The Disturbing Truth About Filipino Romance

The Disturbing Truth About Filipino Romance‪@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234‬
Join us as we uncover the often hidden struggles and challenges faced by couples, including issues of infidelity, financial pressures, and the quest for true love amidst societal norms. This video aims to provide a balanced perspective, showcasing both the beauty and the darker realities of love in the Philippines.
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[@tilapiadave3234]

I wanna be one of the CRAZY people

[@jamestopeka2236]

Awarded lol 😆

[@gibblespascack1418]

It is good to have goals. But it is also possible that you are already there. Congratulations, you made it....

[@rickypayne9192]

I don't date children

[@randyhanson4973]

No you don’t. Trust me

[@pepelemoko01]

If you think you are crazy, you are not crazy.😆

[@johnnyg7899]

I looked at this with a different perspective. When I was married years ago, every time I went out in public with my ex, women everywhere would flirt with me often. Sometimes they even did it in front of her and this was in the U.S. As soon as I got divorced and was single again, not one woman would even take notice of me. I believe that many women are just competitive and jealous of each other by nature.

[@l.d.52]

Correct. I have proven it. Run an escort agency and see.

[@johncarlson6472]

You're right. Extremely competitive. They see you with a woman and want to know what you have that this woman is by your side? Also, I think women can tell when you're single just by how we carry ourselves. I swear, when I have a girlfriend and am getting laid on the regular, when I'm out alone, women approach and flirt, however, when I'm single and out alone and not getting laid, it's like I have plague. LOL! Other guys agree with me on this.

[@davidfisher5140]

Wedding bands in Korea were a reason for a girl to try to hook up with you for the night.

[@garylawson7801]

It's a common trait. My wife tells me she loves me unconditionally and trusts me totally but also admits she has an insecurity about other women flirting and attempting to come between us. She also tells me that because of the way I treat her both in the home and in public, with typical respect and attention to his wife I am considered high value by other Flipina women. An example happened while shopping in the local market in Lapu-Lapu a vender said to her co worker knowingly in front of my wife such and such your American boy friend is here. I was very concious of how my wife would have felt but being a very reserved lady not wanting to make a scene said nothing. Me on the other hand spoke up and said I'm sorry you must have me mistaken for someone else. I'm Australian and the beautiful woman about to purchase from your store is my Wife and I think you owe her an apology. She became rather embarrassed and replied I'm sorry sir I was just joking. I looked at her sternly she got the message and turned to my wife and said Sorry mam. While walking home my wife discribed that woman as an itchy girl. She said I should not have said anything ,but I said that your my wife and deserve to be treated as such.

[@wernerdaiber4558]

It's a special kind of jealousy. It's almost always the fear to loose the foreigner goldmine...

[@KissMyWhiteAss]

When you stop and think about it, if they're really desirable, they can get that "gold mine" anytime they want. I think what they really want is someone who respects them and won't cheat on them, which seems to be an epidemic among filipino men.

[@aliross2720]

True, but to me it also sounds like the type of jealousy you get when dating a pathological narcissist(cluster b personality disorders)..Pathological narcissists are insecure on a fundamental level, where they don't feel safe. They cannot bond(they're only capable of enmeshment) or connect to others, so they never get to know them and cannot trust them, no matter how long it's been. No matter what happens or what you do, they do not feel safe enough to trust you in even basic ways. It can sometimes come out as anger, accusation, avoidance, distance or contempt and is framed in a way that makes it look like you are doing things that make you untrustworthy. After all the years, after all the pain and abuse, manipulation, lies, and any other horrible things they can put people through... you will likely still have more basic trust in the narcissist as a human being than they have ever had in you. Ever. Even the basic trust required to physically exist in the world with other people, they don't have in anybody - including themselves. The world is a battleground, an inherently unsafe place where everyone is not just not an ally, but an enemy, a potential life-threatening attacker. You cannot ever love someone like this enough to prove that you are safe enough for them to trust. It can't happen, because they don't know what safety is. They live in a world where there is no such thing. Some narcissists may become super-aggressive, dominant and even violent in order to deal with that; others may become helpless, vulnerable and lost; and still others may become ultra-controlled, and flat emotionally with very little reaction to anything, but all of these are ways of dealing with the same fundamental problem: they believe the world is unsafe, which influences their orientation to it and their interactions with it enormously. Narcissists have a fear of abandonment. It's nothing to do with the other person, it's about them and it really could be anyone they are in a relationship with because everyone is interchangeable and viewed as objects by the narcissist anyway. That's why they never consider your feelings or anything else about you in all this, you're not even seen as a separate person. Most narcissistic people believe at their core that they are defective and unlovable. Rejection and abandonment represent the ultimate failure of the narcissist. It validates all of their delusional and paranoid beliefs, and therefore it is intolerable. Because of there behaviour because of their illogical fears and paranoia it actually creates situations where people reject and abandon them, because people get tired of being called liars and cheaters and abusers when they are not doing any of those things. They get tired of having to constantly tell another adult that they're on the same side, or being forced to jump hurdle after hurdle to prove they are safe to trust only for this to never actually happen. People give up and move on. Then the narcissist was right all along: no one really cares about anyone else, and especially about them. Everyone is just a manipulative liar.

[@AmericanoInPhilippines20]

I really don't think I would use the term "goldmine". Imagine a life of not knowing what tomorrow would bring and then finding a life of no worries

[@JDQBMIC]

Paul, I feel like you are really hitting your stride with videos like this. Thank you for providing real information and educating your curious viewers, or at least me. God bless you and Mae.

[@kennethedwards1677]

I think it's getting harder for guys coming to the Philippines. Social media and a high supply of 'easy' foreigners has changed the game; it's not so much in our favor now. My partner and I are 7 years and going strong. This wasn't the case initially, and setting firm boundaries was necessary, especially with spending. If she pushes too hard, you might have to show her the door. Weak guys wont do well with a Filipina. One of the most important boundaries is setting some rules regarding the phone. To be looking at your phone all the time, even when your mate is trying to communicate with you is disrespectful. If you agree to not use the phone in the bedroom, it can greatly enhance your sex life as well. It's a challenge with a Filipina, since most are phone addicted. Another thing, and I know it's a sensitive subject is intimate relations. If you're married to a much younger gal and your equipment is not working, she is essentially a caretaker or maid. Sure, you might have affection for one another, but it not the same. Lastly, there is the matter of kids. Do you REALLY want to take care of children from another man, or just doing it because you feel you don't have other options when it comes to getting a female here? My partner and I have a child together, but early on, I refused to pair with single mothers. This may sound selfish to some, but there are few advantages in it for an expat. If you really WANT more kids, have your own. It will create a much stronger bond between you and your mate. Best of luck gents.

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

Great post, and general rules for the road, thanks!

[@bonusbaby2271]

Everything he said is true.. I might add that the jelousy is crazy.. hopefully, she's not an ovrthinker as well..

[@campion04]

Men always appreciate the truth

[@plalonde28]

Paul and Mae I appreciate your video today. Your willingness to share and your candid love for each other. It gives me hope for the rest of us.

[@brian472]

Your correct on all counts because I had a relationship with a lady from the Philipines who worked in Singapore.. I had a problem with this jealousy and clinging. It was much too much. Relationship finished.

[@marvinphillips1326]

I’ve already been told by my Filipina that jealousy is her number one concern. Every time we go shopping she is always holding my hand. The only time she isn’t is when she’s looking for something “she” needs. Not me. But as women do, they always find an angle to get my attention when they know she’s not aware. Got to admit that women are very clever.😉

[@erndoggyful]

She doesn't want to lose her ATM 😂😂

[@mick-berry5331]

​@@erndoggyfulTrue, but there is much more to it culturally .

[@marvinphillips1326]

True erndoggy. But it’s no where near the amount western women require.

[@miners1758]

@@marvinphillips1326 thats her drama😀don’t believe.. men are very clever too some though they have a gf or wife still runnin around with other ladies😂

[@marvinphillips1326]

@ miners1758…ok.

[@KatyCampbell-g1o]

She gets jealous because all those girls are after a meal ticket and she doesn’t want to lose hers

[@MrPat-UK]

100K, You made it Paul, Well done ,an achievement well deserved.👍.

[@curlytop242923]

What a great Video Paul , Thank you for the Heads Up on Filipina Ladies !!!

[@ConeyIsland69]

Top shelf podcast, brother. 68 year old living in 🇨🇦 thinking about retiring in the tropics.

[@bryankoziar2867]

In the west we grow up with time issues starting in kindergarten and follow us thru our lives. If you're 5 min early, you're on time, if you're exactly on time you're late by the time you come in, find your seat, sit down and people are looking at you waiting to start. Different culture. We're expected to allow for traffic, transportation issues, weather whatever, leave earlier.

[@youngandfree93]

Yep it's why the Philippines culture is a joke especially in this aspect. I am part Filipino myself, not afraid to admit it. We need big change

[@seaside2001]

I can see the jealousy aspect being a problem. Once you have landed your wallet you don't want someone else stealing it.

[@jackbear4528]

Excellent talking points...BTW Congrats on reaching 100k subscribers 🎉 (I recall starting watching you when you had only had a couple hundred. Yeah, been with you since way back then).

[@thomasnorman7016]

Yay!!! 100K!!!

[@aggierowe9574]

Good to see you two again! Baby Mae I am not a jealous Pinay but then again, I am American-born. Sadly, I could see that jealousy there in the PH. 99% of my female cousins, second cousins, are beautiful, as in I always have a distant relative winning a town beauty contest somewhere haha. I am not one bit jealous, it is a waste of energy. It is a cultural thing for sure.

[@surfwaves8636]

I have walked away at least a half of dozen Filipinas due to jealousy. Move on and be happy because I've seen so many miserable guys stuck in relationships where unhappiness ruined their way of life and health.

[@robo113603]

Gr8 subject Paul, Mae, ive noticed the jealousy by women there when ive beeen walking the Malls in Cebu quite a few times that ive visited my lovelg lady

[@donbuesen3558]

Very valid points of view.

[@jamesmichaelfrank]

You 2 are great together ! Continued happiness and more blessings to you both 🙂

[@jsully4064]

Congratz on 100K subscribers! My Filipina wife of 12+ years might have been jealous-worried at the beginning of our marriage. She is not jealous at all now and I very rarely get tampo anymore. Many Fil-Am couples have different experiences. Thank you for relating your experiences. Mae and yourself are quite entertaining though. We are in the US though. Married an OFW and hopefully we will move to the Philippines in 2026. My Pinay did not understand sarcasm at all when I first met her. Now she gets it. It does take awhile. Sarcasm does not exist in the Philippines...lol Thank you, Mae and Paul, great video....Jim

[@Robert-k7m]

Gr8 info Sir GOD Bless😇🙏👍

[@javieribarra6772]

Thank you Paul for the great info

[@AllenLuedemann]

Hey Paul and Baby Mae! Everything in your video, I experienced with my ex Filipina wife. So insecure and overly jealous, to the point of actually going to my job 3 times, thinking that I was cheating on her!! She never paid anything, and I was always reassuring her, that she was my one and only woman. She got her papers to go back home and see her 4 kids after 10 years!! I truly love her still, but for some reason, she thinks that I'm the devil, arrogant, and a narcissist! Never, have I made her feel that way. The only thing I had a problem with was the Philippine time. Crazy, but I got used to it. I wish to at least meet someone, who wants to be friends first, then if compatible have a lasting relationship. Even if it doesn't become marriage 😊 Thank you both for those quirky pointers, yet very serious to Filipino women. King Luda 😊❤

[@lyndonhenry8127]

Great video both and congratulations on your 1000,000 subscribers. Lyndon & Prescila UK

[@orvillelb]

Good video Paul enjoyed much.

[@Kuya_Tom67]

Great video. I love seeing you guys laughing together.

[@michaelmereday6791]

Gold that's a nice way to be appreciatedl. 🎉

[@bill648]

Gets irritating over time. Jealousy is a wasted emotion.

[@purplemoose6431]

Hi Paul and baby Mae, this is my favorite video from you two.

[@sn0wolf]

Sarcastic humour all the way for me as well and you are right that it goes nowhere with them. Your also in for a lecture about self care if you decide to try some self depreciation humour in n them as well…;)

[@christopher4152]

You guys are wonderful. Thank you

[@freedomwillring6749]

Thanks for your honest guys. Best wishes.

[@bobtimster62]

But remember what Augustus McCrae quipped, "The older the violin the sweeter the music."

[@Chuncy566]

Prov 18:22 before distruction the heart of man is haughty, and befor honor is humility.

[@les8518]

Paul and Mae, In Thailand it is no different. I have a friend here and his wife is a real B. Paul and Mae. I was still very active until 70 odd. Then then I developed scoliosis of the spine. [ Sex was not cause.] The pain was out of this world. and that slowed me down. I got on to pain medication. That helped with the pain. But caused ED. I still had a healthy interest in sex. And bare in mind that the age gap between my wife and I is much greater than you and Mae. I never lost any interest in sex. Although not as great as before. But still a good healthy feeling and interest. I am now 80 and still going. You and Mae are being very up front on this video. So I thought my little input might help others keep in mind that most of you can still do it. Not like you were at 25.

[@brianlathe]

Paul. You DON'T lose interest, you just lose function. You wish you could lose interest.

[@gary6759]

My experience is jealousy often quickly changes to hate. All the building blocks that formed the relationship get systematically destroyed.

[@firstnamelastname6717]

But what if the guy is just as jealous as his woman or worse!?🤔

[@zrivera4950]

Out of all the women in the Philippines....

[@FREEDOMFreedom-bv3vu]

I have experienced Filipina time as well. I did pretty much the same thing you did to my girl. At first she was mad but after cooling down a bit she understood. Recently she asked if I would do the same thing again. I said of course. But she gets it now. Filipina time makes me crazy it's the only thing she does that bothers me.

[@jerrymarshall2728]

"Filipino time" all comes down to planning. A completely foreign concept for too many, here! I'm constantly trying to light a fire under my Wife's @$$, to get her moving! I've gotten smart, though... if we have to leave home, I tell her and my Stepdaughter 2 hours earlier 🤣😂 Then we're only an hour late 🤣😂 You nailed every point, Paul! 👍

[@CalvinPequin]

All very true, I know buy experience sadly

[@Fire2Hot911]

Paul you are spot on.

[@masesharp6009]

Your video touched a real chord inside me, because I've also lost two Filipinas whom I absolutely loved and wanted because neither of them could control their insecurity or insane jealousy. If only they'd used their common sense, but, but, but.............................................................

[@Another_Bad_Creation]

you are so right about the sarcasm

[@dargardargar]

I would love if Paul encouraged Mae to elaborate more.

[@Troy_KC-2-PH]

What helps me is .. not only have I been to the Philippines a long time ago but I have lived on 2 Native American reservations, I was married to a Latina and so I'm experienced with clinginess and jealousy and with "Indian time" 😂 aka "Hippy Standard Time" .. i used to hang around bikers and hippies in my teen years. So I think I'll be able to adapt.

[@astrangerinastrangeland]

The time thing is just disrespectful. I know things can go sideways when trying to get somewhere. I was about two hours late to a dinner meeting with a friend. Dinner was at the SM Mall of Asia in manila. We took a trike or two, jeepneys & the train. If something could delay us, it did. The difference is I was in constant communication. Most Filipinos don't understand that concept. The sarcasm definatly will get you in trouble. Ask me how I know. Also there is a big difference in My American English & a Filipina's English. You can say something, that in your own country 99% of people will laugh at.( And the one percent that doesn't laugh won't be mat at you) Here, you going top be pissing some folks off.

[@bacon81]

The thumbnail of you pouting was hilarious 😆

[@randyhanson4973]

I was accused of cheating so many times that finally I cheated. I figured I might as well give her a legit reason to be jealous. Here is the kicker : I told her that I was going to it.

[@cindygordon5242]

Same here my American wife kept accusing me of, so for years of paying for something I didn’t do , I decided I would do it ! Constantly accusing people can work the wrong way😊😊

[@keith-kb1zl]

sorta like an old joke, a man’s advice: “if your wife is always bitching at you , get a motorcycle.. she’ll still bitch at you, but at least you’ll have a motorcycle “😆😆😆 same logic could be applied to your wife , if she’s always bitching at ya accusing you of cheating, you might as well cheat on her, she’ll be flapping her gums still, but at least you’ll be gettin some strange poon..😂😂

[@Red-n5r]

I think you've hit a content wall.

[@narpasword]

My thought process with jealousy goes, if she's jealous because she's worried another woman will try to steal her man, will she try to steal another man from another filipina?

[@soniaroda1370]

Thank you , Paul. Great Video. You always deliver and on point. I have been missing Many of your videos due to other activities , and work but I will try to watch it at least once a week . I want to be a permanent subscriber , please let me know what I need to know to join . Thank you so much . 💓

[@hankmoody-jq1xq]

Another great story with context👈

[@mussersbowsboatsandscience6610]

When women compete, you win!

[@MSWcryptoworker]

In old fashion Jewish law there is are many teachings regarding men/women relationships. Don’t quote me but ask Goldfinger to elaborate but men are to share their life with their woman not plural. If u want to play tennis it’s ok to play tennis with a man but not with another woman. Share as much as u want with another guy but no sharing jokes, book clubs etc with other women. Old old laws will keep ur relationship healthy.

[@boricuabro]

While listening to you I just couldn't wait to her next "Yeah"...hahahaha very cute! Anyway, good point about the age gap. If there is 25 years gap or more and you're still sexually active, you don't think at the consequences of getting too old and making her life miserable. That is as long as she's willing to stay with you up to the grave... While we act like we don't care, just as much they won't care either and withdraw from the scene when things become uncomfortable.

[@johnevans8328]

thats what worrys me....mine ISNT CLINGY not at all and that bothers me I feel maybe she doesnt Love me as much? I just dont know

[@mousesuper20]

Well my fllipina have lots of dark humor, and loves to come up with new ways to say things, and I know she gets more jokes then most filipinas.

[@scottswift9899]

Lucky man.

[@kamronwilliams2634]

It’s an existential fear women have to a man cheat or leave. They have to do it first for it to be ok

[@hangxiaohuz748]

Acute jealousy is a symptom of mental illness such as Personality Disorder and this happens in about 80% of Filipinas to some extent ranging from somewhat bad to total insanity. Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorders often referred to as Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can encompass Acute Jealousy when targeted on a partner and who her partner interacts with. The same rules do not apply to themselves and they feel free to do whatever is necessary to line up new parters in case they are abandoned. Acute jealousy can be obsessive and targeted even at a mannequin in a clothes shop that is undressed in front of the woman’s partner or she will get extremely jealous about a female cartoon character in a video game to the point of attacking him with a knife or any sharp object at hand. Any woman he talks to or listens to such as Taylor Swift or Sade will send her into apoplectic hysteria. Hearing them will likely send her into an angry violent episode that can last for days or weeks. Self harm such as cutting arms and beating themselves in the face or banging their head on a wall to getting so drunk and then more drunk until they end up as the local bike being ridden by the local TukTuk drivers and the Police. Later they will try to report to the Barangay the one who is closest to them for causing the injuries. That is BPD and jealousy.

[@janx8695]

Exactly and it's completely selfish but a person with BPD's partners will put up with it because of the idealization and love bombing phases in the relationship. The Idealization/devaluation cycles though aren't even based on the reality of you, they are based on an idea of you the person is projecting based on their feelings. Nothing is ever really about other people with these personalities, it's all about them, what they want, what they need. Nothing about what the partner wants or needs or their feelings in all this is even considered. And yes, refusing to trust, acting jealous and possessive, monitoring where you go, who you call and who you spend time with, demanding to know where you are every minute are all forms of emotional abuse. It's controlling and causes the partner a lot of distress. Abusers abuse their loved ones because they want power and control over their victims. They fear being rejected, abandoned, humiliated and powerless. They use tactics designed to weaken the victim so that they can control them more effectively and prevent these things from happening. After an abusive episode or period of time there is a "honeymoon period," where the abuser is sorry and attempts to win back the relationship with promises of good behavior. But there is never an excuse for abuse. It is no accident, and it is not uncontrollable. They know what they are doing is wrong and they are making the choice to do it. People who truly cannot control themselves will behave improperly regardless of who is there or what is going on. This is not the case with most people( unless they experience psychosis) they can control themselves just fine if they need to. They are choosing not to. It is deliberate abuse.

[@RacGluz]

Paul .. Is paul cardwell is out from detention in cebu his making world zoom again i saw all the clip

[@Chickenlegs836]

HI 👋 U2!! JEALOUSY IS BEING INSECURE FOR A REASON I BELIEVE?? IS THE MAN LOVING, CARING, & RESPECTFUL THAN THEY SHOULD NOT BE WORRIED. 😟! MY PHONE IS MINE NOT FOR MY PARTNER TO GO THROUGH EVER PERIOD!! TRUST & HONESTY ARE A MUST TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP ALWAYS. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE 🥰 AS WELL. THANKS FOR SHARING U2👍😉😂. BLESSINGS 🙏🌺🌸🌼

[@nala3038]

Quit SHOUTING

[@robertpiekarski6115]

You mentioned it in passing but the lying drives me crazy. It seems to be an Asian thing and I think it’s related to the saving face thing and the not wanting to give an answer you don’t want to hear.

[@bobkelley8291]

I realize you are telling rhe truth as i live there and had girl friends. However my wife of 40 years is not the jealous type driving herself nuts.

[@MrSean03839]

Even more importantly men need to ask themselves how unfair it is to have children (to the children) when you are already 50-60+.

[@jamesholden4571]

Been here 5 years. I HATE Filipino time. I am still here because it is completely outweighed by the good side, along with the other things I could do without - ang ingay, ang basura, at ang trapico. (the noise, the trash, and the traffic.)

[@markberger5739]

If I want drama I'l go to the movies no place for it at home!

[@boricuabro]

Jealousy or fear to loose financial security???

[@stuartcraigan7287]

Filipina are full of love, sad to say but you are they're meal ticket and they don't want anyone to steal you away. 😊

[@briandora]

They will fight to the death literally to keep their man

[@rodgertim2881]

I need a way to draw up a plan to set up for retirement while still earning passive income to meet my day to day need and also get charged lesser taxes even while in a higher tax bracket. i want to invest around $250K savings.

[@HectorBailey-zi7du]

Pick quality stocks and keep track of them. If that feels too complicated, consider hiring a wealth manager to grow your money. That's what I do.

[@cherylhills3227]

Accurate asset allocation is crucial with an Experts guidance. I have 850k in equity, 300K cash earning 5.25 interest, 685k in 401k, 250k cash account, 120k in car assets ( paid off cars) Gold and silver bars. age is 56. My advisor helped me realign my portfolio to my risk tolerance and it boomed overtime.

[@georgeearling905]

Wow!! Mind recommending your financial advisor? I’m in dire need of one to manage my portfolio.

[@cherylhills3227]

Can't divulge much here, I take guidance from a Pennsylvania-based advisor Joseph Nick Cahill.

[@cherylhills3227]

Google his full name

[@abielpaz3187]

Finally 100k😀😀😀 congratulations Paul

[@Michael-g8d]

@@abielpaz3187 Don't believe it Paul is broke

[@Michael-g8d]

@@abielpaz3187 He smells so bad!

[@Michael-g8d]

@@abielpaz3187 For what??!!

[@abielpaz3187]

@@Michael-g8d lol, I meant 100k subscribers

[@dovoso5685]

Hi Paul, nice video but when it comes to relationships I always ask 1 question = How many Rich filipina girls will marry a Poor expat ?

[@stephenadkins9883]

Zero

[@dovoso5685]

Exactly

[@SS-tr1th]

Well-off, high-end Filipinas won't give the time of day to a poor old white codger, only lowly backwoods bimbos. But bless their lil souls, they give the old Joes a new lease of life while leeching them.

[@Gmantrini]

Paul, Old dog new tricks, you’re a better man than most. This incessant constant need for reassurance is draining. I’ve come to understand, patience, lots of patience is very necessary in this country. Social Discipline norms are not readily apparent in pinas✌🏾

[@DonDenver-r7v]

I believe that’s because most countries are use too not showing or having patience we in the USA , we’re use to everything NOW & all the modern conveniences.

[@l.d.52]

Eject button dude.

[@DanielRodriguez-bn6mg]

When I retire and go out there I’m not going to look for any serious relationship. I want to stop and smell as many flowers as I can before I’m ready to settle down and pick one. 😊

[@humungushumungus213]

Jigger TV, check it out before u go there

[@humungushumungus213]

It’s a vlogger from PI

[@kennethedwards1677]

Good policy, and easier on the wallet as well. 🙂

[@robturney6325]

Blue Falcon...

[@Anotherwanyekerr]

​@@kennethedwards1677 Smelling flowers can be costly also.

[@tomfomby4853]

Paul, another great video, I met a woman from Bohol on line in April 2023, we video chat nearly every day. I am traveling to meet her in November, I am 59, she is 36,, all the information here will be great to have. I have picked up on these topics over time from others, but really looking forward to this trip. Thanks again for your honesty. Wish you both well, we'll meet some day.

[@HankGallows]

Be careful

[@Steve7318]

Do yourself a favor and Lock your phone screen. They will look at your phone but there's will be locked. You will save yourself a lot of heartache with this. Remember you have financial value here regardless of your budget. That's why they feel they have found "gold". You will be paying their bills before too long

[@gailmaplesden7380]

This is so true, but they do have their reasons. Many of the Filipinas that are with foreign men were with Filipino men or a man beforehand, and the Spanish blood shines through with the mastizo thing of having multiple women. These women have already been jaded, and it usually is the other women that go after her man. It's like the sari sari store mentality that if your neighbor has a successful store, you will see two or three show up on the same street. Jealousy goes beyond relationships and and they will actually try to sabotage each other just to find happiness and prosperity. That is why Filipinas act the way they do, and it's almost a cultural thing as part of survival.

[@astrangerinastrangeland]

@@gailmaplesden7380 it’s the old crab mentality.

[@miners1758]

@@gailmaplesden7380That is why foreighn men love to go to the Philippines esp those retired just be careful be aware cuz won’t know if they’re with filipino men🤣Don’t sleep all the time🥲

[@Rhandlezz]

Lol oookkk😂

[@miners1758]

@@gailmaplesden7380 When you love filipina lady try your best to learn filipino culture just remember every places has own culture typhical filipina are conservative not just jump on easily with a man if you find that one you win a lottery Lol

[@familyoffive5212]

Im a Filam and i remember in my younger years, my Filipina gf is extremely jealous on everyone including my family. It destroyed our relationship.

[@MarcL-dp3oh]

@familyoffive5212 My ex-girlfriend in America did the same to me, I had to kick her out even if I loved her very much. She was so jalous about my family, it was destroying me

[@DavidBrockes]

The same thing happened to me with my last Pinay gf, she became more and more jealous , in the end it destroyed us. I gave her so many chances, probably even a 'get out of jail free' card as well.....that's what happens when you 'Take a Chance'....😂😂😂 bit of a monopoly on the joke...😂😂

[@DavidBrockes]

I'm 62....😂 and I want it 5 times a night 😂😂. If guys are fit and do a lot of resistance training then the guys libido will usually stay strong for years. 😊

[@johnclark1469]

Congrats Paul on 100k subs! 🎉🎉🎉. We look forward to Gaylord showing off your shinny new YT plaque in future videos! You are now up there w Rekay in the Philippine YT hall of fame! Thanks for staying w it, sharing w us all these years👍

[@Michael-g8d]

@@johnclark1469 Grow up John

[@johnclark1469]

@@Michael-g8d get a sense of humor Mike. Obviously you are insecure so want to make condescending comments to feel better about yourself. Pauls fun light hearted attitude is why he does so well so lighten up and appreciate it

[@kennyl.TheSilverJewelryGuy]

great video Paul, I am married to a Filipina, and I know all about Filipino time. we are in the United States right now but when we move back to the Philippines I am not sure I can deal with that, I am never late, I respect other people's time and I think it's a form of disrespect making people wait or not showing up at all, if We are meeting up with someone and they're very late it will be the last time we are meeting with them.

[@Rustsamurai1]

It's the potential to lose the financial support that is it's source. And that concern ends up becoming a prophecy.

[@clivevenning7204]

I had recent experience with one of the lovely filipina's about 2 months ago. Spent 2 months their and then spent about 4 weeks with her and she was so much fun and lovely. i was honest and transparent with her. i told her i am not sure if the philipines is for me and i was visiting to see if it fits. As it turned out i decided to return to Australia and maybe return in Jan for 6 months. Anyway i flew home and decided i could not do the LDR thing. But am i glad i called it off because the true person showed herself. She is a single mom and age of 42 and enjoyed the company but not for me and now i am glad i called it off.

[@rickpineo2588]

Couldn’t agree more with the sarcasm comment. To my wife’s credit she is getting very good about my sarcastic ways but if we move back to the Philippines after I retire I know I have to learn to shut that part of my nature off or save it for expats only. 😉 Great video Paul 😎

[@frankyscott6889]

This is interesting, a good video, has definitely held my attention..

[@EleanorWeldon]

Hi, was settling in to watching the videos but too much making fun of women and “ old boys club” mentality . At least that’s the way I view the comments. Thanks for having this channel but I guess the comments made me move on today.

[@lilphucker4561]

She won't throw you out until the home is complete and you bled dry. Then, it's all hers.

[@underdogrescueofflorida2313]

Mae laughing is so delightful she really is having a good stroll down memory lane

[@firstnamelastname6717]

American men are considering to move to the Philippines because our American feminist woman are causing us to leave them and the country as well.

[@VeteranHoss]

That and the imminent collapse of America (2nd assassination attempt on Trump three days ago) is why I’ve just leased a condo for 12 months in PH. And right now I am at the airport on my way back to move my furniture, rent out my house, etc to live with my fiancé together near Cebu. My fiancé = most beautiful Filipina in the world.

[@tara8387]

@firstnamelastname6717 And vice versa, I cant imagine being attracted to an overweight, balding arrogant North American guy. Asian guys win hands down

[@nevergiveup-db6fp]

What’s up doggy dog and Mae! My honeybee doesn’t get jealous when we go to Walmart together in Missouri. Lol. The American women get jealous because my Filipinas half my age lol. It really pisses them off I don’t know why.😀

[@jspice-kl2wc]

Really a great video with a lot of super great information, thank you so much.

Thank you too

[@FransvanVelsen]

Hi Paul; the 'problem' of sexuality is in my view non-existent: there are many ways to give (and that is Give with a capital G) sexual fullfillment, other than by intercourse. Remember: sex is located between the ears, not the legs. A bigger issue seems to me that a woman in her 20ties will want (and is even morally entitled to) a child. At 60 or so, the man will have other ideas (and poor child with a geriatric daddy). Apart from that: I have seen several age-gapped relations (in Europe). The classic mistake is that the woman adepts to the life-rhytm of the much older man, which accelerates her aging dramatically. The older man should adapt to the younger woman. I have seen a perfect example of that too, but there is a but. The woman always ends up in the role of caretaker for her old man. There the Asian woman is an asset because she will accept that role more naturally and do a much better job.

[@Mayadude66]

I think you should have also added the impact that the family of the Filipina can have on the relationship. We in the west are just not used to having to deal so much with the in-laws.

[@kbird529]

In Thailand they call westerners walking gold ~ same same but different 😂

[@TumbleweedRocks]

I think that was a slip. I’ve noticed w Filipinas, they sometimes are honest to a fault.

[@L4P-Monk]

I have a couple of those same same shirts.

[@kbird529]

@@L4P-Monk 👍

[@KatyCampbell-g1o]

Yep fear of losing the old man’s money

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

At 39, she's post wall too. Not so many options for local action. So, I don't really get the ageism directed at Paul. 40's and 60's, so what?

[@robertpiekarski6115]

Check out Dr Ford Brewer, MD videos about the male functionality stuff. I’m starting to follow his protocol for supplements and diet. He makes sense.

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

Love him too! Just watched a video about Cialis, which he highly recommends. Keeping the ticker in good shape also keeps things working as they should. 🙂

[@kurtsummer4695]

Stooping pretty low with the click-bait headline, Paul. Anything for a buck, huh?

[@Iron2011rob]

My Filipina wife asked to see my phone for the first time in 3 years because I told her my ex wife contacted me after many years of silence. Later, I thought to myself, I am so glad i wasn't too curious of my ex situation. I was shocked that she wanted to see my phone. I am happy I had nothing to hide.