The darker side of the incel world | Uncovering Incels (Part 2) | Short Documentary

[@SBSTheFeed]

Watch the previous episode of Uncovering Incels here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4jIfKaEhcmbg9k

[@navalfa7291]

Are there female Incels too? Just curious, because we should arrange them to date each other. May be that should solve the problem. Wonder if you could investigate.

[@carroeriksson38]

@@navalfa7291 as Ive understood it, there are incel women (femcel) but incel men does not accept them as such since it's not "possible" for women to be involountarily celibate. Again, as Ive understood it, they also do not want to date "anyone ugly" either, but the absolute main point is that they inherently do not see themselves as worthy of love mostly of how they look like. I am no expert though, just what Ive gathered.

[@ThelouwseFD]

Funny because all my bullies were men and yet I never joined a men hating website nor did I fantasize about being violent towards them.

[@saharkhalili5303]

"Women have it easy", with no awareness of the violence and disfigurement he wanted to inflict on women he was attracted to.

[@katz6582]

Ryan is a good looking guy with a sensitive soul. It is heartbreaking that he was taken down by this toxic group.

[@bellekordo]

I want to give credit where credit is due. Congratulations to "Ryan" for recognizing he was on a bad path...one that leads down into a hole. He took responsibility for himself and is trying to get out of the victim mentality, and make a change. It is work. And he is doing it. Proud of you ! Wish the rest of these men could pull themselves out of the hole they have dug for themselves. But sometimes a hole is a warm comfy, if lonely, place to be....easier to stay in that hole.

[@NekoEspada]

That girl wasn't an incel, she was just lonely and friendless. 14 to 16? You shouldn't even be thinking about having sex, how can you be an incel?

[@amukbir8777]

wasnt incel only for guys? im confused now

[@nomadsland8322]

“I really struggle with expressing myself to anybody at all” Simple but hits my heart. For lack of better term, that’s my inner demon too. Just feels like a meaningless and worthless endeavor 99% of the time.

[@Hendy5]

Power through it bro. Every day is a chance to improve yourself. Loving others starts with taking care of yourself.

[@grosenj]

"These days I feel pretty neutral about women...I don't hate them as violently as I used to" is a pretty wild statement to make.

[@priyanshusinha646]

I hope ryan reaches the state of mind that he's trying to reach and i hope the others do too, it mostly seems like an extremely toxic state of mind

[@zeamay4490]

I know him and I definitely think he will he’s actually a really nice guy just been ig kinda brainwashed

[@theragoooverlord5021]

@@zeamay4490 at 21 years old I can tell you it's over for him. He would have got somewhere already. He listened to his inner voice and has got critical thinking skills. Your standing in society is set up early.

[@j.d.s.8132]

Reality is a "toxic state of mind" then? Do you actually, really believe that hating someone developed only from online forums you don't find unless you search for them? What do you think makes in/cels like me seek out these forums? Reality.

[@Walkingadversity]

Although I’m not an incel by association, I still feel frustrated d resentful at times. I’ve tried improving myself physically and socially to be desirable to people. I can’t even make friends. Sometimes the loneliness builds up and I feel hateful. Other days I feel a little happier. The resentment comes and goes but I’m tired of feeling resentful. Deprivation, loneliness, rejection, and isolation despite trying can really f**k up your mind.

[@tiernanwearen8096]

Tell me about it

[@sekovittol3124]

Social media and cellphones, before those solving loneliness was just a walk through the neighbourhood, now the hood is empty, like a ghost town. And those who are there, are plugged into somewhere else, where you are not.

[@letsdothis9063]

Its so strange to me, because this community wasn't around when i was younger. I had low self esteem, but had better luck with girls than some other guys. I know guys that were virgins when we graduated highschool, who have gone on to date and marry. Life is tough. Social media is ruining people's lives. Most of these guys would have been fine, if they didn't have this "community" to bounce negative ideas around with.

[@sonofagreatsouthernland]

Jesus this is sad. This paranoia where young males view and value sexual relationships in such a bizarre way stirred on by social media is a sickness. There's nothing healthy about it at all on both sides. The inability of youth to find, make and keep relationships without using SM is absurd, and it'll only get worse. Just tragic.

[@iamNell]

As a black 'average looking' woman I'm basically at the bottom of the spectrum in terms of desirable based on society's definition of beauty, yet i dont walk around with hate in my heart for anyone. I dont hate women more beautiful/desirable and i dont hate on guys who aren't attracted to me, these so called incels need to lose that chip on their shoulder. Women don't owe you anything, focus on yourself, be a good person, get a life and you'll find your person and if you dont it's not the end of the world.

[@bbbT859]

Spot on👏

[@livalittle13]

Not that it matters what I think or say... but you're gorgeous... obviously inside... and out!

[@talorpeart3436]

Exactly their pathetic btw I think your Beautiful and your obviously beautiful on the inside too that is what make you different from these losers

[@Womenturnmedown]

Women don't owe us anything I know that but becoming a good person and getting a life doesn't make any sense too still they won't come to us it's a lie and stop playing the victim card average looking women still get love because they control Dating and hookups and sex everything.

[@bayek9869]

While I don’t like Incels and I’m not one myself I think you miss the point. As a woman you might be low on the spectrum but you can have romantic or sexual interactions with a man if you want. Incels absolutely CANT unless they pay for it. Woman that are a 1/10 at the bottom of the barrel can still get a man even if they had no limbs not to sound funny. I think it’s something a woman will never understand because they have no idea what it’s like to be in the body of a man and vise versa.

[@MrJamieb147]

I'm surprised that there hasn't been more research on the relationship between autism and identification with the incel movement. The one thing that almost all incels suffer from is a deficit in social skills, presumably for many biological and environmental reasons. If people really cared there would be an organisation to improve their social skills and teach them "game" in an ethical manner.

[@AMultipolarWorldIsEmerging]

What I find extremely annoying about the phrase “incel culture” and the word “incel” is that I’ve been a very lonely person a lot of my life, I’ve found it very difficult to find relationships, and there are times that yes it has made me angry. But that doesn’t mean I’m toxic to women or wish any harm to women. Now whenever people talk about men who have a hard time finding a partner it’s automatically associated with “incel” and all these associations. Loneliness is an epidemic in modern late capitalist society. But for some reason there always needs to be some kind of category so they can call it a subculture and dismiss it or call it dangerous. It’s an emotionally violent society / world we live in. If this subculture exists then it’s a socio-economic problem it doesn’t just appear out of nowhere it’s systemic

[@sarahjaye4117]

Good point.

[@ricardostorrie4150]

Agreed

[@iLilith11]

Oh no, cope harder 😅

[@elminero49]

I'm sure you have experienced a lot of loneliness in your life. Assuming you are female if you wanted to find a sexual partner, you could have find one. Sexual needs are not shallow for those that can't find someone. I've heard women say, "Well one time I walked into a nightclub and didn't talk to anyone all night. It wasn't no big deal. Men have no reason to complain". These women still can find someone to have sex with and completely miss the point make an invalidating statement such as "I’ve been a very lonely person a lot of my life". The "incel culture" at least gives the celibate men validation that they didn't get from you. I grew up during the tail end of the sexual revolution. As a teenager most of the kids I knew thought we all get laid eventually and we did. A lot of young men today just don't have hope while a young woman walks into a nightclub and she is treated like a celebrity just for being female.

[@StripperPriestess]

Ryan was only 15 when he got involved in the online groups. Its sick its like they are grooming, young boys like Ryan who was bullied by girls. Luckily, he pulled away from it, and not only that he grew up to be a nice looking guy. I was bullied by boys from age 10-15. I used to have a big nose, was skinny as a bone, and crooked teeth, before I grew into my body, got my teeth fixed and my nose done. Because of the bullying I developed an obession with wanting to be sexy to prove the bullies wrong, it eventually resulted in me secretly looking up grown women as a teen who worked in so called sexy jobs, and me gravitating towards working in the adult industry which Im still trying to escape.

[@howardc7820]

Ryan hasn't changed, it's simmering beneath and if anything goes wrong with his relationship, he's right back into it.

[@liv328]

Ryan seems like a sweetheart that was swayed by a toxic community. He is so young still, I really hope the very best for him.

[@pamelasloan1664]

Mankind is going down the plug hole

[@obiwanshinobi5098]

Just so people know virginity for 18 to 30 year old men is estimated to be around 40% now in the west.

[@bevs9995]

I think only those stats for 24-30 are important.

[@nagmerrie4600]

I feel like a non aggresive female incel. Like woman face this shit too. Or well ugly or fat woman. I think woman tend to implode inwards while men explode outwards. But the frustration is the same

[@Revolver1701]

There can be such an issue with connecting with others. I’m on the autism scale but am able to interact successfully with others and have been married for many years. But it can be a painful learning process.

[@rojcouz2267]

ive known an incel he just cried everyday he was a peaceful gguy i saw no hate in his eyes or speech. he was just short and ugly to be honest and really depressed

[@sophiaclements4918]

“Treat them with respect, treat them like people” that’s a tough ask when you don’t give women that same respect….

[@GokuSilver337]

They're not sad because they cant attain meaningless sex. They're sad because their life has no meaning when sex is divorced from purpose.

[@hipoint40cal39]

The last time i held hands with a girl was about 1987...the last time i hugged a woman was about 1994... life is hell

[@GokuSilver337]

They're not sad because they can't find, "sex' they're sad because a relationship used to come packaged with MEANING and belonging in society. The term, "incel" is a shallow misappropriation tha is designed to hide the actual issue. Men want to have purpose, not "sex" in the way that it is presented in post modern times

[@iLilith11]

I dated briefly a "former" incel... the guy was *INCREDIBLY TOXIC* and verbally violent. No love & understanding from me or anyone was ever enough for him to get f-ing reasonable about his shortcomings. In the end he almost beat me and I left... *never date males who have resentment towards women* no you will *not* change him 😒

[@vettech_]

I’m so impressed by Ryan’s growth

[@blockshift758]

This is peak documentary. Showed he liked stuff related to anime but didn't make it look like it's the evil that is making him hate woman. Unlike other documentaries related to sad people in the internet.

[@annieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee]

Do these men not believe women get judged on looks lmao

[@johnkyle3128]

I'm 26 and never been with a girl or even been on a date in my life. I'm short 5'5 skinny and have a babyface that still makes me look 16. How on earth do I succeed????? I have it all against me.

[@BloodyHeck]

I'm 54 and on my third wife. Trust me, none of them are worth it. If I didn't have the first two divorces I'd be retired by now. Just live your own life.

[@slizardkelly8460]

Just make friends first, don’t expect anything, just treat girls same as you would a guy friend. then once your friends tell her you have feelings or whatever, if she doesn’t feel the same way that’s fine. Tell her that’s okay you like having her as just a friend. Give it a little time then ask her to introduce you to one of her girl friends. The more girls you have as just platonic friends the more girls you’ll get introduced to and a good word put in, you’ll also learn how to talk to girls comfortably , that’s more important than looks

[@sonofagreatsouthernland]

You gotta stop being so caught up in your so called failings and work on other attributes that attract others. No one likes those that are self absorbed or those drowning in self pity. Concentrate on emitting good energy and you'll find that attracts others. Confidence is key.

[@geraldtherat618]

Brutal

[@daallaad]

Get some hobbies / skills other than the internet and meet some new people .. if you are a nice person doesn't matter how different you look or different your mind is you will find somebody compatible

[@Megshroom]

Gonna need Ryan to drop the link to that cute "be quiet" snail pillow. But also, good for him for recognizing terrible behaviour and trying to change, clearly he has quite a way to go, but taking the first step is important.

[@davidcross4346]

As long as we persist in neglecting and villainizing (instead of humanizing) these young individuals in a negative light, they will remain susceptible to red/black pill ideologies within these communities and will continue to isolate themselves in their self-reinforcing circles, becoming more radicalized.

[@melissam597]

But they are villains? Incels literally advocate for women's autonomy to be taken away as they feel so entitled to women's affection, they believe we shouldn't be able to choose who we date, sleep with, marry, reproduce with etc.

[@makenzienohr4105]

I get what you’re saying but it’s hard to humanize people who fantasize about raping women because they feel inadequate

[@painunending4610]

​@@makenzienohr4105 That's why we need to humanise them BEFORE they get to this point

[@anthonydude]

​@@makenzienohr4105and yet they are actually human... so if we want to solve the problem, we have to

[@sidneyshaw9814]

​@@makenzienohr4105 as of now, the vast majority of them are alienated and nonviolent. Now, not later, now is the time to remind them that things can always get better. If we don't intervene, their numbers will increase and it will snowball until they become the supermajority of young men by the end of the next decade. Not good.

[@kortni_animations]

Literally just saw a video about how powerful our thoughts are. This video is a great example of that video's message.

[@d.3521]

It's over for Touhoucels

[@antoniomoravia1355]

60% of american males in the range 18-30 are single, while 30% of women in the same range are. This is not a niche issue. But you are still talking about it like it is niche.

[@smvwees]

I think the start is to not designate onesself to being an incel, or incel for life, but rather looking elsewhere, not these forums on the internet. I think amongst phantasy, larp, cosplay festivals there are many also outcasts, alt, goth and whatever people you might find connection with.

[@aaronburge7608]

Humans are always attracted to pretty things. What can you do about it, life isn't fair sometimes.

[@YAHsWay]

I knew this guy, who had a crush, on one, of my lady friends. He rode a harley, I guess he thought, that gave him some points😅, was missing a front tooth😮, and wasnt much of a good dressed man; or even tried to smell good. He did own a big house. Anyway, he just couldnt figure, why she was not intetested, in him. I actually had to bring up the tooth, etc. He still thought he was 'gods gift' to women. Years later, still no woman on his, over rated motor-bike😂 Women have senses too...porn can mess people out of REALITY!!!

[@taylorj.5895]

I actually laughed out loud about how “women have it easier”. Just absolutely insane to say this in the same breath as “I’ve wanted to break a woman’s nose just so she wouldn’t be beautiful anymore”. 😂😂😂 sicko

[@liljay300000]

Woman have it easier in some aspects men have it easier in some aspects. In reality to goes both ways.

[@jeffreychandler8418]

did he actually break their nose? no

[@tangbein]

You're missing the point. The possibility of being assaulted by a man is something that may make life more difficult for women than men, but it is only a small possibility. What he was referring to was how it is easier for women to get sex and to be accepted socially.

[@nicktheghostboy]

​@@jeffreychandler8418he didn't but many other's do

[@joshuawatson575]

This was very well done. You all didnt judge them or respond with anger.. that is the root. Nobody listens to them

[@Marv1nTheTopHat]

OF COURSE THE FUMO OWNER IS AN "EX" INCEL 😭😭

[@TreforTreforgan]

Ryan still looks unhinged

[@breakingben9575]

I’m am an incel not a violent one though. Just involuntarily celibate.

[@jaester5212]

Why did he laugh after saying he had rape thoughts ab girls? Mortifying

[@Binod-man]

Fumos jumpscare at 2:26, you have been warned

[@jaughnekow]

Is it illegal to be a virgin? Seems as a man if you're still a virgin automatically is described as an incel. Or maybe I'm misunderstanding? Can someone help me comprehend that please?

[@mdn6554]

It’s OK to be a virgin, it’s perfectly fine. But the issue with it is that they make their virginity as their whole personality. It’s the other side of chosen celibacy or religious based virginity. So it’s okay, but they make their virginity as a “oh woe is me” angle and actively look to blame society for it, without considering the many other reasons

[@qub1234]

you're an incel if you cannot attract women, but not all virgins are incels

[@user-fed-yum]

Google manosphere, you'll find everything you need to know.

[@painunending4610]

'Incel' as a word has so many meanings it has become useless as a label For some people it means violent misogynist and for others it means sad virgin

[@lanistinks]

no its a way of identifying

[@rafaelecattonar1506]

You can not portray incels as serial killers, is like saying that an extreme conservative represents the point of view of all conservative movements or an extreme progressive represent the point of view of all progressive movements.

[@nathanbutcher7720]

You not ugly. You just don't meet enough people and you are probably living in a place you're not appreciated. All that can change when one travels. If you have love to give, go to where it's wanted and needed.

[@allisvain123]

I had this one girlfriend, she was also my last. The stress and hurt from relationship is what I hate. I feel as if I don't want anyone because I am shit and they are shit too. So I come to the conclusion: ''What's the point?'' I personally dislike any gore, it just disgusts me and makes me feel nauseous. I know my mental state ain't good, but I try to at least keep a bit of morality in my head. So that I wont go crazy and do something I would regret later.

[@JoeMama-rf6ys]

I disappointed that this documentary doesn’t have ethnicels in it. JBW is a real thing where it’s almost rare to find a woman saying she doesn’t date white men. Ethnicels almost have no chance of ascending as race is an important factor in dating

[@ihatelensflare]

They probably filtered the ethnic cels out of the casting lmao. Kind of the same way ladies of the night filter them out. There's a lot of young Indian guys in Australia. It's deliberate they've been omitted. Sbs are super woke and wouldn't want to appear racist.

[@Han-nk3io]

Because they are still bluepilled.

[@zminseo]

JBW

[@thesaddestdude3575]

As a Scandinavian i can tell you its just as bad if you're just slightly below average as a white guy, been treated badly by women most of my life.

[@SBSTheFeed]

You'll find some in Part 1 of this doco - check it out here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4jIfKaEhcmbg9k

[@novo_ephemera]

Not all outcasts these days are incels. Remember that everyone some of of us outcasts have our unique stories don't paint a broad brush on all these lonely men

[@BloodyHeck]

Please keep in mind that INCEL comes from Involuntarily Celibate. One study shows that over 30% of men are either still virgins or haven't had sex in the past year. Even a large percentage of men who are actually in relationships would be considered Incels because they're in a sexless relationship. I've been with my current wife for almost 14 years and it's been over a year since we've had sex. Even when we did, it was usually only a few times per year. So, because I'd actually like to have sex but I'm not, by definition, I'm an Incel. Stop taking a small percentage of men in a group and expanding that to represent all men. No, I don't hate women, I'm not violent towards them and I don't rape them. Do I believe a lot of women have unrealistic standards as far as what they want in a man. Most women say they want a man who is both at least 6' tall and earning over $100K, which is only 2% of adult men, so a lot of women pass over good men in search of their dream man who doesn't exist. That is a far cry from hating women and wanting to hurt them.

[@Oddyzation]

In my headcanon, the Fumos reformed "Ryan".

[@aosleosbus6737]

Good luck Ryan, I feel that there is hope for him, he’s a good looking guy and has made that self awareness of that he was Ill really, I hope his path at bettering himself and being more comfortable in himself works!!

[@marsargoxmiso1695]

What’s so crazy and that the guys I see, are not bad looking at all! I am praying that these young men find their path and I pray for Ryan to continue a healthy and fulfilling life, he’s a good looking guy and i hope he finds a relationship that loves, supports and cherishes him, same with the other guys.

[@damongirl66]

They are better looking than they think they are. Men don't have to be Chads, some of which have been the most vacuous, asinine and fatuous individuals I have met because their success with women hinges on how attractive they are. Get shredded at the gym and modify your looks as much as you can/want but above all, find what makes you happy. A happy man is an attractive man.

[@solidfuel0]

I'm not incel , but I think what they are saying is correct. Only the nice looking guys get all the attention and if you born ugly man, you are screwed. Nobody will love you for who you are

[@sebastianwilliams5060]

​@@damongirl66😂 Stop gaslighting. You don't even know what they look like 😂😂😂

[@LoudmouthReviews]

Women find 80% of men ugly. You don't need to be objectively ugly at all you simply need not to be gorgeous to end up alone for life

[@scifirealism5943]

I hope I escape inceldom one day. I'll start by not calling myself incel anymore.

[@jones2277]

these men aren't terrible-looking. their entitlement is the issue. no one is entitled to anything. roseanne is not entitled to chris hemsworth. just because you want a particular woman doesn't entitle you to her, or any woman for that matter. and it doesn't make her a bad person for not wanting you.

[@TomByron-h7s]

I'm disabled so I guess I can pass as a mental cel. I'm a very happy person though. I'll find someone special one day

[@alyssarasmussen1723]

same here 100% but i'm a woman so people wouldnt consider me a cel.. wocel? idk lol

[@Acharmedlife]

A vid about incels focused on a woman and a guy with a girlfriend. Wt?

[@lanistinks]

theres 2 parts

[@GokuSilver337]

The term "incel" carries with it a presupposition that these men are sad because they can't find, "sex" but really it's about a society that only cares ABOUT sex and their higher nature being rejected and obfuscated.

[@dandankokorohikareteku2620]

escortmaxxing is a temporary solution but not viable long term

[@sarahjaye4117]

I’ve never grace that term what is it. Paying?

[@residuefingerz]

Here in texas its a "state jail felony"....which is fine🤷‍♂️...i dont mind breaking dumb laws but it makes it hard to find one that doesnt charge like $1200 for a night....if it was legal i wouldnt be so bitter about it today....im 25 and only ever been rejected....11 times now in 2023 alone...

[@devaxionrl8189]

Escortmaxxing won’t make you feel loved or wanted. It will only give you some sexual gratification and that’s about it.

[@itsjustaname777]

escorts have standards these days. I saw a profile recently in the UK where an escort won't see overweight / balding / bad teeth / short men. lmao!

[@Truthseeker7771000]

The pedophiles in the group need to be jailed. Thank God Ryan was so transparent. These men need mental help. Woman need protection

[@emilie7178]

2:28 The rammie 😭😭😭

[@noahwalker8359]

I could've been that person, but life moves on. The best thing is to focus on who you want to be, even though unrequited love can be disappointing. Oddly enough, I have had better luck during my 30s finding romantic partners (since the beginning of COVID-19 era) than my high school or college years.

[@drrobcwillis]

re. "Oddly enough, I have had better luck during my 30s finding romantic partners (since the beginning of COVID-19 era) than my high school or college years." - That is not in any way "odd". It is the norm because you presumably have financial resources now that you did not have then.

[@kittyestes3656]

Ryan is extremely good looking, I don't know why with such a good head on his shoulders and the ability to tell right from wrong and remove himself from the toxicity he is grouping himself up with these people still.

[@rajanlad]

People want to feel belonged. He was bullied by girls. And maybe apart from his gf. No girl group might have proved his initial experience wrong.

[@fgcpeak9591]

"Extremely good looking". Yet there is no way in hell you or most women would date him. If a man is "extremely good looking", he will NEVER. N.E.V.E.R. struggle with getting sex. You also NEED to have game as a man - you're the one pursuing, so you HAVE to understand women. The burden is ALL on you as a man. And this is why it's damn near impossible for SOME men to succeed in dating

[@ilyrain3540]

It's over for normies. You still have prejudice In you heart do you know why incels are suicidal it's because everyone tyrannizes them. So the only community which does accept them is them also most of the posts are satirical we are diverse. Again not everyone is the same and why do you think it's toxic? More prejudice against incels. he may have friends and there topics he can discuss with other people that may not be accepted in general. Also the first step to Brian washing is to isolate. He can be in many different communities.

[@painunending4610]

None of what you said matters if no one wants you 🤷‍♂️. His reflection skills and moral compass don't get noticed

[@ronnie4661]

You don’t know the harsh reality for men now a days . 95 percent of women are going for 5 percent

[@angereymanmatt]

Ryan, Josh Ruse and Lani - the 3 feds.

[@lakshminarayanmalik7400]

The most important line is --'Treat them like Humans' 😓

[@baileyhallfilms]

this was a eye opening and compelling series of parts on the culture, what reinforces it, whos at risk and science behind it.

[@frailcel]

Thought as much. Another doc that doesn't understand incels, and gets opinions from yet other people who don't understand incels. It seems to me that perhaps the creators of this doc weren't setting out to do so as much as other creators have in the past. Many i've spoken too before, but it's still funny how the chain never ends. Meanwhile projects that cover incels honestly (Naama kates podcast) get little consistent spotlight because it doesn't make for juicy violent headlines... The guy that says "60 terror attacks", not only had that book from laura bates (who evidently knows nothing about incels and creates fiction) next to him but I bet he couldn't even name 10. And of the 10 he'd name, some of them wouldn't even be incels. People complain about incels as if they're some big bad thing (they're not), yet actively demonise them, make them out to be more than just the disaffected, rejected, and hurting people that they are. If Incels were half as dangerous as people like to make out. You'd see weekly examples. And not have to milk a single guy who was questionably incel who did something stupid over 9 years ago... Meanwhile I can find homicides from non-incels in numbers... Every... Single... Day.

[@sean5558]

Actual professional therapy and /or medication and treating as a form of addiction is needed to help someone adjust and move away from incel mindset.

[@tlowensjr]

It is completely natural for most men to live in solitude and never procreate. Mother Nature has flaws and undesirable men are a part of those flaws. Social media has played a part in this mental condition where people cannot distinguish fantasies from reality.

[@reneeschnarr6260]

Why don’t these men realize it’s not easy for women either? Not all of us are beautiful and we’re just as likely to go through that awful awkward stage and not emerge from it. In high school boys would slam classroom doors in my face to make their friends laugh.

[@gregzerovonic2198]

Yeah, I agree, I think most of these Incels have expectations of getting really attractive women and lose there shit they can't

[@ZigDaKid]

tbf i'm a guy and as an experiment I made a dating profile as a girl to see how it was, I made one as a really pretty girl an average one and a really unattractive one, I messaged no one, I did nothing, yet on all the profiles my messages would constantly be coming in

[@TdS07-x8y]

you girls asked then ,why you get insulted by incels !! i understand as an unatractive woman to be hard for ya hunting a chad guy , so stop this bulls..t nonsense

[@scifirealism5943]

I realize this now. I'm still a virgin though.

[@scifirealism5943]

Women can still get laid MORE easily than straight men.

[@LizRehermAnn]

I hope Ryan sees this comment section and realizes he's definitely an attractive likeable guy. Its awesome that he's started to recognize some if the toxic thoughts.

[@Trpmanne]

Not all are virgins. Some are fed up with female nature in general.

[@beganitdidnt6535]

0:41 lol elliot didnt have everything he was below average in looks and height got around 500 a month which is more than most but how is that everything? lol id rather be tall good looking and poor than ugly short and have money

[@sarahjaye4117]

I don’t even get the height thing tbh I mean for caring so much about, it I’m like 1- 2 inches shorter than him and don’t care if a guy is my height or even shorter but I guess society/other women can, I’ve met a couple but yeah I’d rather not be him because torment and wtf. He was physically attractive more than a lot of guys imo def not below average in looks hbut cockiness and the way he was ruined it. His personality and mood / brain disorders and some rich Cali school and liking cheerleader types was the issue and I get that some girls can be seriously mean but he could not seem to empathize in general and was hypersensitive, the latter I grasp. It’s odd, I’m all down on myself but he was like I’m a god they don’t appreciate. Ugh

[@neverlucky1530]

They never show a subfive in these vids

[@xdrazormon454]

I’m a misanthrope and incel but I would never go that far those kind of incels make me sick to my stomach I would’ve left those online community

[@lfields07]

The sympathy in these comments are very scary. There is no justification for men to act this way. Women who have had a terrible time with men their whole lives don't create groups to talk about raping men. These men are terrifying.

[@xhorus88]

Frustrated young men are angry at the modern world for failing them

[@icomefromoogaboogaland]

Yes these young lads are justified for feeling the way they do and so are the women who got 🍇

[@tuinov6286]

Women don't have a terrible time with men. They get asked on dates, get money, attention and love. A small minority gets abused and thats it. These men can't even get a date.

[@brwisnt]

You’d be surprised that femcels exist then

[@ForeverShadowBanned]

Very few of us actually condone doing that to women and the vast majority of us are nonviolent.

[@mariahconklin4150]

They need to get their narcissism in check. Look I'm a female and get turned down you don't see me crying about it. They can do so many other things like: Go to school, get a hobby, etc

[@sharwama992]

Getting turned down and not having people attracted to you at all are two different things.

[@vklnew9824]

You think you're perfect?

[@Womenturnmedown]

because your gender controls everything you decide whom to love or date or hook up the Attractive one or the ugly/Short one. (I know ugly/short definitely not because that's why incels exist)

[@adamturner3797]

When ryan was on about those dismembering vids ive seen them and can say its so easy to access

[@rangapal7949]

The only reason “Ryan” broke out of this phase is because he’s good looking lmao. Literally proves the point

[@angereymanmatt]

ikr?😂

[@mshoney9301]

he's still lonely though, just not as toxic anymore

[@EA-js1me]

We should really find a way to ban the Internet for minors.

[@FluffyAmyNL]

I do understand them but life is more then just finding a partner to me atleast.

[@StopLyingBro]

It's Over Bro! Another Brutal Propaganda Pill

[@lizanna6390]

It sad when young lonely men are looking for connection and brainwashed by these forums and encouraged into misogynistic thoughts that can lead to action.

[@varuniscoming]

Bcoz we can't get love so we have to do all that like meeting like minded people for satisfaction Simple

[@huluqi3972]

I think the society plays a big roll on this phenomenon It's everywhere(most places) you see, either on the internet or real life(bill/ads boards on road side/TV(shows)/even science books) , that it's mostly one male with multiple female companions, which forms/spreads the idea that male are very diversed in ranks, and the most 'wonderful/powerful' man is (surely/mostly) the one with dozens of females, and it's imposed on real life that someone(male) is able to get access to the resources multiple(dozens to thousands, to millions?) times greater than other ppl.(and supported by both old males/females, if the old ppl are(will be) always in charge in society) However, the situation is, due to the brainwashing effects of reality control(or evolution by human decision/choice by the leading cause of braiwashing,resulting the biological difference as now), there aren't so many females for males, like the ratio of male/female is even bigger than 1 in a lot places, then, if the one male gets dozens of females, where the other males go get female, it's deeply written in society(by long term brainwashing) that a significant part of male population are(will be) non-existent and disposable(being spent as human resources, either in war or live/work in disasterous conditions then die 'intentionly unexpectly', so the ratio of dozens females VS. 1 males can be sustained

[@florindalucero3236]

I wonder if there are any "incels" who aren't on the autism spectrum. And stop calling them a "community" all that does is hint at some sort of legitimacy.

[@OccidentalAryan]

A lot are, however at the end of the day looks is what matters the most.

[@weholdparties]

I hope it's fairly obvious to everyone that Ryan hasn't learned anything. He doesn't take responsibility for what lead him to that group and the disgusting behavior he exhibited, and he made it clear that he distanced himself from those groups because they turned on him. The fact that he can still say that at best he feels "neutral" toward women while having a girlfriend is frankly terrifying and I hope she left him for her safety. If he can't acknowledge his responsibility for what lead him down that path and take accountability for it then he will never get better. At the end he appeals to the humanity of bigoted sadists, as if it's the responsibility of women and the other targets of their ire to coddle them to avoid terrorist attacks. Absolutely not.

[@beganitdidnt6535]

they always leave theres always an excuse

[@jaylucas8352]

The problem remains. Society is screwed up sorry.

[@lyngarner3893]

I feel glad you came forward

[@xianxinzeng445]

Lani is no way to be outcasted, she looks great.

[@RichardSmith-fx9dm]

Just don't deal with women. Period. Your not missing anything special, believe me 💯

[@alyssarasmussen1723]

as a women myself who has attraction to other women what about me? i mean i could touch my own boobies but i've always wondered what another booby felt like lol

[@harsh3948]

"It's ok to be broke. You're not missing anything special, believe me" - a rich guy

[@verymen104]

@@harsh3948 lol

[@NickGreiner1988]

It's still over for longhaircels.

[@GretaZ-dd3lu]

"The darker side of the incel world" ...is there a lighter side? 🤣

[@derek5168]

The problem is these young men live in their own headspace due to some negative experiences with women and don't seem to get the big picture that most women aren't like that saying to themselves there isn't a woman who would date me and worse having violent feelings towards women they should forget about what others have and think about all the other opportunities life has to offer like a hobby or a passion if they just stop being one dimensional and just let life happen both good and bad then they wouldn't be so hung up

[@Han-nk3io]

You are making a lot of assumptions here. Incels can be interesting people, they do have hobbies. It is about their looks that they are not seen as attractive to women. If you think women don't care about looks you are dead wrong. Plus women got a lot of options due to online dating so they will never give an ugly guy a chance .

[@sonofagreatsouthernland]

For real!

[@LoudmouthReviews]

Why do they have negative experiences with women? Almost like women have been cruel to them. Why do women do that?

[@scifirealism5943]

Exactly

[@ricardostorrie4150]

you know nothing

[@Somedude603]

while a lot of incels are vile you have to ask yourselves if modern dating apps have created this problem and if advancement of feminism create atmosphere where young boys are completely neglected

[@cranberry8309]

Blaming women speaking up for men not doing so for themselves is exactly what creates these kinds of mindset trends. Stop blaming others for the stuff allow yourself to be consumed with.

[@itsjeninMass]

Yes to the first question, no to the second. Feminism extends to parenthood. Feminist mother's are some of the most loving. A proper Feminist will nurture her son and teach him to respect women. Neglecting a child is not a Feminist act. It's just the opposite.

[@HankWilliams-kp3io]

The percentage of the male population that are incel tripled after the release of tinder

[@theragoooverlord5021]

They have the same instinct to kick the runt out of the nest. Guy in the video says they bullied him. It's the same thing. It's just nature though.

[@Dracobyte]

Interesting video!!

[@DonChillum]

I always thought they were just 'cellar dwellers', like the classical isolated gamer who's never had women. I had no idea it was THIS bad. It is an actual problem in society, thanks for the coverage, I learned a whole lot.

[@Vanessa-gp18tk]

Why do they hate ALL women when there are so many women who are in the same situation as them in life and struggle with the same issues?

[@PdZ2012]

Hurt people hurt people. Remember that when someone is trying to put you down. Besides that, I get why some of these guys are the way they are. Women can be very cruel and toxic. I have experienced that myself and, yes, also had violent thoughts towards women. I never hated women, but at times I felt humiliated and disrespected, so I wanted my revenge. I am a nice guy and some women just think that means they can walk all over me, even though I have never been a pushover. Anyway, nowadays I just avoid toxic females or, if I cannot, just tell them to F off, haha.

[@Apoltege]

Why this guy owns a fucking fumo 💀💀💀