The Five Love Languages" Author Gary Chapman Part II | Michael Jr.

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[@KA-qw5cv]

I've heard of the book. Now I am intrigued and will read it! Great message!

[@jilllingenfelter4682]

My love languages are #1.physical touch #2. quality time spent.#3. and words of affirmation:) I’ve read this book it’s so easy read. And it’s super easy to understand :) And it’s easy to put into practice:)

[@brianmery761]

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[@rlm9093]

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[@ashley.g]

I think the opposite of love is apathy. For the love languages, I think that would look like: instead of quality time, you always say no to plans together; instead of physical touch, you dodge any physical contact - for example, always knowingly "leaving them hanging" when they go for a high five. In contrast to the neutral you mentioned which I think would be like not initiating touch or quality time (even though you're not constantly rejecting it either). I think abuse - physical, verbal, or otherwise - would fall under the category of disfunction instead of the category of antithesis to a love language. Like you all said, it is universally harmful in and of itself regardless of the filter of love language. Love languages are about how things are given and received and how that varies, whereas abuse is awful regardless of who is involved. As someone who's love language isn't physical touch, I don't really care is someone blows off a high five yet to someone who that is the love language of, they could easily translate that (especially if it's a regular occurrence) as the person disliking them. So with apathy in mind, an example of the three levels with the love language of gifts would be 1. Almost anything that's truly thoughtful and gift-like makes them feel loved 2. A begrudged, thoughtless gift only when one feels they must give one for holidays or special occasions = not feeling the love 3. Never giving them anything, especially if they've given you things, could be taken as you not liking them. Like give a person one of your fries once in awhile for pete's sake so they know you don't hate their existence. Great thought provoking podcasts! Truly have enjoyed and appreciated the things all three of you have shared/discussed in these last two episodes.

[@spiritwarrior5574]

Dr. Chapman's statement of "Love is a choice" is so important for people to understand. Many people get caught up in the idea of love being an emotional "feeling" or response. When that is no longer there or what it used to be many people thing they are no longer "in love". On a bigger scale I wonder how many people will never come to Christ because the people trying to share Christ is talking the wrong love language to them. If a persons love language is words of confirmation we should learn to share Christ showing that God highly values them. If their language is acts of service then show how Christ was a servant first. It may not be possible to know someone's love language if you only get to witness for a short amount of time but for those around us that we see more often learning their language before sharing the Gospel may help by knowing what to focus on to help them understand the Gospel, salvation and who God really is better.

[@dennymedeiros4504]

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[@MichaelJrComedy]

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[@danacampbell6465]

My partner and I both have a primary language quality time BUT he has very little time available in his daily schedule. Although we strategically plan time together , what can I do to make sure I meet this love language?

[@rlm9093]

Dana, I have an idea. It might fall more in line with words of affirmation, but if you translate it rightly it might help to fill in the quality time need. BTW, for context, I also am a high quality time (but with quantity) person. I do appreciate words of affirmation, however, when I can tell they are sincere. So here's the idea: you could do something that takes quality time.... like writing him a letter and putting it somewhere he'll find it sometime during his day....like in his suit pocket...his computer.... anything like that. BUT here is the catcher, the translation: Early in the letter or note, you tell him directly that you realize his primary love language is quality time....that you understand a letter could fall into the words of affirmation category, BUT that bc his schedule is so tight right now in this season, you are purposefully pouring this quality of time into him through the funnel of this letter. The letter is taking quality time to write; what you say in the letter will have to take quality time to think of....like maybe writing out the details of some time in the past that you two shared together and truly enjoyed...maybe a vacation....maybe a specific walk or talk the two of you enjoyed. This way as you remember, you can enter back into that specific quality time and the love you two shared. Then when he reads your letter, he can enter back into that same specific quality time and the love you two shared. While at the same time, he could receive your quality time that you are spending on him in remembering, in writing, in thinking of a way to share quality time with him even in a busy season. One bonus this could bring is to broaden both of your experiences of love. I personally receive love from all the categories at this point in my life. The Bible reveals that God IS LOVE. I believe He loves us fully in all languages. I believe we are made in His image with the capacity to give and receive love in every way ...but this takes practice and the healing of love pathways that were blocked through abuse, neglect, and trauma. So...I believe that we can not only learn to speak someone else's love language for their sake, but I believe we can learn to speak it and receive it for our own sakes as well. Anyways....just an idea you can try if it sounds like something that might work. If not, maybe it will jog your creativity and give you another, more personal, and better idea that could work better. Blessings, and best wishes, RitaLynn

[@jamescartel9448]

Hey 👋 how are you doing?

[@sarahball-ruck846]

Had the privilege of doing a marriage event at my reletively small church back early 2000s where Dr Chapman was the key note & got the book & have given it to so many thank you Lord for this wonder teacher 🙌🫶✝️

[@stellehope614]

I'm not sure if he'll see this msg or if you can forward it onto him. But what you do always when giving less than stellar news or "constructive criticism" is sandwich the info. Good bad good. Start off with a praise, then the criticism then end with another praise.

[@helenamynyngou]

Choquée !😲 This is wisdom.

[@maribelmeza4494]

A friend of mine and I were just talking about this! I don’t believe in coincidences, so I’m gonna forward it to her. It was eye opening for me because it explains a little bit about the application, beyond the “knowing”. And more importantly, as is Michael Jr.’s trademark, putting it in a different context/thinking outside the box - I speak Spanish, so I TOTALLY got the concept of her speaking her “language” and him not understanding! REVOLUTIONARY! Great, great “visual”!

[@toddthauer3083]

Super show Michael Jr 🙌 ! Having Dr Chapman talk w you was super helpful. Thanks for doing this podcast. God bless you all 🙏 ToddT

[@MichaelJrComedy]

Thank you!