The Dark Side of Validation - Daniel Sharman

In this conversation, Scott and Daniel Sharman discuss their experiences growing up and navigating the education system. They explore the challenges of feeling different and not fitting in, the impact of societal values and tests on self-worth, and the fear of being labeled as 'bad.' They also reflect on the cultural norms and attitudes towards being gay and how they have evolved over time. The conversation highlights the importance of compassion, understanding, and creating supportive environments for young people to thrive. In this part of the conversation, Daniel and Scott discuss changing values in society, the dark side of validation, the effects of late puberty, understanding sex addiction, the destructive patterns of addiction, self-sabotage and toxic relationships, the spiritual solution to addiction, the need for extreme preparation, facing intimacy, and using personal experiences to help others.

[@katbonnymusic]

Daniel's ability to "connect and make people feel like they are the only person in the room". So well put, and I can attest to that having briefly met him at an event in London last year. I didn't even know who he was then. Now I am excited to follow future developments, I can already see how his work exploring intimacy is surely gonna be epic. I hope I can catch any London happenings. Thank you so much to you both for another powerful, vulnerable and needed conversation. So happy and proud to see men grow into their true power, the rise of the wise masculine is so needed, I see you both and I appreciate you 🙏

[@LovelyArcticWolf-vo1dh]

I understand what Daniel is saying about self sabotage and needing to find meaning in the spiritual to find the balance and alignment to be able to pursue opportunities in life. Well said.

[@taniasavoca8452]

...wonderful!!!! it's beautiful, I've listened to the podcast countless times... it's always exciting!!! Hearing Daniel's voice is pure emotion. This improvement of his indicates his immense depth, his great intelligence. He is an absolutely fantastic man. thank you so much for this splendid work! I hope there are more!!! Great...I love Daniel madly, a splendid and wonderful person...he deserves all the good in this world!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Geraldine-my2cb]

This is such a tremendously important conversation, and I loved it!❤ Daniel reveals himself so openly and genuinely. Kudos to him for that! I listened to his "2 Lads" podcasts with Leggy Langdon as well. Daniel has come a long way and continues to improve himself. I believe that it is so important to know who YOU are as a person, to LOVE and respect yourself, to accept others for who they are and,then, you will be able to Love others. I greatly respect and admire Daniel, not only as a gifted and talented actor, but also also for his endeavors to realize his own value as a good and worthy human being. I am a retired middle school/ high school English teacher, so I had to deal with adolescents and all that entailed. I'd love to be able to chat with Daniel myself...wishful thinking :) Thank you Scott for having Daniel on.

[@jessicajoy4877]

I wish the education system were designed to cater to children who think differently and could adapt to various skill sets, ensuring no child feels excluded due to differences in learning abilities. Some children grasp concepts quickly, while others require more time to understand. A balanced approach is essential. I admire how Daniel has self-reflected and reshaped himself after facing challenges. What stands out is his ability to learn from past mistakes and take proactive steps to improve. This aspect showcases his intelligence. I assume he has delved into the psychology behind personal growth, given his fondness for reading. This is one of the reasons I admire him and I wish I could have a chance to talk to him 🙂

[@dianasfabulouschannel9825]

Daniel, you are "The David"❤

[@dianasfabulouschannel9825]

I choose YOU Daniel! You can do anything, stop judging yourself, just let it be, be youself, we only have one life and when we get old you realise all those things, norms, rules, judgement, none really matter

[@dianasfabulouschannel9825]

An absolute work of art, Daniel! 🫦🫦💋💋💋💋💋💋❤️❤️💔

[@Heike-no1uc]

The problem about value is to see or recognize your own value. Many people can tell you over and over again that you are valuabale. But if it doesn't reach deep within you, you don't see it. And school and society have a hugh influence on it. Especially when you at a very young age. So probably you have to work on this damage for your hole life. It was a very interessting episode and I am looking forward for the next. So thank you for that.

[@jeannettevandelft3021]

Thank you guys. I loved the 2lads podcasts, and this is just as good. Moving forward ❤

[@saragunn3960]

You guys are awesome together you need to do more. I loved listening to you both talk.

[@alejandraalcocer3555]

I loved the episode 😸💗

[@dianasfabulouschannel9825]

I've been trying to talk to Daniel for ages...

[@dianasfabulouschannel9825]

Please talk to me Daniel, any chat will do...😰😥

[@dianasfabulouschannel9825]

Daniel I keep trying to contact you on a number of apps with no success. For years. Please talk to me