The End Of Shame And Punishment - Kyle Cease

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[@alignedenlightment6131]

I am meditating upwards of 2-3 hours a day now Kyle, and all the questions of “HOW”, the confusion of what I “should be doing”, it really does all vanish eventually. I am seeing how complete I am, how complete everything is in this moment. I’m nearing the point of total surrender, and I couldn’t feel more at peace. Even when I have those feeling I used to perceive as “negative” as things I “shouldn’t” be feeling, I am at peace. Thank you for being in harmony with source Kyle and continuing to discover what you are.

[@CherryBerryFashion]

Wow! You might have just convinced me to try again!

[@Navitor88]

Source loves Us no matter what Good 😌 news It’s Unconditional love 💕

[@jess3591]

Thank you for your beautiful message ♥️✌️🙏

[@MsScirocco19]

How long did it take you ? Congratulations btw

[@renenetatm8222]

@@MsScirocco19 it doesn't take time, it takes awareness :)

[@gregdummer2808]

You are a true leader. Everything you post is pure gold. Keep going on your mission. Let your light shine on everyone. God bless you.

[@kahlodiego5299]

My therapist shamed me. I fired her.

[@Healingforall63]

I was spoon fed shame and fear all my life. The God I was introduced to a God I was supposed to fear. This topic is so sensitive and cried every listening to this video 4 times!

[@joansloyer5245]

Crying to let go always helps me 🤍

[@karencoin5933]

Excellent! I was raised in a home with alcoholism & as I got older developed binge eating disorder to cope with the pain of shame. It took a lot of years of eating disorder therapy to move through all the shame & to heal. This moved me to GREAT spiritual growth & learning about how to love. Shame is such a huge deterrent to love. Shame never changes anything...love does!!!

[@EnergeticQuotes]

As a therapist and mindset coach, I am very aware of shame and that we shouldn't be shaming ourselves, however, Ive been feeling a bit of that recently due to feeling off focus a bit complacent. Then this video popped on my feed. While listening to you and exercising at the same time, I just bursted into tears.... I knew this before but it came to me harder just now that, there is no need for shame at this moment. It is not complacency, rather I'm just pure content, grateful, and happy where I am in my life. What I have been wishing for my whole life.... (a happy loving family, not jailed to a job, not worrying about money..etc) are what I have in my reality right now. Those things I thought it was impossible to achieve.... and now that I have them, I was so thankful and later that happiness just kept trying to turn into shame as if it was speaking to me saying "HOW DARE YOU STAY HAPPY!" "WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE BEING HAPPY!", it's my ego deep inside of me still reminding me that its still in there somewhere. I use to identify myself as a person who probably didn't deserve all of this and that was also my childhood and upbringing. I am so thankful for you Kyle and the collective consciousness to bring me to this huge realization. Thank you thank you thank you❤️🙏

[@lynking4141]

YOU attracted his message. That's pretty bad-ass, imho. It appears your Higher Self is hella stronger than your ego. Good job 🤍. You got this -- and YOU DESERVE IT.

[@morethanmewithjennhickey9646]

So I’m currently living at the age of 41 with those parents that shamed me. And I’m here because I lost everything. And I’ve been here six weeks and I keep making so much growth on self love and being present and surrendering and all the work to raise my vibe but they are still pressuring me and shaming me to DO something and won’t hear that I AM doing something. So I am repeatedly shamed and falling into shame. I needed this video. Thank you. However I’m not sure what to do with the pressure they are putting on me as I try to surrender and follow this silent flow love and light based way I’m feeling guided to as my truth.

[@kimberlybethgrentz6707]

"Real change happens, when the pattern no longer exists." This whole talk was such a big one for me. This quote has been in my (metaphorical) pocket ever since the live session... yes! I think I've been a butterfly sitting on the ground chatting with the caterpillars amd ignoring my wings... so many epiphanies... Kyle, you have amd continue to make such an impact on my life. Thank you!!!

[@lauraluey]

This was just what I needed to hear today 🙏 Recognising that I too believed that I could let God down, as I continued on the path of the pendulum between shaming myself, and then saying 'fuck the shame' imma do whatever want! Stepping into the new me isn't the same as setting the shame down. Actively trying to erase the shame has been keeping me in that energy, as it has always been the shame that's has been doing the trying... ❤

[@camaraann8728]

“All shame is, is an argument with God.” ✨ “Real change happens when the pattern no longer exists.” Yes! “Most of the actions we’ve made that we don’t like anyways came from being shamed in the first place.” 💯

[@leezahn]

Word and WORD. The truth.

[@jodihayhoe6271]

Real change happens when the pattern no longer exists... Yes yes yes ✨✨

[@311rbb]

Haha! "KARMACTICALLY"! A NEW WORD (Sanskrit + English)!! love it!

[@InJusticeAustralia]

I find myself constantly nodding and saying “yes!” during your videos. I learn so much in such a short time. You are surely an elevated man to know all you do. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

[@nadjaandersen2389]

This is so profoundly true. I was at a pretty dark place yesterday and tried to listen to the silence. I just realized that the reason it was so difficult was shame. The ego can be so relentless and shout shame into you for all the things you never did. One person cannot do it all. It's nice to kno that I dont have to do everything. We can share the load of molding beauty into the world. Especially with art, I have a crazy, unyielding need to 'become a renowned artist' no matter in what field. And the energy that goes along with that is so uncomfortable. Just knowing that I am okay and the world will create beautiful art even if it might not be me, is nice.

[@606KER]

I came across your videos just a month ago and now I can be going about my day and get a mental notification about when I need to sit and listen. I don't know how to thank you enough, I'm finally feeling like I'm LEARNING FREEDOM 🙏🏾

[@Vxruxxss]

I needed to hear this.. I was punishing and shaming myself for the past. Thank you

[@KathyGaalaas]

This is one of the best Oneness calls ever. So much is shifting... Kyle, our group, the world. Thank you, Kyle!

[@pa9121]

Once again, it is like you are speaking directly to me. I just had lunch 3 hours before listening to this with someone I have a crush on, and I needed to hear this! Your telling me to appreciate something without needing more from it showed me that my mind can focus on the growth from that moment rather than the expectation of a different moment in the future. In fact, all we have is this moment so I should savor it when it is both glorious and also excruciating.

[@matth3277]

"People can like you exactly as you are"- Mister Rogers

[@eternal_nomad]

You're on fire with these videos. Thank you for sharing and helping people conceptualize the raising consciousness of humanity.

[@gretchensgagliardich4394]

You speak often of death to the old self, so I was thinking maybe you could write a book called “Cease to Exist,” get it? 😁 These videos are amazing, I keep listening to them, and I get something new every time. Thank you 🙏💜

[@evelynross6144]

This is filled with greatness. Thanks for Being Kyle. ❤️

[@yamaniyama777]

Thx so much Kyle for sharing so generously! What a gift to be a part of this "liberating point of view movement". So deep and so empowering! Much love to every who watches this.

[@guyhaley]

I just started tuning into you man and ......you make me cry incredibly happy tears as you describe very well this ride I am on and what is happening to me. Thank You.

[@williamjeffreys2980]

Organized religion can foster a "crime and punishment" mindset.

[@AZDC99]

10:00 "Don't shame yourself for shaming yourself.... because that's just the pattern trying to stay alive."

[@aidaadnan8442]

Kyle, I had a big insight today. I have not said to my sister that her using my bathroom when she had her own complete bathroom was pissing me off. For a year I kept quiet thinking I should not make a big fuss. I shouldn't be petty. We are living in our parents house for the first time as adults. I have always had my own place and been independent. Since meditating for 2 hours a day for 2 weeks now with you, I realised me holding myself back and not creating boundaries with her was from programming. I realised my inner child (or as a child) nobody told me about my sister coming. Young Aida didn't want a sibling. When my sister came along, I was 3 and a half and forced to accept her. Emotionally I didn't accept her. I felt over run. I felt 'quieted'. I felt I had no choice but to be a good big sister. Nobody asked little Aida if she was ok to welcome a sister. That is why the main emotion I feel from her, now as an adult, is intrusion. She triggers me in many ways for 'invading' my space. So today, I finally can release by informing her to not use my bathroom, draw the line and more importantly acknowledge to my inner child that yes, you can say how you feel. ' It's ok to say I don't want a sister.' 'I am not ready to have a sibling'. I felt so light and liberated.✨✨ I have been keeping this story amd emotion of frustration and anger of being forced to accept someone in my life that I wasn't ready for. ♥️♥️♥️

[@ArtByHazel]

Thank you shame. You had your run and I had to release it from my mind and body out for good. Without any strong emotions attached to a painful thought/experience - you are free from it. I am so happy I did let it all melt in my magical volcano. ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨❤️

[@colegadohiphoptuga]

I get goosebumps every minute or so while listening to you talk, such is the quality of the truth

[@Masqueesha]

Wow. Thank you. Release and appreciation.

[@jacklangley861]

Like so many of the commenters stated here I too resonated with the story about feeling the need to be the great piano player instead of enjoying the shit out of what's happening in the now. I believe for me this is also shaming the self for not being enough. Once again a pattern identified. Thank you once again kind Sir!

[@camaraann8728]

Ugh yes. This resonated SO much!

[@jjwirshing9234]

Holy Sheetballz... Several nuggets but this one stood out: Why do you I need to be the one that has to learn and perform everything I'm interested in or inspired by ?? I can just appreciate those doing the amazing thing. We're all one. Gold, baby, thx Kyle 🪙!

[@samanthaking1530]

I’ve just joined your wonderful community after watching many many of your videos. This is the Universe taking me to the next step in my evolution. ✨🕊✨ Deepest Gratitude Kyle ✨🕊✨

[@kylecease]

Thanks so much!

[@kylecease]

and welcome!

[@freakiniilse]

" If god wants you to grow on these things, you just will." Damn right

[@quietmountainwellness7916]

Warmth melts the ice. 🙏🏻

[@clamayaceo]

Awesome reminder to just sit and appreciate the jazz rather than having “to do the gorgeous chords.” “Appreciation of the now is being all that is-ness. All that we see around us comes from us. Shame is silly. We are supposed to learn to grow. We are here to expand All shame is is a long stuck argument with God. Shame creates fear. It keeps us in the small consciousness. Shame is like a freezer getting on ice and screaming at it that it should be water. No one changes with shame. Real change happens when the pattern no longer exists. Parents are supposed to support all that you are to thrive not to shame you. It just takes awareness. Asking how much longer things take is you working in the time and effort frequency. This is a shame comment.” Thanks for the message. The Illuminati hands comment holding your circled finger to your eye-ROFL!!!

[@innerworthprojecthealingso2538]

This is a great video!....I'm still struggling a bit holding onto extreme shame from going crazy during a mental breakdown about 6 years ago.

[@aubrielledegn4809]

I had the same thing happen to me 6 years ago. To be frank, all mainstream clinical psychiatry treatment is shame based. It doesn’t work as good as good as the natural stuff. You heal when you love and accept yourself, plus you get cool abilities!

[@innerworthprojecthealingso2538]

@@aubrielledegn4809 Thank you :) Yeah absolutely, I agree. I've been on a healing journey over the last 6 years, I feel letting go of the shame is the final part. The shame didn't hit me until maybe 2 years ago, as I had so much other stuff to heal from first after long term psychological abuse working for a psychopath. I'll get there in time.

[@juicyradiant]

Oh. my. god. lashing out against the shame. I was never able to articulate it like that.

[@alliewilliams6237]

Just abs incredible. Life changing 🙏🏼

[@barefoothippies]

I've been asking great spirit for clarity about what the blockage is. This is the answer I didn't know I needed. Thank you Kyle - amazing video as always. Much love!

[@sophiebrownell828]

🙏💜🙏 This came tip top, perfectly timed into my ears. Filled with Gratitude for the Onenessness 🌈🍀💛⭐

[@k8m883]

“The constant need to be somewhere else” can so related this.

[@gabihanc3463]

So beautiful ideas! Thank you for that! Love you, brother 🙏❤️😘

[@SagyCohen]

Thank you brother, you’ve melted my heart and turned ice into water

[@JohnHenrySheridan]

Thank you Kyle !! Love this. I think I barely realize how deep the guilt and shame has been inculcated in me from a young age. Besides my father dying when I was 6 y/o, I would say I had a fairly joyful childhood and I truly appreciate my mother and the way she raised me. I can still sense however, that the water in which I swam, from the Catholic church, to Catholic school, to my family to the rules of society as I interpreted them, there was definitely an underlying sense that guilt "works". Now shame is always close on the tails of guilt. Anyway, hearing this helps. Here's to being Free, Joyful, and Radiant Beings of Light !!

[@majorwedgieify]

Thank you , perfect timing x

[@mewells]

🤯🤯🤯 I'm going to go process this cuz holy crap.

[@toddbuckman3012]

After the first two minutes- “God” is the Life happening through the aperture of awareness that “you”. How could It be disappointed? It’s been making all the decisions all along- as all of us. 💛🙏

[@markusskand9773]

'why do i need to be anywhere other than where i am ??!! ... accepting and appreciating the moment is AMAZING !! and truly, there's only ONE of us here , anyway !! ... brilliant relaxation revelation .

[@KaterinaBarrie]

Lol 😂😅🤣😆 the piano analogy did it for me!!! Amazing message, exactly what I needed to hear 🙏🏻

[@Liisa_011]

I come from an Irish Catholic family of alcoholics n food addicts that use shame and cutting you off completely over a grudge.both sides of the family rejected each other as well. I was a ping pong ball between the parents w a double kidnapping. I've been " working " on myself for decades. And yes, I still feel like shame as was rejected ostracized, serially physically spiritually and financially manipulated by 2 narcissistic parents and now the Mother died tragically and not q family member from both sides have called me in 12 years. I have the greatest shame challenge of not having any family in this society However when I don't have this "past history" in my conciousness, I remember that I AM a Beloved Child of God, no less than the Trres or the Stars. I vassilate between the 2 frequencies as this Covid plandemic has been like a punishing entity of control and medical tyranny. I choose again. Peace brother. I have been in process of creating or finding a Loving God

[@lynking4141]

🙏🏻🤗❤

[@lebluedragon3]

Yes, exactly! Thank you Kyle! Is lovely to hear from you.

[@MaameJoses]

The way we create God in our own minds is mind blowing. This is a beautiful call, hit home for me straight from the analogy about shame and ice ❤️

[@susannameadowcroft6967]

Love, love love this!!

[@barbdrinnan1867]

This is exactly what I needed to hear tonight. The shame thing is real. It’s a conflict that exists currently between me and God. I need to know my time is not now to release the actions I do is not shameful. I need to be kind and patient with myself. Teetering on 3D and 5D. Surrender to what is IS my current struggle

[@jameswarda6118]

I'm in the middle (or who knows just how far I'm in it) of tremendous change. I continue to judge myself and wonder if I'll ever make the transition from people pleaser to fully authentic in my lifetime. I simply want to be me, and use my voice. Thank you, Kyle, for this video, and your constant encouragement and compassion. I do believe we can channel God's love for each other and you do that in your work.

[@aslrunner]

Another great one from Kyle! Reminds me of what Abraham Hicks said; "You cannot get it wrong, and you never get it done." So, let's enjoy the unfolding!

[@eilite8203]

the need to "also do that", ooohhhhh how i know what that feels like. in fact, it's possible that every conversation i ever had, from the past, included an "also do that". whether it was a hike a friend enjoyed, or, or, or. but NOW, i can appreciate it without even thinking of "also do that"......., it finally comes naturally, just BEing. what a pure, unadulterated enjoyment/feeling. thank you, always.

[@beller8501]

Thank you 💓

[@poeticinspirations]

Pausing ... was nodding my head yes when you spoke of not wanting to do God wrong.. I absolutely felt that and made a not so serving decision to get married because I had a child beforehand. I allowed myself to get guilted into it because some woman who is very much by the Bible created a fear in me that I had felt being a part of a family that grew up Catholic. Fast forward I am divorced and have done a lot of inner work since then but now I see there's more .. You nailed it with how I have been seeing God and I have viewed God from how I was spoken to.. You are the message I needed tonight .. Grateful 🙏

[@indigolotussanctuary8750]

Yes!! I’m experiencing this too. Cut out the middle man and appreciate the experience and say goodbye to the shame of not ever (for me ) learning the piano. It’s ok, I can appreciate the pianist without having to be the pianist. Just be ok with where I am. Whatever I’m meant to learn will be. Thank you Kyle!

[@selorasoulstice]

Really needed this message, thank you. I have really been struggling with the religious dogma I grew up with and no longer resonate with; those who still ascribe to the exclusionary doctrine of "think like us or you're doomed" have a crafty way of pointing the finger toward my beliefs and trying to make me feel like I am the one who is crafty and deceptive and deceived - people I have come to trust and respect who have slipped back down into the shame and blame, doom and gloom energy. I don't understand it and it makes me really sad, how we can become so expansive and so open to the idea that we all are capable of experiencing the Oneness of All That Is and then just so easily fall back into "we have the Truth, you don't, believe us or perish." And that they appear so veiled by the hypocrisy in their statements. Anyway, Kyle, thank you for being a beacon of light at this time.

[@lynking4141]

Word. You're not alone (never!) 🤍. ((Hugs))

[@peacebyflash6743]

Geeessshhh!! The way your words come out are so smooth & relatable & honest it’s wild! You know how to break down even the most subtle things that i myself didn’t think I needed to hear out loud! Wow!🎯 keep doing you Kyle! Much appreciation!

[@xlauriestarchildstudios7777]

Kyle Thank You. I feel stuck in the "F U i can do what i want." Suggestions ?

[@paulagriffithpaulag2]

I can't get over how amazing a teacher you are. Very deep and uplifting.

[@knottymom88]

DUUUUUDE KYLE!! MIND BLOWN @15MIN....such a weight lifted at the mere thought of this...INCREDIBLE ❤

[@LoveLeigh313]

This is HUGE! I’m going to stop trying to be the one doing these things, and just appreciate them! Thank you Kyle and team ✨🤍

[@sparkabundancespirituality1755]

Great video! Love this👏 The past is the past. Try appreciating a person for what they are now instead of judging them for their past.❤️

[@Borboleta1212]

I really appreciate your ability to impart so much authenticity, gems 💎 of wisdom and healing advice whilst simultaneously making me laugh so much Kyle! (With you - not at you!) I found this video particularly therapeutic 💖 your analogy about the freezer and ice had me rolling 😂 so true though! Passing on the good vibes to all reading this comment! 😍🙏💓✨🙌

[@peterblackofficial]

Enjoying this from London UK. Got some shame around an earring disorder so is synchronous

[@4everblessed]

Thank you so very much. You are helping people and making a difference. I appreciate your insight.

[@paulahull8366]

This is hilarious! Definitely a hybrid shamer here too! 😆🙋‍♀️Thank you for the visit ! Def offered some insight !!! Much love and light Kyle !

[@fifibee8085]

You just make so much sense. Thank you

[@Schmusan]

I must express myself to you how much you are appreciated Kyle!!!

[@tiffanyflorendo4879]

Lmao, I ironically was chewing ice when I watched this. Thank you for your efforts and guidance for the collective, they are humbally appreciated.

[@tiffanyflorendo4879]

Hiiiiiiii Kyle!

[@makeacomment1001]

I have great regrets of capturing every moment I could of holidays on my video camera and camera. I always felt I missed the magical moments of what was happening in the now at that time. I thought I would feel and have the same experience when I got home. It never was the same. The moment was lost and they just became something to look at. Now I only use a camera for art. I now live in the moment of what I am experiencing without the technology. It is truely makes those experiences more magical. I have missed out on much because of this

[@belindametz5130]

Yet another important message from you Kyle I completely understand the energy of the language coming through you and I appreciate you and these teachings so very much.✨⭐️✨🙏🏼🙏🏼🇨🇦🙏🏼🙏🏼✨✨✨✨✨🔮🦚🦚🦚🦚🦚

[@AmyZygoptera]

Contentment, love of self and others, expansion, forgiveness and understanding, letting go of fear and worry, getting out of the way of natural growth, holding space for self and others, opening to awareness -- thank you for all of these gifts, and more, from this video

[@debbiedebbie9473]

Excellent and important conversation. God/ Source is pure unconditional love. Unconditional love. We're here to learn and grow and improve . Source loves us through our progression, not just if / when we're perfect. Shame lowers your vibration. You can change your behavior and practice without hating yourself. ❤️

[@divinedefiance7069]

Epiphany time 😃😃😃 thank you Kyle!!

[@alexandraspeek4740]

Why shame? We all are at earthschool and therefor no need to be at shame during the proces we learn. But there are conditions that we never hurt at purpose.

[@BoReads]

Jacob Collier is a recent discovery of mine. He is absolutely phenomenal, and no shit, I saw that we're the same age and felt shame. His album In My Room is genius and I think why can't I be like him?

[@BeverlyAcupuncture]

Very nice, thank you

[@alexandradouros488]

Thank you 💕 Just stumbled across this clip this morning after 'shame' coming up yesterday connected to a past event. I was very emotional and wasn't sure how to clear it. Coincidentally I bought the movie 'Soul' yesterday. Had never heard of it, just happened to pick it up amongst some supermarket DVDs! Gratefully appreciate your wonderfully wise messages 🙏💖

[@ritamaria2197]

Thankyou Kyle. This is perfectly what I needed to hear 💟

[@LyndaMarieRoy]

Great analogy about shame being like a freezer trying to demand that ice become water 💦

[@lynking4141]

Ikr! This will serve me well for a lonnnnng time 🤍. He ~NAILED IT~ ... !!

[@MickeyOwenTM]

Cheers Kyle. Big love to you 🙏

[@KelseyDalziel]

The universe is screaming‘I already did that’ - holy shit.

[@user-iy8wh4eg9j]

always live your guidance 🙏 ❤你

[@AndreaKlein]

Thank you Kyle, this really spoke to me. Even more awakening over here. ❤️. You and your messages are a gift.

[@flatboat67]

S/He is faithful to complete it in you. Thank you for showing compassion to all.

[@kadenfraser4525]

Thank you ,the timing of this was great for me to hear and remind myself , Thank you .

[@jacquelineormsby4503]

I absolutely love you Kyle❤ Thank you for all you do and share with us🦋

[@parisfar789]

How beautiful! It's not long I have come across your video and your work and it has been mind-blowing! Thank you Kyle for being you! Be more of you! ♥

[@indiesindie1984]

Thanks again for enlightening my psyche on this topic. You've really opened my mind to the dysfunction of my family dynamics.

[@flatboat67]

Meeting us where we are without changing.....beyond words but Magnificent comes to brain.

[@pierrevolschenk8645]

I resonate so much with you.Thanks for your guidance and wisdom especially now..Perfect sync for me NOW...

[@pearlzayas2961]

Soul is the best movie EVER!!

[@toughgemini337]

You have a wonderful way of helping one confront reality, very empowering indeed. Not all is lost, it has only just begun and the best is yet to come! Just let it all go, a higher power of consciousness is at work now, we are meant to feel it and embrace it with all our being