The Dark Reality of Indian Education System.

[@TharunSpeaks]

As I always say - If you are going through hell, Keep Going⚡

[@akshayrajuomkaram7538]

Thanks for motivating anna. Every student who prepares iit jee need this motivation anna.

[@forplustwo9893]

Yo man, i don't know how to approach an question even if i know the equations and problems💔😭

[@abhaykrishna5269]

Doom slayer motivation goes brrrrr Keep the grind going partners💪🤜

[@Satyendra.C19]

That's the thing, students or anyone who's goin' through situations like that need to understand...

[@novafano1]

Work under progress 👷‍♂️

[@MaybeSomeone7483]

Things our education system lacks as of now~ 1. Education 2. System

[@cs372]

kapil sharma show??

[@Schrodinger-c7g]

Veryyy funny

[@riyaz4880]

WhatsApp University?

[@jahidhosssin54456]

Same in Bangladesh

[@jahidhosssin54456]

@@riyaz4880 Stop you propagandist

[@Abhaythakur06x]

I think we, as students, should start a campaign to change our education system. If we don't, who will? 🤔 #changeindianeducationsystem

[@nahbroilovemylife]

add indian to that line in hashtag

[@Abhaythakur06x]

@@nahbroilovemylife Done

[@shreyastimepass2780]

doesn't new education policy do any changes?

[@Aspire1795]

I support you bro

[@akashgulati5707]

@@shreyastimepass2780 mainly not

[@ayaanmallick6705]

Everything about our education system is dark☕️

[@Moon_walker_0090]

Yes bro 😢

[@naunidhsingh7162]

I was really interested in scientific research but to get into top research institutes like IISc you need to secure a really good rank in jee. Thus I had to give up my dream

[@naunidhsingh7162]

The problem our country is not at par with that of USA is the lack of r&d, which again is due to lack of scientific temperament among students due to such rat race exams

[@naunidhsingh7162]

The problem our country is not at par with that of USA is the lack of r&d, which again is due to lack of scientific temperament among students due to such rat race exams

[@ludicrousreality0]

​@@naunidhsingh7162 this is due to poverty and lack of sufficient infrastructure for educational and other basic necessities

[@ohmslaw6438]

During my IIT JEE prep even though my parents were not understanding at all and were angry at me whenever I got less marks. But the one thing that kept me going and not give up was my friend who was way too understanding and helped me a lot(emotionally) Today I am going to an IIT and he will be joining a medical college..

[@randomone532]

In your case it turned out be good but that doesn't happen in most cases.

[@rohitpreetam5173]

Wish I had a friend like that, my life would have been different 😢

[@loco_girl..2201]

@@uncannyroaches5933 Comment section is best for sharing your thoughts without being judged

[@yashvardhangupta7028]

i have a teacher and 5 friends for that in my drop year,i messed up even though i went to a delhi's best coaching for jee,it was my peer group,i have changed em and hope to improve a lot,peers matter a lotttttt

[@historyin60..]

​@@rohitpreetam5173be the one

[@mohitdeb2000]

Indian students lack two things- 1) Equality 2) Unity

[@azkaali9069]

And what they have is pressure

[@equalrights494]

Equality? You are wrong like Communist & Feminist. Equality is not necessary as everyone is different in multiple ways from interest to Temperament. Freeness & individual personal choices is individual Liberty. Btw Unity Part is Okay.

[@mohitdeb2000]

@@equalrights494 I accept that man I feel it should be equity instead of equality

[@annatasha17]

Nah

[@kaushalghosalkar01]

​@@equalrights494 by equality he means there shouldn't be reservation of seats

[@saptarsi7868]

I am an engineering student and I have thought of suicide more than many times I can count. It always makes me feel that I have failed everyone who belived at me. The only thing that is keeping me alive are the faces of my parents. I will keep going through this hell no matter how much painful it it. I will keep smiling through all the painful events.

[@rutuldhote1489]

yeah specially when you are Not from CS or E&TC background, there are no good paying jobs for other branches and there is no future right now , other than in IT sector, its really bad

[@PIHU_DWIVEDI01]

Partially same situation but I am jee aspirant

[@vishvgamer8830]

​@@PIHU_DWIVEDI01 same bruh

[@mandarbamane4268]

​@@rutuldhote1489 bruh, there's no EC jobs too. Just CS field also consider taking EC guys.

[@alveerachauhan]

Please don't commit suicide. I request to you whoever is reading, please don't hesitate to ask for help. I know it seems much easier to said than done. I've been through that and there was no one to help me out then few days ago I picked myself up said to myself looking in the mirror, "Alveera I know this world is selfish, nobody cares about you, nobody gives a shit about you so what? Are u gonna end your precious life just for the sake of a person or a result? Like why Alveera how could you even think of that? You are really stronger than you think. Just don't think much and keep going. I'm always here with you for you." These were the words I said to myself that day and from then I never looked back :) Now do you know what I do every night? I hold my hand tight, hug myself tightly and say "Mai hu na tere saath re nasamajh bacchi sab sahi hoga tension mat le Mai hu apan sab dekh lenge." I know it's really difficult, I know it sucks!! But you have yourself and nobody can understand you better than yourself. So, don't beg to someone else for helping you out or to understand you and your emotions 'cause most of the times there will be no one 'cause humanity is dead among humans💔!! I'm sorry but truth is really harsh💔 Email me if you need any kind of emotional help, I would be glad if I can help. Much love from my side. Please take care everyone.

[@kamranahmad9809]

I am not really a JEE aspirant but an aspirant of NDA, I failed in my previous attempt, got so much of criticism, depression and all that, still mum understood me and now back on track for the SEPT. attempt, thanks tharun for the video it was adroitly donned

[@soumodeepchatterjee3248]

That's nice bro, best of luck for NDA 😁

[@kaiislovexoxo]

All the best for your exam! I hope you succeed for sure!

[@kamranahmad9809]

@@soumodeepchatterjee3248 thank you

[@kamranahmad9809]

@@soumodeepchatterjee3248 thank you very much I have cleared NDA 2 2023

[@kamranahmad9809]

@@kaiislovexoxo thanks for the wishes they really helped me out !!

[@subhayanroychowdhury199]

The best way to not suffer depression even after being an IIT-JEE aspirant- inculcate the BACKBENCHER SWAG....literally, being a back bencher topper in my middle school days has helped me a lot so far in my preperation......When things get out of hand I always have a "jo hoga dekha jayega " type of attitude....and finally I am getting around 190-200 marks and around 500-600 AIR on my mock tests, so all's well I think...and if not...jo hoga dekha jayega....What I think causes problems is the fact that people tend to value the competition more than the learning process.....flip it the other way round and you are gonna be fine..... And keep up the good work Tharun bhaiya...I'm a big fan🤗

[@student2204]

Correct!

[@mr_anonymous123]

What's ur rank in jee advanced 23?

[@ujjain_03]

Really,You are going to next best teacher of India.

[@TharunSpeaks]

I will try my best. Thanks ❤

[@mr.vloggerbhaiya3]

That's true

[@novafano1]

@@TharunSpeaks plz keep doing this kind of work and help in building an ideal nation.🇮🇳❤️

[@user-yq7em3yi2m]

@@TharunSpeaks U WILL

[@hotspot7824]

​​@@TharunSpeaks you said so easily that don't rely on academics only and do things apart from academics as well but just for maintaining decent academics, students like me invest nearly all the time we have in a day so how is it possible for us to do so, as there is a saying easier said than done -A frustrated 12th grader

[@itsmehere8285]

I guess it's good time to share my experiences... just like every "10th topper", I got into a reputed coaching in class 11th and began jee preparation where i first learnt defeat...merese na hoga... it came up to my mind....months after months i was sinking into a loop of procastination,failing miserably in tests and never satisfied.... I was always studying with the fact in my mind that this portion has that weightage in jee then that portion has to be done for advanced etc,etc. And whenever I found a new concept it would not make my mind shine up with a 'WOW' like it did before... I would always think that so many students have learnt it and I haven't so I'll soon get out of the competition!!!! long story short....Finally in 12th now.... I left coaching midway in 11th and began self studying from books (and yeah giving tests ofc)... I can confirm I'm a lot happier in the process as of now.... once again i've fallen in love with science and found my true passion....Would never let it fade in this rat race ;) As per my opinion.... You cannot change the system but obviously you can change the way you deal with the system and make it beautiful for yourself!!! thanks for reading :)

[@notsodope834]

"You Cannot Change the System but You can change the way you deal with it" -- Inspiring Lines & Elegant😌

[@PranjalRawat-ni5vm]

You are a excellent writer also

[@itsmehere8285]

@@notsodope834 😄

[@itsmehere8285]

@@PranjalRawat-ni5vm omg... I'll be sure remember this compliment in future:)

[@PranjalRawat-ni5vm]

@@itsmehere8285 those who study for there passion and understanding or learning are the ones who create history and innovate new things.. I have learnt so much from your message. Thank you 🙇‍♂️

[@nnn2477]

Aspirants! Please don't make stupid decisions...you might not get into your dream college but that doesn't mean that's the end of your life! Please... please... Don't end up or spoil your life just by the result of one exam. I'm a dropper and I know how much pressure a student can undergo when he/she doesn't get into the college/stream he/she dreams of. But your strong desire or motto is gonna take you to a place even better than your dreams! After studying seriously for a year long I got into BITS HYD Cs which made me forget the stress, pain, insults I went through when I took drop. So whoever is there, I just want to let you know guys is that...this is not the end....you might have something better for your future than what you've dreamt of. So, just keep on grinding and don't lose your desire ....your future might be more beautiful than you've ever thought. Have a good time ahead!

[@dimpumedipalli]

How many did u score ...for hyd cs bro....cause I am an aspirant to be an bitsian...can u give short info about marks and seat allotment

[@saichaitanya8032]

Bhaiya please say does really mtech in iits worty please please . I am going to join local clg in Hyderabad called cmr it is not even top 10. But i have two choices either mtech in iits or ms in abroad. Please say really mtech in iit worty?

[@nnn2477]

@@saichaitanya8032 absolutely buddy! Mtech in one of the most prestigious colleges in India! who would say no to that? Just don't stop grinding....do study and work for ur dream!

[@calvinripley9093]

You know what it's better to just go to some low level college and do MS in abroad after engineering than spending so much money on good engineering colleges

[@Harry044]

I failed after taking drop too didn’t qualified for advanced also. Everything got shattered don’t know how to face society and most importantly my parents. My brother is in IIT. Feels like I am just nothing just a failure person failing again and again.

[@salmabhesti3261]

I am currently in 11th and seeing Tharun speak so relatable makes me happy that I got someone who can understand people like us. I will give you an Oscar for your work Tharun hats off to you love from sangli❤

[@Vivi00875]

I can't even call my parents as my parents for whatever they have done with me , verbally and physically abusing me for years , always mocking me , making fun of me , beated me so badly that I had to be on medication for months, the trauma they gave me , every day in this jee preparation was hell, I just hope that I can get out of here as soon as possible and get therapy when I enter college , no child deserves to be treated in this way,indian parents shouldn't be allowed to have kids neither do they know parenting nor to they know how to love their kids, most of these so called parents are narcissists and have their own problems which they dump on children , when will they understand that children are not punching bags ? If you can't love your kids then use protection rather than blaming the child for your so called problems.

[@the_Unbeaten]

that's sad i hope u clear ur exams❣

[@Vivi00875]

@@the_Unbeaten I did clear it, I am going to college this year

[@Vivi00875]

@@ArjunA-ln3ov stop spamming

[@the_Unbeaten]

@@Vivi00875 demm best of luck for ur future

[@Vivi00875]

@@the_Unbeaten thank you! I hope you also have a shining future waiting ahead for you

[@maahirasharma9993]

The fact that the education system aims only at the academic aspect is a horror in itself.

[@illhelpyoudude]

Indian education system is not even Indian 🙄

[@ohmslaw6438]

​@@illhelpyoududebut English education system is way better than Indian as they constantly evolved it Thanks to Nehru(asshole) and then Gandhi and now Modi to not do anything

[@neotetra0288]

@@illhelpyoudude oh shut up.. its been 70-80 years, if one cant change something in that much time, it becomes thiers

[@illhelpyoudude]

@@neotetra0288 what'd i say ? ......fool .....

[@sumiha]

@@illhelpyoududeits indian because it is permanently adopted. British raj left. They left the country in ruin, but the government COULD have not adopted this method during the first few decades of independence!

[@Matrix_Max]

Things that are the reasons for our education system being trash - 1) Reservations 2) Outdated syllabus 3) Too much pressure of completing assignments, projects, copies etc. 4) Teachers not being well qualified 5) Less practical interactions

[@jahidhosssin54456]

Same problem in Bangladesh too

[@techybaba0646]

Correct❤❤❤

[@Rahul-jd2eq]

True

[@upscaspirant-tw2op]

When school education is given for free for ALL at ALL schools. Like developed countries provides Reservation can be ended.

[@adityakeshavrawat7518]

75% attendance 💀

[@shama_k2604]

The sad reality is that 3 idiots pointed it out 14yrs ago & we are still at the same stage in tackling this problem.. things take wayyy too much time to change here coz majority of the people are not ready to change their mindset....

[@gururajsawant]

The reasons mentioned are not only for students but also for every average Indian who is in the phase of working towards our goals, people are depressed on the edge of giving up over that if any person is staying at home then their parents and relatives will start to provoke where the person will get into a situation that he will have to leave what he wants to do and start what the parents and relatives force us..... Hope this reaches everyone❤

[@janhveemisra_5864]

I'm just 16 and been raised in a toxic environment (by my parents) While watching this video, I remembered my past of trying to commit suicide twice . As been raised in such environment I became more tough, practical, independent, positive and accepted the reality of the life of a Indian middle class. The moral from my past is- you are the one and only responsible for the current happenings i.e., backlogs and failure (almost 80% of the times). And if you are surrounded with toxic people, then, *Listen everyone and everything, but give home to only positive ones.* 🤝💪

[@manishuchia]

me too 16 just completed 10th got 89%. my parents kicked me for this marks bet me with belt.And in class 11 I opted for commerce stream my dad told i will not pay fees if u study commerce so i took PCM and studying for my parents 🙂🙃.

[@bhukiyuki]

@@manishuchia 😂

[@youtubertarun1]

​@@manishuchiawtf this is not fair

[@Lucky69K]

​​@@manishuchia ek no ka chu😂 Maa baap ko suicides k dhamkiya deta ya police ko phone kr deta😂

[@manishuchia]

@LaPulga420 but my dad told he will not pay fee. he wants to see me as software dev

[@Bombastic_ronny]

STAY STRONG YOUR PARENTS LOVE YOU I got only 46 percentile in jee mains . The marks are very low but it didn't make me depressed , now I am in full power and preparing for a drop .

[@EnV37]

@@hashirkhan7059 It shows there are negative people everywhere Cmon bro that's a bygone joke now, remain updated , spread positivity!

[@ragav.r7060]

Parents do love their children , its universal. But they do not show it to their kids, rather push their kids in a negative way in the name of love (you can easily think lot of examples if you are born in a typical Indian household), so what they are doing is not enough and is wrong. Love is taking them out once in a while, introduce them to various sports and hobbies, or merely just sitting and talking to them with open heart, not bicch slapping them or cutting down their favourite food when he/she scored less than 95 percentile!

[@xyzx08301]

bhai agar tu 0 padhai karke jayega to even 2 percentile will not make u depressed...

[@Manisha_421]

@@SantuPOG I am in class 12th Any advice to junior?

[@soorajtr6692]

@@Manisha_421 study and just dont take too much burden .

[@ogxthor7631]

Like the girl said in the video that We students can't blame anyone on getting less marks though we work hard . It's the same situation as me and my friends, we work hard as possible but still marks 😔. And the worst part is we aren't able to express our parents or teachers about the reason for it as we are also finding the reason for our situation. The point when parents ask why are your marks so low and we are not able to reply it , that silence 🤐 makes us depress and makes ourselves inferior in our own eyes. This 1 question can make a student start feeling depress 😷

[@PIHU_DWIVEDI01]

True

[@pradeepkumarpatel5845]

Trueee❤

[@KamleshSingh-pk2io]

Being an IIT jee aspirant I have to go with these regularly it is kind of depressing but when you have parents and god as your strongest support things seems to go easy .I have faced this and could relate with it...Thank you so for coming with this topic nobody talk about this for.

[@Manisha_421]

After wasting class 11th completely, I am in class 12th taking offline coaching this time When I sit to study my stomach starts paining, sweating and shaking of palms and feet, difficulty in breathing. I can't study I don't know what to do now kuch smjh nhi aa rha

[@vineethsnambiar8379]

​@@Manisha_421 you have to cover your 11th portions asap for now focus on 12th as you wouldn't face much problem in math and phy as much of it you can learn independently but for chem you do have to cover lessons in 11th like chemical bonding, equilibrium, organic chemistry and hydrocarbon because you gonna learn whole functional grps in 12th so be prepared with 11th start learning in weekdays 12th is very much important

[@avinashjha7673]

Once a man said " If you are going from hell , then keep going"

[@dragonlord5616]

Really disheartening and gruesome facts. The Indian education system surely does need refurbishing. Also, waiting for you to teach physics! ❤

[@StudyCrystal-cn3bj]

Message for jee aspirant always remember iit is only for 4 years not all life, there's a lot thing to do in life

[@anuragmondal]

No money no life

[@ggyrcrrs.7]

​@@anuragmondalall iitians are not very rich

[@ggyrcrrs.7]

​@@anuragmondalmy brother is from IIT Bombay and he got AIR-368 and makes around 40 LPA but only earns 2.5 lakhs a month which is same as compared to some non iitians.

[@Mr.VAGlNA]

​@@anuragmondal if you are educated you will somehow make money.

[@anuragmondal]

@@ggyrcrrs.7 Omg, that is still a huge amount, and a dream of millions!

[@lavenderskies7571]

4:41 He was spitting facts. The greatest problem with our education system is exactly this

[@qm3chan1c2]

Dude, your point about students in 11th and 12th thinking of each other as competitors not collaborators struck a chord with me. During my preparation, I tried to figure out all my doubts by myself. I only turned to friends for help when I was truly truly desperate to find the solution

[@introvertsharma]

Thank you for shedding light on the dark side of the Indian education system in your thought-provoking video. It's disheartening to hear about the alarming rate of student suicides, and I appreciate your efforts in raising awareness about this issue. Education plays a vital role in shaping individuals and societies, and it's crucial to create an environment that nurtures students' well-being alongside their academic growth. While academic success is important, it should never come at the cost of a student's mental health and happiness. Your message of motivating students to find happiness amidst the pressures of the education system is truly inspiring. It's essential to remind young individuals that their worth is not solely determined by grades or rankings, but by their unique talents, passions, and personal growth.

[@Satyendra.C19]

Yes Tharun! This is a major problem in this younger genz, students don't have patient these days...BTW, video would be amazing❤🔥

[@TharunSpeaks]

Thank youuuu ❤

[@khoonkharr]

@@TharunSpeaks one suggestion make a video WHY INDIAN STUDENT DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT TO DO OR WHERE IS THEIR INTEREST PASSION OR INNER SENSE

[@cesraw]

@@khoonkharr good topic bro

[@khoonkharr]

@@cesraw thanks bro

[@khoonkharr]

@Nikitha Steffi TBH there's no solution u know how i got to knew about this vast world and how i know today where is my interest all credits goes to my American Canadian and British friends. They have helped me(on internet). Then i get to knew that here I don't know anything expect about some little stuff.

[@Parallaxop]

It's not only about Indian Education System it also about our society.Every people in this society will ask you about your results not your dedication and hardwork

[@Rohit-Kumar-774]

Tharun ❤ Thanks for Raising issue on Our Education System

[@celinasophia9405]

I can't believe every single student ,preparing for exams like jee , is going through all this ... I found myself in this situation lately , exactly how you mentioned all the probs... Depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts... It's hard but I am doing it anyway... More power for every aspirant out there❤ we got this

[@chhavichainani4615]

Tharun has been my virtual bhaiya since for 1 and half year now..He has always been motivating me throughout my JEE prep and till now He has been the best mentor I can get.. :)

[@Assbeaterniggachad]

Virtual bhaiya lmao 🤣

[@chhavichainani4615]

@@Assbeaterniggachad Hehe😂

[@jeeaspirant-pi4mk]

@@Assbeaterniggachad 🤣🤣🤣

[@ashutoshpawar4550]

Bro I started my class 11 just 4 days ago, seeing so many people losing hope makes me start to think about it. I really hope my journey goes down well, i have chosen this only because I love this field and wanted to face completion once..... The students of my age I wish them very good luck for the future 🙂🙁

[@orbeez444]

good luck to you too !!

[@relaxuniverse8551]

I can relate man. This video is an eye opener on how our country is still pressuring children with academics. Life is not about being born, then studying from 3 to 25, then working under someone and gathering money and responsibilities till 65, then becoming old and dying, that’s not life.

[@PIHU_DWIVEDI01]

Thanks a lot I am really feeling sad and partially depressed from 2-3 months after jee result & also because of my parents behaviour because in that moment of my life I really need their support but they care about what society think about them because i couldn't make it But I will try to be happy and get out of these things soon as Possible Thank you ❤❤

[@SorathenZ]

I was thinking to prepare for JEE but now i m thinking to prepare for SAT

[@myselfshreyash4636]

Fantastic man. Everything you say is soooo relatable. I am in Class 8th. They don't see the effort but result. I don't have much friends and for those I have, I can't share my feelings with. There should be parents watching this video, not the students. Love from Hyderabad❤❤❤. You deserve much bro.

[@elozicey]

I lost it.. but luckily not my life .. All thanks to myself for grew up from the traumas and also thanks to your solution one part as we have everyone to tell us probem but you tried your best to give us solution . Thank you so much .. I had a best friend and all he did was telling me the problem and never the solution and obviously he was just seeing me as a competition and he succeed too . Thanks to every statements of any person that soothe my anxiety .

[@vedanshsingh5097]

I chose this path of JEE preparation myself but after more than 1 year of class 11 and quater of class 12 I feel fatigued. I don't hate studying, I am not depressed but I feel like this should be over as soon as possible (not my life, I mean this preparation period😅). I want to go out explore things. I don't feel like doing same things everyday. I am not going to give up thats the one thing I know, I don't know if I am going to ckear the exam but I will complete the journey on the path I chose. Thanks to my friends, they are stress relievers.

[@subhayanroychowdhury199]

At least you have friends...all I have are competitors

[@vedanshsingh5097]

@@subhayanroychowdhury199 Kota mein ho toh apne dosto se call kr liya kro ya fir thodi der koi multiplayer game khel liya kro unke sath like bgmi (limit mein maximum 4 hrs a week). This helps to me.

[@vedanshsingh5097]

@@subhayanroychowdhury199 u will find good people around urself. u just have to try. Frnds bhi compete krte h but in a good sense. Ye nhi hota k hum bole k mera tabhi hoga jb uska na ho. Me n my frnds are like tera mera dono ka hoga air 1 meri 2nd teri😅

[@IIT._.JEE._.2024]

I feel u bro😭

[@shellysharma146]

I think you may be feeling burnt out, look into it.

[@massivememer]

I don't have friends. I don't get out of my house. I don't like talk to anybody. I sit whole day in my fu*king room and try to study. Listening to my parents expection make me feel more sad and i start thinking about that. I think JEE is only for extraordinary kids.

[@studyomania]

same bruh

[@ankitkumarbhoi3360]

Yeah!! he said right " everyone is a competitor, none of them are good friends" 😢

[@muralidaranr5162]

The last point about the relatives being nosy is very much true (in my case). We get a lot of experience from just the preparation of IITJEE. Only people in the field can understand that scenario. Relatives can't be experts in such topics,so it's better to ignore them

[@KaatilKelvin-uo1jc]

✨✨Sometimes we are not depressed.. But The environment in the society compells us to feel so, It might be a melancholy and not exactly a depression.... Well to the one who are dealing with -ve thoughts ... Remember "You have your parents right there at home waiting for you... Your parents can happily accept a failed child rather than no more child... Think on it. " Just convince your self am mentally strong, I can go through all this with great ease... Don't let your mind rule your body it's you the owner not your mind...

[@tab8294]

I am a NEET aspirant but it helped me a lot because I am very depressed from last month...thank you tharun❤❤

[@Kritikachhabra05]

Thanks Tharun bro...Very few creators actually address this issue you are doing a great job keep doing... ❤❤

[@siddhantbajaj6474]

Kudos to the creators like you for shedding light on the dark side of education and inspiring us to push for positive change. This video serves as a powerful reminder that we have the responsibility to build an inclusive and equitable education system for future generations.

[@Ananya-we2fo]

Thank you so much Tharun for this video. I was feeling extremely low. And I love how few months ago, on a Saturday night I was feeling low just like today and then you posted your placement documentary which made me feel like I am not the only person struggling. And today, you again pumped me up the same way. How crazy it is that people being so far away from you and not even knowing you personally, are able to make you feel listened, even more than the ones physically present with you?! Internet is a blessing

[@random--xtro3552]

As a introvert Indian that's nothing new to me

[@sahanb6980]

Man you really bought a change in me!!..I will never given up on my passion!..hatss off to you buddy

[@AdityaRaj-fz4xn]

Tharun, this is one of the best video I've ever seen on youtube. You just didn't talked on the surface but did a deep dive into the issue.

[@aryanwalde8649]

It feels inappropriate to comment on a video on a topic like this, but bro your editing skillllssszzz! Just left me amazed everytime.

[@ayushiarya6560]

From last year my mental health is constantly degrading. I am having sudden panic attacks and have shallow breathing. I don't enjoy doing what I enjoyed doing earlier. I don't even want to study now. My appetite also went down and still no one noticed. They just think I am being lazy and doing nothing 🙃

[@Aristotle821]

Seek help either from online psychological counselor or your area's best psychiatrist. Psychiatrist are not that expensive

[@indian_otaku.]

I completely agree with your points mentioned in the video and thanks for making the video on it👍 One thing i wanna highlight or just some advice from my experience for students who are in 6-9th Plss go explore your interest and find what excites you just go with the flow and let yourself dive into the deeper realm Try new things which are not taught in school Have a broader perspective don't be too focused on academics Remember the time u have won't be there for long. The moment u entered 10 ur life will take a drastic turn and u will never be able to give much time to things u like i am already regretting not being able to do so And for those who are depressed just Remember one thing Life is too precious to be wasted on things like suicide

[@euclix1601]

Im the kind of person who says suicide is not the only option there's definitely some other way to escape our problems but now i can understand why people feel suicidal... I attended NEET exams for past 2 years(3 attempts) in first 2 attempts i was not doing my best but doing little preparation and didn't get the seat as i expected but this time i was so into the preparation but my love life ruined my mental health completely... The person who was with me for all my ups and down left me and i couldn't able to touch my book for the last 6 months and i failed miserably in my last attempt... I've never felt this much miserable in my life... My relatives' children younger than me passed the neet exams but me , daughter of TWO doctors couldn't able to achieve it broke me... I failed as a daughter it hurts so bad my parents spent thousands of money and my dad even when he had health issues will take me to neet institution daily every morning and afternoon all in vain....💔 I'll never forgive myself for breaking their trust and I'll never trust or love a person more than my parents here after...I'm tired of being depressed, as a single child it's my duty to take care of my parents I will work hard for them here after.

[@highspeedtechnical]

The main thing is fees see most of the students have a middle-class family and sometimes university fees can get up 1.5 lakh to 4 lakh per year so they can't afford a failure and yes if they fail the whole life is ruined and they are gone off to suicide. normally in other country education is affordable like Japan if they failed one time, they could easily try it again.

[@pruthvirajkhade71]

I suffered That Same Pain in My Recent Days When I Am 18 , I Going through very Depression phase And Anxiety is Killing Me And I Attached Through Bad Habits . I am A Introvert Person , Not actually But I Become Because Of My Back Family Stories And Family Dramas That Make Me Introvert , So I don't have A Friend That Can Listen My Thoughts . But No One Came to Help , Not Help , I Just Want A Person That , Just Listen To My Thoughts And Give Me A Way To Escape My Pain , I texted Alot On Instagram Reels In Comment But Reality is No One Cares 🙂 That Day From I Realised Truth , This Is A Cursed World And Full Of Fake Peoples and Never Gonna Change...!! That Day From I Started Giving More Value To Myself And Those Who Really Love Me ...!!

[@pruthvirajkhade71]

@svjbhjkzo1988 yes..!! But You Have To Convert Your Pain in To Power 💙✨

[@Aristotle821]

Seek help either from online psychological counselor or your area's best psychiatrist. Psychiatrist are not that expensive

[@Khushleen.sidhu.]

Apart from the topic, your editing bro 🔥🔥 . I don't have words to appreciate it...❤ Keep going man!!

[@sohambiwalkar725]

i watched the entire video and loved it. As a 10th grader i am sharing my story as i live in pune my school is the region of ambegoan (cant tell the name) 1) In our school the math teacher(our class teacher) only give priority to toppers as they can make her famous by scoring out of. 2) She thinks everyone has tutions so no need of teaching them she just goes on computer and displays a worksheet from internet. 3)I had doubt and asked her at first she didnt entertain me but after some time she had to and when i asked about my doubt she said why dont you study at home and give attention in school the chapter was started just 3days ago in the school so i didnt had time to study. 4) she always gives so much homework and gives less time to submit it. 5) She is always yelling on some one as one of my friend had a doubt she just scolded him in front of whole class.

[@misti23838]

I must say this is the best video ever on suicide cases , depression etc .... All the best tharun bhaiya ..... U r awesome ..... Hats off to u ❤

[@mandeepsingh-zh3ye]

This is not a masterpiece coz it doesn't want to be ....It's outstanading...It's a solution .....Tharun bhaiya thank you ...I failed iit jee twice ..and learnt very usefull things ...but always mocked by parents....

[@MohitKumar-pv7df]

The friendship thing you discussed is actually so truee, I think if we have even 1 friend who's with us, this shared struggle eliminates the competitive pressure, now we actually feel normal, otherwise we think the world is hostile and we can't go anywhere. I am doing CA and the very nature of course is to stay at home and study, having good friends gives rise to healthy competition, now you are happy as well as actually competitive. I would definitely advice someone going through depression to just find 1 friend who's struggling as well and you both will be so much better together.

[@appleitree]

I appreciate how much Vedantu is giving support to all students. i recently saw a celebration livestrwam after jee mains for those even who made the slightest effort like their 11th syllabus. Thank Tharun for your awesome videos. This is very much needed. We were always taught to explore and have creativity and curiosity. But where you are given to memorise a lot of stuff and is more focused on the grades, only to forget what you've learnt quickly, is only making us to lose curiosity and look up to knowledge as pressure-edge.

[@Snoozybro]

7:56 is the inner voice of all the aspirants.. This video is as important for parents and elders as it is to the aspirants..! Thank you for this video anna..💛

[@ptthomas5270]

Very true

[@yashaswipathak7442]

This time I felt like i am watching a documentary like the way he address all the points,the way of telling every single fact with experience man hat's off to you ,👏♥️ this video was literally needed.

[@saanvichakraborty6649]

I am in class rn and was really sad abt not being able to give my best . Now I feel much better and I promise to give my best and achieve the target which I have set for myself. Thank u so much. You are like an angel. Seriously... All the best for whatever you want to do

[@okaynehaaa]

thank you so much tharun for making this video. You are the only one who can understand what we are going through. Support you until the very end.💗

[@Steve.the_goat]

I want to play football, i really like it but if I'll tell to my parents i want to play soccer don't want to study at all already denied. In India its really to just ratta mar and bring more than 90% if u can't then well we all know what will happen. Everyone says live in your dreams but reality is we can't. Nobody will support. Sad but true 😥 #changetheeducationsystem

[@Brainshort]

A best way to get rid of depression is just go to your village or spend times where there are a lot of known ppls and fun with them. Really you will forgot all the depression and other stuff! This is proved and tried by me just few days ago like 1 or 2 days ago ❤ You will find the real sukooon !

[@cesraw]

people in the village will ask about boards marks

[@Brainshort]

@@cesraw not at all men bcz i recently visited my fua's home and there many more relatives were there only 1 or 2 asked me abt that and i freely told them that this much i got confidently and like no one cared abt my marks bcz everyone was so happy to see me and specially my bhabhis who are very much funnny ! Your true relatives dont cares for your marks they just care for you and if they cared abt your marks then they are not your relatives !

[@cesraw]

@@Brainshort i see, good relatives :)

[@Aristotle821]

1st of all depression is an disease and it needs treatment.

[@user-qc5vp6fv3i]

I am so thankful to my family as they motivate me in every situation when I was sad about my studies.

[@dreamergirl7117]

I've done good in my school...well,good is a very precious word for an average student of a middleclass family..after 10th ..I selected bi.p.c...yeah..the only goal for me know is getting seat in MBBS...but my 10th marks was not good enough for me to get seat in best section in our intermediate clg...so I really messed up with the preparation...I think that's the first time I have come to know how people treat u if u are a failure.but I didn't gave up cause I want to prove myself...basically that's my character...but..even after 3 attempts..i can't get the seat...slowly I started loosing my selfconfidence..now I am doing other course ..but I am not satisfied with that..cause that's not what I want !even now I can't study properly...I started discouraging myself that you are a failure...this trauma is killing me!I hope nobody suffers like me!I really hope some day I too be happy!..with only that hope I controlling my suicidal thoughts!..ss..all you need good people around you!😢

[@Aristotle821]

Seek help either from online psychological counselor or your area's best psychiatrist. Psychiatrist are not expensive

[@Aristotle821]

Watch maths unplugged ep2 eye opener

[@user-hj6kg9me3p]

Without "gurukuls" we are not able to achieve real success... Where students learn everything from internal to external...🤩

[@Udayakumaran008]

As am a class 11 th student i used to see your videos regularly! The content you provide is awesome bro 😇

[@Scavengers-ih2md]

The dark side of our indian education system,90% of our education tends towards being theoretical leaving almost next to nothing scope for practical learning and research. The children are provided with no space for creative learning and thinking and are constrained to a specific syllabus. The purpose of education is to prepare one for leading a quality life.

[@resolver246]

I will be in depression because of my parents. They always impose their ideas on me. Nowadays i think it would be better for me without parents 🥺

[@chuparustum_3.o]

4:18 I was expecting Mohit ryan sir to start the discussion but Arvind sir is also a very great teacher and aspiration for me ... A lots of thanks to Arvind sir😊😊😊

[@chuparustum_3.o]

I'm preparing for jee2024 And i have belief in myself that I will definitely score AIR 1

[@Sanjay_Narayanan]

Waste sir doesn't know English itself

[@subhrojitdas9541]

​@@Sanjay_Narayanan dumba*s why do you see english as a measurement of intelligence....this is also our fault...you think people who can speak in english are better...why..cant you understand hindi or any other language?...ITS JUST A LANGUAGE...you are the fool here

[@ammukodijuttu]

@@Sanjay_Narayanan language doesn't matter, the way of teaching matters..

[@aditsaini5094]

​@@chuparustum_3.o bruh forget results what that man said " love the process"

[@k.prakashreddy6513]

I have waited for so damn long time! Finally it's here.always love u tharun❤

[@TharunSpeaks]

❤❤

[@hurshkumar2008]

At the point of time when I feel like giving up Tharun; you are the only person who ignites me towards my dreams I'm trying my best to enjoy the way :)

[@aryanraj25]

this was the topic to be really addressed thanks tharun

[@TharunSpeaks]

❤❤

[@Being_Ashu631]

When i failed in physics in my Ist mid term exam in my 12th ,,,everybody criticize me even my parents they told me you are wasting our money obviously they gonna tell ,,,,but no body ask me what's the reason behind it ,,,,not even single person,,i have to deal with the depression for a week then i fought back ,,somehow manage to get decent mark ,,this is reality ,,,,everybody runs after results no body ever ask you ,,how is your preparation

[@soumodeepchatterjee3248]

And even if they about your preparation, they essentially would ask something like mock test me kitne aa rhe hai, not about if you are understanding the subjects taught in school and are you enjoying it somewhat or not🥲

[@Being_Ashu631]

@@soumodeepchatterjee3248 yeahhhh literally no body ,,,,and those bloody Friends they would show sympathy outside but inside they would be happy enough ,,,,

[@sankar7446]

literally this is the earliest time that I came to any video ever. If u are seeing this just wanted to say Love you Bro. Will achieve position greater than you someday. You are my inspiration.

[@TharunSpeaks]

Thanks man. All the besttt ❤

[@sankar7446]

@@TharunSpeaks Oh My GOD. ❤

[@diyajain1830]

Exactly, we all Indians are just running in a ratrace where pressure of expectations is just making us go haywire. Finding that one person whom you could vent out is like looking for a rare gemstone, because almost everyone in today's world has got the thing of being judgemental with or without intention. Being a jee aspirant and failing to meet my parents expectations seems like the biggest failure nowadays and I personally end up overlooking the fact that i tried my best, and always end up in self blame cycle which lasts forever. NO i was never a failure until the education system, expectations and acing every race drowned me. YES I'm still struggling and giving my best, and to all my fellow aspirants you are giving your best don't let anything undermine your faith and belief in yourself. One thing in today's world is that you gotta become your own best friend and introspect on the fact what could have been a better approach or what went wrong whenever you feel sad, we need to self heal, we all are together in this

[@jeet7238]

my jee went through lockdown and being a kid who always learns through the class itself, I suffered a lot. didn't take a drop since I had MANY doubts on what if the same repeats again? because even in the 5 months I attended college, teachers at Narayana were so damn discouraging. Joined whatever college I got through counselling. but now I regret. I don't have people of my kind in my college AT ALL. my dad told me to take a drop because he knew I wasn't like everybody else.but I was just so scared. now everything is just fucked up. it's a pain for me EVERYDAY to go to the college. so much frustration. more emphasis on end semester i don't even know if my college is giving me the right direction, I mean if I work hard to follow whatever they say then will the end be worth it? I'm crying even while typing. I need people like me, I need friends, I need a good environment.

[@dodokoi036]

have you applied for bitsat this year? there is a dual degree programme at bits, you can get into it even with 180 marks, after that you can work hard in your first year to get your desired second degree(like cse) it would be much easier to get cse this way than to get it through bitsat directly... you would find like minded people at bits and also get a second chance to get your desired degree... if money isnt a constraint for you

[@jeet7238]

@wtf thanks, that is what I'm doing now, but still longing for company, it makes things easier you know...

[@jeet7238]

@@dodokoi036 oh I'll check that out asap

[@jeet7238]

@@dodokoi036 bro can I apply now? how do I need to prepare?

[@dodokoi036]

@@jeet7238 ah sorry, the last date to apply was 12th June... That's why i had asked if you already applied... But maybe you can try mailing to bits admission staff, who knows they might accept it, since session 2 examination begins from 18 June till 22 June

[@anuprogaminglive4686]

This topic has to be arised. At least there's somebody who understands our problems. Love you bhaiya❤️

[@ishantlanjewarofficial]

When the parents/teacher has expectations of good marks for a student and he tries his best he is at a risk of,either he will be coming with the expectations of them or if he is not able to do he gets into depression...That's what I relate to...

[@poojabhati5080]

By seeing Arvind Kalia sir and Mohit sir i remember my jee time preparation their videos helped me a lot 💖

[@user-xg1jv4rw7e]

Problems: 1)only very few streams in India for good career Everyone only choose from software engineer, finance, law, doctor, government job, ias 2) extremely high expectations from parents 3) lack of acknowledgement of mental health 4) herd mentality and obsession with scope of career & respect from society

[@xtr3me343]

how to show this to your parents without showing them this

[@arif6669]

❤Tharun , In the current situation, they don't give any importance to education, their parents are also at fault in this situation, but those who can overcome the various obstacles and bullish discipline situation around them are the ones who are successful in life.

[@HKN_IITK]

Bro 1/7 is just a number everyone can tell at this stage 😓

[@flobixy]

Dear Sir, I have enrolled in a reputable coaching institute that provides modules containing high-level questions for JEE Advanced. Approximately 100-120 questions per chapter are included in these modules. Additionally, they provide a CPP (Chapter Practice Problem) booklet for each chapter, which consists of questions at the JEE Main level. After completing these modules, they provide a work book that contains questions from four chapters, covering JEE Advanced, JEE Main, and board exams. The class notes also contain high-level questions, including basic and advanced concepts. For physics, I rely on NCERT, exemplar books, and HCV (Concepts of Physics by HC Verma), as well as previous year question papers. For chemistry, I study from NCERT, exemplar books, and Disha's book of previous year questions. For mathematics, I use NCERT, exemplar books, Disha's book of previous year questions, and the Black Book. I have also enrolled in an online coaching program called PW, where I am working on their modules. Although the questions in this program touch upon the required level, the amount of practice is sufficient. Is it necessary for me to continue with this additional coaching? Apart from these commitments, I am unable to find time for additional studies, and the exams are held every 15 days, covering the entire syllabus. Considering these circumstances, should I refrain from pursuing postgraduate studies? Thank you for your guidance. Yours sincerely,

[@bhavanipakki3524]

youre from FIITJEE arent you?

[@utsavbhardwaj7505]

First of all it's not "THE INDIA EDUCATION SYSTEM " it is "THE BRITISH EDUCATION SYSTEM" tq

[@parthtiwari7881]

Today I saw a also video of Arvind sir(vedantu) talking on depression and anxiety and you guys are planning something. Hope it will benefit the students ✨

[@elitetreater]

In current situation, we are in the "race of marks".. and that's the main worst situation and obviously dark side of our Indian Education system...

[@AnuradhaDubey...]

Literally..! Damnnnn❤ I poured myself completely into your video.. if I can concise my feelings into one sentence about this video then I would say I am speechless....💯 Proudly love you bhaiya ❤❤

[@totalmakerz]

bro I'm currently studying 12th standard in Andhra state board. My inter first year results were not so good. I've worked hard by balancing board preparation and also JEE mains preparation. Most of my friends who didn't even wanted to study hard got very good marks. And then I realized that only marks are important not how you prepared. I can say that even the teachers who evaluate your paper only sees the textbook definition that's written correctly and not the one that you 've written on your own which is also correct. The whole education system is wrong. And now I don't even have the confidence that can I even pass the 12th boards.😟

[@lord_htnameh]

AP state board results are completely useless believe me even if you get 370/470 it doesn't matter Where as getting a seat in IIT or may be some top NIT/IIIT will largely effect your future Stop blaming on state exams and focus on JEE mains a lot It would help you for EAMCET also all the best

[@totalmakerz]

@@lord_htnameh yeah, thanks bro

[@reddevilplayz7544]

Who loves THARUN ❤

[@Sridhar42168]

this is truly a hidden gem(not to say the views are less), more people need to see this and understand this

[@siri5829]

stmt:- current education system makes us feel that everyone else is a competitor not a collaborator ....so trueee 💔🥺