The Foundation of My Family Will Start With My Baby, Not a Husband! | Kevin Samuels Reaction

[@priestwilliamson2135]

She doesn’t want to say her boyfriend’s job? He sells drugs! Period!!

[@JRWisdom]

😭😭😭

[@jaycesmith7899]

I mean, uh umm,....he ummm, nevermind

[@bachataintimate3726]

That part was a big warning shot to me

[@phyoomz7841]

Any normal guy with a 9 to 5 has no chance with a BW.

[@SolitudeofaTiger]

@@phyoomz7841 They’ll want us when they get used up.

[@vdrwatch]

KS: "Without blaming men what is wrong with modern women?" Her: "Blames men."

[@JRWisdom]

Facts!!

[@frankconley6321]

A woman is incapable of explaining it without blaming men. Incapable.

[@LordHollow]

@@frankconley6321 Their brains would bleed from their ears first.

[@little95]

That means responsibility… which they are allergic too

[@MrRuin-kv5fl]

@@little95 "Accountability is a Wodern woman krypto-nite" - Kevin samuels

[@ryanhansen7]

It still blows my mind that an adult will ramble on in response to a question for so long that they forget the original question. She is just waiting to talk instead of listening/replying.

[@raywilson3362]

My wife does this rambling all the time, I do not talk as much.

[@orlandojohnson3039]

Almost Every Woman that comes to this platform, Cannot give a Straight Answer to any Question. 🤔

[@yohanacruz]

My grandfather ones told me, a man that wants to marry you, knows within the first six months in the relationship if you are what he wants. He was right, my husband didn't even wait six months to propose to me, we've been married 13 beautiful years.

[@ModernDatingLifeFJ]

Exactly had her father still been alive he would have let her know this. Her situation is a perfect example of what happens when there is no father figure.

[@ModernDatingLifeFJ]

@Hannah Mack She had stated that her father was dead in the video. After KS had asked where her father was.

[@willjonesjr276]

That aint true at all 😆 y'all be hearing shit somewhere and trying to sound profound.

[@ADG.Est.1988]

Lovely

[@jubei187]

God bless

[@edwardhatfield7284]

As a 43 year old man, a black man in particular I've learned that most of us prefer marriage more than our women. The women are more interested in the wedding.

[@1966toronado]

........and even when they date you it's about the event and place more than spending time with you.

[@wildfiregirl1556]

They need to be interested in not breaking those vows. The hell with the wedding. It going to be embarrassing to get a divorce.

[@AB-vb4sv]

There it is!!

[@1966toronado]

Well i don't think they thought it out yet. It's all about a fantasy. I know they be gettin ghost on they husband's as soon as he look like he bout to sneeze....smh

[@christansdad]

That is all women...all women want their "princess day". The problem with black women is they can't plan beyond the weekend. Most black women are only looking to pay the monthly bills. I haven't found a black woman yet that has planned a way to fund their retirement. I know dozens of black women in their 40s still struggling to pay their monthly cell phone bill and put gas in the car.

[@coachmuhammad7799]

When I saw my wife for the first time I told a brother I was going to marry her. I really didn’t know what I was talking about. 8 months later we were married that was 25+yrs ago

[@AC-dt1rk]

She's young mentally and you can hear it in her speech.

[@West3720]

She mumbles

[@AC-dt1rk]

@@West3720 exactly, just like kids do.

[@colddeadhand7414]

Arrested development.

[@MrEWWWW]

That’s what college does to you.

[@wildfiregirl1556]

@@MrEWWWW Lol.

[@WorkatheBoss]

Poor women. Kevin Samuel helping us by showing these women a Real mirror of they foolish thinking. I got to give him props where its due.

[@darylogle6696]

They not learning

[@jeromebowens9709]

And this stuff has been going on for years. Thank you Kevin, somebody finally had the nerve to shine the light on these black women. I'm not worried about the white women i'm not white, let them take care of they're own problems.

[@andrealedet9541]

Never got the engagement ring went straight to the alter at age 22 still in it happily married for 21 years and counting 2 kids 19 and 20 years old

[@nashpalmer1121]

Fathers aren't family members they are the security, finance, scapegoat. men in the home are just a utility.

[@mikemike-zx5jy]

Facts!!

[@thenoblemarketer6599]

@Tatt Bass so basically u don’t like accountability… ahh, makes sense

[@lifeissimple1019]

You hit the nail on the head , men are just resources to to many women so that they can get their families "children " that's the why after kids sex gone. After the kids reach a certain age divorce because they can get all the resources they need without any investment in a man.

[@oliverbenis]

Accountability is kryptonite to women.

[@JRWisdom]

All day

[@razorsharplifestyle101hard9]

You ain't lying.

[@andrelewis774]

💯!

[@Itsrebekahstar]

Nooo, plenty of both men & women

[@michaelspencer6121]

@@Itsrebekahstar would be a bitch to bring up men, when the focus is on the women. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@cameroncunningham204]

“Don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved”...Project Pat

[@rickdavis2053]

I WANNA BE SAVED!!!!!!!!

[@paulevans6773]

🎶NORTH!! NORTH!! NORTH!!🎶

[@lockedandloaded9816]

Please don't save her SYSBM lol

[@83ttaylor]

#Memphis👍🏾

[@audiofeinz5754]

Wow I didn't know project pat originated that. Thought J. Cole was the one

[@usmcdevildog6935]

Women become an echo of their mothers relationship patterns, their mothers where epic failures in relationships... wash, rinse repeat.

[@alonzoquinones8976]

This is 100% facts sir. I'm a living witness of this unfortunate dynamic.

[@merouria6524]

Yes it's a generational problem with women and women culture.

[@Shabaka87]

I'm a living witness.

[@MrBlackraven2488]

How can you start the foundation of a family on a child. That’s the problem with black women now. Families don’t work based off the feeling of a child

[@jkkennedy8919]

Facts

[@ah00dii85]

My baby momma thought the same thing. Smh 🤦🏾‍♂️ I broke up with her realizing that I couldn’t deal with her stubbornness and attitude.

[@wildfiregirl1556]

@@ah00dii85 But not before you helped her produce a child? Good luck.

[@twill387]

@@ah00dii85 should've been married first before a baby.

[@realhdmusic210]

@@twill387 they should’ve but that’s rare nowadays these women have all been ran through

[@thenewwisenubianpolygyny3158]

Once upon a time men discovered that the response to asking a woman out could be not just rejection, but accusations of being creepy, sexual harassment, even rape. And on that very same day men discovered the magic of 'I don't need this garbage'. Congrats ladies! - you wanted it this way, you got it this way. Actions have consequences and no, you are not immune. Just like a man, deal with it - Equality!

[@rontrezbeaugard8212]

If I had a dollar for every time a woman says “I feel like”

[@mpscorporation6874]

You'd make the Rothschilds look like welfare cases

[@audiofeinz5754]

Wow had a homie in high school with the same name and yesss you right. You from Omaha bro ?

[@robchurch881]

Heck, if I had a nickel for everytime I heard a woman say "I feel", I would be a millionaire.

[@dyates6380]

YES.

[@calogerocapicchioni6554]

@RonTrez Beaugard Facts over feelings bro

[@LordHollow]

The wife and I met on June 30, 2013. Got engaged February 25th, 2014 (her birthday). Got married that following November 13th at the courthouse. Been together ever since. It don't take no 4 years.

[@NineToFiveGamerUC0079]

Is it safe to do that?

[@playbackproductions1]

My wife and I were the same way! Same time frame. Good work. 👍👍👍

[@LordHollow]

@@NineToFiveGamerUC0079 Why wouldnt it be? Didn't take me long to find my answer.

[@gmoorepsu1]

My wife and I dated for 12 months. I was looking for wife skills. She was looking for an ambitious man with a plan. Perfect match! We've been married 25 years and still going strong.

[@TILLEYJS]

Nope. Kevin is correct when he says men know almost immediately.

[@OsiAleogena]

Growing up I always wondered why it felt impossible to please a woman as nothing ever seemed to be good enough. The good things never counted or got me no privileges and the mistakes kept piling up. It felt like I was constantly fighting a losing battle. Now I know why.

[@terrancecooley3165]

Exactly most women nowadays are very hard to please....

[@t193u]

That’s cause men have been trying to please women,instead of women trying to please men ,while men should be trying to please God.

[@Prince1911_]

What was your answer? I still can’t figure it out why they are never grateful or hard to please.

[@queenbabymama5635]

I bet that was rough. God bless you

[@OsiAleogena]

@@Prince1911_ The answer lies in acceptance of human nature. Humans are impossible to please so no point making it a life ambition. Just do what you think is responsible, wise and expedient. When men do stuff for each other they don't do them to please, they expect tangible logical rewards like money, loyalty, compromise or gratitude but when many men do things for women it's for emotional rewards. Affection, commitment, love, gratitude, ego boost, care, validation, attention etc. That's why these men get disappointed often. These are short lived and easy to fake.

[@jimmy2_times]

She was really nice and respectful, but extremely misguided. And that’s why she is comfortable where she’s at.

[@earltaylor6404]

The question needs to be, has he asked you to marry him at anytime during your 6yrs together.🤔 Woah. When she asked to change the subject, that answered my question. The hold up is she doesn't want to get married, because in her mind, marriage means she loses her freedom, because she really doesn't want the commitment that comes with marriage.🙄

[@JRWisdom]

According to her, he has

[@ModernDatingLifeFJ]

Exactly most black women don't understand that life is about making sacrifices. You can continue being a hot girl or you can settle down. Every women no matter their race has to make that choice you can't have it both ways and wonder where all the high value men have gone in old age.

[@wildfiregirl1556]

@@ModernDatingLifeFJ Not all of us.

[@zadokprime4831]

She's probably cheated....

[@wildfiregirl1556]

@@zadokprime4831 Lol really.

[@upsidedown584]

He is so right on this. I did exactly what she is doing. Wasting her youth on someone who couldn’t care less. Ladies do not give a man your best years. Staying with a guy for 5 years with no marriage is a waste of time and trust me you will become bitter for it.

[@1peter2N9]

With in those years of waiting for a 💍, there should be no sex , if a woman gives it up before marriage it means the man paid the price already

[@zadokprime4831]

She's probably getting some on the side.

[@kcoh77]

Might as well get all the sex you can ...don't stop get it get it...

[@calogerocapicchioni6554]

@upsidedown584 Exactly. Wasting time is a horrible thing. No man is worth giving up the best years of your life, unless he truly loves you and vice versa. Especially when it's already a bad relationship

[@leroypoter4184]

She do not want to get married because she has been made terrified of being a wife Bitter women have spoiled her outcome

[@AshaMae]

No, she doesn't want to get married because she hasn't seen it modeled.

[@theresidentteacher2438]

This was a VERY PRODUCTIVE call. Kevin is trying his best to SAVE HER from a Man who isn't giving her what she wants. She needs to realize this NOW before it's too late.

[@tuntejaable]

Or maybe he wants to be married but she doesn't. That is more likely these days

[@k2gees]

Save her?? From herself? She sounds like the problem.

[@Shaolin91z]

Maybe he's just stringing her along to keep getting the 🐈.

[@Tahiha]

This only fans generation of women don’t want no marriage.

[@tariqtariqtariq88]

For the last 25,000 years ask any woman how to start a family and they'll say get married.... Ask a modern black woman how to start a family and she'll say have a baby lol

[@V_Isreal]

So saddening…I’m glad to have heard Kevin’s messages. I’m raising my daughter to be a wife 💯 something my elders didn’t teach me

[@heyitsablackguy9553]

This is the saddest sh!t I've ever seen.

[@JRWisdom]

Lol

[@MRBIGDEEDOWNHEREINTX]

Super Sad

[@everettetoxey8554]

Have you seen the one wit like 4 kids?

[@everettetoxey8554]

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[@smallbusinessdreams]

You can tell she's a good avg woman but needs a man to lead her. Women have to be more serious.

[@SportsGod-o9z]

She seems like a good girl, but she's in desperate need of leadership

[@jethuy2]

This can’t be an excuse anymore…everyone can’t be this alpha dominant man that can get the pussy moist. That’s only a few precent of guys who naturally oozes that, why can’t modern women fall in line with average man like their grandmother and so forth have?

[@Blk.Philip]

@@jethuy2 Because black women are “the most educated, making all this money, we don’t need no man tellin us what to do, you not gon pay all my bills then why I gotta listen to you, it’s hot girl summer, imma Phd” and on and on and on and fucking on g 🙄😂

[@jethuy2]

@@Blk.Philip 🤣🤣🤣 shit is sad man , that’s why focusing on the money is a must .

[@jayell1979]

Good girl?? 🤔🤔

[@SportsGod-o9z]

@@jayell1979 there's nothing to think about. Everyone is not bad and everyone is not good. a higher percentage on one side, means just that. Graduate from the red pill rage

[@West3720]

Marriage is the man's decision. They been together for 6 years and ain't got married. she a paperweight chic... "wait right here til I get this paper" 🤣

[@HusseinAbdirahman]

coldd

[@DracoJaguar]

Cold blooded but facts though 🤣

[@Mrs.Fluellen]

True!

[@XammoX89]

That was smooth.

[@SunFromBrooklyn73]

I like that! Cold as ice! lol!

[@duliee5076]

At least she respected his platform!

[@JRWisdom]

Lol

[@kirkhugginsjr9317]

@@INC823 lmao

[@baldfade85]

Thats the least she could do with her Ignant ass.

[@patriciabusch4599]

OMG YES!! ALOT of ladies absolutely do change their narrative when it starts to reveal they are only saying what they think someone wants to hear and they aren't being genuine.... Kudos to KS for recognizing the BS when he hears it. 👏👏👏👏 The man is a master. I'm freakin married and listen to him so I can stay on script with being a good wife to my husband. I know now the difference in a selfish person and a person who understands that none of us are perfect but their intent is genuine and their heart is pure. We've been married coming up on 10 years. He has helped grow as a human but also the woman that completed him so that we work effectively together. I resisted at first because I was initially a modern woman. I've seen my sister and several friends rebuke me for playing my role as a wife became he isn't making a gazillion dollars a year. We have been building and learning together. I bought him a car when we got together and he bought me a house just last year because I supported and held him up and down this whole time

[@calogerocapicchioni6554]

@patriciabusch4599 Facts. Congrats to you and your husband. A lot of people aren't willing to listen to logic and take their emotions out of it. I think that's why some women got offended listening to Kevin's podcast. I'm not saying everything he said was 100% correct. But, a lot of the time... dude was spitting facts about relationships, marriage, how men and women interact with each other, etc.

[@thedhive6512]

The man is smart not to marry. She seems like a goofball which means he has to build everything and she will be able to take it all when she is ready.

[@JRWisdom]

Damn

[@Cuzndr3w]

She probably been the side chick for them 6 years. She only good for shaking sheets with. A conversation with her would be a challenge 😂

[@michaelbrown8861]

In a year time she will be calling back KS saying she wants a HVM ....she don’t want to get married...because she thinks she’s too young to do so

[@brandonbrodbeck6688]

This was my ex and I thought she would grow up and gradually grow out of that but she never did if anything she went backwards and thought that because she was older meant she could be disrespectful because she had everything but she had everything because of me and she learned the hard way when I left all of it left too and now she's at her parents calling me for 2 years going to 10 plus guys

[@walkthedon]

I agree totally. KS might be sending women down a path to disappointment because most young men, middle aged and even old men are not signing up for marriage nationwide because we’ve all seen that very thing happen to us our fathers, uncles, brothers etc. every man. They’re lucky if they even get claimed as a girlfriend right about now

[@jaycesmith7899]

She murked some of my brain cells! I use these vids from the manosphere to emphasis to my 2 teen sons what my wife and I tell our sons to avoid.

[@slvrbakslpz4690]

Lmao u said murked

[@lambsoffaiththroughjesusch7919]

Great Job. Hopefully they will adhere to you, your wife, and the videos. To be honest, these should be part of a class in Jr. High and on up.

[@woke72]

"I deserve a high value men" KS: you don't deserve anything.

[@angelac2228]

😂😂

[@lkendrix7782]

When you meet a person you should know within 6 months if this is the kind of person you would like to be around. Within 2 years you should know if this is a person you would marry and spend the rest of your life with.

[@ciarrajohnson3849]

She knew to take that bonnet off in the midst of her lovely, respectful greeting😁😁👊🏿👊🏿

[@vvtor]

Double bonnet.

[@tonyjones1560]

I noticed that, too...🤣

[@jusdre313]

MA'AM! it is past 5 o clock!!! do something with that shadow 😂 😂

[@palcorn6516]

I was getting on here to text about that mustache 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sirkilo]

🤣 🤣 🤣

[@ShutterSpeedGaming]

🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣 I’m gone 🤣🤣

[@vvtor]

😂😂🤣🤣

[@jamesjoseph6568]

"I always have broken generational curses." You can't make this stuff up. They had to burn the school down to get her out of sixth grade, lol.

[@imalreadycancelledpodcast3191]

She is a time traveler relax lol

[@jalil3579]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@ejam1117]

Women, and all people should realize, that the family is a living thing. When you cut off the head of the family, you get a dead or dying family.

[@CephlonMayngrum]

That's why Mary Shelley wrote Frankenstein

[@calogerocapicchioni6554]

@ejam1117 Yup. I wish more women understood this. Especially when purposefully bringing a child into a dysfunctional relationship. It's just messy all around.

[@BluEx22329]

They're like programmed robots all saying the same stuff

[@JRWisdom]

That's what they know!

[@jayell1979]

Facts💯💯💯

[@jeremyswann2228]

What do you watch on tv? Programming

[@cDezl]

You’re totally right, he’s getting the milk without paying for the cow

[@christansdad]

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

[@scott.w8938]

Since when a man is getting more than a woman is. Not while being involved with today's modern women. Kevin's show proves that. Why, because he's getting sex...Like she don't? She gets what he gives, including sex. Matter of fact, if she nuts more than I do pay me.. How bout that..

[@Shaolin91z]

It's not just about what he's getting...it's what he's not giving.....he's not giving his last name and he's still got all his options

[@brianb.760]

She is too immature. Still trying to keep "options open" without admitting it.

[@calogerocapicchioni6554]

@Brian B. Yup. She doesn't want to say it, so she's sugarcoating it. He knew how to read her.

[@JayMonaeee]

I’ll be damned if I stay in a relationship for six years 😂😂😂

[@audiofeinz5754]

Wow what ? Did you proofread before typing this lol. Just stay single shorty

[@rawo2187]

@@audiofeinz5754 it actually make sense if you you read it in the lingo she typed. You must be from overseas or sumn 😂😂😂😂

[@AacaL05]

She still seems like she's 19. She hasn't grown in 6 years. To assume is not to know.

[@jayell1979]

Facts. This broad has the mind of a 4 year old.

[@victormuhammad2678]

Or younger

[@matthewgaines10]

Six years and no marriage...she's justing wasting time. She's not making much sense. Completely incoherent. It's sad. And she has a college education too.

[@oligarchytheatre777]

THE GRAVITY OF "PLEASING THE OTHER WOMEN"/ "TO GO ALONG WITH THE BS GOING ON" IS POWERFUL TO "IMMATURE WOMEN"!!

[@calogerocapicchioni6554]

@OLIGARCHY THEATRE Facts. Even when I try to talk to the women in my family, they refuse to listen.

[@RealDynamite]

Am I the only one that is curious as to who lines up her MUSTACHE?? Geez!!

[@JRWisdom]

Damn!

[@JaysWife]

Hairy women tend to have beautiful natural hair on their heads tho 🤷😂

[@cowface4408]

@Aaron James 😂

[@pharaohacura3618]

@Jay's World!🤪 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@pharaohacura3618]

@Jay's World!🤪 you’re wrong for that! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@genuinetallguy6318]

Looks like her dude is already married to someone else and she is a wishful side chick. Don't want to say it.

[@anthonygodfrey8189]

dam he's 100% on point please women listen to what he's saying

[@iamwhatyouareyouarewhatiam6613]

Ok from a women perspective her "idea" of a family starts with the kids-"her kids." The children are hers as the world empowers " her views" over her husband's. The man disappears. This how a man can loose himself in a relationship and be dang near simping before he realizes it.

[@Shaolin91z]

Or this how a man can get the cow for 6 years and just walk away

[@iamwhatyouareyouarewhatiam6613]

@@Shaolin91z u put that in a interesting way. Its interesting how things operate. Before things get better, stuff has to cleared away completely. Healing can happen then.

[@jerricaholloway55]

Something is missing from her story. She was being careful with her words and when Kevin asked her certain question she didn't want to answer. Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@JRWisdom]

Indeed

[@assiabenslimane2589]

I think she is the mistress to be honest

[@woodside4life]

@@assiabenslimane2589 Damn, I think you’re right. I didn’t think about it until after the video but she does give off side chick vibes.

[@calogerocapicchioni6554]

@jerricaholloway55 Yup. There's his side, her side, and the truth. It's not what people say... it's what they choose to leave out of the story. She was definitely holding back.

[@victormuhammad2678]

Dude is in the streets and she holding him down. Six years no marriage or children? He hiding things from her and she holding on to a fantasy

[@RushBig0786]

I haven't heard this entire video but I can already tell after 2 minutes in that she's with a man who doesn't have plans to marry her. He demeanor is of a woman who will be 100% down for a man but I don't think her man is on his shit to mold her into what she can be

[@chuckiesanta3406]

Correct.. he doesn't want to take that next step or either she is the side chick

[@ModernDatingLifeFJ]

I mean why marry her if you already are getting the benefits of a wife? He is going to continue this relationship until she wisens up and realizes she won't be young forever and it's time to get some real commitment.

[@woodside4life]

You’re a smarter man than me. I watched the whole damn thing and lost a couple brain cells.

[@acoqueran]

Brother I love your takes....keep grinding. I wish I had Kevin 20 years ago....

[@willia3r]

Just being curious, why do you say you wish you heard of Kevin 20 years ago?🤔

[@acoqueran]

@@willia3r because I had a 30 yr old (I was 31 at the time) trying to use her 'born again' as an excuse to withhold sex until marriage. And when that fell by the wayside (her choice not mine), she tried to yo-yo me (give sex, then withhold...rinse and repeat) into a fast engagement. Needless to say we didn't last...she found someone and got engaged soon after I couldn't understand her games...until I started listen to Kevin. If I had his counsel, I wouldn't have wasted my time on her. 🥃

[@josebrown5961]

Just what is “toxic masculinity?” I’m a man and I have masculinity, does that automatically make me “toxic?”

[@Mrk3lly]

All that hair she playing with is not hers, I'm from Philly and I can tell you them broads are tough to deal with.

[@JRWisdom]

Damn

[@carlosrosado9560]

Bruh me too from norfside and you definitely speakin facts these chicks hard af out here in Philly

[@216standonit4]

All these broads difficult to deal with....ratchet asf in Cleveland, witta scarce few good girls sprinkled in

[@carlosrosado9560]

@@216standonit4 ive been to Cleveland many times i got folks on Colgate ave near loraine i think Eastside right?

[@216standonit4]

@@carlosrosado9560 Yea, that's the Eastside

[@jamalwilson3513]

WITHOUT BLAMING MEN...FIRST THING I'M GON DO IS BLAME MEN!!!SHEESH!!

[@areacharlottejukebox]

It really is infecting all races of women now ! 2 of my White lady acquaintances, one is 40 one is mid 30s, both college degrees......are pregnant by men who they don't want around. It's SO FREAKING SAD ! I keep trying to talk to them about how important the dad is for the baby. They don't care.

[@yachtboyzmusic8036]

To me it seems like she’s a side chick to a man whose already in a relationship 🤔

[@HijabiRuby]

B-I-N-G-O

[@bhamlin3]

@21:21 KS definded the bw's mindset exactly, including my wife. Within a couple months of being married she pushed for that house in the Middle Class neighborhood (the McMansion) and that luxury car in the driveway. This was 20 years ago and I was blue pill conditioned, if only the Manosphere existed back then.

[@SunFromBrooklyn73]

You know now and that's what's most important. Can't change the past. We can learn from it, and I believe that you're thankful for arriving at the mental state you're at now.

[@thetruthhurts8139]

@@SunFromBrooklyn73 yeah he can't change the past but he can change his current life and I'm glad he's not bluepilled now

[@whawkins8636]

Poor baby sounds like she is 16. Lead in the pipes is bad for you

[@chachamorres2430]

Lolo you Aint right for that one...but I love it!!

[@whawkins8636]

@@chachamorres2430 smirks

[@jayell1979]

More like 4

[@kazzmack9385]

I watch this It only makes me want to educate my daughter ... far to many women understand their worth and still can't find or comprehend their value ....

[@shantakoa8596]

I’m a woman who DO NOT want a wedding. I want a marriage. I already told my man I don’t want a wedding

[@lawrencewilliams4550]

She’s sharing that kitty and holding on to that man for security. And grey areas only exist in one’s mind, not in reality.

[@divine_photos]

The sad thing is there are a lot of dead end relationships like that in today’s modern society. People being together for 5 or more years non committed living it up like a marriage without the actual marriage.

[@CephlonMayngrum]

If they living together, then it is marriage

[@richardscott2436]

She is doing what ALOT of women do when they are young. They have guys that are truly into and love them but many are still, lowkey, seeking attention from other guys and hoping the "bigger, better, deal" will come along but they don't want to be alone so they hold on to the guy until then. They in turn, hurt and scar young men, turning them into players and the men they complain about. I honestly think she is just looking for attention on the internet, wanting to just speak with Kevin and be seen by other possible suitors that watch his platforms. I believe that is what a lot of the women that come on his platform are doing! They know he works with and consults a lot of "High Value" men, which is what they want, so they are hoping to be noticed by those men.

[@mpscorporation6874]

If that's their strategy, they DEFINITELY aren't succeeding 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@toolate6971]

If a woman says, "I feel like..." Just turn around and RUN away as fast as you can!

[@shadowbannedmgtowman9045]

There it is again I wanna be married but names all the excuses in the world. She don’t wanna be a wife she wants a wedding 👰

[@darrickbrisco5016]

Preach

[@idjesajohnson8150]

Most women will stay in a relationship for that long just to keep looking for a better guy

[@jayell1979]

She's not wife material to begin with.

[@jayell1979]

@@idjesajohnson8150 good. Then that gives you more time to look for a better woman. Sounds good to me.

[@michaelbrown8861]

Successful marriage and relationships back in the days were men were way older than the women ...

[@bachataintimate3726]

Exactly

[@tajiri7]

lol That’s completely cap

[@dannyflay8671]

A good number of them were shotgun marriages too

[@anthonyrobinson8138]

🎯

[@stormship1647]

@@tajiri7 That’s actually true in all communities ..and most cultures across the world cos it works ..a women needs a husband not a boy ..and a Peer who is a friend

[@oligarchytheatre777]

This is what being "dumbed down" is...

[@inksimmons9347]

I agree it's definitely more to this story.

[@fufonecarter2489]

I’m holding my stomach laughing when wisdom jumped back @16:07 😭😂

[@JRWisdom]

lol

[@bravojonny803]

ever notice how when y'all get in a fight and they say, 'my baby, my children'. not our children but theirs.

[@trolagamer482]

I was in a relationship with this baby mama, i did everything for her and the kid. I would babyshit, shower, cook, bring the kid to school and shit like that. But everytime we got in a fight she always told me "you can't see my kid anymore".

[@jrr7031]

Yup. Oh, but that baby is 100% yours when they are acting out or cutting up.

[@steelesharpensteele6252]

@@trolagamer482 u wasted ya time dude never do that again ur time is valuable

[@calogerocapicchioni6554]

@bravojonny803 Yup. It's a very selfish mindset. For some women, it's all about them and how they can use a man.

[@sheronwoods6138]

Bro you got me smoking a Cigar to you Channel everytime... Lol Good Job

[@bigsed8538]

Me too bro !

[@RPJs-Cuisine]

Just subscribed. I like ur comments on top of Mr. Samuels conversations.

[@JRWisdom]

Thank you and thanks for tuning in!

[@brutustantheiii8477]

@@JRWisdom SAME. You make digestible stories, but guilt free since your commentary is not only on point but is pure fair use.

[@ChannelFiend]

Some women, like some men, don't want to be married. In a relationship, yes ... and there isn't anything wrong with that. Marriage isn't for everyone. People just need to be honest with themselves so they can communicate it better to others.

[@akosasuke5128]

So you mean to tell me that there people who don’t want a companion till they’re 90 years?

[@ChannelFiend]

@@akosasuke5128 Having a companion & being married are not the samething. Like I said, some ppl want the relationship, but they don't the title "married". It's too restricted and confining. Also, a person can be single and have a companion. And another can be married and be single/alone without a companion; instead they have a dictator / control freak as a mate. Marriage is not the desired goal for a lot of people. Just like there are lots of people (wo/men) who don't want children. Not having children doesn't make you less of a man or woman. Marriage should be seen the same way.

[@akosasuke5128]

Who the hell gon stay with you till your 90 without a description of the arrangement?...aka "what are we"

[@akosasuke5128]

There's not a single soul on earth who'd find someone they love and not want to marry that person...if there is, then it's a very tiny outlier

[@ChannelFiend]

@@akosasuke5128 Just because this is a 'Foreign' concept to you, it doesn't make it impossible or untrue. I'd suggest that you travel outside of your bubble. I know plenty of ppl on both sides of the issue. Hence, it's not rare or an outlier.

[@Century2008]

I said it before and say it again, women will accuse men of wanting the stab the womb and walk away, but when women linger in relationship over 4 to 8 years expecting to get married then that suggest sex is the goal nothing further...its good and they don't want to let it good ring or no ring.

[@Gandolfspipe2667]

Kevin be killing me with that getting married in a year stuff. That's a big hell naw. She gotta be in the trenches for 4 years at least. But these females of today are great actors so I wouldn't do it at all

[@HusseinAbdirahman]

always watch the bait and switch

[@Underratedcommentator]

Depends on the chick. Some you can tell are fine to do that with but most men don’t have that level of discernment

[@HusseinAbdirahman]

@@Underratedcommentator they sure don't, I use to overestimate people's sense of logic and common sense but when women are involved that shit goes out the window

[@melvinh007]

Many of these women really want a wedding not a marriage.

[@HusseinAbdirahman]

@@melvinh007 that’s like wanting to be famous without having your privacy be invaded. You can’t have one without the other. Insanity

[@Laoriginal718]

One thing I don’t like is how Kevin will tell ppl to get married….. but if the person is marriage material, if the person is ready for marriage all they’re gonna do is get divorced. Most ppl need to stay single because most ppl aren’t marriage material.

[@shagg2710]

If that's the case. Then state your case in the beginning... Its called clarity... Be accountable for your own self awareness. That's no ones fault but self..

[@shamikasaints6615]

I am a white male married to a black amazing woman. Both of us are not high value people but we treat each other like we are. It all start with respect. Never in my 16 years we been together have I ever called her a demeaning name. Nor has she. We have our problems over the years but nothing is holding us back. But both understand we r on the same team. She also understand her roles and i know mine. She was brought up in the church and agree the role husbands have verses wifes. She also knows everything I do is to better our family. I not out there running around CHEATING. I don't know if it because both of US come from 2 parent home which both sets of grandparents are still married. Respect Respect Respect. I don't see very much of that coming from either black males and black females. That why they break up so much and chop and change. We both understand if we do right to each other we will always be together. She is also the mother of my 6 kids so for that fact alone I WILL NEVER LEAVE HER OR CHEAT TO HARM MY FAMILY. NEITHER WILL SHE.

[@Candyman757]

Okay…congratulations (?)

[@FaithandPurpose828]

The man don't want to marry her. He just wants to use her body.

[@RR-iv3bd]

LOL!!!! SHE TOOK OFF HER SCARF/BONNET TO SHOW OFF HER WEAVE/WIG LIKE SHE WAS ALL NATURAL!!!!

[@1CHOZN7]

And yall still don't see why a man shouldn't marry her? She's already subtracting him from the family!

[@JRWisdom]

💯

[@duandavis]

Relationship's today is just "Convenient Love." Free Dates = convenience Shared Bill's = convenience In-House Sex = convenience

[@margaretboyle8719]

He's not going to marry her but is taking full advantage of the fact that she is a space cadet. She does not live in reality; she avoids it. She rolls her eyes and sounds stoned. Don't need to be a clinician to diagnose her as "cra-cra".

[@mikemcgrue6698]

I wonder why no one talks about toxic femininity?! None of the women will ever speak on that issue.

[@bankergeorge]

And it's on a very very high level

[@calogerocapicchioni6554]

@mikemcgrue6698 Facts. Women can't even hold other women accountable.... or else they'll get called a "pick me"

[@meggo329]

I just got engaged after almost 17 years. The first 8- 10 years we were too young to get married I was 16 when we met he was 18. Then I was in a car accident when I was 22 so he has been the provider for us and I have a lot of medical bills and health issues so I lost my career as a nurse. We finally have enough money to get married and have our first child god willing I am a high risk pregnancy due to only having half a uterus 🙏 If you have the right man the rest doesn't matter. We had life obstacle I'm blessed to have such a strong loving man in my life to care and provide for me and our future children.

[@jacobaliet3351]

I like your visual reactions to the content. Very entertaining.

[@williamsrishard]

Yeah it more to the story because she doesn't even want to open up about the relationship she's even afraid to lie to Kevin

[@conniemitchell3086]

It goes like this.... H.S. Diploma College Career Marriage Children

[@MrBlackraven2488]

This is why we keep marrying out

[@judahmac2249]

She just hasn't matured enough yet and she's probably sheltered by her parents

[@willia3r]

A single mother aint sheltered by any stretch of the imagination.

[@AshaMae]

The mentality of the young folks in Philly is just different. Marriage is the least of her worries right now. He's not trying to marry her.

[@leoda_lion4107]

This is why I respect KS so much, because he hits this girl with reality. I mean, this girl fool enough to waste that much time with a dude, and no commitment...? Come on, girl. This is fear of failure. Fear of the unknown with people like this. Scarcity mindset.

[@calogerocapicchioni6554]

@Leo Da_Lion Same. That's why I liked watching KS podcast. He was never afraid to say the hard truth, without sugarcoating it. He said what others were thinking. The only difference is he said it out loud. Some people have to get a doe of reality.

[@713j3]

J.R.- "That girl don't wanna get married" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Mahlercougar]

Another thing to consider is that shes only keeping this relationship going until she can find another man to latch onto who is of a greater value than her current boyfriend. She is still waiting to find another man and lock him with a pregnancy. This feels suspiciously like the beginning of her hypergamous journey

[@SeattlePioneer]

This is the Superman strategy. Lois Lane wakes up in bed, next5 to a sleeping Superman. She looks at Superman thoughtfully and thinks: "Can I do better?"

[@willia3r]

It ain’t gonna work, any many worth his salt in Generation Z will instantly reject. Bronny James is proof of that much.

[@victormuhammad2678]

Or she is the mistress

[@tonyrpacheco08]

My wife and I met in 2003 and married in 2008. We have a 10 year old and 15 year old together and still married.

[@classyyoungman35]

That’s a lot of years to spend with one person with no further progress

[@ShutterSpeedGaming]

Facts! Damn shame.

[@leonmoore9427]

Not really considering she was 19 most people don’t marry until like 27 & up

[@joseg93ify]

You always pick the best clips 😂😂

[@JRWisdom]

Thanks!

[@dyingbreed9811]

I’m from Philly she is the norm here from all ages

[@lloydgaynor7947]

Yep I recently invited to a young Italian couple wedding 24 and 25 heard they just finished college i said congrats to them.

[@smokiana226]

I generally think KS is ... no comment. But he ain't never lied when he said they should've been done five years ago. Not you're giving someone five of your BEST years for no reason at all. Either yall are legalizing it or not - and if it's not and you're just having fun, once again, peace out. I don't need 6 years of fun with the same bama lmao

[@BlackLuxLife]

Most women don’t want to be in a marriage unless they are living better than their single friends. “They can do bad by themselves.”