The Difference Between American vs European Girls -- Expert Calibration

[@hamidman6974]

Europe girls are different depending on their country/zone. Nordic/eastern/German/spanish, portoguese, French, Italian/ southern eastern. Each place is a bit different.

[@ToddVDating]

Definitely agree. The biggest message is the method and idea. Of course every girl is a little bit different.

[@mat822]

Not a bit, quite a lot. Eastern europe girls are completely different from latin (spanish, italian, portugues).. it's just another type of game

[@FrankieXenon]

Matteo Pelliccia i agree. Pure asian girls are probably those most different by far

[@evilgenius88]

A lot different. Compare Ukrainian, Italian, Sweden, Dutch, Greece all very different.

[@KokeJr]

If you go to europe to pick up, stay in the Eastern europe, the baltics or balkans, don't waste your time in Western/Southern europe...

[@Pushfredtech]

As a Swede i can definitely relate to what Todd is saying, and he is spot on. It's almost like Europe is seen as one country though, and if you're going to Spain, Croatia or whatever more to the south, girls will behave differently. Sweden is an extreme example.

[@Pushfredtech]

As an anecdote me and my buddy laughed hard at the comment to sort of "wait them out", it's SO true.

[@orionp.9476]

Spain & Portugal are the reason latino culture is the way it is, they're the ones who brought "warmth" attitude to the new continent. So yeah expect the Spain/Portugal to be filled with warmth, high-volume speech and outgoing attitudes as opposed to scandinavian people who CAN DEFINTIIVELY be loud and outgoing, but only when they truly trust you.

[@gordodacat]

Fred how do Spanish girls behave differently as opposed to Sweden???

[@TheEugeneBlond]

Thats true even if the speak is about big country)

[@zimonslot]

The women are also quite extremely beautiful... but also high maintenence. Like they expect you to take care of them XD and they won't pay for their own drinks for starters, am I right?

[@TheLKStar]

Adding to this, I have a theory that girls in more dangerous places, like Brazil, value mostly the characteristics of a leader who can protect them. This may sound gerenic, but being strong in both body and mind, and socially savvy is extremely effective in such places. If you show you can handle the world, she will assume you can handle her too.

[@edymasta]

TheLKStar poke a little deeper in your reasoning and it becomes philosophical

[@copaxchannel]

So true that happens to a very sexy Brazilian girl a had

[@cakeboss1721]

Learn Brazilian jiu jitsu then

[@patricioiglesias5346]

Makes sense, I think that in Europe they don’t mind if the guy is a bit feminine, while in Mexico where I live they just friend zone him

[@BrettMaverick]

Todd I got a video idea for ya. How game is different for attractive guys. As a generalized "attractive" guy, I've noticed we can't get away with cocky/funny because we will be perceived as arrogant. It seems to work better to play up a more laid-back humble vibe.

[@copaxchannel]

Brett Maverick bro I follow you since you had like 100 followers!! Make a video about how to pick up girls in the states !!!!

[@user-qc5wi6yg7i]

In the same boat here.

[@armanivi]

I need this too

[@L4TEKNIGHT]

@Todd, please do that video

[@Eastern_Tate]

True my friend

[@Samklemens]

1:53 - What American girls respond to 3:25 - The difference between Sweden and 'Murica 4:19 - Incongruence of conveying value in Sweden 5:32 - The value gap in Sweden 6:55 - How to game any girl, anywhere

[@denisenova7494]

Girls aren't "games".

[@9oth]

Denise Nova nah but they love playing em.

[@krakensoup8221]

So America is like fast food, Europe is like a dine-in restaurant.

[@likemysnopp]

hahaha thats a good one!

[@davidnelson7719]

Europe is like the run down restaurant that only attracts retired widowers reading the paper and drinking coffee. And patiently waiting to die.

[@Mayhzon]

America is simply more undermined than Europe by the people responsible for Hook-up Culture (Very subtle hint: Yes, it's Jews, a very specific group of them). So it's only natural that America is suffering worse from the mentality behind it.

[@davidnelson7719]

@@Mayhzon I think you made my fries yesterday. Thanks for the extra salt!

[@Mayhzon]

@@davidnelson7719 No problem. Have a good one. Don't forget your packets of mayonaise next time around, though.

[@bradthomason690]

Being a guy from Sweden (and I'm successful and rich), I agree with a lot of what you're saying. Swedish girls like confident guys, but bragging about your status, money or otherwise does seem more like you're insecure and trying to overcompensate for something according to a lot of Swedish girls (and guys). American culture is a lot about "the bigger, the better", which you see in everything from cars etc, but it is seen as insecurity here. It's better to have nice and well thought through things that show intelligence here, rather than just "big" things. You mentioned some general things about being an attractive guy in all cultures - I agree with many of them, but I think one thing that Americans tend to misunderstand is that being "loud" is a really good thing in all cultures (in America you are seen as insecure if you're not loud). Swedish girls again want you to show confidence in what you do, not be afraid to walk up to them etc, but being "loud" is seen as insecure here (like you're trying to overcompensate for other things), trying to scream for attention (a secure and confident guy don't need to do that) and generally annoying. Swedish girls prefer guys that are "down to earth".

[@snoopy1390]

Trust me most legit average US girls agree with you. I'm from the US and most of us normal women think that a cocky guy comes off as a desperate jerk. It's not attractive at all and it screams insecurity. Our concentrated culture from places like Hollywood, Vegas and NY City is what is portrayed in media but isn't how we really are in all the rest of the country. We like a normal confident guy who is humble just as much as you guys do 😉👍🏼

[@sexyyxes3101]

@@snoopy1390 This is the biggest bullshit I've ever heard

[@SamSilk]

I'm French, I'd like to add something else: I've visited the USA several times and I must say first contact with girls from your country was way easier than what I'm used to in Paris. I've come to the conclusion that the myth of the french lover comes from a cultural difference that has nothing to do with seduction: it's way more difficult to break the ice and make first contact with european girls, especially in big cities such as Paris. Thus, french dudes like me tend to misread girls in the US because they are easier to talk to and in France this is the girls' "first line of defense/bullshit" that's the hardest part. A French guy who's just talks a few minutes to an American girl may be kinda bolder than the average aAmerican dude because he thinks he's almost there, and maybe that's what makes a difference: the girl is just being polite but he's thinkin "I've already won." , just because in France that's the way it works: in Paris a girl can be very rude if you try to approach her the wrong way, but if you can make her stop for a moment and get her number, it's already a huge step, whereas in your country, it doesn't mean anything: people a just way more polite and easier to talk to.

[@mrconfusion87]

Grass is greener mentality seems to be fairly universal...

[@GuillaumeRx]

@steven cellugi I'm french. That doesn't matter really. Paris is Paris. It is its own thing, like Vegas for instance. The city has its own culture. It's different from the rest of the country, let alone the world. Probably one of the most self-centered cities in the world, and that influences the way people live and interact with others. A small minority of people in Paris are born and raised there. Most people in Paris are french citizens (doesn't matter the background) who came here for work/college, or foreigners that became french, want to, or are here for a few years for work/college. As long as you've lived more than 2/3 years in Paris, you get the culture, the way of life, the habits, the social dynamics, the idea. It does not matter how long you lived there (in terms of "are you "traditional" or "modern" Parisian, whatever that means). Nobody there think in these terms, apart maybe from a very rare, dumb, arrogant, self-centered "elite" (at least that's how they view themselves) of "pure Parisians" that live in their own bubble. You probably won't encounter them. And you don't want to deal with these anyway. The longer you've been there, the easier it is to "get it" though. The "street scene" can very harsh, wild, dirty. People subconsciously see it as a "war zone" kinda, girls especially. Cold approaching in the streets is difficult, not well-received at all. People are aggressive, girls are on the defensive. Bars, cafes, social gatherings are much better. As a culture, the french, (and other Europeans), are way more into Arts on average than most other countries. It's a cultural thing, you're surrounded by Art everywhere, it influences the way we're taught at school from a very young age. It's been at the center of our culture for centuries. So I personally find more people are interested in Art, and have opinions and knowledge to share. If you're into art, you'll probably find more people, and, by extension, more girls, interesting, especially in big West European Cities (Rome, Madrid, London, Berlin, Paris, Bordeaux, etc).

[@yane499]

@@GuillaumeRx c'est vrai que les parisiennes ont la grosse tête, mais j'avoue que j'ai galeré plus avec les italienne en italie et les marocaines, qu'avec les parisienne...

[@thehuman3077]

Really insightful from France, thank you!

[@salembeats1875]

So america is superficial?

[@SammyCee23]

Yeah. And water is wet.

[@hylketromp5076]

From a guy who's been born and raised in Europe and has been in the US plenty of times, yes, the US is extremely superficial

[@Armando.Sepulveda]

Especially California

[@cryora]

Does a million dollars sound superficial to you?

[@androssteague]

Damn skippy

[@parma2414]

You're killing it dude

[@DatingBeyondBorders]

Very true when it comes to Scandinavian/Nordic dating (and maybe Germany/Austria/Switzerland to an extent). Great explanation! I would only change the name of the video from "European" to "Scandinavian" because Italian and Portuguese girls, as an example (and I'm not even getting into Central/Eastern Europe) are very different and status tends to matter a lot more. Eastern Europeans are all about status :)

[@michaeltrumph121]

Well said, especially about Eastern Europe.

[@prashanthb6521]

Same in India, more towards status.

[@tonybrown9875]

What is the point in this. Women across the world mainly just want your attention, dk and or money. So you study all these techniques, spend hours and hours of time dating women, all to get one in bed. I knew guys like that in high school, they're all married living in the suburbs with now chubby wives, dogs, cats, lots of children, the women quit working or work few hours, they earn good incomes but are up to their eyeballs in debt for her lifestyle. Guys who put this much effort in trying to get women are ridiculous. If you truly understood women you would not give them much of your attention.

[@eugenetkachev]

This is where most of RSD would say, oh all girls are the same, be the best version of yourself and things will happen to you. While Todd gives down to earth practical nuanced advice.

[@abdulloisaakoff870]

Frederick0220 tell us which one is better?

[@abdulloisaakoff870]

Frederick0220 I gamed in Seattle and San Francisco. Absolutely no luck, also too competitive. Somehow these girls that I almost hooked up with would rather hook up with like black guys or tall men. Wtf right!

[@caboose2163]

1. European girls are cooler now in my eyes. 2. Introverts would thrive in Europe provided they come out of their shells. 3. After watching this I've realized something … I've been drinking in the wrong bars. I should be drinking in Europe!

[@mimmiblu6138]

Just one question here : who are 'European women'? You're speaking abour Swedish women and already speaking of a whole country in general terms is a sweeping generalisation... but are you sure that women in, let's say, Italy tick in the same way as in Sweden?

[@KingRandor82]

I want to believe I'd thrive in Europe, being an introvert...but I'm also a seriously ambitious die-hard Capitalist with an orientation toward results, so yeah...probably not.

[@mikkovaltonen3564]

@@KingRandor82 I think Todd used the wrong term here. No European country has actually been socialist/communist after the end of the Cold War. It's more about the more egalitarian mindset and that your character matters more than your wealth or popularity. Or at least you're less likely to get away with cocky and obnoxious behavior because of your wealth/status in Europe than in America.

[@KingRandor82]

@@mikkovaltonen3564 and "egalitarian" is something I'm very much *not* ok with...but certainly shows *why* those statist ideas took hold in those nations so easily. As I said....I'm a die-hard Capitalist with an orientation toward results; I could see that being a massive turn-off to the women there.

[@Jasiel.95]

Introverts aren’t in shells. We just don’t want to talk to idiots.

[@johnnybatafljeska6368]

Sounds to me that the life in Sweden is much healthier than in USA

[@danieljonespt2876]

It’s not.

[@Sealwithwificonnection]

Bro, Sweden is in a pretty dark place right now lol

[@Armando.Sepulveda]

I'd rather date a Swede than a southern California native

[@tessml]

Im from Sweden and I can tell you tajt those comments about muslims and shit is bullshit! Look up the countries with the best life expectancy and the Scandinavian ones are at the top.

[@oliviamoore3426]

Lol you don’t get blown up by Muslims here. There’s been one incident where some asswipe ran over some people. As for rape, the legal term has been broadened, which makes it easier to get a conviction which increase the rape statistic. If you had the same legal terms for rape in other countries their statistics would increase as well. Besides it’s in the interest of conservatives to have the picture of sweden as a failing country to scare voters into voting for them because socialism shouldn’t work in their opinion. Read up about things before you speak. With that said I’m relatively conservative my self, going to the middle though.

[@ToddVDating]

Calibration, the ability to pay attention to the girl in front of you and adjust your approach accordingly, is a major element of advanced game. Obviously not all Americans or Europeans fit the prototypes I mention in this video, but it's a good place to start.

[@Martin-xv]

Great value here Todd. Looking forward to more technical/calibration related material.

[@zerzer6809]

Hey man please add a subtitles in a next time

[@tq02sog]

Thanks for the content Todd. Very informative. Have you think about making this topic a series? It would be interested to see how about Asian like Chinese/Japanese/Korean, and also South America like Mexico/Brazil/Colombia

[@gs8777]

Nice I remember this story from one of your videos!

[@SammyCee23]

As a guy of minority race/culture who tends to go for these women, I agree with this video. I was actually a little surprised you did a video on this. Well done!

[@chuck2703]

Guy grows up. He's nice, shy, and treats each woman like a queen. He's constantly rejected and friend zoned. Meanwhile he sees his romantic interests hook up with the "sleezy guy" women say they hate. He goes to women and they say how he should keep doing the same thing that's not working. Then he hears them complain about the jerk that didn't call them back. Guy is sad and confused. He finds a channel where he sees how to become confident, assertive, charming and put his needs first. Attractive women notice him now. He has options. He is happy. Now he can choose who he gives his time to. He dates and sleeps around. Calling back the ones he likes. Gets called a sleeze ball by butt hurt(literally) women who still drop nice guy bf, husband, friend-zone chump to be with him. ... And yet. Some women say to ignore biology, evolution, results and go back to being a nice guy. Because it's better? Christ I love this world

[@il0ve5ex]

+1

[@KingRandor82]

humans in general love to pretend that they're totally something that they're totally not. As an Autistic guy who likes to "cut thru the bullshit" all the time, being almost entirely results-oriented, oh the things I could tell you..

[@megatacka]

THIS IS THE BEST AND MOST CORRECT REPLY I have ever seen in regards to women shaming guys who want to learn how to be more successful in their dating lives. Thank you!

[@Mayhzon]

@@KingRandor82 This is true. If you look at our species rationally and leave the philosphical dolling up out: We are a race of terrible two-legged predators, that has managed the total enslavement of all other species known to walk on land and outbred every other breed. We have achieved this by realizing that bashing two stones against each other is pretty rad and that you should try doing that with other materials. Funny world.

[@poisonsquid37]

@@KingRandor82 As a probable sperg myself I completely agree. Humans desperately need to convince themselves they are good people in a world that fundamentally requires them to be not good. I mean think about it; we literally have to kill and eat other creatures to survive. Can anyone truly be expected to be "good" in a world like that? We can certainly try, but what tends to happen is instead of actually becoming a "good" person, we just unconsciously hide all the things about ourselves that are bad. So what you get is a species of self-righteous hypocrites that will be the first person to call out others on their bullshit while being in complete denial about their own.

[@benblexbenblex]

I'm an anthropologist. Appreciate that you dont rely on cultural and stereotypes and actually connect this to economic systems. Good stuff.

[@twigletcheese]

I have lived in Norway for nearly two years, after living in the U.K. for the majority of my life. Moving was the best thing I ever did. However, I had to completely re-calibrate myself especially when it comes to girls. Escalation is very different here, the dating model is VERY different here and frequently, indeed rather delightfully, the girls will make the first move on you as far as making out or whatever. Getting laid is a lot easier, however finding a partner is a lot harder. In most of the U.K. there is a lot of poverty and social insecurity, so people tend to jump into relationships very quickly. In Norway that doesn't exist on anywhere near the same scale, so consequently hookup culture is openly mainstream but people stay single a lot longer.

[@2dimitropolis370]

for God sake you in usa think that there are " european" type of girls....hahahahaha You will have to work differenty in every county in Europe....we are whole world

[@Yellow.1844]

Well your continent is still smaller than Canada xddd

[@X.00896]

@@Yellow.1844 it literally isn't.

[@Christian-cb9jr]

C D Yeah but there are like a bizillion countries each with a different history that goes back like 2000 years.

[@gachaelephant6841]

@C D Your point?

[@vipexfn9663]

@@X.00896 it is look it up

[@uncleyogie4698]

At college I met many foreign girl. Lot of girls from Europe. German, Russian, Eastern European. They were attractive but their personality was very chill. Relaxed. Felt like talking to an old friend. USA culture it's all about being in your face. Being hyper af 😂😂😂 Status Showing material I prefer girls who are relaxed. Girls who do too much care remind me of the circus

[@wickedhyperstyler]

Wtf is happening. I can't keep up watching all this content lol

[@ToddVDating]

Well... I had hundreds of videos wiped from the internet. Have to get my message back out there as quickly as possible ;)

[@reshad6856]

Todd Valentine lol you're fucking awesome Todd.

[@animal0mother]

And each video is so valuable on an individual basis. My game is getting better by the day and by the video ffs.

[@SammyCee23]

Actually I appreciate the fact that Todd's new videos are short, direct and straight to the point without unnecessary filler and non-sense that are too long (1-2 or 3 hour videos) when people's attention spans nowadays like mine are short as hell (unlike some channels I won't mention)...

[@wickedhyperstyler]

Seoul: True, I like Owen's hour long rants, too though. They go especially well as "audio books". I find them very inspiring. On the other hand I caught myself wondering what the point of a video (from Owen) was when I was revisiting it on youtube so I could clear it off my watch list. I guess a short summary at the end would be helpful. Besides, long videos are benefitted by the youtube search algorithm.

[@Armando.Sepulveda]

In Germany there's no such thing as dating, either you are together or you're not

[@mimmiblu6138]

That's probably the only thing we have in common throughout continental Europe.... try and tell an Italian woman you're dating somebody else at the same time... good luck!

[@h3834]

@Therese Eriksson Exactly. First time I heard someone say I'm dating 'this' and 'that' etc i was so confused since i believed that dating meant girlfriend and boyfriend etc.

[@nickystyles868]

Bin auch deiner Meinung. Außerdem weiger ich mich zu glauben, Amerikanerinnen sind so schlampig, wie dieser Typ andeuten will, schließlich gibts 2milliarden Frauen in der USA.

[@il0ve5ex]

@@nickystyles868 diese dummheit....

[@onee]

@@mimmiblu6138 Women do it in Europe though. Men just keep it secret. XD

[@matthewbaumann630]

The difference is that European girls are actually good. Eastern European girls are the best!

[@annan9216]

I’m 90% Eastern European

[@dr.slowdeath1852]

@@annan9216 thanks for qualifying good girl :D

[@jmlepunk]

"European girls" is already a mistake. A Scandinavian is totally different from a Spanish who herself will be totally different from a Ukrainian. Europe is a lot more diverse than the US, the American culture is more homogeneous regardless of all the immigrants

[@tamlin420]

This was very interesting to me as a Swede since I've been watching a lot of your material on YT and I often keep thinking about and wondering how all this actually applies to a Swedish context since we are quite different in how we socialize and all of these things. It's interesting to hear how you all managed to calibrate and succeed even in a Swedish context, and I would love to hear even more in-depth discussions about this.

[@jjr04001]

This explains why I'm happier, and more successful with European women. I am not European. My parents were born in Colombia, and I was born in the U.S. Being a pharmacist (doctoral degree) is not celebrity status, but it does attract a certain type of American woman. I am sometimes actually pursued by American women, though for superficial reasons. European women seem to like you for who you are on a deeper level, not what you are or your status...generally speaking of course.

[@hylketromp5076]

I come from the Netherlands which is relatively small, and you can notice the differences even between cities. Every place is a bit different amd girls do respond differantly.

[@sarahlennox8963]

I was raised in North America, but my parents were European. It may be their values, but I fall in line more with the European observations. Status did nothing for me (putting out such a materialistic expression, to me, was a sign he had nothing of substance to offer internally). I had men in porsches who worked for Pharma companies coming onto me, literally telling me how amazing he was...and it wasn't attractive at all. It actually made me lose any interest I may have had. I didn't care at all. He seemed shallow and hollow. He couldn't hold a conversation outside himself, and that was so gross. I wanted an interesting man who had hobbies and intelligence. A man who was protective, but wasn't running into a fight. I like the man who stops the fight, not wins the fight. I dressed very elaborate (I was a model at the time), but I wanted the comfort man lol. I was raised to dress elegantly and proudly when leaving the house (leaving in your pjs in our house was a huuuuuge NO, it did not happen). But a lot of those men who weren't interested in material things would assume I was a material based person because of my dress, but that was not the case at all. It was just how I was raised--absolutely no slouchy wear 😂

[@TheDragonFoodHeir]

Very good. Always good. European girls do seem more open to talking and interacting with me in my experience compared to American girls, I have to drill longer to get them okay to interact.

[@Gamechangerr667]

European or American girls, I love em both! They are very lovely and have their own specialties.

[@MonkeyDM]

Awesome ! just a quick question will you release an open to close step by step program/video, or is it already out and i'm missing it ? thanks for the videos and best of luck to you

[@JeremiahIsacc]

Hey I've been trying to sing up free to get a password it says: in a few minutes to check my inbox, two days and nothing...:/

[@jackbagelz5010]

good info.. coming back to the states from Europe has opened my eyes to how different American women are.. they are like a brick wall to me at this point.

[@markjonesz5811]

Dropping new content at this time is purely GOLD . I love the topic, super fresh and very valuable. Game is not the same everywhere, these small details that you talk in the video makes a huge difference . ( specially when u are meeting a girl for the first time and she has 0 info on you, anything u do that turn her off can screw things up). To contribute with the topic i'm gonna talk about my city... in my city i noticed that girls are much more closed off with strangers, it's a big city but with very few tourists. I've traveled the world to cities with tourists and i noticed that girls are MUCH more receptive at this places, i've got many insta dates with girls at these cities. I'm my city i struggle with that thing ... people much more closed off... insta dates rare, girls are much more worried about comfort . ( all dates that i manifested i had to build lots of comfort before going out)

[@mianbh8706]

you did not mention even the name of your city. not even the name of the country. thank you for your input. respect

[@ej1692]

Completely agree with what you said and I'm happy to see a traditional pickup artist actually bring these nuances up because the majority of "others" will tell you "girls are all the same everywhere man, it's all in your head" which is total bullshit, and in my opinion, just exposes how little those guys actually know and understand about game. I lived in Latin American for a year, and although there is an abundance of beautiful women there and it's easier to get laid than the U.S as an American guy (assuming you know some of the language), the cookie cutter push-pull, high-intensity, rsd style interactions don't do well there at all. The majority of 1st gen Latinas don't understand western sarcasm, and they think that negging a girl is just plain offensive. Light teasing is ok sprinkled in here and there, but the shit you can get away with in the states does not work at all; in fact most girls think it is weak and socially weird. Once I realized that, my results went through the roof. They are definitely more on the comfort end of the spectrum, similar to European girls.

[@Am-kg1ng]

rsd? What is

[@1111Tactical]

I live near the border and Mexican girls are the same as how you describe European girls. They immediately acknowledge sexual tension, it's assumed to be there, and basically strong connection alone can close. I don't think it's because of socialism in that case. I think Mexican culture just values family, friends, spirit, and emotions more.

[@josuastangl7140]

So glad there's finally some new things to learn in the Community

[@RezznT]

So awesome to see you putting out so much content so quickly Todd. One of the first things I do of a morning when I wake up now is check to see if you put out a new video.

[@alka3341]

Great video, Todd!! I am European and based in Europe. What you said totally resonates with my experience with Western European and American girls, which is rather limited in comparison with yours. I would be interested to hear your take on high self-esteem vs. low self-esteem women. I think that is very important thing to be aware of, screen for and it is rarely given as much space, ink and time in the PUA community as I think it should. In my observation and experience, it can make a huge difference between a good relationship (serious, fuckbuddy or whatever) and a hectic one. What is more, I bet most of us would really like to know how to screen for a potentially psychotic girlfriend but don't really have a super clear idea on how to do that.

[@CondemnedLegacy]

From my experience, and what you're saying about Americans and Europeans, British girls are a totally crazy mix of both. Whenever I've gotten to a point with a girl where I'm starting to create sexual tension, they're either super on-board, or will just kill it dead and the whole thing just fizzles out. You ever spend any time in the UK?

[@grcamatter]

Thanks Todd! I live in Greece and it's more like the Swedish culture for sure. Here, one of the challenges is making them feel secure and paying attention to the surrounding area for other males or females who play the protectors. Another thing is being too boisterous can be a real turn off. Everyone knows everyone, and because of the bar set up it's more relaxed. Though it's easier to become friends with someone, pulling them and kissing them on the fly is not recommended. There is always exception. Women here are well dressed get attracted by money. Because of the the on going economic crisis there could be unforseen factors. (which I'm calberating for)

[@CO84trucker]

As a second generation immigrant (Austrian father & Polish mother) I seem to have an emotional connection to women with similar roots to the old world.

[@LordSantiagor]

Very interesting, thanks. Europe is very heterogeneous though. Nordic, Mediterranean, or Eastern European countries have very different cultures.

[@evilgenius88]

First somewhat accurate analysis by an American pua comparing European and American girls when it comes to game. However there are large differences between European countries. From a european

[@buckybarnes3803]

Interesting, because normally you guys are talking about pick up in terms of how humans are hard-wired from evolution, but in this case Swedish behavior is based on "current" socio-economic environment, and not primitive urges. So it's kind of a contradiction there.

[@ToddVDating]

Not really. It's the old nature vs nurture debate... and the answer is "it's both."

[@oboyy]

Except you've been spewing that it's nature for the last 10 years. So yes, really.

[@johanneshansen852]

Todd Valentine Not gonna lie, on this issue im getting super confused about what my frame is, and if my goal is still "be highest value possible" generally or if in Denmark, Like sweden, its going to be more "be a non-needy nice Guy. " In terms of value and comfort im not sure how to do high comfort in a way that works, because its so archipypally needy.

[@codeninja100]

They’re actually pretty similar. The reason women chase the high value guy in America is because he has this assumed level of stability. European women chase a man whose “been at the same company for years” as Todd puts it is for the same reason: Stability. Women across the board just want someone who makes them feel secure. There’s just different ways of approaching it depending on where you live

[@Sealwithwificonnection]

Johannes Hansen that's why Todd preaches calibration, dude. it's never fully one way or the other. the skill you want to grow is to be able to "read" what that particular girl wants.

[@tessiesantiago2858]

So my boyfriend kept saying to me that I didn’t fit into any molds, after listening to this video Helps me understand what he was conveying... I thought he would be a perfect one night stand for me because he made feel safe, but now we have been together 4 years.

[@Rustyhound-Cartoons]

I'm Norwegian and everything he says in this video is true. It really speaks to his skill to figure that all out over the course of a few days and adapt in such a way. What a lot of people over here like to say when talking about the cultural differences between Scandinavians and Americans. Is that Americans like to sell themselves and brag, make everything seem grand etc. Or that they think they're better/more valuable than others. Where as all Scandinavians are considered equal (even celebreties are to a great extent). In fact many are repulsed by that American stereotype I just explained. Now how accurate the stereotype is doesn't really matter, but it goes to show the difference in values and what the general population find attractive or obnoxious/unnatractive. As a side note a friend of mine in High school was born and lived a bit in Miami, and he had very high value, confidence to the point of arrogance and he attracted many girls in my high school. I remember one girl telling me that when he just asked her to borrow her charger it got her wet and turned her on in class. That always interested me and it goes to show that opposite of tging can indeed still work if done right. Ironicly, despite growing up in Norway, I first started getting laid over in the U.S. (California).

[@SammyCee23]

Scandinavia interests me :) Glad to hear though you finally got laid when you went to the U.S. though lol.

[@danielbautista1693]

What calibration adjustments have you made with Spanish women in general.

[@drakenpage777]

American women: weird. Europe women: normal.

[@SquarePenix.]

Hey Todd, I wanted resume stacked girls like you before but I also found them boring. What kind of women do you want now? Because I am searching for something I didn’t realize I wanted until now.

[@caperjim]

Look at all the jealous RSD bought disagrees. Todd Valentine is the king of pickup. Deal with it.

[@aand_av1308]

Having massive difficulties reading girls since I've moved to Prague. I'm used to gaming Brazilian girls, who are more similar to Americans. Todd V videos are being great help.

[@guinthehouse]

Wow, another video. Thanks Todd.

[@therealmattchong]

Where does the UK fit into this?

[@realfaizansofi]

Todd build an app just like Tony Robbin's Breakthrough and start putting out premium content on it

[@michaelaubry1338]

Thats where I could come in @Todd. Just released an app to thousands of customers with amazing feedback.

[@malthus101]

fuck Tony Robins, that guy is a hack.

[@hanswurst61245]

If you look at this through the lense of Spiral Dynamics, the US is basically at Stage Orange and Northern Europe has more of a Stage Green culture.

[@valentinomc]

Americans vs Swedish yes, Swedish is not Europe. Pleas

[@johanneshansen852]

I feel "cockyness" is almost the main trait of good game, so not being cocky leaves me rather empty on how to handle my game plan

[@floydmayweather7326]

*cockiness

[@Spincushor]

Jesus Christ Todd. I live in Sweden. Never understood why I pull American girls so easy with my old Julien Style of Game but then struggled more in Europe. I finally figured it out on my own but the way you present it is on point.

[@silkemyk3178]

Spincushor Same here from Norway haha, I like to be the one who takes initiative and leads and southern european girls and others responds way better to that. Norwegian girls always come up to me and opens which I still find kind of annoying. Because I prefer the american way I usually date foreign girls to improve my social skills.

[@lovesouthfrance]

Spincushor You would never get me or my very beautiful friends using the Lord Jesus name in vain like that! Get some class!

[@dmytriidolhov90]

I am from Eastern Europe and live in the US for 5 years now. I confirm the topic of this video as true. I had to learn the game after coming here to the US because talking to American girls in my European ways was not very effective. And same when I now use the game on European girls they don't care about it at all...

[@amberosburn2941]

I'm from Europe & my husband American. America male's are so entitled, rude & hard to talk to. Big curtule difference

[@12cry1]

You say that yet your married to one.i hope he divorces your ass.

[@pizdanpula223]

And loud @Amber.... I'm male,from East-EU but my sister is married to an american and I agree with you on those points. But they are not all like that , I know a couple of american guys who are good dudes and know how to treat other people in general with decency

[@ESP1138]

I am American and I am very rude. I am hard to talk to because I don't like talking to humans.

[@menemme]

Video title should be American girls vs Swedish girls. You cant over generalize when it comes toEuropean girls. There's an abyss between swedish (northern europe) and spain ( fully latin culture) or czech republic (former soviet block etc..). Take my word for it. I live there.

[@KHhero]

Todd probably won't talk about POC girls for all those who keep asking cuz that one pickup dude made a channel about exclusively how to pickup "Asian" girls and the entire Asian media/internet went after him so I doubt that's the kind of audience Todd wants to draw when (re)building his channel... of course it's ok to talk about Euro culture diff cuz they "white" lol

[@RPCSaint]

Todd. Tyyyyyyyyy for keeping it real. You dont go along with the clickbate side of game. You just really want people to succeed with real results by giving real genuine advice. My tip: keep it going, people will follow along and appreciate eventually, mark my word

[@Jollyslide]

Brilliant analysis. At first I was in the camp that believed seduction was universal, which it still probably is in most aspects. This video really brought some nuance into that belief. Really well explained!

[@zachfairways]

Best pua on KZbin. You create good quality and FREE content. Your free stuff is way better than most pua "programs" you get. I feel like a lot of guys think they need to be over the top of hyper alpha to get girls. You disprove that be just being chill and confident yet strategic. I also like that you don't make your videos too long. Peace

[@amitmidha2569]

Hey Todd, can you do a technical breakdown of "Hot guy blase" game - can't think of anyone else who can do it....P.S appreciate all the content :)

[@orangeorange9719]

It seems like you are going to see a blueprint for each different type of girls on youtube series.

[@13TrafalgarLaw]

I feel Todd is free, his speach his ideas are free. Do you feel that? Now he feels more free to express himhelf without fear, and i like it.He does not hold back.The day of Todd's independence came in the surface.

[@maxskywalkr]

Name of the song is: mattison - predictions (stewrat bootleg)

[@sana6840]

so the things about american girls is they were raised in the united states

[@StefanThyron]

As someone who has lived in Sweden for the last year, I can say that this is spot on. Really great observations.

[@DrummerHero008]

loving the Song, very good music taste in general, Todd. Could you add the name in the description or think about creating a spotify playlist? keep it up

[@godiskungen27]

Im a Swede. And approve of this video. Its really true and 100% on point. 🙏

[@I_Cunt_Spell]

Eww, a swede.

[@ammarkreish]

I live in Sweden and i go out with another boys in pick up community , i personally realised the boy who is getting laid mostly in our group is the guy who try to spend as long time as possible with the girl with being so gamy and cocky . While the other guys including me try to hit many girls and being so gamy . Thank you Todd because i am more sure about how to continue gaming in Sweden now .

[@pizdanpula223]

You're muslim so fuck off

[@fifa9752]

@@pizdanpula223 Oh wow, you're fucking racist, as an european christian i have to disagree with you. I think you're the one that should "FUCK OFF''. I'm against racism!

[@nielswolf2808]

DEAR Todd, This video was extremely helpful. I consumed a lot of pick up content (rsd) which is very taylored to american girls. And now I‘ve realised that generally in europe you can be a little more chilled and you do not have to lead super hard. Just be a cool easy going guy and even if the set doesnt seem to go anywhere just wait it out and it might just work out.Thanks you Todd

[@mollygrubber]

I guess I'm either old fashioned, or too Canadian. I find this guy and this whole "game" theory pretty disgusting. What ever happened to class? No wonder the US method doesn't work elsewhere.

[@talknight2]

@@mishasunne9512 Nothing about this is dishonest.

[@williamjconde]

I went to Sweden twice, for the same woman. Two months total 1991 & 1996. I was 5'11", muscular, cut, tan, handsome. When I spoke American English the women flocked to me. Looks, being nice, modesty was gold there. I'm not alpha male at all. Gorgeous, tall, slim, shy, nymphos everywhere. They REALLY like handsome Americans. Or somebody different. American women want alpha, bad boys, cocky, wealthy as they get older. I did only average or above in America. From Minnesota.

[@kuromi_xo]

As a woman i dislike this content as it almost makes getting with women a game in which sex is the price and i find that very objectifying. Idk some people might disagree with me.

[@blah914]

Agree completely. This is creepy.

[@Wonderwoman79G]

@ Lady of the Sharks - you tube is full of them . This guy is tame compared to the other men. There are far too many who are creepier and hate women.

[@froufroudeluxe]

I’ve seen channels completely dedicated to manipulating women into sleeping with you. It’s creepy shit. The comment sections are even worse

[@Ron-gq4yl]

why do you think its manipulating, do you think women are retarded or something and dont understand what they're getting into?

[@froufroudeluxe]

Ron Women falling for “game”? Definitely lmao

[@Navenanthen]

The fact that one is willing to make "adjustments" to one's personal values in order to attract a woman who one otherwise would have little or nothing in common with demonstrates that one is not the "high value man" one is portraying to be. Of course, she won't realise that until she gets to know you better. Or, perhaps, when she watches this video! 😮

[@viktorsocial]

How about Eastern Europe? XD

[@pizdanpula223]

My girls there will see through his shit and chew him like a gum , they are accostumed to bs more than other girls so I don't think his "tehnique" will work

[@eahere]

Which city did you game in? I game in Gothenburg and have gotten basically the opposite impression. Value playing works really well here.

[@downwithit21]

Black girls. I want black girls. Shit is like hard mode for me.

[@guinthehouse]

David Kiani I feel like they are more money oriented. The flaunting, success, fame, lavish stuff seem to work for them imo and also being pretty assholish tbh to a reasonably degree.

[@downwithit21]

B So Its more of a superficial thing right? Have you had any exprience with black girls?

[@downwithit21]

Keep Rocking! Alright, I'll let you know in when I have my engineering degree.

[@downwithit21]

Keep Rocking! Computer Engineering.

[@airlopez21]

I know that many women value a man who is financially well off but I'll tell you this, I have NEVER heard a woman explicitly state her preference for a financially well off man like black women. I remember one time I was at a mall and I overheard these black girls talking. Keep in mind that they were in a group with what appeared to be close friends so I have to assume that they're were being very candid and honest in their discussion. This black girl was talking about how exited she was about this man she met, at one point she literally said "ooohh that nigga got an Audi coupe" she was so exited like she just caught a trophy fish. I was honestly shocked because I've never heard a woman be so blunt about it. I want to be clear though that getting rich won't get you laid. If you learn how to leverage it in the right way it can help but there are plenty of nerdy rich guys who get no pussy. You still need game.

[@ProGamerSergiu]

Does it apply in romania as well?

[@kgizzla]

Helped me alot! I live in Switzerland and my game is good, but I always pulled off the ‘American Game’ and experiencend everything you said. Huge fix for me thanks alot todd!

[@leonidays898]

I lived in Italy for a short period and men tend to be more superficial. They dress nice, wear stuff like yellow pants, grow out their hair, and are outgoing. Women on the other hand are laid back and intelligent. What the men would do is seek American tourist because they said “American women are easy to sleep with.”

[@moderndayrevelation2467]

Todd material is so real now I can't explain it he is a new man word up Todd keep commin with the hits stay genuine bro

[@ktistissotiris]

European girls ? Friend I can understand the term American girls but not European girls. Europe is not united. There is HUGE difference from some European countries to other European countries. Sweden , Greece , Hungary total different between them. Try Greek or Italian women and tell me how compatible are according to Swedish girls.

[@pamelakilponen3682]

Exactly, a lot of over-generalizations here.

[@pizdanpula223]

you won't find 2 girls the same in the same country . Let alone a continent

[@aahmed90]

Todd you come to UK one day I'll book a bootcamp. Love your psychology as it makes sense to me brah

[@ToddVDating]

We'll be doing this in the UK in the Spring/Summer... toddimmersion.com

[@sharp5687]

Im a European guy and it's super hard to get an American chick in my eyes.

[@unknownfrvr6767]

Lol they aren't even good looking

[@I_Cunt_Spell]

@@unknownfrvr6767 Bullshit. Every american women I knew was a curvy DD goddess.

[@gokiburi-chan4255]

How bout Asian vs American?

[@iunnor]

1:08 Idk why i thought he was gonna say “we all ended up pulling the same girl.” Lmao

[@SammyCee23]

As a Korean guy, I've always felt this was true. And this video further confirms my belief about this particular topic!

[@RealHealthyGuidance]

It's easier to get rich in sweden, than usa.

[@krokiersaltcrock5218]

I doubt it.

[@I_Cunt_Spell]

Yeah, just get a tan, speak a little bit of Arabic and you'll get free money from the state.

[@zerozero9511]

After this video you would be the last person i would sleep with, but I’m european maybe it’s that. Lol

[@elizabethbloodworth4253]

I'm an American girl, and I completely agree with you. I don't want to have anything to do with him.

[@patriciomunoz2830]

Truth hurts

[@Sealwithwificonnection]

lool what's funny is that most girls don't realize they're being gamed. They like to be, "Oh, I'm above that!" and as soon as some dude gets their panties wet they turn into 12 year olds. Not criticizing or anything, it's just funny to me

[@craigferge4702]

Don't worry - when you turn 30 and hit the wall, nobody will want to sleep with you either

[@zerozero9511]

KingBowserVlog oh well, I am actually above that tho...you know as a true lover of beautiful woman. Also my gay ass has better game then he’ll ever have and I don’t have to manipulate them to fuck me, I am just fuckable unlike him and his followers. Please don’t mistake that for arrogance it’s just the truth and like someone in this thread said the truth hurts.

[@pinang1]

you can meet any type of girl anywhere basically but in general you are right. Americans are similar to Australians, Canadians and NZs. Europeans are the opposite (maybe UK is different). Thats a huge generalisation but overall on average that's right. And it's not only about girls. Guys are also different. I'm from Europe and I've noticed in general people from those US, AU, CA and NZ are much less interested in a meaningful interaction like making real friends, getting to know someone. But they are much nicer and welcoming on the surface than Europeans, which may be deceiving.

[@mikkovaltonen3564]

Someone put it this way: they're super friendly, but don't want to be your friends.

[@raphe6856]

you could make video about universal attractive qualities

[@MRTORRESONE]

American women in the states are for game beginners, once you’ve obtained advanced game you’ll be successful with non-American women in and outside the states.

[@svetlinsofiev6729]

I am Eastern Europian and I like doing it the American way

[@RafaelCintron]

As someone who lives in New York but spends a lot of time in Sweden, I have to say: this is so fucking on point. Good shit Todd!