The Future of Male Body Language

[@john22098]

Rule 30/48: make your accomplishments seem effortless. Never show how hard your trying, its antithetical to power.

[@Anonymous-wu4rw]

Excellent comment. It's true, no one actually wants to know how hard you worked and what you had to do, they just want to marvel at the finished product.

[@who_is_dis]

@@Anonymous-wu4rwYeah, only the ones deeply invested want to know

[@newme1589]

But wouldnt that be outdated in social media ? Wouldnt you want to emotionally connect with people saying "i did X and Y, its so hard, im so good" ? I understanding giving the image of you handling hard things, but saying "it was so easy" seems counter productive nowadays

[@rml4289]

@@newme1589 people simply dont care how hard it is

[@averagezyzzenjoyer5630]

Law 30

[@Denmosocial]

Smoking a cigar indoors naked while lifting weights listening to 1stman doesn't get more male advantage then that

[@ignaciolopez3599]

Take out the smoking part and yeah, otherwise your lungs will pay the price.

[@2Gloomy_]

Thinking of ways you can rephrase his content for your audience

[@Absolute-.]

@@2Gloomy_haha facts😂

[@-whackd]

​@@ignaciolopez3599thank you, scientist who did all the research.

[@kkronical]

@@2Gloomy_so true lmao. Some channels really are just picking off 1STMAN’s wisdom and making it their own. To be honest, why wouldn’t you from their perspective

[@joshblackburn]

“When you're so good that you can't say it 'Cause it ain't even cool for you to sound cocky anymore” Eminem - No Love

[@gorjansimovski8596]

Three words for this video: Authentic, Organic and REAL. Just be yourself has always been the answer.

[@thabesttheris]

As long as ur always evolving sure.. but most ppl being themselves is not it either

[@ChuWalid]

Yes Not completely going towards the direction he's pointing out in this video Then decades later doing this reversal all over again

[@1ute]

If You Are Happy, Healthy, And Hygienic, You Can Be Yourself. Nothing Is More Beautiful Than Natural Beauty

[@milan8822]

Definitely hit the nail with this one! I've always felt like effortless is the biggest swagger there is.

[@q_dudeq2828]

31:06 thats one for the swear jar

[@donsneakers1820]

candid pictures are the way to go for sure. the genuine, authentic look

[@FearlessGentlemenHQ]

Real ones will remember the Ragnar lothbrok body language analysis

[@ColinBK]

Ahead of the curve, authenticity is taking the crown.

[@chartingwithliv]

You are absolutely amazing at spotting the "curve" of our social dynamics before they happen. You should get into speculating.

[@tsilias4865]

Keeping it authentic and natural is 🗝️

[@g.garcia106]

Ok THEN guys...

[@sonfaada]

1m videos gonna go crazy on your Skool platform 🦍✊🔥

[@SUPREME_N]

something i find weird is how the best steps for your future as a man almost require you to not go for women your age or older and instead wait for girls 4-6 years younger than you when you’re at your sweet spot maybe it just sounds odd cause im still young but idk (just realized i typed this on the wrong vid but ima leave it here😂)

[@thabesttheris]

As always kris knocks it out the park

[@bmchristie98]

Spot on about showing off being feminine

[@pey10bogvkuehl29]

Instead of putting the stuff on here then saying “I really shouldn’t be posting this on the channel” just pad out the course dude.

[@-whackd]

Would you pay money for this lol. Name one actionable thing you will do with this video.

[@pey10bogvkuehl29]

@@-whackd Already did dude, it’s quality content for way cheaper than it should be. It’s really up to you.

[@-whackd]

​What did you learn from this current video that is actionable? He's discussing body language without even using a video. He is showing black and white pictures zoomed on a face with bokeh effect lmao. @@pey10bogvkuehl29

[@-whackd]

What's one actionable thing you learned from this video?​@@pey10bogvkuehl29

[@-whackd]

​@@pey10bogvkuehl29 What's one actionable thing you learned from this video?

[@Dub636]

Looking fresh my man

[@kaloyan_Creates]

When you're so good that it's not even cool for you to sound cocky anymore

[@rexkillerrson5178]

Love from ethiopia chris we love u out here

[@chrisdchris793]

"When you're so good that you can't say it cause it aint even cool for you to sound cocky anymore" - Eminem

[@neenfleezy8340]

Agree with you 100% but to be fair they might be over exaggerating poses for the photo shoots. Irl no one goes that far

[@LordMcGuire]

It's just an authenticity problem.. The "top g" instagram era is so played out.. James Dean, Harry Styles, David Beckham, Jacob Elordi etc all prove that you don't have to look like a body builder or try to be an influencer douche like Iman Gadzhi to be a genuine man.. Just be true to yourself and the confidence from being authentic will shine bright as fuck.

[@newme1589]

I wouldnt say Harry Styles because his style is a walmart version of 70/80's glam rock/Freddie Mercury without the edginess of being anti-system. Back then it worked, nowadays it just looks fake honestly

[@arthur_bIggie]

Thanks 1stman, you're a legend 🙌

[@joelbrowne823]

Having a contrast of mostly masculine traits with some feminine features is more unique and noticeable than the alpha male body language that everyone is doing these days. Having that body language is no longer making you an outlier male.

[@The7thLove]

Excellent prediction / observation. I was slightly worried you were gonna tell us to ditch the fundamentals 😂 I’m kinda conflicted now tho. My body language is typically subtle, but I’m still holding on to certain ideas like open body language. I don’t cross my arms anymore, and I catch myself when I have the urge Subtle alpha male body language seems the happy medium. You’re genuinely relaxed AND naturally spread out The focus is being genuine. With the ‘attention market’ it’s hard to display even that without seeming disingenuous, solely by virtue of you displaying it. An inconvenience at most if you’re unlike the rest

[@Dreamer105-6]

The thing you mention 11 minutes in reminds me a lot of the fashion concept of "sprezzatura" and i think that the play for the future is to be elegant, aristocratic and refined in your mannerism/body language.

[@ChaoticSatire]

Honestly one of your best videos

[@MaksRobinsonn]

Iman Gadzhi is great example of like flexing effortlessly.

[@rml4289]

Hes also a rich kid who grew up in knightsbridge and got drove to school in a rolls

[@rockyblumble]

​​@@rml4289where did you hear that? I'm pretty sure he had a tough childhood.

[@Amxwll77462]

That guys a nerd. He only exists amongst teenagers that spend too much time on KZbin, hate 9-5 jobs and have never worked in their lives

[@MaksRobinsonn]

@@Amxwll77462 its a probably wirdest diss i heard in my life lmao

[@rml4289]

@@rockyblumble he literally admitted it, his childhood was NOT tough

[@moneymanrahim7772]

6:36 He looks like the karate kid trying to hit the crane move

[@vintrez6748]

It's like the term "High value man" or "The Matrix". You can feel the instant cringe attack when its mentioned now compare to the days when it was first introduced ,which was cool. Also Chris what do you think about getting veneers or nose job done as man? Considering it for myself in the future.

[@UndisputedBillyBadass]

Don’t get a nose job dude

[@newme1589]

I would not do veneers unless the tooth is really really bad due to medical complications. Same thing for nose job, unless you have a deviated septum and cannot breathe, dont do it.

[@rockyblumble]

Great video as always Kris!

[@iykazorji8171]

There is a reason the ‘Old Money Aesthetic’ is getting trendy these days.

[@makingmodernmen8843]

I can’t think of anything less masculine than trying to follow whatever is the trend. Follower/sheep level weak. Craft YOUR image, be who YOU are, and do it unapologetically. That’s masculine to me

[@bigounce2078]

"When you're so good that you can't say it 'Cause it ain't even cool for you to sound cocky anymore "- eminem on 'no love'

[@hanuka394]

Kris is literally me

[@georgegregoriou1807]

Don't try to impress, be impressive.

[@MVG7]

Chris telling us about his future ‘businesses’ that are ‘coming soon’ really makes me doubt that will ever come about lol.

[@Michael_Lak]

The fact that you can't spell his name tells us all we need to know about you.

[@rockyblumble]

Dude have some respect for yourself and stop wasting your time watching people you don't like

[@MVG7]

@@rockyblumble I never said I didn’t like him lol, he’s a funny, likeable guy but also chats a lot of *.

[@newme1589]

Yeah i dont remember the words he used but it seemed like a private network, which is already overplayed right now. It started with Tate, as soon as Hamza did it, it was already out of style because he didnt have the influence and capability Tate had.

[@Twiztid_Metal]

WHY DID YOU DELETE YOUR OTHER COURSES WITH NO WARNING??? PAID FOR THEM AND NO I CAN’T ACCESS THEM

[@chasingmypotential]

Really interesting video 👏🏼

[@alexmarques2398]

Right or wrong (I think very righ, actually), this is content creation. Not just vomiting the same crap seen a million times. 🙂👍

[@rajunaidu7751]

Lie to me vs Perception

[@user-zc5xe2sf4q]

Basically, be masculine but by being yourself.

[@skylernova489]

Before, peacocking was the meta. Now the meta is meekness (in the original sense of the word, which is like a sheathed sword, controlled power)

[@tahaelhaiki3036]

We missed the old GORILLA intro

[@easyworry2070]

Fr

[@UndisputedBillyBadass]

That was wack as fuck

[@kagezoid9337]

The main problem is that people aren't "obnoxiously alpha" when you meet them in real life. if you are a naturally confident man you carry yourself that way you don't have to think about it, and if you have any maturity subtlety has always been the name of the game, where I'm from people are too subtle, afraid of what others will think if you take up some space, so I don't think trying to intentionally be a mix signal is the answer, instead it probably lies in percentages, 65% confident and 35% relaxed not in your face is probably the natural ideal which most people default to, and everyone who's being super obnoxious with their body language shits themselves when you confront them anyways, if your going to be more dominant have the substance to back it up, the real problem isn't that too many people now are doing the alpha body language it's that too many beta's are doing the alpha body language

[@kagezoid9337]

However your diagnosis on the Instagram culture, and the fact that people go out of their way to act like something they aren't to portray a certain persona to cater to what others think is spot on, the Andrew tate open button shirt cigar in mouth is cool but it's cringe if your faking it and it's not your actual hyper masculine character. Also it will not attract the sophisticated women that we like, the intelligent ones who you can have a nice conversation with on philosophy or something, which is even tate realises that it's been over done, in his recent podcast with George Janko he was rocking the turtleneck, full sleeved, no necklace or over the top jewelry and it came of as very sophisticated with a hint of the wildness tate has naturally, and the same can be said about you, you come off as a naturally masculine man being tall and jacked and having the bald head, but you dress sophisticatedly. It's the contrast which is super sexy, if a skinny nerd tried going for your look I'd think he was a feminine guy. However it's not bad to once in a while rock the open button shirt and strut around owning the place not because of what others think but because it's just fun to do.

[@Azoki]

Who is that person in the photo sitting with the girl ??

[@cameron04]

Love your videos Kris

[@viktorjenkins8079]

Body language is bad, but i think the way men speak today is much much worse.... Everyone acts like 15 year old children on social media

[@rockyblumble]

Do you mean the cringe "hood" gen z english lol

[@newme1589]

No need for the inverted commas, it does come from African American Vernacular English (AAVE), which is mostly spoken in lower income areas in the USA ... Or the "hood" haha

[@ryanb01]

If you bought the original body language do you get a discount on the new course?

[@deciduousdiscipline9592]

Thanks

[@sumailsidhu7990]

PLEASE. what happened to the better looking man course. I had bought it. i can't find it now. I wanted to revise on the thing.

[@IanTheEarlobe]

It’s the authenticity era. People listen to guys like Sean Strickland, Joe Rogan and Sam Sulek

[@newme1589]

I agree, but its funny because its not true "authenticity" its "let me appear authentic, but still keep a lot of things out of the camera". So basically you share things that are surface level embarrassing only. If anyone was truly authentic on the internet, they would probably get cancelled haha

[@fiat_ow7876]

@@newme1589Sean Strickland sharing his childhood trauma in front of millions of people is definitely not surface level

[@AshLVRanger]

Sick video.

[@josemalanga9257]

Hey Kris! I cant register for the course, please send a link or something please

[@bassjumpaofficial]

sprezzatura 👌

[@chartingwithliv]

You know i used to think it was a betafication of men, but ive grown to realize its about power without showing it? Where like a man that looks like that HAS influence and money and security patrolling outside of a massive estate. There's no reason for him to project the masculinity because its already there. Kind of like the idea "you project what you dont have".

[@hydraV1-c7d]

haha fantastic il finally look good slumped against a wall after a night in the club smoking a ciggarette lol .

[@Vlad_Ethereum]

Chris, I have been scaling my buisness dramatically how do I get in contact with you?

[@Vlad_Ethereum]

I want to personally invest or at the minimum make the connection

[@CREATEDBYJULIO]

priceless.

[@costyxd97]

Male gaze vs female gaze 😂

[@nicolem889]

You're confusing guys who are sexually attractive with alpha male. honestly its rare to find an alpha, and theyre prob at home with their family, not in the streets. flashy dudes that run clubs, and are going into their 50s still club hopping are prob not alphas. I dont know if ive ever encountered a real alpha male. its rare to find intellegence with good stature, a good nature, and a man that doesnt run his mouth too much. It doesn't matter if he is a talker, there's just something in the timbre of men's voices that is tell-tell of beta.

[@The7thLove]

People understand the terms differently and often use them interchangeably. A true “alpha male” like how I personally think of one would naturally be low energy, high intensity. Not low energy levels, but low effort; he’s not easily riled and isn’t try hard. But he has a ferocity to him inside that subtly bleeds out in a way that draws you in. He’s patient, gentle. But distinguishing what you mentioned about betas tho, I think the difference overall comes down to having both internal and external confidence, rather than just one or the other. “Alphas” (negative understanding) have only external and zero internal confidence “Betas” seem to just have neither 😂 A true genuine alpha, who naturally would be sexually attractive to people, has both in good+ measure

[@UndisputedBillyBadass]

@@The7thLove when you’re with a group of guys everyone knows who’s the alpha, it’s the guy who has respect and who can command and communicate, not always the biggest.

[@tallking7777]

I think you are over thinking some of this shit bro. Just as long as it's natural it will come off authentic.

[@UndisputedBillyBadass]

I’d call it obnoxious alpha male, and true about the body language I never liked posturing.

[@Ryan-Horgan]

The hypermasculine character is out the window then. It's run its course. Truth is, the confident but subtle approach has always been best. Everyone trying to be andrew tate these days. But that guy is an exaggerated archetype. Completely unattainable for 99.99% of guys

[@UndisputedBillyBadass]

Andrew Tate is not hyper masculine

[@newme1589]

Andrew Tate is the definition of "hyper masculine", or at least what he showed online: bugatti, private planes, flex on the broke boys, tattoos, sunglasses, cigars, etc. I find that super funny because its "hyper", he looks like a video game character, thats why he got big

[@UndisputedBillyBadass]

@@newme1589 yea sure the guy with zero jaw is “hypermasculine”, he’s a fuckin male kardashian. The guy that left his country because it was “unsaveable”. Does he even know a second language?

[@lamborghinicentenario2497]

Refund the lifetime guys who were charged

[@GearZNet]

Insouciance

[@ivan.g8477]

Your wrong on this one Chris.

[@Freskko]

It looks tryhard.

[@Workerforhimalways]

Everyday, roughly 100,000 people die. Put this into perspective. How many of those people are saved and on their way to Heaven? 1,000? 100? Maybe even lower! And think about the hoards of people being pumped straight into Hell like a water faucet... Then you, yeah you. You can make a difference here. Every person you preach to and gets saved, you create a potential preacher, and then if you influence them to preach like you did, imagine if they pass down the knowledge from God, and next thing you know there's thousands of preachers fromed just from you ministering to one single person. And this isn't where it ends. The work you put in on Earth through Christ, imagine the endless treasures God has for you once you die! You ministered to so many people, someday your gonna see them in Heaven aswell. Mark 16-15 He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation. 16 Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned. There is an urgency to preach to non believers, and those living in compromise. We MUST begin preaching to everyone we know otherwise, We end up being responsible for sending thousands to Hell because of our fear of what some strangers gonna say. Good day Kings and Queens.😊

[@Freskko]

It’s all a facade.

[@GavinCee]

Lets be honest, guys posting pics smoking cigars are absolute tossers

[@andrewsamuels77]

Cigars are bad for you. And shouldn't be considered a safer alternative. They're just as bad as cigarettes. It does matter if you don't inhale as deeply I am slightly disappointed that 1st man said "there is nothing wrong with it".

[@newme1589]

Cigars are made to not be inhaled, so they are a safer practise for lung problems. Mouth stuff like mouth cancer sure

[@andrewsamuels77]

You shouldn't say "safer" like it's a good alternative. It's still bad for your lungs. I so tired of people saying it's a safe option. If you Google what are the dangers of cigars compared to cigarettes. You'll see they're basically the same.

[@manavl3443]

spretzatura

[@zrx3711]

Have some beard .

[@UndisputedBillyBadass]

Moustache or clean shaven is better

[@sponkmcdonk3898]

this is stupid.

[@satsatdown]

cheesy as fuck

[@satsatdown]

the pictures

[@satsatdown]

All pictures look like what the tate brothers do

[@jarno_art]

Even tho ur bald u look great man, the beard, face, clothes everything :D love ur videos!

[@1ute]

If You Are Happy, Healthy, And Hygienic, You Can Be Yourself. Nothing Is More Beautiful Than Natural Beauty