violence and with mutual respect. I am breaking the cycle. Therapy was a must for my father and for myself. The reverse cycle is working. I started therapy first and reconnected with my father who then started therapy to cope with being unable to reconnect with his father. We are healing our family.

[@skyblue_jayyy]

That’s amazing to hear 😊

[@raiden69966]

I’m breaking “marrying a husband” generation

[@IvyTheAmazingSerene]

Samee

[@winter5444]

Same here dude

[@may4short]

Nahh not for me 😭

[@thefriendlyleaf]

Samee my sister will finally do something important in our family (I ain’t marrying a man she is)

[@sushmitabanerjee82]

Same here lol

[@stephanietexeira]

This is the first of these I've related to. And a part of my laughs about the Brazil and Boston because that's part of my story. Great job.

[@GigiplayZ_Z]

im breaking the chain of parents not understanding their children and thinking its disrespectful for their child to be depressed

[@Bacon_XDiop]

You will think the same if you are A parent.

[@marytheautistic]

​@@Bacon_XDiop maybe not, people can make things differently, so they problably won't do the same thing

[@Bacon_XDiop]

@@marytheautistic ok so you become a parent and Saw Your Kids Favouriting low afford AI song

[@Bacon_XDiop]

@@marytheautistic ok so you become a parent and Saw Your Kids Favouriting low afford AI song

[@Jennie_4345]

"breaking the cycle" yes, at last!

[@powdery.Monica]

What she's waving in her hand at last??

[@ConsumerOfCookies]

Well, it’s gonna be my turn to break it too. My parents broke the “having kids at a young age” cycle but it’s my turn to end the trauma cycle.

[@Sophie052010]

Yea

[@pupperssong4778]

Same for me

[@evry1hates._mj]

I saw this on another one of these so im gonna leave it here “You cant end the cycle” “Then I’ll end the bloodline”

[@handycandy6969]

I love this as it brings out all the struggles through the cycles of pain, thank you for bringing this out, we appreciate you 💗

[@W1ll0W_W4S_H3R3]

This runs down my family TOO MUCH- And I'M thr next generation! I think-

[@handycandy6969]

@@W1ll0W_W4S_H3R3 mhm!

[@spookytaco666]

Cycle breaker of alcoholic mom's who abandon their children. I don't drink anymore and my daughter is 7 and I'm still here 😊. She has a little brother now too.

[@moonbcw4085]

Omw to break the “I invalidate your feelings bc your a child and I dismiss your trauma as you being dramatic” cycle

[@dekippiesip]

In some cases, that is because the parents legitimately had worse experiences during their childhood and feel their children should overcome their relatively mild struggles.

[@Lunna_612]

Isso realmente me atingiu,me faz lembrar da minha infância.

[@AJazzzy]

My mother broke the chain. I'm happy I didn't grow up the way she did. She still has issues but not as bad as my grandmother and her mom. I am so grateful.

[@AJazzzy]

@TheasGfx My great grandma was verbally abusive to my grandma, my grandma was verbally abusive and gas-lighted my mom, my mom had my sister and I and decided she wouldn't raise us like that. That's how she broke the cycle.

[@ziqrek2314]

​@TheasGfx breaking the cycle doesn't mean not having kids. It's means not passing the trauma down to your kids. Yeah some decide to just straight out not have them, but you can also heal yourself and be a healthy good parent.

[@isab_coff7800]

"Recife,Brazil" thanks!!

[@amelieblanche920]

Why?

[@lucysantos4571]

​@@amelieblanche920 É uma cidade do Nordeste brasileiro

[@unicorngamer314]

I'm breaking the "Family always supports you so you should also be like them and continue" chain Edit 1:- Thankyou for the 101 likes. And I wish that who ever is going through some difficulty. I hope you get more strength to face your struggles and I wish you a beautiful future. Love y'all

[@pancakesxoxo1064]

For people who are confused about the lyrics: it's "The mother has a daughter who gets married to the brother of *a* mother" means there are two mothers. It is about how a rich family keeps multiplying their wealth by marrying other rich families and keeping their money within their family. It's NOT about incest. Song name: Thumbs by Sabrina Carpenter

[@elizebeths.8880]

I didn't know that needed to be clarified...? Some people don't get it? That's kinda wild.

[@pancakesxoxo1064]

@@elizebeths.8880 frr but you don't know how many people were going around saying stuff like "she marries her uncle"- 😭

[@elizebeths.8880]

@@pancakesxoxo1064 Yeah, saw it afterwards.... Decided not to comment on those chains...

[@pancakesxoxo1064]

@@stitch4065 haha it's okk. Btw your pfp is so cutee!!

[@sanjanameena771]

Thanks for the song name

[@Kitkathere]

I'm gonna end the "Anxiety issues that result in sh1tty relationships and abuse" cycle 😅 (Mom denied the fact that she had anxiety and wouldn't take meds for it til earlier this year, resulting in her abusing my dad and me verbally for several years- now she's on medication and life is so much better)

[@annali7542]

i'm breaking the "mental health makes you weak," and the "asian beauty standards" chain.

[@S0M4IY4]

Same

[@cvlvstia]

I love how you added the years and places!! It’s amazing but the timing is a bit off, besides that it’s amazing!

[@moopunzel]

My mom was born when my grandma was 16, i was born when my mom was 20. I'm 15, and we're doing just fine. You can break the cycle whilst still having kids, I would know. We've broken 2, i would say mainly of abuse, and seeing the rest of my family, I'm learning that I don't want to end up like that, i haven't gotten into any fights, and i don't plan on dropping out anytime soon. I plan to go to college and be an ER nurse, and I've learned from them, don't do drugs and don't drink kids!

[@shazmeenN]

I am gonna break the generational trauma and narcissism.

[@ambermh7910]

Sometimes you're the one your bloodline was waiting for....and if you're lucky enough to do what your mother couldn't, you could give her what no one gave her, you can give her what you just gave yourself. Won't change the memories, won't heal everything, and it certainly doesn't mean you're required to remain in a toxic persons life either.

[@lonelymemeswitgmemainacc]

I have nothing to break and I should be grateful. Good luck to the cycle breakers I'm hoping for the best outcome and to push through the cycle! I am going to be the only LGBTQ(aroace) girl in my catholic family and I am the second one who (hopefully) gets a Ph.D. and becomes successful!😊❤

[@chloe-joannexo9394]

Breaking the cycle of traumatising your children as a form of punishment

[@Daydream_1018]

My siblings and I still plan to have kids, we plan to go easier on them than our parents did with us, make sure they know they're loved and a negative thought never crosses their mind Edit: Okay, before I get anymore stupid comments telling me shit I already know. My intention is to raise my kids knowing that they're loved while not giving a damn about what anybody says to them, my parents have always compared me to them when they were younger and talked down on me just because I didn't have to put up with as much as they did, but I actually AM because they're the ones I'm putting up with, making me feel like shit, I will *NEVER FUCKING EVER* make my child feel as worthless and hurt as me, I will give my life to make sure they never have thoughts of hurting themselves or if I don't love them, I'll never make them feel like the world would be better off without them... But I'll still make sure nothing a stranger says to them, or a friend, or a toxic family member will get to them, I'll make sure they are emotionally strong and confident, and yes, I'm aware that life will get to them, but it happens, it happens to everyone, we can't control it, but I will be there and make sure they are comfortable enough to talk about what they are feeling and know they have a shoulder to cry on, and because someone said it *YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE HARD ON YOUR KIDS TO TOUGHEN THEM UP* .... THAT'S ABUSE... As a parent, it's your JOB and RESPONSIBILITY to love and care for your child and never put them down because you're not happy or satisfied with the way things are going... Children who know they're loved and secure, and you've talked with as they grew will not go doing something stupid you disapprove of... Being raised with 6 siblings and mentally abusive parents who fail to speak to their kids, I've watched it 3 times now, it DOES work that way and it's on YOU to prevent it from happening. I'm probably gonna get a shit ton of hate, but idc, I may not have kids, but I've watched enough of my siblings grow up and become depressed and broken (myself included), and know what could've been done to prevent that, I'd take my knowledge and time travel with it to help my parents be better. People look down on younger generations for being the way they are, but for over half, it's their parents to blame. I'm not gonna be that parent, never

[@innovativeberry6098]

That's not as easy as it sounds. When you grow older, you're ideals and emotions change and when you see your child that you've raised so hard does dumb stuff, it is natural to feel pissed. I'm not saying that you'll be a bad guardian but that you would later understand how a parent feels it difficult to deal with their offspring and that they're only mending us to be better people even if we don't like it.

[@Daydream_1018]

@@innovativeberry6098 You don't think I know this?

[@ForeversGlitch]

@@innovativeberry6098 I’m sure this person means they want to care for their child or children more than their parent(s) did for them

[@Marley_Zoe123]

@@Daydream_1018 yes but u realize they will never know let down till they grow up then they’ll have trouble surviving in the real world. They have to have some criticism otherwise they’re going to think they’re perfect and have trouble understanding that somethings they do isn’t right. They’ll grow up and realize that the way u raise them ( not letting negative thing going through there mind) that when a negative thought does in the future they can’t handle it. You have to prepare them and not let them be soft bc u were to them. Otherwise they will be ruined in the future. You have to be hard in them shown out of love.

[@taylorb1342]

@@Daydream_1018 They are just showing another perspective, chill out dude...

[@iabrellaaa]

Im gonna break the unfairness, favorotisim, doesnt believe anything the child sais, and hit when angry cycle. Wish me luck!

[@sofiaallen0987]

Pov: This is 5th time you are seeing this kind of trend but u still like the song

[@theyadore.neecee]

It dobe like that sometimes

[@theyadore.neecee]

Indeed

[@user-en3ty4sc8h]

do you know whats the song? I kinda like it

[@Visteira]

What is the song?! Lol

[@yuh2102]

@@Visteira thumbs by Sabrina carpenter

[@stelinhamonteiro9696]

“Recife, Brazil” omg, I’m so happy, my city 💗

[@wallsonrodrigo7669]

Também

[@hannahpinkkda7671]

Meu país ksksksk

[@karlnot_jacobs]

Generational trauma SUCKS!!! My whole family has problems because of a horrible thing my grandfather did. My sister and I are planning to not have kids and I hope my brother does the same so we can break it

[@The_GenderLiquifier]

Good for you, I am sorry what your grandfather did though. Good luck with life🫶

[@redbear4350]

I feel that I am in this circle too, as my duty Is to break It, starting from myself.

[@TwinsMother0803]

You kind of messed up the mother to daughter transition

[@NeyamRye]

I mean it must be kinda hard to do

[@Belle-and-Vespertine]

Did I mess it up? Or did I just get too stressed by looking at myself dressed as my own mother to care about anything anymore? I’ll let you be the judge 😂

[@elleriam-19273]

@@Belle-and-Vespertine yep

[@bloodreina1828]

@@Belle-and-Vespertine well it has nothing to do wid the editing..

[@dontreadmyprofilepicture2635]

This girl tried hard

[@aeshaaaa_1]

I am gonna break the "marry a man" chain in our family!!!

[@k.p.praveenaprabhakaran9503]

I'm gonna end the stereotypes of the world and start the women's rights as they can do what they want and shouldn't be controlled by their parents especially by their mothers!! -from a Indian girl with a single mom

[@aliciaribeiro718]

Yes! We have to break this cycle, after all it can generate a lot of trauma in children!

[@Salomexx15]

I'm gonna break the "pointing at you're insecurites,making bad jokes,causing depression and bad parenting chain" ^^

[@The_GenderLiquifier]

Good for you, and I am as well. I wish you the best of luck in life🫶

[@the_krazzzykatphone6404]

The cat is so cute I’m dying

[@kusuosaiki6406]

"I'm breaking the shaming, insulting, depressed, bad parenting, bodyshaming, forceful, Homophobic, and embarrassed to be around you, full of Anxiety and dress to what your gender is and never having hope" chain :)

[@Belle-and-Vespertine]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@celestialkoala3164]

That's amazing! 💓

[@No_one464]

Ima break the “Body shaming, Drinking, Bad parenting, and Abuse” chain! 😊❤

[@nillabean6041]

Gonna be breaking the cycle of generational parental abuse/trauma when I have kids. My kids will know that they are valid, respected and loved

[@Belle-and-Vespertine]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lordpigeon1997]

I love it! Amazing acting!

[@Belle-and-Vespertine]

❤️❤️❤️❤️aww thank youuu

[@placeholdername5479]

this made me cry.. i appreciate you making this

[@Noxtextvideos]

I'm breaking the chain of abuse, body shaming, tough love, trauma ❤️

[@akaritsukinojanimes2251]

PORTUGALL!! Hugs from Portugal 🇵🇹💛🌷 This is actually my first time watching this trend buahah Pretty cool! ✨

[@Rainjojo]

I’m breaking the “go to the military” “domestic violence and psychological abuse” and “get married+have kids” generational chain. I’ve spent most of my life trying to please others so I won’t wind up hurt, but more pent up anger has lead me to say enough is enough. I want to pursue my own goals and ambitions and will fight for the life I choose to live

[@ZooomieMoth]

"How many times have you watched this?" Me: Yes

[@anthonyjrgensen4207]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR PUTTING PORTUGAL IN THIS, most people don’t even know it exists “I’m Portuguese” “Oh yeah, from Brazil!” Gurl no 😑

[@yngridsilva6130]

I thought otherwise, in my opinion Portugal is a better known country than Brasil

[@anthonyjrgensen4207]

@@yngridsilva6130 every time I would say “I’m Portuguese” as a child it was always met with some variation of the answer “oh my gosh I love brazil!” I’ve even had someone say “you’re portugish?” After I said “I’m from Portugal” Just my experience though

[@Limerant_Evangeline]

To breaking the generational truama ✊

[@Sadc-gb3cy]

I get kinda sad when "breaking the cycle" is always not having a child, you can break it being a good parent too, I've seen a lot of those videos and none of them has this version.

[@kittylol2241]

You know not everyone what's to have kids

[@kokokolala]

I don't know why but, some of people have traumatize for a not good parenting. So, they will be childfree instead of being a parent to spend their whole life.

[@frogee5790]

I simply don't want kids and technically that is ending the cycle

[@frogee5790]

@@kokokolala it's because they're afriad of becoming their parents

[@kokokolala]

@@frogee5790 yes, i see this in real life. And disney put this toxic perfectionism/generational trauma into their animated movie like turning red and encanto.

[@bulgna]

I really like that the things that got repressed in their childhoods were what they forced on to their daughters, its very realistic!

[@eliseplop4621]

Omg my mom is literally from Recife Brazil! 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

[@edsheeranleftnut7606]

I'm happy they included Portugal here, I think it deserves more recognition even though Portugal is a small country. I'm Portuguese and I am happy it was included here but it's not very pleasent to see how people use to get trauma. But it's just a video and we got to respect🇵🇹😕

[@joxannryy]

The great grandma is literally slapping/hitting her child with the holy bible

[@rahimahmathusin4800]

True

[@akshitabiswas463]

@Catherine Victoria Barlian oh well that's pretty normal in asia lol

[@nickylawson993]

So ture

[@sandthistle]

It's also a bit like how slaveholders would go to churches, be Christain, and recite the bible while beating slaves...

[@elizebeths.8880]

@@sandthistle Thank you for figuring it out.

[@nallelivillegas6174]

i going to break the " cheating on person with sisters boy friend"

[@TheTrinity904]

Damn the 18s and the 19s were so strict 😰

[@Kay-qh6yg]

I’m the end of narcissism in my dads fam 💕💕

[@Belle-and-Vespertine]

❤️

[@Idontknowanythingfbi]

People of Lisbon, Portugal 🇵🇹💗

[@Bobatea_offical]

Omg that cat😍

[@ranavandebuurtpolitie]

my momma broke the "having 5-11+ kids" chain while i broke the "behaving like an actual girl" chain.

[@siaTere]

I love the great transitions

[@callmeolivia2242]

“The mother has a daughter that gets married to the father of the mother” WHAAAT?!!

[@ignotuz4836]

It's 'married to the brother of a mother'

[@Avery-ct4ow]

BAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

[@hopee_ee]

"Married to the brother of the mother" That's worse!!!!!!!

[@florecoessens4001]

@@hopee_ee A mother has a daughter. The Daughter got married to a brother of a mother. Which means the daughter has a sister-in-law.

[@Avery-ct4ow]

@@hopee_ee LMAO I THINK THE SINGER FORGOT THE LINES LOOLLL

[@BrokenXDI]

I'm prob gonna end the "bad habits, anger issues, and terrible or smt else life" in my family, or i atleast hope to

[@littlemisskeara]

Not even joking right now, this is my second time watching this video and between the first time I watched this video and now I have since realized that my mother is a narcissist, and this video is quite literally the exact chain of my family. I am also "witchy" and my mother does not approve.

[@Yulies_Roblox]

Literally the grandmother is literally how my mom remember she was lol

[@StillLoveItLoud]

My husband and I broke the cycle of giving no support to our passions. Our dgt just got her masters in what she loves

[@korntallica07]

People from Portugal ❤️🇵🇹

[@MoostysChannel]

AYOOOO SOMEONE IS FINALLY STOPPING STEREOTYPING WITCHES

[@justacoupleofweebs7724]

I told my mom I’d keep my last name since I’m a family of all girls, and she said it doesn’t matter because her grandkids won’t even be related to her. It may hurt her, but it won’t hurt worse than the way that hurt me because I’m adopting 6 kids and having none of my own

[@Punkinkat]

She shouldn’t care if they’re blood related. That doesn’t matter at all. Love and family is what’s important! I want to (far in the future) adopt an “unadoptable” kid. Kids after 11 get that title in some places because parents want to raise a baby. I only care about giving a kid a place to call home.

[@ChaoticCheesEE]

Everyones like “im gonna break the bla bla bla chain” but im like IM GONNA BREAK CUZ I WAS SO CONFUSED BECAUSE AT THE FIRST PART, IT WAS TOO LATE 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@little_bunny7659]

The first one is so lovely when i saw the second and i see the mother smack i was thinking "Wtf dat cruel"

[@Decademusic1]

This lady deserves an Oscar

[@XimenaAtilano]

Yes 👍🏻😅

[@scgames6784]

as someone from Brazil, glad that you include it in the video

[@cp_eq]

never let them know your next move... i love the cat, super cute

[@ClairDeLume]

I’m going to break the “abuse chain.” My future children are not going to go what I went through. Corporal punishment will also not be a thing in my house.

[@ChaoticCheesEE]

People is like “oh ill break the chain” But me, Im like IM the one that fonna BREAK BCZ IT WAS LATE 3 times 😭😭😭

[@mnlight7470]

For sure i know this generation is gonna be the best parents that we never had💖

[@msbubblegum6521]

I’m getting the, ending the cycle my cousins and brother carrying our family maybe my bro won’t doe

[@ravensworld888]

I'm breaking the overweight skinny shaming and emotional abuse chain

[@787AKD]

How much do you want to mess up? Her: Y E S! 😭💀

[@brot8338]

This really gives me second hand emberassment.

[@Belle-and-Vespertine]

Imagine being so unhappy in life that you resort to acting like a c*nt to strangers on the internet

[@XxAdzyxX]

@@Belle-and-Vespertine I think they mean it a different way but your not wrong

[@SaNd_HaNiTiZeR_]

@@XxAdzyxX yeah not all people like your videos

[@SaNd_HaNiTiZeR_]

@@XxAdzyxX your right

[@SaNd_HaNiTiZeR_]

@@Belle-and-Vespertine shut up not all people like you videos jezz a grown adult acting like a baby

[@Mrrichr]

The cat looks exactly like my kitten

[@jesuschanges_]

But we gotta remember that most people try to do better than their parents, and so while someone’s parents may abuse them, they might not even realize it because they think they are doing better than their parents. Obviously not an excuse to abuse, but just keep in mind that they may be trying at least.

[@_ss8040]

Fun fact: probably 85% people already watch these trend at least 3 times a day 😃

[@aminajangli4766]

It appears on my fyp ATLEAST 5 times

[@pancakesxoxo1064]

Gooodd

[@PokeGirl_3033]

Here who breaks the chain ⛓️

[@Army-fu2qz]

Honestly I kinda wanna see a Chinese historical version lol

[@pakki6555]

Omg if someone did that 😳✨

[@Army-fu2qz]

@@pakki6555 like I’d love to learn more about my culture

[@cookiediangelo8511]

I want to see one of these with a cute little girly at the end waving at the camera

[@leovaldez5957]

Di Angelo? ARE YOU A PJO FAN?

[@cookiediangelo8511]

@@leovaldez5957 yes :) Thank you for noticing