The Dating Project Proves Why Men Are Going Their Own Way | Women Prefer Hook Up Culture

[@ZMCarsandMore]

To all guys who are nice, DO NOT wife up a girl who put you on the reserve/backburner. I repeat, DO NOT!

[@rooseveltdarbey9493]

Exactly

[@sentientprogram1752]

Agreed 100%. Have self respect and understand your worth.

[@princenwaegerue4705]

Hell yeah

[@Hunkzilla]

Have some gatdamn respect for yourself. Do not even wife up a woman with a body count of over 3 men !!!!!!

[@dpstrial]

Sound advice, but there are dozens and dozens of beta simps out there willing to pick up the pieces of others.

[@MrSdragon197]

"Perfect husband material. I throw him in my friends zone." Don't feel sorry for them when they are old and alone.

[@metallboy25]

"You are so nice, I wish I could find a guy like you (but one who is actually good looking)." 10 years and 3 baby daddies later : "Hey big head, long time no see. You wanna go for a coffee sometime?"

[@reuben3157]

Let them rot.

[@NikosM112]

@@metallboy25 I'm good, thanks

[@florianlaur5300]

The sad thing is, they're never really old and alone. They'll always have more friends and support. They SHOULD be shunned and outcast for what they do.

[@NikosM112]

@@florianlaur5300 In reality they are still living fake lives while ours are authentic

[@jasonBGI]

It's the arrogance and disrespect for me, expecting good men to be just there waiting on them to smash the wall and clean up the messes they purposely made of their lives.

[@rogermarin1712]

Entitlement

[@drewyetti]

Same here as they expect nice guys to be doormats. It’s also entitlement as well as arrogance and disrespect.

[@mauriciojaramillo174]

I had an older single mom who looks decent but made horrible life decisions, tell me that i was her back up plan. Im 31 year old 6 figure earner, in incredible shape with no kids. I have busted my ass and am very critical of myself. These women are worthless.

[@eyemunchained8968]

We Black men need to stop with that "captain step daddy save 'em" Don't marry wmn with child/children

[@jasonBGI]

We gotta shut them out of the dating market, otherwise they'll think their strategy was right. No attention, no Likes, no favors, no buzzer beater babies. Just leave them alone. Meanwhile improve yourself and focus on your life. As MHD says, protect yourself at all times. Send a message.

[@rationalmale6265]

Without a doubt, the most shallow people I have ever met in my lifetime were not my fellow men, they were women. It wasn't even close. It has only gotten worse since the rise of the internet, social media and online dating. These things have effectively destroyed women and their ability to find happiness with a good man and a family. Most normal men I know want relationships are are disgusted by the hook up culture, long term. Most women I've met claim to hate the hook-up culture, but appear to be most comfortable with participating in the lifestyle long term. Deep down they love the hook-up culture because they get constant attention and validation from many different men. It's a d rug many of them simply can't quit. Even after hitting the wall, many women struggle with walking away from the hook-up culture to be with one good man to start a family.

[@consciousbeing1188]

💯 Facts!

[@GeraldM_inNC]

Once they've ridden the CC, they can never be faithful to a husband. I doubt that even one ex-CC rider in one hundred could be faithful to a husband. They are still craving the wild sex they had with Chad and Tyrone. They only married for security or to have children. It's not going to prevent her from returning to the CC.

[@longbeach225]

@@GeraldM_inNC I would say mostly for security. Most of them are bringing in Chad and Tyrone kids to the marriage and expect the man to care for them as if they are his.

[@JoseDiaz-rd9fh]

Absolutely women's mating strategies have been maximized to the detriment of men and society as a whole. Alpha seed beta need is the standard for a woman who can't lock down a Chad. Women don't bring enough value to a relationship to commit to them today. They bring emotional baggage lopsided expectations and expect you to be subservient. Even if you're one of the rare few who finds a decent woman she has the right to change your mind at any time and weaponize different facets of the system in society today to bury you

[@consciousbeing1188]

@@longbeach225 If a man doesn't want to raise another man's kids then he needs to let her know right from the start that he ain't down with that.

[@michaeloesterle6652]

They get to have the “tingles” of a new relationship over and over. It’s all the really want. Once the newness wears off, rinse and repeat.

[@eyemunchained8968]

Meanwhile their delinquent are overwhelming the government programs (welfare, unemployment, and correctional institutions)

[@hefestos002]

I had a friend of mine that confessed to that, she's probably still riding the carrousel.

[@edheldude]

That way they also avoid true intimacy and vulnerability, the narcissists' Achilles heel.

[@kirerunte1046]

@@eyemunchained8968 meanwhile clowerd-piven strategy has been used since the 1960s in order to collapse society economically by using the welfare state, why you ask? Cuz the people in power want depopulation, it's no coincidence just go read what ur leaders write but that never happens, the sheep just keep falling for the same traps that kill them over and over again,

[@marcellusyates2920]

Good point💯

[@perceblue3976]

True story: Going back to the 1930s, pre-war London on a cold winter`s day, my great uncle was waiting at a bus stop for a bus. 2 persons in front of him in the queue, he noticed a young lady shivering from the cold. My uncle took off his overcoat, walked up to the young lady and wrapped his coat around her. The bus arrived and both my uncle and the young lady got on the bus and were travelling in the same direction. They sat next to each other and started to chat. My uncle and the young lady cliqued together and arranged to date and meet the following day. The young lady had reached her destination and had to get off the bus. She went to give my uncle back his coat and he told her, return it to me tomorrow on our date. So they dated the next day, then a couple of days after that and continued to date. Soon they fell in love and married. My uncle and the lady were married for 67 years, had 5 children together. When my uncle died in 2000, his wife died 5 months later, they couldn`t live without each other. I guess if a guy done this today he would be considered as some kind of male predator. Real romantic love is dead, A sad sign of the times.

[@danielserene4532]

At the very least the woman would have yelled at him for dareing to put his coat on her. She to strong and independent for that...

[@craig7122]

Yep, and it's what women wanted, so, let them live with their consequences

[@michaelwilliams1752]

What a cute story. Thanks for posting.

[@MikeyPaper]

Your uncle may have been a Chad though. I bet if it was a short ugly guy, the story would have been different. People keep saying "times were better back then". Maybe in some ways yes, but I think in some ways it was always like this. Humans evolve at a rate of 1% every 10,000 years. Women have always been hypergamous and they most likely - always will. You cannot fight biology. What I'm saying is theres probably more to this story...

[@christianifechukwu9865]

I guarantee thst any man that does that today will spend the night in jail

[@flyingfrenchbread]

Of course women like the hookup culture, it gives them what they want, constant attention and validation; until she can't get that anymore (hits the wall). Then it's a mad dash to secure someone, then cheat on them, then divorce. It's a never ending cycle

[@SherrickDuncan]

It ends when we end the marrying or impregnating them part. Don't give them your signature or your seed. When all Men do this then it stops. 💁🏾‍♂️

[@rogerm3708]

Over time, women lose access to the men they once could pull. If a woman could stay at her peak attractiveness, they would never leave hookup

[@glevando]

@flyingfrenchbread That was a very well written and accurate assessment of what's going on today. Thank you.

[@heedmywarning2792]

@@rogerm3708 "If a woman could stay at her peak attractiveness, they would never leave hookup" At some point, the CDC may want to have a word with them.

[@jesuschristislord77733]

Parasites living their best life.

[@AB-vb4sv]

Rather have a woman tell me she’s for the streets than pretend she cares and she’s emotionally wrecked.

[@miyagifatghost2684]

True I know this chick I think is fire and she showed me pictures of some Fat guy she was dating I guess to let me know she date Big Boys too. But she always got a man and I won't flirt or even play wit her bcuz she don't know how to take a damn break. But I heard her talking to a friend and she literally said "If this goes left. I'm for the streets idgaf no more!" I was happy that I won't have to take her seriously at anytime in life bcuz of that statement. Lol!

[@AB-vb4sv]

@@miyagifatghost2684 exactly! I had a girl tell me I don’t seem mad about being Friendzone. I said nope, I have fuckzoned a few women so I get it. I just listen to them and if I hear any “I let him nutt in me” that’s an immediate discount in my eyes. No thanks , but thanks for being honest.

[@robertp7209]

There is no benefit gained from being honest, it’s all disingenuous, only. That’s their ticket to ride.

[@solomongrundy1467]

@@AB-vb4sv A lot of these women riding the CC are on birth control, so most of them are getting creampied.

[@larryleisure9624]

Interesting

[@daleweiss9507]

I found that a lot of woman don't want to go out on a "date" because you find out how boring and uninteresting she really is. I'm in my 60's and have seen some shit.

[@t.j.payeur5331]

Me too on all counts...women bore me, I'm in my 60s, and I have seen some shit, alright...

[@beyondthegraveXL]

I would love to hear about some of that shit.

[@somewhat.random]

I'm 55 and completely agree. And the ones who aren't boring? Crazy. That's why they aren't boring.

[@soydansogukcesme470]

i am in my early 30's and i f***** over several hundret woman. There where just a handfull interesting woman. ALL other dumb as shit, crazy, psychological damaged, emotinal damaged, they want a realationship but they dont act like it, they have like zero personalty or charakter... like i said.. just a handfull where realy interesting. And more then i f***** i dated. so i know what i am talking. i am good looking and i am charming masculine..i am not tall. i am just 163 cm and still..i think i will never marry.

[@marx41mans]

I will be 44 this year..and when I go back to my memory banks and think of all the women I can remember starting with my ex-wife, i can literally only think of two women who weren't considered BORING: who have things going on that bring value to their life, that can converse intellegently about a wide range of subjects, who exercise, have constructive hobbies, who are fun to be around BESIDES having sex! They are extremely rare, and truthfully....woman are not very interesting as a whole! Just listen how they talk amongst each other and the crap they talk about are interested in! When was the last time you talked to a woman and she held here own in a conversation, added some critical thinking to that conversation, didn't base their responses on "feelings" and could convey a thought in a way that humans outside her brain could understand? Yeah fellas, its a real thing...its rare to find a well rounded, interesting woman.

[@TechnoMageB5]

The hook up culture literally smashes the soul out of these girls. Then they settle for the nice guy (if one of them stuck around, many are waking up and ghosting that nonsense instead, resulting in where did all the good men go?) Those who do marry the nice guy often divorce and take his stuff. Why? Because her pair bonding ability is gone, her dopamine receptors are fried, and she thinks she can recapture that again post wall. It's sad really. It's like an addict coming off a drug. They crave the highs they can't have anymore. When you abuse your natural body chemistry like that, you end up miserable and alone in the latter half of your life. What makes it tragic: just a little wisdom and restraint in her prime could have prevented that.

[@mikelisteral7863]

most nice guys dont want some used up piece of trash

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

How could you expect a child to have self control with no adult supervision in a candy store 🙄

[@paulfri1569]

@@mikelisteral7863 Indeed. Unless he's a simp.

[@rooseveltdarbey9493]

TechnoMageB5 you couldn't have said it better bro, a female who's been with like 75 guys is not going to be able to just settle down with one dude all of a sudden.

[@karlosfandango5705]

@@nashambenyisrael7689 Exactly that. The adults have been smeared as tyrants and ran out of town, and now baby eats candy for every meal, long term health be damned.

[@bigtex8991]

I had this argument with my wife because I told her women control hook up culture and she got offended. I’m like babe no man can hook up if the girls aren’t hooking up. *crickets*

[@Thehanger96]

You are eating someone's leftover chewed food. Do you know that?

[@bigtex8991]

@@Thehanger96 at this point in society who isn’t?

[@PermanentHigh]

And what's even crazier is that ALL the women are hooking up with a SMALL minority of guys

[@GeraldM_inNC]

You tried reasoning with a female? Why would you do that?

[@williamwallace410]

She probably short-circuited. Most women lack the ability to admit it when they were wrong, if they are talking to a man. I find it a very strange phenomenon. Most times it takes them at least a day (night sleep) to process what happened and admit you were right, but even then they will do it in a way that you were right but they were 'not' wrong. That's the best you'll get. Bless their souls.

[@TheMaxx009900]

Relationships are not about love. They are about need. Today, western culture has eliminated need. There's no imperative of teamwork to survive.

[@ZMCarsandMore]

Good analysis.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Exactly, women depended on men in the 30s,40s,50s etc

[@bigdaddyd7674]

For now give it a year. Every faceted of life is crashing

[@colindavis2113]

There is still a need but it’s less so than ever for sure. There’s no way I could afford a house on my own but I’m a guy so we get last pick. I need that relationship to get the house. Not saying that’s what I absolutely want a relationship for. A girl that’s half attractive could be working at my job or making less at a grocery store but their dude makes bank. Dudes don’t get an out like that.

[@francois853]

@@colindavis2113 Depends on what lifestyle you want, where you live and what job you do. If you can't afford a home where you are on your own then move to where you can and consider a career change. More single women are managing it, so if they can then you can too.

[@mrneoneil999]

When they come looking for a "husband" tell them to get lost

[@mavrk.d]

This society of dating is exactly why men used to be in charge of who their daughters were wed to.

[@JeffCaplan313]

Facts.

[@longbeach225]

Definitely wasn't Chad or Tyrone because those dads knew they were just players.

[@rally_chronicles]

Yup but with the government replacing fathers it's over

[@adriennemuhammad2807]

Boom!

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Bingo, the eastern countries are doing quite fine it’s just the western countries that are being impacted

[@jai-one2691]

Women are not willing to put in the work or the risk, when it comes to dating or even approaching someone. Women want to be the damsel in waiting, but they don't want to kiss a frog to get their Prince

[@drewyetti]

At the same time, women want to calm the beast before he becomes Prince Charming.

[@jai-one2691]

@@drewyetti Calm him down before she takes him down, and then she has a fur coat

[@marx41mans]

I agree with that...they don't want to put in any RISK or EFFORT into finding KEEPING a relationship! And also Women as a whole as way more fearful of any kind of rejection...way MORE than even the most shy Man! Women fear rejection and losing attention more than anything!

[@jai-one2691]

@@marx41mans Very True

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

@@marx41mans And this is the trump card for men. They need attention like oxygen. Give them enough to keep them on life support. They must earn your attention. Don't give it away- Don't be a beta male.

[@trevtall1094]

This is gold! The truth about women is getting out.

[@michaeldavid6832]

@Velda Cremin Yes. It was hidden for commercial gain and tax revenues. But it will ultimately fail. They liquidated long term families into short term revenues. Virtues are virtues because they require short term sacrifice for long term returns. Virtues are an investment in all the people you will eventually have to live through in your own future. Your virtues are really just you showing your love to the future people you will become. This is the essence of karma. Those who weren't virtuous in their past yield very poor returns as time moves on. Their options decrease until they become desperate. Some will be lucky and merely skirt the typical price by getting rich before their lack of virtue has time to manifest. But they'll pay a price in some form. The purpose of life is to experience life on as many levels as possible. The less you experience, the less you've lived. The lack of virtue guarantees that you limit your experiences. The lack of virtue closes doors that can never be opened again. The only doors closed to the virtuous are closed by the virtuous... and they're closed to the unvirtuous. Virtue yields long term fulfillment -- though not always happiness. Fulfillment is long term happiness. I'll endure a lifetime of hardship if I can feel satisfied and fulfilled at the last of my days. I desire my life to be full, not purely happy. Hedonism is the vain idea that happiness is the prime virtue. It's the ethic of the gambler, addict, and parasite. Choose hedonism and you'll reap the same rewards as all 3.

[@silverwings8486]

@@michaeldavid6832 I agree but with current state of world don,t bother=> you only end up getting scammed => when the truth came out you can either swallow or try to turn a blind eye to they can easily wall away - 1/2 - Alimony - by bad Child fraud -child support > i don,t you ever wanna experience that.

[@ShinkuGouki]

It's over like Russel Stover

[@Youalreadyknow734]

Yes it is

[@michaeldavid6832]

@@silverwings8486 Possessing virtue means you remove all non-virtuous people from your life and you don't make yourself an exploitable fool. Delayed gratification is a virtue. Thus I don't get into meaningless relationships because the temporary relief from loneliness isn't' worth the long term price of joining yourself to someone who possesses no sense of gratitude for anything. Self respect is a virtue. Never do anything which makes you lose respect for yourself. Never allow anyone to walk all over you.

[@jetsnitram7188]

The foodie date is one of the red flag which men can use to identify women with a 304 mind set.

[@immortalzodd7474]

10-15 years ago men fell into this BS because that was taught to be the chivalrous thing to do if you were to be a "man". Nowadays, the only woman that gets a restaurant bill payed out of me is my mother (and only because she is OK).

[@superperidot1359]

And that's why I disagree with the whole "whoever asks must pay". No, how about BOTH people pay for what they get. Sounds "equal" to me.

[@hadiakmal9281]

Its annoying when w0men proclaim to be dating experts who's done nothing but just accept dates, got a karen haircut, just expressing how she feels & putting expectations without considering male & female nature. Anybody can do that. What you want is an outcome, meaning getting a ring on it, changing the laws to be balanced or teaching w0men how to retain & improve their relationships so they do not div0rce their husbands. They aint dating experts, they are hook-up Experts. They are trying to change the hook up culture but they are the exact people perpetuating it. Its all a facade, no substance just aesthetics.

[@josephzsoka874]

that's right... its all about appearances nowadays.

[@josephzsoka874]

that's right... its all about appearances nowadays.

[@am-vy1fb]

I believe, the trust to fee mail is gone forever and now only laws reforms to make it fair for all, is only thing to convice men to get married. Now, more men expect, they will have to also contribute and put work, not just do makeup and show up. That privilage is gone forever.

[@doyothang2012]

You sound mad as hell. Just sounds whiny as hell whine whine whine complain complain complain criticize criticize criticize. This is what you think women do women are more so working behind a curtain you don’t see everything they put things in motion and a lot more women or more transparent with what they want

[@leshardley4248]

"Put him on reserve" 2022 "There are no good men out there" 2032 😲😲🤣🤣✌🏽✌🏽

[@dubMittelJ]

I feel bad for all these young people. Women have been taught to be modern by feminism since the 60's. All while men are still stuck on 1950's software/traditional values of being a provider for a family. If women are going to continue to be modern (I don't see people going back to how things were). Someone has to teach young men to also become modern so they don't get taken advantage of. But I think this is already happening with youtube channels like this, so kudos.

[@JoseDiaz-rd9fh]

The system as we know it needs to crash. It is systemic in today's culture for women to disrespect men. I read a study back in 2006 that addresses this very subject. They were able to determine the failure rate of relationships with a success rate of 97% simply by looking at the level of respect the couples after each other. The sad reality is many men are going to have to recalibrate and find happiness outside of being with a woman. Because the alternative is to essentially be a servant to her. Even if you find a decent woman and you get lucky the temptation to put up with a lot of bad behavior from her is going to be very high because let's be real there's not that many good women out there. But don't get it twisted you still are better off alone than to be taken advantage of

[@thomascarlton82]

@@JoseDiaz-rd9fh Facts but i think another solution is for men to stop seeking women so young. That is never good, boys need a ritual of becoming a man to earn the right to having a woman. That means he will have all his ducks in a row and have options. So many things are solved by men seeking their purpose above all and becoming someone people want to be around

[@awol2019]

that is why mgtow , exists .

[@EddieNotFound1]

this, and yet the system doesn't want to give men that option of going independent by themselves because of 'mUh mIsOgYnY'.

[@karlosfandango5705]

@@thomascarlton82 "Earn the right to having a woman"? You mean while they take for granted the ability to have a revolving door of men simply for being born with a snatch? Screw that pedestalising language. I'll have my ducks in a row for my own sake, not to prove anything to parasites.

[@afroslacker7383]

"When we get OLDER and we're done with our BAD BOY party phase, we want a NICE GUY to PROVIDE for us...and that's YOU"

[@superperidot1359]

Shout out to a fellow coach gang member!

[@Idontentertainfoolishness]

I can do some shuffling too🤣

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

"SO I CAN FOCUS ON MY CAREER!"

[@michaelwaninger3155]

It was obvious to me 40 years ago that women who went out with me, an average guy, wanted different things and behaved totally different. It made it difficult to date as I would get a read on the woman and realize this. If I did allow myself to have feelings as soon as she realized suddenly sexual frequency decreased which of course would be my fault. Suddenly I would have many faults. Any attempt to rectify the situation only exacerbated it. This is why I never married. If men treated women 1/4 as bad as women treated me(and these are average women)I would be at the very least be ostracized by society perhaps even jailed.

[@Xander1Sheridan]

i love treating women like they treat us. It infuriates them to no end.

[@silverwings8486]

@@Xander1Sheridan You earn your respect regardless of gender the rest in courtesy - done with sincerity & it live impression

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

I hear ya. In the late 80s I was learning programming, and for a group project, the female students were very free with who they would to date. It was all about wealth , if he had a nice car, etc... I was appalled. On the face of it they were nice, pleasant to be with, young women. Any designs I had for them were quickly abandoned.

[@EightFrancs]

@@Xander1Sheridan Great aint it? It's our duty to give them a taste of their own medicine.

[@michaelwaninger3155]

@@doyothang2012 Yea keep telling yourself that. 100 years ago maybe.

[@covertcounsellor6797]

“It’s easier to hook up”…. For Chad. For the 80% of men who are not in the “charmed circle” , you get less sex than you might have got in the 1960s or 1970s.

[@Megabeat30]

Yea .. and what does that get Chad - STDs and an eventual baby mama

[@ALT3REDB3AST]

The man store joke is the perfect example of this video and the general mindset of women.

[@clayslaton9068]

As a victim of the family court system, I will forever be in depth to the manosphere for the knowledge...will not get caught up in this relationship BS with women again.

[@soydansogukcesme470]

You watched Jordan B. Peterson new one, on the family court system talking to a father ..his woman lied and the man is still seeing as the monster from the juge

[@SeattlePioneer]

in 1969 when I was 19, I observed the plague of divorce taking place (it has never relented.) Marriage and children seemed like a poor bargain, so I decided not to do either. At age 72, it has proven to be an excellent plan for my life.

[@lawrencer908]

Yea

[@immortalzodd7474]

Wish you the best of lucks now that you are here man. Stay safe and healthy.

[@swisscheese412]

​@@SeattlePioneercongrats brother 😁👍well done

[@nkrumansantos1794]

Two lessons: - Only the top 10% Boyz are considered option. - The one with less options seek serious commitment. Boyz seek commitment when young. Girls seek that approaching the wall.

[@ZingMeOut]

Thing is, this is happening not only in 1st world countries like the USA etc. I am a native of the Caribbean, moved up in my career and migrated to another Caribbean island. I do well for myself. Fully functional adult and more. Visited and resided in at least 3 Caribbean islands so far and its the same story. They don't want a nice guy. They want to ride the carousel till it falls apart THEN choose the man on reserve. Wake up fellas. It's spreading worldwide.

[@joshuajoseph9102]

Are you a fellow Trinidadian brother?

[@ZingMeOut]

@@joshuajoseph9102 yep

[@ZingMeOut]

@John Grigg And I aim to be there way before and see the atmosphere.

[@joshuajoseph9102]

@@ZingMeOut As a fellow Trinidadian I also wish to visit the Phillipines.

[@Bpreppye]

Yup, i have stated before, i also live in DR and its no different here!!

[@chetp8423]

Tradition proves to be the solution to problems we didn't realize existed.

[@lonelydogclub]

Well tradition was there for a reason. Our ancestors were not stupid. They were wise people who knew what was the best way to make a relationship work.

[@rickyricardo4599]

But they’re canceling conservatism.

[@chetp8423]

@@rickyricardo4599 They cancel wisdom. Or, as our host would say, "Foolishness!"

[@rickyricardo4599]

@@chetp8423 those things go hand and hand

[@FazeParticles]

Tradition can’t exist without enforcement.

[@solascriptura-e7t]

One thing that I picked up, earlier-- not related to the video-- The difference between college and trade school: Why in the blue hell am I being given an assignment about "dating", instead of learning ***exactly*** what my career choice demands??? Men, when it comes to attaining a higher learning, stop going the traditional route. Hit up a 12- 18 month trade school. Tell the people that wanted you to go to college to kick rocks. And, as always: Go Your Own Way.

[@lpd1snipe]

Great video as always. I'm an old guy, what they used to call a "silver fox" back in the day. I don't date anymore as I am mgtow. But I do enjoy watching the videos of what people nowadays have to deal with. I'm so glad content producers like you are putting this information out for the young men of today, because it is definitely "clownworld" out here right now.

[@americusdeville865]

@Chapta - RP They will not. American women are saturated in feminism--they are groomed to fail. Your options are MGTOW, passport to foreign traditional cultures and women, native women raised in traditional family structures; but Western laws are against you as is the State and the court system. Have an eye for foreign women, traditional cultures, and do not marry American. Always stay Red Pill. From a MGTOW.

[@Thehanger96]

Who even goes on a date in modern times? Remaining isolated is the best thing a man can do for himself.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Build character. Feels aawkward AF at first but you get comfortable with it and you.

[@superperidot1359]

Going Monk mode.

[@queddogg22]

Loner by nature, more of an introvert than extrovert but I do have a healthy medium depending on the time day and situation. Sometimes it gets rough going complete monk mode. It has been for me at least.

[@andradeb2695]

Thats fine by Me. I wanted a Romantic Relationship so badly! But in today's World i will have to be the Lone Wolf 🐺

[@projectleroy920]

Guys, be better at vetting modern females before you spend YOUR money on a date. None of that dating coach BS!

[@physetermacrocephalus2209]

We need to remember to play the long game guys. None of these women should ever receive a husband; and we need to ensure the state grants them nothing but the bare minimum support. They have to learn thier actions have consequences because ultimately thier selfish behavior is quite literally harming our civilization.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

I applaud you because you see the bigger impact. This is going to impact human life numbers by a huge margin in the west and if people don’t wise up the population is going to dwindle.

[@karlosfandango5705]

@Katlego Fedile Sure, but the desirability of the simps is now falling off a cliff, thanks to the red pill, and it wasn't that great to begin with. Small victories, and all that. 😄

[@ldl1477]

@Katlego Fedile If you want less of something, punish it. With the divorce rate where its at, the more guys simp, the more they get destroyed.

[@doyothang2012]

Good God who hurt you. I’m sending spiritual healing your way you cannot blame one sector of society for the failing of all of society. That’s just not how it works it’s not realistic it’s really ridiculous

[@robbenvanpersie1562]

@@nashambenyisrael7689we're in mouse utopia experiment

[@imdon8920]

As usual this is pure gold. Any man getting married today will be due everything coming his way. This culture that women are controlling will be your competition in marriage. 80% of men loose, 90% if woman is college level educated. I won't even wish you good luck. It's pointless with those odds.

[@gamerboy6787]

Do not miss that bit at the end where the host points out that this "Dating Doctor" is herself single. The supposed "expert" is either: a) not practicing what she is preaching, or; b) she actually doesn't have the answers, and is just as cluessless as the rest of society.

[@superperidot1359]

Goodness forbid a female lead by example. Remember, they will not allow themselves to be held accountable. Ever.

[@louisegriffin6672]

I am not surprised 😀

[@hv3115]

Well she is old and not particularly attractive or desirable at this point. Her advice is still valid for young women in their prime and fertile years.

[@latt.qcd9221]

The common factor in all of the interviews in the beginning is that what women are choosing and how they're behaving has changed, and it's negatively impacting relationships.

[@mikelisteral7863]

modern men put no effort in. because there is nothing worth putting effort into

[@FazeParticles]

Women are spoiled for choice.

[@jondspen]

In our next story on Red Pill News - grass is green and the sky is blue.

[@kuja5809]

Lol 😅

[@pepevaldovinos155]

Hahahahahaha 😅😂🤣

[@dandywaysofliving]

Hello I Came-🌊 From the future 😏 . Bust-feed📶article caption from 2033. 🌌 *"Red pillers turning Purple??* -..entering same sex marriages and adopting children or paying for womb rentals.."

[@OneTheWhat]

I fell for a girl in college that I didn't find physically attractive in the beginning. Only after getting to know her over the semester did the feelings change. Crazy how that works.

[@jai-one2691]

DON'T TRUST A SINGLE DATING COACH, THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING

[@trevtall1094]

True, but this one atleast is honest enough to make true observations about women

[@unnecessaryapostrophe4047]

Don't trust advice from people online who type in all caps and can't spell basic words correctly.

[@jai-one2691]

@@unnecessaryapostrophe4047 Maybe, but responding is a choice, so you must have heard something

[@unnecessaryapostrophe4047]

@@jai-one2691 I didn't hear anything. I read something, however poorly it was written...

[@lonelydogclub]

a single female dating coach is like a virgin pick up artist........

[@timjones6204]

i love the late great patrice o'neal's solution to the 'who pays' dinner date. him: 'we should go out for dinner' her: 'that'll be nice, when' him: 'when you get paid' i miss patrice.

[@rogerm3708]

Patrice had a greater understanding of female nature then this Dr. with a psych degree

[@RonnieMyers777]

😂😂😂

[@ForeignFlexTv]

@@rogerm3708 Big Facts

[@Agent77X]

Ladies do not like strangers hitting on them anymore! They are very hostile when some approach out of the blue and say: “Hi my name is Jim and I to meet you!” They either keep walking or reply: “Don’t bother me!”

[@longbeach225]

Approaching today can land you in jail on sexual harassment charges. if you are a Chad or Tyrone then you get a free pass.

[@omari75]

What I find the funniest is that they don't approach men because they fear rejection but they reject men in the most hostile way. When a man rejects a woman he doesn't make a big deal or fuss about it.

[@RonnieMyers777]

This must be catching on because I saw a woman get rejected today

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

@@omari75 women suck at all that shit. I’ve had women hit on me not a lot but when they do it’s fucking creepy and weird the shit they say I’m like you really thought that was cute? They don’t know how because they don’t do it and never had to…. Men we know through error what words to say and not say because one wrong word can mean dismissal for you but this doesn’t happen for women. I’ve experience this myself, also women are the ghost inventors idgaf what anyone else says they invented that shit lol.

[@queddogg22]

Definitely my fear with cold approaching. That’s the discouraging factor. I’ve had a few weird situations back b4 social media blew up. They acted defensive and weird as if someone was about to traffic em.

[@Tential1]

In this "modern age" every woman I've been with WANTED a casual, fwb, hookup. I didn't initiate it that way, they did. If I ask a woman to be my girl, she'll say "let's just be fwb" or something. It's women who want the optionality. For most normal dudes, finding hook up after hook up is exhausting. For women, it's fun and an ego boost. They can't let it go.

[@benprins8240]

Of course women prefer the hookup culture. In my opinion that's why they give off so much attitude, bs, complain so much and are emotional. Never satisfied. Sigh. Thanks man.

[@worldwarwitt2760]

many are not required to grow up and be responsible. they are taught that sex is an emotionless act that exists only for their immediate needs and society allows it to have zero immediate consequence. the bill comes due and they have lost the ability to bond. the bill comes due and when they realize they won't have anything that truly matters, a family, it is too late.

[@MLR400]

"You are a dating coach and yet; you are single." I saw that and the Karen haircut when her video was first shown. Why am I not surprised?

[@GomersPile01]

Single Karens giving dating advice. What could possibly go wrong?

[@123blkkev]

Let's just end this silly relationship shit and just legalize prostitution!

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Great idea!

[@thebeesknees745]

It pretty much is with dating apps. You just select a few options and see which one will come over for the night. Prices vary from a pizza and a beer to expensive wine and dine. Most will give it away for less than 40 bucks in gas, food, and a Netflix subscription.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

@@thebeesknees745 I don't go above $10 coffee on first meet. If I like them and if I have the money...They get sushi and drinks on the second. Always Dutch. If I want to smash them, they come over my place with their Netflix subscription. I don't have cable or a tv by choice. I do cook like a gourmet chef better than any restaurant and wine and dine them at my place which is significantly cheaper, so that usually wows them if they get as far as a third date. But usually it's by the second if their not being dramatically picky and difficult. They are hornier and more than guys are, they just don't want it as often in my experiences. Some do though. Some are insatiatible.

[@xxxag1768]

I aint paying for azz. Same way I never would hit a strip club. Ill stick to beating and one night stands. My money is my money. Aint giving a floosie a dime for some used twxt

[@jamenb7344]

Nooooooo shite

[@craigsowers8456]

I've always said that it is the Men that are the "romantic" and "sentimentalists" in hetero relationships ... that part hasn't changed and this (wonderful) video only supports my contention. As for "Root Causes", seems rather obvious that it is because "Women" do NOT know what they want and are forever in a state of flux/fluidity; like the old analogy of having a Browser open ... along with 3,243 tabs. Sadly, there is nothing that can be done about it ... we can only identify it and work around it. Thanks for bringing it to the surface. Guys ... it is NOT YOU so stop being hard on yourselves.

[@DragonReaper1998]

Hook up culture and the sexual liberation movement has destroyed dating.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

It’s destroyed dating for the average people. Those who are gifted are not slacking.

[@DragonReaper1998]

@@nashambenyisrael7689 No. It's destroyed dating in general. We're the most single generation ever. Marriage rates are at an all time low, fatherless rates are at an all time high. I don't know what being special or gifted had to do with anything.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

@@DragonReaper1998 I get it I know the numbers, what I was trying to articulate is that there will always be that small percentage of men still getting women sleeping with them or wanting to marry them.

[@DragonReaper1998]

@@nashambenyisrael7689 Yes of course. Sex is much easier to get today compared to when sexual liberation wasn't a thing. My concern is the prevalence of these negative statistics. I'm not talking about the few men that found unicorns. Back then, every woman was a unicorn.

[@bigdaddyd7674]

Not just dating, marriage, relationships, society and even the children they create. Look.a the statics is flat out scary

[@brandongray1059]

Hope you single dudes are paying attention. Don't be that "backup beta" that they reserve to be their rescuer once they've hit the wall. When they weren't willing to be with you when they were at their best, then they don't deserve to get you into a contract when their best years are long gone. Don't be that guy.

[@ryaniam22]

I was at a party recently playing a board game. List three things women crave in men? I said in this order : status, money and height. This chick who was a 'single mother' immediately got on me saying "do you really think women are that shallow?" I'm like no, I know they are lol. She got kinda mad and left early from HER own party.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Did you make her cry? Lol

[@ryaniam22]

@@bobbyscalchi4013 Idk. I think she was the one who wanted to have me invited and that kinda ended that fantasy. She disappeared for a while during the night too but only with other chicks to idk vent, discuss who's gonna rail who, shit on me for that comment lol idk. But I didn't see her cry. Women really don't want to have anything to do with men who opening show they know the game infront of other women. They need the go ahead from all the other girls to sleep around. I guess I failed her social test because I would rather not even pretend to play her game.

[@queddogg22]

@@ryaniam22 I’ve noticed a shift in this. In the past 3 years I’ve become more honest and firm about me and what I want to do, instead of telling women what they want to hear, fake and pretend to like em just to get what I want. Though being honest and really still works out, I gotta say I’ve missed out on a lot of tail for letting it be known that I’m aware of the female game and nature. I never shamed them, just calling em out on their bs and exposing them, they don’t like it, get mad and decide not to deal with me anymore 🤣🤷🏾‍♂️.

[@johneta7665]

@@queddogg22 that’s why GOD made so many of them

[@miltonmerlo4103]

Looks over money bro

[@johnblack8655]

I became diisgusted with the whole endeavour 25 years ago, and walked away. Things today are horribly, infinitely worse. What a mess - it will not end well.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

For women that is lol, what happens when society crumbles and women don’t have a pos man as they always claim protect them….

[@crypter27]

@@nashambenyisrael7689 It will collapse soon!

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

@@crypter27 I know and these women will be crying for a men to protect them when shit hits the fan and it becomes like that movie Mel Gibson played in, I forget the movies name it came out in the 80s mad max there we go lol. Shits going to be like that and when all the good men are gone don’t cry when groups of men are having their way

[@crypter27]

@@nashambenyisrael7689 You're 100% right!

[@heedmywarning2792]

Their priority is safety/resources. In our current times they can get this in many ways (ie. only fans, government, some key jobs). The next priority is getting the best 'vitamin D'. Far too late, their priorities will shift to getting married and having kids. They will also forget about long term financial stability as, during their youth they spent money on useless things and charging up the country's economy.

[@miyagifatghost2684]

That last part is KEY!! I remembered when it hit me that things wouldn't be so much if these females stopped spending. Then I thought about it deeper and realized that LITERALLY the whole point and why we are used and abused in the fashion that we are. Then I thought deeper and realized I need to stop bcuz it'll make me hate women bcuz of the pointlessness of their actions. But I be thinkin sometimes tho still LOL...I think too much lol

[@longbeach225]

Only fans: Only short live and most are not making any money as the market flooded which increased competition. Most women do not invest so any money made will just be burned on spending on useless stuff. Government: Yup that is why they vote mostly Democrat for free stuff. Key Jobs: Yup they get this through affirmative action because they feel everything is sexist if they do not get their way.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

@@miyagifatghost2684 Men are built to produce. Women are built to consume. Any married man will agree. Do not be afraid to politely say 'no' to a woman. And have the balls to leave if she chooses to ignore you.

[@miyagifatghost2684]

@@Ace.0.0.0. females now pay to hang out with me sir...I've tremendously EVOLVED! If they want respect as an adult then spend like one or guess we ain't got much to say. You buy a bunch of useless crap so spend on me. And I'll NEVER be a husband bcuz I'm not living just to make her life easier. Once you get them to spend on you...mindset change!! A husband is a sponsoring sucka unfortunately

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

@@miyagifatghost2684 Are you a therapist who treats women? A kept man? Or are you referring to occasional gifts and drinks ? If a woman chooses to spend her own money on you, and/or she chooses to sleep with you- you are worthy in her books. I have looked at my past with different women, and I agree. Darius M is right. - If it feels like pulling teeth, it's not for you, chief. Take the loss and move on.

[@bobbruce4135]

This is great. I see ladies in so-called traditional Far East countries going after Chads. Only after having Chad's babies do they look for a nice guy. At that point, some seek a wealthy foreigner to marry. Peace.

[@stevedavetas1059]

Yup, it all comes to the approval of the sisterhood.., the ones who control the situations, the relationships, etc... I learned one thing from all my dating shenanigans, DON NOT DATE WOMEN WHO NEED THE APPROVAL OF THEIR FRIENDS ! ! ! ! ! ! ! Their friends will make and break the relationship!!!

[@StevenSiew2]

Those are spineless women who can't think for themselves.

[@petelee2477]

All women need approval from somebody. Their friends, parents, sibling somebody.

[@dubbcee1000]

I'd estimate about 90 percent of them are NPC's/sheep/followers

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

@@dubbcee1000 what is an NPC? I understand from the context.

[@stevedavetas1059]

@@petelee2477 100% right.., without approval, or validation from everyone on their side even outsiders as well, women can not function!

[@aussiewanderer6304]

I'm not excusing women, but they basically need to understand not to hop into bed with men who they haven't committed to. The reality is that most men will not respect a woman who makes them wait if the woman had hooked up with other guys in the past. Cutting off the services with a guy leads to resentment. It's not an entitlement thing, it's basically a case of "why don't you want to sleep with me until the 4th date and I have to wine and dine you but the last guy only had to buy you a drink?"

[@doug1863]

The price of participating in the hook up culture is ur damned if you do and damned if you don’t. Once you are in, you are in for life, as far as women are concerned

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Yeah but we all know how women can’t say no to Tyrone and chad just for that chance of being knocked up

[@mahadinkabir391]

The cost of investment is different for different men.

[@doug1863]

@@nashambenyisrael7689if they smash often especially on first dates or do ons then you can’t think it reasonable to make someone wait. Either way she loses . Unless she is knocked up. But then Who says Chad Thundercock will sign a b.c. or even stick around. If Chad does stick around, probably may not have money to support a baby anyway

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

@@doug1863 and due to our economy we know they don’t stick around because if chad or Tyrone wanted to start of family he would of done what Beyoncé always says “put a ring on it” lol before making baby jax or baby alex.

[@darrenturner3534]

When I am nice and polite, nothing happens. When i am a rude f-boy, my bed stays occupied. Women can say what they want, but results speak for themselves.

[@jaydenandrews02]

MHD has said this many many many many many MANY times! "Protect yourself always"

[@kaliduncanel3356]

I don't have a hard time believing this I just have a hard time reconciling the fact I spent my adolescence getting shamed into simping by women for wanting the same shit.

[@lofiseeker1790]

I remember asking two girls out on different occasions each and when I asked you want to go out? They replied to me 'I'd rather just hook up' I did a disappointed face and walked away on both occasions.

[@Ryo8761]

At least they did not shame you for not smashing.

[@lofiseeker1790]

@@Ryo8761 I wouldn’t have been surprised if they did. Honestly I expected better than like a cold pan face uttering the words they rather hook up.

[@michaeldavid6832]

They think relationships are about romantic love. They aren't and they can't be. Romantic love vanishes in about 2 years. You can't found a family on romantic love. You can only found it on virtue, hard work, and the longer term love which is derived from desiring to provide for the needs of your partner more than yourself. Love isn't selfish. Romantic love isn't love because it's inherently hedonistic. In the end, men win from this because we always paid the higher price for marriages and families. When XXs were tricked into believing they were the prize, they became good employees -- single for life, paying taxes, and being forever without the distraction of husband or children. Fempowerment narratives were designed to convert maternal resources (children and families) into corporate and tax revenues. They used the prime weakness of XXs (vanity) to get them to choose their own ensl@v3ment. It was genius... in the short term. But these same businesses and governments had no foresight. They vainly believed that they could remain profitable long term by destroying the future. It's like eating your entire herd of cattle instead of growing that herd by investing in its future reproductive capacity. The state and businesses profited on people in the manner of ranchers raising cattle which produce labor and taxes. However, they didn't utilize the time tested discipline of herd management by ensuring the future flows of labor and taxes. It's no mystery why they failed. Their prime skill is in winning public office by any means necessary. They're among the least qualified to manage resources. Further, they won't be in office to pay the price and take all the blame when the engine which sustains the nation, grinds to a whimpering halt.

[@dandywaysofliving]

The greatest fear redpillers can bring to society is masquerading as non Hteros. Legally married (Adopting,or paying for womb rental) and raising their own seperate children under the same roof. No longer dealing with women in the dating scene .

[@k3theking]

She said “we know who’s husband material but I put them on reserve” if I didn’t know better I wouldn’t believe it!

[@valdivia1234567]

I'm 52, so I often wonder if young people, say 30 and under, understand how social media has had overwhelmingly negative effects on society vs. a very, very small number of positive effects.

[@jamesrevell6475]

I flirted with a girl all through high school. We were both always in a relationship when the other was single, so we never actually dated. We use to joke for years about the day when we were both single a d the crazy things we would do. Fast forward over 20 years. I ran into her at a convenience store and we hit it off like the old days and we were both single. We agreed that we needed to finally go on a date. Later in the week I called to ask her out. She started naming all the different clubs she wanted to hit on our date night. I was looking forward to a nice quiet dinner and a chance to talk and catch up. She wanted to party. I never called her back.

[@hoxyheart5479]

I'm starting to believe that women are at their best when thier behavior is locked up.

[@DJW1981]

Thousands of years of global history might have a point? We must surely see the modern way isn't good for *anybody*.

[@antonsimmons8519]

They love it, right up until they hit the wall and can't find anyone to "settle" for. They win the first round, we win EVERY OTHER ROUND.

[@robertmendick3195]

She said they talk to guys that are nice, sweet and romantic, but they don't go for those guys. She went on to say they put those guys on reserve, for marriage later.... Many men have discovered that those girls never get "playing the field" out of their system and can never be relied upon to be a supportive partner.

[@GeraldM_inNC]

Those are the guys who find out that at least one of their children was sired by some other guy.

[@dubbcee1000]

I'd rather die alone then be legally bound to sum STI having 304 that believes she's doing me a favor by "settling" with me.

[@FazeParticles]

Those girls have too much sexual liberation. That needs to be curtailed immediately IMHO.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

@@FazeParticles Handmaids Tales. Immediately!

[@trence5]

I wonder what would happened if they guys they reserve for "later" - tell them no.

[@opinionatedlookinboy5555]

They get to have the “tingles” of a new relationship over and over. It’s all the really want. Once the newness wears off, rinse and repeat. - YT commenter, Michael Oesterle - It's the exact thing that happens to married men. Married women couldn't give a shit whether or not they have had a couple of children. All that means is that she has "back up checks" coming when she breaks up the family. She couldn't give a damn about those kids or the husband; it's (childishly, selfishly) all about her feelings and emotions. Not raising decent human beings, not having someone there in your old age, not having family get-togethers or holidays as a family. Nope! It's about her being able to neglect the kids whenever she wants, and get whatever guy she can get after she's dropped the kids at her mom's or sister's place. And don't let the father be someone who cares about _his_ children; god forbid.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

This is my exact thinking and will be until they day i die! My ex wife said something to me ten years ago that I never forgot. (Helps to have a long standing memory too.) when I went to see my aging parents (theyre both deceased now.) once a week for several hours. She said. "I'll never stop you from you seeing your family but I'm your family now!" Oh really? Where was all that "husband first horse shit when you decided to be completely selfish and "strong and independent" and "standing up for yourself" after our son was born and you wanted an entirely new and different life after you decided to break up the family for your own selfish reasons?

[@brownhat1290]

"Women are being raised to become men!" - This observation is Gold!

[@yiyilikeit6210]

NOW we see why ages ago FATHERS Picked the husband for their DAUGHTERS Because Left to their OWN Devices WOMEN Chose What they WANT not What they NEED

[@superperidot1359]

We're the structure, they're chaos. Nothing new under the sun, friend. These days, society believes itself leagues smarter than previous generations, but our predecessors were not as stupid as today's people believe.

[@crypter27]

I've been saying that for a while!

[@dandywaysofliving]

Hello I Came-🌊 From the future 😏 . Bust-feed📶article caption from 2033. 🌌 *"Red pillers turning Purple??* -..entering same sex marriages and adopting children or paying for womb rentals.."

[@CM-ed7ni]

@John Grigg I respect the Taliban more than the typical American man

[@SynsterFear]

I remember being in my young 18 to 24 and wanting a relationship so badly. Now that I'm in my later 20s, that feeling has passed. These chicks can F me or leave me the heck alone. I got no attention or time or money to spend on a chick who isn't dropping to her knees.

[@immortalzodd7474]

You will eventually not even care for the sex man. Your life can be ruined with a single slip so *restrain* is the most critical thing you can exercise at your age. Building up your career and financials at this age is of most importance so fixate on that if you can. Wish you the best of lucks and stay healthy.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

I mean most chicks are wrecked anyways, they have a new guy every day so their pussy really ain’t worth it. My big f u is young chicks. A women your age will always spazz when you have a hot 23 or 22-21 whatever age they are as long as their legal. Me I stick to 21 and up… you will get a lot of hate dating a hot young chick.

[@redjw5223]

When I was blue pilled, I really wanted to date and have a relationship. After the red pill, I just wanna hook up.

[@9magwaza]

This video is absolutely golden!! 🙌🙌🙌

[@imon361]

This is PURE gold! This is the truth and this video makes it plain to see. Everyone needs to see this.

[@YSEternal_]

Bro, I haven’t paid for a date in years and I’m still getting my rocks off because modern women just wanna pop the wap, now. I’m never getting married or having any children. That’s fine. But I’m making good money right now and looking to invest further while at the same time exploring and enjoying my own hobbies and interests. Thank you, feminism!

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Exactly, me I don’t trip I get some every now and then I’m good it puts my head back in the game and can focus and not worry about the headaches and the complaining and the bitching. Just go out every now and then bring ol lassey back and do the dash. This way my pockets are safe and there’s no commitment.

[@johnfox7577]

Hehe

[@autarko]

This channel is top quality!

[@BillionaireMusk]

To women being in a committed relationship is restraining,marriage is nothing but slavery and full of rules. But the hook up culture is freeing,empowering and they can keep their identity with no sacrifice. Even if a woman has kids she feels it’s better than being married because she remains head of household and in charge. In other words men just smash because you are no longer wanted or needed for anything else.

[@satnav1980]

They like the hook up culture. Having lots of lovers is apparently a good thing. And it feeds into their narcissistic behaviour of thinking that lots of people actually like them. It's all about satisfying their useless ego.

[@blackwater7183]

This subject is so interesting. I know this is a problem with society in general but it's the women who are gate keeping. "Put him on reserve to be my husband." That's so fucked up. Lol!

[@mentlinc]

These women clearly have a heirachy that they place men in subconsciously. The key is righteously establishing your own heirachy for them and standing on it with absolute audacity.

[@quietstorm6553]

It has been my experience to avoid friendships with women, but especially if you were in relationship with them. That situation only benefits them. They will constantly bother you with difficult problems and give you low value items in return. But, most importantly, you don't want to be their backup plan.

[@DJW1981]

I pretty much refuse to be anything beyond a casual acquaintance to single women. I realised that they know I'm a massive catch, but they don't want me yet, they want to ride the CC. But they tap me up for info how to get a guy like me, and breadcrumb me to keep me interested. They then drop me the moment Chad shows up, then reappear when he dumps them. I don't play the game now, they can sort out their own problems, and I've too much self-respect to be a second choice.

[@OurKindofEntertainment]

After this video, I looked up the movie and just a quick FYI you can buy it on DVD for $7.99 on Amazon. I just got me a copy because I'm intrigued to watch this whole thing. *I'm not sponsored by Amazon or anything lol just wanted to point other intrigued viewers like me to see what the documentary has to offer. As someone who was a college student about a decade ago, my eyes were opened to A LOT of things in this video lol things I WISH I knew as a college student.

[@hermanlaidlaw9185]

What did you think

[@najadahe2828]

What is the name of the movie, if you please...

[@IamSunil017]

Pass law for zoophelia, its better than """animals with STDs"""

[@awilliams765]

@@najadahe2828 The Dating Project ... I looked it up on Amazon, but they only have DVD.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

@Rudy O'Brien listen to Paul Elam on YT. The vid is titled On Going to War with Women. Also listen to My PUA Lifestyle. Also by Elam.

[@wildman3359]

oh its worst than that, i've watched many women jump into the hook up culture while in relationships and they all blew up their families. Hook up culture works in two ways, women get to sleep around with those they are attracted too and they get to hurt a simps pockets or pull attention from him. Men take care out here and move correct.

[@davidb3155]

I'm done pretending like I care about anyone's feelings or personality anymore. Now its just an exchange of resources money, energy, attention and time. Pick which ones you want and we will see if we can strike a deal or no deal. Apart from that, you keep all your problems locked in your medicine cabinet because I do not care anymore.

[@sorryociffer]

Fleshlight for the win. Grind. Enjoy YOUR life.

[@lawrencer908]

Yup!!

[@joelxl635]

Nah semen retention for me.

[@lawrencer908]

@@joelxl635 that too but sometimes I be needing to bust

[@joelxl635]

@@lawrencer908 I feel you on that one lol

[@lawrencer908]

@@joelxl635 ijs lmao

[@Cryptohogg]

I see more and more younger guys in their twenties taking their Talents overseas!! there are waking up and I'm happy for them...

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

What choice do you have, back then majority of the men in the town would find a women. Now you can hardly find a suitable partner simple because all the hot picks in your town are looking at the cities or the next towns. Let’s face it women like to travel so they can get fucked by someone who doesn’t know who they are or where they come from.

[@smexyapman]

Win/win then. If the ladies also want it, lets all get freaky.

[@picklepeppers6983]

The only problem I can see from this is the 'accidental' slip-up of a man impregnating a woman in this hook-up and then the man losing his power. Other than that, go for it.

[@RoyalZarak]

Too much risk Too many of the laws benefits the women and punishes the men

[@jollygoodfellow3957]

But then future generations will get messed up from lack of proper nuclear family structure.

[@theblackschwab3561]

Sleeping with trashy women is a shitty lifestyle but do as you please.

[@blackmist1981]

Exactly. Just don’t provide your resources in exchange

[@panagenesis2695]

This is pure gold and eye-opening.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

The current lady I'm seeing I had this exact discussion with her this morning after smashing. She knows and i have made it real clear I don't expect anyone to stick around long term after all the women I've been through all the phases and patterns which I've seen from infatuation of who I am, what I do, what my talents are, to comfortability, to complacency, to familiarity, to contempt. Its all one big "newness to oldness to coldness." cycle. Plus their spoiled for choice and i realise it. Their welcome to stay as long as they are friendly, cooperative, drama free, submissive, fun, intriguing, sexual, enthusiastic, thoughtful, conversationalist, free critical thinkers and compassionate. The second I see the first signs of trouble I give them the pink slip now. Intimacy cuddling and bedroom fun isn't worth my peace quiet and freedom. I would rather be alone. I see them as time not well invested anymore and am reluctant towards them. I appreciate their company. But? Eventually they all always lead to disappointment and expectations. So much nicer sometimes just being alone.

[@RiderRed]

This comment should have more likes, I agree, I always tell women " you don't belong to me, however I won't put up with drama, lies for no reason and being shady, once you start affecting my peace it's over" just be good company and smell nice. It's ironic however how many women can't stand silence and peace in a room

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

@@RiderRedI'm 41. I look younger. I can pass for 35. I've had about 12 to 15 women in 20 years. Im no Don Juan but decent looking handsome. 7.5 Single father. Divorcing after 10 years married to an overweight closet liberal feminist. Dated 5 women just in two years. If anything I'm getting more play now with less effort now than ever in my 20s. On the other hand. The current market place is filled with Cat and Dog Mom's, divorcees, CC riders, people with addictive personalities, head meds, drug problems, attitude problems, double standards, and delusion. Its all true what the red pill preaches. I've confirmed and seen that bias and double standard for myself that everyone in the RP community speaks of. I'm good looking. 6ft. Skinny. 185 lbs. Dress very well. Renaissance Guy. Conservative values and principles in most areas. Very handy mechanically, electricaly, automotive, etc. Love creativity, arts, painting, dancing, and wood working. Fixing and maintaining and building things and being self sufficient. Articulate. Critical thinker, prepper, and patriot. I cook like a gormet chef in my home, I sing like a rock star. Do some cover band stuff. Every now and again a MILF throws her bra at me...lol. Make a decent living. Carry myself very well. Very neat, clean, particular, and overtly sexual. I understand women very well and observe them very closely. More now than I ever did when I was married in my 30s or 20s. If I were to never bother to approach any of them I would go completely unnoticed. If they were to approach me aggressively I would pretty much tell them to f#ck off...lol...I shoot from the hip hard but can he sensitive and sensual too. Always! I can be very empathetic and caring, and fun but also very opinionated and serious in the same hand. I find it very amusing over the years how the crazies have given me all this craziness while accusing me, shaming me, and nearly convincing me to my own demise that I was the problem for years. Most of them are nice at first in the beginning. When women, even the nice ones get past their self righteous self serving solipicistic narcissistic, projecting egos, don't reject me, and come to learn about me, they learn how pretty f#cking awesome I am in every way possible. Especialy in the bed. But even "the nice ones" grow tiresome and their true colors show eventually. Guys. I came to realise through trial and error over 22 years, the dating games, the attitudes, the one sided marriage, etc. As much as all of them said they loved me, and did all these thoughtful nice things for me. None of them every really loved me. (THIS IS THE IMPORTANT PART SO PAY ATTENTION.) THEY WERE ALL JUST IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA OF ME FOR THEMSELVES, HOW THEY FEEL, AND WHAT KIND OF STATUS I BRING THEM TO THEIR FAMILY, PEERS, FRIENDS, AND SOCIETY. They all go from loving the idea of me and how fun and well rounded and articulateI am. (If they ever gave me a chance in the first place.) to usually not liking me anymore because of how opinionated and critical thinking I am. Then I realized one day that it really wasn't me. THEY ARE ALL SAYING AND DOING THE SAME THINGS!. Past the age of 30. Don't expect any relationship to go past a year. Like everyone says. Have your fun. Treat them good, but yourself better, and walk away from anyone who being even an ounce of drama, difficulty, or opposition to your life. The manosphere validated every single one of my experiences in 22 years. It changed my mind and my direction and my opinion of women. Thank God we are all talking about the same experiences.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

@@RiderRed As much as an aroused talker I am. Silence, stoicism, and peace to them is not only boring but socially uncomfortable to them. They look at you like their is something wrong with you. When you are the one comfortable in their own skin and their not. You know you don't always have to use words to communicate. It could take a look, a touch, a sound. I like to communicate with my body and my penis...lol

[@karlosfandango5705]

Oof. This hits home. What did I do to deserve the contempt? Answer: I stuck around too long and let her get used to me 😒 Maybe if we didn't live in such an instant gratification, throw away society, it wouldn't be this way, but we do and it is. It's like trying to play an unbeatable game. Why bother if you can't finish it?

[@RiderRed]

@@bobbyscalchi4013 I'm also 41 will be 42 In a few months, I've worked security for clubs been a bartender also did some local acting, got my education in graphic design, I used to think I was crazy with red pill thinking pre social media, I knew I didn't want to be a step father, I didn't respect women who got past around, in high school and college I was popular and alot of girls would call me gay, or stuck up,, cause I didn't hit on them. I had no comeback so I would smile walk away. These same females would be bent over in my bed months later, on the flip hearing things like "I didn't wanna date you cause your like a good guy or you're a man's man, I wasn't ready to settle down you scared me" I never liked this mantra. I have children now, I also have a vasectomy, when I was 16 before kids I told my mom I don't want to get married or have children, she shammed me for weeks. I'm 5'9 stocky football built still, I run my own painting company and a few side hustles, 2 cars, 2 bedroom apartment I live alone. I have some cool friends and make a very good wage. I spent alot of my bartender days eating fasting food and dating loose fast women, Once I went monk mode, lost weight built my credit took care of myself, I thought I would get back out there and find a good women, NOPE while there are decent not completely insufferable woman, I find that 90% of the women I meet are, have too many kids, take too many pills, have had too many dicks, SO many have STDs regardless of race, anger issues, broke and just aren't pleasent to be around. I have a few female associates that I have to take in small doses. I don't hate women however I'm shocked that regardless of age most of them are the same. The last 3 years all the women I've dated where under 30 except 1 who was 37. They all say I could pass for a 30 anyway sex is easy these days, I focus on 3d printing growing my business and getting under 10% body fat. Oh and don't me started on the women I've dated online who try to shame me for wanting a women who stays in shape. I'm not 6ft so I work with what I have, even the women who don't care about height or monet still find things to disqualify me for lol like discipline and healthy habits.

[@MrJx4000]

Wow, I'm glad this popped up in my recommended list.

[@DylanPWN]

Why wouldn't they prefer hook up culture? All legal and societal privileges are given to them just for being women but when they hook up and get knocked up, that privilege is exacerbated exponentially more. My ex's mom said such a thing. She was married for 6 years, divorced, got the house, the kid (my girlfriend at the time), the money, the car, and moved out of state. Never married again specifically to milk all of the stuff her ex husband had to pay out. She was jobless and paid for her, her kid, and her house with the money her ex had to pay in child support. Her annual pay, after putting together "child support" and state assistance was $75000. She made more money without having to work than most people make in a year working a full time job. It is up to men to end hook up culture because women won't take responsibility for their part of it but when women put out so easily, well... Good luck ladies.

[@noblesiner]

Man your content is fastly becoming the best sh*t on KZbin. Definitely the best in the manosphere!

[@AlfieTank]

You can't practice Hypergamy when in a committed relationship, especially when you fear being labeled a Slooot by the community. You can try a few Chads + Tyrones and see which one sticks. 🤷🏿‍♂️ Btw the Dating coach - Single. 😂 I am SHOoOk🤡

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

What community? What reputation? They're peers, friends, and family practically encourage all the sluttery? And if they don't? Trust me. She's sneaking them in under the cover of night past 9:30pm to preserve "her social reputation"

[@RusselBode]

@@bobbyscalchi4013 This is applicable well over 90 percent of the time with how low humanity is currently...facts

[@JT-bt6jy]

That professor needed to do research to find out who controls hookup culture 😧. Could have asked any random person and they would have told you it’s women. Tells you all you need to know about her….

[@fmagalhaes1521]

@Manosphere. This video is gold!!!

[@Adrian-qr6gk]

there aren't even girls 18 years old who are virgins whereas not too long ago many were. And men pursued them too. It meant something it meant saving yourself for one person that mattered. Women can jumble their words, they can use their silver tongue to manipulate our language any way they want. But women's nature is fit for the hookup culture, sure they're sad but nature isn't about being happy it's about what we do by instinct. And women can't walk away from the modern dating world, from the new casual dating system. Otherwise they'd change right, it doesn't work in the long term nor does it supplement women's happiness. Then you add to it all the traditional things women still require from men, while men get none of the traditional things women once offered, like femininity, submission, virginity, kids while young, sex with a husband and more than once, not being a garden tool. The world of love is dead, thanks to women. Men have adapted and it will push things more but hey men can't be sitting down taking crap til women figure it out. Be ready men, millennial and gen z are still young but once we become old we're gonna see the majority of women alone and bitter, hating men, hating themselves for their decisions, desperate for chad and tyrone. Women don't want good men, they're not attracted to them, they want the bad boys by nature. It is bad boys that breed the most. the evidence for all this is too much to see sometimes but if men are ever going to live happy lives, content lives, we have to accept the hand we're dealt. I gave up on women, look at them with honest eyes. it's gross.

[@jamenb7344]

"Gross" is right

[@dandywaysofliving]

Red pilled men could marry each other in same sex marriage. Legally adopt or have a baby cooked for em in a womb. I know how that sounds. But It would work. How scary would it be if red pullers had families

[@qcbelzebuth7083]

Moral of the story human always think about their self interest. For woman polygamy is an advantage for them BUT not for man. Sad world we live in.

[@RAndrewKReed]

If wahamanzes didn't want and prefer hook up bangalangalagllang culture it would not exist. Gyno- centrism gets what gyno- centrism wants.

[@tamuman93]

Wow. This video is pure gold.

[@nexusdrop7863]

They prefer it as long as they can get free meals and drinks. Once that starts slowing down they suddenly want traditional relationships where the guy works all day and she stays at home.

[@Currygoatpapi]

The sisterhood approval I call them the Commission they all come together and play this game depending on how u look on Instagram and non compliant u are dealing with them.

[@sman14GTA]

"I want a traditional man/ traditional privileges" "Are you a _traditional_ woman? Feminine, healthy shape, Virgin, no kids from another, able to prepare multiple home cooked meals, effective housekeeping skills, and ready to submit to a man, his leadership and his will? "..." "Ok then let's keep it _modern_ , your Uber is coming in 7mins. I'll text you later.

[@Calembunial]

Or you both pay for yourselves? Can someone explain to me what's wrong with splitting? Like why is this a bad thing? Why does one person always have to pay for the whole thing?

[@worldwarwitt2760]

now your creating extra work for the employees. whoever suggest splitting should cover the tip.

[@johanlorentzon4963]

It's just her way of justifying why men should pay most times.

[@SeattlePioneer]

Of course one person doesn't need to pay the whole thing. Just so long as the woman pays nothing. THINK of all the TRADITIONS feminism has discarded! Just none that favored women. THOSE remain peachy.

[@Calembunial]

@@worldwarwitt2760 Tipping isn't really a big issue. Where I live, it's baked into the bill. You can give more or less if you want to. For example, when you're paying, you can tell them to keep the change. Also, what happens when you go out with friends? Does one person pay for everything just to avoid splitting the bill?

[@BENR8108]

It comes from a time when “courting” a women was an intentional act. A sign of respect to her a willingness to put one’s resources on the line and show your “worthiness” and value to her. And in turn she had a lower risk and could vet the man slowly. It worked well, and people ended up marrying people at the same level, women still want that because it’s natural, however because of screwed up dating is, they only focus on looks and nit character. And the good looking dudes don’t need to pay for dates to get the gurls pants, but the nice guys does. Splitting the bill to her means you don’t value her (traditional mindset) and you should be grateful to have her (modern narcissism); and notice the girls are insulted to think they need to pay.