THE FIRST STEPS TO BECOMING AN IT GIRL | Setting realistic New Year's resolutions & vision boards

[@sshay9]

@9:46 I have advice!! Finding a balance. I was a flunk almost big time fail in highschool, i then went to nursing school and had some of the highest grades n i had a good attitude and balance. The biggest thing that helped me was mindfulness. It’s not just the word, it’s something you have to research and learn. “Talking to yourself soft” isn’t the correct term not to be negative but you do want to be your own friend. So your “friend” would tell you when you’re doing something wrong, when you like something, that you shouldn’t be procrastinating, that you should eat but still study etc. be you’re own friend because life, school, work, will kick your ass already. If you also discipline yourself hard which is what I did, you’re able to thank yourself after, appreciate the work you put in, and feel like you deserve a rest, because you’re being an honest hard working person who stops to check in with themselves. Don’t stop being your own friend, it’ll get you through it all.

[@RebeccaKo]

This is a beautiful sentiment. I appreciate you sharing this with me. I struggle with being my own friend and having self-discipline, but as I get older, I am learning that those are necessary not only to become a better version of myself, but also to just get through life. It's not easy in the beginning, but once you realize their importance and start practicing them, you'll wonder why you ever thought differently. I’m slowly getting there!! Thank you again for sharing your thoughts with me!! ❤️

[@rbeccaoli]

I can’t relate more with this video, all the things you said man they’re soooo real!! thank you for reminding me that I’m not alone! 💖😭

[@RebeccaKo]

Omg IM so glad you relate to me 😭 but hey we got this! 🫶

[@victoriamanning3700]

this is going to be so helpful not only for this year but more years to come. Thank you queen! I pray 2024 is your year!!

[@RebeccaKo]

AH thank you so much!! I pray 2024 is good to us all :)

[@soundslikeviv]

you literally carried my 2023 thank you

[@RebeccaKo]

HELL YA

[@jessmartinez9768]

Your Spanish sounds so good. Keep killing it queen 👑 also, thanks for being so real ❤️

[@RebeccaKo]

AHA i hope so 😭 I’ll keep practicing :) but thanks!!

[@Karina-i8z1s]

The queen has uploaded!

[@RebeccaKo]

AHA LY❤️

[@ideabuzz606]

You right spend more time with your family its important. I lost my mom and my cousin last year and almost lose my uncle. So take time with your family life is too short.

[@RebeccaKo]

I’m so sorry for your loss! And thank you for encouraging that goal :) it’s definitely something everyone should consider

[@geronimostiltonlover421]

you saying going to bed before midnight then waking up at 10am is bad when i got to bed at 4am and sleep till 3pm lmaooo 💀

[@st0litzxblitz]

samee, I'm like your doing better than me girl 😭

[@RebeccaKo]

Omg bless ur soul 😭😭

[@anaromero5583]

Thank you for this! I have def been mentally beating myself up and feeling lost. Your vid def gave me the boost I needed & loved your vibe 🤩 Ty!!

[@RebeccaKo]

awe 🥹 I’m so glad!! 🫶

[@soundslikeviv]

we love you rebecca❤️❤️❤️

[@RebeccaKo]

Love u all most 🥰🫶

[@nayanikathapa5722]

Nothing but love for you ❤️

[@RebeccaKo]

and right back at you 🥹

[@LesleyHuang-c5q]

This is so helpful, thanks Rebecca!

[@RebeccaKo]

I’m so glad!🫶

[@notyakumos]

first step to becoming an it girl is arriving early to a rebecca ko video ♥

[@RebeccaKo]

LMFAO ILYY🫶❤️

[@Throughchrisinblood]

Rebecca! How does the accent chair feel?! I want to get one

[@RebeccaKo]

ITS SO COMFORTABLE! Especially with the little foot stool :) 10/10

[@lonaIdek]

Ur literally a queen and I love ur videos Keep up this amazing work and ur outfits are slaying every time I hope 2024 is the best year for all of us ☺️

[@RebeccaKo]

You’re the sweetest 🥹 TYY!! Here’s so all of us slaying 2024 ❤️

[@emilyr02]

thank you for this video truly is helpful

[@RebeccaKo]

I’m so glad!! You’re so welcome 🥰

[@tsh0p0p]

earlyy and i love your videos 🫶

[@RebeccaKo]

Welcomeee! & thank youuu 🥹❤️

[@reyanaamagar3827]

I love your videos ♥️

[@RebeccaKo]

ILYYY 🫶

[@asagiri4762]

Omg I've never been this early omggg

[@RebeccaKo]

Welcome welcome 🥰

[@Nishad2448]

Very good videos

[@atopansa8696]

❤❤