THE GAY TAG

[@MatthewLush]

I love you Steph! Thanks for being a part of my loving LushLaws family

[@rosygisellemelcrzykids901]

Ily

[@Agusberlato]

I love you so much matt you are such a strong person

[@hannahscott5846]

Thank you, you two are truly amazing and inspirational. I love you two so so much x

[@hannahscott5846]

Superman2001 he is not girly. and even if he is, what's wrong with that? Life is great for Matt and Nick. and they are literally the cutest couple out there. I wasn't trying to be rude either.

[@WhatAShane22]

i love you guys

[@samkent2439]

I just wanted to jump into the screen and give them a BIG hug. You could tell that Matthew was trying not to cry.

[@BeneathMyWillowTree]

Matt looks like he is gonna cry throughout this :(

[@EscapeTheSky97]

If you watch his part to it, he had a really rough time coming out

[@sofiapantano8766]

Ikr I think he might be

[@cutiedog7156]

Cause he's been through that too

[@MatthewLush]

I stayed strong! It was hard not to cry.

[@sierraraine5198]

GayGod you are so strong I am so proud of you

[@iguessimnotstraightthen236]

The first time I ever came out I was 13 an it was to my best friend. I was so scared that I was crying and I couldn't even get the words out of my mouth so she got me some paper and a pen and I wrote I'm a lesbian. After she read it she said "is that it? I know that already" then laughed then said "I thought you were gonna say you were raped or something really bad by the way you're balling your eyes out" by this time I had calmed down a bit but was still crying , I think it was from happiness and relief though. Then we had a massive hug and she kept telling me that it's ok and she doesn't see me as anything different and she wouldn't treat me different and that she had known for like a year which felt really really good to know someone had already accepted me as gay even before I had. It felt like I had a big weight lifted off my shoulders and it gave me the confidence to come out to my sister who practically said the same things. It's good to know people can actually accept you❤️❤️❤️

[@EmilyEaton14]

This is a great video! You're right, it's still so important to raise awareness. Many people believe that if you live in an area where same-sex marriage is legal then LGBTQ members don't need to worry about coming out but it's so untrue. Unfortunately there's still a lot of hate out there. (Also your thoughts on Idina - yep I feel you)

[@alienum77]

Thank you for constantly speaking out, Ello. You're truly inspiring. I personally struggle right now because I don't have a job, so I depend on my father. He's homophobic, and my older brother and sister keep trying to out me. I think I might react violently the next time they try to reveal me. It feels like betrayal, and if anyone else is going through something like this, know that you SHOULDN'T LET THEM. They have NO RIGHT.

[@outgoesreed]

Thank you for being honest about your struggles. It was really nice to see someone recalling their past without getting defensive or blaming others. This was really brave!

[@christianxarrieta]

I fell like I am so blessed to have KZbin in my life because without it I would not have the courage to come out or the confidence I own about myself. All the gay you tubers (and even some straight you tubers who talk about the LGBT community) gave me the courage to be happy with myself and allowed me to come out at age 13. Before I came out I felt like I was keeping my biggest secret to myself and I felt trapped that I couldn't tell anyone that I'm gay. But after seeing you tubers talk about their experiences with coming out it really inspired me and uplifted me to a point where I was just happy with who I was and I knew that nothing that anyone says will change my positive view of myself. All of my friends and family support me and I wish the same will happen to everyone who is struggling to find the courage to come out.

[@sandybeason331]

There is so much love and respect from both of you for each other, it is amazing to see. Bless you both, you have helped so many people just being yourselves.

[@daliah2051]

I have been questioning my sexuality since I was like 13 or something. Luckily I live with my mother who is very open-minded and I have amazing friends who accept everyone for who they are. And I have music and KZbin. So I'm one of the few very lucky people who never got bullied or started hating themselves for being bi. And for all of you who still struggle with anything like that: I promise you, it will get better. Everything is temporary, even the bad times. You can make it.

[@XxBullet2MyHartxX]

I'm super happy for you, honestly.~

[@Thomas-Corbett-Dillon]

aw hell no! let me know who said those things to you I'll fight them, hold my shoes no but seriously you are literally the most beautiful girl I know don't let anyone tell you otherwise ☺️ sending love from England ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

[@ElloSteph]

Love you Craig

[@dakotagattshall708]

+Gaygod you two are seriously so sweet. I can see you felt so much compassion for Steph. Love you two

[@mallory_castaneda_]

Great video .:-) I love it when you make videos with matt

[@baileymaxwell8269]

Agree with u

[@mallory_castaneda_]

bailey maxwell love the Andy picture :-)

[@baileymaxwell8269]

Love yours too

[@vicnaugler1222]

bailey maxwell hellor Bailey

[@vicnaugler1222]

bailey maxwell I found you

[@Tjohitjohej]

I just want to thank the both of you for making these videos because they can help so many people. I feel really sad when I hear what you've been through and I hope that you don't get a lot of that shit anymore xx

[@stephaniegibson6318]

Two of my favorites in one talking about serious issues within our community, I wanted to cry so much, I'm actually starting to tear up while writing this. Thanks you two for touching up on this.

[@reeject2]

I love how you take it from playing around to being serious. Really inspirational I think. Much love xx

[@JakesSake]

Great video. I've been lucky enough to grow up in a part of the UK that is completely fine with gay people and gay rights and as a country is great for that. I feel so sorry for people that get abuse and feel trapped, or they can't be them. It's horrible. I will be doing this on my channel to to spread the word. Thanks for this

[@at7229]

Woah, that suddenly got really depressing

[@smilesnthings]

Steph, you are one of my favorite youtubers cause, at least in regard to school and your coming out process, our stories are so so similar. You just give me so much hope and inspiration about what's to come in the future. Thanks for making videos like these that bring awareness to important issues while reassuring me that it does get better!

[@LEZBIAN2010]

Both you and Matthew have me in tears. All these questions made me have flashbacks and honestly I didn't realize I was lesbian until I was 14yrs old. I came out to my friends in 9th grade and at 18yrs old I came out to my family. As of today I'm 27yrs old and my friends accept me but my mother thinks for so long still that it's a phase, both my tias (aunts) don't know I'm lesbian they think I'm just a tomboy, my tio (uncle) knows but I know he don't care as long as I'm happy and that day when I was 18yrs old and came out to my dad it was the worst dat ever because I was a daddy's girl since day one but once I told him...he went ballistic, he disowned me saying I'm not his daughter. 😔😢 I cried and cried, my heart felt so broken. I haven't spoken to him since.

[@monsieurducon6536]

I'm so sorry to hear that! You literally just made me cry... Please just forget all the hate and try your best to be happy! I'm in high school and I don't know how to find a girlfriend or worse, just simply assume myself and be comfortable with the fact that I am a lesbian... I'm scared! Good luck!

[@LEZBIAN2010]

Aww sweetheart I'm sorry. I didn't mean to make anyone cry when I posted that comment. I've left all the negativity behind me Hun I'm a happy woman even tho I'm single I'm happy. I know the right woman will come in my life just as in time you will find the right woman as well. How old are you hunny? You say high school so I'm guessing between 15-18yrs old? You're young love don't worry about a thing. Focus on school sweetie. Don't be scared Hun I'm sure you have lot of ppl who are there for you near or far. I mean I dnt know you but if you ever need a friend I can be that person. I'm a very friendly woman and I accept every person for who they are. I have a big heart 😊

[@monsieurducon6536]

Aww thank you dont worry i also know things get better :-) yeah, i have people who care for me i guess ! But, im still terrified to come out to them O_O. Thank you !!!!!

[@monsieurducon6536]

Shubhi Singhal Oh thats awesome !!! Im happy to hear this !!! Im sure you'll find the right person for you !!!

[@johummingbird]

At the end when they were talking about how it would get better I cried because I never thought it would and it is better than it was.. Thank you Matthew and Steph..

[@Celsius2009nc]

Wow such a heavy video but i was so glad to see you and Matthew be brave enough to tell your stories

[@hannahthomas6927]

Matthew has made me cry in both videos now 😭😔 I feel so sorry for you guys I'm glad that it got a lot better for you both and I feel sorry for anyone going through it right now and I'll do my best to raise awareness without people assuming I'm gay (which they always do but I'm not I just have strong feelings and beliefs that gays should have the same rights because I personally know a lot of gay people and I have a lot of gay relations and I support it so much)

[@kayakinss12]

Steph, I've been watching your videos for years. In fact, you helped me come out when you posted your coming out story video. You inspire so many people in the LGBTQ community. This video just proves that through your experiences and turmoil, it really does get better. You're so strong and it helps your viewers have hope. Thank you for sharing your words and experiences. Videos like these make me proud to be apart of the LGBTQ community. I love you!

[@Bonny0803]

This made me smile from the inside. It really warmed my heart. Thanks! You're great.

[@irenearahal9638]

I love how you started the video doing a typical cliché tag but then you ended with a great, piercing message for humanity. Thanks Steph and Matt, you did a great job :)

[@reeject2]

Sooo much respect for you Steph. I love these videos that go from playing around to seriously serious. xx it's sad but eye opening. x

[@bridgetsomerville1534]

Aw I love you guys. I'm crying right now. Thank you for this 😭❤️

[@OnlyCocoMousse]

This vid had me with goosebumps because Steph seems so nice and the fact that she had to go through that with that nasty girl and all that in high school is heart wrenching. #NeverStopBeingYourself

[@vsbaretummysugastonguetech1540]

Wow. What strength it must take to come out. I mean how scary it must be to never know how people will react to you just being you. You are both so inspirational.

[@liviamoreira8938]

That was intense and I respect you both even more for all you've been through, it's been hard, I'm not out there, I'm quite frightened, but friends surely can make it better.

[@katherinevale3031]

It broke my heart to listen to your stories Steph and it definitely brought back some memories of my own. I hope many LGBT+ people do this tag. Yes a lot of progress has been made but there is still so much work to be done. Thank you for creating this tag.

[@canecandy3284]

When Matthew heard the word cornered he took a scared breath

[@slipperyplate4245]

This video has changed my night

[@meganboyd1435]

You are so strong, and I'm sorry you have to go through what you do to be yourself. Love you steph❤️💕

[@kaylastephens2341]

This video breaks my heart :( people are cruel. And matts face looks so sad and I just want to hug them both and never let go

[@clawdeen6502]

It's so sad seeing Matt almost/is in tears

[@Jettchick]

I want to hug Steph so much now

[@Iz4yah]

ElloSteph This made me cry! This video was so beautiful! Steph...you're amazing

[@2219lizzy]

you are so amazing steph! You and your channel helped me come out to my family and friends. you are incredibly strong and i want to thank you even though you dont know me.

[@4everGirlStar]

This is one of the most beautiful videos I've ever watched! Thank you

[@MammaMea99]

This video, like all your videos are helping me with coming out to my parents. It's hard but I'm getting closer. Thank you for inspiring me to keep going.

[@barebeauty101]

you should rename it to something a bit more broad, so that the other members the LGBTQ community can feel more open to doing the tag! :) love this video and the awareness both your channels are bringing to youtube! x

[@carab9113]

I first starting questioning my sexuality when I was 11 it was a very hard time and I only came to terms with it when I was 20. I have had a lot of gay slur come my way and it was mostly from guys,I am glad I have a great straight best friend who is always there and sticks up for me. I have tried and thought about killing myself loads of times because of my sexuality.I used to hate the saying "it gets better" because I never used to believe it,I look back and see how far I have come and it is true;it might be slow and I did not notice it at first but I am happy and have a great group of friends. I love it when you make videos like this,it makes it hit home and helps get the word out there.

[@emmahowes9369]

Thank you that was a very thought provoking video. I'm in my second to last year of high school and going through the same things. But I'm strong about it and trying to stay positive. It's not that bad but I still feel silenced sometimes. Love you both so much

[@bingofishy]

yess, the l word is my favourite show too! thanks for sharing all of this with us steph

[@nicolesauerwein3141]

I am so sorry this happened to you, people can be horrific. I'm so happy that things are going better for you now. God bless :)

[@meggiebear2316]

You inspired me to come out of the closet

[@ElloSteph]

That is absolutely amazing! Congrats love(:

[@Bobobottle2]

Me too!

[@Iz4yah]

Beautiful!

[@toriandersen73]

Bobobottle2 me three

[@griffinerwin1736]

MeggieBear2 me 114th

[@reneeromero67]

Matt looks like he is trying his best to not break down :/ this is probably hard for him since he knows exactly how she felt since he went threw a dark time as well. I love them both so much they are so strong and an inspiration to stay strong

[@angus1605]

As someone who came out late in life, Steph every time you make a video to let young teens and others still in the closet that it's okay to be yourself. That road is not always easy but in the long run it's worth it. Doors crack open all over.

[@starlitduty8799]

I want to give u both the biggest hug!!!!

[@maxeclipse3166]

I came out to my family. My mom said it was just a phase. So I stopped talking about it and. And 7 months later I said I'm sure it's not a phase and my family still loves me to this day! And I came out at 13 years old cause you and Nick and Matt gave me the confidence to! Love you Steph thank you

[@sarahdoney3284]

I'm currently in the closet at a Christian school and only a week ago my principal went up in front of the school and basically said that being gay is a sin and a sickness and how 'good Christians' need to help fix the gays. this wasn't the fist time i had heard these kinds of things from people at my school but it just hurt so much more having someone preach it to everyone then when its just overheard in whispered conversations. It makes me feel a lot better though when i see you talking about similar situations and then seeing how amazing and strong you are now. it just really shows me how all of this will be behind me one day. youre really amazing, thank you for being who you are and doing what you do. i cant even begin to imagine how many people you have helped with your videos.

[@melodygarrison8071]

Awwe :( I've actually been through a lot of what you just said. Good to know I'm not the only one. It sucks. I almost cried when I watched this.

[@IcyPhil]

You have all my respect that you made this video! Great work and I am very thankful that you spoke about your personal experiences!

[@PippaIddon]

both yours and Matts videos make my day, thank you! ElloSteph *****

[@danielalovecockapoo]

Steph your amazing and so is Matt! Love you guys both!!

[@AntaresAna]

You're such an inspiration to me. You're videos are so touching and beautiful. I am brought to tears with most of your videos. Thank you for being an LGBT hero of mine. Keep up the good work!

[@AndrogynyStreet]

Thank you so much for sharing this!

[@KylaPhelps]

I'm going to be making a tag video. Maybe I'll record it tonight. Love the direction that this tag went! Love that you included Matt here as well Steph. ^~^

[@flowerbit4137]

I came out to my first person today. It was honestly a lot harder than I thought it would be. They were accepting with open arms and asked questions and stuff. Which was great. It was just hard because I don't think I'm ready yet

[@haylin98]

It makes me so frustrated that people can be so mean... I'm glad ya'll are doing this! You are beautiful and lovely~♡

[@Firefly1234ish1]

You two are an amazing inspiration. I love you both. And thanks for always cheering me up! Stay beautiful you two! And ALWAYS stay strong! :)

[@jeweltheiss3543]

Thanks for the inspiration I dont really feel so alone anymore

[@mudkip040301]

Jewel Theiss Your not alone and glad you know it Jewel!

[@krystalxevette]

Steph, you are one of my role models. You're so strong and an amazing person. Thank you so much for being you, I love you!!!

[@GiiBorgesB]

That was an amazing video, I cried. Congratulations for it, guys!

[@mnkmnnm]

My mother and siblings accepts me, but my stepfather does not and never will. When I came out, he told me to not tell a soul, not even my siblings or friends. He told me that I would be teased, detested and that people would talk badly about me behind my back. I refused to listen to his narrow-minded opinions and I came out completely. I'm thankful to have been accepted so well by my surroundings and I truly feel sorry for anyone who experience their sexuality as a shameful or horrible thing. You are you who are and you deserve to me accepted for who you are. Stay strong. You're never alone!

[@luiseyouknow]

man im crying so much

[@dannybattle6512]

Matt is on the verge of tears

[@beccajones4720]

Steph you're one of my idols

[@TheJustinglen]

thanks for answering the questions ElloSteph

[@wolfiewaken-breakertylerl2206]

thanks to bria and chrissy and arielle and you are all helping me out ive been watchin you guys and ive come out to part of my school and one of my classes since someone asked past month ive been coming out as a lesbian and im proud i love it my grandmother and dmom has excepted me since it thank you all really thank you

[@abigialnikol2539]

i Love you so much Steph!

[@AngelCDiaz-zi1iu]

love you Steph, so much

[@rinamarie116]

I think the hardest thing coming out as a bisexual in high school was being called a whore or a slut.... i definitely went back in the closet, and I'm still not 100% "out of the closet" going back in definitely made it a lot harder to come out.... its been such a long process. thank you both for posting this

[@katelynneher2771]

I'm so sad that this happens to people on the daily. Especially in the religious communities. I classify myself as a Christian but I preach love and acceptance. I remember when a couple friends of mine from my church came out as bisexual and they were denied membership. One of which was only like fourteen at the time and I felt so bad for her because even her parents were really upset about it and her sister kept telling me how she always thought of her sister as marrying a guy. I grew up in a strict conservative christian environment and even myself as a straight young women coming out as supporting friends of mine in the lgbt community was like the most awful thing they've ever heard. Like supporting and loving an individual no matter what and just being there was a bad thing. And sometimes it gets to be verbally abusive even towards me.. I can't imagine your pain.. I'm SO sorry

[@kate-lz9yi]

I'm whatching in 04-10-15... Thank you guys! ILY 💚 "it's gets better "

[@anamarijastrbac3052]

My school or atleast my grade, don't judge people by their sexual orientation.

[@izzymary3013]

Lucky you.

[@headlesshahaman]

My school is really accepting of everybody, but there's still the occasional hater.

[@EmistarGuerra234]

I'm eleven and I started telling my friends I'm bisexual. One new middle school friend was always really nice and never juged. When I told her she said I was a hoar and a bitch. My mom hates gays an my dad says they make a fool of themselves... I started cutting and idk what to do. I need help. Please help me..😔

[@xejune]

Same here, I've always felt incredibly lucky for that,

[@asimp.for.kimbora]

Where are you from Ana??😀😃

[@lucidxluca]

I just wanna hug you both so tight! This video made me cry a little

[@xXEmilyXxification]

They both have tears in their eyes during this.. i feel this so much as a bisexual woman. I came out at 13 and i put my self back in the closet for years due to the increase in bullying(that was already occuring for other reasons). So many people including those in the community don't actually believe my orientation because my partner is male, they call me fake. If anyone sees this, and needs someone to talk to, contact me. I am always open to listen to people.

[@dbehdadfar]

Matthew you are so cute , and you seem to be very emotional also , when I saw that almost crying face on you , I felt really sorry for every gay person who has been bothered just because of the person he is . Love you guys

[@mayrayvette9223]

I'm not gonna lie this video scared me a little bit. But the ending made me feel like some day I won't have to hide. And that brings me relief. Thank you

[@simonemingels7613]

oh my, this is an old video I see but this video rly had me.. you are such a brave person! 💪 I love your channel :)

[@madeleinehanson2351]

Oh my gods I cried so many times during this I just..I just can't right now ;_; I've seen 'The Gay Tag' videos on both yours and Matt's channel and let me just say that I think you guys are so strong and just such beautiful people. I'm 15 and discovered my sexual orientation when I was around 12? I think, at first I was bi-curious but now I know that I am a lesbian despite my peers, teachers, friends and people around me saying that I don't know anything because I am 'just a kid.' Honestly its been hard since I've grown up with both a Christian mum and a Muslim step-dad who are VERY big on respect and things of that nature. If i ever came out of the closet to them I would be disowned and on the streets in a heartbeat. Thankfully I have amazing friends who're very supportive of me. But it wasn't always like that and I wish i could take back the days were things just seemed so dark. Your videos are legit the only thing that keeps me going most of the time because almost nobody understands and there are a lot of people around me who are VERY homophobic. ^^^This video helped me in ways that you can't even imagine, so Thank You to both you and Matt for making my night and helping me through yet another day. Although you may not know it hundreds of people look up to you guys and I'm one of them :3

[@kaemarieautumn]

This is really inspiring me to come out to my parents and family as pan.

[@mayaaa1955]

Awwwwww omg matt got so emotional I wanted to reach thru the screen and hug him ilysfm matt❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘

[@clairesmusic4489]

Thank you for making this video xx

[@zattart]

STEPH! I DID YOUR GAY TAG! It's on my channel! :D Thanks so much for creating this tag; it's given me the motivation to try to make videos again after I deleted all of my old ones. Hope you like it! :P It was so great meeting you!

[@nancypeters9519]

This is my first time ever checking out your video in Dallas so sad the only thing you can do is keep going and if you have haters you was doing something right keep it going girl

[@meggiebear2316]

Love you steph!

[@snowhitedyke]

I think a good question that can be added on to this is, when did you feel pride regarding your sexuality? For a lot of people, we have to deal with so much fear being in the closet, dealing with homophobia and just everything feeling like the whole world's against us; it can be overwhelming and completely devastating. I know from experience it took a LOT of heartache to not just come to terms with being a lesbian, but actually accepting it and being genuinely happy about it. To get to that point is amazing! Beyond words really. so yeah, that'd be interesting to hear :)

[@starlitduty8799]

matt is such a great listener

[@franceskaparada5402]

I came out to some of my friends and they are fine with it but I'm scared to tell my parents and I'm 17

[@Escapetoaplace]

I am Bisexual, my parents know but they still don't have a full understanding of it all, I am very open with all my friends and the have a complete understanding about it and I am thankful I live in a place where people are more open, even though we can't get married yet. I still haven't come out to all my family because I don't want to come out over the phone to them I want to come out face to face because I feel like I don't want to be judged behind my back if they don't understand I am 19 turning 20 you don't have to come out all at once take you time. 😊

[@angelapayne5306]

Loved this video! I'm straight but thinking about what some gay people have gone through is really sad. Stay strong

[@taylahjaneadams9413]

Stay strong ello and matthew we love you

[@addicted2jb123]

You have an amazing test of music!!

[@blox4fairy]

You are amazing for this.

[@killerdamage8297]

when i watched this, i feel so happy because when i was coming out, i was only telling my friends and thank god they all where so supportive. Sometimes i wish to go back in the closet because of the fear i might be bullied. I also am so happy because of the supportive people i grew up with. And this one kid bullied me not because of it but i was stupid enough to hide what i am by saying the word (that...f word...not the swear word f but...yeah...) but as soon as i said it i immediately regretted it. If anyone i know reads this comment, Thank you. Thank you for being so supportive to me for what i am. I am so lucky and so happy to be in a place with people that can accept me for who i am and can support me through it. Thank you. (i am also sad because i wana watch Orange is the new black but i don't have the time plus don't really listen to music)

[@maddierhodes4074]

You are amazing with has happened to you is happening to me at this time in my life. So watching makes me fell better and want to fell better. So thank you for this video I love you Steph.

[@TigerPrawn_]

L Word, Beatles, The XX, Two Door Cinema Club, we're practically the same! This video gave me chills though...