The Fletcher Family Drama! | Love & Marriage: Huntsville | OWN

Ms. Nell speaks of her son Chris owing her money for bailing him out of jail, but then their daughter Lexi chimes in to say she was never supported by the family! Tune in to #LoveandMarriageHuntsville on Saturdays at 8/7c, and catch up on all past seasons on the Watch OWN app: bit.ly/2hr1nX2.
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[@janedeane3656]

That poor white boy 😂....dude was probably there for the green, Beens, potato, tomatoes, lambs, rams, hogs...YOU NAME IT

[@asobijoyce5802]

😂😂😂 what is this!

[@janedeane3656]

girl u know im right @@asobijoyce5802

[@paigewhitfield3624]

I love that song 😂

[@kinkycurlymanestay]

😂

[@plovie9376]

😂😂

[@mykindofmind]

This family need their own show, and I want the couple to stay together ❤️

[@jazzy4sure583]

💯👌🏾

[@amethyst5393]

Yes it’s seem nell is over it…

[@elishamartin9863]

They definitely need their own show!!! Real family right there, drama, success and tough love.

[@prettylifeprettywife7171]

Absolutely we can get into some thangssss!

[@kizzy5294]

I was just thinking this, cause I am all into this clip.

[@reneshau.3369]

When Chris said in the confessional that’s he’s going to always love his daughter and Nell said “she respects that for him, that made me look at Nell crazy.. there’s more to this.

[@jedan0920]

I said the same thing as well. That maybe Nell is part of the reason for this young lady being so hurt n scorned .

[@notagoodkiki]

Me too, I use to look at Ms.Nell a lil different

[@herAGAIN17]

TOTALLY agree. It seems like Chris Fletcher has to defend and justify to Nell, the fact that he loves Lexi just as much as the kids they share. Which is CRAZY. I mean, I see how Lexi can be difficult, but at least SHE'S not doing stints in jail, all needing EXPENSIVE lawyers, like their son.......

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

People say things when they are upset but it sounds like she has had enough of Lexis crap.

[@CeeJay611]

She said it out of hurt. Not excusing it but they all said things out of hurt. They need family therapy and individually first

[@kimberlyrichardson1992]

The Fletcher are an example of a family dealing with everything together as a family. The Good, the Bad and the Ugly. Love their honesty.

[@shay_renee_]

I'm smelling a spinoff show... 😂😂😂"The fletcher family drama." I think they got what it takes to keep you coming back for more!!

[@laurenlewis1902]

i love the husband its just sitting back and letting everyone say how they feel

[@ArielBOfficial_]

I said the same thing

[@filmadcamp1512]

Yeah but he has to engage. Otherwise the wife is going to look like the bad guy because she is the one trying to handle everything. That's why they go to him and not her. When in reality he should tell them go to her.

[@bludiva27]

I hate it. He allowed them to disrespect his table, his wife and his household.

[@TheSHAY1806]

When did it become ok to cuss in front of your parents?? Even If Your grown it's Still disrespectful.

[@esthera4710]

Lol because they cuss in front of their kids. How can you consistently cuss in front of and towards your kids, then expect cussing not to be part of their normal vocabulary? It’s a learned behaviour.

[@arneliashort4647]

@@esthera4710it’s called respect. At your big age you should understand that and so should she. SMH

[@esthera4710]

@@arneliashort4647 respect isn’t the point about this. I’m not condoning this,- I would never dream about swearing like this in front of my parents, but that’s largely because my parents don’t swear (not that I’ve ever heard anyway), and they raised us not to do the same. They don’t even like it when I say ‘hell’ lol. The point is while I may not agree with it, it’s also completely understandable that the kids swear like that, because they are modelling the behaviour that has been taught. To expect your children not to do something you consistently perform in front of them is ridiculous, and borderline delusional.

[@tinamitchell7821]

I said the same thing. We couldn’t talk to my parents like that.

[@filmadcamp1512]

That's the part that I didn't like.

[@keestinnawilson8064]

I have enjoyed them more than ANY other part of the cast. I believe Mel definitely brought them on the show knowing that it would be a pick me up for the show . It will also give a break from the Scott’s . Mel is a smart business woman!! The Fletchers are an awesome addition!! I love it for the show but I’m worried about the effect of the show on the family . 😞 🙏🏾

[@tylerjames979]

Saying she will burn their house down is crazyyyy!!! That took the cake for me.

[@hevel4383]

Now this is example of transparency. I hope the Scott family can use this as example on how to give good honey tv.

[@TrinityRamos-ev8jw]

It’s clear that’s it’s something way deeper with Lexi and her family. And it’s very sad to see so many people label her as the problem based off a 15 minute encounter. A lot of people don’t realize that when you’re the one benefiting from something it’s VERY hard to see the other side. Seems as if the other siblings had it better than Lexi. Even when Fletch walked up to the car he said when Lexi was younger he didn’t have it all together. It’s not hard to understand that maybe the other siblings experienced the healed/ “together” father. Instead of dismissing her feelings they may need therapy. Because she’s clearly not over what she experienced. The saying “being treated like the step child” is a thing for a reason. And from this clip, there’s two step children and one has been treated differently. It’s easy to be labeled as the problem when it’s 6 people against 1. I hope this family heals ❤️

[@herAGAIN17]

Totally agree. Was VERY put off by the way Nel screamed at her to shut the hell up over nothing. Great way to stoke her sense of alienation. As Dr Phil would say, Lexi is the "squeaky wheel", the most obviously problematic one, but far from the only one with problematic behavior

[@prettygirlslikesneakers1438]

That’s makes sense, however I have a sister & know of other ppl who behave just like Lexi, nothing happened to them more extreme than the next child, every child has their own experience but ppl like her & my sister who just at every turn try to make an issue to be the victim is a real thing. In that short clip it was clear she was delusional everything she said they disputed them she would try to find her next point to be mad about & then got frustrated when she could not solidify her half remembered version. Person after person topic to topic. Some ppl truly are just like this unprovoked

[@herAGAIN17]

@prettygirlslikesneakers1438 remember, though that we just saw a fight about a car. We have no idea what else Lexi might have experienced, and just because she didn't bring up anything else at that dinner, doesn't mean that the car is her only complaint.We simply don't know, but I'm betting that it ain't just the car. Lexi's feelings of alienation seem DEEP

[@bphines88]

She has a different mother so she will not get what Neal gives her kid's all the car was giving to Neal kid's by Neal not Chris he said don't do it. She wrecked her car it was Neal that gave her 22 thousand from Neal not Chris. So she has a jealous problem with her 1/2 siblings she has to take that up with her Mother and father Chris. If I was Neal she wouldn't get a dime from me. Her mother and father can deal with that.

[@TrinityRamos-ev8jw]

@@herAGAIN17 agreed!

[@roginavaughn80]

That mom is a cold piece of work.

[@NDB82]

I tell you what, when Chris told his oldest daughter to “go the f$&k on,” that’s when I knew she messed up. She wanted to be chased after, but she didn’t expect him to return serve. 😬 This scene alone was more real than the last 4 seasons of the Snotts. 👀👀👀 I know all of the Fletcher children are grown, but all that cussin’ in front of parents is wild to me. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@joyhairston-white737]

Yes the cussing in front of the parents was bad. All the kids seemed a little spoiled

[@ashleyharp2681]

That further approved of her being accused of having a woe is me mentality. She’s hurt over something and hasn’t gotten over it and doesn’t know how to accept or respectfully articulate it.

[@arneliashort4647]

Same. I’m 34 and would never curse at my mother. That’s so disrespectful. I wouldn’t invite her either because clearly she brings bad energy

[@lynellsmith1576]

The grown kids cussing was very disrespectful. No way I'm cussing like that in front of my parents or call them out of their name. That daughter need to be picking up her teeth. If any of my sisters talk to my mom like that it would be the last thing she see b4 going to the hospital.

[@RockysSugar]

Those aren't her kids the girl said she cussed her first and she's being doing it every since. She treated that man kids differently from what I gathered.

[@beautifulgorgeouslovely4661]

Fletchers need they own show‼️‼️‼️‼️Definitely would tune in to watch this family😂

[@pgee6911]

Once you tell me “imma come back and set this house on fire “. WE DONE DONE !!! You ain’t gotta come to the funeral the wake or the repast .

[@bklynmichelle6932]

@pgee6911 I SCREAMED at your comment!! And I cosign! 😂😂😂😂

[@deedeemonique1]

Okay, cause oh girl was out of pocket for that!!!

[@lgee9027]

Im like red flag to the husband

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@emayan06]

Lmfaoooo when she said that my face went 😨

[@user-vy6nf6jp3y]

Lexie is an outside child and the only one that was not raised in the house. Being that she was not raised in the home she was likely the one to get looked over. Her dad admitted that he was not always there. Her feelings are her feelings and instead of knocking them down, they might want to step in her shoes. The car is just an example for her.

[@patboatman966]

I’m loving the Fletchers, they’re real life family drama. It’s so refreshing I actually watched it twice.

[@lynntodd2845]

💯 Percent facts!!

[@Pairee89]

I love them too!! Put the Fletchers on as apart of the cast and remove Tisha’s cousin

[@sharonfoster6813]

If this is Real life? Then I'm praising God for my Fake family life.

[@okitheesti]

Maybe there’s some truth in what Lexi is saying, can’t take away what she’s feeling.

[@KT-pw1cq]

I was thinking JUST that.. idk the background but it seem like the children on the father side is what the lady have an issue with.. that’s always a trend that I see in “blended” families. Like sus Lexi only said two words before she cut her off

[@RockysSugar]

This i been there I chose to stay away no my father is gone I have no need to contact them.

[@TrinityRamos-ev8jw]

Exactly. And it’s easy to be labeled as the problem child when it’s 6 people against 1. I hope they all heal but her feelings being dismissed is very sad to see.

[@gigithomp101]

I think deep down inside Lexi is hurting, and as a family, I want them to fix this.

[@filmadcamp1512]

Just because she is feeling it, it doesn't mean there is some truth to it.

[@ew5713]

It’s always hard for the parent to accept that they are wrong and of course the children that got everything that they wanted is going to defend the parents that has supported them.

[@STackinDre]

But they all have had problems with eachother she’s the only one saying all this … she ain’t innocent especially how she was just talking to them . And I’m surprised it went this smooth being Them southern FOLK DONT PLAY THAT

[@givemeyourmeatnow]

true but i wish she would mention something other than the car tho because that’s not enough to say mistreatment. my brother got handed a car. my brother and i didn’t. we aren’t salty, we love each other and have never blocked each other. i cannot even imagine going NC with them. even tho in reality they may feel that i as a the youngest got preferable treatment in some aspects.

[@HoneybeeAwning]

she definitely proved that she's BEEN disrespectful. Really messy, sounds like her mother has been in her head her whole life so it really doesn't matter what Nell does to Elexis she'll always be the bad guy and that's a damn shame. She lied about not cussing Nell out just to proceed to cuss her out.

[@riqbeenaproblem7022]

@@HoneybeeAwningthis is the comment I believe some one is spoon feeding her to believe bc she was raised with the rest that she’s been treated differently.. when she said so really want me to go and Nel was like yeah go there all she could mention was the a got damn car that she paid 1500 for turned around go in an accident a month later and they brought her a car that nel out 21000 down on. As the saying goes At some point if everyone at the table is saying the same thing about you it’s time to self reflect love

[@RockysSugar]

​@@givemeyourmeatnowshe mentioned not being included in anything.

[@ronicmwest]

Normally in a family with multiple kids, it is always one child rhat is treated differently. She is bringing it up because it has never been addressed fully. Hopefully they can address and find full healing. It is never easy to admit wrongs in families. It is more than likely at this point wrongs on all ends. She is trauma from a certain point in life and others saying she just plays victim without acknowledging what actually happened. They could just said yes we got all other kids cars and didn't get you one until later because of this or that. It was never meant to make you feel less than the others. Let's go to counseling to correct it so we can be a family.

[@godc1109]

At the end of the day, it’s a darn car. 🤦🏽‍♀️ the way ppl act over materialistic items that aren’t meant to last is crazy. She should be greatful for the 22k Nell gave her, bring she isn’t her actual mother. I wanna kn what did her real mother provide 🤔 if she gone act like that. Bell owes her nothing. Her father does.

[@dewoindramulligan2811]

​​@@godc1109 She didn't just give her 22k. Chris owed that for CHILD SUPPORT. Pay attention to how they word it. & The fact that he said he didn't do anything until she was 17 years old bc he was going thru stuff. That's what that lump some of money was for!

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

​@@dewoindramulligan2811 LOL, that's not true and Lexis online they did give her 22K to help her get a new car after she total her 2nd car out

[@dewoindramulligan2811]

@@overcomeriam6overcomer328 you're lying. They didn't give her anything. She said that they would always tell her to ask her mom bc that's why they pay child support. There's video of it so why are you making things up.

[@samanthah2937]

The Fletchers need their own show !! I ain’t ever seen the husband like this !!! 👏🏾👏🏾 I like them !!

[@Traciero]

Ain’t no way I’m talking to my parents like that and living to see another second😳…Lexi is mad disrespectful 😡

[@shortyduwhop319]

Bc she isn’t being heard.

[@ladydi3618]

As I watch this scene I was cringing because of the cursing and disrespect of the kids but it's obvious that's how they talk to each other but never in my mama house!

[@Tpainlilbro]

I can see where she coming from in a sense. She wasn’t allowed to curse at the table but the other kids said the exact same thing and didn’t get chastised

[@highlyfavored7724]

The other kids did not say kiss my behind to no one.

[@Tpainlilbro]

@@highlyfavored7724 a curse word is a curse word no matter how it it was used. I’m 38 and still too curse around my folks

[@givemeyourmeatnow]

Lexi: “when did i ever cuss you out!” *acts flabbergasted at the accusation* *2 minutes later* Lexi: *storms out* “bye! you guys are a-holes! kiss my a**! kiss my f’n a**!” okay girl 😳

[@ladydi3618]

That's crazy she can say that and still be standing not in my family!

[@yolandalcheek462]

Right 😂

[@queenmandy1135]

Just from this small clip! She always talk around the facts.

[@HoneySunshyne]

Periodt😂😂😂. The lies they tell.

[@Epinaj]

I thought the same thing 😂😂😂😂

[@ftmb1022]

That baby stuck on the car. Maybe your parents couldn't afford to buy you a high end car at that time sweetie. At some point all of what your parents could and couldn't do for you. Baby girl you you gotta let it all go and enjoy the time you have left with your family ans thank God you still have a family.

[@DariaLovelyStallion]

No. Dad said he recalls putting out a large amount of money and the next month she had a different car... She then said yes because I got in an accident, do you want to see the legal documents... The problem is she feels she should get whatever just because the parents have money. That's why one of the other kids told her she was driving a hoopty & not a "luxury" car like the rest of them because she's reckless....

[@deewarr278]

Maybe some family counseling can help them bring the issues to the forefront, talk about them and heal them. God Bless them. I would love to see more of this family in a happy place all together.

[@ItzD]

I feel like what Lexi said is true. If you notice, no one denies the car story. They just keep saying she wasn't mistreated (which is different from being treated differently) 🧐

[@traw3834]

Facts

[@Mspeaches1982]

I had an aunt that acted like Lexi...EVERY family gathering she would FIND a reason for an outburst so she could go party and leave her kids with my grandmother. Even as a child I knew it was coming and was so desensitized to it🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@tammydavis5180]

I have an ex.... like Lexi

[@Taimithepharmacist_]

I hAve a sister like Lexi

[@mrsa6925]

They are draining though. Energy Vampires.

[@herAGAIN17]

But Nel DID shriek at Lexi to shut the hell up over NOTHING. Lexi definitely has issues but Nel is exacerbating her feeling of alienation. Nel is MESSY

[@cynthiahawkinbyrd1941]

No they need counseling

[@justicesmith-stevenson9920]

The way she told lexi to shut up lol I literally felt it and jumped as if It was my mama 😅😅😅

[@JoJo-pg6zi]

Nell should have listened to Chris. They didn't need to do any of it lol. I'd drop all of them lol. Lex has feelings toward them because they were raised in separate households. It's hard to bridge that kind of divide and make the child feel welcome. I was treated differently but I didn't live with my dad. I focus on the amazing love I got from my moms side and the closeness I have with my stepsister and my nephews. She's the only close connection I have on my dads side. My dad and stepmom I deal with on a friendship level and it works out well for me lol

[@crystalxoxox1266]

#1 Their children & niece is very very very disrespectful to just curse around their parents that way!! I will say i do believe Lexi was treated differently because she's not Nell's daughter! She's Chris's daughter! She lived in a different household then the rest of her siblings! Its messed up the others had Mercedes and Chargers and she had an old used 1997 car! I think Chris needs to have a heart to heart conversation with his daughter!! without Nell!..

[@niyserenjiy]

That's why I told you not to bring her or invite her. 😒There's a lot going on when it comes to the oldest daughter Lexi. She has a story, not just what we see here on a clip of a show... Her step-mom literally stated she won't get over it. What happened, what was done, 😕 that she needs to get over it ? Dad just admitted he was going through something that caused him to be out of her life or abandon her from her perspective. Ppl chose to listen and hear what they want to and side with whom they please, but they are not talking and speaking the truth about things pertaining to their oldest daughter. 😢 She clearly made valid points and when folks don't want to be held accountable for their short comings they avoid, cover it up, 🙄 pretend said person doesn't know what they are talking about, at this time I'm almost certain they have completely put it out of mind out of sight because the truth hurts especially when you actually deal with it, deflect from it, project it onto said person (Lexi), etc... Lexi has emotions on things that are not being validated 😢because those within her circle 🙄 want to make it seem like she is the problem. Yet they won't be quiet long enough for her to speak what has happened because they no longer want to deal with it. 😢 So Lexi has to retreat just to keep her sanity, may the Lord GOD above completely heal the void within Lexi's heart over the rude and abusive treatments she has received and endured in her past and clearly within the current present. There's 😢😮😮😮😮 clearly 🙄 something more going on here than they all are letting on. Her siblings all feel some type of way about her emotions, but again, no one stops to hear Lexi out before cutting her off to describe her horrible mannerisms. She has yet to tell her story that everyone bashes and insists it isn't true ??? Something is not reality here in this family, and it shows !!! 😕

[@Sharon247]

Wow. Yeah. Is she both their child?

[@mooriabdul3861]

@@Sharon247she is Chris daughter

[@blackgarmentbag7482]

I was looking for this comment. Obviously, Lexi feels she was treated differently and she can’t just “get over it or let it go.” A counselor can help the family address this and other issues.

[@Sharon247]

​@@mooriabdul3861Thank you👍🏼

[@lulu07Lulu]

Listen. When Nell said Lexi has "been in her life since 16 months" I KNEW what is was about. So, not only is Lexi not her daughter or the sibling's biological sister, but based on how Nell worded it, I dont believe Nell ever bonded with Lexi as a mother. Once Nell's kids were born, she kicked Lexi to the curb and never circled back. For the DAD to sit back and let his first born child be treated like this by the new wife and her kids is disappointing. Lexi needs to forgo wanting to be on TV to continue her path in staying away from her "family" and loving her dad from afar.

[@000014161]

Lexi is expressing her pain. Some step-mother can me sneaky, mean and manipulative. I know, I had one. She was jealous because I looked like my father, because she couldn't give my father a child. Anything my father did for me she questioned. When I was six, my dad went to the corner store and left me with my step-mother and her best friend. My step-mother pushed me upside my head and said I can't stand her, I don't see why he keeps bringing her around. Her best friend said, as she hugged me and ask if I was okay. Don't do that she's a child and if you love him you should love her that's his daughter and she was here before you. I told my grandma when I got home, and she said that, I didn't have to go back, and she would talk to them. My Dad continued to pick me up he just didn't take me around her. When I was 20 years old, I was Christmas shopping and ran into my step-mothers best friend. I vaguely remember her when she said my name, then when she smiled, I knew who she was. She asked do you remember that day. I smiled and said yes, thank you. My dad has passed away and my step-mother is alone now because anyone who loved my dad she always had bad blood with them. Now she tries to have a relationship with me and my five children, who she was always jealous of. It's hard for a child that lives outside the home of the other parent, you don't get or have the same relationship.

[@Brwnskinbeautii518]

Girl bye that’s her actual mother. And she making about material things!!! Nothing that’s truly deep is effecting

[@prosperpetuity7987]

@@Brwnskinbeautii518you are all loud and wrong that’s NOT her mother!! But she was the other woman in her MOTHER’s marriage with Chris!!!

[@kianajohnson8246]

The fletchers need their own show I love them 😂❤

[@okitheesti]

I love this blended family. So authentic and real life ish that family goes through. Always loved Nell right from the scene of her dancing when Mel brought her to a pole class😊

[@sexyazshay]

Who is dropping the ball on this??? They definitely need their own show!! I would be glued to the tv!!! 😂

[@yellow8818]

TOXIC FAMILY IS THE WORST!!!

[@sewblue187]

Lawd I did not know the Fletchers were rockin like this😂😂😂😂 Count me in for a spin off 😂😂😂

[@Jinx5614]

Wanda , Chris and Nail Fletcher are real , authetic classy and fiesty folks

[@jeanicelewis510]

Wanda who?????

[@asobijoyce5802]

​@@jeanicelewis510Co ask!

[@kurstinmalcolm7169]

Wanda. He'll to the NO. Delusional Hater.

[@melaninenriched7844]

​@@jeanicelewis510That's what I'm saying 😂😂

[@patboatman966]

@@jeanicelewis510who is Wanda? R U talking about hating, bad english speaking Wanda ?

[@trinaisspeakin4539]

At this point the Fletchers need their OWN show!!!!!!!

[@mrsa6925]

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the Fletchers ❗️ This was a bit awkward to watch but it was CLEARLY REAL AND AUTHENTIC - this is what we, the viewers, need. OWN throw the fake ones away (the Scotts (both 1.0 AND 2.0) and Tiffany) and more of the Fletchers. That’s a whole spin off right there (so much dysfunction going on - they don’t mind sharing). Please and thank you. 🙏🏾

[@dontdomeboo81]

if they dont appreciate it Stop giving these kids money

[@livia8227]

Lexi is the only child that isn’t biologically Nell’s. While she may be a bit dramatic, I think what she’s saying is her truth, and she may feel some sort of disconnect from the family considering that.

[@shareecekhalfani3533]

It’s funny how she admitted to getting the car she saved $1500 for after she got into an accident. So they did drop $22K on a car she totaled 30 days after she got it. What they were supposed to go get another right away?!! STOP IT

[@alicenjeri337]

The audacity.

[@dewoindramulligan2811]

That's not what they said. She saved her money and totaled her car. But they're convinced that the money they paid owed for Chris's child support bought the car. They didn't give her money for a car. They gave his ex (her mom) money for child support that he legally OWED.

[@vetgirl71]

@@dewoindramulligan2811how do you know that?!! Where is the proof of this statement?!! I don’t believe anything a person says without receipts! Show the receipts! 🙄🤷🏾‍♀️

[@dewoindramulligan2811]

@@vetgirl71 it's called context clues, reading between the lines and paying the fuq attention to what ppl say. Now go back and pay attention to what was actually said and the words that Nell & Chris carefully chose to use.

[@dewoindramulligan2811]

Nell : Angrily " you drove your little expensive azz white car after I dropped 22, 000 dollars. " Chris: " At one point of time a large lump sum of money was given & not less than a month later you had another car. That's why we were assuming." ... Dropped 22,000 on what/ for what!? A lump some of money was given to WHO & FOR WHAT!!? ... Why would they purposely leave that information out & why would they word it how they did? Lol.

[@veewalker4472]

I'm blown away that parents allow their kids to cuss them out like this today! I only have nieces and nephews and they know better than to cuss or even talk aggresive at me, I always show them respect as well but I always gave them stern guidance while showing them love! This is just mind blowing to see the level of disrespect in homes today!

[@ladydi3618]

Dysfunctional family with spoiled kids that needs therapy to learn how to talk with respect to each other

[@madmann1000]

My sister always runs to the “y’all treated me differently” anytime she doesn’t get what she wants. Meanwhile the entire family til this day is financially supporting her at the age of 40. My mom has purchased all her cars, raise her kids, we all help her pay bills and rent, but as soon as you say no or something she doesn’t like, she jumps right into the woe is me mentality.

[@zxcccccc1]

Sounds like she's sitting in her childhood trauma , there has to be healing are she won't be able to be stable.

[@HoneybeeAwning]

sounds familiar SMH that's crazy

[@mersaedesbarkley3059]

U know what I have the exact auntie for that, my grandma pay for all her stuff all the time until my grandma gots very sick and pass away

[@DeeDiamond2981]

​@@zxcccccc1yep.

[@sheenah8638]

We all got a Lexi in the family, someone who feels as though they were treated differently and is not able to let go of the past and move forward.

[@Hamiltont97]

The dad admitted to not being as present as he should have been. That isn't something that everyone can simply move on from.

[@ZAKIAGOLD]

First off all the kids minus Lexi lived in the house with Nell and Chris. There is a clear division and selective favoritism. She has a right to hold on to the pain because they are not acknowledging her pain. So, she will hold on to the pain because no one being held accountable for their actions.

[@filmadcamp1512]

@@ZAKIAGOLD Nobody banned her from living in the house. She seems to have chosen not to live there.

[@breesochic]

@@ZAKIAGOLD I don’t know if it’s favoritism but of course the dynamic of people you live with is going to be differ than with the person who visits. I don’t think that these people maliciously tried to segregate her.

[@sheenah8638]

@@ZAKIAGOLD but her holding on to that pain is not good for her health, shes grown now so she has a choice to not go around them, she chooses to be around them now so she needs to let go of past pain and move on

[@Tittiesatthetop]

Lexi could very well be the problem, but they absolutely ganged up on her in this scene, and they absolutely failed to answer specific questions that she asked

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

That's editing and she didn't answer to the 22000 they gave her.

[@latyshal.2286]

Wow. This was sad to see. I hope they can mend their relationship with their daughter. They hear her, but they are not listening to her. There is a hurt young child within her. They all need to go to family counseling.

[@ashleetyler429]

DON'T LIKE the FLETCHERS. the family is ganging up on Lexi and they said she was lying about the vacation but when asked NOBODY PROVIDED PROOF. the amount of hatred from the siblings over this conversation is UNCALLED FOR. One even said they wanted to put hands on Lexi. THIS ISN'T HEALTHY

[@breesochic]

Well one of the vacations was employee appreciation and the niece worked for Nell at one point. Not sure if Kayla does as well. So she may have assumed it was a family thing but it wasn’t. They also weren’t speaking. Nell could’ve been the bigger person and still invited her. But I think Chris has to step in and maybe do a sit down with Lexi’s mother and try to really clean the slate.

[@TheodoreBakes]

Lexi needs some serious therapy. She is the forever victim. I understand because Ive had similar issue with family but Im not gonna block people, curse them out and act like they all did something to me.

[@njpdbillionaire]

Wow, talk about real issues with family members, especially when it comes to money. For a moment I thought I was at my mom's house 😂. It's so good to see a family eating together at a table without cell phones. The cussing was too much for me, it shows a level of disrespect. However, I would love to see more of this family.

[@shadonnadavis3949]

LEXI for all the sister/brothers being treated differently by parents OR other SIBILINGS! IM WITH YOU. My mom had twins and still couldnt treat us the same.

[@MzSweetzTalk]

💯💯💯

[@missequire2008]

What I hear from Alexis is that she was the only child in who lived outside the home and was not treated equal to the children who lived inside the home. People can be in the same circumstances and have different experiences. It doesn’t sound like anyone can honor her experience without taking personal offense. And that’s something that will continue to create fissures.

[@president433]

What they did to lexi is insane. If you actually listen to what she saying you will understand her point

[@shay9262]

Mrs. Fletcher is wrong for just dismissing his daughter because it’s obvious she is still hurting because no one is acknowledging her feelings

[@overcomeriam6overcomer328]

Here's the thing, is it fair to keep going through the same thing for years and you choose to have no resolve.

[@Shestheman013]

@@overcomeriam6overcomer328it seems like they have no resolve because no one really acknowledges how they hurt her. If the mother and father would acknowledge the pain she’s in and how she feels without them being defensive or rude, because the mother yelled at her for nothing really, they might get somewhere. I think they just like having a family scapegoat

[@Muffiebell]

“And I can respect that for you”😩🤣😂🤣😂

[@lexi6797]

Ikr? That’s the part that got me. 😂😂😂

[@efitlife]

Now this is reality tv!!! We need this realness!

[@JasmineS2012]

These comments did not pass the vibe check. Y’all are saying how Lexie was being “disrespectful” but Nell disrespected her 1st yelling and telling her to shut the hell. She didn’t talk to her own kids like that. She’s giving evil step mom. No one should feel like they’re being treated different from their siblings. If you do for one you need to do for all. Kids don’t ask to be here. My dad has 2 kids with my step mom. & we have a good relationship. But my relationship with my dad is not the best. As a child Before I would go to his house for Christmas he would always give me a disclaimer over the phone and tell me when I get my gifts it’s going to “look like” he’s doing more for my brother and sister when they open their gifts but it’s cuz he lives with them. & they went on a family vacation a couple years ago without inviting me. That’s hurtful.

[@traw3834]

This they treated her differently

[@lovelifebrown]

Seems like Lexis is keeping it real while the Fletchers are putting on a little. Like them, but Lexis ain't gonna play along and I appreciate that❤😂

[@knotthetyme]

Bring the bottle 😂

[@monosworld_8826]

I believe her. Every time your treated different ppl swear you wasn’t.

[@_PAIGE94]

I love how authentic they all are 💯 I am glad Chris went out to talk to his daughter/hear her out after she stormed out 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@callmecandie3445]

Very beautiful family! Lexis might need a therapist. It may help for the entire family actually. I’m hollering at the husband🤣 Poor thing. At some point we have to let go of that hurt, grow up, and stop blaming everyone but ourselves for where we are.

[@niyserenjiy]

Lexi " Shut the Hell Up " 😮😮😮 dang, what exactly did the chile say ???

[@herAGAIN17]

I wondered the exact same thing......not cool at ALL of Nel....

[@ml2539]

Lexi got me tired….

[@conceicao4468]

Some parents fail to see that they also make mistakes. Your daughter is hurt then just hear her. How she feels is how she feels dont tell anybody that their feelings are A Lie. That is not building a bridge to come together. A siblings should be told by parents to stay out of the argument so its not all against one

[@Ennui83]

It's not even that everybody else seems to be of the same, general accord. It is the way that Lexi speaks, self-aggrandizing, talking only about what other people get or got, and cutting other people off, that makes her seem not credible. To Chris Fletcher's point, at the table and at the car, Lexi's one claim is that she got treated differently because of the cars that everyone else got or now drives. If she has a larger point, then she needs to think through what specifically she wants to communicate, because not getting an expensive car gifted to you does not demonstrate being treated differently for your entire life.

[@godsgirl1977]

I'm actually shocked that the Fletcher's have so much confusion in the camp....broadcasting this on TV may not have been the best idea.....because now the world will judge them outLOUD

[@prettybarbie9273]

Neil said she told him not to invite her. So she clearly don't like her or want her around. If that was her real daughter that would have never been her response. I believe her. My uncle daughter is treated like Lexi. She received a old car but the child will his wife is getting a new car. In blended families the stepchild is usually never treat the same

[@TruthBeTold1992]

Not Chris Fletcher dressing just like Martell Holt, walking away with the high-water/flood, tight pants on? Geez Louise, no matter they are such "tight" buddies. SMH.

[@rhondaclark6432]

I hope the Fletcher's get their own show. ❤

[@DakaraiDada]

Lexi is in pain and none of them want to acceot it. I do believe that she believes she was treated differently. Juat hear her out, apologize and do better.

[@michellealford2933]

The entire scene sadden me. The Lexi that I knew would have never carried on like that. While she did not grow up in the Fletcher home, she was raised in a stable home and was loved by her step father as if she was his. Praying for dear Lexi and the entire family.

[@MerdlynMatthews]

Please give them their own show!

[@Gretakuptz]

Lexi is the only one that is not blood related to the matriarch and it’s quite obvious to me.

[@hittinpieces]

It looked like some pretty normal everyday cars in that driveway present day and she hollering about cars at 17 and they in they late 20’s and 30’s.

[@UniqueFashion333]

Something really off about her anytime you wanna burn your family home down she is jealous

[@marceitagillum7449]

How uncomfortable do u think her husband felt lol

[@Nashae-kz5bc]

What is Elexis so hurt over that nobody wants to talk about? It seems like everyone was beating around the bush to me? Black parents have to stop talking to their kids a certain type of way because you see how that was set up their kids.

[@m3307]

I CLEARLY SEE THE MISTREATMENT I SEE WHAT SHE SAYING

[@AshantiShae]

Not she got Chris cursing lol

[@Stacey_Mae]

I don't think This family will keep their storyline Great friends of the show. Absolutely beautiful family.

[@cevanbrown2314]

Old African saying a child that is shunned by the village will burn the village.

[@abetterme5828]

Coming from a blended family it sounds like Lexi’s mother created some of this. Just my opinion…

[@breesochic]

I was thinking the same

[@keishatowns9600]

Probably speaking bad about the dad and step mom.

[@hotcarhottie]

Or probably denied Lexi going on the trips

[@prettybarbie9273]

​@@hotcarhottieNeil clearly said she told them not to invite her

[@sonyahall5080]

We all are not exempt from family issues…..

[@nnikkicrump3827]

Y’all can do a whole show on the family alone and I’ll stay tuned in

[@AddisonHaileLegobuilds]

They shouldn’t have bought those cars for those kids! Seem like they didn’t deserve them!

[@user-vb9ie2ms5u]

She said she will set A fire at her person house.😮

[@ZoyaKatrice]

Everybody’s trying to one up each others’ resentment and hurt. Anytime you respond to somebody’s disappointment with your own disappointment, the conversation becomes nonproductive.

[@tanisha7789]

Ungrateful children

[@Aerl104]

The Fletchers need there own show

[@dragonz6983]

The Fletchers need their own show

[@kiddnaja]

They gaslighting her feelings, the other children can cuss but soon as Lexi cuss it's don't disrespect me at my table.

[@barbarachristopherbaylor4439]

People that hurt others always want to say, I thought "we" were past this!? The "Honest truth" is the person who has been hurt ain't past it! Stop requiring people to be ok with what you did or didn't do...allow them the chance to SEE a change in how you treat them. Because baby TALK IS CHEAP! A broken heart is real! Each individual person responds/processes the pain/hurt in their own way and deserve to heal slowly or immediately depending on the individual. Saying that they should be over it is such an insult to the person that is hurting. I see this same scenario playing out everyday because the guilty person/people want to let off the hook for they knowingly decided to do. You might need to admit guilt and accept the person is still hurting! And may never be ok with the hurt!

[@shataviahamilton6289]

They need they're own show

[@marcuslane3]

The disrespect of them ALL IN 1 WAY OR ANOTHER..

[@SassyandSweet609]

How are you barely at a wedding. Did she not include her family in the wedding ceremony ..stop speaking to them and then invite them at the last minute hoping they would be mad and not show up so she had something to complain about. That’s what it sounds like to me. They shocked her when she showed up but that wasn’t good enough because she is still saying YALL WERE BARELY AT MY WEDDING!!!

[@sissgugu]

I absolutely enjoy this family! MORE PLEASE